INTPs and Dating: Make yourself a catch first
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Today I discuss INTPs and dating. This can be a difficult thing for INTPs to do.
Topics include:
Reasons why the INTP may have difficulty in the dating world
The INTP cognitive function stack with comments on each function when it comes to dating
Things the INTP needs to realize to have success on dating
Tips on how to improve yourself so you can become a catch
Please let me know if you find this video helpful so I can either make more or focus on other topics. Thanks for watching!
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As an INTP, the more lonely I felt, the less motivation I had to improve myself. I had to learn to process my emotions first. Now when I feel depressed, I lay in bed and think about things until I cry. Sometimes I cry for an hour or more. But afterwards, it's like a giant burden lifted from my shoulders, and I get my motivation back. I've lost 20lbs with Keto and fasting, I lift weights 3x per week, and I talk to girls every week. No GF yet, but I'm moving in the right direction!
how is it going bro?
What. The fuck. Where are the cameras Holy shit. Except for that keto diet of yours I could have written that comment verbatim.
@@Nesterou we are not alone. Imagine how many other people could benefit from knowing this.
@jameswatkins7763 it's a simple trick but usually I have to be alone for that to happen. Or at least be with someone that I trust very much and won't judge me for having those emotional moments. If the latter happens, it ends up in a very messy explosion of emotion that lasts more than it should have lol
@@Nesterou I challenge you to make friends with more people who you trust enough to cry in front of. I belong to an emotional intelligence group that is extremely accepting of this - and it made me uncomfortable at first, but it's one of the best things I've ever done.
Uncensored, concise, logical. You sir are a prime example of a well-developed INTP
Thank you for the kind words 😀
Riight?? HE IS AMAZING.
I think it’s gotten worse as I’ve gotten older. Especially since I am working from home now. Every time I think it would be nice to have some company, I work out a flow chart in my brain about what I really want and it’s usually pretty selfish and doesn’t include being willing to coordinate with someone else’s life, and I talk myself right out of even trying.
Agree
True😥
I see your comments on all the intp videos lol
INTP solution to overcoming Si child is to take dancing lessons. It solves virtually every problem for the INTP to start dating: social awkwardness, motivation to work out, a chance to meet women where men are rare and you can shine. Seriously. Go dancing.
That is some great advice there. I had a friend in college who was probably an INTP who did that. He really enjoyed it
Agreed. I became confident after I danced on a stage with crowds watching. So confident that I became INTJ-like who does not give a fuck about anything until I got into depression. Hrck I was even popular with the girls because I was an honor student and mysterious. A girl even approached me 1 day trying to tell me that I am so mysterious she wanted to be with me and I just ignored her.
@@amateruss i don't know that confidence makes me not care about anyone. Quite the opposite, in fact. I feel powerful enough to be a protector when in that frame of mind.
I play bass and have played in stage a lot so I got the same kind of thing from a different place. But yeah, I never just didn't care. That sounds like a path to utter loneliness to me.
@Celty Sturluson I am really not confident I can commit to a relationship because I value my freedom above anything.
I personally love yoga. Lots of girls and it's got so much benefits for mind and body. Meditation is also very good for me as I've had mental issues in the past like depression and anxiety, it makes me feel as if I can go forward in my day without many struggles.
As an intp male I don't like makeup in women. I prefer the natural look.
F^^^king gold. I'm glad you made this video as soon as you did, it means a lot. This is something I've been working on for a long time and as far as I can tell your information is logically consistent. I obviously want you to continue this dating series but if you get bored I understand. Whatever you do though keep making videos. Your content is clean information (little to no fluff) which is what INTP's really need. Keep on, keeping on!
Ps: Also, if you're looking for an interesting and important topic. I suggest 'INTP Drug use, reasons, and recovery', a highly ignored topic in the community. This one could actually save lives.
