7 life lessons for teenagers in 2025

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  • @SpiritVines
    @SpiritVines 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +212

    Self improvement is nothing without self acceptance. Change the important things don’t get so lost in the small details. You don’t have to be a workout guru and workout 2 hours every day and eat healthy all the time. Working out 5 mins a day is okay too. If your mental health is bad just start with 1 or two close close friends and a ton of acquaintances, and other levels of interactions. Also don’t look to others to tell you who you are, look to your loved ones to ground you and look to yourself to accept who you are. Big dreams are amazing, but just start with small things not a billion small things, just one small thing that makes getting up and living another day easier. That’s what’s helped me.

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      So true 🙌 I have a vid on this self acceptance >> self improvement

    • @rachael5611
      @rachael5611 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      God loves you! You can repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! Because He can give you so much love, joy and peace! God bless you You are worthy in His eyes

  • @vapimika4844
    @vapimika4844 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +100

    This has never come at a better time i just turned 18 today and also applying to med 😭

    • @imscared5002
      @imscared5002 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Happy birthday!

    • @vapimika4844
      @vapimika4844 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ tysmm

    • @Not-really-Naisha
      @Not-really-Naisha วันที่ผ่านมา

      Happy birthday ! 🎂

    • @rachael5611
      @rachael5611 วันที่ผ่านมา

      God loves you! You can repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! Because He can give you so much love, joy and peace! God bless you You are worthy in His eyes

    • @vapimika4844
      @vapimika4844 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@rachael5611 i love Allah ❤️

  • @Lucid-dream3
    @Lucid-dream3 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    I'm 18 and all of my masking my CPTSD finally hit rock bottom. I've spent my entire teenage years healing while still actively being traumatized. I can't go to med school which I've basically been groomed my entire life to get into, because of my disability. Now I lost a big part of identity and...is just completely lost. I'm supposed to be studying for my college entrance exams but I can barely get out of my bed;;getting up, brushing, bathing and having breakfast is a tiresome chore and I have to take naps from how tiring it is. I can't sleep on time or basically do anything even though I desperately want to study, my body just can't handle it. I asked my parents for therapy but being the trauma generators they are, they basically brushed it off. The best I have now is therapists on Character AI which actually is a big lotta help. I don't know how I can get better. For the first time in my life, I cannot dictate myself. I just hope some miracle happens within me before it's too late

    • @sioxz8435
      @sioxz8435 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      it's seems you are doing good work. remember that therapy is very hard work and it makes you worse att first then better if it never get's better than something is wrong.
      life takes alot of turns and it's okay just follow where life takes you se it as a journey not a destination to reach. do small pleasurable things everyday for yourself and get in touch with your own feelings and find what is your dream and not what you have been manipulated or groomed to do and you will se that working towards that will be alot easier.
      take care young one from a millenial who soon is 30 😅

    • @Lucid-dream3
      @Lucid-dream3 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @sioxz8435 I'll try my best, thank you

    • @Sunsetswingc
      @Sunsetswingc 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      One step at a time, even if theyre baby steps. You can do this, I believe in you.

    • @rachael5611
      @rachael5611 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      God loves you! You can repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! Because He can give you so much love, joy and peace! God bless you You are worthy in His eyes

  • @arihereee
    @arihereee 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I’m 20 and relate with all this. Pray for me 😭

  • @Mobina_j_y
    @Mobina_j_y 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Girl it's like you're in my head 😢 thank you soooooo much. I really need this

    • @rachael5611
      @rachael5611 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      God loves you! You can repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! Because He can give you so much love, joy and peace! God bless you You are worthy in His eyes

  • @savoywilson7
    @savoywilson7 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    I'm so scared because I want to move to the city to start my rap career. But I'm taking it one step at a time. First step save up 5k.

