Losing Our Mothers
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ส.ค. 2024
- "It's one thing to lose a parent, it's another thing to lose a best friend."
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The thought of losing my mother would kill me tbh. I honestly don't know what I would do without her.
love you mom
Same here
same cant even imagine that💔💔💔
Marcos Amparo you are all so lucky u can love your mother
same. I don't know how to live without her, I love her more than anybody else in this world.
You don't know how good you have it, until it's gone.
so true 💔
Words of pain
I just realized how precious my brother was when i lost him,it's so painful and im mad at myself that I didn't realized that before.
So true. I miss her everyday and I took her for granted.
Fr💯💔
I lost my mom today because of cancer. She was the most innocent and selfless person. No one will ever give me the same love that my mom have given me.
I’m so so sorry.
So sorry for your loss. I loss Mine to cancer as well
No one😢. I understand you
Me too 💔
Im sooooo sorry. My mum was the same innocent least selfish .❤️💕.än angel...💕❤️a rock ,a warrior im crying noooow😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔
i lost my mother today. she fought breast cancer twice and beat it. although she didn’t beat it this time, i’m so incredibly proud of her for trying for as long as she did.
So sorry for your loss. I lost mine to breast cancer in March 2022. I’m a total mess. Damn cancer. Sending love your way ❤️😢
@@ritad4085 thank you so much for this comment. i am also so sorry for your loss. i sincerely hope that you're okay too
I also just lost my mom to breast cancer. It isn’t fair and completely sucks. But they would be proud of us for continuing to live.
I'm so so sorry for your loss. I just lost my mom a month ago and I'm so heartbroken 💔 God bless you as you grieve the hardest loss of your life. I pray God covers you and keeps you during this difficult journey. Sending you lots of love.
I lost my mom today, although she was 95 she was my best friend and I thought she would live forever. Doesn't seem real, I can't process it. Mama, I miss you. Help me Lord, I am drained😢💔
Lost my mom because of cancer.. I miss her so much..
RIP💔
Awenn Victoria stay strong ❤ she is still with you, looking at you and protecting you! 🙏🏼
Awenn Victoria I'm so sorry... I wish I could help you or say sth to make you feel alright..
Me to 😔 I feel your pain ♥️
Awenn Victoria same
It's not goodbye. It's see you later.
That broke me.
xJMx Rawr Amen🙇♀️♥️🕊😇
Me too. My mom and I say this all the time.
Quench Gamer TV u will, I will eventually meet everyone I loved
Quench Gamer TV im pretty sure.i will see my mother
That's what I said at my mams funeral the kettle will always be on for her she asked me a few days before she passed if she will see her granddaughter turn 1 she didn't make it😭💔
My mom died unexpectedly in her sleep and I’m in disbelief. She was strong, healthy, and had so much life. She was my light. My motivator. My heart. I don’t know how I can heal. The pain is insurmountable. She was the most caring person I know. She would give anything to help those she loved. I’d give anything for one last call, text, hug…anything.
❤
I also lost my mom unexpectedly. It was 2 months ago. It was sudden and she was not sick. I’m very sorry for your loss. You’re not alone…
@@HexagonFLme too I lost my mom two months ago and it was so unexpected she looked so healthy but turns out she had high blood pressure. I miss her so much I’m also so sorry for your loss❤
I lost my mother unexpectedly 2 days ago. 2 days after my baby shower. I’m expecting twin girls and my mother was so excited about them. I still can’t believe it.
@@Simplyparfect I'm so so sorry. She will always be with you xxxx
I just wanna say to all the people who’s lost their moms too soon or lost their mothers at all, you are incredibly strong and stay strong. Your mother would want you to stay strong.
Thank you for those kind words. They really stood out and helped me.
Stay strong.🤗🥰
Thank you
Thank you,those words made me kinda cry for some reason.
But not in a bad way.
To everyone who lost someone important in their life: We'll get through this. together. I love you and you're important ❤
Gerard Sass Queen Way thank lovely soul! ❤️🙏🏻
Gerard Sass Queen Way Thank you so much,but how can we get through this together...?
Well said.
Gerard Sass Queen Way thank you this makes my day i lost my grandma .....
Thank you, ❤️
If I lost my mother I wouldn't be able to survive. She has always helped me through thick and thin even when I've been stubborn. The thought of losing someone as close as my mother brings tears to my eyes.
Jane I said the same. She died March 24th at 61 suddenly, no hint it could happen. Somehow I'm surviving but it's not easy. Cherish your mom for me please. I'm jealous of you
*i just love my mom so much, i wanna cry so much now*
+Jane cherish your mother, spend a lot of time together!! Because you won't know what tomorrow brings. I lost my mom to cancer a long time back, in 1995 when I was 4 years old. I'm 26 now, but it's stayed with me since.
Jane the only thought of loosing mine could make me cry to death
Jane Same except with my grandmother
I’m 11 years old and this morning my mom passed, I just decided to look up how to deal with my mother’s death and this made me feel a little better, Thanks
I Hope that your Life Will be Amazing Noah, sending love
at 11 years old this is nothing short of incredible. Lost my mother at 32 years old and it destroyed me. you are a much stronger person than me, and i'm a grown man. She would be very proud of you for your strength
I'm so sorry. I was 11 when my mother was murdered and it is simply not enough time together, It never will be. All we can do is radiate their love and hope to be a person you know they would be proud of. I miss who she was and who she would be every single day. I am 25 now and still miss her as much as the day she left us.
i am hoping you healed some, she’ll always love you deeply
Two years have passed since you wrote this but I am sending you all the strength and positive vibe. I lost my mom a month ago. We will see them again don't you worry young man ❤
My mother passed away 3 days ago.
I am so lost without her.
Everything seems meaningless. I cannot find joy in anything.