Thank you for the kind words. Happy some are seeing the light and improving. The videos will keep coming
As an INTP woman, trust me, the appearance part is the easy bit. We receive the peer pressure very early on from society imposing those standards on women to look good. The hard bit is building a life around a purpose, one I am still on the hunt for. Imagine if society actually expected women to have a purposeful life that dating becomes secondary... success of women is still measured by having a good relationship and balancing work and family lol I would say that society's standards for men need to be more wholesome, like appreciating guys who are, oh I don't know, nice, which can mean a variety of things, like being caring and considerate, having a level of emotional intelligence, knowing how to connect with people, etc. I'm sure there's a crowd of NT and maybe ST women who appreciates traits like those because those things can be a weakness for us.
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I found very small group of men found women to be intelligent is important, and part of this group of men just want to take financial advantages of these intelligent women even though it would be obvious to us, but annoying to have those people around. So it is only left very a few men to us... and they are probably already married.. hahaha.. Those single decent guys who prefer having a intelligent spouse are scattered very thin in this world, you could only find them by luck. so in order to find them, we need a strategy of a combination of praying and number games LOL
You might be an INFJ :)
@@Lionheartgrudge I know this comment is a year ago, but thanks haha, I was told that I'm an empath, but in real life I'm the last female you'd know who is good at making other people feel good lol
I believe a lot of intp women seem like infj’s because we are more emotionally balanced than our male counter parts but we are very much still intps. I feel this person
I recommend lengthy walks in nature listening to audiobooks for INTPs. Which I did with success.
Here is some Ti max efficiency exercise: just sprint up a hill about 100-200 meters. Do it once if your out of shape and once your in good shape do it 3 times. I have to also recommend getting a barbell for strength training but as far as cardio and athleticism, sprinting up a hill a couple times is the BEST bang for your buck. And if you have poor running form it is all good because you have extremely low impact on your joints as the added gravity absorbs your impact, allowing you to run with maximum intensity. Warm up and what not takes 5 minutes but the actual act of sprinting up the hill takes about 20-30 seconds and will leave your heart rate elevated for a few hours so it is pretty insane as far as time management is concerned. I can say from my experience with getting really strong and muscular, you really don’t have to be this stereotypical INTP that isn’t physically attractive. I wouldn’t really talk with girls much but they will give the silent types a lot of looks if you carry yourself in a manner that doesn’t back down to competition from other men. It’s not about being loud and always getting into fights but more so just presenting yourself as someone who is capable of flipping a switch in your head to go from calm to extremely explosive. This is why I would add strength training and try not to be so much like the body building type you see in the gym, be more focused on strength and speed and the muscle will come naturally. I know from experience in a college gym where there seems to be more sexual competition in the air, that you’ll put body building bros in their place when you lift heavy with proper form that women will be checking you out more if you are physically (and mentally) dominating the men around you. It’s much more attractive to be squatting heavy or doing heavy weighted pull ups (lifts that are hard and bros don’t like to do, capitalizing on others weak points) than it is to be standing in front of a mirror doing bicep curls, portraying feminine qualities of constantly checking yourself out in the mirror like a woman. Plus you will develop a lot more masculine physique just doing heavy compound lifts with a barbell, trust me... a bit rambly but I just thought I might share my own experience if it helps anyone out there considering improving their fitness. You’ll turn way more heads when you put heavy weight on the bar than if you are just standing in front of the mirror flexing and shit, and the energy you receive carries over to life outside of the gym because you just feel so physically confident knowing you could jack up any of these pretty boys you see walking around.
Thank you so much for that. This is the shit I am talking about. Well done!
I cannot describe the amount of love I have for your comment right here! Thank YOU ! ❤
Running is literraly one of the worst health advices you can give to fat/depressed just not trained people! Don't listen random is comments even if they have many likes.
Fat person can literally destroy his knees, because of that weight, and things can get even worse for him, because for him it will be harder to walk than before he started running.
+a lot people have flat foots and because of that, running can damage ankles and create bad technique habit.
@@jankowalczyk5288 some people have no legs but that doesn’t mean my advice isn’t good for people who CAN sprint. I am not catering my advice towards people who are old and morbidly obese. Yeah, if you are at that level you should just stop eating and walk an hour a day. 👍🏻
@@jankowalczyk5288 also I specifically suggested running uphill to avoid the impact from poor running form and high body weight. If you have health problems that make it dangerous to elevate your heart rate really high then you have other problems besides just being out of shape.
