Oh yeah, same with me😂 I've always had a high score on these tests. And what's interesting, when talking about schizoids, they use Sheldon as an example, when talking about autistics, they also use Sheldon, and the same with INTPs 😂 What the hell, Sheldon is just an INTP with autism or what, because not all autistics like him
Watching these INTP videos feel like someone's been reading my journal... it's odd. And I love it. It's very comforting. I've felt like an alien or robot for as long as I can remember, being completely misunderstood. I try SO hard and spend so much energy thinking about my word choices, vocal inflections, and how I'll be interpreted only to wind up pissing people off anyway. It's nice to feel understood, so thanks for these videos.
Being a female INTP, that really is one major pitfall I fall into in life over and over again. Because we are just socially conditioned and expected to be nice. Period. Try not being nice, you'll definitely be called (or thought to be) a bitch. I have learned that once you elicit that response, whomever is giving it should instantly lose your respect as an INTP. Now when I say "not being nice", is like what you said, that inferior function making us honest despite social expectations, and we're mostly not even aware of doing something that pisses people off. Ironically what we should really do is practise self compassion (Fi), that's the function we really should be engaging in, you know, cutting yourself some slack for not being 100% socially, which is just practically unachievable. Doing what we feel comfortable doing. Sometimes THAT is what earns you respect. Just by being yourself. I hope all INTPs practise this, it will make you fall into the company you need and want, instead of shallow perfunctory social harmony that's not going to last anyways.
I neither kiss ass or make enemies. I typically withdraw from most social events and conversations unless I know everyone there. I find it easier to read in my room most of the day. This has caused me problems in the past but honestly I find it more usefull than social chit-chat. I find most people, probably about 95% or more to be idiots. Hate to say it, but it's true.
In my experience, I had people trying to run over me because they had a false idea of myself. Then I showed them that I am not a person to mess around with, and they have not tried to do it again. The thing is that our Ti can make us really bold and straightforward. And as you say in the video, don't let others harm you, you don't need to be liked by people who don't deserve you. You need to strengthen yourself with arguments and fight them back.
Nice to hear from you Tyler. As an INTP I always break social harmony by just being myself, which automatically pisses off half of the people in the room. But to be fair it also makes other half more interested in having a friendship relation, so I do not complain. Maybe that's because in primary school I have been bullied a lot, due to my smartass and know-it-all attitude, which lead my to two conclusions - one was to have my temperament a bit tempered (which I've implemented over time to a degree which satisifies me and majority of people I care about around me) and the other was to develop a thick skin and ignore unreasonable criticism of people, especially from those who do not have good will towards you, because most of the time those kind of folks also do not know why they do not like you and despite what you do to befriend them, they will always find a reason to despise you. By the way please remove those german oldest profession adverts from the comment section, they are really annoying.
as an INFJ i envy the INTPs , in a good way. I wish I could see the world with a detached and objective point of view. The logical mind of an INTP is very intriguing to me and teaches me a lot about using my Ti function. Also, I agree that social harmony is over rated. I hate the fact that I care about people, its draining. No matter how much you care for people, they will always let you down or back stab you. So to all the INTPs out there, be your yourself. You are all truly unique individuals do not worry about that Fe Inferior because I'm here to tell you that being a people pleaser is a one way street to hell. do not set yourself up for that kind of disappointment !
Thank you so much! being INTP is definitely an interesting mixed bag of qualities. I agree with you totally about the social harmony thing it’s almost like quicksand. I have lost all perspective at times making this priority when like you said “I really don’t even care..”
Good timing on this subject. As a intp and fearful avoidant, I'm now working on my boundaries. Im definitely a people pleaser but, don't let people walk on me... But i do want some of that harmony. I try to keep my mouth shut as I tend to say too much and make things weird. Not weak but, being too open can come off as weakness. Now making enemies? Sounds devious 🤔
Thank you for this great video. It is not possible to find inner peace if one is always trying so hard to please others. Sometimes I simply couldn't relate to other's feelings as I don't really share the same thoughts,eg indulge in something meaningless. Solid advice.
INTP’s need harmony in their environment that doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t take action to achieve it. The INTP uses logic and reason to create harmony by bringing to light what others don’t see or understand and is causing chaos and discomfort. The starting point for any INTP that wishes to create harmony in a non confrontational way is to accept the following; Nobody chooses to be an idiot, yet we all play the part. This approach is a call to action for any INTP that struggles with speaking up for themselves or those around them to achieve the harmony that all personality types enjoy. Good luck to all my INTP peoples.
