I am 88 years old. May everyone reading this message find joy, peace, and abundant blessings in life. Wishing you a bright future filled with success! Amen God Bless You 🙏
Perfect that is the best way to observe! Who are you dealing with? If the surrounding or location? Looks unpleasant just walk away from it heck with it "" Don't look back "
Amen. Whoever is reading this, I wish you endless happiness, unwavering peace, boundless prosperity, perfect health, and countless blessings from above. May your life be filled with joy and your heart with contentment.
Love the one (work at your job to make a living; work on yourself and make a fortune)...WOW that is profound and so true cause at the end you only can count on a loving, fresh, well educate on life, yourself. Big hug and happiness everybody...
I like a saying I read years ago - "Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not in fact just surrounded by arseholes."
I learned this in my late twenties. I got away from all those people and started to feel better about myself. Married a man who loves me for who I am.Two hearts became one on Valentines Day 35 years ago. ❤ + ❤ = ❤
Also , it can be very difficult to free yourself from despicable "human parasites" who play the sympathy card because they know that you are known to be a " soft touch" as I have always been. I have been drained of emotional and physical energy many times in my life . However I have only realised it fully in recent months . However , it was something that I had to realise for myself and to learn not to feel guilty if I say " No more." I finally asked God , through prayer to help me to recognise those truly in need of my help , both spiritually and physically . I finally realised that my own wisdom was sadly lacking and that I actually needed help myself . Last week , God opened my spiritual eyes and helped me to cut away from a "human leech" whom I have known for quite a few years and the release I feel is enormous . He soon latched onto someone else , who will probably no doubt have to come to realise for themselves . It's a very difficult journey before reaching that stage though. James 1 : 5 "If any one of you is lacking in wisdom , let him keep asking God , for he gives generously to all and without reproaching , and it will begiven him." While I try to do as Jesus taught and help others , I now know that there has to be a demarcation line to distinguish the genuine ones ... just as Jesus filters our prayers to God , so that some people cannot attempt to take advantage of his undeserved loving kindness . Prayer is a huge privilege which only exists because of Jesus died for our sins and bearing our shame , and to bring us closer to God in our daily lives . 🤍
When someone betrays you, it's not the stab in the back that kills you. It's when you turn around and see who is holding the knife. Believe it or not betrayal does not come from your enemies, it comes from the people closest to you..
I'm not sure.. don't be afraid says or does. Be afraid of how you how you react! Cuz your enemy can become your friend. Are you friends to become your enemy! Choose wisely
“Don’t react, cut them off silently” took a while to get rid of them and their persistent attempts to contact me, two phone number changes, an email change, a house move and a lot of blocking but being betrayed by a close friend you trusted and loved like a sister is utterly devastating, the only way I could survive that was by pretending they did not exist any more. I just did not want to get sucked back in to their toxicity so I completely removed myself. Looking back now I see how much I allowed myself to be manipulated and what an unequal friendship it really was.
👍🏽Awesome. You moved with focused intent and with a clear end goal. Good for you. That’s admirable and I respect you for not just half stepping or talking about what you wanted to do. Might be cliche but it’s true. Just do it. And you did.
There's nothing worse than being pushed into a corner for years and left there after the same person who pushed you there doesn't want or feels your need for them to follow through and lend you their hand in pulling you back out.
I had to check now to see if it was not me leaving this comment. Exactly my experience. When a trusted friend who was like a sister, betrays one in the most vicious manner, it is a real wake up call. One can never allow them back into your life and yes, it is utterly devastating. I send you much love and healing as I am in the process of healing too.
Goes for both physical and mental health. Both has to be cured. Nowadays people don't want others to give them advice about bad habits or unmoral living. They want to pretend all is good on their end and becomes agitated if anyone referring to their dark side.
Never try to please and try to hard on your first date or with anyone new in your life... be yourself and you choose them IF you feel o.k. with him, you make the choice NOT him. PERIOD
Long ago, my Dad cautioned me. It's inaccurate, unreliable, to guess and assign what we PERCIEVE Another's feelings or motivation to be. It seems to me, the more tragic, to make severing decisions on a mistaken impression 😂❤❤❤
My little sister on her Long Goodbye journey through Alzheimer’s heard me talk about the new man in my life. “Sounds like you’re settling.” Don’t settle in life your life for anything. Know your worth. 🙏🏼
@jps8678 Concentrate on your own life and let others live their lives. You can't be this naive. With your blaaa sarcasm, you'll be used by cunning individuals.
I’m approaching 77. Many of the thoughts stated in this video are supremely accurate. I had to learn many of the truths stated in this video the hard way - trial and error. Any young person should write down every thought expressed in this video and place the list on the mirror that you use each morning to prepare yourself for the upcoming day and read at least one thought before leaving your house or apartment.
I tell my friend's teenage sons "be a mystery. Don't tell everyone your business. Don't say what you can do or what you will do. Don't tell everyone what's on your mind all the time. Most Don't really care. Make people wonder what you're doing. What you're thinking. Sneak up on them with your achievements. Let them realize you've been busy being happy. Busy learning. Busy achieving. It takes pressure off of you, makes people want more from you. Then stun them with what you have achieved in silence."
I had to let go of a 6 year friendship once I realized she had to find “room” on her calendar to make time for me. I was by her side for her moments of illness as well as happiness. It’s my turn in life with regards to dealing with illness. Her absence speaks volumes in and of itself. When people treat you like an option, leave them like a choice. Moving on and seeking genuine
It happened to me not only with one but with all my so-called friends, it's crazy that in reality in the end you can't count on anyone. Sometimes I regret the time I spent with them but maybe it's just a necessary process that needed to happen. It's as if people simply no longer have a sense of loyalty, or even honor.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤God has separated you for better things--❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ draw closer to juses as juses is the true light --- juses will guide you and bring you peace❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤God Bless❤❤❤❤ YOU ARE GODS CHOSEN ONE--- ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ❤❤❤
@@ρόιεΣισ friends may likely not be one's therapist and may not have skills nor knowledge to actually provide that emotional support or guidance when needed
@@Tutume1111 Venting to friends is a stand out a lending ear , compared to Venting to others.... who need not be a therapist but are needed to be there just a freind .. yadi yada.. +++
I've always lived by that. Your own counsel is the best counsel. Besides nobody listens nowadays anyway. Can't get a word in edgeways...so full of themselves. Of course there were always people inclined to be like that but now it's everywhere.
Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing pushups on paint cans pullups on beams got ripped af at 53 years old!!!
I started doing CrossFit at 41 years old 2 months ago. My life took a strong turn and I feel better in every aspect of my life. I still need to work in being more responsible towards my family (mother, brother, father) and trying to spend more time with them really. 20 years ago I left my home in the search for a better life 4000+km away from them, I was just a kid still and I learned all what this video says by myself the hard way....but I don't feel sorry for nothing and the best it yet to come since I opened my eyes so much in this world and truly learned what matters most.....is the family.🤍💪
Consider yourself a late bloomer but not too old. I am 64, it takes more weight & reps to build muscle after 60, plus it is more difficult to get motivated to work out.
I never worried about what others thought and didn’t give a shit. But there were psychos everywhere panicking just by the fact that I exist. People who over react or react to my existence and presence aren’t made for me. They’re not natural. They can’t handle me. I’m not made for people who can’t handle me.
When people show you who they are the first time, believe them. Maya Angelou Many people leave those 3 words out... " the first time". What she meant was they should not have to show you who they truly are repeatedly! God bless,Namaste'🙏😇💙
"If people treat you like an option, leave them like a choice." That one resonated, because I've allowed some to treat me that way....like I'm an option. I don't have time for them anymore.
@tracyurueta7611 Your comment is the best one I read here. . acknowledging that we get treated the way we allow others to treat us. I too have no time for that nonsense nor them anymore
You've got to entirely get off that mess so you can start receiving and going forward. I swear, when you do it fully, stuff just falls in your lap that you desired.
@@sharihere8809 And the people that are supposed to be there just come out of nowhere. It's surreal sometimes...gotttdamn I just got watery eyes right now. lol
Is the world really this cruel? There is goodness in the world. I'm working on boundaries to protect myself. Better late than never, right? Love & light to all!
Had to learn that one the hard way. If more people had healthy boundaries, the manipulators of the world would be quite lonely or only be allowed to feed upon themselves 😂
My son of 26 years died suddenly due to after effects of vehicle accident, while my grandson was 11 months old. It was difficult but I thank God for giving me, my son for 26 years. I almost lost him at birth, but He heard my prayers, that day. Life hasn't been easy lost my father and brother to suicide as well. Thank Him for what you have, these events have taught me and made me a better person! Job lost 11 children and all his possessions in one day. NEVER did he curse or question God!
I would like you to KNOW... with all due respect I can muster... I love you, sweetheart. I send you a warm embrace and a shoulder to cry on and my most sincere and reverent prayers and anything else you need that I've not added here. Across these cyber miles, you are my delightful and wonderful ladyfriend. And I'm here to tell you that. My struggles are real, yet a scant drop in the bucket on a hot summer day. You've given me hope here and now, and I might say to many others who read what you posted. May God bless you and yours and all you hold dear, rich and full and running over.
Be the Hero of your own life. Not a victim of it. The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek. 68 year old Grandfather here. I surround myself with people who make me smile. I live in the present and I look forward to tomorrows adventure. True joy comes from struggling toward a goal and overcoming challenges. If you concentrate on the destination you miss out on 98% of your life.
This is your advice and how you feel through hindsight as it's always 20/20. I'd rather hear the mistakes you made and how you overcame them and the history surrounding where you grew up to better understand why you made said choices. The cave I fear to enter does not hold anything I want. It is wholly evil and to enter it is to forever alter myself in ways I can never come back from. You cannot unpickle a pickle. I get you're 68, but before you dole out advice, please, realize who you are giving what advice to.
@ccoonansr I guess I could tell you about my recovery from alcoholism (1988)and my 35 year marriage to my sweet wife. The loss of my business during the financial crisis of 2009 and losing almost everything. Going on the road for almost a year working in a city 250 miles from my family to support them but in 2016 buying our first property after renting for 40 years. How we are nearing completion of our mountain lodge style cabin to retire to built with our own hands completely debt free. It will all be in the book! Ha! (When I have some free time!)
@@TheButlerNZ You do not have to forgive or forget only for yourself that you might have wronged. Make reparations are only due to yourself not others. Leave the past in the past!
Exactly right 💯%. and the most important thing is keeping in contact with your family as much as you can..... when they are gone is when you realize how much they meant to you.🤍
@@fridge3489 You are an option in this person's life. They can TAKE you or LEAVE you. They don't care either way about you so YOU make the CHOICE to LEAVE them and move on with out them in your life.
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without him, I love him so much. wish I can get him back I can do anything to have him back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters
I’ve shared this video with my 13y old daughter. The earlier the lessons of life will be learned the most overwhelming results somebody can take out of it.
Matthew 11:28-30 NKJV [28] Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. [29] Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. [30] For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."
@@wickhunter7733 100% agree I don't think god's priority at this moment in time is to monitor who is pleasing him or not. He must have the most beautiful wife or wives in the universe and he is supposed to be looking at us anxiously and write what he sees, to judge us in decades, instead of having a good time with his partners?
I went to college with someone over 50 years ago, and our lives followed the same path. His name is Pete. We ended up working for the same large corporation, and in school and at work I always had the feeling that he thought of me as a rival rather than a friend. We had a mutual friend that he was particularly close to, and the three of us would occasionally go out for drinks together. One time Pete couldn't make it and I began talking about him, saying that he was the oldest friend I had. He responded by saying that Pete was not my friend, and from then on I realized that my instincts were correct. I kept my distance after that.
I had a lot of so-called friends one day I woke up after much abuse from them, the lies the backstabbing, and the thief of my soul realizing who they really were left them and never looked back!
Same here!!! I trust very few people. The so-called friends I had were nothing but enemies!!! Even my 2 sisters were my enemies, lying about me & turning people against me. People believed them even if they knew me longer than them!!!
