I'm 40. If You're In Your 20's or 30's, Watch This

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  • @simonalexandero
    @simonalexandero  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +138

    I didn’t expect this video to pick up like it has and so wanted to express my gratitude to you for taking the time to watch, to like, to comment and to share. I’ve read every comment and have tried to respond to as many as I could. Thank you for being part of my small community here and joining me on this wild journey ❤

    • @JvOnM28
      @JvOnM28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I whole heartedly appreciate the time and thought you put into this masterpiece, blessings.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ thank you 🥲

  • @LifeStories93
    @LifeStories93 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8663

    Everyone who reads this, we don't know each other and probably never will but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

      Beautiful words ❤️

    • @BoatemaaPapabi
      @BoatemaaPapabi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Thank you , Wishing you same. ❤

    • @ksundermier
      @ksundermier 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Aw thank you, I wish the same right back for you!!!

    • @milana2020
      @milana2020 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Good luck to you too

    • @luisdelangel9071
      @luisdelangel9071 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Likewise

  • @Mileage_
    @Mileage_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2679

    if a british asian is giving me life advice im gonna listen

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @mistersir3185
      @mistersir3185 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Surprise surprise for you I guess

    • @callieblossomASMR
      @callieblossomASMR หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@callieblossomASMR ❤️

    • @garrisonscott1769
      @garrisonscott1769 หลายเดือนก่อน

      British Chinese**. Stop using the A word.

  • @hendrikreuwig1743
    @hendrikreuwig1743 หลายเดือนก่อน +237

    I once heard:
    If you think the bill of growth is too high, wait for the bill of regret.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Wow! That’s deep and powerful ❤️

    • @rc_ilya650
      @rc_ilya650 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      And that bill of regret is generational

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@rc_ilya650 👏

  • @fakhraafzal1528
    @fakhraafzal1528 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4013

    Do everything that u fear because those are the things that u crave the most

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      👏👏👏

    • @Jayjaybills5030
      @Jayjaybills5030 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Explain pls .

    • @bbygurlrav
      @bbygurlrav 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      I do not crave to go caving or cave diving I promise I don’t 😂😅

    • @君彦君塚
      @君彦君塚 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      ​@universe21hehe takes action before thinking next, if you meet a grandma is having a hard time to cross the road, just help don't overthink it

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@bbygurlrav 😂

  • @catchupstreamss
    @catchupstreamss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +843

    “Sometimes it takes 10 years to get that 1 year that may change your life.” This hits different

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      👏👏👏

    • @lilianignatius
      @lilianignatius หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      fr!!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lilianignatius right?!

    • @frogery
      @frogery 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      i feel like i'm living that year right now

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@frogery 🔥

  • @luuuuuuuuuuuul
    @luuuuuuuuuuuul หลายเดือนก่อน +369

    it's crazy how he looks the exact same at 17 months old, 20 year old and 40

  • @gardenoffaith_6983
    @gardenoffaith_6983 หลายเดือนก่อน +1337

    “Look at someone for inspiration, not comparison” 👏🏾

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      👏👏👏

    • @asewejetosin5248
      @asewejetosin5248 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes!!!

    • @asewejetosin5248
      @asewejetosin5248 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you Jesus! Humbly receive from the ministry of others wowww

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@asewejetosin5248 ❤️

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@asewejetosin5248 ❤️

  • @Lovediaryhb
    @Lovediaryhb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1753

    I was today years old when I heard that if you don’t know what to pursue, start by pursuing yourself. Everything then will fall into place. What a perfect piece advice.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      👏👏👏

    • @ha-mynguyen9468
      @ha-mynguyen9468 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Can you elaborate on this?

    • @prakashchapagain1861
      @prakashchapagain1861 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I didn’t get it can you explain plz .

    • @King10-k5b
      @King10-k5b 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ha-mynguyen9468start by working on yourself, Health becoming a better version of yourself and the mission will appear

    • @Lovediaryhb
      @Lovediaryhb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      I think it's a decision to finally choose yourself-choosing to be the healthy, happy, and healed version of yourself. When you choose yourself, others will recognize it, and I hope it leads to many great opportunities in life. We all have a little child within us, and I'm letting her come out, shine, and be playful. To be my authentic self and not let fear take over, it has to start with small steps: self-care, little rewards, and building confidence by achieving small tasks daily. In this way, I will also learn how to raise a healthy kid of my own, as I’m a single mom.