Same.
i feel exactly the same... exactly like that. i thought my smile, my joy, my ambition, my charisma was my own... now i realise my Mom was my guiding force. Subconsciously, i did what i did almost aware that my life was being viewed by her. Now...
Same
You're not alone ❤ it hurts so much
Damn same here. It is like that especially when you don’t have kids or are married, that’s your person
i miss you mom. im not ok.
Joseph Naguit rip
Hugs.
Praying for you
I m also not OK. .😢😢😢 mom please come back
Stay Strong ❤
Lost my mom...she was 52 and I'm just 19... She was the happiest person on earth. Earth is just a sad place now
I can feel your pain, I lost my mom on 16 April 2021 , Life is like Hell without Mother each day
Ohhhhh I can't imagine that well I have a mom but I am not trying to show off but may god bless your mom
@@avnisingh691 same to you
Same...lost her to covid on 23rd April this yr....life is just too tough
@@sheza.hereeeeThanks a lot for concerning my mom may you always live Happy God bless you dear
My mom is battling cancer right now, she’s on her final days . I used to think I got my strength from my dad . But I definitely got it from my Mom. She has been through hell and back and still has a smile on her face . God bless the Mothers of the world .
Be glad you are there at her last moments 🙏🏽
And may God give you courage
Same here.
My mum has terminal cancer. Two weeks ago the oncologist told us that she likely won’t make it to this Christmas. I know a lot of the times the estimate is wrong, but you still never know. I am in so much paranoia, fear and stress over what this year may bring.
I lost my mom a few months ago to kidney and liver failure along with some other medical reasons. I’m only 17. She was 35. I miss her so much. All i can tell myself is that she’s in a better place and no longer in pain. RIP mom. I love you with all my heart
Woow she was so young to have that many medical issues 😞
I lost my mum too to a kidney disease, last monday. She was 63 and I'm 27. I still can't believe it. I feel like they're gonna call from the hospital and tell she's ok.
I'm so sorry 🥺💔
So sorry for you love..be brave that's young to loose your mum
Words cannot express how much I love my mother.
Sithara Sivaji I love your mom too
I'm a Goofy Goober
Wow, real funny.
Sithara Sivaji same
Same as well.
Sithara Sivaji same
I refuse to wear makeup bc my face is a part of my mom and when I look in the mirror I see my mom
I love this
Aw bby I hope ur doing okay 😕
This is so heart-wrenchingly beautiful
Same!!! Everyone tells me I look like her. When I lost her I stopped wearing makeup too.
:'( ♡
My mom is Margaret Adhiambo… cancer stole her at 63 years 5 months ago…
She battled cancer for over 4 years and the last two weeks were the hardest… She died with courage… I wish i hugged her tighter on that last day before she went on a comma … I talk about her name daily and I know she’s watching over me from heaven… Mom I love you and miss you daily… may your soul rest in peace 💕🙏🏽💫
I wished I had done so as well sometimes I wonder if il ever recover in the slightest it's been 3 weeks
@@tayyibahyussoff5514 it hurts me at time but I am happy knowing that she’s in a better place… continue praying for their soul to rest in peace and we all hope to meet again when the right time come 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Be strong and know that your loved one is watching over you from heaven
Lost my mum, dad and wife in 2021 ..all gone in 6 weeks ..most of the time i dont know who im crying for but i know my mum has loved me all my life and she seems to be the one i want back the most ..not that i didn't love my father or wife with all my heart but my mum was on another level of love xxx...peace to you all
Sending you all the love and strength stranger! Keep strong
Feeling so low and broken and alone without mom. I miss you mom.
I hope you're doing better
My mom is dying now
Lost. My. Mom. Last. Year. I'm. Empty
@Jake McClendon wats. Funny
@Jake McClendon im gonna report you
Even thinking about losing my mother crushes me tbh. I'm just scared for the time when she actually ends up leaving..
I Like Chicken me too, I don't know what I'd do
I Like Chicken same. Idk if I can even watch this video...😔
I know, right? same! :(
I Like Chicken same I can't even think about it without tearing up .(
That's the same thing I'm wondering about. I love my mom so much I don't know what I would do if I couldn't see her again I would miss her so much I don't think I could get over it
I come back to this video every once in a while when I need a good cry. Can't believe it's already been 3 years. Miss you mom.
My mom passed 3 years ago as well.Miss her so.Feel alone without her ,nobody cares like your mom does.
It's been less than a day for me my mom passed away at 50
@@karlaconroy2099 I love my dad and mom I need both of them to make my life complete not just 1 and now that my mom is gone I feel lost I'd feel the same if my dad passed away
@@AnythingLounge I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you find peace. I wish I could say it gets easier. It just becomes something you learn to live with.
It makes 3 years today. I miss her more than anything.
My mom died 5 days ago, its not even a week and I miss her so much, my home doesn't feel the same without her around and nothing feels right but I know she's in a good place now and everything I'll do its gonna be dedicated to her, love you mom and like they say this is not a goodbye I see you around! I'll be waiting your beautiful and warm hugs!
And to anyone going through this, you can do it! Just keep on going bc I know for sure your mom or your loved one that sadly pass away didn't want you to stop! Let's make them proud and happy for us! ❤
Honestly, if anything happened to my mum my whole world would fall apart. Same goes for my father.
I thank God for them everyday.
+Rasmusb God..
Stepankas Pizzaslice yeah..
+Rasmusb +Rasmusb Honestly, i want to ask you a question. Why would you spend your time to comment that? I mean what goes through your mind? Is it you can't bare to see someone believing something you fail to? Because I didn't comment anything negative, but you sir, you feel the need to tell me something I believe in is fictional. Why? Would it kill you to not comment, because expressing your opinion is one thing but outright stating that something I believe in isn't true is another. I'm not trying to force religion onto you or anyone else here, so why you feel the need to call my God fictional is beyond me. Don't waste your time trying to tell me God isn't real, if you're looking for a debate go elsewhere.