@@judycrisenbery2982 Family are the worst when they are resentful & jealous. Much worse than when friends are. 👍. The people that believe them do so because they are too and you cannot trust them so stay far away and let them know nothing about you. Fake friends will be flying monkeys for family and enjoy it.
5 years ago, April 2019....I was in month 9 of the silent treatment by my husband. Covid appeared, verbal abuse, I planned my departure. Left in April 2021. Happily on my own for 3 years now. 🌈🌈🌈✨✨✨ Nevertheless, I am acutely aware that there are so many people suffering much worse.... Forever grateful to my GOD, he gave me a new start in my 50s 🙏🙏🙏
Takes a long time to plan an exit strategy and pull apart. In 2004, I decided to leave my partner. He had no idea of my decision. I kept it between me and my therapist. About nine months later, I left. No regrets whatsoever. I’m now married. It’s not perfect, but relationships never are. Still, though, the good far outweighs the bad.
I thought I knew my spouse until I realised all his lies... he even lies for something so trivial, so what is not a lie? Four years single now, my heart has no regret.
A saying which was passed on to me..."Forgiving IS NOT forgetting...it's letting go of the hurt." Another..."Grief is love with no where to go ... find someone to love." Peace to all...
"GROWING HARDER" SHOULD BE READ " ROWING HARDER" WHEN THE BOAT IS going IN THE WRONG DIRECTION DOESNT HELP.......FANTASTIC ADVICE THAT I HEARD ON A WHISPER FROM MY OWN SOUL...BUT NOW HEAR LOUD AND CLEAR RIGHT HERE! THANKYOU! XXSSAHARA
And I’m 80 years old in a few weeks, so many words of advice there, but being an octogenarian now, most of them have been learnt the hard way, by life and circumstance…Good old Morgan F…
Losers focus on winners. Winners focus on winning Excuses make today easier but tomorrow harder. Discipline makes today harder but tomorrow easier. Says it all.
@primroselim6897,are u codependent? *No, if she had been genuinely concerned about my well-being:* 1) She wouldn't have treated me so badly for so long that I had to end a 30 year relationship that had meant a lot to me. The last few years, she made my life heII. I held on to hope she'd change until it was unbearable. 2) She would have personally DRIVEN the 45 minutes to my house to check on me. She has my house key. 3) She wouldn't have waited A MONTH to "check" on me. She knew she effed up and was being a drama queen.
Love is friendship on fire. -Bruce Lee Always find ways to show appreciation and the friend who enjoys returning the favor will fan the flames along side you forever.
Thanks. I learnt so much from these! One variation of "Fear is temporary and regret is permanent" is "Anger is temporary and regret is permanent". For example, we might have misunderstandings with family members from time to time and be angry, but let's not be angry with them for too long because they might not be here tomorrow.
not always...people do commit suicide. life gets unbearable at times.....can't get your head above water. some people have charmed lives......things go their way....always landing on their feet......some not so much. death looks better .....life sucks......
Work hard an think positive let go if the shitty past i know I've been there an it can suck but can get better with money an get money by workin for it an savin all u can an find ppl. Who do the same thing! U can learn alot from hard workin ppl. Good luck keep the faith no matter what too..
"HE" is neither male, nor is it a person. It is your own soul talking to you. "God" is the life force within us all. If you learn to listen to your subconscoius, you will be guided by God 🫶
@@9155DarkhorseIsn’t it great to construct a “god” according to your own autonomous speculation? that way, you’re only accountable to your own vain imagination. and hopefully, nobody is accountable to you, for their own sake.
It depends, if someone is actually working or taking care of a child, they won't have time on your every whim at least. It is also important not to expect too much of others and respect that they need time to rest and other things in their lifes.
What they're REALLY saying is "my agenda is the important one, not you" EVEN IF you're doing a task for them, and/or you're half way through an agreement, and didn't need to be ghosted by the very person you're doing the favor FOR! This happens too often today. No excuses.
@@ρόιεΣισ that's the excuse AFTER being ghosted for two months as well!! What scares me is these are not tweens shovelling that crap. these are people my age down to 30 that have ZERO life experience or really bad work habits.
"Man, my shadow comes around before you." Jimi Hendrix. My response to, "Don't depend on people." If you can most of the time, you've been blessed. Lots of good stuff here.
I am 88 years old. May everyone reading this message find joy, peace, and abundant blessings in life. Wishing you a bright future filled with success! Amen God Bless You 🙏
Thanks Nice message same to you keep well🍀
Thank you, and you too Sir. 🙏🏻
@@liahalsall Thank you,God bless You 🙏
Thank you
God bless you
"Learn to heal without venting to anyone" Well said
..."to everyone" (instead of 'anyone'😉) is the small correction😊🙋🏼♀️🌞
I need to learn this
Yes. Venting is a bad defence mechanism. Grandma Gai
so well said the the a.i even said it twice in a ten seconds span.. you guys are the true bots.
@g71612 Look for the transcript. It's right below the Description.
"I used to walk into a room and wonder if they would like me. Now I walk into a room and wonder if I will like them"
Stay strong❤
Awesome❤
Wow, well said..
Perfect that is the best way to observe! Who are you dealing with? If the surrounding or location? Looks unpleasant just walk away from it heck with it "" Don't look back "
I love this!
Amen. Whoever is reading this, I wish you endless happiness, unwavering peace, boundless prosperity, perfect health, and countless blessings from above. May your life be filled with joy and your heart with contentment.
Right back at you!😊
This is the voice of the actor Morgan Freeman
Thank you. Likewise!!! Blessings to you as well.
Amen!!!
@@LoneRider1969My thoughts exactly!!!
Bad friends ruin lives. Anyone who introduces you to bad habits, drama, gossip and cut you from family is not your friend but enemy.
Truth, 100%
Misery loves company. I won’t enable bad habits in others & have had to cut people lose who only wanted sympathy & validation of their weakness.
Well said 🥀
When it is your DIL that's when you can lose a son.
Love the one (work at your job to make a living; work on yourself and make a fortune)...WOW that is profound and so true cause at the end you only can count on a loving, fresh, well educate on life, yourself. Big hug and happiness everybody...
