Once You Learn These Life Lessons, You Will Never Be The Same (Advice From Old People)
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Never be TOO honest with people, you never know how they will use your sincerity against you.
I've learned ,n it's a lesson well takin in
Very true, especially if you're a man. Any sign of weakness and you will be disrespected and used.
That's a stupid bit of advice.
I learned that the hard way with my ex wife
Indeed. I’ve learned my lesson to this.
"If you dont let go of the wrong people, you will never meet the right people."
So true 😢that’s why starting this week I’m letting it all go. And start fresh.
Ouch. That one hit hard. Thanks 🕉
And remember not to depend too much on them lol. 00:29
Nevermind that interdependence is innate to us. No one is independent.
And sadly you might become one of them😳
Also , it can be very difficult to free yourself from despicable "human parasites" who play the sympathy card because they know that you are known to be a " soft touch" as I have always been. I have been drained of emotional and physical energy many times in my life . However I have only realised it fully in recent months . However , it was something that I had to realise for myself and to learn not to feel guilty if I say " No more." I finally asked God , through prayer to help me to recognise those truly in need of my help , both spiritually and physically . I finally realised that my own wisdom was sadly lacking and that I actually needed help myself . Last week , God opened my spiritual eyes and helped me to cut away from a "human leech" whom I have known for quite a few years and the release I feel is enormous . He soon latched onto someone else , who will probably no doubt have to come to realise for themselves . It's a very difficult journey before reaching that stage though.
James 1 : 5 "If any one of you is lacking in wisdom , let him keep asking God , for he gives generously to all and without reproaching , and it will begiven him."
While I try to do as Jesus taught and help others , I now know that there has to be a demarcation line to distinguish the genuine ones ... just as Jesus filters our prayers to God , so that some people cannot attempt to take advantage of his undeserved loving kindness . Prayer is a huge privilege which only exists because of Jesus died for our sins and bearing our shame , and to bring us closer to God in our daily lives . 🤍
Bad friends ruin lives. Anyone who introduces you to bad habits, drama, gossip and cut you from family is not your friend but enemy.
Truth, 100%
Misery loves company. I won’t enable bad habits in others & have had to cut people lose who only wanted sympathy & validation of their weakness.
Well said 🥀
When it is your DIL that's when you can lose a son.
Love the one (work at your job to make a living; work on yourself and make a fortune)...WOW that is profound and so true cause at the end you only can count on a loving, fresh, well educate on life, yourself. Big hug and happiness everybody...
Brilliant. I’ll add one. “If you don’t make time for your health, you will be making time for your sickness”
It is Morgan Freeman.
true!, thanks for sharing
One I remember on health is: "Healthy people have many dreams. Sick people only have one dream. "
Goes for both physical and mental health. Both has to be cured. Nowadays people don't want others to give them advice about bad habits or unmoral living. They want to pretend all is good on their end and becomes agitated if anyone referring to their dark side.
True!
"Learn to heal without venting to anyone" Well said
..."to everyone" (instead of 'anyone'😉) is the small correction😊🙋🏼♀️🌞
I need to learn this
Yes. Venting is a bad defence mechanism. Grandma Gai
so well said the the a.i even said it twice in a ten seconds span.. you guys are the true bots.
@g71612 Look for the transcript. It's right below the Description.
Small circle, private life and peace of mind 🤞🏾
Blaa blaa blaa. narrow style of thinking, world is your oyster. All are your brothers and sisters
How do you cut off that toxic small circle
@jps8678 Concentrate on your own life and let others live their lives.
You can't be this naive. With your blaaa sarcasm, you'll be used by cunning individuals.
@@laken1804 Live like you want to. If you like to live in Plato's gave. Same to me.
Lol you've met shallow people @@jps8678
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without him, I love him so much. wish I can get him back I can do anything to have him back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters
You wont regret it
Yes amen!!!
Give and take is the yin and yang or cement of Human partnerships. Understanding is what the Yin and Yang of life pivot around.
Yes, walk away in silence once you figure out who you're dealing with! Know your worth!
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Time heals tho it works both ways ! Leave gracefully and achieve
@@_Lazare Nope. Time heals only what can be healed. Some things can't.