Now imagine Tyler, being an INTP woman (which I am) 😁
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😂😂 that would be rough. Honestly though work on yourself and dress to the nines you will find success. Hope this video still helped some!
I am 19.5 yrs old now and an INTP male. I never had any experiences with women and am working on myself yk working out, studying for uni, reading books, learn new skills (skateboarding rn) and it just is really hard to first of all become confident but I slowly see it rising step by step. It probably just takes time until I am actually *ready* to get a partner in my life
Fellow male INTP here. As far as exercise goes, I’d highly recommend a home body-weight machine. They use your own body weighted resistance to build up strength for every part of your body. The angle can be adjusted to make it easier or harder. It’s probably my best purchase in the past few years. The machine is lightweight and can be tucked away. It’s life-changing.
I am lucky enough to have an exercise bike I can use but I plan on buying some weights for the summer time. I'll have to look into this thank you!
@@intpsurvivalguide2473 I'd also recommend calisthenics or bodyweight exercice as I find it to be the most mentally stimulating exercices.
Their is a Logic in getting the ability to move your body in a an efficient way.
Having to make your muscles coordinate to get the good form and good posture is what makes it great.
You don't get bored lifting a weight without purpose, (here you don't lift for nothing, you struggle to be able to achieve New positions etc)
If you become good enough, it will also be part of the ability you could show of easily to a potential mate to gain her interest "ohh, you are 40 and you have no problems doing a stable hand stand! "
whereas boasting about lifting 10 or 40 or 100 kg isn't that interesting in itself and you won't demonstrate that ability anyway.
My experience is that we are not "unable" to date. Yes, we have functions that make it quite difficult, and ultimately we were not born to socialize.. But! For my part, I've read a book or two about dating and how to pick up girls on the street. And believe it or not, it worked! What is difficult for us is the part of approaching girls as often as possible. After a while, it's really not a big deal, and you always improve a little, but this freaking procrastination... that's the biggest problem.
It is also interesting that I have often heard "how to deal with rejection". Somehow "for me", but help me INTPs, somehow I don't have a problem with this for a single second. I went up to a girl and she said she had a boyfriend, then I said my usual text "ohh, no problem, it was 50/50 percent anyway, I had to try" and that's it, I went to the next girl (of course if I still had the energy for it: D).
I think it comes from the fact that, on the one hand, I see it as something that I should care about when a girl shows that she is interested in getting to know each other. On the other hand, I think the fact that I don't really care what other people think of me also plays a role. (or something like that) I read somewhere that we don't care so much about other people's opinions, only our own (roughly) and I think that's why. I'm much more interested in patting myself on the back for going there than wondering why I wasn't good enough (which, of course, is a terribly bad attitude in the dating world.)
So yes, it's not impossible, it's just a matter of practice. I don't agree at all with the fact that we find someone and that "because I'm not sure I could find another girl" he should marry someone. I think that as an INTP, I have an ideal, a goal of what kind of woman I want and I use every little method to (of course when I'm not procrastinating) commit myself to someone who I find really interesting, smart and sexy.
The main thing is not to give up and what do we know, if we want something, we collect all kinds of information on how we can achieve that something. (Just do it to get it)
I don’t know if others are like this but I am set to work on my own success first and then once I have achieved a certain level financially, then I will actually try to date. I don’t want to go into a relationship until I feel I have so much energy and time available to enjoy a relationship. It’s like a checklist before I even attempt to approach women. And I know about gold diggers so I’m not unaware of this aspect of achieving success first and then blindly going with anyone.
Yeah taking a good 1-2 years to just really work on yourself is a good idea. I think 5 years may be a little much though. Good luck!
Before I realized my MBTI type this is a piece of advice I always intrinsically knew. I was never good at talking to potential partners so I rather put myself into positions where they would ask me first. Definitely need to work on myself some more though
I have a new video out on flirting. Maybe check that out. Thanks for watching!
I disagree that NTJs are great for all INTPs. J's for INTPs, at least males, can be pushy (although that can be something we need). The stereotype is that J's see P's at lazy and P's see J's as bossy. I found happiness with my super ego type, ISFP. We both see the value in alone time, no pushiness on either side and compatibility throughout the stack. Great for 2 empty nesters looking for peace and companionship
That is interesting. I am currently studying INTP socionics and ENTJ and INTJ are not considered good relationships. Interesting...
