How to cope with our loved ones demise | Sadhguru

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  • Sadhguru replied to the questionnaire when she asked that she is not able to cope with her mother’s death and no spiritually is working #sadhguru #sadhgurulatest #life #motivation #death #spirituality ‪@sadhgurugrace‬

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  • @anonymous_4321
    @anonymous_4321 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    I am 29 and lost my mother a month ago. It has really given me some peace. My mother has done everything for me , so this is my responsibility to make myself happy for her atleast. Love you Mummy ...will always cherish what you taught me . Thank you for being my mother in this life and wish to be your daughter for every life.

    • @jennyhong6746
      @jennyhong6746 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      💓sending love

    • @ChetanAdivinnavar
      @ChetanAdivinnavar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    • @darling1070
      @darling1070 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Iam 20 years and I lost my mother 20 days back on Mahashivratri night 😢

    • @Sartaj_1
      @Sartaj_1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Lost my mother 6 mths back. The pain at times is immense. Probably she could have lived for a few more years, but Im happy she was always there for me. I still talk to her and pray to her. Im sure we will meet our loved ones in the other Realm after we complete our journey. I too wish to be her son in every life.

    • @chetanyamundachali5612
      @chetanyamundachali5612 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do we meet our dead family members after death?@@Sartaj_1

  • @midnightcat6116
    @midnightcat6116 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +264

    I can really relate to this woman’s suffering. Sending all people who have lost someone close to them much love and healing ❤️‍🩹

    • @gaaanaaa
      @gaaanaaa 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes everything people see on social media.
      They just wanna relate.
      They act as if bad things only happen to themselves and until they see on social media they think it doesnt happen to any1 else.😂

    • @meee6145
      @meee6145 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤗🤗

    • @AnushreeMajumdar29feb
      @AnushreeMajumdar29feb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹

    • @AtortAerials
      @AtortAerials 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I can relate to her suffering but can't relate to him.

    • @alexjoseph9935
      @alexjoseph9935 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      lost my mother on November 6 of this month Deep agony feeling to end myself

  • @firuzadegamwala7914
    @firuzadegamwala7914 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +147

    There is no death.....only a change of worlds....the spirit always lives❤

    • @dennisbergen7657
      @dennisbergen7657 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes ❤️

    • @gaaanaaa
      @gaaanaaa 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Lol..
      After the earth explodes i wonder where the spirit will live?
      In space vaccum?

    • @firuzadegamwala7914
      @firuzadegamwala7914 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Our body is a temporary garage for our soul....after death the soul is free....it takes a new body later on....depending on one's Karma in previous life. Got it?
      Some realized souls who have achieved enlightenment do not take rebirth but are united with the infinite. They achieve the heavenly abode.

    • @gaaanaaa
      @gaaanaaa 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@firuzadegamwala7914seems like u are lord buddha .wow so much knowledge.. its making me cringe

    • @firuzadegamwala7914
      @firuzadegamwala7914 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Buddhism don't have a God....I am no God.....I am nothing......nothing to give but Love. And sorry to make u cringe.

  • @sanilac78968
    @sanilac78968 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +139

    The lady is in pain. She said spiritual learnings are not working. Thats the key you don't learn anything spiritual you only realize, untill you realize no amount of learning can help. No guru on this earth can touch ones head and permanently instantaneously make anyone at peace when facing inevitable facts of life. A guru can only guide with realization and thats what Sadhguru can do as well. I hope and prey she finds peace soon.

    • @lakshganesh4776
      @lakshganesh4776 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Agree 💯

    • @JQUICK21
      @JQUICK21 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      LOL at you! Wow you don’t know what you are talking about! If a Guru can “guide” you then that means you have plenty to “learn”! Understand me? You have to know something and learn about things before you can realize it….go back to school….you are embarrassing yourself….Sadhguru spent two previous lifetimes failing to experience what He wanted….and so, He had to learn how to “get there”….

    • @JQUICK21
      @JQUICK21 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why do millions from India read ancient writings? LOL they do it to LEARN! Is this difficult for you to understand?😂

    • @saudaminivarshney4731
      @saudaminivarshney4731 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Why any comments, say good and be good, heal yourself and let her too

    • @sanjeevnanda1248
      @sanjeevnanda1248 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Such events are opportunities and turning points of time , to establish knowledge effectively.

  • @sparkely1122
    @sparkely1122 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Oh man I can feel her pain so hard!!!!!! I wish I could hug her!!! I’m so sorry to this soul!!! 😢

  • @gomathapaliya2381
    @gomathapaliya2381 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +256

    I was almost scared not knowing how this might end. What a beautiful message Sadhguru! 🙏💗🎉

    • @goranandrijasevic2534
      @goranandrijasevic2534 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Read my comment, fool.

    • @XPandXP
      @XPandXP 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good wisdom

    • @lalitds8427
      @lalitds8427 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wisdom in pure form ❤❤❤

    • @anuragnathyal5889
      @anuragnathyal5889 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I lost my real brother just a few months back that too infront of my eyes in a terrible accident , I was sitting behind him in bike.
      Some people are finding Sadhguru's this message harsh. But let me tell there should be atleast someone that can tell you things brutally honestly otherwise you won't get anything out of just listening solace. I am thankful he said the way he said it helped me a lot in coping with my brother's demise.