+Rasmusb God is a powerful holy spirit that we trust and what we believe, and our people being killed for just believing in Him. She/He thanking Him for keeping his parents, that love Him/Her. Any more questions ?
+Rasmusb and could you prove God isn't real?
I miss her every day. I only feel better when I see others tell their story. If you aren't motherless you just can't understand the depth of loss and the yearning to see her face hear her voice and exist in her presence. I would give literally anything for one more day. 8.22.16 my life changed forever and everything I thought I knew was instantly unrecognizable. Ugh my heart breaks for you all but thank you. Your shared story makes me feel less alone.
When you lose your mother you never feel ok again
Hey I'm 16 and I just lost my mother in November from a blood infection, she was my best friend. Dad died 10 years ago and this Christmas I spend it without either of my parents. I can't seem to stop thinking about her every moment I think of her.
@@michaelsanchez8667 Truth is there is nothing anyone can do are say that can pain go away it only lessons over time but this kind of loss is a pain that never ends for me I find solace in stoicism but that kind of works for me you are a true orphan I would suggest a go fund me page
hey Taylor, i lost my mother on 24.10.2018 for lungs cancer... i can't even say how it feels.... still am not able to accept that.... its very very difficult.... i want to talk to you if possible.....may be help me to move on
Taylor Griner Oneal it’s like belonging to a group you did not sign but there is healing here 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Lost my mom suddenly in June 2020. She was 62. I was 32. She was a single parent. It was forever just her and I. I’d randomly go through crying spells just over the thought of ever losing her. I used to pray and plead that God take me with her should that day come. She was the air in my lungs. The beat in my heart. Every day I awaken is more of a struggle as time continues. My heart is forever broken. My mom taught me everything……but to live without her 💔
My mom died in 2019. I was 27 and she was 59. It hurts so bad!!! I'm so sorry. I'm balling my eyes out. If you ever need someone to talk to I'm here. I miss her so much
My mom died suddenly too
I’m so sorry. I know how you feel. I’m 33, I lost my mom unexpectedly in May she was 67. She was my best friend. She was a single mom too and it was just us too. All I want is her back so bad. I want to go back to all the time I had with her and be nicer and spend more time with her.
Life sucks... and then dies.
My mom also was my entire family and best friend. How are you 2 years later? Is there hope to get better over time. I'm really wondering.
I lost my mom to dementia last week. She’s my favorite person in this lifetime and it feels sad that I have to live the rest of my life without Her. I am happy she’s at peace without her body. She’s free and in a better world. I’m aware of this. I’m sad for losing her physically. It’s a hard one. 🙏🏼
Yes I also lost my dear mother. Although I myself am now elderly, the pain is no less devistating despite the years. She was my best friend and was the epitome of the most compassionate, adorable, lovely human being that ever walked the face of the earth!
Your mom will always be your favorite. I can’t imagine me losing mine. I hope you have a wonderful day. God bless you and your mom and family. ❤
Losing my mom was one of the hardest things that ever happened to me, but it has also made me the strongest person ever
katherinemald with sadness comes wisdom and with wisdom comes happiness
katherinemald I'm so sorry hun. Head up hun
Same.couldnt have said it better myself
Kenny Chen Wonderfully said 🙏
katherinemald my mum died recently too and it really helps finding people that have experienced the same thing I did makes me feel less alone. Thank you
Loosing my mum is one of my biggest fears. Just thinking about it, while writing this, I'm crying..
I want her to be happy so badly. She deserves all the happy things in the world.
Das Eiki me too 💔💔
Das Eiki I'm so sad I'm afraid of losing her she wants me to be happy in life but how can I be happy without her
I am crying so much right now as well, i can't picture losing my mother, im in my room crying quietly while everyone sleeps, im going to start telling my mother i love her more and possibly every day, i really hope she lives long, and tbh i hope i go before her, or any of my family members, i don't think I'll ever recover without her, i love her so much.
96serpendity youarelostnotme The strength to go on will be there when needed.I have lost my Mother and i was there so much for her when she passed it was like a weight lifted off of me.I know now that she is better off and i can rest not worrying about her.When i think of her i think of where she is not where she was.I do not think of the Hospital or the life support machines.I think of her in Heaven in total peace.I often hear people get stuck in the past but the past never changes.My Father is in the room right now days from dying not eating or drinking.Love them today and tell them.But as i said the power to go on responds to a need.But do not get stuck in the past that is depression.Jesus was my comfort thru it all.
I lost my mum twelve days ago, and buried her two days ago. She’d been deteriorating from alzheimers for a long time, but was aware of our presence until the last day. I was with her the moment she died, and I’m grateful that she wasn’t alone at the end. For all of that, I’m struggling to accept that I’ll never speak to her over the phone, or see her at lunches with her partner. She’s been there for 42 years and now she’s gone and I just can’t comprehend it. I know I’ll adjust and come to terms with it eventually, but right now it just feels… wrong.
This video is really beautiful. Sums up the pain of this type of loss eloquently.
My mom died today October 3 2022. Rest up now. No more pain.
I've just lost my mom to cancer... I'm still in denial, I can't believe she's gone. This video helps me a lot, we're not alone... No one can understand the pain unless they've experienced it.
Same. My mom died last Feb 9. I can't really explain the pain that I am dealing right now. 😔
@Jake McClendon get a job
I feel sorry for guys this lifeis too short....