@@intpsurvivalguide2473 Most of what I understand about compatability of types I learned from CS Joseph. He strongly disagrees with socionics in this area because extraverted functions are validated by the other's intoverted functions. Same functions make for comeraderie, but opposites are best for friendship and romance. He'd say same types are the worst matches for this reason. We want to provide what the other already has and what we need they can't provide because they don't have it either.
I agree with this. I think INTP wants to progress in the Fe functions and we don`t see INTJs as particularly wholesome in this. This is at least from a male INTP perspective
Evolutionary motivation for sex is below me. No outside influence is relevant in me choosing a romantic partner. If I ever wanted anyone as partner, they better be an actual upgrade to my existence. Else, I'm satisfied dying alone
I feel the same way. We should get together and make more of us.
This is a very useful channel, thank you for your content.
Regarding Fi Demon and how it affects dating - it's rough. For someone who is immature, the Demon function is the source of their pain and hatred, and having this focused on how we feel about ourselves (Fi) is a really rough one.
Fi Demon combining with Ni Critic: "I don't deserve that because I'm deficient" or Fi Demon combining with Si Child / Se Trickster: "I'm not good enough to do that, let's stick to the safety of what's known".
Fi Demon can fuel Fe Inferior: wanting to make other people feel good so we can ease the pain we feel about ourselves.
Overcoming Fi Demon will definitely help an INTP with dating, or relationships of any kind.
You are spot-on saying INTPs have a difficult function stack, yet Ti Hero gives us the ability to solve these issues. We can logically come to realise there is no basis for having low self-esteem, especially if we are following through on our Ti-Ne ideas to better ourselves.
Good vid, keep them coming!
A new song titled 'Scientist' by TWICE has totally changed my view on finding love.
The chorus goes:
"Love ain't a science, don't need a license. The more you sit there thinking it's a minus. Don't try to be a genius, why so serious."
And
"Rather than the all-knowing Einstein, more like the bulldozer Frankenstein"
So song also mentioned Einstein as an example. I think the song is made for intps 😂 .
Hey Tyler, I’ve been watching TH-cam videos for a long time. I’m 30 now and have been going through this “spiritual awakening” for a year now. Trying to be on my purpose, workout and my outer appearance. I’ve had no idea about personality traits in the least and am just now learning how my an intp after a couple of days of research. As you can imagine I was literally mind blown. I’m immediately able to piece this information with what I already knew about myself and confirm the direction I was taking was right all along. I’ve never written a TH-cam comment in all this time, but your videos in particular have done me a great service. You’re someone that I’ll always reference in my endeavors here forward.
Thank you for the kind words! I hope you continue on your journey and find success. It sounds like me and you have taken similar paths!
Yup, 13 mins in and im like, pfff... Im already out of the gene pool.
You are amazing. I have looked for advice on dating for ages!!! This is the first time that I heard advice that really spoke to me. Thank you so much for helping others. I needed this!
Glad it helped. I am working on a video on flirting you'll have to check that out. Should be out soon
@@intpsurvivalguide2473 oh thank you! That’s something I’ll be looking forward to!
Great video. Making the gym part of my lifestyle totally changed everything for me. IMO it's a game changer for the INTP because it tackles so many of their issues and weak points... Forces you out of Si comfort zone, strengthens your Fe as you grow comfortable working out around others and build your body, confidence, mindset. Also addresses Se because I think most INTPs feel awkward in their own body... being in the gym on a daily basis starts to change that dramatically as days turn into weeks, months, years, etc. I would also recommend some type of martial art, but that's a whole other discussion.
Using your Ti to convince yourself that the ideal state is to be sexually desirable and a top match. Will help with the lack of motivation that we suffer... Gym, making more money, developing worldview, taking on more hobbies to become interesting, traveling. They all come hand-in-hand once you take the first few steps. Of course I am still far from perfect but I think this is key to becoming a well-developed INTP who is capable of becoming the sage and unlocking life.