I struggle with being misunderstood by people I care about (which is most people on some level) but people I have no respect for or dislike... I am literally unable to be disingenuous. I don't have a phony-bone. I can't do it. In some rare cases, I wish i could fake it but I do not suffer fools.
Im so guilty of this. Im way over sensitive about social harmony in the work place. If one of my few work friends applies out for a different position within the company, its turns my world upside down because friends are hard to come by as am INTP. I even use the phrase “harmony in the workplace” too often around my co workers lol. Jesus Christ. Thanks for dropping this video
I'm an INTP who also has autism. Accepting my MBTI was harder than accepting the diagnosis, tbh. 😂 This is just what I needed though. I've been having a terrible time trying to touch grass; Of all things, its my agreeableness that's caused me the most trouble in building my career.
Enough with the labels and pigeonholing. Reject the disempowering, deterministic crack cocaine of mental "disorders". You have weaknesses all of which you can improve through thinking (identifying, understanding, making a plan) and work.
I have zero social harmony with my boss and it is very tough. I had to show him i was not a push over in a sense because he would have me show others how to program as well as i can. He did this so he could get his family and friends in there. Once i get everything figured out and all the problems solved its easier for others to take ur place. Its been done twice to me now. But the difference is the second time i did not bow down. I took the most difficult road. He still needs me but does not like me. Anytime i feel like im losing i give him another reason why he still needs me.
So glad to see you upload again! I really enjoy these videos, they point out things I’m already subconsciously swear or and remind me of who I am! I hope to see you upload more in the future!
It depends on the people around you, and your upbringing. I was very popular in school and I rubbed elbows with everyone. I often said F social harmony. I am very disagreeable, and my peers and teachers knew at any moment I might go in on them. That actually made people love and respect me. I'll be 33 in 7 days and I'm a USA Drill Sergeant. All that being said, I greatly enjoy your videos.
social harmony is easier than someone getting riled up emotionally in your face about something - and we know emotions only escalate to the point of irrational behavior... I think this is different between male and female intps
Thank you. You're the only one that believes in me at this point 😂but I hope I can keep this mentality and do something for myself. I'm at the lowest of my sanity right now and it's scary. I feel like leaving everything behind and forget about everyone but its not realistic or at least it doesn't seem so
This was helpful. I sometimes feel guilty for doing things like going on vacation bc I'm worried about taking time off work or leaving other ppl out. I almost always should consider my best interest first ppl make negative comments but it's bc they are lacking not me.
Yeaaah man. You gotta put yourself first especially if you’re a people pleaser. I try to meet people where they’re at. But I can see when people are doing fucked up shit behind my back. I’ve learned to say “stop that shit” and call it out and not be afraid of confrontation. Because in the back of my mind, I know I got my reasons for why I feel this certain way. I guess it wasn’t really that I cared so much about that relationship or friendship with others regarding the harmony aspect, it was more of how the perception of me would change. Because I am so quite and I try to attach myself to the social harmony aspect, there is a certain perception that people perceive me as. Typically a nice dude. So when I lash out my boundaries and enforce it, it can be a shock to people. With practice I stopped giving a fuck because I know how truly important this is knowing that I was a pushover in my early years and this is needed. And if they wanna be cool or enemies afterwards, i’m fine with either. I just know what kinda person you are after your reaction to my boundaries. Because sometimes people know what they’re doing to take advantage of you and sometimes people aren’t genuinely aware. But the more situations you get in and experience the bad and the good, you’ll recognize patterns of both ends and then you’ll be able to determine what to do next. My cut off game is quick 😂😂😂 But i’m also willing to forgive too if I know that someone is genuine about their intentions. But…. as of recent, nope. Fuck those people lol.
Honestly after watching your channel and being in business was an eye opener. I was wondering why I was failing in b2b and it was because of social skills and personally me not really caring relationships or social life.🤦🏾♂️ Somehow I got into day trading and man it’s been a blast! Don’t need to talk to people and still make money. Once I started focusing on my strengths as intp my life started improving
👿🐍 it is time to bite back and explore the chaos. This is a really important video for our evolution as Intp. Even though it seems illogical because we don’t always understand how we affect others, it’s imperative to put our foot down and it should become second nature that people think twice.