  • @thenooboCOOL
    @thenooboCOOL หลายเดือนก่อน +141

    bro probably saved thousands of teenagers from depression

  • @edwinhunnet2666
    @edwinhunnet2666 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1960

    Picking the right partner is the biggest business decision you’ll ever make in your life time on earth.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      👏👏👏

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

      @@edwinhunnet2666 and is why I dedicated my first book Energize to my wife. She is without doubt one of the secrets to behind all the things I’ve accomplished ❤️

    • @type-dev
      @type-dev 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      It’s about being the right person. Not finding the right person. That’s what I’ve learned!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@type-dev ❤️

    • @bruh7220
      @bruh7220 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Yup and this is why you see a lot of people living stagnant, paycheck to paycheck lives. Those people take whatever partner they could get that they find relatively attractive and just stick with them. And then wonder why theyre unhappy and unsuccessful

  • @jorgepadua5802
    @jorgepadua5802 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2184

    Me at 29: "Hell yeah I'm in my 20s😎😎"

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      😁😁😁

    • @bennymahlangu8674
      @bennymahlangu8674 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      Me too 🥹

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@bennymahlangu8674 🙌

    • @Greenlights111
      @Greenlights111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      I’m 25, single, depressed in my job and life. By every societal measure I should be satisfied as I have a great family, roof over my head etc, but I’m just miserable and lonely. Anxious it feels like my life is just slipping away but I don’t know what or how to change the path I’m on. I’m getting more and more anxious every single dsy

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      @@Greenlights111 a thought… if you were to speak to someone who is in exactly the same situation as you, what advice would you share with them?

  • @StridersBored
    @StridersBored 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    My biggest mistake was never believing in myself. As a medically disabled veteran, I believed my life was over and my confidence was shattered. I’m 23 so whenever I feel down and depressed, I remember how far I’ve come, the literal hills I’ve conquered during my time in the Army, and remember that everything will be alright. As a buddy of mine would say, “I’m not six feet under so I must be great.”

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Your best years are ahead of you 🙌

  • @luisalbertousugaguzman9074
    @luisalbertousugaguzman9074 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +517

    "be patient with the process and impatient with taking actions" astonishing

  • @Andreamussi
    @Andreamussi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +516

    “Be sure to take care of yourself first “

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Absolutely Andrea 👏

  • @shawnmatjiu2940
    @shawnmatjiu2940 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +470

    "Extraordinary results come from repeating ordinary actions over an unordinary period of time"...

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      👏👏👏

    • @chasonwommack5023
      @chasonwommack5023 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Sounds an awful lot like what Alex Hormozi says.

    • @tryna23
      @tryna23 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      read the slight edge by jeff olson bro!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@tryna23 adding to my list. Thank you 🙏

  • @kenasura3948
    @kenasura3948 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +266

    I'm 23, mentally exhausted. I feel like a failure, stuck in an endless loop of unhealthy habits. Thanks for reminding me that its never too late and I can start changing my life today. Thank u very much! I needed to hear this.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      👊👊👊

    • @Light_Connect
      @Light_Connect หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      You are still very young ! The world is your oyster

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Light_Connect well said 👏

    • @dantheman9050
      @dantheman9050 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      i am 19 and feel this way to man

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dantheman9050 ❤️

  • @Msal19
    @Msal19 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    So much wisdom on this list! It took me many books, challenges, accomplishments, and failures to learn these lessons. Young people, listen to this more than once if needed and really pay attention. This is gold! Thanks for sharing!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      So glad to hear you enjoyed the video 🙏

  • @felix2375
    @felix2375 หลายเดือนก่อน +213

    Luck is what happens, when preparation meets opportunity - so be prepared

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      👏👏👏

    • @justine851
      @justine851 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      it isn't luck, but a blessing from God

