Once You Learn These Life Lessons, You Will Never Be The Same (Advice From Old People)

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  • @WisdomOfTheAncient1
    @WisdomOfTheAncient1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +281

    I am 88 years old. May everyone reading this message find joy, peace, and abundant blessings in life. Wishing you a bright future filled with success! Amen God Bless You 🙏

    • @almassmahmood8966
      @almassmahmood8966 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Thanks Nice message same to you keep well🍀

    • @liahalsall
      @liahalsall หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Thank you, and you too Sir. 🙏🏻

    • @WisdomOfTheAncient1
      @WisdomOfTheAncient1 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@liahalsall Thank you,God bless You 🙏

    • @krystalbest9001
      @krystalbest9001 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank you

    • @georgeschillinger6299
      @georgeschillinger6299 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      God bless you

  • @thandekambhamali6074
    @thandekambhamali6074 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1188

    "Learn to heal without venting to anyone" Well said

    • @belindahoff9738
      @belindahoff9738 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      ..."to everyone" (instead of 'anyone'😉) is the small correction😊🙋🏼‍♀️🌞

    • @yolz555
      @yolz555 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      I need to learn this

    • @gayathriparthasarathy255
      @gayathriparthasarathy255 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Yes. Venting is a bad defence mechanism. Grandma Gai

    • @riotdejaneiro3650
      @riotdejaneiro3650 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      so well said the the a.i even said it twice in a ten seconds span.. you guys are the true bots.

    • @lillydragu3277
      @lillydragu3277 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@g71612 Look for the transcript. It's right below the Description.

  • @innerprayer
    @innerprayer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +311

    Amen. Whoever is reading this, I wish you endless happiness, unwavering peace, boundless prosperity, perfect health, and countless blessings from above. May your life be filled with joy and your heart with contentment.

  • @mn9120
    @mn9120 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2120

    "If you dont let go of the wrong people, you will never meet the right people."

    • @awatifhassan9365
      @awatifhassan9365 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      So true 😢that’s why starting this week I’m letting it all go. And start fresh.

    • @rswow
      @rswow 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      And remember not to depend too much on them lol. 00:29
      Nevermind that interdependence is innate to us. No one is independent.

    • @silverlaptop2022
      @silverlaptop2022 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      And sadly you might become one of them😳

    • @Dawn-Songs
      @Dawn-Songs 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Also , it can be very difficult to free yourself from despicable "human parasites" who play the sympathy card because they know that you are known to be a " soft touch" as I have always been. I have been drained of emotional and physical energy many times in my life . However I have only realised it fully in recent months . However , it was something that I had to realise for myself and to learn not to feel guilty if I say " No more." I finally asked God , through prayer to help me to recognise those truly in need of my help , both spiritually and physically . I finally realised that my own wisdom was sadly lacking and that I actually needed help myself . Last week , God opened my spiritual eyes and helped me to cut away from a "human leech" whom I have known for quite a few years and the release I feel is enormous . He soon latched onto someone else , who will probably no doubt have to come to realise for themselves . It's a very difficult journey before reaching that stage though.
      James 1 : 5 "If any one of you is lacking in wisdom , let him keep asking God , for he gives generously to all and without reproaching , and it will begiven him."
      While I try to do as Jesus taught and help others , I now know that there has to be a demarcation line to distinguish the genuine ones ... just as Jesus filters our prayers to God , so that some people cannot attempt to take advantage of his undeserved loving kindness . Prayer is a huge privilege which only exists because of Jesus died for our sins and bearing our shame , and to bring us closer to God in our daily lives . 🤍

    • @indigozen4794
      @indigozen4794 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Boom!

  • @jsmithforreal
    @jsmithforreal 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1219

    Small circle, private life and peace of mind 🤞🏾

    • @jps8678
      @jps8678 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Blaa blaa blaa. narrow style of thinking, world is your oyster. All are your brothers and sisters

    • @Vanderofkaren
      @Vanderofkaren 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      How do you cut off that toxic small circle

    • @laken1804
      @laken1804 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @jps8678 Concentrate on your own life and let others live their lives.
      You can't be this naive. With your blaaa sarcasm, you'll be used by cunning individuals.

    • @jps8678
      @jps8678 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@laken1804 Live like you want to. If you like to live in Plato's gave. Same to me.

    • @mightyobserver12
      @mightyobserver12 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol you've met shallow people ​@@jps8678

  • @TyroneMonte-v8k
    @TyroneMonte-v8k 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +362

    If you don't stand up for yourself, no one else will.

    • @KiyanshKiya
      @KiyanshKiya 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Very true 👍

    • @caledonianson927
      @caledonianson927 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yes but some are broken and torn by the pressures of this hellish system we all endure..some need compassion and encouragement to remember who we are.

    • @Official_Wise
      @Official_Wise  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Truth!

    • @noahjuanjuneau9598
      @noahjuanjuneau9598 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      If you don't stand for something,
      you'll fall for anything.
      .

    • @mariavandenbroele9843
      @mariavandenbroele9843 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      No one will help you. 😢😢

  • @Rob-dp3vr
    @Rob-dp3vr 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1516

    "I used to walk into a room and wonder if they would like me. Now I walk into a room and wonder if I will like them"

    • @MaggieWebster-o4r
      @MaggieWebster-o4r 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Stay strong❤

    • @debbiebolek2117
      @debbiebolek2117 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Awesome❤

    • @LoneRider1969
      @LoneRider1969 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Wow, well said..

    • @forgogeorge9806
      @forgogeorge9806 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Perfect that is the best way to observe! Who are you dealing with? If the surrounding or location? Looks unpleasant just walk away from it heck with it "" Don't look back "

    • @VictorianTexas
      @VictorianTexas 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I love this!

  • @danjsilve
    @danjsilve 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1399

    Brilliant. I’ll add one. “If you don’t make time for your health, you will be making time for your sickness”

    • @gayathriparthasarathy255
      @gayathriparthasarathy255 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      It is Morgan Freeman.

    • @Official_Wise
      @Official_Wise  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      true!, thanks for sharing

    • @brynn-kolby5570
      @brynn-kolby5570 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      One I remember on health is: "Healthy people have many dreams. Sick people only have one dream. "

    • @MeeLee3
      @MeeLee3 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Goes for both physical and mental health. Both has to be cured. Nowadays people don't want others to give them advice about bad habits or unmoral living. They want to pretend all is good on their end and becomes agitated if anyone referring to their dark side.

    • @Nanasfsw
      @Nanasfsw 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      True!