I know and understand my weaknesses very well, it's a characteristic feature in me; finding what's wrong in everything, anyone, and of course, inside of me. So when I watch your videos I think "this is so accurate, I feel understood" And great, I know, in some way, what I must do, but, I'm in this f*cking horrible ti-si loop, and of course my inferior function holding me back because I'm afraid of people, and society xd
Hi Tyler, i discovered your channel just recently and i can relate to so many things you mentioned! I want to thank you for your content that i find so helpful and inspiring to me as an INTP seeking for individual and social improvement. (^.^)
According to this video, I must not be an INTP. I am afraid of disharmony and yet don't give a crap about it, either. The fear is because my "difference" makes me a _constant_ target.
Heard they say this is Memphis and I may steal it as my motto: "Don't start none, won't be none". My #1 favorite, though, is "Not my problem." That one realllllyyyyy pisses people off, so may add "...I've got my own." after it.
Thank you, Tyler for your well-thought videos. I have a question about this video subject, and advice from you I would like: I am currently in a situation where I had a friend who became my enemy (he threatened to degrade my reputation and all that) and basically stole a part of my identity. I have the power to own back this identity but it could cost me a lot. In a previous video, you explained that INTPs tend to take revenge at the price of destroying themselves, and presented it as a flaw. Now the situation is sort of a double-bind and I have difficulty concluding. Can I get your opinion on that? Thank you, very much.
Oh no I'm INTP, but thankfully I also have ADHD so it's like I'm living in a constant paranoid hell full of disappointment and misery. If it wasn't for my wonderful wife I would have drank myself to death long ago
The message is clear and it makes sense. But what I don't get is how can you talk about such simple topics 20min. I'm really interested. Is that a challenge for you or are you in default mode? I see that as a typical INTP property for myself to keep everything super short.
@@intpsurvivalguide2473..In my younger days I was less "filtered" than i am now. and was quite aware of thinking/relating differently .. but clueless as to why ...so "weirdo" .. excluded either directly or indirectly for sure ..things made sense after I did MBTI about 25 years ago ...but I am low on the big 5 of agreeableness .... not much go along toget along in this old dog .. The awareness has breed a different tension and that is the filtering I do .. If I have wished ( craved) anything, it would be to be more extroverted.. life would be easier
My existence is the antithesis of social harmony for at least 50% of the time lol. Nothing you can do about that. The pushover thing I can work on.. There's a lot of extra steps now that I can't just put a foot in somebody's ass though lol.
😂 I absolutely have questioned if I'm autistic. Thank you so much for these videos, they are helping me tremendously.
I think most INTPs have 😂. Thank you for watching!
Oh yeah, same with me😂
I've always had a high score on these tests. And what's interesting, when talking about schizoids, they use Sheldon as an example, when talking about autistics, they also use Sheldon, and the same with INTPs 😂 What the hell, Sheldon is just an INTP with autism or what, because not all autistics like him
@@moranag209 Sheldon is an ISTJ.
Me too, im autistic and Borderline personality ✋🏻😒
I questioned it too. Either that or a psychopath.
Watching these INTP videos feel like someone's been reading my journal... it's odd. And I love it. It's very comforting. I've felt like an alien or robot for as long as I can remember, being completely misunderstood. I try SO hard and spend so much energy thinking about my word choices, vocal inflections, and how I'll be interpreted only to wind up pissing people off anyway. It's nice to feel understood, so thanks for these videos.
Same!!!!! It was such a breath of fresh air learning about the types.
Being a female INTP, that really is one major pitfall I fall into in life over and over again. Because we are just socially conditioned and expected to be nice. Period. Try not being nice, you'll definitely be called (or thought to be) a bitch. I have learned that once you elicit that response, whomever is giving it should instantly lose your respect as an INTP. Now when I say "not being nice", is like what you said, that inferior function making us honest despite social expectations, and we're mostly not even aware of doing something that pisses people off. Ironically what we should really do is practise self compassion (Fi), that's the function we really should be engaging in, you know, cutting yourself some slack for not being 100% socially, which is just practically unachievable. Doing what we feel comfortable doing. Sometimes THAT is what earns you respect. Just by being yourself. I hope all INTPs practise this, it will make you fall into the company you need and want, instead of shallow perfunctory social harmony that's not going to last anyways.