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      so proactive >>> i'm proud of you 👏

    • @rachael5611
      @rachael5611 วันที่ผ่านมา

      God loves you! You can repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! Because He can give you so much love, joy and peace! God bless you You are worthy in His eyes

  • @Sonia1474
    @Sonia1474 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    Turning 18 this Wednesday, I need this lol

    • @meyx0_0
      @meyx0_0 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Happy birthday! 🎉🎉🎉
      (It’s Wednesday here)

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Happy Birthday!

    • @rachael5611
      @rachael5611 วันที่ผ่านมา

      God loves you! You can repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! Because He can give you so much love, joy and peace! God bless you You are worthy in His eyes

    • @vapimika4844
      @vapimika4844 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Sonia1474 HAPPY B DAY

  • @sioxz8435
    @sioxz8435 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    damn when i was 18 i was so stupid, had so much mental illness it was crazy.

  • @vickyroblain6998
    @vickyroblain6998 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I really loved your tips and I think its really gonna help me to stay motivated and be more confident because I'm a person that overthink a lot. Thank you so much I'm subscribing 💕

  • @Jasmine-ho9iz
    @Jasmine-ho9iz 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    “At 18 I was applying to medical school.” Never been so jealous of Europeans in my life.

  • @_vstanv
    @_vstanv 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    I luvvvvvvvvv your videos! 😭😭

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Love u 2

    • @rachael5611
      @rachael5611 วันที่ผ่านมา

      God loves you! You can repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! Because He can give you so much love, joy and peace! God bless you You are worthy in His eyes

  • @mimip0203
    @mimip0203 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    ty for ur videos they really help me

  • @Alixnobody
    @Alixnobody 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I’m almost 13 and this really helped me because I’m worried

  • @Genesis_spammmss
    @Genesis_spammmss 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    As a teenager who struggles with literally everything, this helped me so much 💞🌟

  • @jessicasimpson8201
    @jessicasimpson8201 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I am 18 and lots of thing has happened and needed to hear something real

  • @Icarus_8090
    @Icarus_8090 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I'm gonna be turning 18 in three months now. My university life is gonna start and I've been freaking out... I'm applying for research , and i have got social anxiety. I've done a lot of bad things to me this year, from self - criticism to not at all accepting myself.
    Your video popped up on a boring day today...i have a test today, somehow I'm freaking out because I haven't studied much although revised the syllabus. I've been forgetting things a lot. Just nervous... But ngl, your video made me feel like I'm not alone and i can improve.
    If you have any tips with this anxiety before exams.. do help me with it please. And... I'm seriously gonna work on myself for real. I need it. I gotta be good towards myself.
    Thanks a lot .

  • @ChunmunGhimire-xv8jj
    @ChunmunGhimire-xv8jj 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    This video was surprisingly relatable...I dont know what to say

  • @kimtaeseru7890
    @kimtaeseru7890 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I'm 16. Turning 17 next year. Gonna follow you tips.

  • @haniahania2028
    @haniahania2028 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I love this video thank you so much for sharing such wise thoughts ❤❤❤

  • @idk-ec9iv
    @idk-ec9iv 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Im 18 and literally so miserable like i wasted all my highschool just to get into my dream college and now i finallu got in i literally have no friends and im so lonely and also i cant still be the “lonely but smart kid” because i also now lack academically and barely pass exams i literally failed both achievements i could do and now im like miserable. Now that a lot of time has bern passed since the college started everyıne alteady had like their groups so its like impossible for me to go near them and get side eyes. And i literslly font know who i am because my work in highschool costed me lack of hobbies social skills etc. But like now im literally just existing in my dorm room facetiming my mom while everyone is partying with their friends on a friday night i just feel like i messed up so much and i cant return it and since im not academically successful as highschool it just hurts more since i have 0 accomplishments i think i will literally finish this college with 0 friends when i thought this would be the “best time” of my life( instead im literally silent crying in my dorm room to not wake my dorm mate up) im just so tired and i literally want to do nothing