My mom had passed 11-25-12 so I was 6 when my mom passed and I'm now 14 but my grandfather (my mom's father ) passed 11-3-20 I never knew my mom at all but you know what I knew her father but mildly regret arguing with him when I realized that he had passed
Lil
If I had a super power... I'll bring all moms back😭😭
Not all mothers are loving caring respectful of their kids
@@uncrowneddon7196 sorry to hear that bro....but i bet 99% are respectful
@@Harsh-ye5ud Maybe the data should be 70-75%
Rest are torturous either mentally or physically
Glad u got a good one :) :)
Yes it would be nice.
Bro how about dads?
I lost my mom father's day 2023. It almost killed me. I know she is in heaven and I know she will come back to get me when it's time for me.
❤❤❤
I lost my mom 8 days ago. It’s the most pain I have ever felt. Losing someone at 39 is just heartbreaking because you know that their life ended way too short. She was so full of life and joy and had the most radiant smile. I’m thankful for the memories I made with her and all the time I spent with her. I wish she was here and I got to say goodbye. Rest in paradise mom🤍
😂
Stay strong bro 😭
I miss my mom so much. She suffered for so many years and died so young. She deserved better. I'm sorry to all of those who lost their mom. You are not alone. So much love to you all
Tq
My mother and father died
I was.when 2
IAM working in hotel
I have to feed myself
I lost my mom at 13. My family tried to push me out of my sadness and pretend it was no big deal, telling me to move on, telling me to be strong... I'm now 47, very "successful" and all... but I never truly recovered from the loss of my mother and occasionally I have to sit and cry and let it out
No big deal? They should not have pushed you like that. Take the time you need to grieve.
@Raphael Colantonio same but my mom died of cancer.Before her death i couldn’t look into her eyes cuz it reminds me of me always being disrespectful towards her and i didn’t even got the chance to ask for forgiveness😞i dont think im worthy of redemption for all the sins i’ve done...
There’s no such thing as moving on from the death of a love one. All you can do is be strong, and live on. Whenever I hear someone say move on in response to another persons grief it sounds as if they want you to forget and let go of the love that person gave you and the love you had for them.
my mom just died a couple hours ago. I’m 12 rn and my dad went to get milk when I was born.
Sakura Shines i’m sorry to hear that...
I lost my mom on 12/6/22 and my dad 6 weeks ago it’s a lot to process 💔💔💔💔 I’m leaning on God for strength
I’m so sorry for your loss!!! Stay strong! I wish I could give you a hug rn cuz I know that’s what you need the most !
My heart goes out to you... I've just lost mine on Christmas Eve of 2022... it just doesn't feel real... the ik God will see us through our sorrows....
Makes me want to protect and cherish the parent I have left
I lost my mom 11/27/22 to cancer .. Sucks at 33 but I'm grateful for her life and I'm her legacy 💜
Hi, I lost my mom to cancer on 12/6/22 at 3.23pm. She is 71 and I'm 41. Feel the pain...
@@tenriksang My heart goes out to you and all the others who've lost their Moms ;w;
I lost my mom during this holiday season. I am heart broken. She was my friend and voice of reason. She could calm me down when I was mad. Make me happy when I was sad. I will miss her forever.
Lost mine this January
Hey man , its okay I'm 19 now and i lost my mom in 2012 so it happens , just always remember the good memories spent with your mother . Work hard and be the person she could be proud with 😊👍
Wish you lots of strength. It DOES get better. You will never forget but eventually you will learn to live again without these thoughts always looming in your head.
I went to hug my mum to remind her how much I love her
*i just love my mom so much, i wanna cry so much now*
lost imagination. Im about to go to
MaknaeMimi go hug her if you can ♥️
I wish I could do that :/ my mom lives in a different country... divorced parents.
Eva Trestip call your mom. Tell her over the phone how you feel. The same way you feel,needing your mom she needs you right back. Call her and tell her you love and miss her ♥️
I'm so sorry. I cried. I couldn't live without her. She's the person I love the most.
Your not really crying right ?
Tai Vriska Classy I totally cried watching that video no lie.
Rere E Your right...
Halapecia shaniqua Me too ._.
I know how you feel, my mom just passed away in a house fire.
I'm destroyed now.
Yesterday i lost my mother. Looking for consolation i came across this video. Very unexpected, my whole world shattered when i was told to be mentally prepared. She was suffering very much for the last few months. She had done very bit that she could do for everybody but she could not enjoy anything herself. I am now 19 years old and my ma was 61. Hope you will rest in peace forever.
I feel for you losing your mother when you both were still relatively so young... I just lost my mother who was 96 and still as bright and lively as ever. Though I had much more time with her than you, unfortunately, had with your dear mother, I miss her SO much... Please know that your mother is watching over you and that cord of love will never be broken... Take good care.
l wish you the best❤️Stay strong
Hii I'm 16 I lost my mother on 29-09-2022 I'm unable to overcome this...can U help me with all this ???
My Mom is Elaine George Asaro who passed this morning, and I'm in celebration of her freedom from pain and suffering. Gratitude over grief. -Bruce George
Losing my mother was the hardest thing I ever had to go through. People say that time heals everything but I don't agree with that statement. Time doesn't heal anything because 7yrs later I still remember that fateful day as if it was yesterday smh that empty void can never be filled...you just learn to live without them. Life is too short so don't take your parents for granted. Cherish everyday and every moment with the people you love as if it was your last. #FamilyOverEverything💯
Sokrathany Tea So true. I'm sorry for your loss. It's a loss(losing our Mothers) and it's every day.
Same here
Sokrathany Tea I agree! My mom passed away in Dec. 2015 and I'm still sad everyday, my dad passed away Nov. 1997 and I miss him still. Losing ones parents is a heartbreak that never mends.
I know my mom mom and dad passed away i am sad for her because my mom parents both passed away it is sad but i will pray for everyone who go thorugh hard times!