I like a saying I read years ago - "Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not in fact just surrounded by arseholes."
I learned this 30 years too late XD
Always be with people who celebrate you..not tolerate you..
I learned this in my late twenties. I got away from all those people and started to feel better about myself. Married a man who loves me for who I am.Two hearts became one on Valentines Day 35 years ago.
❤ + ❤ = ❤
That is immensely insightful.Yes.
@@realmetatron Feel better. I learned this A LOT Later than you.
"If you dont let go of the wrong people, you will never meet the right people."
So true 😢that’s why starting this week I’m letting it all go. And start fresh.
And remember not to depend too much on them lol. 00:29
Nevermind that interdependence is innate to us. No one is independent.
And sadly you might become one of them😳
Also , it can be very difficult to free yourself from despicable "human parasites" who play the sympathy card because they know that you are known to be a " soft touch" as I have always been. I have been drained of emotional and physical energy many times in my life . However I have only realised it fully in recent months . However , it was something that I had to realise for myself and to learn not to feel guilty if I say " No more." I finally asked God , through prayer to help me to recognise those truly in need of my help , both spiritually and physically . I finally realised that my own wisdom was sadly lacking and that I actually needed help myself . Last week , God opened my spiritual eyes and helped me to cut away from a "human leech" whom I have known for quite a few years and the release I feel is enormous . He soon latched onto someone else , who will probably no doubt have to come to realise for themselves . It's a very difficult journey before reaching that stage though.
James 1 : 5 "If any one of you is lacking in wisdom , let him keep asking God , for he gives generously to all and without reproaching , and it will begiven him."
While I try to do as Jesus taught and help others , I now know that there has to be a demarcation line to distinguish the genuine ones ... just as Jesus filters our prayers to God , so that some people cannot attempt to take advantage of his undeserved loving kindness . Prayer is a huge privilege which only exists because of Jesus died for our sins and bearing our shame , and to bring us closer to God in our daily lives . 🤍
Boom!
When someone betrays you, it's not the stab in the back that kills you.
It's when you turn around and see who is holding the knife.
Believe it or not betrayal does not come from your enemies, it comes from the people closest to you..
😢😢😢😢💔
It's true 🙏wise words am encouraged 🙏💯
That is so true.
Your guard isn't up to people you believe love and trust, so get caught totally unawares😮.
I'm not sure.. don't be afraid says or does. Be afraid of how you how you react! Cuz your enemy can become your friend. Are you friends to become your enemy! Choose wisely
“Don’t react, cut them off silently” took a while to get rid of them and their persistent attempts to contact me, two phone number changes, an email change, a house move and a lot of blocking but being betrayed by a close friend you trusted and loved like a sister is utterly devastating, the only way I could survive that was by pretending they did not exist any more. I just did not want to get sucked back in to their toxicity so I completely removed myself. Looking back now I see how much I allowed myself to be manipulated and what an unequal friendship it really was.
👍🏽Awesome. You moved with focused intent and with a clear end goal. Good for you. That’s admirable and I respect you for not just half stepping or talking about what you wanted to do. Might be cliche but it’s true. Just do it. And you did.
There's nothing worse than being pushed into a corner for years and left there after the same person who pushed you there doesn't want or feels your need for them to follow through and lend you their hand in pulling you back out.
Gave my everything….received nothing. Live and learn! 😊❤️🙏🏼
Happens too most of us.
You've learned an important lesson. Me too 😊
I had to check now to see if it was not me leaving this comment. Exactly my experience. When a trusted friend who was like a sister, betrays one in the most vicious manner, it is a real wake up call. One can never allow them back into your life and yes, it is utterly devastating. I send you much love and healing as I am in the process of healing too.
"Never say anything about someone to another person you would not say to that someone face to face" My mother's advice, which has served me well.
Your mother teaches you well.🤍
Great motherly advice ❤
Your Mom, wisely speaks truth and you are wise in heeding it ✝️❤️
In other terms
Unless they are potentially harmful, only say to someone, face2face, what you think of them,.
True, a mitch relative overheard me talking about him and he's still stalking and harassing me 12 years later ...you never know who has a screw loose.
Brilliant. I’ll add one. “If you don’t make time for your health, you will be making time for your sickness”
It is Morgan Freeman.
true!, thanks for sharing
One I remember on health is: "Healthy people have many dreams. Sick people only have one dream. "
Goes for both physical and mental health. Both has to be cured. Nowadays people don't want others to give them advice about bad habits or unmoral living. They want to pretend all is good on their end and becomes agitated if anyone referring to their dark side.
True!
“Time always exposes what you truly mean to someone”… that hurt.
Don't be hurt.Your good times are coming trust God
I have learned the hard way at 78 years old.
No regrets, still breathing.
😅😅😅😅
My mother used to say “never let anyone take away your peace”
wise mom
@@nicolekollman Thank you ❤
What do you do if your mother is the one who takes away the peace??
lol just kidding. My sister and I walked away 13 years ago.
JESUS said no man can take your peace of course that is the peace of the HOLY SPIRIT.
I've heard the saying don't let anyone take away your power.
To all the single people out there looking for your lifelong mate,…”If people treat you like an option, LEAVE THEM like a choice”.👏🏽
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Exactly 💯💯💯 They the wrong people aren't worth the time
Never try to please and try to hard on your first date or with anyone new in your life... be yourself and you choose them IF you feel o.k. with him, you make the choice NOT him. PERIOD
Long ago, my Dad cautioned me. It's inaccurate, unreliable, to guess and assign what we PERCIEVE Another's feelings or motivation to be.
It seems to me, the more tragic, to make severing decisions on a mistaken impression 😂❤❤❤
My lovely dad used to say Never lower your standards to other peoples.
That’s how I am surviving. I learned to lower my expectations. Sad but useful information.
My little sister on her Long Goodbye journey through Alzheimer’s heard me talk about the new man in my life. “Sounds like you’re settling.”
Don’t settle in life your life for anything. Know your worth. 🙏🏼
Never settle or lower your standards to anyone who refuses to rise up to your high standards!!!