  • @fistoflegend1564
    @fistoflegend1564 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    "One day you'll see why God made you wait." ❤️‍🔥

  • @ymrabc
    @ymrabc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +698

    “Don’t react, cut them off silently” took a while to get rid of them and their persistent attempts to contact me, two phone number changes, an email change, a house move and a lot of blocking but being betrayed by a close friend you trusted and loved like a sister is utterly devastating, the only way I could survive that was by pretending they did not exist any more. I just did not want to get sucked back in to their toxicity so I completely removed myself. Looking back now I see how much I allowed myself to be manipulated and what an unequal friendship it really was.

    • @ShaylaC8791
      @ShaylaC8791 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      👍🏽Awesome. You moved with focused intent and with a clear end goal. Good for you. That’s admirable and I respect you for not just half stepping or talking about what you wanted to do. Might be cliche but it’s true. Just do it. And you did.

    • @ρόιεΣισ
      @ρόιεΣισ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      There's nothing worse than being pushed into a corner for years and left there after the same person who pushed you there doesn't want or feels your need for them to follow through and lend you their hand in pulling you back out.

    • @mimime5376
      @mimime5376 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Gave my everything….received nothing. Live and learn! 😊❤️🙏🏼

    • @katiebiega8070
      @katiebiega8070 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Happens too most of us.
      You've learned an important lesson. Me too 😊

    • @maxsheerin8219
      @maxsheerin8219 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I have someone like that, stalking and harrassing me and my family because I told her a few home truths and dumped her. Nobody dunps her and gets away with it😂. Every single time, I phone the police and I firmly intend to keep going until she is charged. She has complaints the length of my arm now. I will never move, change number or anything else for a frienemy. I told the police if they dont do sonething with her, I will take the law into my own hands myself and not even her kids will recognise her. Im done with abuse.

  • @jeepgurl1379
    @jeepgurl1379 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1205

    To all the single people out there looking for your lifelong mate,…”If people treat you like an option, LEAVE THEM like a choice”.👏🏽

    • @p7estates
      @p7estates 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      💯

    • @flowerbeehoney4113
      @flowerbeehoney4113 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      👍

    • @JarvisBlay-wd3ms
      @JarvisBlay-wd3ms 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Exactly 💯💯💯 They the wrong people aren't worth the time

    • @rayc9899
      @rayc9899 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Never try to please and try to hard on your first date or with anyone new in your life... be yourself and you choose them IF you feel o.k. with him, you make the choice NOT him. PERIOD

    • @lisescheiman5092
      @lisescheiman5092 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Long ago, my Dad cautioned me. It's inaccurate, unreliable, to guess and assign what we PERCIEVE Another's feelings or motivation to be.
      It seems to me, the more tragic, to make severing decisions on a mistaken impression 😂❤❤❤

  • @trg3761
    @trg3761 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +195

    When someone betrays you, it's not the stab in the back that kills you.
    It's when you turn around and see who is holding the knife.
    Believe it or not betrayal does not come from your enemies, it comes from the people closest to you..

    • @kimyoung3484
      @kimyoung3484 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😢😢😢😢💔

    • @FannyNkhoma
      @FannyNkhoma 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's true 🙏wise words am encouraged 🙏💯

    • @judifitzsimmons3640
      @judifitzsimmons3640 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That is so true.

    • @annepulvirenti402
      @annepulvirenti402 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your guard isn't up to people you believe love and trust, so get caught totally unawares😮.

    • @TerriYoung-m4c
      @TerriYoung-m4c 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm not sure.. don't be afraid says or does. Be afraid of how you how you react! Cuz your enemy can become your friend. Are you friends to become your enemy! Choose wisely

  • @RD12349
    @RD12349 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1036

    Bad friends ruin lives. Anyone who introduces you to bad habits, drama, gossip and cut you from family is not your friend but enemy.

    • @sharihere8809
      @sharihere8809 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Truth, 100%

    • @bryanutility9609
      @bryanutility9609 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Misery loves company. I won’t enable bad habits in others & have had to cut people lose who only wanted sympathy & validation of their weakness.

    • @patsiebentley111
      @patsiebentley111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Well said 🥀

    • @bellamina1957
      @bellamina1957 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      When it is your DIL that's when you can lose a son.

    • @rayc9899
      @rayc9899 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Love the one (work at your job to make a living; work on yourself and make a fortune)...WOW that is profound and so true cause at the end you only can count on a loving, fresh, well educate on life, yourself. Big hug and happiness everybody...

  • @tae_locdin
    @tae_locdin 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +760

    My personal favorite that always seems to ring true is: "When people show you who they are, believe them the first time." - Maya Angelou

    • @Mayousse
      @Mayousse 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Mine too. 🙏🏿🌷

    • @MakeAdifference-fi5jr
      @MakeAdifference-fi5jr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly 💯 those are my sentiments to the point 👉

    • @barbaraadelman2391
      @barbaraadelman2391 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That's my mantra.....

    • @MakeAdifference-fi5jr
      @MakeAdifference-fi5jr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@barbaraadelman2391 exactly, shared sentiments. 😇

    • @noobsaibot5285
      @noobsaibot5285 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Very true, especially since the pandemic and rise of the woke mind virus

  • @WiseAdvice93
    @WiseAdvice93 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    Whoever is reading this comment, I wish you all the best in your life. May light fill your life. May God guide you to prosperity!

    • @Christina-yw7go
      @Christina-yw7go 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      More Blessings back at you,thank you

    • @MarcinVoyager
      @MarcinVoyager 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      AI read this.

    • @doaaradwan-81
      @doaaradwan-81 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

    • @BenjaminPadilla-d6q
      @BenjaminPadilla-d6q 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤

    • @vickykyengo4830
      @vickykyengo4830 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen and Amen 🙏❤

  • @tmoln2131
    @tmoln2131 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +750

    "Never say anything about someone to another person you would not say to that someone face to face" My mother's advice, which has served me well.

    • @ADISTOD3MUS
      @ADISTOD3MUS 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Your mother teaches you well.🤍

    • @terrymcdermott8320
      @terrymcdermott8320 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Great motherly advice ❤

    • @PhyllisJohnson-lr9bq
      @PhyllisJohnson-lr9bq 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Your Mom, wisely speaks truth and you are wise in heeding it ✝️❤️

    • @nayalashasta1142
      @nayalashasta1142 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      In other terms
      Unless they are potentially harmful, only say to someone, face2face, what you think of them,.

    • @Tracey-Star
      @Tracey-Star 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      True, a mitch relative overheard me talking about him and he's still stalking and harassing me 12 years later ...you never know who has a screw loose.

  • @LifeLessonsforWomen
    @LifeLessonsforWomen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +626

    Yes, walk away in silence once you figure out who you're dealing with! Know your worth!

    • @SD-wj9yo
      @SD-wj9yo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      👌

    • @_Lazare
      @_Lazare 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Time heals tho it works both ways ! Leave gracefully and achieve

    • @VB-lc4xz
      @VB-lc4xz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@_Lazare Nope. Time heals only what can be healed. Some things can't.

