INTP Advice: Embrace the Pain

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  • @backspace4203
    @backspace4203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Older INTP. Forget what others seek, you know better.

  • @sofiya90
    @sofiya90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This channel is awesome. It gives INTPs the brutal truth they need to hear about how the world works, in INTP words without any of the flowery language or motivational and emotional jargon. I love what you do bro, nothing better than the cold, hard, logical truth served to those who need it the most.

    • @sofiya90
      @sofiya90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Also the powerpoints are fucking awesome.

    • @intpsurvivalguide2473
      @intpsurvivalguide2473  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks for the encouragement! That is what I'm trying to do

  • @LudwigStepatchnikov
    @LudwigStepatchnikov 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Great video! As a intp i frequently try to avoid the things that i wanna do because it will cause me pain.For example,learning How to program,learning a New language,try to find a girlfriend,etc.This channel is helping me a Lot in helping me to start the things that i wanna do for have a better life :) (By the way i'am Brazilian so my english its not very good xD)

  • @KP40521
    @KP40521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Stress and pain gives punch for brain for come out with solutions. Too good life drains and give even more stress with boredome.

  • @samuela6271
    @samuela6271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Being a leveled up INTP, im do glad to have tackled manyog my demons. I still feel so out of place but, i genuinely font give AF what ither people think now. My research and planning is finally paying off after much suffering. Now i have become a person who feels extremely uncomfortable when i do land ina spot where its smooth. I tend to move towards risks and failure. Can't say its easy but i know that suffering ends but, will always return. Keep at it, move towards responsibility learn what to be scared of and take risks. Bruises are great teachers 😂😂
    Thanks for the intp insights. Keep up the good fight

  • @anttipuhakka5284
    @anttipuhakka5284 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow, i just discovered that i am INTP and it honestly made me realize so much about myself and my actions. I am currently living a life of crime, i always wondered how i ended like this but i did not even realize earlier that its rooted in my problems with authority. Friends always told me im the sharpest guy they know, and now its time to do something with my brain and make my dream of becoming a journalist a reality.

    • @luisbarbosa8136
      @luisbarbosa8136 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How have you been doing now? You are going good in your life?

  • @lalachan6486
    @lalachan6486 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn you just punch me with words that really make sense, I'm having a hard time with my studies lately because I don't have motivation to do it and regretting it later thank you

  • @TokyoTones
    @TokyoTones 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    thank you, you're helping a random stranger with your INTP videos :)

  • @beatsandcrypto2382
    @beatsandcrypto2382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    man...this really hits me where I am. thank you.

  • @keithlamm1126
    @keithlamm1126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "A man frequently meets his fate on the very road that he took to avoid it" Anonymous quote

  • @vitalis
    @vitalis ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Guys like every video to help with the algo so the message reaches more INTPs

  • @aminalworkzz
    @aminalworkzz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    just took a test and found out i'm an intp, made a lot of sense lol and these videos have been so helpful. i've heard similar advice out there, but it never really stuck with me and i think it's because it wasn't coming from another intp (or it was coming from another intp who was trying too hard to be academic). appreciate ya, man!

  • @thecloakedschemer
    @thecloakedschemer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hey Tyler, your videos are always very helpful and insightful. Keep up the good work.

    • @intpsurvivalguide2473
      @intpsurvivalguide2473  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for the kind words!

    • @thecloakedschemer
      @thecloakedschemer 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@intpsurvivalguide2473 And thank you for the effort you put in. Now to (finally) get my room cleaned up.

  • @bodwewadmi1
    @bodwewadmi1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve never felt so understood in my life ever in 32 years as I have since finding these videos on TH-cam, lmao. My ten year gf and I listened to these last night because my demon came out the other night and it was a HUGE eye opener for both of us knowing why and what we both did to contribute to it. Our relationship just went into power mode. Modernity is to be embraced :D

  • @glenncooper7184
    @glenncooper7184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This has saved my life. Thank you

  • @extracromie8890
    @extracromie8890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    once you work up the guts to take a risk, you’ll probably come to realize that it’s not as bad as it seems. You don’t want to look back and regret not taking a chance on your dreams

    • @intpsurvivalguide2473
      @intpsurvivalguide2473  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly. Trying and failing is much better than never trying

  • @Koolej98
    @Koolej98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just came across this. Very insightful and helpful.