This was all good advice! Work on yourself first!
The Lonesome Friends of Science by John Prine is a great INTP song.
This was a good video. Alot of good advise. Sorry to hear about your recient divorce. But I know it happens. And you seem to have your head in the right place. More vids like this please. I might be facing a divorce soon too. But I know that working on bettering myself is where my head should be all along. And perhaps avoid the inevitable all together by being a catch. Well thank you for the video. Learned some and it's helped remind me where to center once again. Take care.
I was watching this video on my way home from the gym and what you say makes perfect sense! After a good workout session I'm certainly more aware of the surroundings and the people and their reactions, esp of the opposite sex. Certain situations that I otherwise feel awkward become less awkward. While it'll take months to see my physical results, the emotional benefits are instant.
I'm glad that I found a channel that talks about the importance of developing Se. Most others only talk about our inferior Fe.
I never had a problem with the ladies. You just have to stop analyzing and face your fears, be willing to fail, be willing to be rejected and embarrassed. Once you get comfortable, and learn how to use wit in face of challenge, "dating" becomes easy.
So I don't need muscles be at least 6feet tall and be rich af?
Because I am the the complete opposite of this.
I absolutely love the exercise suggestion. It's great for everyone but I can see it really beneficial for INTPs who live so much in their head.
But women don't ever approach men so I guess most men who are intps should get used to having no one ever because there can't be winners and you can't look good if everyone else looks bad
We sometimes get "adopted" by more extroverted types that find us fascinating. It's happened to me once. it was fun, but not meant to be.
@@zourin8804Women do not adopt men, well unless in the form of marriage without sex when she cheats with Se hero. Great solution.
Definitely appreciated the video even though I've already learned the "putting effort into appearance" and "having a desirable life" lessons the hard way.
Perhaps you could elaborate on how to recognise if someone is interested in you and how to move past the getting to know each other phase to deeper stuff?
Thanks anyway :)
Yes even though it may be hard to accept those are attractive traits. That would be a topic for a whole other video (choosing signals). You may find some other videos helpful on this topic. I may make one down the line. Hope this helps!
Informative and lists what to do so that we cant make up excuses to fit our Ti and Si. Well done.
Thank you for watching!
I'm an INFJ woman and I don't find Se "in your face/fighting" attractive.
If someone brings problems by getting into physical fights out in public, then I'm out.
As an INTP woman... I used to just grab the first top and pants from my wardrobe, not thinking for a second about colors matching or how they fit. Clothes were only to cover what needed to be covered, no?
In my teens, one of my sisters went mental about how I dressed and gave me the "basics"... Tight on top, baggy pants or vice versa 🤣 and some color matching... 😶
In my late teens I began to actually care a bit myself and once I learned more about clothes and makeup it became really fun. And in school I could escape P.E by going to the gym so I began to love lifting weights.... Now I kinda hate how I cant wear makeup or my own clothes at work 😕 makes me revert and barely even shave my armpits anymore...
Yes if you take the time to work on yourself and feel better you can really live the life you want. Thanks for watching!
The best thing is that we speak the same language, that is what is really convincing me. Really really thank u bro, you are giant!!
My mom chose a man who was honest based on my grandparents advice. Literally no attraction.
I'm going to die alone aren't I?
I bought resistance bands during this pandemic and it is working so well for me. Thank goodness I did not depend on my masterplan to go to the gym one day. Thanks for this video btw :)
Great job. Now just continue do not stop. I have to fight that Si child every day but it is so worth it in the long run. Thanks for watching!
I love the harsh truths.
I know your divorce was over a year ago now but I hope you're doing well! I enjoy this type of content, it's odd but comforting to see another intp has so many relevant, helpful points. Keep it up
Thank you so very much!! Please keep this video available forever.
Thank you for the kind words!
Insane how on point this was. I think the exact same way you do. Subscribed
Thank you Michael
I don't know why I'm watching it (being ENFP) but it's very insightful! Guess we are not all that different anyway.✌️
Thanks for stopping by!
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Perfect!