    • @_Lazare
      @_Lazare 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@VB-lc4xz
      I won't argued that
      👍

    • @SLIM_DICKINSON
      @SLIM_DICKINSON 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Narcissist is my ex wife

  • @genad6615
    @genad6615 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    “Time always exposes what you truly mean to someone”… that hurt.

    • @firoza001
      @firoza001 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Don't be hurt.Your good times are coming trust God

  • @jerrytux5246
    @jerrytux5246 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1232

    I like a saying I read years ago - "Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not in fact just surrounded by arseholes."

    • @realmetatron
      @realmetatron 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      I learned this 30 years too late XD

    • @susanbrooks3337
      @susanbrooks3337 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      Always be with people who celebrate you..not tolerate you..

    • @sonflowersue.CHOOSE.L0VE
      @sonflowersue.CHOOSE.L0VE 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      I learned this in my late twenties. I got away from all those people and started to feel better about myself. Married a man who loves me for who I am.Two hearts became one on Valentines Day 35 years ago.
      ❤ + ❤ = ❤

    • @incognito595
      @incognito595 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      That is immensely insightful.Yes.

    • @amandaa3713
      @amandaa3713 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@realmetatron Feel better. I learned this A LOT Later than you.

  • @june2261x
    @june2261x 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +624

    My lovely dad used to say Never lower your standards to other peoples.

    • @muddyshoesgardener
      @muddyshoesgardener 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s how I am surviving. I learned to lower my expectations. Sad but useful information.

    • @andreakeener6378
      @andreakeener6378 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      My little sister on her Long Goodbye journey through Alzheimer’s heard me talk about the new man in my life. “Sounds like you’re settling.”
      Don’t settle in life your life for anything. Know your worth. 🙏🏼

    • @sisteroflight
      @sisteroflight 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Never settle or lower your standards to anyone who refuses to rise up to your high standards!!!

    • @gassyalways
      @gassyalways 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @gios7409
      @gios7409 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's very self-centered & self-absorbed kind of thing... heard of compromise?

  • @srosarag
    @srosarag 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    “There will always be someone who doesn’t see your worth; Don’t let it be you” it hit home, like dam.

  • @alphamale3141
    @alphamale3141 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +626

    I’m approaching 77. Many of the thoughts stated in this video are supremely accurate. I had to learn many of the truths stated in this video the hard way - trial and error. Any young person should write down every thought expressed in this video and place the list on the mirror that you use each morning to prepare yourself for the upcoming day and read at least one thought before leaving your house or apartment.

    • @amandakiernan3374
      @amandakiernan3374 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Wise words. Godbless you and thank you.

    • @vicz8899
      @vicz8899 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I don't know if it would help. These have to be learned the hard way.

    • @earth6275
      @earth6275 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Me too I had to learn the hard way

    • @ronniecupp6778
      @ronniecupp6778 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Me too, must be something about 77

    • @mariach46
      @mariach46 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      I'm 54 and still learning

  • @graceblessing1591
    @graceblessing1591 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +211

    Don’t get burned twice by the same flame 🔥 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
    Powerful quote 🙏🏾

    • @TheButlerNZ
      @TheButlerNZ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Beware of naked flames (Especially naked old flames). (not mine, probably an old fax joke... ok yes I'm that old)

    • @patsiebentley111
      @patsiebentley111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nicely said 🌺

    • @belindamartinez8441
      @belindamartinez8441 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ughhhh
      I got burned twice by the same jerk.
      Yea I know, my fault🙄
      My fault for trusting, helping, 2nd chance, etc...🙄

    • @barbaramudakureva5846
      @barbaramudakureva5846 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen to this powerful quote

    • @lifejourney7804
      @lifejourney7804 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah thats right, dont get burned twice by the same flame in the fires 🔥 of hell.💪

  • @FrançoisRacicot-u4d
    @FrançoisRacicot-u4d 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +99

    Don’t do the impossible for someone who doesn’t do the possible for you.

    • @mariavandenbroele9843
      @mariavandenbroele9843 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes . Thank you
      This is so much... too much for me.
      I shall ✍✍✍✍ this down.

    • @CRSeMotive
      @CRSeMotive 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    • @MrTeetime
      @MrTeetime 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good one.

  • @Soothsounds4U
    @Soothsounds4U 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +287

    I had to let go of a 6 year friendship once I realized she had to find “room” on her calendar to make time for me. I was by her side for her moments of illness as well as happiness. It’s my turn in life with regards to dealing with illness. Her absence speaks volumes in and of itself. When people treat you like an option, leave them like a choice. Moving on and seeking genuine

    • @redlotusqueen
      @redlotusqueen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You deserve better. Let her go. Better people will enter your life .

    • @Soothsounds4U
      @Soothsounds4U 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@redlotusqueen thank you 🙏🏻

    • @Wuwei72-o5n
      @Wuwei72-o5n 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      It happened to me not only with one but with all my so-called friends, it's crazy that in reality in the end you can't count on anyone. Sometimes I regret the time I spent with them but maybe it's just a necessary process that needed to happen. It's as if people simply no longer have a sense of loyalty, or even honor.

    • @nicolekollman
      @nicolekollman 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      amen

    • @cheryl1909
      @cheryl1909 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤God has separated you for better things--❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ draw closer to juses as juses is the true light --- juses will guide you and bring you peace❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤God Bless❤❤❤❤ YOU ARE GODS CHOSEN ONE--- ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ❤❤❤

  • @nancylamb1117
    @nancylamb1117 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +292

    This is like a conversation with my Dad. Don't trust anyone who proves they can't be trustworthy.

    • @42smash36
      @42smash36 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      and how do you know they're trustworthy

    • @hex4461
      @hex4461 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@42smash36 If you don't know, then they are not. Use the force my young Padawan.

    • @Ashnesss
      @Ashnesss 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That should include him too

    • @ciaranclancy3296
      @ciaranclancy3296 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @nancylamb 1117..... As Our Blessed Lord Jesus 🙏 once said to his Apostles, "I Trust No Man, because I Know All Men", 😀

  • @taebond007
    @taebond007 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    “If you get tired, learn to rest not to quit”
    💜💜💜💜

  • @anniebo8535
    @anniebo8535 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +341

    "Sometimes we create our own heartbreak through expectations" . Wow! Thanks

    • @X-Factor-22
      @X-Factor-22 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      That’s why it’s wise to lower them.

    • @andreaholmes180
      @andreaholmes180 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      There's a scripture that says..." expectation postponed makes the heart sick". Amazing

    • @donrios3728
      @donrios3728 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Ya my hearts been broke about 10 times...