Sokrathany Tea going through this just now.. lost mom 4 weeks ago and I m already going crazy.. wonder how I would ever live with out her.. parents are everything.. they are our world.. no one like mom.. everyone reading this note treasure your parents beyond yourself.. they can never come back.. miss you mom..
Am I the only one crying thinking of losing my mom
Natalia Ti I'm crying too!! 😥😥😥
Spend time with her. And listen to what she tells you..
Time is limited. Specially with your parents
Natalia Ti I had a horrible dream last night. It was about my mom dying I was literally crying in my sleep I woke up and shot my mama a text saying I love her and that have a good day and stuff 💜I honestly couldn’t live without her😢
Natalia Ti I already lost my mom :/
Natalia Ti .. not at all.. it's All of us.. I lost mom 4 weeks ago and feels so lost already..
It feel a sense of relief knowing I am not the only one feeling this way after losing my best friend, my mum. Thank you for reminding me how lucky I was to have had her as a mother. We tend to forget this during grief…lots of love everyone during this difficult time.
Lost of my mum because of cancer. Watching her suffers from the side effect of chemotherapy and life slowly fading a way from her. Seeing how painful she was on her last few days was just too much to bear
I lost my mom four months ago. I am 47 years old and I feel like I’m a little girl lost in this world .She was my mother my best friend and after she became sick she became my daughter😔 I feel like my heart is constantly aching. 💔
Lol
Not funny
I lost my momma July this year. She was your age… I’m 20 years younger. We celebrated her 48th birthday yesterday and I can tell you, it’s okay. She grieved her momma just the same. I feel so lost and I just keep hoping it’s all a bad dream 😓
@R. James beautifully put. X
I hope your heart is no longer aching, I’m about to lose my mom and there’s a pain in my chest I never experienced before 😔
My Mom passed away last Thursday evening. It was very unexpected. Never got to say goodbye. She was the one person I would talk to on a real level everyday. Its just not the same without her around. Its like a bad dream that never ends. I am not married yet, or have my own children. But it is going to be hard times when those moments come up in life. We just had her funeral yesterday, and that was very hard, especially for my little niece. They were both very close. It is going to be hard to deal with life without her around. I miss her so much! She was not just my Mom, but also my best friend. She was always so loving, nurturing, and proud of us. So many upcoming plans we wanted to do together and places we wanted to visit. She was taken away far too soon and I will always miss her.
Me too I lost my mother last week Thursday. I love you mother rest well in the Lord
I hope you found a happier way of remembering her.
I miss my mother. I don't know how to recover because I am feeling so broken from inside.. no one can understand me like her..
My mom passed a week ago... I don't know how to move on. 😭
@Jake McClendon WHY LOL!??
I just lost my mom a few weeks ago to pancreatic cancer. She was my mom and my best friend. We both worked at the same hospital. We lived together too and did every thing together. We just loved hanging out. I was very blessed to have a wonderful relationship with my mom. I was able to leave my job and take care of her at home. I held her hand and watched her take her last breath. It's only been about four weeks but I am crushed without. I lost myself when she left. How on earth is the absence of her suppose to get better? Nothing feels good anymore. I love you mom.
My mum lost her fight 3 months ago, she suffered from poor health for many years including cancer, COPD and heart failure. I’m glad she is no longer in pain.
It hurts so much, I’m dreading Christmas.
Are you going ok now? My mum just passed away and I know it hurts.
@@aussie8114 I’m alright, just getting through each day. Trying to take care of my dad and not upset him is hard though.
How are you holding up?
@@claireb9119 Lost my mother last night, from stomach cancer. It's hard watching your most important person in the world in pain and there's nothing you can do about it. I feel you. Hope god helps us through this 🙏🏻 Stay strong.
@@godspeed6563 I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending virtual hugs and will think of you in my prayers. It’s hard to get through each day, to try and keep moving forward, but we will get through this. Thinking of you x
Claire B, my mom is in the same exact boat all those things! How are you doing now? I feel like I'm falling in a hole my life has exploded in on me. 😭😭😭
My mom died November 17th, 2018...11 days ago. She was everything. She gave me everything. I don't know how I'm supposed to live this life without her. I love you, mom. You were the most important person in my life.
I feel your pain so much, because i Lost my mom 1 month ago
My mom is dying
I don’t want to live without her
@@christoredentor5742 I'm so sorry about your loss. How are you doing today? I wish I could say it gets better. I still miss my mom everyday.
@@jsbodhi My heart goes out to you. Spend as much time as you can with her. Kiss her, hug her, try to ease her pain. Let her know how much she means to you. May she feel all the love.
@@fayrefitness5416 same here. Its a wound that never heal. Eventually the sorrow mitigates, but It never goes away, its still here, and so will be forever
my mom died of breast cancer when I was a teenager , she was the rock of our family .
I understand what these people went and still go through 😞.
Salam Niqola I feel you love. My mom passed away a month ago so suddenly, so I miss my mom a lot too. Hugsss
Salam Niqola I'm so sorry for your loss..
my mom was just diagnosed with breast cancer on March and shes already doing treatments; she's also tge rock of our family and I can't imagine what it would be like to lose her..
sending you love and positive vibes ❤❤❤❤
im so sorry. my mom is still here, but some of the most important people in my life have died of cancer. I try raising money for the American Cancer society. you can't bring back your mom, but you could save others!
Salam Niqola God bless you I'm sorry for your loss but she's in heaven a wonderful place
Salam Niqola same mine passed away about a month ago and I’m 14 ☹️☹️🤕
Just lost my Mom. She both lovingly and willingly GAVE (sacrificed) her life and her own hopes for me, and in the unjust end was - and allowed us ALL - to be eternalky grateful for it. I love you for ALL WAYS, my precious, loving, brilliant advanced angel mom.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
My mother died today: 2022.12.13.