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Even though I am in a long-term relationship I was interested to hear your thoughts on this and I think you are right based on my own experience. I also was wondering if you are a follower of CS Josephs's method? I recently bought his INTP package and he has a video on ENTJ & INTP as the golden pair. This is the relationship that I am in and I have no reason to believe that I could find a better match for me. He goes into detail about why the relationship works best sexually (as you pointed out - Si is receiving whilst Se is giving) and emotionally. The two top videos that he shares on there are worth buying. I think he makes the most sense out of all the different people I've watched on TH-cam and see you using a similar approach but with your own understanding.
Congrats on meeting and being with an ENTJ. Yes I believe they are the best pair, but us INTPs can make others work. They are a rare bunch so hold on! I am a big fan of CS Joseph I have watched many of his videos. That's where much of my understanding of MBTI has come from along with my own research. Thanks again for your insightful comment
I think that ENTJs are controlling people and love management of projects or people .. and that's not likeable for an INTP male to be controlled by an ENTJ woman .. maybe if the woman is the INTP it will be ok for her to marry an ENTJ male .. but if it is the opposite .. i don't think it will work
Ur right I absolutely lothe caring about my apperance. I loathe it so much I'll everything else in this list except that.
F*CK its hard to be an INTP...
yeah its like choosing insane mode in a game but we fucking didnt here, we dont have a choice.lmao
@@kenrocketman897 lol
I found the hard part of the dating is I need to take a lot of time to observe and consider if I should date that person, because dating costs a lot of energy and they may not turn out a right choice, and as mentioned, the comfort zone makes INTP don't want to break up. however, if I take my time to think, people will just think I am not interested, and they will date other person instead. Any suggestions on how to solve this issue please?
I’m on this too tbh. Right now i’m settling with if the person I consider ends up with someone else or I can Picture them with someone else then i’m just letting it be. I’m concluding that I can’t get into a relationship without it just being “right” for me. Idk that’s me though. Don’t want to rush then have to deal with what I knew what wasn’t for me.
So I'm an INTP but I'm also a queer person, and I think my experiences are pretty different from yours. It was interesting hearing your perspective but not super relatable. I've found that I have the most success in romantic endeavors by befriending people, getting really close to them, and being honest about my feelings if I develop romantic attraction towards them. I usually befriend types who don't care much about physical appearance and highly value my insights and thought processes. Those are the kinds of people I want to form a partnership with, not people who dismiss me because I'm a little disheveled. Don't get me wrong , I absolutely understand that improving yourself and putting effort into your appearance is great, but I want to do those things for myself, not for someone else. Also, I will say, I think being an AFAB more femme presenting person works in my favor because lots of the INTP traits are not stereotypically feminine, so people find me to be unexpectedly interesting/unique.
Honestly it’s probably because you’re just a very stable person which means you’re probably the best a INTP can get and I think that honestly the LGBTQ has smarter and or more stable people because of how In touch we are with our actual selfs and desires if you get what I’m saying
3:24 definitely. I actually think that relying on stable relations is more important for introverts than for extrovert, namely because we often struggle harder to build them.
Good point
This Was great. Thank you
Glad it was helpful!
I’ve had loads of long term partners in my life.. just like he says… when I’ve got hold of them I’ve stayed far too long even though I’ve not been happy… now I’ve been single for two years I’ve lost that momentum and I really don’t know if I have it in me to try again.
If you really want you could get into it again. I've just come out of two relationships back to back and I've rather found a place where I'm like: yeah I'm gonna go monkmode for at least half a year. Relationships simply aren't always worth it. Especially the emotional and time investment seems so worthless if the relationship doesn't end up being lasting. Best to invest in myself right now.
Today I did some shopping... Got new spectacles, things to wear in college that don't take much effort to put together, I think I'm ready to look cute in second semester compared to the first. I don't think I'm ready to date anyone yet but I'd just like to look more put together in case my future bf is somewhere in my vicinity 😅
You give great advice 👍🏾
I appreciate that
This is very helpful 👍🏻
Thanks for watching!
Awesome video! Keep it up :)
Thank you for the kind words!
Despite the fact that my foray into the world of dating is very short, since I have only tried it in two situations, I have found that it is more complicated than I imagined.