    • @X-Factor-22
      @X-Factor-22 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@donrios3728
      Just take notes and learn from the experience so you can break the cycle!
      There’s always hope my friend and it starts from within.👍🏾

    • @X-Factor-22
      @X-Factor-22 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@andreaholmes180
      👍🏾🙏🏾

  • @carolf9302
    @carolf9302 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +198

    Another good one I read somewhere: When people show you who they are, believe them.

    • @rj9617
      @rj9617 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Excellent

    • @juniper5438
      @juniper5438 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      That was the wonderful Maya Angelou. And wise words to live by.

    • @catherinethompson2525
      @catherinethompson2525 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly true

    • @sisteroflight
      @sisteroflight 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      When people show you who they are the first time, believe them.
      Maya Angelou
      Many people leave those 3 words out...
      " the first time".
      What she meant was they should not have to show you who they truly are repeatedly!
      God bless,Namaste'🙏😇💙

    • @barbpaq
      @barbpaq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And sometimes they tell you who they are..and if they do, believe them.

  • @ancientmage2669
    @ancientmage2669 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    " STAY CALM- YOU'VE BEEN THROUGH THIS BEFORE, You'll get through it again😊

    • @Lise7-7-7
      @Lise7-7-7 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But why are you going through it again?

  • @gthofalcon3546
    @gthofalcon3546 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +186

    I was always worrying about what others thought, once I stopped worrying, that's when I truly started living.

    • @EastCoastGal66
      @EastCoastGal66 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly!

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

    • @Ashnesss
      @Ashnesss 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I never worried about what others thought and didn’t give a shit. But there were psychos everywhere panicking just by the fact that I exist. People who over react or react to my existence and presence aren’t made for me. They’re not natural. They can’t handle me. I’m not made for people who can’t handle me.

    • @MikeBurris-b1u
      @MikeBurris-b1u 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m struggling with that and have been for 41 years. Even tho I say idc when I get alone I let their opinions matter 🤬🤬🤬

    • @barbpaq
      @barbpaq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Human respect

  • @l.c838
    @l.c838 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +260

    Health is definitely wealth ❤

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

    • @MarieColbert-k8k
      @MarieColbert-k8k 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

  • @idget600
    @idget600 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    You have zero control over what is thrown at you - you have absolute control over your response.

    • @phoenixfireclusterbomb
      @phoenixfireclusterbomb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You have limited control over your response as some options aren’t available to you.

    • @alexp6581
      @alexp6581 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But for that you have to have a control over your emotions first.

    • @CRSeMotive
      @CRSeMotive 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely true

    • @NinaAndrew-fp1sd
      @NinaAndrew-fp1sd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It takes courage.

    • @viktorpaulsen627
      @viktorpaulsen627 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If you have no control of yourself. You have absolute control of your response. What?

  • @trueheart8739
    @trueheart8739 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +210

    “The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why”… powerful!!!

    • @patsiebentley111
      @patsiebentley111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Nicely said 🌺

    • @email6743
      @email6743 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus said marvel not, you must be born again to enter the kingdom.. Selah

    • @BobDobson-uq1jp
      @BobDobson-uq1jp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I read that one differently " The two most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day you find a way out." Oops 😅

    • @sommernetek7035
      @sommernetek7035 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'm still waiting on the why

    • @VMM34
      @VMM34 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Only if you're delusional and assign yourself an importance that doesn't exist. We all know people like that

  • @Tutume1111
    @Tutume1111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +201

    "Learn to heal without venting to others" The best advice I could hear.Thank you! 😊

    • @susaniype9261
      @susaniype9261 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Correct

    • @ρόιεΣισ
      @ρόιεΣισ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That's what friends are for . Not others .. friends

    • @Tutume1111
      @Tutume1111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@ρόιεΣισ friends may likely not be one's therapist and may not have skills nor knowledge to actually provide that emotional support or guidance when needed

    • @ρόιεΣισ
      @ρόιεΣισ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Tutume1111
      Venting to friends is a stand out a lending ear , compared to Venting to others.... who need not be a therapist but are needed to be there just a freind .. yadi yada.. +++

    • @gill2689
      @gill2689 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I've always lived by that. Your own counsel is the best counsel. Besides nobody listens nowadays anyway. Can't get a word in edgeways...so full of themselves. Of course there were always people inclined to be like that but now it's everywhere.

  • @LouiseVanHeerden-mo9sh
    @LouiseVanHeerden-mo9sh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    My son of 26 years died suddenly due to after effects of vehicle accident, while my grandson was 11 months old. It was difficult but I thank God for giving me, my son for 26 years. I almost lost him at birth, but He heard my prayers, that day. Life hasn't been easy lost my father and brother to suicide as well. Thank Him for what you have, these events have taught me and made me a better person! Job lost 11 children and all his possessions in one day. NEVER did he curse or question God!

    • @bobbarker1798
      @bobbarker1798 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sorry, but that story of the devil and God playing tricks on Job killed my faith.

    • @joeschmo7957
      @joeschmo7957 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I would like you to KNOW... with all due respect I can muster... I love you, sweetheart. I send you a warm embrace and a shoulder to cry on and my most sincere and reverent prayers and anything else you need that I've not added here. Across these cyber miles, you are my delightful and wonderful ladyfriend. And I'm here to tell you that. My struggles are real, yet a scant drop in the bucket on a hot summer day. You've given me hope here and now, and I might say to many others who read what you posted. May God bless you and yours and all you hold dear, rich and full and running over.

  • @Rob-dp3vr
    @Rob-dp3vr 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +409

    I tell my friend's teenage sons "be a mystery. Don't tell everyone your business. Don't say what you can do or what you will do. Don't tell everyone what's on your mind all the time. Most Don't really care. Make people wonder what you're doing. What you're thinking. Sneak up on them with your achievements. Let them realize you've been busy being happy. Busy learning. Busy achieving. It takes pressure off of you, makes people want more from you. Then stun them with what you have achieved in silence."

    • @BLESSINGHOPEANGEL12816
      @BLESSINGHOPEANGEL12816 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Great advice!👌🏽👍🏽

    • @Bev-bw4cb
      @Bev-bw4cb 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      They won't be stunned, only more envious.

    • @monazimmerman7559
      @monazimmerman7559 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I love this! Thank you for your words of wisdom!

    • @M27S777
      @M27S777 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      👏🏻

    • @annmariesmith5044
      @annmariesmith5044 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My mum said that Ur health is Ur wealth 🙏

  • @AZ-ww4ok
    @AZ-ww4ok 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +210

    "There will ALWAYS be someone who doesn't see your worth. DON'T LET IT BE YOU!!!!"✝️ 🫂 💛

  • @GodLOVES_you1437
    @GodLOVES_you1437 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    “Tell the truth, you don’t have to remember anything” that’s a word for the world !

  • @childofdestiny2811
    @childofdestiny2811 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +138

    “ there will always be someone who doubts you’re worth. Don’t let it be you.” Yes!