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It's very self-centered & self-absorbed kind of thing... heard of compromise?
“There will always be someone who doesn’t see your worth; Don’t let it be you” it hit home, like dam.
My personal favorite that always seems to ring true is: "When people show you who they are, believe them the first time." - Maya Angelou
Mine too. 🙏🏿🌷
Exactly 💯 those are my sentiments to the point 👉
That's my mantra.....
@@barbaraadelman2391 exactly, shared sentiments. 😇
Very true, especially since the pandemic and rise of the woke mind virus
Yes, walk away in silence once you figure out who you're dealing with! Know your worth!
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Time heals tho it works both ways ! Leave gracefully and achieve
@@_Lazare Nope. Time heals only what can be healed. Some things can't.
@@VB-lc4xz
I won't argued that
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Narcissist is my ex wife
Small circle, private life and peace of mind 🤞🏾
Blaa blaa blaa. narrow style of thinking, world is your oyster. All are your brothers and sisters
How do you cut off that toxic small circle
@jps8678 Concentrate on your own life and let others live their lives.
You can't be this naive. With your blaaa sarcasm, you'll be used by cunning individuals.
@@laken1804 Live like you want to. If you like to live in Plato's gave. Same to me.
Lol you've met shallow people @@jps8678
"One day you'll see why God made you wait." ❤️🔥
Amen
I’m approaching 77. Many of the thoughts stated in this video are supremely accurate. I had to learn many of the truths stated in this video the hard way - trial and error. Any young person should write down every thought expressed in this video and place the list on the mirror that you use each morning to prepare yourself for the upcoming day and read at least one thought before leaving your house or apartment.
Wise words. Godbless you and thank you.
I don't know if it would help. These have to be learned the hard way.
Me too I had to learn the hard way
Me too, must be something about 77
I'm 54 and still learning
This is like a conversation with my Dad. Don't trust anyone who proves they can't be trustworthy.
and how do you know they're trustworthy
@@42smash36 If you don't know, then they are not. Use the force my young Padawan.
That should include him too
@nancylamb 1117..... As Our Blessed Lord Jesus 🙏 once said to his Apostles, "I Trust No Man, because I Know All Men", 😀
If you don't stand up for yourself, no one else will.
Very true 👍
Yes but some are broken and torn by the pressures of this hellish system we all endure..some need compassion and encouragement to remember who we are.
Truth!
If you don't stand for something,
you'll fall for anything.
.
No one will help you. 😢😢
Whoever is reading this comment, I wish you all the best in your life. May light fill your life. May God guide you to prosperity!
More Blessings back at you,thank you
AI read this.
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Thank you ❤
Amen and Amen 🙏❤
I tell my friend's teenage sons "be a mystery. Don't tell everyone your business. Don't say what you can do or what you will do. Don't tell everyone what's on your mind all the time. Most Don't really care. Make people wonder what you're doing. What you're thinking. Sneak up on them with your achievements. Let them realize you've been busy being happy. Busy learning. Busy achieving. It takes pressure off of you, makes people want more from you. Then stun them with what you have achieved in silence."
Great advice!👌🏽👍🏽
They won't be stunned, only more envious.
I love this! Thank you for your words of wisdom!
👏🏻
My mum said that Ur health is Ur wealth 🙏
I had to let go of a 6 year friendship once I realized she had to find “room” on her calendar to make time for me. I was by her side for her moments of illness as well as happiness. It’s my turn in life with regards to dealing with illness. Her absence speaks volumes in and of itself. When people treat you like an option, leave them like a choice. Moving on and seeking genuine
You deserve better. Let her go. Better people will enter your life .
@@redlotusqueen thank you 🙏🏻
It happened to me not only with one but with all my so-called friends, it's crazy that in reality in the end you can't count on anyone. Sometimes I regret the time I spent with them but maybe it's just a necessary process that needed to happen. It's as if people simply no longer have a sense of loyalty, or even honor.
amen
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤God has separated you for better things--❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ draw closer to juses as juses is the true light --- juses will guide you and bring you peace❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤God Bless❤❤❤❤ YOU ARE GODS CHOSEN ONE--- ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ❤❤❤
Don’t get burned twice by the same flame 🔥 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Powerful quote 🙏🏾
Beware of naked flames (Especially naked old flames). (not mine, probably an old fax joke... ok yes I'm that old)
Nicely said 🌺
Ughhhh
I got burned twice by the same jerk.
Yea I know, my fault🙄
My fault for trusting, helping, 2nd chance, etc...🙄
Amen to this powerful quote
Yeah thats right, dont get burned twice by the same flame in the fires 🔥 of hell.💪
" STAY CALM- YOU'VE BEEN THROUGH THIS BEFORE, You'll get through it again😊
But why are you going through it again?
"Sometimes we create our own heartbreak through expectations" . Wow! Thanks
That’s why it’s wise to lower them.
There's a scripture that says..." expectation postponed makes the heart sick". Amazing
Ya my hearts been broke about 10 times...
@@donrios3728
Just take notes and learn from the experience so you can break the cycle!
There’s always hope my friend and it starts from within.👍🏾
@@andreaholmes180
👍🏾🙏🏾
“ there will always be someone who doubts you’re worth. Don’t let it be you.” Yes!
"Learn to heal without venting to others" The best advice I could hear.Thank you! 😊
Correct
That's what friends are for . Not others .. friends
@@ρόιεΣισ friends may likely not be one's therapist and may not have skills nor knowledge to actually provide that emotional support or guidance when needed
@@Tutume1111
Venting to friends is a stand out a lending ear , compared to Venting to others.... who need not be a therapist but are needed to be there just a freind .. yadi yada.. +++
I've always lived by that. Your own counsel is the best counsel. Besides nobody listens nowadays anyway. Can't get a word in edgeways...so full of themselves. Of course there were always people inclined to be like that but now it's everywhere.
You have zero control over what is thrown at you - you have absolute control over your response.
You have limited control over your response as some options aren’t available to you.
But for that you have to have a control over your emotions first.
Absolutely true
It takes courage.
If you have no control of yourself. You have absolute control of your response. What?