@@VB-lc4xz
I won't argued that
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Narcissist is my ex wife
To all the single people out there looking for your lifelong mate,…”If people treat you like an option, LEAVE THEM like a choice”.👏🏽
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Exactly 💯💯💯 They the wrong people aren't worth the time
Never try to please and try to hard on your first date or with anyone new in your life... be yourself and you choose them IF you feel o.k. with him, you make the choice NOT him. PERIOD
Long ago, my Dad cautioned me. It's inaccurate, unreliable, to guess and assign what we PERCIEVE Another's feelings or motivation to be.
It seems to me, the more tragic, to make severing decisions on a mistaken impression 😂❤❤❤
“Don’t react, cut them off silently” took a while to get rid of them and their persistent attempts to contact me, two phone number changes, an email change, a house move and a lot of blocking but being betrayed by a close friend you trusted and loved like a sister is utterly devastating, the only way I could survive that was by pretending they did not exist any more. I just did not want to get sucked back in to their toxicity so I completely removed myself. Looking back now I see how much I allowed myself to be manipulated and what an unequal friendship it really was.
👍🏽Awesome. You moved with focused intent and with a clear end goal. Good for you. That’s admirable and I respect you for not just half stepping or talking about what you wanted to do. Might be cliche but it’s true. Just do it. And you did.
There's nothing worse than being pushed into a corner for years and left there after the same person who pushed you there doesn't want or feels your need for them to follow through and lend you their hand in pulling you back out.
Gave my everything….received nothing. Live and learn! 😊❤️🙏🏼
Happens too most of us.
You've learned an important lesson. Me too 😊
I have someone like that, stalking and harrassing me and my family because I told her a few home truths and dumped her. Nobody dunps her and gets away with it😂. Every single time, I phone the police and I firmly intend to keep going until she is charged. She has complaints the length of my arm now. I will never move, change number or anything else for a frienemy. I told the police if they dont do sonething with her, I will take the law into my own hands myself and not even her kids will recognise her. Im done with abuse.
"Never say anything about someone to another person you would not say to that someone face to face" My mother's advice, which has served me well.
Your mother teaches you well.🤍
Great motherly advice ❤
Your Mom, wisely speaks truth and you are wise in heeding it ✝️❤️
In other terms
Unless they are potentially harmful, only say to someone, face2face, what you think of them,.
I’m approaching 77. Many of the thoughts stated in this video are supremely accurate. I had to learn many of the truths stated in this video the hard way - trial and error. Any young person should write down every thought expressed in this video and place the list on the mirror that you use each morning to prepare yourself for the upcoming day and read at least one thought before leaving your house or apartment.
Wise words. Godbless you and thank you.
I don't know if it would help. These have to be learned the hard way.
Me too I had to learn the hard way
Me too, must be something about 77
I'm 54 and still learning
This is like a conversation with my Dad. Don't trust anyone who proves they can't be trustworthy.
and how do you know they're trustworthy
@@42smash36 If you don't know, then they are not. Use the force my young Padawan.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagram?
Yes he is dr.porass.
My lovely dad used to say Never lower your standards to other peoples.
5 years ago, April 2019....I was in month 9 of the silent treatment by my husband. Covid appeared, verbal abuse, I planned my departure. Left in April 2021.
Happily on my own for 3 years now. 🌈🌈🌈✨✨✨
Nevertheless, I am acutely aware that there are so many people suffering much worse....
Forever grateful to my GOD, he gave me a new start in my 50s 🙏🙏🙏
❤❤❤
Are u bi?
Takes a long time to plan an exit strategy and pull apart. In 2004, I decided to leave my partner. He had no idea of my decision. I kept it between me and my therapist. About nine months later, I left. No regrets whatsoever. I’m now married. It’s not perfect, but relationships never are. Still, though, the good far outweighs the bad.
I thought I knew my spouse until I realised all his lies... he even lies for something so trivial, so what is not a lie? Four years single now, my heart has no regret.
Well done you, good luck going forward
Health is definitely wealth ❤
“The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why”… powerful!!!
“ there will always be someone who doubts you’re worth. Don’t let it be you.” Yes!
Forgive yourself ❤ Let go of the past ❤Now is all we truly have ❤
If your not prepared to make reparation, how can you accept your own forgiveness
Be the Hero of your own life. Not a victim of it. The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek. 68 year old Grandfather here. I surround myself with people who make me smile. I live in the present and I look forward to tomorrows adventure. True joy comes from struggling toward a goal and overcoming challenges. If you concentrate on the destination you miss out on 98% of your life.
Well said, Tim.