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@justine851 ❤️

  • @initialdluvr
    @initialdluvr หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    I’m 31 and consider myself a late bloomer. I’m only now starting my undergrad journey in nursing after wasting away my twenties getting high and barely getting by. I still live with my parents. But not all is wasted. My twenties is an example of how not to live life. And I had to pay the price in time, something I’ll never get back. Get your head out of the sand and pursue life with a purpose. If you don’t know your purpose, take the time to figure that out but stay productive during that time. Eat well, sleep well, exercise, pray, and work.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Well said 👏

    • @mapofthesoultagme7143
      @mapofthesoultagme7143 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      there's nothing wrong with living with parents though

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@mapofthesoultagme7143 ❤️

    • @initialdluvr
      @initialdluvr หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@mapofthesoultagme7143 you are correct. What I was implying is that I am still not financially independent yet. There's a difference between living with your parents in your 30s by choice vs necessity.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@initialdluvr 👏

  • @ny2578
    @ny2578 หลายเดือนก่อน +134

    By the age of 25, I’m a doctor of pharmaceutical science and currently doing a PhD in neuro ophthalmology. I’ve been with my lover and best friend for 4 years now.
    I clicked on this video to learn. I just learned that I’ve been following these advice almost religiously (unless when I’m sick) because my dad educated me this way. Life can be tough and life is not perfect, still we constantly must working on ourselves for our loved ones, and Life is truly beautiful. Thank you for this great video, thank you for your honesty and this powerful teaching lesson.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love it and thank you for your sharing ❤️

    • @charlieschurk
      @charlieschurk หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yeah right

    • @charlieschurk
      @charlieschurk หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Uh huh sure pal

  • @mimiq4383
    @mimiq4383 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +555

    Mans said "If I could tell my twenty year old self something", then put up photos that look nearly the exact same. Bro barely aged. Thats a goal, too. 😂

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @aracystic28
      @aracystic28 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      LOL I swear I was like “huh?!” “Corporate wants you to tell the difference between these two pictures”

    • @Growordecay
      @Growordecay 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      That's health for you. Visual representation of why to prioritize your health

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@aracystic28 😂

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Growordecay 👏

  • @autisticus1678
    @autisticus1678 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

    Man I’m 24 years old and I love videos like this. It’s so easy to get caught up in the clutter of life and forget to go after what you want.

  • @anaiseaudrey
    @anaiseaudrey หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    Love how you went directly into the video and didn’t waste our time with “hiiii welcome to my TH-cam channel” kinda stuff

  • @JayLatt
    @JayLatt หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    “The clarity you seek will come from the action you take” Wow

  • @Urbfrnd
    @Urbfrnd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    I'm 22, I've made a wrong decision that made me at the lowest point of my life, now I will try more harder to climb this life again, thank you for the advice sir .

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @christiannunagtorres2026
      @christiannunagtorres2026 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      same sentiments bro, I stopped studying at 18 then proceeded to get a job. Quit my office work when the pandemic hit in 2020 and try to reason out w “health risk” (I’m asthmatic). I just recently had the courage to try and be better than who I was these past two years. I was jobless during those time. I’m 23 going 24 now

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@christiannunagtorres2026 👏👏👏

    • @deidarasmaid
      @deidarasmaid หลายเดือนก่อน

      ⁠@@christiannunagtorres2026I did the same exact thing im 23 too and im back in school getting my degree its never too late and we can do anything we put our mind to. we are still really young and itll work out . start today

    • @Utent-d3n
      @Utent-d3n หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@christiannunagtorres2026 I am in your situation,I left school at 18 and since 1 year I'm focusing on mastering editing and animation skills even if every day I have to hear insults from my parents saying im useless because im following this path

  • @SuraDoes
    @SuraDoes 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This was the best advice ever. I am 28 and I am in the midst of a transition from my immature and impulsive era to my thoughtful and intentional era. I can feel it. Just working on changing my actions to match!!!

  • @YusraELSawi
    @YusraELSawi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +358

    "Not everyone will like you, you are not ice cream" 😁 Awesome video, thank you.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      So glad to hear you enjoyed it Yusra 😁

    • @girlbossfromscratch
      @girlbossfromscratch 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Well, I don’t like ice cream.