  • @shajucoconnelly865
    @shajucoconnelly865 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    If you tell the truth you don’t have to remember anything. Great statement.....Amen!

    • @TishMclain
      @TishMclain 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's one of my favorite quotes n So True

    • @paularob2829
      @paularob2829 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Judge Judy always says this😊

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@TishMclainAMEN AMEN, Me 2🎉

    • @TheHeinrichSymposium
      @TheHeinrichSymposium 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Unless you are arrested by the secret police of a totalitarian regime.

  • @davewhiteside6698
    @davewhiteside6698 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    "Get yourself right with God, while you still have the time"

  • @janycebrown4071
    @janycebrown4071 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +210

    Forgive yourself ❤ Let go of the past ❤Now is all we truly have ❤

    • @TheButlerNZ
      @TheButlerNZ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If your not prepared to make reparation, how can you accept your own forgiveness

    • @joyceanderson8648
      @joyceanderson8648 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TheButlerNZ You do not have to forgive or forget only for yourself that you might have wronged. Make reparations are only due to yourself not others. Leave the past in the past!

  • @tracyurueta7611
    @tracyurueta7611 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +181

    "If people treat you like an option, leave them like a choice."
    That one resonated, because I've allowed some to treat me that way....like I'm an option. I don't have time for them anymore.

    • @sharihere8809
      @sharihere8809 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @tracyurueta7611
      Your comment is the best one I read here. . acknowledging that we get treated the way we allow others to treat us. I too have no time for that nonsense nor them anymore

    • @luzcarroll
      @luzcarroll 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Well said.

    • @gayathriparthasarathy255
      @gayathriparthasarathy255 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Love this one. Tit for tat

    • @fawtyseven5516
      @fawtyseven5516 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You've got to entirely get off that mess so you can start receiving and going forward. I swear, when you do it fully, stuff just falls in your lap that you desired.

    • @fawtyseven5516
      @fawtyseven5516 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sharihere8809 And the people that are supposed to be there just come out of nowhere. It's surreal sometimes...gotttdamn I just got watery eyes right now. lol

  • @kelechiokafor-ql3jh
    @kelechiokafor-ql3jh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Even your own shadow leaves you when you are in darkness. Truth that covers it all

  • @minxella12
    @minxella12 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +233

    I wish I understood many of these concepts in my youth.

    • @adamfreeman2348
      @adamfreeman2348 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      But then you would not have been a youth perhaps?

    • @minxella12
      @minxella12 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@adamfreeman2348 However it would have saved me a bit of heartache!

    • @Hypocricy_rules_supreme
      @Hypocricy_rules_supreme 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@adamfreeman2348 So true. Youth is for making errors and learning fast and hard to recover from them and avoid those traps.

    • @leavemyrightsalone
      @leavemyrightsalone 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@adamfreeman2348 Precisely!!! We should all enjoy our childhoods..

    • @diannebass1051
      @diannebass1051 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don’t we all but , that is called growing .

  • @timcisneros1351
    @timcisneros1351 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +239

    Be the Hero of your own life. Not a victim of it. The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek. 68 year old Grandfather here. I surround myself with people who make me smile. I live in the present and I look forward to tomorrows adventure. True joy comes from struggling toward a goal and overcoming challenges. If you concentrate on the destination you miss out on 98% of your life.

    • @gayathriparthasarathy255
      @gayathriparthasarathy255 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Well said, Tim.

    • @platinemwenya8934
      @platinemwenya8934 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thanks Tim, your words make me feel alright and strong 😊

    • @Trick-Framed
      @Trick-Framed 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is your advice and how you feel through hindsight as it's always 20/20. I'd rather hear the mistakes you made and how you overcame them and the history surrounding where you grew up to better understand why you made said choices. The cave I fear to enter does not hold anything I want. It is wholly evil and to enter it is to forever alter myself in ways I can never come back from. You cannot unpickle a pickle. I get you're 68, but before you dole out advice, please, realize who you are giving what advice to.

    • @timcisneros1351
      @timcisneros1351 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @ccoonansr I guess I could tell you about my recovery from alcoholism (1988)and my 35 year marriage to my sweet wife. The loss of my business during the financial crisis of 2009 and losing almost everything. Going on the road for almost a year working in a city 250 miles from my family to support them but in 2016 buying our first property after renting for 40 years. How we are nearing completion of our mountain lodge style cabin to retire to built with our own hands completely debt free. It will all be in the book! Ha! (When I have some free time!)

    • @Trick-Framed
      @Trick-Framed 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@timcisneros1351 Now THAT sounds like an epic read. If you do in fact write a book, I will be happy to read it.

  • @fire12731
    @fire12731 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Love this. I’m struggling badly with my depression and fear. Praying for strength to hang on

  • @GymGarageMan
    @GymGarageMan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +217

    Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing pushups on paint cans pullups on beams got ripped af at 53 years old!!!

    • @CatGirl-ny8dw
      @CatGirl-ny8dw 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Just checked your channel garageman brutal training keep it up grandpa💪

    • @ADISTOD3MUS
      @ADISTOD3MUS 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I started doing CrossFit at 41 years old 2 months ago. My life took a strong turn and I feel better in every aspect of my life. I still need to work in being more responsible towards my family (mother, brother, father) and trying to spend more time with them really. 20 years ago I left my home in the search for a better life 4000+km away from them, I was just a kid still and I learned all what this video says by myself the hard way....but I don't feel sorry for nothing and the best it yet to come since I opened my eyes so much in this world and truly learned what matters most.....is the family.🤍💪

    • @sazmc7642
      @sazmc7642 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      And you prove it on your channel garageman subbed👊

    • @invisableobserver
      @invisableobserver 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Consider yourself a late bloomer but not too old. I am 64, it takes more weight & reps to build muscle after 60, plus it is more difficult to get motivated to work out.

    • @mrnice7570
      @mrnice7570 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I'm 43 and just starting now to practice standards, saying no and getting jacked. This was pure inspiration to me

  • @AS-gf5jn
    @AS-gf5jn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +129

    Almost 50 and the number one piece of advice I have to a younger me is "Show me your friends and I'll show you your Future."
    Take heed youngens.

    • @Official_Wise
      @Official_Wise  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you for your sharing!

    • @westcoastbred7745
      @westcoastbred7745 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No friends. I will be alone😂

    • @felinasecrets6191
      @felinasecrets6191 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This generation is doomed.

    • @email6743
      @email6743 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@felinasecrets6191every generation said the SAME exact thing! Where is your faith? Sigh

    • @cryptogcrypto
      @cryptogcrypto 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is so true

  • @pebblessladebedrockinc.9506
    @pebblessladebedrockinc.9506 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Here's one I taught my now adult kids, when they were little:
    "How you treat ppl now, is how you'll be treated later". ❤

  • @JacquelineOuma
    @JacquelineOuma 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    The best decision ever for cutting people who betrayed, manipulated,abused n brought their toxic energy to my life

  • @ericmohler5609
    @ericmohler5609 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    If you don’t control your mind, someone else will.
    Gave me goosebumps. So true.
    Excellent thought-provoking quotes. Thank you.