Finding out about personality types gave me so much comfort in being different, and knowing I’m not alone
"If 100% of people like you, you're a kiss ass. If 100% of people hate you, you're an asshole. 50/50, yeah that's the sweet spot"
- a wise man
I neither kiss ass or make enemies. I typically withdraw from most social events and conversations unless I know everyone there. I find it easier to read in my room most of the day. This has caused me problems in the past but honestly I find it more usefull than social chit-chat. I find most people, probably about 95% or more to be idiots. Hate to say it, but it's true.
In my experience, I had people trying to run over me because they had a false idea of myself. Then I showed them that I am not a person to mess around with, and they have not tried to do it again.
The thing is that our Ti can make us really bold and straightforward. And as you say in the video, don't let others harm you, you don't need to be liked by people who don't deserve you. You need to strengthen yourself with arguments and fight them back.
Nice to hear from you Tyler. As an INTP I always break social harmony by just being myself, which automatically pisses off half of the people in the room. But to be fair it also makes other half more interested in having a friendship relation, so I do not complain. Maybe that's because in primary school I have been bullied a lot, due to my smartass and know-it-all attitude, which lead my to two conclusions - one was to have my temperament a bit tempered (which I've implemented over time to a degree which satisifies me and majority of people I care about around me) and the other was to develop a thick skin and ignore unreasonable criticism of people, especially from those who do not have good will towards you, because most of the time those kind of folks also do not know why they do not like you and despite what you do to befriend them, they will always find a reason to despise you.
By the way please remove those german oldest profession adverts from the comment section, they are really annoying.
Very true. Even if you try to make everyone happy as an INTP you will still fail. and already done. Thanks for watching!
as an INFJ i envy the INTPs , in a good way. I wish I could see the world with a detached and objective point of view. The logical mind of an INTP is very intriguing to me and teaches me a lot about using my Ti function. Also, I agree that social harmony is over rated. I hate the fact that I care about people, its draining. No matter how much you care for people, they will always let you down or back stab you. So to all the INTPs out there, be your yourself. You are all truly unique individuals do not worry about that Fe Inferior because I'm here to tell you that being a people pleaser is a one way street to hell. do not set yourself up for that kind of disappointment !
Thanks 😒 🤸🏻♀️🧘🏻♀️🐃
Thank you so much! being INTP is definitely an interesting mixed bag of qualities. I agree with you totally about the social harmony thing it’s almost like quicksand. I have lost all perspective at times making this priority when like you said “I really don’t even care..”
Thank you for watching!
As a Support Engineer, I feel pretty uncomfortable correcting my superiors at my job with evidence and logic. Thanks for the video.
Hope this video helped!
Good timing on this subject. As a intp and fearful avoidant, I'm now working on my boundaries. Im definitely a people pleaser but, don't let people walk on me... But i do want some of that harmony. I try to keep my mouth shut as I tend to say too much and make things weird. Not weak but, being too open can come off as weakness.
Now making enemies? Sounds devious 🤔
No reason to make enemies unless they give you a reason to. Sometimes the opportunity presents itself
We were born to judge how other people think.
That INTP discord has been on the way for like 2 years now lol
Thank you for this great video. It is not possible to find inner peace if one is always trying so hard to please others. Sometimes I simply couldn't relate to other's feelings as I don't really share the same thoughts,eg indulge in something meaningless. Solid advice.
Yes we must prioritize our happiness in the end
Music to my ears. Thankyou a thousand times. 🙏
bruh, I needed this video like when I was basically born
INTP’s need harmony in their environment that doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t take action to achieve it.
The INTP uses logic and reason to create harmony by bringing to light what others don’t see or understand and is causing chaos and discomfort.
The starting point for any INTP that wishes to create harmony in a non confrontational way is to accept the following; Nobody chooses to be an idiot, yet we all play the part.
This approach is a call to action for any INTP that struggles with speaking up for themselves or those around them to achieve the harmony that all personality types enjoy. Good luck to all my INTP peoples.
I struggle with being misunderstood by people I care about (which is most people on some level) but people I have no respect for or dislike... I am literally unable to be disingenuous. I don't have a phony-bone. I can't do it. In some rare cases, I wish i could fake it but I do not suffer fools.
So true. I’ve always said I need acting lessons to perform at work. Or anywhere.