    • @markuku2991
      @markuku2991 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yeah some people are that heartless, they dont like ice cream.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@girlbossfromscratch 😂

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@markuku2991 😂

  • @TheTektronik
    @TheTektronik 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +137

    When you reach the point of being able to enjoy your own company and happy being yourself, the right people will come along.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Beautifully said ❤️

    • @Greenlights111
      @Greenlights111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Struggling with the so much. I’m 25, single, and seeing all my friends move away and get engaged or at least in serious relationships. I want a relationship so bad and have done so much work on myself, it’s frustrating seeing others with something I want so bad. I don’t like my job and it feels like life has just turned into the same thing over and over and I don’t find nearly the joy that I used to. Idk I feel so incredibly stuck but I know I’m not. I just have to decide to change and get better for myself. It starts with being comfortable on my own which is my biggest struggle, I fill all my time with friends or a distraction from being alone, even though I’ve lived alone for over a year now I’m still afraid to actually spend time alone and feel like I’m just wasting away my life and prime of my 20s. I just need renewed excitement and hope in my life.

    • @Lavinia-uz7ul
      @Lavinia-uz7ul 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@Greenlights111 i'm 34 and single. Healing from only narcissist and avoidant relationships. Trust me, sometimes it's better to be single. Enjoy this time with no heartbreak, no attachment. Don't trust what you see, the perfect couples. I miss the days when I didn't have fealings for someone. I had enough of this pain.

    • @Greenlights111
      @Greenlights111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Lavinia-uz7ul I’m sorry to hear that. I get that it’s likely better to be alone than with the wrong person, however, I’m 25 and haven’t had a serious relationship longer than a few months while I watch everyone I know getting engaged and moving on. I know you can’t compare either, but I want a connection and deep relationship and it’s hard feeling like the days and weeks are passing by with nothing changing. I need to make a change but I don’t know what

    • @Lavinia-uz7ul
      @Lavinia-uz7ul 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Greenlights111 I know. Same. That's how i ended up in this situations. You are really young, you still have time. Don't compare your life to others.
      A partner will not save your life. Maybe in the beginning, but the void that you feel right now will appear again after the honeymoon phase.
      And you will put all your happiness in their hands and you will end up codependent.

  • @CaseyBowman7
    @CaseyBowman7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    People call other people talented or lucky or gifted without realizing that often it is a normal person that did simple things consistently that added up to their success

  • @anniebandana
    @anniebandana 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    I just turned 30 and i went through such a big life change with my father dying last year. Everything has shifted, but i feel like i will be OK, and i am hopeful for life again 😊

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @tommymoore1622
      @tommymoore1622 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Keeep your head you will make it. Remember the strength that he had

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@tommymoore1622 beautifully said 👏

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tommymoore1622 beautifully said 👏

  • @arandomyoutubeuser3471
    @arandomyoutubeuser3471 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    I haven't turned 20 yet, so I'm leaving a comment here so I'll come back in the future to watch this 👍

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I think a lot of what is shared can still apply 😉

    • @Willi_Zhang
      @Willi_Zhang 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I haven’t turned 40 yet, so I’m leaving a comment here so I’ll come back in the future to watch this 😉

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Willi_Zhang 😂

  • @vaiman-bk3wf
    @vaiman-bk3wf 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    IM 15. I WILL COMEBACK 5 YEARS LATER

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Not too early to begin on them 🙌

    • @blackgirlmechanics
      @blackgirlmechanics 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      No buddy, use this advice now! It will help you so much more. Those of us who were younger wish we could’ve gotten this advice. Take it! Use it! 😊

  • @KahHongTan
    @KahHongTan หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    "Extraordinary results come from doing ordinary things an extraordinary amount of times" I needed that

  • @channel21111
    @channel21111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    Allah give this man endless blessings 🤲🏽Ameen

  • @lalulu697
    @lalulu697 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    27 here, and just two weeks ago, I began to stress out in the thought of, "You haven't done anything for your life" When, for God's sake! I am already graduated as a teacher and I am a graphic designer, I have a job (none of my careers) that is helping me save for my biggest dreams and I know that it is not a race against anyone but me...
    The fear of turning 30 someday and "done nothing" is because of the that damn phone

  • @sidestreamGLX
    @sidestreamGLX 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Honestly, I‘m turning 42 in a few weeks and witnessing other people aging, this advise would even be useful for a lot of people no matter the age. Wisdom comes with personal development, not years on the clock