  • @KrishanGhosh-be1wu
    @KrishanGhosh-be1wu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1133

    If you ever listen to anything while reading comments, let it be this - go to borlest and read the book whispers of manifestation, then come back and thank me

    • @andredarin8966
      @andredarin8966 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      How about this: Consider the possibility that the human brain is the greatest creation in the entire Universe. If you can become quiet and listen to its "whispers"--its counsel--you don't need "manifestation", you don't need a book on "manifestation", and you won't have to thank anyone, except the creator that gave you such a powerful and loyal ally.
      Most importantly, you won't have to pay $12.95 for an ebook that makes the same vapid claims: "ancient secrets shrouded in mystery" and the key "to unlocking the power of manifestation"--a book that is "forbidden" and which "transcends conventional knowledge".

    • @FloydtashaJohnson
      @FloydtashaJohnson 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And look here I am trying to turn my life around from being like the way of the world I was on my way to purchase the book and would have come back to thank her. But after seeing your response made more sense to me all I have to do is seek it within yahweh holy word. Just wanted to think you andredarine8966. May God continue to bless you ❤ Godbless

    • @Phoenixkb222
      @Phoenixkb222 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for what? We should help each other was unconditional love and not be so egotistical as to expect thanks. Only a narcissist would say what you said...thanks.

    • @bobbarker1798
      @bobbarker1798 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      For what?

  • @riprappinronnie
    @riprappinronnie 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    Extending yourself to help others with no expectation clears the path of thorns like a perfect wind

    • @jps8678
      @jps8678 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Remember to take oxygen mask first for yourself. After that you can help others.

  • @perlacamarista32
    @perlacamarista32 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    I keep trusting God.🙏♥️

    • @gwarlow
      @gwarlow 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Keep on living in the clouds. It seems to be working for you. 😊

    • @mandre6488
      @mandre6488 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's just wishful thinking.

    • @judycrisenbery2982
      @judycrisenbery2982 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      God won't let you down. I know this from experience

    • @Mayousse
      @Mayousse 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amen 🙏🏿

    • @naturalbeauty4734
      @naturalbeauty4734 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@mandre6488Almighty God is REAL!!! 🤗🙏

  • @moonshine9902
    @moonshine9902 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Its liberating when you have no expectations. Just live in the moment and always "be kind"

  • @karinaf9456
    @karinaf9456 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Is the world really this cruel? There is goodness in the world. I'm working on boundaries to protect myself. Better late than never, right?
    Love & light to all!

    • @auberjean6873
      @auberjean6873 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      To you as well.

    • @DSW-dq5bx
      @DSW-dq5bx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Had to learn that one the hard way. If more people had healthy boundaries, the manipulators of the world would be quite lonely or only be allowed to feed upon themselves 😂

    • @yolandabrinkman2653
      @yolandabrinkman2653 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Cut out anyone who brings negativity into your life. Worked for me

  • @yvettepitts5467
    @yvettepitts5467 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    My favorite: If People Treat You Like An Option, Leave Them Like A Choice!! I love it!

    • @fridge3489
      @fridge3489 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I keep seeing this one posted, but I don't get it.

    • @yvettepitts5467
      @yvettepitts5467 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@fridge3489 I don't understand; what don't you get?

    • @caroletta451
      @caroletta451 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@fridge3489 You are an option in this person's life. They can TAKE you or LEAVE you. They don't care either way about you so YOU make the CHOICE to LEAVE them and move on with out them in your life.

  • @LauraSodbinow
    @LauraSodbinow 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    My dad used to tell me "time has a way of telling on people." The older i get the more i understand and appreciate his words of wisdom more and more.

  • @jackreston8188
    @jackreston8188 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +210

    We need to hear this when we are young, not when we have already made all of these mistakes.

    • @putonthewholearmorofgod1123
      @putonthewholearmorofgod1123 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Sometimes people don't hear until they have made the mistake. It's OK. Everyone learns by their own terms. ❤

    • @ma3stro681
      @ma3stro681 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Young people wouldn’t listen. They already know everything … 😂

    • @AmeriGlobal
      @AmeriGlobal 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@ma3stro681 young people don't want to be around cynical old people.

    • @Rabswood296
      @Rabswood296 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Sadly we only learn through our own mistakes

    • @ubongosahihi
      @ubongosahihi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But we are the best ❤❤❤❤

  • @funkymunky
    @funkymunky 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    "There will always be someone who won't see your worth. Don't let that person be you."

  • @shimirose
    @shimirose 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Fear is temporary, regret is forever. Love this!

  • @patricianewman5336
    @patricianewman5336 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    God will provide. It is His timing. He can see what we can't see.

    • @9155Darkhorse
      @9155Darkhorse 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "HE" is neither male, nor is it a person. It is your own soul talking to you. "God" is the life force within us all. If you learn to listen to your subconscoius, you will be guided by God 🫶

    • @charlesheck6812
      @charlesheck6812 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@9155DarkhorseIsn’t it great to construct a “god” according to your own autonomous speculation? that way, you’re only accountable to your own vain imagination. and hopefully, nobody is accountable to you, for their own sake.

    • @email6743
      @email6743 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You should have shared His words in scripture then..

    • @trishspinazola287
      @trishspinazola287 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @patricianewman5336
      Amen🙏🏻♥️

    • @christinebeames712
      @christinebeames712 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      His timing sucks

  • @khaveirou5755
    @khaveirou5755 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    If u don't let go the wrong people you will never met the right person well said

  • @sooticablue1664
    @sooticablue1664 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    My mum used to say it doesn’t matter what you do, what matters is the reason you done it.

  • @LailaBartolome
    @LailaBartolome 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Action speaks louder than words

  • @claradiaz3147
    @claradiaz3147 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    "To be whom you have never been you must do what you have never done."
    - Marcus Aurelius

    • @42smash36
      @42smash36 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      see that cliff over there? heard it's a quick one, you've never done it

    • @philjerwil7
      @philjerwil7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@42smash36 Are you suggesting to, jump?

    • @joyceanderson8648
      @joyceanderson8648 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@philjerwil7 They were but sarcastically I hope. 🙏

  • @roryasuncion
    @roryasuncion 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    When you get tired, learn to rest, not to quit ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jennifere4641
    @jennifere4641 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +701

    5 years ago, April 2019....I was in month 9 of the silent treatment by my husband. Covid appeared, verbal abuse, I planned my departure. Left in April 2021.
    Happily on my own for 3 years now. 🌈🌈🌈✨✨✨
    Nevertheless, I am acutely aware that there are so many people suffering much worse....
    Forever grateful to my GOD, he gave me a new start in my 50s 🙏🙏🙏

    • @Anne-fi2tc
      @Anne-fi2tc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      ❤❤❤

    • @gregflores8959
      @gregflores8959 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are u bi?