It’s hard for me to standup at a job because I don’t view a job as important enough to rock the boat over, I work on maintenance and janitorial.
It sucks being able to see things unfold in a split second before they happen. I believe that's where the need for harmony comes from.
Im so guilty of this. Im way over sensitive about social harmony in the work place. If one of my few work friends applies out for a different position within the company, its turns my world upside down because friends are hard to come by as am INTP. I even use the phrase “harmony in the workplace” too often around my co workers lol. Jesus Christ. Thanks for dropping this video
I'm an INTP who also has autism. Accepting my MBTI was harder than accepting the diagnosis, tbh. 😂
This is just what I needed though. I've been having a terrible time trying to touch grass; Of all things, its my agreeableness that's caused me the most trouble in building my career.
Enough with the labels and pigeonholing.
Reject the disempowering, deterministic crack cocaine of mental "disorders".
You have weaknesses all of which you can improve through thinking (identifying, understanding, making a plan) and work.
I have zero social harmony with my boss and it is very tough. I had to show him i was not a push over in a sense because he would have me show others how to program as well as i can. He did this so he could get his family and friends in there. Once i get everything figured out and all the problems solved its easier for others to take ur place.
Its been done twice to me now. But the difference is the second time i did not bow down. I took the most difficult road. He still needs me but does not like me. Anytime i feel like im losing i give him another reason why he still needs me.
So glad to see you upload again! I really enjoy these videos, they point out things I’m already subconsciously swear or and remind me of who I am! I hope to see you upload more in the future!
It depends on the people around you, and your upbringing. I was very popular in school and I rubbed elbows with everyone. I often said F social harmony. I am very disagreeable, and my peers and teachers knew at any moment I might go in on them. That actually made people love and respect me. I'll be 33 in 7 days and I'm a USA Drill Sergeant.
All that being said, I greatly enjoy your videos.
Same am opposite now 😢
@@balaari4842 what do you mean? Tell me.
To much to explanation
From a king to a slave to world around me
@@balaari4842 understood
Quoting the 2nd law of power of R. Greene is just excellent. Thank you for video.
social harmony is easier than someone getting riled up emotionally in your face about something - and we know emotions only escalate to the point of irrational behavior...
I think this is different between male and female intps
People are overrated, engage that fi often😈
in my case i did finding Adlerian psychologi helpfull i recomend any INTP to read "The Courage to Be Disliked"
Funky coz I bought it and read it... didn't imagine there was a connections though. Funny.
You make very good videos, helping me understand myself and accept how i do things
Thank you. You're the only one that believes in me at this point 😂but I hope I can keep this mentality and do something for myself. I'm at the lowest of my sanity right now and it's scary. I feel like leaving everything behind and forget about everyone but its not realistic or at least it doesn't seem so
don't answer your phone or door anymore - even if people know you are home. It feels sooooo good to control your own space, time, energy, presence.
This was helpful. I sometimes feel guilty for doing things like going on vacation bc I'm worried about taking time off work or leaving other ppl out. I almost always should consider my best interest first ppl make negative comments but it's bc they are lacking not me.
I became a people pleaser from a king to slave to world around me
Dm?
Yeaaah man. You gotta put yourself first especially if you’re a people pleaser. I try to meet people where they’re at. But I can see when people are doing fucked up shit behind my back. I’ve learned to say “stop that shit” and call it out and not be afraid of confrontation. Because in the back of my mind, I know I got my reasons for why I feel this certain way. I guess it wasn’t really that I cared so much about that relationship or friendship with others regarding the harmony aspect, it was more of how the perception of me would change. Because I am so quite and I try to attach myself to the social harmony aspect, there is a certain perception that people perceive me as. Typically a nice dude. So when I lash out my boundaries and enforce it, it can be a shock to people. With practice I stopped giving a fuck because I know how truly important this is knowing that I was a pushover in my early years and this is needed. And if they wanna be cool or enemies afterwards, i’m fine with either. I just know what kinda person you are after your reaction to my boundaries. Because sometimes people know what they’re doing to take advantage of you and sometimes people aren’t genuinely aware. But the more situations you get in and experience the bad and the good, you’ll recognize patterns of both ends and then you’ll be able to determine what to do next. My cut off game is quick 😂😂😂 But i’m also willing to forgive too if I know that someone is genuine about their intentions. But…. as of recent, nope. Fuck those people lol.