  • @ashleybaker5450
    @ashleybaker5450 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Kicked out at 18, cancer at 19-22! Severely depressed & currently 22 & no education or career experience under my belt & im constantly stressing that I’m so so behind as most my hs classmates have graduated college by now! Thank you for this video, it’s never too late to get up! What I’ve learned most is that Health is Definitely wealth! I’m made fun of for saying that but those who do that have yet to run into issues with their health & just seem to think they’re invincible bc they’re young. Started dating my now fiancé at 15, he continued on to college & then PT school & is about to be a doctor of physical therapy soon 😅meanwhile I’m just starting to begin my journey of what I’m doing now! He’s my biggest supporter & always has been, but it’s definitely hard when those around me seem so ahead! Definitely a ramble & rant here but again thank you for posting this video! Idk how it came across my feed but I do know WHY! I needed it!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Such an inspiring comment to read. Thank you so much for sharing 🙏

  • @cconqquerr
    @cconqquerr หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    watching this at 18 years old. I pray we all achieve all our goals and visions that we pray for.

  • @falfoola606
    @falfoola606 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    i'm 23 but i feel like i'm getting old really fast and i keep worrying about the future all the time instead of actually doing something about it. i hope i overcome this fear and get my shit together fast
    thank you for this video

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Sam_clava
      @Sam_clava หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@simonalexandero Whats your advice for this age of ours??

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Sam_clava with regards to anything specifically? 🙏

    • @cestentoimeme
      @cestentoimeme หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      dude... you are so freaking YOUNG. I'm 27 and i wish i had YOUR age. And im sure people that's 35 will think 27 is too young. And so on. People that's 60 thinks 40 is young.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cestentoimeme so true 👏

  • @verano21
    @verano21 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    09:26 bro just casually dropped the answer to “what’s the meaning of life?” without even blinking twice

  • @SoniaRaoVlogs
    @SoniaRaoVlogs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    Indeed health is the most important asset. I didn’t care and was diagnosed with cancer last year

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Well said and hope you are on the mend now Sonia? ❤️

    • @feliciaflinders
      @feliciaflinders 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ❤❤❤ sending you well wishes

    • @Tony_K
      @Tony_K 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Thoughts and prayers for a full recovery Sonia 🙏
      x Tony.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Tony_K 👏

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@feliciaflinders 👏

  • @Honerline
    @Honerline 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I’ve just turned 25 days ago. This video is definitely a wake up call for me. THANK YOU

  • @inyourface127810
    @inyourface127810 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    “Nobody is here to save us “ , that hit deep. But also as an adult , being saved by someone just shows how not independent we are .

  • @JohnnyVichi
    @JohnnyVichi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    im 38 and this is the video that will finally push me to post mine! LETS GO GUYS!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Let’s go Johnny!!! 🙌

  • @тысамыйсильныйудар
    @тысамыйсильныйудар หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    good advices. i lost everything because of the war. i am 25, i dont know where to go and what i want and i am just trying to survive. i am so jealous of you people whose lives were not destroyed

  • @withabbyjoy
    @withabbyjoy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    I love how you said there’s no such thing as an overnight success. So many times we only see the result of someone’s success and rarely the work that led up to it

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      So true. We are blind to what goes on behind the scenes and focus too much on the things we see in public which are simply byproducts of the years of hard work.

  • @cgonzalezani
    @cgonzalezani หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    I turned 27 last week and it has been very hard to look back at my life not knowing where my twenties have gone. I feel like I haven’t achieved anything meaningful and I’ve been stuck at a 9-6 for the last 3 years and a half going into 4. I feel like my best years are gone and my time is ticking before I’m out of my twenties. I want nothing more than to leave my current job because I’m not passionate and I’m working for someone else’s dream and not my own, getting home when the sun is almost going down and watching my stay at home dad with dementia get older and not being able to spend more time with him. I have no direction about my future or what I want to build, what my gifts or talents are. I feel like the years are going by in a blink of an eye and I get overwhelmed at the thought of not having an answer, and not having a direction that gives me purpose and time freedom, while being challenged with getting out of the bad habits that keep me stuck further more.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      What small steps can you start taking outside your 9-6 that will help you eventually create an exit route to something more fulfilling?