Thanks Tim, your words make me feel alright and strong 😊
This is your advice and how you feel through hindsight as it's always 20/20. I'd rather hear the mistakes you made and how you overcame them and the history surrounding where you grew up to better understand why you made said choices. The cave I fear to enter does not hold anything I want. It is wholly evil and to enter it is to forever alter myself in ways I can never come back from. You cannot unpickle a pickle. I get you're 68, but before you dole out advice, please, realize who you are giving what advice to.
@ccoonansr I guess I could tell you about my recovery from alcoholism (1988)and my 35 year marriage to my sweet wife. The loss of my business during the financial crisis of 2009 and losing almost everything. Going on the road for almost a year working in a city 250 miles from my family to support them but in 2016 buying our first property after renting for 40 years. How we are nearing completion of our mountain lodge style cabin to retire to built with our own hands completely debt free. It will all be in the book! Ha! (When I have some free time!)
@@timcisneros1351 Now THAT sounds like an epic read. If you do in fact write a book, I will be happy to read it.
"Learn to heal without venting to others" The best advice I could hear.Thank you! 😊
Correct
That's what friends are for . Not others .. friends
@@Burdello82admitit friends may likely not be one's therapist and may not have skills nor knowledge to actually provide that emotional support or guidance when needed
@@Selfloveyoga1111
Venting to friends is a stand out a lending ear , compared to Venting to others.... who need not be a therapist but are needed to be there just a freind .. yadi yada.. +++
I've always lived by that. Your own counsel is the best counsel. Besides nobody listens nowadays anyway. Can't get a word in edgeways...so full of themselves. Of course there were always people inclined to be like that but now it's everywhere.
Don’t get burned twice by the same flame 🔥 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Powerful quote 🙏🏾
Beware of naked flames (Especially naked old flames). (not mine, probably an old fax joke... ok yes I'm that old)
Nicely said 🌺
Ughhhh
I got burned twice by the same jerk.
Yea I know, my fault🙄
My fault for trusting, helping, 2nd chance, etc...🙄
Amen to this powerful quote
"Sometimes we create our own heartbreak through expectations" . Wow! Thanks
That’s why it’s wise to lower them.
There's a scripture that says..." expectation postponed makes the heart sick". Amazing
Ya my hearts been broke about 10 times...
@@donrios3728
Just take notes and learn from the experience so you can break the cycle!
There’s always hope my friend and it starts from within.👍🏾
@@andreaholmes180
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Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing pushups on paint cans pullups on beams got ripped af at 53 years old!!!
Just checked your channel garageman brutal training keep it up grandpa💪
I started doing CrossFit at 41 years old 2 months ago. My life took a strong turn and I feel better in every aspect of my life. I still need to work in being more responsible towards my family (mother, brother, father) and trying to spend more time with them really. 20 years ago I left my home in the search for a better life 4000+km away from them, I was just a kid still and I learned all what this video says by myself the hard way....but I don't feel sorry for nothing and the best it yet to come since I opened my eyes so much in this world and truly learned what matters most.....is the family.🤍💪
Absolutely. I'm also 53. Just did my 100th 1/2 marathon. Same fitness as my 30s and 40s. It's just eating the right things and keeping busy.
And you prove it on your channel garageman subbed👊
Consider yourself a late bloomer but not too old. I am 64, it takes more weight & reps to build muscle after 60, plus it is more difficult to get motivated to work out.
I wish I understood many of these concepts in my youth.
But then you would not have been a youth perhaps?
@@adamfreeman2348 However it would have saved me a bit of heartache!
@@adamfreeman2348 So true. Youth is for making errors and learning fast and hard to recover from them and avoid those traps.
@@adamfreeman2348 Precisely!!! We should all enjoy our childhoods..
Don’t we all but , that is called growing .
"If people treat you like an option, leave them like a choice."
That one resonated, because I've allowed some to treat me that way....like I'm an option. I don't have time for them anymore.
@tracyurueta7611
Your comment is the best one I read here. . acknowledging that we get treated the way we allow others to treat us. I too have no time for that nonsense nor them anymore
Well said.
Love this one. Tit for tat
I don't waste my time trying to please hypocritical people that are never satisfied and don't appreciate me as a person. I only live to please GOD.
BUT U MUST GET EVEN, THAN BURN THE BRIGE
I don't give airtime to hyperventilating people!
The God who doesn't give a fuck.