    • @pasttimer27
      @pasttimer27 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@anuragnathyal5889I'm so sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolences to you. I pray you and your family have the strength to go through these times.

  • @user-vc4zp8sv6f
    @user-vc4zp8sv6f 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    I must be amongst very few lucky ones, like Sadhguru explained, my mother lovingly made me understand that her death should not pain me and I should accept it as normal course of life, she also reminded me that sooner or later I will also die and so will next generation, so it’s a cycle which is not be worried about. She also explained me that I should recognize my role then as a daughter but now myself a mother , she said I must move on from identifying myself not just as her girl but another child’s mother . Last thing she reminded me is that she lost her mother in her teens and I was in my thirtys which itself is blessing .
    Such great soul she was that knowing she was dying and that I should be steady , she gave this wonderful lesson when she was still alive . When she passed away I did not cry at all, there was some sort of peace in heart, I thank her each day for it, I do miss her a lot, her touch , her smell of her sarees , all her wise words teachings practically everything she gave me to make who I am today
    I understand the value of her teachings today a step more after listening to Sadhguru and I have been teaching this to my teenage kids as well I want them to have that wisdom when I pass away Namaskaram

    • @ther3
      @ther3 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So beautiful!! ❤✨🌊 Thank you

    • @kuldeepkaanand8674
      @kuldeepkaanand8674 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏🪷🪷

    • @user-bf9qm3ql1o
      @user-bf9qm3ql1o 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Beautiful...Thanks a lot.❤

    • @Ghostangel07
      @Ghostangel07 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am going to screenshot this. So beautiful❤

    • @aamirsiddiqui1205
      @aamirsiddiqui1205 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It helped.

  • @imabbqurazz5251
    @imabbqurazz5251 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    A 100 Sadhgurus would transform this planet. So beautiful.

    • @ascetic1
      @ascetic1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Let the transformation start with you.Who knows you could be 1 of 100🙏

    • @funfactsncatscutenfunnyvid5808
      @funfactsncatscutenfunnyvid5808 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@ascetic1very positive words bro.. ❤

    • @swadhinkumarbarik1062
      @swadhinkumarbarik1062 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for the positive thought.. we need 100 Sadhgurus.

  • @rapperprince2189
    @rapperprince2189 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    I lost my mom 3 days ago, she was the resemblance of the position of dad because she did everything for me and my brother and also she has helped so many of people....when she was alive I don't know the value of her and I was like a spendthrift and irresponsible but after she died now I realised Everything. One thing I would like to say to all, please do love and spend a time with your mom and dad , take care of them when they're with you🖤🙂.... I love you Mom you're my queen and you're my inspiration 👸🔥🥺 love you forever 🕯️Lourdes Marie🕯️

  • @amitgoel08
    @amitgoel08 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    Having lost my Mother recently, I have been in the same state of mind as that lady. Suffering from the guilt that I could have done more for her, and why she left so soon. This message from Sadhguru has given me peace of mind. My heartfelt gratitude to you Sadhguru 🙏

    • @jennyhong6746
      @jennyhong6746 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    • @jyotsanadang7203
      @jyotsanadang7203 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      same here i lost both my parents and keep getting these thoughts of guilt

    • @shubhashri7373
      @shubhashri7373 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@jyotsanadang7203I lost my Dad to cardiac Arrest on 5 November the guilt will be there till my last breath

    • @suhasdj11
      @suhasdj11 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Even I'm ... I lost everything now when Mother is no more..

  • @neeranangia9609
    @neeranangia9609 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    I lost my mother too, she was my mother, friend, comfort, love, support, caring, strong and everything u can think of, She was no less than a God to me, I am just grateful that I got to walk and share the same space in this life. Noone will love me more than her....I am sure I will meet her one day. Stay strong, you never know your mother might be watching over u.

    • @balud860
      @balud860 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Life is a unknown way to travel
      So wherever we travel let's make it a good one

  • @user-bb6xq8rs4g
    @user-bb6xq8rs4g 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    I lost my mother a month ago. Thank you for this, it’s what I needed to hear.

  • @teresapulido3258
    @teresapulido3258 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I COMPLETELY hear the girl. I lost my ever dearest mom 9 years ago. I always have this flash in my mind. People say time will heal but no one defines the time you see. I am just waiting for the day when I can reunite both my Mom and dad. I count my years to fully be there for my kids/ grandkids if needed and just can’t wait for the day to meet my dearest parents again who sacrificed so much for their children. ❤️

    • @cartooncreater9215
      @cartooncreater9215 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here sister😢

    • @suhasdj11
      @suhasdj11 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Even I lost both parents at young age...This is a lifelong punishment for children..