    • @megarabluestories4916
      @megarabluestories4916 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm sorry about what happened to your father. I guess each one needs to duel on their own time. Don't rush that up. Don't beat yourself up because of societies expectations in life. You still a young woman. You can find your way to happiness, but is hard to find what passionates that heart when is broken. So take your time. 🫂🫂🫂

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@megarabluestories4916 👏

    • @jonathantovar6226
      @jonathantovar6226 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm in the same boat literally I have the same problem with myself it's hard to find that one thing u wanna chase after:/

    • @hndwkdm
      @hndwkdm หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      nah i got friends doing their dreams at 35 for a living and we all go out dancing and have fun, sometimes i feel like im older than them cuz they got more energy. i think sometimes im just lazy and then get sad about being lazy so then its a cycle i stay in. its hard to pull urself out of it but sometimes only you can get yourself out.

  • @retrospect3-2-15
    @retrospect3-2-15 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "Sometimes it takes 10 years to get that 1 year that will change your life". Preach it brother!

  • @gcass888
    @gcass888 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    it’s my 21st birthday today. first year in my 20’s went by crazy fast but i learned so much. embracing the journey is key for sure! i wish everyone the best, God bless💗

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wishing you a very Happy Birthday 🥂

    • @Jay7.62
      @Jay7.62 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m now that age about to be 22 already

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Jay7.62 🙌

    • @LéonardK-z8e
      @LéonardK-z8e หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Jay7.62Same, 22 next month and I am still anxious about life 😢

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@LéonardK-z8e focus on what you can control today and tomorrow will look after itself ❤️

  • @linaluna5514
    @linaluna5514 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Having a mid-life crisis at the moment so listening to this helped. Thank you.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad to hear it resonated ❤️

  • @stephaniejes4u6
    @stephaniejes4u6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Inner peace comes from accepting what you can't control, and focusing your energy instead on what you can ❤

  • @delacruzfamily3690
    @delacruzfamily3690 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Thank you! I am 53 “ its never too late to make a change “😊

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Never too late indeed ❤️

  • @arthurconinck9193
    @arthurconinck9193 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    "don't overthink things, the clarity you seek come from action you take"

  • @olivm3
    @olivm3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Just turned 30 and time has gone by so fast. Its worrisome and scary sometimes but we take each day. make it better than the last

  • @misslovelyynnt
    @misslovelyynnt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I just woke up from a scary dream on my life. You're the first video I watched. THANK YOU FOR THIS INTEGRITY AND HONESTY!!!!!!!!!! I'm so grateful right now ❤

  • @yanyan9942
    @yanyan9942 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hi Simon, I just wanted to let you know that I'm 24 and have recently started my career path as a stage performer after my surgery. Your advice has really strengthened my determination. Thank you! ❤

  • @TechOutAdam
    @TechOutAdam 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I started doing yoga because I wanted to try something new and a friend recommended it to me. I’ve already been eating healthy but then I decided to truly cut out bad sugar and treats over the summer and my health, vibrancy and mindset and so clear and positive. Especially because of yoga. Find something for your health you do everyday. Health is not a side hustle like he said. ❤

  • @Jgeetharealg
    @Jgeetharealg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +122

    What he said about health was the most important thing

  • @nasg7805
    @nasg7805 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Straight to the point no introduction.. I love this ✍🏼

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you 🙏

  • @itsyaboiwaevo
    @itsyaboiwaevo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Those magic words that you said literally transform my mind! I'm 19 and I'll make sure that I will climb the right mountain and leave no regrets! Cheers to anyone who wants to change their life! Good luck to our journey🥂🙌

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Beautiful words. Thank you and here’s to the journey ahead 🙌

  • @JohanFitFoodie
    @JohanFitFoodie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Public speaking, and finding something you're truly passionate about definitely were unknown skills for me until way too late in life. Underrated to enable long-term growth and leadership 😊🔥

  • @warrenbradford2597
    @warrenbradford2597 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I follow Senca's philosophy of "Life is long, we just waste most of it," so I only agree with most of these things you said. I only use the "truths" I believe are real.