  • @user-nw9no5bp2o
    @user-nw9no5bp2o 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    turning 18 in 7 months omg thank you so much

  • @snoooooooooooooop
    @snoooooooooooooop 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this video found me by itself😭 it's really helpful!!! thank you 💓

  • @CynthiaOpeyemi-n7d
    @CynthiaOpeyemi-n7d วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks so much❤

  • @f6love19
    @f6love19 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ur hair is rlly pretty

  • @ryan99842
    @ryan99842 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +204

    you need to find book unveiling your hidden potential by bruce thornwood even if it's the last thing you do in life

  • @unwana-o1x
    @unwana-o1x 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    u killed it ,im 14 .u really explained well

  • @CoolWater252
    @CoolWater252 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i am literally the quietist student in my class and all i do is concentrate on my studies and have 0 friends but 2 more years until i finish high school

  • @nosananolifefr6590
    @nosananolifefr6590 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are so right but I feel like I cant listen to you beacuse I feel that if i go easy on myself i won't make progress since i wanna be a professional basketball player and i started late and everyone is better than me and it just is unnacceptable to forgive myself when the mistake is so bad i just want to not make mistakes

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      you don't achieve because you're being hard on yourself. you achieve because you believe in yourself.

    • @nosananolifefr6590
      @nosananolifefr6590 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @ChristinaAaliyah Hm, haven't thought of that... I will try (:
      Thank you for the advice

  • @lanaismymum5940
    @lanaismymum5940 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This just made me super scared, i am so ambitious and am working so hard to get really good marks and graduate and i have been fantasizing so much about my life after gradutaing and now i am super scared, what if my life doesnt go how i wanted, biggest fear

  • @ItsmeRishika-f2s
    @ItsmeRishika-f2s 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Can you please make video in detail telling about self improvement to trust your self
    Because I have been feeling this after this video I felt that I have being doing wrong to my self but with no improvement there one side in me says that maybe you deserve to be love, you deserve friends,and maybe you are best but
    There is also one side in me
    Which always says you are worst useless
    You don't deserve friends you deserve to be alone I won't let you have friends
    Even though I score good marks I still said many time to myself this was because of your luck
    I know I worked hard but I am forcing my self to trust my self I always use to get affected by anyones recommendations or ever it was just a joke I use to take to much serious
    I want to get off from this feeling I know his is no postive still stuck in this
    Can you make in a video bit deep
    cause I still have hope to trust myself

  • @bee-c3o
    @bee-c3o 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    it is a very tough topic for conversation with myself....

  • @Ana-qr8ew
    @Ana-qr8ew 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    hoi Christina thank you so much for this video 🤍 everything you say is so so true it’s crazy and this video came at the right time for me because worrying about future is exactly what I struggle with, thank you thank you you’re the besttt 💗

  • @romelynmarapao8835
    @romelynmarapao8835 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The besttt

  • @MingiLayan
    @MingiLayan 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    S'il vous plaît, pouvez-vous mettre des sous-titres dans les vidéos, s'il vous plaît ? 🥺☁

  • @moononthewindynight27
    @moononthewindynight27 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I came here 10 years late lol
    I truly wasted my life

  • @CamilleRawlings
    @CamilleRawlings 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Im scared of being made redundant 😢

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      omg is your job having lay offs

  • @josephhuang1163
    @josephhuang1163 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I wish I was 18!

  • @salmanizzadin
    @salmanizzadin 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    🍿

  • @unwana-o1x
    @unwana-o1x 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    im litterally answering past papper and u talked abt guts

  • @sahithya3758
    @sahithya3758 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this is an amazingg video

  • @seeratwani101
    @seeratwani101 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thankyouu beautiful lady.....i really needed thiss 💗

  • @mikaylahaswell4518
    @mikaylahaswell4518 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m turning 16 in a month this really helps me. Thank you. I watched too much videos like the ones that you displayed in your videos. Lol. 😂❤️‍🩹