Amen
@@wickhunter7733 100% agree I don't think god's priority at this moment in time is to monitor who is pleasing him or not. He must have the most beautiful wife or wives in the universe and he is supposed to be looking at us anxiously and write what he sees, to judge us in decades, instead of having a good time with his partners?
That’s a fact. Time exposes what you truly mean to someone.
Learned that the toughest way😢
Almost or too late sometimes.
@@jaysfacts3842 Me Too
I think that hit a lot of people hard.
Dont worry about it. They weren't meant for you
One day you'll see why God made you wait...❤
I love that. Thanks. :)
Has happened to me. Then I hit myself in the forehead and say, "why didn't I just wait". God always says, "Wait for Me".
We need to hear this when we are young, not when we have already made all of these mistakes.
Sometimes people don't hear until they have made the mistake. It's OK. Everyone learns by their own terms. ❤
Young people wouldn’t listen. They already know everything … 😂
@@ma3stro681 young people don't want to be around cynical old people.
Sadly we only learn through our own mistakes
But we are the best ❤❤❤❤
I was always worrying about what others thought, once I stopped worrying, that's when I truly started living.
Exactly!
To whoever read this , God bless you and I pray you have a healthy fulfilling rich life, rich in joy and happiness, living your God gifted purpose. All God beautifully balanced creations goes through the rain and storms. Thank God usually experiencing more sunshine than rain. Keep living. He loves you.
Thank you, I pray you receive God's divine favor, divine preservation & abundant life in the name of Jesus Christ.
Thank you! Many blessings to you 🙏🙏🙏
Looks like your invisible friend doesn’t love the Palestinians trapped in Gaza. I guess they don’t deserve this kind of “love”.
Blessings
@@gwarlow I don't listen to the media or news to know what is going on the world, I cast all care unto God.
"Don't react. Cut them off silently."
I tried that. Then my FORMER friend called the police to do a "wellness " check on me. Unbelievable!
Oh
Really?
Maybe the "former friend" was genuinely concerned about your well-being...
Oh
@primroselim6897,are u codependent? *No, if she had been genuinely concerned about my well-being:*
1) She wouldn't have treated me so badly for so long that I had to end a 30 year relationship that had meant a lot to me. The last few years, she made my life heII. I held on to hope she'd change until it was unbearable.
2) She would have personally DRIVEN the 45 minutes to my house to check on me. She has my house key.
3) She wouldn't have waited A MONTH to "check" on me. She knew she effed up and was being a drama queen.
Some of the best times in life haven’t happened yet 🙌
I loved that one.
Yes
Patience is a virtue
Good times are just around the corner
Amen❤
Exactly, it is tomorrow
I wish that were true, but I doubt it.
Absolutely beautiful truth🎉 People know preying on the innocent and old people is the norm. Some hearts have a scab some have a scar and some have turned to stone that can break away and hurt anything it comes in contact with. People who have no life try to control and live your life because they think u r helpless! 😂😂😂😂🎉😂😂❤. Keep going around them until God removes them from your life 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤
Extending yourself to help others with no expectation clears the path of thorns like a perfect wind
Remember to take oxygen mask first for yourself. After that you can help others.
"one day youll see why God made you wait" 🙏🏼💯
Just be real, it saves everyone's time. All of these life lessons are so true. Thank you for sharing them!
Just be yourself? But most people are naturally dicks!
What do U mean
If you tell the truth you don’t have to remember anything. Great statement.....Amen!
That's one of my favorite quotes n So True
Judge Judy always says this😊
Fear of The Lord is the beginning of wisdom
Why should we fear the Lord ???
@@treystephens6166 Proverbs 9 :10-12 Because no one else has the power to punish you for all eternity
Hate when someone say “I am to busy” to me. Let go of the wrong people. Their behavior tells it all of their character. 😊
It depends, if someone is actually working or taking care of a child, they won't have time on your every whim at least. It is also important not to expect too much of others and respect that they need time to rest and other things in their lifes.
Share with preparation that brings balance...
Equal work , Equal play , E Qulity
What they're REALLY saying is "my agenda is the important one, not you" EVEN IF you're doing a task for them, and/or you're half way through an agreement, and didn't need to be ghosted by the very person you're doing the favor FOR! This happens too often today. No excuses.
Too busy like right now . Depends on the circumstances. Usually ample timing and communication makes anyone pre emptive !
@@Burdello82admitit that's the excuse AFTER being ghosted for two months as well!! What scares me is these are not tweens shovelling that crap. these are people my age down to 30 that have ZERO life experience or really bad work habits.