  • @suika_6264
    @suika_6264 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I needed this so much 🫶 lost my early 20s to bad depression and gave up a fancy uni degree for a not so great relationship. 25 now and back in my 2nd year of a 5 year degree, finding myself ashamed of how “behind” in life I am. Your video reminded me to look back with gratitude for the life lessons and growth I’ve accumulated, and to cherish the present moments 🥺

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @carolina365
      @carolina365 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don’t feel ashamed, timelines are just a social construct, the important thing is you’re doing your thing!! Good luck :)

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@carolina365 👏

  • @kendaljamie2765
    @kendaljamie2765 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    “tying your emotional wellbeing to future outcomes will cause you to live as if you’re never going to die, and then you will die, never having truly lived” this is the most profound message i’ve ever heard

  • @Camille-v6u
    @Camille-v6u หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    wow. it is rare to come across someone who has mastered the art of communication in the way you have. I was glued to the screen and captivated by everything you said. thank you for this absolute masterpiece.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Grateful for the kind words and so glad to hear you enjoyed it 🙏

  • @aaronmichael6895
    @aaronmichael6895 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I'm 37...wish I had knew these in my 20's.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not too late to start living them 🙌

  • @teodorG98
    @teodorG98 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The winterarc granted me the chance to work on self-discipline. Giving up on social media was the biggest step up in having time for sports, readings, outdoor activities, and quality time with my significant other.

  • @veliana.kimberly
    @veliana.kimberly 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you for sharing this video. I'm 25 years old and working remotely. I've just started getting full-time jobs this year, and it's affected my mental health to see others my age already achieve so much in life. I really need to hear this. Subscribed 🙂

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you and I think you’ll also enjoy my latest video on feeling behind in life ❤️

  • @thecampaigner4553
    @thecampaigner4553 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I’ll be 29 in November. In & out depression but trying to stay consistent with healthy habits to achieve a good life. Love seeing things like this. Thank you

  • @P6intman-15
    @P6intman-15 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Happy 40

  • @Radjasss3
    @Radjasss3 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I have been spending my 20s feeling so out of place..
    Everything you said made me tear
    Thanks for being you

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      So glad to hear you enjoyed. Means a lot - thank you 🥲

  • @FGBeatz_Official
    @FGBeatz_Official หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    That’s crazy, I’m 21 now. I hope life is going up. This year was the worst year in my life. I want to go up. But good Tipps.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you and here’s to that 🙌

  • @Annes.Archives
    @Annes.Archives 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Just turned 30 and im glad ive been practicing most of these. But still a ways to go. :)

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We are a constant work in progress and to fulfil our potential, the focus must be on being a little better than who we were yesterday ❤️

  • @jadetarot7647
    @jadetarot7647 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Turning 31 in a couple months and I found this video at the right time. Every one is so profound. Thank you, Simon!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So glad to hear you enjoyed it Jade 🙏

  • @mkpnjbh7296
    @mkpnjbh7296 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i was born in 1996 and just turned 28. still in my 20s tbfh i needed thiss

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Happy 28th! And so glad to hear you enjoyed the video 🙏

  • @LAIDOCKS
    @LAIDOCKS หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    the mountain analogy is so true. my parents and peers have always pressured me to go to college and get a 9-5 but i’ve always been a dreamer and i don’t want to be a work slave. it’s sad how brainwashed ppl are even when i explain over and over i want REAL freedom. always be aware and chose YOURSELF!

  • @sonialeescostumecentral
    @sonialeescostumecentral หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow! Great wisdom from a 40yo! Forwarded this to my 24 and 26yo son and daughter. Thank you for the 40 great insights!