The last time something happened to me that no matter how hard I try, I can't understand, we both liked each other, however I felt I didn't deserve her so I decided to improve myself, I focused on improving my grades and my lifestyle, but at the end she left me because I became a boring person.
In 6 months I will be moving to another city, so I have time to improve myself and correct my mistakes.
English is not my main language so I apologize for any errors.
You did fine. Thanks for watching
If her criticism of you is genuine, would she still fit your criteria as a partner? Are you satisfied with being someone's source of entertainment? Is that how you imagined your purpose is?
@@entropy8634 Well, I haven't talked to her since then, mostly I'm a bit confused because some time ago she told me that I didn't need to look for an interesting topic to talk to her, she just enjoyed talking to me, but for some reason she told me that she no longer wanted to talk to me because I had become bored, I think that is a contradiction, and that is what has me confused.
She was a studious girl, while I passed the subjects with the minimum required, I realized that she was in a different league, so instead of letting her go I decided to improve myself. But that didn't work and ended anyway.
Right now I'm fine and I don't think I would try again with her
This is so good thank you iam waiting for more videos on dating
I think my next video will be on dating stay tuned
@@intpsurvivalguide2473 okay keep consistent with your videos we are in need of them 💪💪
Is it weird that I don't care about how someone looks? If I date someone is pretty much because they have something to offer rather than because they are hot or something. As a female intp I really reaaaally dislike superficiality. Of couse I believe exercise helps you mentally and physically. But I don't go around judging others because they don't exercise. Maybe it is because I don't want to have children, but I don't like to see people as breeding machines.
4:10 u r wrong. 1st ENTJ then ESFP and then INTJ. Simple for introvert its easy to mingle with extrovert counterparts. Marriage with ESFP is the long lasting ones, unless one of the partner is too much focused on career.
If I want to make a good impression even unconciously I'll try to dress better and look good.
20:50 damn you didnt have to call me out like that
bruh i feel that
well you said intps cabt go out alone but thats what i did a few times so i guess im not an intp then xD
I'll just watch "cool as ice" for examples
This was good
Thanks!
So what do I do if i'm an INTP and have a very big nose and 5"4 in a good day? 😑
I also didn't mention, i've started working out and even though I'm still 5"4 (on a good day) , I'm pretty strong,have good proportions and i like the way i look, and my nose is still big but i've started taking care of my skin, and since it fits my face I also like how my face looks.
But those were the easy parts.
Seriously guys, start working out, eating healthy and keeping yourself and environmet clean. It's really easy when you have a bigger and tougher goal, so find one.
I have the worst ghosting issue, one second I wanna be a social butterfly then I just disappear for a week 2 seconds later
These are tips for women. Be attractive and love will find you. Nothing good will happen to a guy unless he looks like a Greek god
Basic question: Men don't seem to care about a woman's height - even though height in both genders is associated with health and success and is one of the most heritable traits. I would assume that men and women valued height equally!
it's probably psychological. Men may feel more masculine being more physically imposing than their mate, and vice versa for women. protector/protectee instinct.
I would prefer if a woman is taller than me tho
I ain't taking no dating advice from another INTP bro.
On a separate (?) note, sorry about the divorce.
Please make a video on Te
I may try sometime in future but Te is difficult for me to understand for some reason
no comment lol
Thank you
Yeah, yeah have a job. What if you live in a poor income area with no job and no job experience so thus you never get hired!?
Schooling and free online projects (coding projects etc) count as experience too
Lol I don't want kids my genes r terrible.
Go to gym, make yourself fit. You will find yourself attractive. :)
And you still won't get anything out of it
Nope you will. You will live a longer and healthier life, usually based on statistics.
@@Lionheartgrudge A long, lonely, meaningless life sounds great 🤣 I have been exercising regularly for a year. I don't like it, I'm not happier. And still no one cares.
@@Arcadius-tr8bm again, why do you think a lonely life is meaningless life? I have almost zero friend, and I still think my life is not meaningless. You have to find things you like. For me, it was learning new things. You might like doing something so much that companionship wouldn't matter at all. That will be finding your meaning of life.
@@Lionheartgrudge I can't answer and I don't know why
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