  • @DJMIGHTYZION
    @DJMIGHTYZION 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    My grandmother always said first I will pass then your mother then you then your children it’s the circle of life I’ve never forgotten about this ❤

  • @smartnaren1
    @smartnaren1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    I'm 29, my mother died when i was 10, my father died when i was 21. Untill the middle of this video , i really felt terrible due to that, not 24x7 but yes, I do think that, my life is at this state due to their absence, but by the time the video ends, i really feel free. Letting go has happened. Thanks Sadhguru ❤❤🙏

    • @NPPREMA
      @NPPREMA 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      God bless you ❤

    • @smartnaren1
      @smartnaren1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@NPPREMA 🙏

    • @Awesome46009
      @Awesome46009 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I pray for you

    • @smartnaren1
      @smartnaren1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Awesome46009 🙏

    • @user-ur1go4gz8k
      @user-ur1go4gz8k 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂 I also pray for you ❤❤

  • @KanakadurgaDurga-gn6ep
    @KanakadurgaDurga-gn6ep 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    It has been 41 days since my mother passed away, your precious speech gave me so much courage Sadhguru

  • @monishajayachandran8655
    @monishajayachandran8655 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I lost both my parents back to back on 13 months of gap. 2021 and 2022. Depression and Anxiety slowly started to grow in me, I started listening to all Sivan songs and Mantras which was in my language Tamil. Started to listen Sadguru’s video, Mangayarkarasi videos and some other positive videos. I overcame depression but this anxiety is still being with me(but I am better now not fully ok) Even this minute I was thinking about my parents and got this video while suffering, it is really really hard to overcome.
    And I Am the only daughter 😢
    To all of us who lost our parents I wish we get to heal sooner.

    • @kidsnchildrencorner7533
      @kidsnchildrencorner7533 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You are a powerful, peaceful and pure soul.

    • @AnushreeMajumdar29feb
      @AnushreeMajumdar29feb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of your questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹

    • @ScienTechHub
      @ScienTechHub 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      dear sister, The way you overcome this hard time, is a inspiration to all of us. Now you become the light to so many people. GOD BLESS YOU with lots of love , courage, and peace, be HAPPY forever.

    • @sparrowsadhanarajkumar3836
      @sparrowsadhanarajkumar3836 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Most of us who are single daughters are the worst affected. Missing my mom to....

    • @AnushreeMajumdar29feb
      @AnushreeMajumdar29feb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@sparrowsadhanarajkumar3836: Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of your questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹

  • @meenamanaktala4389
    @meenamanaktala4389 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I lost my mother 2 months back and still grieve as though it happened just yesterday. I felt Sadhguru was directly talking to me as I am an only daughter of my loving parents too! Jai Shri Sadhguruji!🙏🙏

  • @Krishnakripa-satya-gyaan
    @Krishnakripa-satya-gyaan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I am going through this..on the verge of losing my mom and its depressing and tearful and the spiritual lessons don't work, and somewhere I feel the pain she is also going through 😢

  • @carolinebielby5924
    @carolinebielby5924 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I felt so much grief hearing that girl i wanted to hug her 😢my eyes were tear filled i do hope she finds some peace❤

    • @vlastabarac
      @vlastabarac 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me too❤

    • @Serenity.zen.Sphere
      @Serenity.zen.Sphere 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@vlastabaracme too, I was crying and couldn't stop

    • @vlastabarac
      @vlastabarac 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Serenity.zen.Sphere pure emotion. I hope he helped her...but it dosn't work for me that way...

  • @bethlehemtilahun5724
    @bethlehemtilahun5724 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I am feeling like he is talking to me too. My heart really goes out to this woman as I too lost my mother a month ago and I am fallen apart . Thank you so much Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏

  • @alexmanga4897
    @alexmanga4897 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I lost both and its not easy,I pray for healing for all that are going thru this,thank you Sadghuru for Wizdom words.

  • @rajh9455
    @rajh9455 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Come December 7th, it would be 4 years since I lost my mother to cancer. I still have nightmares, feel lack of breath and guilty thinking I couldn’t save her… The pain I get is terrible. My heart goes for this lady and I literally can feel her pain.
    But really, wonderful message and a blessing from Sadguru. From this moment on, I too will try and change my perspective on this subject 🙌🙏🏻

    • @user-xm1bt6fi5o
      @user-xm1bt6fi5o 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same here.even i have nightmares lack of breath sometimes .fearing the loss of my mother to cancer since past 6 months. Feeling i could have saved her .tried a little more.Gurudev plz help me bless me..

  • @purnimavenugopal7091
    @purnimavenugopal7091 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    I lost my Mom 22 years back.. I am sorry, I blasted out crying loud when I heard her cry. Nothing works.. But yes, time heals to a certain extent dear.. Just pray for her that she gets a better family to take rebirth. Pray 🙌🙌for her. Bouts of loneliness will be occasional. Stick to your spiritual pursuits and also friends!

    • @AnushreeMajumdar29feb
      @AnushreeMajumdar29feb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹

    • @purnimavenugopal7091
      @purnimavenugopal7091 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AnushreeMajumdar29feb Sure! Thanks!