  • @nirbhaygor
    @nirbhaygor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am one of those who really waits for your videos. Thanks for all your efforts.👍🏻

  • @otshepengditshego2991
    @otshepengditshego2991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just ended a 3 year relationship. She was cheating anyway. This video came at the right time.

  • @captivatingcatz
    @captivatingcatz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you this video helped me to understand why i wasn't taking better steps on my channel

  • @mohammaddh8655
    @mohammaddh8655 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    damn you , you really make sense , THANKS

  • @johnlopresti5682
    @johnlopresti5682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good video.. well with Si child no surprise we want to avoid suffering and pain. Funnily enough types with the TiFe and NeSi axes are probably the best at handling suffering when it does occur though not sure that the long term effects will be positive!

  • @FiR3dUpx23x
    @FiR3dUpx23x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waw the timing I’ve been obsessed with fight club as of late perfect timing

  • @martpepkin472
    @martpepkin472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wanna embrace you for the quality content brother

  • @CarlosGabriel-xk7ww
    @CarlosGabriel-xk7ww 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey, Tyler! Nice to see you're back (I understand this takes time, so no pressure). Insightful and helpful, as always. The fight club analogy is just... relatable af lol
    Also, I wonder how familiar you are with the philosophies of stoicism, buddhism, daoism and existentialism... I've been learning about these for quite some time now and I just saw a bunch of their ideas on this video as well.
    They've really helped me on my journey and I think they can be an amazing system for INTP in navigating lyfe (a good alternative for nihilism, at least).
    Anyway, keep up the good work, my friend. I hope everything and everyone you care about is fine. Thanks for helping so many of us on this quest of conquering ourselves. You're keeping the sense of community alive.

  • @yoshi314
    @yoshi314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i do new, challenging and potentially embarrassing/scary things, because that feeling is temporary. and overcoming it is very rewarding.
    plus, i don't really connect with my feelings, so win-win. that works out fairly well for me.
    but there are some things where i just cannot get to start - i know i don't have aptitude for them.

  • @joanet501
    @joanet501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just in time bro I love this channel.
    To accept the pain I specially recommend us intps to meditate.
    Especifically, try the Win Hof Method, 10 minutes of meditation and you'll feel good for the rest of the day trust me this is life changing.

    • @joanet501
      @joanet501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      At least it helped me exponentially in my recover from depression and anxiety, apart of going to therapy obviously

    • @intpsurvivalguide2473
      @intpsurvivalguide2473  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great advice I love meditation but I don't do it nearly enough!

    • @joanet501
      @joanet501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@intpsurvivalguide2473 meditation is hard, wim Hof method isn't though 🤣 if you ever feel overly stressed just try it it's 2 min and you get to release Evey bit of cortisol in your body (stress hormone)

  • @staticfpv881
    @staticfpv881 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Buddhism helped me .it talk all abt suffering .. I’m not even buddhist.

    • @intpsurvivalguide2473
      @intpsurvivalguide2473  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes the Buddha has many lessons that we would be well off to learn. Funny how the Buddha was at his "rock bottom" before he became enlightened. Thanks for watching!

  • @dragonofdeath1
    @dragonofdeath1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think this advice is true for anyone, not just for INTPS.

  • @ryanchurchill5081
    @ryanchurchill5081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Though I have already accepted pain is part of life moving on in life still is not the easiest thing to do

    • @intpsurvivalguide2473
      @intpsurvivalguide2473  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It isn't... but its something you just have to eventually do

  • @FindingYourSerenity
    @FindingYourSerenity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Do you study Stoicism? It's helped me a lot and this video seems to have some foundation in that. Also, I just wanted to say that your videos are truly helpful. There are so many out there that get lots of views but it's all bad advice.

    • @intpsurvivalguide2473
      @intpsurvivalguide2473  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for the kind words! Yes I have studied some Stoicism and really like most of the ideas.

  • @joanet501
    @joanet501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Meditation keeps the monkey mind relaxed (you did this wrong.. this didn't happen as planned... This is bad ..).
    WIM Hof Method brosssss I can't say it anymore just do your breathing and feel great. Good life and have a nice day!

    • @intpsurvivalguide2473
      @intpsurvivalguide2473  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for the advice!