  • @drsallymanderchoi
    @drsallymanderchoi หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I just put "you'll always be a better place by doing the work than avoiding it" on a sticky note in my work space. Great video :D

  • @Spacecadetultra
    @Spacecadetultra 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I already heard most of the stuff being talked about from mentors, friends and colleagues. I’m so grateful to be surrounded by supportive and helpful ppl. I’m in a slump in terms of career, starting again. I will do it again, correctly this time.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You will come back stronger with wisdom gained from the experience 🙌

    • @Spacecadetultra
      @Spacecadetultra หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@simonalexandero this feels like one of those tycoon games! When you reset it becomes very very easy to blow past the easy stuff and still continue to grow! So far I have already got more done than what I thought I would do in months. Lesgoooo

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Spacecadetultra 🔥

  • @ekronb5287
    @ekronb5287 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you brotha. Especially as a Asian man in his early 20s, advice from an OG like you means a lot

  • @leoaquino7646
    @leoaquino7646 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Im 31, i encountered and learned most you stated.
    Will use this as basis before i turned 40.
    Thank you. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So glad to hear you enjoyed it and sounds like you will have some strong foundations in place through your 30s 👏

  • @girlwomen515
    @girlwomen515 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    People need resources, support and community. We need to have that conversation.

  • @oliwazzoliwek1
    @oliwazzoliwek1 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks so much for that! Deep down we all know what should be our priority and that we only live ONCE but we also need a frequent reminder to stay on track and live simpler, happier life. Great video Simon!

  • @thehyle7966
    @thehyle7966 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Thank u so much im 26 ... feels like im 50 !

  • @Sabooee
    @Sabooee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'm 28 , I'm saying honestly this is the one of the best advice that I saw
    I'm really appreciate you.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Those words mean a lot. Thank you 🙏

  • @arisewithmae
    @arisewithmae 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I like how there is no cut, no rattling moments and straight forward this video is!

  • @shawnmatjiu2940
    @shawnmatjiu2940 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    "How you do things everyday is how you do things for the rest of your life ".
    I even wrote it down on my whiteboard. I'm gonna live by this quote. It touched me so deep I even paused the video to really meditate on that thought.
    Beautiful stuff. Thanks man

  • @Sam_clava
    @Sam_clava หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    i'm 23 now and all i wanted is this video to help keep me working on myself.......My mind should be my best weapon..📌

  • @ViktoriaCampbell7
    @ViktoriaCampbell7 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I am 26 and I so needed to hear that. Thank you!

  • @JoeGuapo
    @JoeGuapo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I’m 26 & I’m grateful I went through all my life experiences to have already known these things..I live by these daily trying to be the first Millionaire of my family..everyone be safe in your journey

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amazing work Joe! And I’ve no doubt you will 🔥

  • @The_Unseen_Official
    @The_Unseen_Official หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    “Most people prefers to blame and complain rather than taking full responsibility of their life” and “Choose your life partner wisely”
    Thanks for sharing 🙏🏿

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So glad to hear you enjoyed it 🙌

  • @ChillẘrLd-2001
    @ChillẘrLd-2001 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m 23. Words of wisdom come by a lot for me but hearing it from someone is very motivating towards a positive path.

  • @Tonytentoes666
    @Tonytentoes666 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Please if you’re reading this, give yourself more praise, you’ve made it this far ❤️

  • @cynnnfluence
    @cynnnfluence 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’m 25 and though I already have my Bachelor’s degree and keep to a consistent fitness & meal plan, I have so much work to do with taking action professionally and getting rid of social clutter. Thank you! Hopefully, a couple of month to a year from now, I’m handling these things well.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Let us know how you get on 🙌

  • @JadeSmith-b5l
    @JadeSmith-b5l หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    i’m 24, turning 25 in 2 months…. thank you so so much. this video has me in tears as im visioning myself doing everything you’re saying. a fulfilled life

  • @kristyx998
    @kristyx998 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I am so happy i found this video. Thank you so much! I feel so overwhelmed but i‘m just 25 years old. I‘m so young and sometimes i think it is already too late to change something.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Not too late Kristy ❤️

  • @selmagonzales6986
    @selmagonzales6986 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    THANK YOU!!
    Thank you for these powerful words 🙌🏼
    I am 25 and starting to change my life to a better one 🍀

  • @LexieAsmr
    @LexieAsmr หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I agree with all of this, I have been fairly successful and happy in my late 20s because I was doing a lot of this. I have some things to work on of course like anyone else, but I’m so proud of myself for taking risks, for staying motivated, and for being myself.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love it Lexie! Amazing work 🙌

  • @tyffg9798
    @tyffg9798 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I’ve challenged myself to watch or listen to this video daily until it finally clicks internally

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love that! Exciting times ahead 🙌