    • @lance7973
      @lance7973 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      Takes a long time to plan an exit strategy and pull apart. In 2004, I decided to leave my partner. He had no idea of my decision. I kept it between me and my therapist. About nine months later, I left. No regrets whatsoever. I’m now married. It’s not perfect, but relationships never are. Still, though, the good far outweighs the bad.

    • @rwaneuin6259
      @rwaneuin6259 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      I thought I knew my spouse until I realised all his lies... he even lies for something so trivial, so what is not a lie? Four years single now, my heart has no regret.

    • @SuperJohntoo
      @SuperJohntoo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Well done you, good luck going forward

  • @SheilaDay-k6q
    @SheilaDay-k6q 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    Just be real, it saves everyone's time. All of these life lessons are so true. Thank you for sharing them!

    • @ceeemm1901
      @ceeemm1901 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just be yourself? But most people are naturally dicks!

    • @veganforever9703
      @veganforever9703 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What do U mean

  • @mr.nuna916
    @mr.nuna916 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +112

    Ive always told my son:
    "A healthy man wants many things, but a sick man.... wants only one".

    • @barbpaq
      @barbpaq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      If you don't have your health you don't have anything.

  • @cherrycox4975
    @cherrycox4975 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +171

    The People you love are the people who will hurt you most...

    • @mirnadoherty7767
      @mirnadoherty7767 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Unfortunately 😢

    • @patriciajohnson6434
      @patriciajohnson6434 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      They are the only ones who CAN really hurt you. Why? Because it is unexpected.

    • @bbrcummins1984
      @bbrcummins1984 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      👍✌️

    • @abodemetto8127
      @abodemetto8127 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Life lessons number 1.

    • @Ahmiseysoh75
      @Ahmiseysoh75 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's the truth

  • @daveshaw5293
    @daveshaw5293 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    'If people dont like you - its probably because your doing something well and they cant '

  • @bartholetbay412
    @bartholetbay412 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1589

    A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient

    • @elladonaldson-lh6nc
      @elladonaldson-lh6nc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without him, I love him so much. wish I can get him back I can do anything to have him back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @bartholetbay412
      @bartholetbay412 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters

    • @bartholetbay412
      @bartholetbay412 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      You wont regret it

    • @JeffBallard-u8m
      @JeffBallard-u8m 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yes amen!!!

    • @JamesAlexander14
      @JamesAlexander14 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Give and take is the yin and yang or cement of Human partnerships. Understanding is what the Yin and Yang of life pivot around.

  • @keshkepital7556
    @keshkepital7556 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I’ve shared this video with my 13y old daughter. The earlier the lessons of life will be learned the most overwhelming results somebody can take out of it.

    • @pritt-i3r
      @pritt-i3r 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She's so lucky

    • @Official_Wise
      @Official_Wise  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      thanks for your sharing!

  • @cabforwardooo9983
    @cabforwardooo9983 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I went to college with someone over 50 years ago, and our lives followed the same path. His name is Pete. We ended up working for the same large corporation, and in school and at work I always had the feeling that he thought of me as a rival rather than a friend. We had a mutual friend that he was particularly close to, and the three of us would occasionally go out for drinks together. One time Pete couldn't make it and I began talking about him, saying that he was the oldest friend I had. He responded by saying that Pete was not my friend, and from then on I realized that my instincts were correct. I kept my distance after that.

  • @LeeIsLovingLife
    @LeeIsLovingLife 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    "The value of time becomes evident when it's gone; use it wisely".
    So live every moment as if it were your last.

    • @ADISTOD3MUS
      @ADISTOD3MUS 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly right 💯%. and the most important thing is keeping in contact with your family as much as you can..... when they are gone is when you realize how much they meant to you.🤍

    • @joyceanderson8648
      @joyceanderson8648 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ADISTOD3MUS For most people that is the case yes. Not everyone has a good family.

  • @enanigezahegn9423
    @enanigezahegn9423 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    "We fall, we break, we fail, but then we rise, we heal, we overcome "🙏

    • @KCfan1587-r2u
      @KCfan1587-r2u 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      not always...people do commit suicide. life gets unbearable at times.....can't get your head above water. some people have charmed lives......things go their way....always landing on their feet......some not so much. death looks better .....life sucks......

    • @barbarah.3056
      @barbarah.3056 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Work hard an think positive let go if the shitty past i know I've been there an it can suck but can get better with money an get money by workin for it an savin all u can an find ppl. Who do the same thing! U can learn alot from hard workin ppl. Good luck keep the faith no matter what too..

  • @andriyatomick9732
    @andriyatomick9732 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Glory to God forever
    thank for everything in my life

  • @dianerosegrecoallen4935
    @dianerosegrecoallen4935 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +251

    Some of the best times in life haven’t happened yet 🙌

    • @MaryBywaters
      @MaryBywaters 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I loved that one.

    • @camillabartlett9128
      @camillabartlett9128 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yes
      Patience is a virtue
      Good times are just around the corner

    • @SoulfulJourney58
      @SoulfulJourney58 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly, it is tomorrow

    • @DonnyNoMarie
      @DonnyNoMarie 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wish that were true, but I doubt it.

    • @p7estates
      @p7estates 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That was good news.

  • @kellyshomemadekitchen
    @kellyshomemadekitchen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    This is exactly what I needed to hear this morning and to have Morgan Freeman narrating just made it even better. Thank you for posting this.

  • @MarkVincent-h7q
    @MarkVincent-h7q 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    A saying which was passed on to me..."Forgiving IS NOT forgetting...it's letting go of the hurt." Another..."Grief is love with no where to go ... find someone to love." Peace to all...

  • @lilray7210
    @lilray7210 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +554

    I don't waste my time trying to please hypocritical people that are never satisfied and don't appreciate me as a person. I only live to please GOD.

    • @MoniqueangeliqueLumpkin
      @MoniqueangeliqueLumpkin 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      BUT U MUST GET EVEN, THAN BURN THE BRIGE

    • @ceeemm1901
      @ceeemm1901 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I don't give airtime to hyperventilating people!

    • @wickhunter7733
      @wickhunter7733 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      The God who doesn't give a fuck.

    • @MsCloudcomputer
      @MsCloudcomputer 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amen

    • @redshift8302
      @redshift8302 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@wickhunter7733 100% agree I don't think god's priority at this moment in time is to monitor who is pleasing him or not. He must have the most beautiful wife or wives in the universe and he is supposed to be looking at us anxiously and write what he sees, to judge us in decades, instead of having a good time with his partners?