If u don't let go the wrong people you will never met the right person well said
"To be whom you have never been you must do what you have never done."
- Marcus Aurelius
see that cliff over there? heard it's a quick one, you've never done it
@@42smash36 Are you suggesting to, jump?
I keep Faith in Jesus even as I constantly struggle to provide groceries and basic necessities for my children both of my sons are special needs taking care of them can be overwhelming at times but I seek and find comfort in our Lord Jesus. I started home schooling my sons, so my hours to work are very limited. God has carried me through so far. Faith is all we need. Thank you Lord I know a blessing is on the way. Amen ❤️
God bless you and your family 🙏
Psalm 37:25 Neither in my youth, nor now in old age have I ever seen the just abandoned or their children begging bread.
jeezus doesn't exist! It's just a made up story. Read a science book. Evolution. Your great grandfather 185 billion generations ago was a fish!
It was nice reading your post man. Keep up the good work
PRAISE JESUS for your Faith..JESUS IS FAITHFUL TO MEET ALL YOUR NEEDS!!
Ephesians 6:12 We wrestle not against flesh and blood, God is the high spirit behind it , If God be for you who can be against you , God been against me for the mistress that was in my marriage now God is using them like Hosea 3 1-5
"There will always be someone who won't see your worth. Don't let that person be you."
The Lord is my strength and deliverance of my path...All things work together for those who love the Lord and is called according to his purpose!!!!!!
"GROWING HARDER" SHOULD BE READ " ROWING HARDER" WHEN THE BOAT IS going IN THE WRONG DIRECTION DOESNT HELP.......FANTASTIC ADVICE THAT I HEARD ON A WHISPER FROM MY OWN SOUL...BUT NOW HEAR LOUD AND CLEAR RIGHT HERE! THANKYOU! XXSSAHARA
I also noticed it immediately.
Your use of capital letters is so powerful🤣🤣🤣
@@vericacvetkovic9093 That's because you're very special, I noticed that about you, although not immediately.
What if i really like boats?
@@adelhartreisig9020 (and loud) q8)
I keep trusting God.🙏♥️
Keep on living in the clouds. It seems to be working for you. 😊
I had a lot of so-called friends one day I woke up after much abuse from them, the lies the backstabbing, and the thief of my soul realizing who they really were left them and never looked back!
This is the best msg I have ever heard. Starting this week. I will never look back again. All negative people and things are so far behind me 🧘♀️
"The value of time becomes evident when it's gone; use it wisely".
So live every moment as if it were your last.
Exactly right 💯%. and the most important thing is keeping in contact with your family as much as you can..... when they are gone is when you realize how much they meant to you.🤍
So many nuggets of truth!!!!❤❤❤
and yet Soooooooooooooooooooooooo many exceptions to the rule.
Imagine being married to someone makes you feel you don’t deserve what you want
Imagine your only child doing that after a lifetime of sacrifice for their wellbeing. I finally learned to walk away.
@@Nanasfsw it’s sad. But sometimes parents are also toxic in many ways during the upbringing of the child so when the child grows up he or she feels resentful and hurt. Of course this is not in every situation and a grown up child can also be influenced by others and turn against their parents.
@@krishnagondhea7428 I know. I was overprotective, but we had a great relationship until she met her husband. For 18 years she’s been using the grandchildren as weapons. I definitely feel it’s her husband egging her on. I honestly have PTSD from this. I’ve overlooked so many hurtful things just to keep the peace. I lost my peace.
"If people treat you like an option, leave them like a choice"
lovvvvvve it ❤
"Time exposes what you truly mean to someone"...oofff😖
This is excellent. Parents teach your children these truths
Someone needs to teach the parents first. Too many parents don't live by this either.
One Day you will know why God makes you wait.That is so profound
Reported you for false information and offensive content
Please advise what was false and offensive? Listen to the clip and hear what was posted was quoted .Thanks
This was FANTASTIC! So many pearls of wisdom! Thank you so much.
Beware, a pearl is often just an irritant caked in calcium.
(That ones me... so it itself may be one of those 'Pearls')
Exactly, I learned early on never to give anyone a second chance - Trust me, this simple rule can save lives.
So much wisdom here, At 74 I have adherd to most of this, with the these two things added. Today is the only garden you can tend, and my father taught me not to put to much faith in common sence. Its called common because everyone has it, and see what it has wrought. Use your good sence. Few do, but them that do, acheive.
thank you for your sharing!