May she rest in peace :(
Condolences to you and your family.May her soul Rest in Peace 🙏
i’m so sorry for your lost 💔
Today, 2022.12.22, we guided her to her last journey!
May she rest in peace! :(
She is the energy around you. Now she is with you all the time. Just like mine.
Sorry for your loss ❤I lost my mother 12/1/2022.
RIP Mom. You were the strongest person i've ever known.
Damn, did I ask? 💀
@@monkey5521 corny
I lost my mom when I was a senior in high school.. Never thought that would happen to me honestly.. I miss her every day 😞
My mother was strongest person I know
Lol
@@jeffguy8017 shame on u
Yeah I know exactly how you feel, I also lost my Mom not long ago, I miss her everyday too, and you realise that you don't realise what you had till it's gone is so true, just cherish the good times and happy memories you shared together and realise nothing in this life is permanent anyway, hope this helps X.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 God blessed you and your mother! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
My mom passed away end of September 2021 and I didn't visit her for those 2 months before. I regret that so much but I had to for my own mental health. The symptoms of her illness affected me very much. But I did call her almost everyday. She was always happy to listen to whatever I had to say. No matter how small or unnecessary it was. She was ALWAYS there. Like many other comments said: you can't understand the depth of the loss of your own mother until you've been in that position. For me it's the fact that no one will ever love me as unconditionally as my own mother. Not saying that people won't love me but there's this motherly love that you can't get from anyone else. That was YOUR OWN mother. They will/would literally go through hell and back for you and do anything they can to support you. She was so proud about anything I ever did! Realistically I've done so much to try to help her heal but deep inside I always wish I would/could have done more. I don't know if that feeling fades away but it is so difficult to live with. My advice is to live day by day... some days are harder than others but if you just make it through that one then maybe the next one will be a little easier. Also do what is best for you! It is YOUR grieving process and many don't understand the pain you're going through so do it at your pace. And for some people some of your actions or behavior during this process may seem odd (like maybe you and your mom had little rituals and traditions together) but do WHATEVER makes you feel better. People that really love and support you will respect your needs.
I don't know I just want to cry
I lost my mom two days before Christmas. Never will I I ever feel whole again and feel loved
l feeI you, friend😔The hoIidays just don't mean nothing without your Ioved ones
Why am I torturing myself with these depressing videos
I’ve been crying for an hour and a half watching these videos
I think you need to bring out certain feelings, in order to face them
Your pic makes it better xD
I just feel like smth is going is happen to my mom tonight 🤧😭😭😭
its ok talk to people someone talk your heart out
Lmao 😁😁😂😂😂😂
I lost my mom last week to cancer and she was my best friend.
Me too
Sorry for your loss bud
May her soul rest in peace❤️
I hope you have found a way of remembering her in a happier way.
Lol
My mom died due to a lot of pain due to many illnesses. While cleaning the estate I had learned she had a lump removed. But most of all yrs of smoking. She always pushed me to never give up and when she get really sick I would help her not to give up. Been really hard. She passed Aug 22, of this yr. I do miss her hugs. She was indeed very strong! I just wish I spend more time with her then being away from her.
My mom is still with me but, she is 82 and I am seeing signs of dementia. I have taken care of her since I was 11 as she has schizophrenia but she is the sweetest person. All of my compassion and understanding is because of her. I don't know when she will go but when she does I will be devastated. Bless you all and love one another, we're all we got.
Both of my parents are schizophrenics and I love them both equally but was much closer with my mama. She passed away last year at the age of 51. I am almost 27 and I can relate with you. My compassion and understanding, strength came from her and my dad. mostly her though. She loved so hard.
I am truly scared of losing my mother. Her being alive is so important and means so much to me. I don't think I'll be able to survive if she would pass away. I am so scared.
Edit: it’s been a few years since I posted this comment, coming back to it and reading everyone’s responses and stories tore my heart apart.
It’s been almost 1 year since I lost my mom. She passed away in September of 2020. Almost 1 year and everyday is still hard, still painful. Even writing this down feels surreal. I feel like I haven’t been able to breath since that day. I’ve been really trying my best to heal and overcome all the burdens, all the problems in my life, but it’s really hard. I’m just so broken. I miss her so much. I miss my mother so so much.
If your mother is still in your life, please treasure her. Treasure her everyday. Live each day as if it could be your last one, don’t fight with her, don’t let your last conversation be a bad one. Make her feel loved and tell her how much you love and appreciate her. Please, take care of your mother. Please, tell her you love her and hug her. I can’t do these things anymore, but if you can, please… do your best
Eda that used to be me, I lost my mom last year in October it was scary and hard but I’m alive still 💗💓
You will survive.. she will motivate you to keep going,
Cause my mom died a week ago and she has made me the strongest thing ever
Eda I regret not having that same mentality when I had the chance..
Eda I lost me mom to cancer :((
I lost mine on April 7 of this year in a car wreck. I am 16.
"so it's not goodbye... it's just, see you later" 😭💔
"it's just, see you later"
I like that 😊 also I said this to a friend of mine who was still grieving the loss of a family member and he got a little chocked up and a little teary-eyed
Ugh, that guy in the orange sweater 😢 I just want to give him a hug
When my mom dies I’ll feel like dying.
Yeah because our mom waiting for us in heaven😊❤
That's exactly what I told my mother last December. I didnt actually say Goodbye. I said, "Later, Mummy". She couldnt talk but I knew she could hear. I told her about some plans that i had, some messages from her friends then I said, "Later, Mummy". I am a Christian. I know I will see my mum again.
OP Threat Thank’s man. I feel the same.
My mom died 4 days ago .. we weren't prepared for the loss .. she was this childish beautiful loving person, who never meant to cause pain or sadness to others .. we're refugees in Lebanon so, my brother and I, and my mom were like best friends .. it just breaks my heart that we lost her .. I think it's really helpful to read the comments to know we're all in this together.. let's all have faith that they are now present with our merciful God, he chose when to give life to them, and when to end it ..
