Christina Aaliyah
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7 life lessons every 18 year old needs to hear
Turning 18 is a huuuuge milestone...
...but navigating the start of your adulthood can feel overwhelming.
In this video, I share 7 life lessons every 18-year-old needs to hear to help you on your journey, coming from a very social anxious but ambitious teenager like i was From distinguishing motivation from toxic self-criticism to learning to trust your gut, these lessons come from personal experiences and hard-earned insights.
Topics Covered:
- Why negative self-talk isn’t a requirement for success (and how it holds you back).
- The reality check you need when it comes to your goals
- Understanding the role of temporary friendships and why it’s okay to let go.
- How to handle rejection like a boss
- The power of trusting your gut
Whether you're figuring out relationships, friendships, or career ambitions, this video will give you practical advice and emotional support as you step into adulthood. Let’s embrace growth, learn from mistakes, and create a life full of purpose and fulfillment.
0:00 intro
2:30 motivation vs self-criticism
5:15 some things are better in your head, than in reality
9:12 some friends are temporary lessons
11:27 don’t take being ignored personally
14:54 trust your gut
16:45 achievement can happen through action
🎙️ listen as a podcast
spotify → open.spotify.com/show/6mwaYl9LjtX4OcQ5rnLhjR.
apple → podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/christina-aaliyah/id1752648372
💭 contact me
join my community waitlist → christina-aaliyah.com/
insta → chrstinna
email → christinaaaliyah1@gmail.com
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