Honestly after watching your channel and being in business was an eye opener. I was wondering why I was failing in b2b and it was because of social skills and personally me not really caring relationships or social life.🤦🏾♂️
Somehow I got into day trading and man it’s been a blast! Don’t need to talk to people and still make money. Once I started focusing on my strengths as intp my life started improving
👿🐍 it is time to bite back and explore the chaos. This is a really important video for our evolution as Intp. Even though it seems illogical because we don’t always understand how we affect others, it’s imperative to put our foot down and it should become second nature that people think twice.
Glad you agree. Thanks for watching!
Goodmorning man. I just wanted to humbly thank you for your vid's. Keep up the work! Your Channel holds truth for us!
The title is SSS tier
I know and understand my weaknesses very well, it's a characteristic feature in me; finding what's wrong in everything, anyone, and of course, inside of me. So when I watch your videos I think "this is so accurate, I feel understood" And great, I know, in some way, what I must do, but, I'm in this f*cking horrible ti-si loop, and of course my inferior function holding me back because I'm afraid of people, and society xd
Hi Tyler, i discovered your channel just recently and i can relate to so many things you mentioned! I want to thank you for your content that i find so helpful and inspiring to me as an INTP seeking for individual and social improvement. (^.^)
Diagnosed with light aspergers, aka just an INTP
According to this video, I must not be an INTP. I am afraid of disharmony and yet don't give a crap about it, either. The fear is because my "difference" makes me a _constant_ target.
Heard they say this is Memphis and I may steal it as my motto:
"Don't start none, won't be none".
My #1 favorite, though, is "Not my problem." That one realllllyyyyy pisses people off, so may add "...I've got my own." after it.
Same ur an intp
u should make a vid about the differences between intps and intjs cause it’s hard to tell the difference
That is a good idea! I will put that in my list
ENTJ here. I’ve been called autistic before. And guess what? It was by an INFP. They simply couldn’t relate to my lack of emotional sensitivity.
Thank you, Tyler for your well-thought videos. I have a question about this video subject, and advice from you I would like:
I am currently in a situation where I had a friend who became my enemy (he threatened to degrade my reputation and all that) and basically stole a part of my identity. I have the power to own back this identity but it could cost me a lot. In a previous video, you explained that INTPs tend to take revenge at the price of destroying themselves, and presented it as a flaw. Now the situation is sort of a double-bind and I have difficulty concluding. Can I get your opinion on that? Thank you, very much.
What is your definition of "social harmony"? I'm not sure if you defined that clearly in the video, so I'm a bit confused.
social to intp is like smartphone to old person
couldnt agree more.
Oh no I'm INTP, but thankfully I also have ADHD so it's like I'm living in a constant paranoid hell full of disappointment and misery. If it wasn't for my wonderful wife I would have drank myself to death long ago
Does this mean we are Crab People?
What happened to INTP Mentor
The message is clear and it makes sense. But what I don't get is how can you talk about such simple topics 20min. I'm really interested. Is that a challenge for you or are you in default mode? I see that as a typical INTP property for myself to keep everything super short.
HAHA I learned that a long time ago without MBTI.
What type is your gf. Just curious
ESTJ. We work really well together but her Fi inferior is hard to deal with at times
I can help you with that discord
Email me. This will be done soon. I may need some moderators
@@intpsurvivalguide2473 where can I see your email?
Edit: I saw the email
Social Harmony ??? .. really .. not in my experience .. interesting .. perceived as a pushover yup
In my experience yes I believe I have craved social harmony as an INTP. Even though I still piss people off
@@intpsurvivalguide2473..In my younger days I was less "filtered" than i am now. and was quite aware of thinking/relating differently .. but clueless as to why ...so "weirdo" .. excluded either directly or indirectly for sure ..things made sense after I did MBTI about 25 years ago ...but I am low on the big 5 of agreeableness .... not much go along toget along in this old dog .. The awareness has breed a different tension and that is the filtering I do .. If I have wished ( craved) anything, it would be to be more extroverted.. life would be easier
My existence is the antithesis of social harmony for at least 50% of the time lol. Nothing you can do about that.
The pushover thing I can work on.. There's a lot of extra steps now that I can't just put a foot in somebody's ass though lol.
How can I convince people that I'm not Autistic? Lol.