If you're watching this for the first time after your mom died I'm sorry I wish I could take the pain away, it's not fair and you don't deserve to live with this pain. Sadly, it doesn't go away, but you learn how to live with it. And you will carry her with you in your lowest pits and your greatest triumphs. And if she loves you, she'll be there right by your side, smiling at you proud of the person you've become. Just know you are not alone. And be sure to talk to people about it and surround yourself with people who love you.
My mum is dying of cancer and this makes me sad
Stay strong💗 She'll beat cancer!
Penelope Woods I hope she beats cancer! Stay strong ❤️❤️❤️
Penelope Woods Anything can happen! Stay positive, pray, and hope for the best. God is good ALL the time!
thank you ! I hope so to x
I relate. My dads dying of cancer
It's been a month without you, Mom. I miss you everyday.
me too bro i have lost her on 09/02/2019.
Psychopath cluster b disorder
Lol
Damn, did I ask? 💀
@@monkey5521 you're the boy whose been eating cereals with water because you're father never came back with the milk 💀
My mother is in hospice and I'm truthfully terrified. I love her so much, and everyone is so strong in this video and comments. I hope I can have that strength when that time comes. Smh 😢
😂
I just lost my mom today, this is her account, i feel like a piece of me gone
Same here 😞
God bless you ❤
Same 💔💔💔😭😭😭
😢
Love your mom as much as you can while she is still here! Time is our most precious gift.
Thank you buzzfeed for putting up this video. While people are celebrating mother's day worldwide, there are some of us who are missing our dearest mother. I do miss my mother whom i lost to cervical cancer. I would want to hug those who lost their mother. Always treasure what you have .
I know this comment is going to fall on deaf ears, but I need to get this out. I lost my mom a few hours ago unexpectedly. I'm 17 and she was 41. Me and my entire family are absolutely devastated. But no one is as broken as my dad. She has had major health issues for more than a decade, and has suffered physically and mentally more than anyone I know. She has had many cancers, many infections, many seizures, a stroke, potassium issues, lung issues including pneumonia, a numothorax, and multiple collapsed lungs, she has had more than 70 procedures/surgeries in the past decade. And that's just to name some of it. Although she was in constant pain, she always had a good attitude and an uplifting spirit that people wanted to be around. She would give the shirt off her back to a complete stranger if they asked for it. I have no idea what my family and I are going to do now, and I am so crushed to see my dad and my 14 year old sister be so sad. I don't know how everything is going to turn out, but I have to deal with it and stay strong for them. This is for my mom... Brianna, may you build a beautiful mansion up in heaven to wait for us to get there. I love you so much.
I’m so sorry to hear this. I hope you’re feeling a bit more hopeful now after some time has passed. She’ll always be in your heart. My 14 year old twin grandkids just lost their mom at 44 3 months ago after similar circumstances to your mom. We thought she’d get a liver transplant but it wasn’t to be sadly. Life goes on and you are young. Live a life to make her proud!
Mine was 44😢
I just lost my mum and I'm so heartbroken for she was my everything and I don't feel I can go on without her. I love her so much and I wish I had done more for her.
I’m 16 and lost my mom to lung cancer July 27, 2019. It hurts a lot but god sends home the best people first. I lost my best friend but gained the best angel. I love u and miss u mommy
jordan arce stay strong brother I’m 15 lost my mom to lukimia (blood cancer) back in March 2017 I’m not gonna say it gets better because no-one wants to hear that but it does you just have to talk to people and if there’s one thing to say is the hardest times are Mother’s Day birthdays and holidays. The first Christmas sucks but just stay strong
Im so sorry for both of you. 15 and 16 are wayy too young to lose a parent. Im 23 and lost my mom to lung cancer in July. I feel like I'm to young to lose my mom... Im so sorry. I can relate trust me
Lost my mom last October to lung cancer. She never smoked a day in her beautiful life. I know your pain. I’m 17
I'm 15 and I lost my mum 8 months ago to skin cancer, so grateful for the time I got to spend with her, and I still miss her every day ❤
Lost my mom same day same year
I lost my mom four months ago today. She visits me in my dreams sometimes and it used to hurt because I would wake up and it wasn't real. But I believe that she is there every night I have a dream about her, so I go to sleep hoping she will show up again so I can spend time with her. "Of course it is happening inside your head, Harry, but why on earth should that mean that it is not real?"
Veronica Dutridge so sorry for your loss xx I can't imagine what would happen if I lost my mum, I'm 16 but it can happen whenever! Stay strong 💜💙
Veronica Dutridge My mum passed away last July and this coming makes it a year. She does visit me in my dream especially when I have deep sense of missing her and when I'm having tough times. I know I am not alone and neither are you.
"But know this; the ones that love us never really leave us", stay strong! hugs!
It's ok, she's always with you.. even now.
Veronica Dutridge 😭😭😭😭
I lost my mom because her heart stopped beating when I was 3 years old I really wanted to meet her before she passed but I never got to meet her
Im sorry to hear that. My prayers and good wishes to you!
I have lost my mother last Friday 1st April 2022. I don't know how I am going to live without her. I am in complete denial. I can't even to think she's gone. I can't bear the loss. I can't bear the pain. I am 31, she was 61. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH MOM. You are everything.
I lost mine too in August 27th, she was 61 too and I'm 28. I would give everything possible for one more day to meet her again😢😢
I lost my mom April 29 of this year unexpectedly. I’m 36 and she was 62. I feel all the pain. I’m sorry for your loss
Lost my mom.i love you. We are family in christ.