    • @priyam3006
      @priyam3006 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This question was like a test for sadguru in my inner conscience .Message was good but wished a better spiritual answer .
      I lost my mother 8 years back . At class 10 . after her lost , i joined college . No one to guide , no one to restrict . Now, After 8 years . self realizing and seeking spiritual growth .

    • @alexjoseph9935
      @alexjoseph9935 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Rebirth there?

  • @Moderator.
    @Moderator. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I lost my mother last month. I wish I could talk to this sister and make her understand that when your loved ones die their suffering ends and yours begin, you feel unbearable emotional pain, you miss the support and love they have provided to you in your most darkest time only to keep you happy and keep moving in life. So their prime agenda was to see you happy and keep moving. All you need is to fullfill the void because of their demise by being the same loving and supportive person for rest of your family.

    • @sripriyarao7238
      @sripriyarao7238 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I lost my beloved father to covid... n it was sudden, most unexpected n has left a huge scar in my existence. There's deep emotional pain n constant feeling of hopelessness. Noone can replicate that affection. Im single n its just me n my mother now.... ther's constant fear n insecurity.

    • @anonymous05932
      @anonymous05932 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😢

    • @joannenascimento9213
      @joannenascimento9213 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Not all of us have any family left.

  • @ukdave472
    @ukdave472 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    The way this girl started, brought tears to my eyes.
    I suffered this loss when I lost my father in 2021.
    Anyway, Jay Ma Durga, happy Navratri to all.

  • @pradeepthakur7093
    @pradeepthakur7093 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Maa and pita ji is most expensive gifts we have...love you maa and pita ji❤

  • @ushaanand7885
    @ushaanand7885 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    My mom was 92 when she passed away.. She did not live a worthy life what she deserved to be!!
    Last3-4 years was miserable.. Till today I was worrying about her and her miserable life.. making me cry and mentally down!!
    Today I want to become strong to cherish only her good memories she has left and kindly bless me for that Sadguru 🙏🙏🙏
    I have become mentally depressed too seeing her last day’s ( year’s) suffering.. visiting psychiatrists and taking anti depressants..
    not worried for she died.. but worried for the amount of displeasure she carried with her.. till her death .. only we could understand..
    bless me to over come all these guruji..she was a precious woman than a mother!!🙏🙏🙏

    • @sangeetashinde7875
      @sangeetashinde7875 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am also suffering the same problem what to do i didn't understand

    • @Indianvideoguy007
      @Indianvideoguy007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Mother is most precious posession in every one's life
      So as sadguru said we need to cherish and enlive her dreams and not be sad which any mother doesn't wish for her child
      Again each person suffering is the result of karma from previous births there is no other reason I think

  • @anotherSavingGrace
    @anotherSavingGrace 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This happened to a friend .. n she was so worried abt her Mom esp her afterlife.. whether she is safe 'up' there.. she did a lot of remedies n rituals
    One day in her meditation she appeared to her n said she is fine .. it's her sadness that's actually making it heavy for them up there..
    Ever since she moved on

  • @sandipchakroborty1106
    @sandipchakroborty1106 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I lost my father last 21 september 2023. I can feel her pain. We need to accept that those persons with whom we have sweetest and selfless memories of our life will go.

    • @rashmikakhandaki5550
      @rashmikakhandaki5550 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I lost my father on 20 September 2023. Very hard to accept the truth..😢very hard. Still can't believe what has happened.

    • @rashmikakhandaki5550
      @rashmikakhandaki5550 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@gaaanaaa that's so mean of you to reply this way. I am not begging for sympathy. I don't want any sympathy from anyone. if you don't want to read the comment then don't read.

    • @rashmikakhandaki5550
      @rashmikakhandaki5550 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@gaaanaaa you have your parents with you?

    • @shubhashri7373
      @shubhashri7373 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@rashmikakhandaki5550 I lost my dad to cardiac arrest on 5 November 2023..Still there is a guilt of I could have saved him

    • @aksharapandey9788
      @aksharapandey9788 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@rashmikakhandaki5550 i lost my grandfather today who raised me. Life seems too difficult. But I will try to be strong for my mother

  • @lorriedre
    @lorriedre 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    That was most beautiful, and I will cherish all the memories of my Mother, to honour her, and I will be joyful, and thankful. Much love from her fills my heart so sweetly. Thank you for your very wise words!!!!

  • @ArvindKumar-pn1te
    @ArvindKumar-pn1te 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    I got tears in my eyes.... wisdom pours from his words, pranam Sadguru!!!

    • @Hunteriscoming
      @Hunteriscoming 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂 Jaggi is a wife murdering charlatan

  • @deepalisinha9813
    @deepalisinha9813 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    My heart goes out for her , cannot get over my mom's loss it's almost 3 years ago....

    • @Sarah-ef2lz
      @Sarah-ef2lz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤ I lost my mum 8 weeks ago x

  • @Pendragon981
    @Pendragon981 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I lost my mother not too long ago. Lost any and all connection to my family other than my sister, wasn't expecting that. She was always there for me. It has been difficult making loyal friends who I can trust or find a girlfriend who is genuine. Now I am so completely alone. The loneliness and darkness are so vast that it has become like a sentient companion. Pray for me for I am truly lost.