"Galileo was basically run out of town from the University of Pisa because his mechanistic philosophy contradicted the Aristotelian ‘commonsense’ of the time.
Darwin, whose theory of evolution by natural selection was assailed by numerous critics as an assault on the ‘commonsensical’ idea that humans are unique, divine creations.
Einstein, whose theory of relativity was mocked by a number of eminent scientists-most famously Philip Lenard-for flouting the “simple, sound common sense” that space and time must be absolute.
Question everything, if your lucky, you might be wrong!
My dad basically said to me "This is MY garage.... Try not to break things". So I was using a lathe unsupervised as a 10yo... I bet no parent would do that today.. I fear what those kids will grow up to be like tomorrow... (You can quote me on that one but "The Butler" may not stick it out historically... )
q8)
Good comment. Especially in a world where more and more of us fall are prone to misinformation, because something is "just common sense".
Wise words🤍
"Man, my shadow comes around before you." Jimi Hendrix. My response to, "Don't depend on people." If you can most of the time, you've been blessed. Lots of good stuff here.
Yey getting ready for success .. I survived all of my mistakes!
The hardest part about loving someone, is watching that person love another person.
Really
If you love someone you should want them happy no matter where the joy comes from. I want those i love to love others and i want others to love them too. True love is NOT selfish. Why would anyone want someone who does not love others?
I think it regards to a husband
Why would you see that ? Why would you be in contact or near them to see that happen ? Cut off all connections, finish, gone, over !!!
Don't judge. Love comes differently everytime forr each one of us.
@@Shirley-ov1qs oh hard to watch someone cheat on you.
Oh well never mind
no im not watching that so i left.
I guess im different even then i wanted him happy. So i bowed out. After over twenty five years l have not seen him I still love him still married to him. She died he is in a nursing home. I am retired i travel love on my grandchildren and make pretty wreaths, baskets and artwork. I am loving my life. I don’t believe in divorce so…🤷🏽♀️😁
‘’ Don’t rush the process”,Trust it “.
‘’ Great things take time “.
Eloquently said .
I feel like I don’t matter to anyone anymore … I was once a vibrant young woman, sharing her thoughts and dreams. Now I’m an aging woman, burnt, bitter, betrayed. Friends change. People hurt you. I’ve closed off. I’m sad. I’m angry. I feel like life’s lessons have changed me and I no longer share. Everything is just in my head swirling around and depressing me more each day. Oh that’s right sorry -not supposed to vent are we?
Change your thoughts and you'll be ok
With friends like those people who needs enemies
They aren't very good friends, with " friends" like those who needs enemies
I don't necessarily agree with that quote- there are times that unburdening oneself brings relief - to one's heart and mind. And when it's shared with the right person, brings comfort. One can't know what another suffers unless it's shared sometimes.
Never ever give up and give into those bitter thoughts 🙏🏻 fight them and seek the happiness and genuine connections you so definitely deserve. You deserve new beginnings
Thank you Morgan Freeman, much appreciated
Love&blessings to every living soul who's reading this❤
🙏 Namaste
Remember:you'll get through this , you've been through this before
@@Soxfandan don't think so
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Be selfish with Your time. A lot of people dont deserve it. 😊
Very well said 🥀
Best one❤
I'm generous with my time. and ecstatic when someone appreciates it. I guess it's just me.
Great way to create a lonely planet where neighbors don't know neighbors. A society where individuals turn to government for help.
@@AmeriGlobalTrue. We need self respect and not self importance.. The planet is already lonely even with 7 billion people. 😮😢
I wish l could save this & read it every morning in quiet. This is the most important thing ive read ,l should have heard this 50yrs ago.
"Playing it safe is the most dangerous thing you can do in life"🤩
Well, I disagree with that one!
@@marym.338it depends. Playing is Safe while driving is good.
@@treystephens6166 For sure, as in other areas as well!
@@treystephens6166 and other areas as well!
Losers focus on winners.
Winners focus on winning
Excuses make today easier but tomorrow harder. Discipline makes today harder but tomorrow easier.
Says it all.
I’ve shared this video with my 13y old daughter. The earlier the lessons of life will be learned the most overwhelming results somebody can take out of it.
She's so lucky
thanks for your sharing!
First it hurts, then it makes you stronger...memories are the real treasure in life
This is exactly what I needed to hear this morning and to have Morgan Freeman narrating just made it even better. Thank you for posting this.
so many words of wisdom, they all ring true!!