The ache never goes away.... RIP Mom 😇
TrixieG85 sorry for ur loss..may god gives the strenght bear the sorrow
I lost my mom three years ago, she was the one person I talked to everyday, now I have nobody to talk with about life and my kids, I finally got my life together and now you're not here to see it. Not here to see your grandbabies grow up and how they talk about you and watch videos of you. Although I see you in my dreams and I make sure I get that hug before I wake up, it hurts to let go every time. Now your memories are with me forever, love you and miss you everyday 😔
n8vbunny ncjfdjndej god bless I love u 💗💗💗💗 everybody does
n8vbunny SAME. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP. AND THE BEAT WAY TO HONOR HER IS TO LIVE YOUR GREATEST LIFE.
My mum wasn’t the best at times, but I’d do anything to have her back. The person she thought she could trust took her away from us in the cruelest way possible.
M so sorry Chloe
Please stay strong ❤️
May your mother rest in heavenly peace and may you, her child hope Lily find peace again and know that your mother would want you to be happy and to move forward with life, but keep her memory alive.🥰
Beautiful video, thanks! My loving Mom is currently fighting for her life after dealing with liver, blood and kidney issues over the last few years. Talk about a fighter. I've admired her strength through it all, she's certainly my hero. ❤️
I’m sorry to hear your mum is going through a battle with her health. She’ll be in my prayers 🙏
My mum was the same, 10 years she battled with poor health and kept going. She’s my inspiration for living life and not giving up ❤️
My mom passed away last Friday and buried her ash yesterday. While her remains were being buried, the sun was shining beautifully. I hope she would be happy and smile up in Heaven.
@Jake McClendon creep
I lost my mom today...im struggling...how r u now?
@@ducheau100 I've been reporting him continually for a year. Administrators do nothing
My mom passed away April 8, 2021. I’m 46. I crumbled like a child. We had a complex relationship. Mommy, thank you for your DNA, your smile, the only love you knew how to show. Fly mommy. Shed all the humanly hurts and pain you had to endure. I love you. ❤️- your “BooBoo”
my condolences. i’m so sorry for your loss. be strong ❤️❤️❤️
My mom's about to pass I don't know how I'm going to get through life without her. I love you mommy.♥️✝️🙏🙌. ♥️ Joey
🕊️🙏✝️⭐🫂⛪🦰🗡️🛡️
I lost my Mom last month suddenly. I miss her so much.
I'm a 12 year old boy. My mother passed away a month ago, after fighting cancer for 3 months. I still didn't really overcome her death, because she is my own mother. Nobody can replace her. Despite this, now I feel better about it, thanks to my friends and my other family members. I always know that my mother isn't really gone. She is always there, inside my heart.
I deeply regret all my bad actions that I committed. All those words I said. All those desrespectful actions. She was a strong woman. She never cried in front of me, always smiled and always listened to my opinions. Although it seemed like I didn't like her, I always knew I loved her, deep down inside of me.
On the day she passed away, I cried for a solid hour. My aunt cheered me up, by saying that my mother wouldn't want to see me like this. She would always want to see me strong.
I really miss my mother. The first thing I would say to her if I saw her again would be: I deeply regret my actions. I apologize. Thank you for all the support. I love you, mom.
You are incredibly strong for a 12 year old. Hope you feel better.
Jake McClendon what is wrong with you.
Jake McClendon ok then.
@Jake McClendon Then go get a girlfriend.
Lol
My mom was recently diagnosed with breast cancer and I'm scared but I know she's going to fight and I'm going to be with her every step of the way.
Shaylie Hayes Your mom is strong! You both can get through it!
Shaylie Hayes that happened to me too! my mom was just diagnosed on March with breast cancer, and I know exactly how you feel. If you ever need to talk, I'm here for you. much love, and I hope our mothers beat cancer and live long healthy and happy lives 💕💕💕
I hope she'll be okay
Don't worry. I know she won't let cancer to ruin her life
Are you both ok? ;-;
Lost my mum a few days ago. She was 50 and suffered from mental illness and alcohol abuse. We weren’t in the best terms but at 18 it’s so difficult to imagine her not being there for me graduating university and getting married and having children etc. no matter how bad things got mum I hope you know I’m so proud of you and I will always love you. I hope to make you proud and whilst I don’t believe there is anything after this life I hope you’ll always be with me in memories.
I love you mom and miss you so much! I desperately wish I could see you, hug you, and talk to you.
Me too
Mom your love will never be replaced. Such a void in my life right now. Sometimes I feel ok but when I think of your death my heart physically hurts . God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, the Wisdom to know the difference.
Lol
This comment section touched my heart more than the video. Stay strong to all those who've lost a parent. You're not alone ❤️ I have such admiration for your strength.
I lost my mom 7 days ago 26 May 2022 because of cancer …. couldn’t go for her last rites .. so far away from her ❤️❤️❤️will never see her face , will never hear her voice..❤️❤️❤️be always with me MA I need u
She passed away today. I can't breath I missed her phone call and now she is just gone.
I'm crying, just the thought of my mom dying breaks my heart. i don't even know what i'll do without her. She means the world to me, i can't live without her. She is always there for me when i'm upset,not feeling good, and if i need something she tries her best to get it for me. I just want her to be happy and to live a happy life until her time comes. Shes my best friend ever. i'm totally giving her lots of hugs and kisses and telling her i love her all though i already do that everyday.
God bless all the moms out there. No matter how you feel about your mom, just remember she did a lot for you
We can never get over this grief, this pain. We can only move forward with grief by our side.
Death of a very close loved one leave a hole that nothing and noone can ever fill in. We can only fill that hole with pain and grief. But that's ok. So long as we don't let our pain and grief define us. But we can define our pain as our motivation to love more and to live with purpose.
brahh all of you in the comments im so so sorry for your loss. i cannot imagine the amount of strength you guys have, stay strong you all..