    • @sanobermalhotra6307
      @sanobermalhotra6307 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      So sorry for your loss. Please go out into the world and meet people, make friends and begin to enjoy life. Life is a special gift given to us. Good Luck.

    • @alexjoseph9935
      @alexjoseph9935 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      it's hard truly just lost my mother last month, really painful, left alone, may be we both sailing with the same situation, but the universe will take care of us

    • @infinity1726
      @infinity1726 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Even though i haven't lost my mother, I lost people who were too important. For the past 1.5 yes, i have been in absolute terror off & on. I have met death. I have had a huge spiritual surgery. I have been alone. It's been cruel but I have discovered something beautiful too.
      Thankfully my parents have been there with me through all this in the background.
      Now I'm scared about losing my parents. That makes me feel empty & a sense of terror again.

    • @StimParavane
      @StimParavane 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      LAMA ZOPA RINPOCHE - "You are not alone because all the time there are numberless buddhas and bodhisattvas surrounding you, everywhere loving you, guiding you, that is what they do."

    • @harmony5807
      @harmony5807 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Pendragon981 You got my prayers, hope you are doing better and have some peace, You are here on this planet to enjoy life, love and be loved and not only suffer, so please never let the Hope die, I wish you healing right from my heart's center, I wish you love and true joy in every breath you take!!! ❤

  • @Vision_Of_Realities
    @Vision_Of_Realities 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Truth of human nature 🌺🌺🌺🙏
    When every things are in front they ignore but when nothing is left they remember everything!!!
    Jai Gurudev 🌺🙏🧘🏻‍♂️❤️

  • @speedy7834
    @speedy7834 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This is a lovely message for all who have suffered loss ❤

  • @MrAuror1
    @MrAuror1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Had I seen this video 4 years back when I lost my father... I would have managed myself / my life in better way. This is truly an eye opener for all who lost their parents.

  • @gayatrigogawale9972
    @gayatrigogawale9972 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Absolutely 💯 correctly said. I thought exactly like this when my father left for his onward journey 12 years back

  • @mamtaramparsadh8866
    @mamtaramparsadh8866 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I lost my mother 2 month ago, it’s very hard to believe. I can relate to her. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @jennyhong6746
      @jennyhong6746 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    • @AnushreeMajumdar29feb
      @AnushreeMajumdar29feb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹

  • @rituroat8633
    @rituroat8633 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I lost my Maasi 3 days back and I loved her dearly. She passed away early at the age of just 39years due to cancer. She lead a difficult life and I hope she’s now in a happier abode. I really miss her so much and it’s difficult to cope with this loss. Please pray for her soul 😞

    • @mnkp1958
      @mnkp1958 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      May God bless her soul.....evan i lost my mother too ...on this sept 24...bcoz of Blood cancer.....😞

    • @rituroat8633
      @rituroat8633 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@mnkp1958May she rest in peace. More strength to you!

    • @mnkp1958
      @mnkp1958 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rituroat8633 Thank you

  • @LiveYourLifeWithJoy
    @LiveYourLifeWithJoy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I always say this when people ask me how I never went to a funeral in 30 years. I don't go to funerals.
    Instead of crying because they died, I cherish their lives ❤️🙏☀️

    • @oyandakona5994
      @oyandakona5994 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lately im
      also not a fan of funerals

  • @bedtimestoriesforkids9755
    @bedtimestoriesforkids9755 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    the pain in her voice made my heart break... I felt her pain and cried... I wish I could give her a hug! :(

  • @user-wk3fq5xj5d
    @user-wk3fq5xj5d 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Recently my mother left her body, and as sadguru said, I will cherish the sweetest memories I have with my mom, ofcourse miss her calling me with that much love, none can call me with such love in their words, but I remember her beautiful and sweet smile and will honor her with her joyous smile she always have on her face, shall pass on on mine

  • @abhilashkumarsingh4740
    @abhilashkumarsingh4740 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Thank you so much Sadhguru ji you explain so nicely a burden on my heart is also minimise by some way ..I always remember those happy moments with my mother ...love u maa ...forever❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kubel83
    @kubel83 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I enjoy listening to him. I always find comfort and peace when I do.
    Bless you🙏

  • @rsridhar1631
    @rsridhar1631 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    End speech how to cherish.. Was so awesome guruji... Really very blessed to hear all your hear ...