“The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why”… powerful!!!
Nicely said 🌺
Jesus said marvel not, you must be born again to enter the kingdom.. Selah
I read that one differently " The two most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day you find a way out." Oops 😅
I'm still waiting on the why
Only if you're delusional and assign yourself an importance that doesn't exist. We all know people like that
Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing pushups on paint cans pullups on beams got ripped af at 53 years old!!!
Just checked your channel garageman brutal training keep it up grandpa💪
I started doing CrossFit at 41 years old 2 months ago. My life took a strong turn and I feel better in every aspect of my life. I still need to work in being more responsible towards my family (mother, brother, father) and trying to spend more time with them really. 20 years ago I left my home in the search for a better life 4000+km away from them, I was just a kid still and I learned all what this video says by myself the hard way....but I don't feel sorry for nothing and the best it yet to come since I opened my eyes so much in this world and truly learned what matters most.....is the family.🤍💪
And you prove it on your channel garageman subbed👊
Consider yourself a late bloomer but not too old. I am 64, it takes more weight & reps to build muscle after 60, plus it is more difficult to get motivated to work out.
I'm 43 and just starting now to practice standards, saying no and getting jacked. This was pure inspiration to me
I was always worrying about what others thought, once I stopped worrying, that's when I truly started living.
Exactly!
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉
I never worried about what others thought and didn’t give a shit. But there were psychos everywhere panicking just by the fact that I exist. People who over react or react to my existence and presence aren’t made for me. They’re not natural. They can’t handle me. I’m not made for people who can’t handle me.
I’m struggling with that and have been for 41 years. Even tho I say idc when I get alone I let their opinions matter 🤬🤬🤬
Human respect
“Tell the truth, you don’t have to remember anything” that’s a word for the world !
Health is definitely wealth ❤
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉
❤
Another good one I read somewhere: When people show you who they are, believe them.
Excellent
That was the wonderful Maya Angelou. And wise words to live by.
Exactly true
When people show you who they are the first time, believe them.
Maya Angelou
Many people leave those 3 words out...
" the first time".
What she meant was they should not have to show you who they truly are repeatedly!
God bless,Namaste'🙏😇💙
And sometimes they tell you who they are..and if they do, believe them.
If you tell the truth you don’t have to remember anything. Great statement.....Amen!
That's one of my favorite quotes n So True
Judge Judy always says this😊
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@@TishMclainAMEN AMEN, Me 2🎉
Unless you are arrested by the secret police of a totalitarian regime.
Don’t do the impossible for someone who doesn’t do the possible for you.
Yes . Thank you
This is so much... too much for me.
I shall ✍✍✍✍ this down.
❤
Good one.
Thank you
"If people treat you like an option, leave them like a choice."
That one resonated, because I've allowed some to treat me that way....like I'm an option. I don't have time for them anymore.
@tracyurueta7611
Your comment is the best one I read here. . acknowledging that we get treated the way we allow others to treat us. I too have no time for that nonsense nor them anymore
Well said.
Love this one. Tit for tat
You've got to entirely get off that mess so you can start receiving and going forward. I swear, when you do it fully, stuff just falls in your lap that you desired.
@@sharihere8809 And the people that are supposed to be there just come out of nowhere. It's surreal sometimes...gotttdamn I just got watery eyes right now. lol
I wish I understood many of these concepts in my youth.
But then you would not have been a youth perhaps?
@@adamfreeman2348 However it would have saved me a bit of heartache!
@@adamfreeman2348 So true. Youth is for making errors and learning fast and hard to recover from them and avoid those traps.
@@adamfreeman2348 Precisely!!! We should all enjoy our childhoods..
Don’t we all but , that is called growing .
Is the world really this cruel? There is goodness in the world. I'm working on boundaries to protect myself. Better late than never, right?
Love & light to all!
To you as well.
Had to learn that one the hard way. If more people had healthy boundaries, the manipulators of the world would be quite lonely or only be allowed to feed upon themselves 😂
Cut out anyone who brings negativity into your life. Worked for me
My son of 26 years died suddenly due to after effects of vehicle accident, while my grandson was 11 months old. It was difficult but I thank God for giving me, my son for 26 years. I almost lost him at birth, but He heard my prayers, that day. Life hasn't been easy lost my father and brother to suicide as well. Thank Him for what you have, these events have taught me and made me a better person! Job lost 11 children and all his possessions in one day. NEVER did he curse or question God!
Sorry, but that story of the devil and God playing tricks on Job killed my faith.
I would like you to KNOW... with all due respect I can muster... I love you, sweetheart. I send you a warm embrace and a shoulder to cry on and my most sincere and reverent prayers and anything else you need that I've not added here. Across these cyber miles, you are my delightful and wonderful ladyfriend. And I'm here to tell you that. My struggles are real, yet a scant drop in the bucket on a hot summer day. You've given me hope here and now, and I might say to many others who read what you posted. May God bless you and yours and all you hold dear, rich and full and running over.
Almost 50 and the number one piece of advice I have to a younger me is "Show me your friends and I'll show you your Future."
Take heed youngens.
thank you for your sharing!
No friends. I will be alone😂
This generation is doomed.
@@felinasecrets6191every generation said the SAME exact thing! Where is your faith? Sigh
This is so true
The best decision ever for cutting people who betrayed, manipulated,abused n brought their toxic energy to my life
Extending yourself to help others with no expectation clears the path of thorns like a perfect wind
Remember to take oxygen mask first for yourself. After that you can help others.
Love this. I’m struggling badly with my depression and fear. Praying for strength to hang on
Be the Hero of your own life. Not a victim of it. The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek. 68 year old Grandfather here. I surround myself with people who make me smile. I live in the present and I look forward to tomorrows adventure. True joy comes from struggling toward a goal and overcoming challenges. If you concentrate on the destination you miss out on 98% of your life.
Well said, Tim.
Thanks Tim, your words make me feel alright and strong 😊
This is your advice and how you feel through hindsight as it's always 20/20. I'd rather hear the mistakes you made and how you overcame them and the history surrounding where you grew up to better understand why you made said choices. The cave I fear to enter does not hold anything I want. It is wholly evil and to enter it is to forever alter myself in ways I can never come back from. You cannot unpickle a pickle. I get you're 68, but before you dole out advice, please, realize who you are giving what advice to.