  • @awatifhassan9365
    @awatifhassan9365 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    This is the best msg I have ever heard. Starting this week. I will never look back again. All negative people and things are so far behind me 🧘‍♀️

  • @laurakyplain2413
    @laurakyplain2413 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Respect your mother like the earth

    • @lachellrocks2591
      @lachellrocks2591 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@laurakyplain2413 Matt 10:36-37 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.
      He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.
      Mark 12:30 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength.

    • @jandrews6254
      @jandrews6254 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lachellrocks2591so worship a thought, but do not consider the person who carried you and taught you how to function as a person. Just because somebody wrote some words in a book.
      Your parents and siblings are better off without you; I hope they come to the conclusion that you are a maimed individual and have successfully dealt with your abandonment of them

    • @jandrews6254
      @jandrews6254 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lachellrocks2591honour thy mother and thy father, that thy days may be long in the land of Israel.

    • @lachellrocks2591
      @lachellrocks2591 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s not that we shouldn’t love our mothers or fathers, but love the lord (who created those mothers and fathers)more. This is from Jesus lips Matt 10:34 “ Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.
      35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law “ just like we have natural laws that we must obey. In times past If you broke that law of not honoring your parents then you were either stoned or exiled. No matter what a parent did, you were to honor them. The minute Jesus died on the cross for our sins we were no longer under the law, but under grace. Our sins being able to be forgiven. Under the law in times past if you committed adultery, or murder you were put to death. Now that Jesus died for us we can ask for forgiveness and be fully pardoned and choose another path in life. The Bible is a spiritual book written by in inspiration of God. Though he came down as a man to show his love for his creation. He is a spirit. So don’t look at his word naturally. It cannot be discerned like any other book.

    • @pepper3178
      @pepper3178 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      But not if she doesn't respect you

  • @madhatter2465
    @madhatter2465 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    I had a lot of so-called friends one day I woke up after much abuse from them, the lies the backstabbing, and the thief of my soul realizing who they really were left them and never looked back!

    • @judycrisenbery2982
      @judycrisenbery2982 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Same here!!! I trust very few people. The so-called friends I had were nothing but enemies!!! Even my 2 sisters were my enemies, lying about me & turning people against me. People believed them even if they knew me longer than them!!!

    • @farjanaakter5428
      @farjanaakter5428 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same I alse had a so called friend.

    • @joyceanderson8648
      @joyceanderson8648 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@judycrisenbery2982 Family are the worst when they are resentful & jealous. Much worse than when friends are. 👍. The people that believe them do so because they are too and you cannot trust them so stay far away and let them know nothing about you. Fake friends will be flying monkeys for family and enjoy it.

  • @normamay8020
    @normamay8020 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    ‘’ Don’t rush the process”,Trust it “.
    ‘’ Great things take time “.
    Eloquently said .

  • @jb411000
    @jb411000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Matthew 11:28-30 NKJV
    [28] Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. [29] Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. [30] For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."

  • @TheDieselbutterfly
    @TheDieselbutterfly 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +269

    Fear of The Lord is the beginning of wisdom

    • @treystephens6166
      @treystephens6166 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Why should we fear the Lord ???

    • @TheDieselbutterfly
      @TheDieselbutterfly 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@treystephens6166 Proverbs 9 :10-12 Because no one else has the power to punish you for all eternity

    • @joeynarciso94
      @joeynarciso94 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Seriously, what is up with that notion?? And how did this even turn into a religious post??

    • @TheDieselbutterfly
      @TheDieselbutterfly 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@joeynarciso94 Because only The Lord has the power to punish disobedience for all eternity,but I imagine you will simply scoff,that is until judgement day

    • @dianacullen8037
      @dianacullen8037 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Dieselbutterfly, loved your Scripture🙏. Christ the Wisdom and Power of God. Blessings to you. Diana, Manchester, UK

  • @janewasson4845
    @janewasson4845 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    If you have to ask for love, it's not coming from the person it should. ❤️

    • @kimberlyellenburg-wt4mt
      @kimberlyellenburg-wt4mt 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Very true , you either want me or you don't , plain and simple❤️‍🔥💔🫁🇺🇸

    • @kimberlyellenburg-wt4mt
      @kimberlyellenburg-wt4mt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙏💃🥴💔👍

  • @William-Bill-Munny
    @William-Bill-Munny 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Love is friendship on fire.
    -Bruce Lee
    Always find ways to show appreciation and the friend who enjoys returning the favor will fan the flames along side you forever.

  • @wndowpayne
    @wndowpayne 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    First it hurts, then it makes you stronger...memories are the real treasure in life

  • @d.4691d
    @d.4691d 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Salt and sugar look the same….wow so true!

    • @andreichetan4694
      @andreichetan4694 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They actualy dont look the same:)

  • @yengsta28
    @yengsta28 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All these quotations resonate with me so much. I am going through this hard situation where half of the people here judged me, had said so much negativity and left threats to me and my family when they don't even know me or my family.
    I am glad to see this video tonight. Here's to healing, Thank you.

  • @rainabosworthf393
    @rainabosworthf393 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I wish l could save this & read it every morning in quiet. This is the most important thing ive read ,l should have heard this 50yrs ago.

  • @saharaspracklin6804
    @saharaspracklin6804 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    "GROWING HARDER" SHOULD BE READ " ROWING HARDER" WHEN THE BOAT IS going IN THE WRONG DIRECTION DOESNT HELP.......FANTASTIC ADVICE THAT I HEARD ON A WHISPER FROM MY OWN SOUL...BUT NOW HEAR LOUD AND CLEAR RIGHT HERE! THANKYOU! XXSSAHARA

    • @vericacvetkovic9093
      @vericacvetkovic9093 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I also noticed it immediately.

    • @adelhartreisig9020
      @adelhartreisig9020 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your use of capital letters is so powerful🤣🤣🤣

    • @adelhartreisig9020
      @adelhartreisig9020 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@vericacvetkovic9093 That's because you're very special, I noticed that about you, although not immediately.

    • @Jonobueno
      @Jonobueno 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What if i really like boats?

    • @TheButlerNZ
      @TheButlerNZ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@adelhartreisig9020 (and loud) q8)

  • @BrandyTexas214
    @BrandyTexas214 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    If someone will talk bad about others to you, they will talk bad about you to others 💗

  • @INFJparadox
    @INFJparadox 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    This is excellent. Parents teach your children these truths

    • @AmeriGlobal
      @AmeriGlobal 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Someone needs to teach the parents first. Too many parents don't live by this either.

  • @wayfarinstranger2444
    @wayfarinstranger2444 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    So many nuggets of truth!!!!❤❤❤

    • @TheButlerNZ
      @TheButlerNZ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      and yet Soooooooooooooooooooooooo many exceptions to the rule.