  • @JoannaGraceYoga
    @JoannaGraceYoga 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Awww. Feel her pain. Praying for her peace

  • @user-jt3pf7xq1f
    @user-jt3pf7xq1f 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My heart was in my mouth when i heard her... please god reduce her pain so she can cope up

  • @sparrowsadhanarajkumar3836
    @sparrowsadhanarajkumar3836 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you Sadhguru for this eye opening session. Lost my mom in sep 2023. Cried enough in all these three years
    I pray for her well being wherever she is. Mummy I know you too will Miss me. Love and hugs my dear Mom forever in my memory

  • @prabhatracherla3098
    @prabhatracherla3098 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Never thought wisdom can be so overwhelming that it can make tear up from inside. Controlled my tears somehow

  • @vigneshvit
    @vigneshvit 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    It is exactly one year I lost my mom..I feel thr is no coping... All the videos tat talks about being a mommy's boy, having no skill to move on, this life is a small happening, etc etc... Let them all say whatever... Its like i lost my Shakthi, my sole energy and I feel all am running on is just some dark energy...i just live to complete my obligation to exist and take care of the souls who depend on me... Just one day at a time

    • @midnightcat6116
      @midnightcat6116 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Sending you much love and compassion ❤

    • @Kareena1988
      @Kareena1988 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Find yourself a loving wife and pass on the good things your mother taught you. In this way you show your real love for her.

    • @NPPREMA
      @NPPREMA 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You put my feelings into words exactly. I too have lost my Shakti and raison d'etre . I'm existing because others depend on me. Sending you lots of love and hugs. May God comfort and heal you.

  • @neel786krishna
    @neel786krishna 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I lost my mother two days ago because she was suffering from cancer, she was everything to me, I can't even imagine my life without her, she was always with me every moment, I loved her very much, Now he is not with me, it feels like there is complete darkness all around me, I don't know what to do to help me cope... I am also happy that his suffering is over She went because she was in extreme pain... I pray to God that her soul rests in peace. I will try my best to live with her memories, she will always be in my heart, I pray to God that in the next life I am born from my mother's womb and she and I live together for a long time.
    Jai Shri Krishna

    • @Omega-dj9sh
      @Omega-dj9sh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      stay strong mam and keep doing good work in the name of your mom make her proud always remember she never wanted to see you sad isn't it?

    • @neel786krishna
      @neel786krishna 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Omega-dj9sh🙏🙏

  • @SolvelawUk
    @SolvelawUk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My mother died in Dec 21, i was shattered along with family in nursing her to relatively quick death. I am not religious or even spiritual but i was just broken day after day but i started listening to Sadguru and I was able to move forward with his really mind opening talks, certainly recommend it for anyone. My mum lives in my mind quietly to cherish her memories…..

    • @monikasea
      @monikasea 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hugs

    • @gaaanaaa
      @gaaanaaa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is no god bro...
      Why r u here..sadhguru has said million times he hasnt prayed ever..he doesnt believe in god..
      Why r u here ..? Plz dont ..

    • @ur9232
      @ur9232 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Beautifully said..my Mum lives in mind too❤

  • @clutchinv1803
    @clutchinv1803 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I lost my Mom a month ago. Happened unexpectedly. Heart attack. In the Japanese culture they say nobody ever leaves you. They are still with you. You just have to look for the signs. And this video randomly popped up on my YT feed 😢

    • @blackiedarling7539
      @blackiedarling7539 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      signs wont bring your loved ones back to you

    • @clutchinv1803
      @clutchinv1803 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@blackiedarling7539 I get comfort, knowing they are here in spirit

  • @ceciiiiiiiiiiiiiiii4393
    @ceciiiiiiiiiiiiiiii4393 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'd like to think of our loved ones as treasures or gifts from life. When they are gone, the thought that other fortunate beings will be able to receive such a gift, and also the thought that I will meet them one day in a different way, might help a bit to move on... love and hugs and prayers to you all❤

  • @padma1733
    @padma1733 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Yeah he speaks from personal experience.... He has Radhe, his only daughter😊😊😊😊

    • @Hunteriscoming
      @Hunteriscoming 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jaggi murdered vijji

  • @minazaid5795
    @minazaid5795 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you I just lost my mom and hearing this gave me insight of spiritual growth. Thank you

  • @kedardesai9718
    @kedardesai9718 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I can understand and feel what is that girl going through because I lost both of my parents six years ago. I am still a lonely guy. 😢

  • @stanislavtersl1277
    @stanislavtersl1277 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Very well said. Sadhguru uses logic and common sence that everybody can understand. 👏🏽🙏🏽

    • @goranandrijasevic2534
      @goranandrijasevic2534 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He is not an enlightened guru. He is a sophisticated con guru.
      A woman torn apart in pain because of her mothers death expecting some sor of consolation from the "holy" Sadguru and in response he delivers pedagocial lectures interspaced with intense LAUGHTER.
      Sadhgiri you fool, do you think that woman joined in that laughter ?!

    • @amritanktripathi3863
      @amritanktripathi3863 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@goranandrijasevic2534 wow.....The level of ignorance is overwhelming........you want some pity? I have for u....I PITY THEE!