    • @maniacallyhappy
      @maniacallyhappy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wim Hof it's an absolute mad lad! I studied his material back in 2019, was an insane growth point for me

  • @MaceLupo
    @MaceLupo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Word bro.

  • @goldsword0531
    @goldsword0531 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This really motivates me thank you

  • @chravenurs332
    @chravenurs332 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi tyler, I wanted to say thank you for sharing the knowledge! I would love to hear your opinion about the learning process and how to improve it.

  • @TaxingIsThieving
    @TaxingIsThieving ปีที่แล้ว

    0:30 Mere inconveniences?

  • @user-ke3hh4fv3k
    @user-ke3hh4fv3k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And whats when I want to live like Diogenes?

    • @intpsurvivalguide2473
      @intpsurvivalguide2473  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha I think INTPs can really identify with Diogenes, because we don't really fit into society well at all. However I have to say I don't really have an inclination to live like a dog. I think there are better ways to criticize modern society without going to that extreme

  • @tripalon3
    @tripalon3 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Weird i don't understand the concept of feeling bad because I'm feeling bad. I also don't really relate to ending the day and thinking omg why did i have a bad day.
    Am I in the minority? At a very young age i understood life was suffering. I decided to major and take a job in finance, i convinced myself that i will be okay financially since I'm working in finance.
    I do understand suffering to feel alive hm

    • @intpsurvivalguide2473
      @intpsurvivalguide2473  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is kind of difficult to grasp. Basically it is having a bad day, and Instead of just saying "shit I had a bad day" and moving on, some people will dwell on their mistakes. Social media can amplify this as well because you think everyone else has these great lives while you are missing the mark. I guess it is thinking your life sucks. Hope this helps

  • @bestvideos1111
    @bestvideos1111 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    isnt look like many human problem not only intp problems

  • @vigna5417
    @vigna5417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can i ask you a question? Why did you started to make those videos? I mean, it's a sincere question, with no second meanings.

    • @intpsurvivalguide2473
      @intpsurvivalguide2473  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I felt like I had some ideas that could help INTPs. I went through a low point in my life and came out on top. So I wanted to make this channel to share those thoughts. The money is also nice of course

    • @vigna5417
      @vigna5417 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@intpsurvivalguide2473 perfect, thanks and good luck 👌🏻

  • @ramashakaroun2863
    @ramashakaroun2863 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Tyler,
    A thanks from an INTP.
    I like the information you present. However, you have an option to make you presentation better, colorful, with infographics. I know a website called Fourora, all its templates are in Free. You may visit it if you are intersted.

  • @aishi2507
    @aishi2507 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    you have a facebook page ?////

  • @Pengalen
    @Pengalen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fight club is a terrible movie, apart from Brad Pitt's abs. Also this entire video is presupposing that you *sometimes* have bad days but this video presupposes those are only occasional and not every goddamn day.

    • @intpsurvivalguide2473
      @intpsurvivalguide2473  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I liked it. Sorry to hear that I hope you can get out of that.

    • @maniacallyhappy
      @maniacallyhappy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Everyday is absolutely miserable if your constantly caught in a situation where the water is boiling and you don't even notice it happening. We literally control our universe because we get to choose what everything means to us.
      If you want to start feeling better, get into the mentality of taking care of your body. I weighed 305+ lbs, was a smoker, and my definition of a good day was just shit not going sideways or blowing up in my face. I managed to drop 110+ lbs, and was still waking up hating life. I tried a different approach to nutrition in implementing a different nutritional protocol and decided that I was done living out of scarcity and decided to embrace the unknown, and 2 weeks into the protocol, it seemed like my depression simply magically lifted and had what to me for the first time in my life seemed like a, "good day". As much as it seems like it wouldn't make a whole lot of sense that focusing on taking care of our vessel would increase performance that drastically... but it'll feel like you're unhealthy body had a 4 cylinder engine, 1 chamber is completely blown out and the 3rd chamber is losing compression compared to running your body at what literally feels like 300% efficiency where your body feels like you're running a Formula 1 race car with a V12 turbo charged engine.
      You want to embrace the unknown to build and attract the kind of life you want, then you have to radiate infinite energy to take the unknown by the horns and mold it into the future you want, taking care of your body is the way you get there.