This is one of the most invaluable and profound insights I have had the privilege to learn. Much gratitude.
Another good one I read somewhere: When people show you who they are, believe them.
Almost 50 and the number one piece of advice I have to a younger me is "Show me your friends and I'll show you your Future."
Take heed youngens.
thank you for your sharing!
If I had been introduced to some of these concepts and suggestions in my young and impressionable years they might have made a positive difference in my life, and some of the lives around me.
unbelievable Quotation.
If you don’t control your mind, someone else will.
Gave me goosebumps. So true.
Excellent thought-provoking quotes. Thank you.
And I’m 80 years old in a few weeks, so many words of advice there, but being an octogenarian now, most of them have been learnt the hard way, by life and circumstance…Good old Morgan F…
That sounds like Morgan Freeman
Perhaps at 0.75 playback.
Yet it may not be
Guess so too... I like the voice.
It is...
💯 % ....👍
I will meditate daily with these wisdom
Ive always told my son:
"A healthy man wants many things, but a sick man.... wants only one".
This is the best advices in TH-cam ever! I need this in my life right now.Thank you🙏
Thank you so much for taking the time to upload this. It is so poignant and meaningful for me at this moment in time right now. I believe it is Gods will that I came across this. I really can’t thank you enough this has been a massive help for me when I really needed some good guidance. Many blessings too you
I had to let go of a 6 year friendship once I realized she had to find “room” on her calendar to make time for me. I was by her side for her moments of illness as well as happiness. It’s my turn in life with regards to dealing with illness. Her absence speaks volumes in and of itself. When people treat you like an option, leave them like a choice. Moving on and seeking genuine
These almost sound cryptic from a life of almost no boundaries. Great thoughts but stoic as well. A balance must be found.
You become your shadow in times of darkness. It is you that leaves you.
There is great wisdom and understanding in this statement Robert
It strikes a cord in my soul thank you for sharing that
In times of darkness I know that I will always be there for me.
@@TheButlerNZ I would suggest you have not experienced true darkness. Not even close.
@@Robert-xs2mv Possibly because I have learnt by personal and others experiences... I live a good life.
@@TheButlerNZ I doubt that very much. I to live a good life, and my experiences definitely included me leaving myself for my shadow. How I managed to get through those times still mesmerises me. Have I learned anything, only my next dark shadowy period will tell. I might have become far stronger, but so has my shadow become far darker.
The voice of Morgan Freeman makes this worth listening to.
Sounds like him but may not be. Sounds lovely to listen to . 🌱
These quotes were absolutely incredible. I even screenshot them so I can put it on my status.
One not present in this that I always appreciated was, "Choose your life's mate carefully. From this ONE decision will come 9/10ths of all life's misery or happiness." - Life's Little Instruction Book
...some of the best
words of wisdom...
I have ever heard...
in my whole life!
..humbly thankful to you...W🕯SE
A lot of good advice to live by each day. Thank you.
At 3:43, I think it's "Rowing harder..." not "Growing harder ..."🕊🌺
Yep
Dream bigger than you can imagine, then share that dream .. remember that there are people who live to crush dreams - you don't need their help, for _anything._ Keep sharing your impossible dream, while working towards making it a reality. Along the way, you will find the people who can help you, who will share the dream, or find ways to accomplish it that you couldn't imagine .. but only if you have the courage to share it. The time to start was yesterday. Why are you still sitting there reading comments?
Where is all these friendly folks at. You must live in a different dimension.
@@ahhwe-any7434And you must live surrounded by the wrong "friends". There are good people if you know how to open your heart toward others......if you think that such people don't exist in your "dimension" you must live in the wrong one my friend. To receive love and friendship you need to be able to offer the same first.
“Don’t react cut them off silently” didn’t notice this in the actual video.
I’ve regretted how I loudly cut people off, but I find it weak and passive to not be forthright with others. Sometimes people need (or deserve) to hear they suck & you are actively rejecting them. It’s a matter of honor & honesty IMO.
They already know they "suck" . You cutting them off silently shows them how you are a way better person than them and an educated one as well. There is no better honor than knowing to separate yourself from bad companies and avoid trouble without actually showing off......real men usually stay silent when the fools try to impress by over talking everything and everyone.
This is so uplifting . I have shared and will keep sharing. This has so much to give to so many I'm sure . Thank you for this to whoever shared this x