    • @bekzus
      @bekzus 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@goranandrijasevic2534you did not get a thing he said. That was the whole message in the way he responded as well. She should not make her mother the source of her pain if she really loves and honours her. At least her mother wouldn’t want that. Otherwise she is just feeling sorry for herself and whining about it.❤

    • @theompman
      @theompman 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      While I liked what he said, common sense and logic do not work in a loved ones death unless you are already at a higher level of consciousness. The grief has to run its course, like an illness. May her grief be shortlived 🕉️

    • @redpillmatrix3046
      @redpillmatrix3046 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@goranandrijasevic2534are you happy now ? after posting your negative comment

  • @yankeestud7
    @yankeestud7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I lost my mom too I can understand.. gradually I realised everyone is in our life for a reason or a season but when you do things to honour her she’ll get a cold breeze in whatever form she is right now

  • @danesipa1165
    @danesipa1165 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I felt this😭❤️‍🩹
    The last part...🫂
    Thanks 🙏 for reminding me
    Just lost my parents one month apart this year 💔
    So trynna deal with this vacuum 🙏

  • @RajniSharma-gm1vh
    @RajniSharma-gm1vh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Sadguru i lost my mother 20 years back but she lives on in my heart ❤always. I have so many memories to keep me going.. Every relation is love based .. they leave you but they never go away. ❤

  • @ushakiranjagtap7938
    @ushakiranjagtap7938 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The last few sentences are awesome... such a strong message...

  • @Theddyfield
    @Theddyfield 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I lost my mother when I was 6. It was tough. But okay, you heal with time.

  • @senthilraja2484
    @senthilraja2484 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Always a positive note from him whatever happens in life. If all of us attain this level the life and world will be beautiful 😍

    • @alexmanga4897
      @alexmanga4897 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Beautiful said.

  • @aryan_jain_05
    @aryan_jain_05 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I lost my mom on 24th March 2024, its been like 20 Days. I feel life is meaningless.. I did not get even chance to meet her for the last time. She was everything to me. My mother has done everything to me. She was world to me. She was my Best Friend , My Everything.. I just dont know.. How i will be able to live without her. Everyday seems like Hell , Time does not pass quickly. I just wish wherever my mother is she should be happy and in peace. My mother always told me to be strong, I have younger brother and sister. I miss you Mummy at lot.. !!

    • @shridharasg2635
      @shridharasg2635 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I lost my mother last year February. I still not recovered. I am living alone. I don't know how many more days for me on earth. Everyday passing a day has become challenge to me. I will cry for mother and pray to God to send her back and I realize that what foolish thing am asking to God but still this mind wants my mother. Amma come back.

  • @rao18tmr
    @rao18tmr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What an amazing explanation, thank you Sadhguru ❤

  • @girija6905
    @girija6905 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Even I lost both my parents within a year! However hard I try to cope it’s difficult really the mind sways like a pendulum sometimes stable sometimes mess. Sadguru your message was good thanks

  • @SajuS-nw7od
    @SajuS-nw7od 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great story..Great lesson for all..

  • @drk2641
    @drk2641 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    🙏Sadhguru 🙏.. Thank God for such wisdom and for you to share with the world

  • @harshabiliangady3211
    @harshabiliangady3211 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Absolutely wonderful Sadhguru Ji.

  • @_yourkpop-fangirl
    @_yourkpop-fangirl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Wonderful Sadhguru 🙇‍♀️🙏very well explained 🙇‍♀️🙏thank you Sadhguru 🙏

  • @supersonkamei5757
    @supersonkamei5757 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Knowing hers are healed should heal you too.... Hope you found comfort by the wonderful response from Sadhguru.

  • @aryanraz
    @aryanraz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Absolutely wonderful explanation ❤❤

  • @hemdatascience369
    @hemdatascience369 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Very well articulated Sadhguru. Thank you so much 🙏

  • @alexjoseph9935
    @alexjoseph9935 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I lost my mother on November 6 of this month, deeply saddened

    • @indurthi
      @indurthi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sorry for your loss brother may be she is in a better place now

    • @jyotsanadang7203
      @jyotsanadang7203 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      so sorry i lost my mom last year in july suddenly and my dad this year nov. life is cruel

    • @sainegve
      @sainegve 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤🙏🙏🙏

    • @alexjoseph9935
      @alexjoseph9935 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jyotsanadang7203What can one do in such situation. Right now I feel like an orphan.

  • @mirandazissopoulou2990
    @mirandazissopoulou2990 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much!
    I lost my father to cancer 7 days ago and my mother is also battling cancer.
    I am so afraid of losing her too...
    Your words always help put things into perspektive and i will try to remind my self of them whenever pain and fear take over me.
    I wish the lady, that spoke at the beginning, to soon be able to find true healing and comfort!

  • @sivasundaraj2506
    @sivasundaraj2506 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thanks sadhghuru...always remember and cherish the memory of my mom and dad 😢😢😢

    • @Hunteriscoming
      @Hunteriscoming 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jaggi murdered vijji

  • @aiai1441
    @aiai1441 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I lost my papa 2 months back and still don’t know how to cope but crying every single day

    • @Anlonn
      @Anlonn 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      if you replace "cope" with "acceptance"? to cope is to overcome a problem or difficulties. and that feeling generates resistance. the reality is we all leave this place. and to accept with gratefulness the natural way of life brings peace in the heart. may you find love and peace in your heart.