@ccoonansr I guess I could tell you about my recovery from alcoholism (1988)and my 35 year marriage to my sweet wife. The loss of my business during the financial crisis of 2009 and losing almost everything. Going on the road for almost a year working in a city 250 miles from my family to support them but in 2016 buying our first property after renting for 40 years. How we are nearing completion of our mountain lodge style cabin to retire to built with our own hands completely debt free. It will all be in the book! Ha! (When I have some free time!)
@@timcisneros1351 Now THAT sounds like an epic read. If you do in fact write a book, I will be happy to read it.
Forgive yourself ❤ Let go of the past ❤Now is all we truly have ❤
If your not prepared to make reparation, how can you accept your own forgiveness
@@TheButlerNZ You do not have to forgive or forget only for yourself that you might have wronged. Make reparations are only due to yourself not others. Leave the past in the past!
"The value of time becomes evident when it's gone; use it wisely".
So live every moment as if it were your last.
Exactly right 💯%. and the most important thing is keeping in contact with your family as much as you can..... when they are gone is when you realize how much they meant to you.🤍
@@ADISTOD3MUS For most people that is the case yes. Not everyone has a good family.
Even your own shadow leaves you when you are in darkness. Truth that covers it all
"To be whom you have never been you must do what you have never done."
- Marcus Aurelius
see that cliff over there? heard it's a quick one, you've never done it
@@42smash36 Are you suggesting to, jump?
@@philjerwil7 They were but sarcastically I hope. 🙏
My favorite: If People Treat You Like An Option, Leave Them Like A Choice!! I love it!
I keep seeing this one posted, but I don't get it.
@@fridge3489 I don't understand; what don't you get?
@@fridge3489 You are an option in this person's life. They can TAKE you or LEAVE you. They don't care either way about you so YOU make the CHOICE to LEAVE them and move on with out them in your life.
Ive always told my son:
"A healthy man wants many things, but a sick man.... wants only one".
If you don't have your health you don't have anything.
“If you get tired, learn to rest not to quit”
💜💜💜💜
ABSOLUTELY!
"There will ALWAYS be someone who doesn't see your worth. DON'T LET IT BE YOU!!!!"✝️ 🫂 💛
If you don’t control your mind, someone else will.
Gave me goosebumps. So true.
Excellent thought-provoking quotes. Thank you.
If u don't let go the wrong people you will never met the right person well said
Its liberating when you have no expectations. Just live in the moment and always "be kind"
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without him, I love him so much. wish I can get him back I can do anything to have him back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters
You wont regret it
Yes amen!!!
Give and take is the yin and yang or cement of Human partnerships. Understanding is what the Yin and Yang of life pivot around.
"There will always be someone who won't see your worth. Don't let that person be you."
I’ve shared this video with my 13y old daughter. The earlier the lessons of life will be learned the most overwhelming results somebody can take out of it.
She's so lucky
thanks for your sharing!
Matthew 11:28-30 NKJV
[28] Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. [29] Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. [30] For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."
Just be real, it saves everyone's time. All of these life lessons are so true. Thank you for sharing them!
Just be yourself? But most people are naturally dicks!
What do U mean
Action speaks louder than words
I don't waste my time trying to please hypocritical people that are never satisfied and don't appreciate me as a person. I only live to please GOD.
BUT U MUST GET EVEN, THAN BURN THE BRIGE
I don't give airtime to hyperventilating people!
The God who doesn't give a fuck.
Amen
@@wickhunter7733 100% agree I don't think god's priority at this moment in time is to monitor who is pleasing him or not. He must have the most beautiful wife or wives in the universe and he is supposed to be looking at us anxiously and write what he sees, to judge us in decades, instead of having a good time with his partners?
I went to college with someone over 50 years ago, and our lives followed the same path. His name is Pete. We ended up working for the same large corporation, and in school and at work I always had the feeling that he thought of me as a rival rather than a friend. We had a mutual friend that he was particularly close to, and the three of us would occasionally go out for drinks together. One time Pete couldn't make it and I began talking about him, saying that he was the oldest friend I had. He responded by saying that Pete was not my friend, and from then on I realized that my instincts were correct. I kept my distance after that.
We need to hear this when we are young, not when we have already made all of these mistakes.
Sometimes people don't hear until they have made the mistake. It's OK. Everyone learns by their own terms. ❤
Young people wouldn’t listen. They already know everything … 😂
@@ma3stro681 young people don't want to be around cynical old people.
Sadly we only learn through our own mistakes
But we are the best ❤❤❤❤
This is the best msg I have ever heard. Starting this week. I will never look back again. All negative people and things are so far behind me 🧘♀️
I had a lot of so-called friends one day I woke up after much abuse from them, the lies the backstabbing, and the thief of my soul realizing who they really were left them and never looked back!
Same here!!! I trust very few people. The so-called friends I had were nothing but enemies!!! Even my 2 sisters were my enemies, lying about me & turning people against me. People believed them even if they knew me longer than them!!!
Same I alse had a so called friend.
@@judycrisenbery2982 Family are the worst when they are resentful & jealous. Much worse than when friends are. 👍. The people that believe them do so because they are too and you cannot trust them so stay far away and let them know nothing about you. Fake friends will be flying monkeys for family and enjoy it.
You have an incredible ability to inspire those around you with your dedication and kindness.
This is exactly what I needed to hear this morning and to have Morgan Freeman narrating just made it even better. Thank you for posting this.
All my life I tried to fit in, only realising when it was too late! that I was born to stand out.
‘’ Don’t rush the process”,Trust it “.
‘’ Great things take time “.
Eloquently said .
'If people dont like you - its probably because your doing something well and they cant '
5 years ago, April 2019....I was in month 9 of the silent treatment by my husband. Covid appeared, verbal abuse, I planned my departure. Left in April 2021.
Happily on my own for 3 years now. 🌈🌈🌈✨✨✨
Nevertheless, I am acutely aware that there are so many people suffering much worse....