  • @swarupmazumder
    @swarupmazumder 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I've lost my mother recently. Today's just the 21st day of her demise. This video helps me a lot to revive myself. Thank you, Sadhguru. Joyguru 🙏

    • @AnushreeMajumdar29feb
      @AnushreeMajumdar29feb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹

    • @swarupmazumder
      @swarupmazumder 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AnushreeMajumdar29feb Thanks for your suggestion. I'll look for it. Joyguru 🙏

    • @AnushreeMajumdar29feb
      @AnushreeMajumdar29feb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      AMAZON link to buy the book : Your Soul's Plan amzn.eu/d/e51tqlT ( Do not miss the chance to read this book... Buy it as soon as possible...lot of secrets will be revealed regarding life and life after death )

  • @siddharthredkar8839
    @siddharthredkar8839 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jai sadguru well explained thanks for the lovely thoughts ❤

  • @ppraish
    @ppraish 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow, what an excellent explanation by Sadhguru! Very impressive! 🙏

  • @paulagrimoldi9699
    @paulagrimoldi9699 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Sadhguru for your great wisdom.

  • @akbarkanji5368
    @akbarkanji5368 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have lost my mother Shakar Khanu and my father as well Dr. Abdul Rasool and I am so depressed, I am now 56 years of age and Iam going to die too but I remember every second of my breath. May Almighty Allah rest their soul in eternal peace. Ameen

  • @user-we6xf9fq1m
    @user-we6xf9fq1m 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    It's been one year since I've lost my precious person my mother in law we were friends close buddies she was everything to me I can feel her presence still now miss her so much can feel the pain you're going through keep strong

    • @baddyforall2568
      @baddyforall2568 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow

    • @AnushreeMajumdar29feb
      @AnushreeMajumdar29feb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹

  • @VareshaSiingh
    @VareshaSiingh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I lost maa 3 months back all of a sudden. Her only wish was to leave when she was on her feet and not bed ridden with sm disease n dats wat exactly she was granted. But last 5 days she suffered. I couldnt sleep for many nights remebering the sight when she wss in pain. When I think from her angle, I feel its better for her, her body was giving up she was exhausted n tired of living life. She had a miserable one. But then when I think selfishly I feel she shdnt hav gone leaving me alone in this cruel world.

    • @sbr9719
      @sbr9719 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I feel for you. So so sorry for your loss😥

    • @VareshaSiingh
      @VareshaSiingh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sbr9719 🥹👋

    • @user-xm1bt6fi5o
      @user-xm1bt6fi5o 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same here.even i lost my mom 5 months ago.she was tired of living inthis cruel world.she passed of cancer at the age of 70.yes she was in pain last two years.unable to walk.she has gone leaving me alone in this selfish world..

  • @sapphirerosesolouota5295
    @sapphirerosesolouota5295 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I lost my mum 22nd March 2024
    I feel so much for her , i watched an interview of Andrew Garfield talking about losing his mum, and he said "Grief is unexpressed love". I love the way he put it

  • @niloyguha
    @niloyguha 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wonderful lesson.

  • @varunshah1275
    @varunshah1275 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Heart goes out to girl who asked the question

  • @sintaroberts8599
    @sintaroberts8599 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, thank you for this great wisdom and comfort for those of us who have lost loved ones.

  • @bobbaga1244
    @bobbaga1244 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Watching this video reminded me of a line said by Tom Cruise in the movie "The last Samurai" : Don't remember people how they died, Remember them by how they lived. ( I have modified the line a bit to fit this context)

  • @elizabethsantamaria4299
    @elizabethsantamaria4299 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this video! After loosing a pair of twins, my parents, and my grand-parents-mother’s side, I felt empty and lost in this life. The same feeling as the meditator’s question on this video, but, Sadhguru’s explanation helped me understand and decide to honor them. Thank you!🙏

  • @sankarankarakad7946
    @sankarankarakad7946 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Living badly,always thinking of mother!

  • @dr.vandanajerin9864
    @dr.vandanajerin9864 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Excellent preaching

  • @nainakalpana5580
    @nainakalpana5580 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very wonderful messages thank u guruji...

  • @user-em7ll9kb3b
    @user-em7ll9kb3b 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great words of joy 🙏

  • @preetam743
    @preetam743 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Mother’s are Gods gift to us. It was painful for me to loose my Mum. With time we heal and cope up but never stop missing her.

  • @MousumaRoy-rs1fb
    @MousumaRoy-rs1fb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I lost my father 10 months back. Still not able to overcome it. I always need to distract myself to forget the fact that this is never going to be fixed .People said to me, time heals everything .Give it time.The hollowness would never be healed.

    • @AnushreeMajumdar29feb
      @AnushreeMajumdar29feb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹

  • @Grapezzzz
    @Grapezzzz หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a great, knowledgeable man. He also seems so humble. Which takes so much strength while being someone who people look up to. I pray that woman has found more peace. I hope she will see her mother again one day.

  • @soniasmelodiousland
    @soniasmelodiousland 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I lost, my papa this aug. He was ok.. Suddenly.. Started becoming weak. N then got dengue. He was very kind person. Quiet one.. Missing him

    • @AnushreeMajumdar29feb
      @AnushreeMajumdar29feb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of your questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