Forever grateful to my GOD, he gave me a new start in my 50s 🙏🙏🙏
❤❤❤
Are u bi?
Takes a long time to plan an exit strategy and pull apart. In 2004, I decided to leave my partner. He had no idea of my decision. I kept it between me and my therapist. About nine months later, I left. No regrets whatsoever. I’m now married. It’s not perfect, but relationships never are. Still, though, the good far outweighs the bad.
I thought I knew my spouse until I realised all his lies... he even lies for something so trivial, so what is not a lie? Four years single now, my heart has no regret.
Well done you, good luck going forward
First it hurts, then it makes you stronger...memories are the real treasure in life
"Get yourself right with God, while you still have the time"
A saying which was passed on to me..."Forgiving IS NOT forgetting...it's letting go of the hurt." Another..."Grief is love with no where to go ... find someone to love." Peace to all...
If you have to ask for love, it's not coming from the person it should. ❤️
Very true , you either want me or you don't , plain and simple❤️🔥💔🫁🇺🇸
🙏💃🥴💔👍
The People you love are the people who will hurt you most...
Unfortunately 😢
They are the only ones who CAN really hurt you. Why? Because it is unexpected.
👍✌️
Life lessons number 1.
That's the truth
Salt and sugar look the same….wow so true!
They actualy dont look the same:)
Here's one I taught my now adult kids, when they were little:
"How you treat ppl now, is how you'll be treated later". ❤
My mum used to say it doesn’t matter what you do, what matters is the reason you done it.
"GROWING HARDER" SHOULD BE READ " ROWING HARDER" WHEN THE BOAT IS going IN THE WRONG DIRECTION DOESNT HELP.......FANTASTIC ADVICE THAT I HEARD ON A WHISPER FROM MY OWN SOUL...BUT NOW HEAR LOUD AND CLEAR RIGHT HERE! THANKYOU! XXSSAHARA
I also noticed it immediately.
Your use of capital letters is so powerful🤣🤣🤣
@@vericacvetkovic9093 That's because you're very special, I noticed that about you, although not immediately.
What if i really like boats?
@@adelhartreisig9020 (and loud) q8)
And I’m 80 years old in a few weeks, so many words of advice there, but being an octogenarian now, most of them have been learnt the hard way, by life and circumstance…Good old Morgan F…
Always take time to Encourage yourself because no one knows You better than yourself!
True!
This was FANTASTIC! So many pearls of wisdom! Thank you so much.
Beware, a pearl is often just an irritant caked in calcium.
(That ones me... so it itself may be one of those 'Pearls')
Losers focus on winners.
Winners focus on winning
Excuses make today easier but tomorrow harder. Discipline makes today harder but tomorrow easier.
Says it all.
"Don't react. Cut them off silently."
I tried that. Then my FORMER friend called the police to do a "wellness " check on me. Unbelievable!
Oh
Really?
Maybe the "former friend" was genuinely concerned about your well-being...
Oh
@primroselim6897,are u codependent? *No, if she had been genuinely concerned about my well-being:*
1) She wouldn't have treated me so badly for so long that I had to end a 30 year relationship that had meant a lot to me. The last few years, she made my life heII. I held on to hope she'd change until it was unbearable.
2) She would have personally DRIVEN the 45 minutes to my house to check on me. She has my house key.
3) She wouldn't have waited A MONTH to "check" on me. She knew she effed up and was being a drama queen.
Love is friendship on fire.
-Bruce Lee
Always find ways to show appreciation and the friend who enjoys returning the favor will fan the flames along side you forever.
Thanks. I learnt so much from these! One variation of "Fear is temporary and regret is permanent" is "Anger is temporary and regret is permanent". For example, we might have misunderstandings with family members from time to time and be angry, but let's not be angry with them for too long because they might not be here tomorrow.
"We fall, we break, we fail, but then we rise, we heal, we overcome "🙏
not always...people do commit suicide. life gets unbearable at times.....can't get your head above water. some people have charmed lives......things go their way....always landing on their feet......some not so much. death looks better .....life sucks......
Work hard an think positive let go if the shitty past i know I've been there an it can suck but can get better with money an get money by workin for it an savin all u can an find ppl. Who do the same thing! U can learn alot from hard workin ppl. Good luck keep the faith no matter what too..
I wish l could save this & read it every morning in quiet. This is the most important thing ive read ,l should have heard this 50yrs ago.
God will provide. It is His timing. He can see what we can't see.
"HE" is neither male, nor is it a person. It is your own soul talking to you. "God" is the life force within us all. If you learn to listen to your subconscoius, you will be guided by God 🫶
@@9155DarkhorseIsn’t it great to construct a “god” according to your own autonomous speculation? that way, you’re only accountable to your own vain imagination. and hopefully, nobody is accountable to you, for their own sake.
You should have shared His words in scripture then..
@patricianewman5336
Amen🙏🏻♥️
His timing sucks
Hate when someone say “I am to busy” to me. Let go of the wrong people. Their behavior tells it all of their character. 😊
It depends, if someone is actually working or taking care of a child, they won't have time on your every whim at least. It is also important not to expect too much of others and respect that they need time to rest and other things in their lifes.
Share with preparation that brings balance...
Equal work , Equal play , E Qulity
What they're REALLY saying is "my agenda is the important one, not you" EVEN IF you're doing a task for them, and/or you're half way through an agreement, and didn't need to be ghosted by the very person you're doing the favor FOR! This happens too often today. No excuses.
Too busy like right now . Depends on the circumstances. Usually ample timing and communication makes anyone pre emptive !
@@ρόιεΣισ that's the excuse AFTER being ghosted for two months as well!! What scares me is these are not tweens shovelling that crap. these are people my age down to 30 that have ZERO life experience or really bad work habits.
"Man, my shadow comes around before you." Jimi Hendrix. My response to, "Don't depend on people." If you can most of the time, you've been blessed. Lots of good stuff here.
When you get tired, learn to rest, not to quit ❤️❤️❤️
Everyone and everything are our teachers. Thank them for the lesson/experience while here on Earth and move on. ❤