I’m a doctor and I don’t see how any healthcare worker has time to go to fine dining restaurants and have 3 course meals EVERY day for lunch. When you’re on the clock you usually only have about 1 hour for lunch. Unless she is literally inhaling her food and drinks I don’t see it. It’s not even about the money for me. Lunch is simply not a meal I have time to indulge in like that on a daily basis. Also I would hate stuffing myself until I am full and then having to go back to work. I’d be tired af the rest of the afternoon 😂
@@Kelema86 her page gave some context, she wasnt at work that day she clarified, she doesnt do $100 3-4 course meals everyday so she was being OD dramatic-the dude lead with money so she matched his energy thats the part i think she wasnt wrong in
She making a base minimum of $100k , traveling nurses can easily make $200k. So yea he was punching above his weight class as she says she easily drops $100 for a meal. So ne&ro sit all the way down😊
$30 is fine, but after she gave the context, I get where she’s coming from. He’s either capping or he’s testing her…either way, I’d send it back and tell him to take care, beloved
That's not spoiling. Spoiling is also consistent. She should not accept money from a male she aint committed to. These females(yes, I said females in this case) are insufferable. They compare their lives with married women and women in committed relationships and expect the same treatment with these manosphere males.
When she said 30 won't get her 2 drinks, she's most likely in LA or Washington state because 30 is about 10 in LA or Bellevue. Location matters in this situation
In San Francisco and I literally spent $ 32.00 on a SMALL pizza and salad at a pizza chain today and I drank water, for lunch. So… I get her point. But TBH, I would have never accepted $$ from some dude I don’t know anyway, because I don’t like to be obligated and I personally would think his game is pretty classless.
Ladies, it’s very worth it to work hard at school and work, spoiling yourself feels sooo much better. When you can afford anything you want, the quality of men goes much higher.
Exactly!!! I’ve busted my ass all my 20s I just turned 26 and I’m graduating with dual master’s degree in May. I have way too much pride to even accept money from people/random men. Even when my dad tries to send me money I just can’t accept it at my grown age.
Many women have decided that it is worth the embarrassment of having to ignore a few hypocritical and judgy women with their "that couldn't be me" attitude if it is helping others and also just purging the nonsense. A lot of women have learned that it is important for us to share stories so that other women don't feel insane for the bs these males are doing to us, and to find community with other women. People are always welcome to scroll, so it harms nobody.
This is something that is baffling to me A gay woman would not do this If someone is out of your league then get on their level to compete for their attention or leave them alone Simple two options And if you succeed then keep them at their level or improve it Don't drag them down Many men get angry that the person out of their league wants to have the life they have always had It's so confusing what goes on in their brains
I personally would not get involved in the topic of money with men that I don’t know because you just never know what type of situation that will be. Flashing money is a red flag.
Exactly. A lot of women don't get that if a man immediately comes out the gate with luxury this and expensive that for you, then something is wrong. A good man never leads with his wallet, and a busy, successful man will give you a lot of what is scarce for him - his time.
@@gregkareem9824 Yeah seem like you are illogical. He is the one biding to get her attention. She was not bothering him. She is not happy with his translation of her worth that is why she is sharing the experience on the Internet. She just asked for folks opinions but she has her standard that is why her decision was already set. It is fairly simple but I understand it is complex to the laymen.
@@trendydiy2931 northern Virginia. I cringe every time I put stuff in the doordash cart. I can get it to $30 if I'm specifically looking for deals and the companies that so the 50 cents or $1.00 fee specials.
Other way around its a grown woman who can get a job just like man he's out of her league get it right she should be grateful she even got money if a girl sent me that money I'd be happy I wouldn't be complaining ironically to no surprise that was a woman who was complaining no surprise work for your own money don't ask people for money your strong and independent as a woman right ?? Smh
@@gregkareem9824No, because you all are the ones who end up. Homeless neglected in nursing home and fear. Being old and single, we actually do not fear having pets and being single women. Single women statistically are happier and live longer. The same cannot be said for you males so keep being better l o l
For HER standards $30.00 is a joke. Because she is used to having other men show out and $30.00 is honestly a joke. You have men out here who literally know a woman are out their league, yet they continue to persue her expecting her to accept his low value self!
Black women aren't allowed to have standards of any kind unless those standards are basement level low. How dare she expect him to spoil her like he said he would. $30 is basic, he's passively saying she's basic and to her that was unacceptable, as it should be.
8:31 Why she gotta be a scammer or a dope dealer gf? She said it was her day off so, TO ME, it appeared that she already planned to have lunch at a “sit down” restaurant. I do the same on my days off If you hop in my DM flashing money & talking about spoiling, of course more than $30 is to be expected
Exactly , she told on herself . That's how some BW see other BW with standards . Since they don't have any standards, they try to make others to be the " underbelly " of society. 😅 Just because , some BW have #standards 😂. He thought he could slid in her life unnoticed , then use her up or tear her stuff up . 😢 # boy bye
Is everyone overlooking the fact that he said he was going to spoil her? I'm no insta baddie, but I'd be disappointed too if someone said that and I found out they send me 30 dollars😂
I would have been gracious but he wouldn’t have heard from me again. Those are her standards and what she can do for herself… the only issue I see is her embarrassing him by bringing it to the internet. 🤷🏾♀️
he embarrassed himself from what it sounds like to me. I'm a firm believer in, don't DO questionable/embarrassing/bad things & you won't LOOK questionable/embarrassed/bad 🤷♀️ I think everyone else should start to switch over to that way of thinking which would lead to more self accountability.
Well good for her for having audacity these men will ask you to sleep with you after sending that 30 😂or date you first date and ask you to sleep with him 😂 so yes sister we are entitled for audacity we are Queen 😂 not peasant
Cheap??? Hes literally giving her free money for no reason and she's complaining df 🤦🏽♀️nothing cheap about free money, especially since he don't even know her, he dodged bullets with this
@@Rosemary46840 Okay, Rosemary pickmeisha here. He was flexing his thousands on here and even offered to "spoil" her. He wasn't going after no regular girl he was going after a RICH girl. Of course she won't be impressed by 30 dollars. Would you spoil Bill gates with 30 dollars? Exactly.
@SamSneed001 idk about everyone else but that's not how I would describe myself. I take care of things because I have to and I'm single not because I want to be independent
@@77kc_77 -I wish people would grow to understand this, because there is no substitute for peace. My best friend says, “You’re responsible for your peace. The only way it’s disturbed is you extend the invitation.” My best friend is an older straight man. I keep this circulating in my brain. I really enjoy my own company, which it seems is rare these days.
As Shera says “every little bit counts” lol! But that’s definitely not what’s considered “spoiling” someone. If it were me, I’d cash app him back his $30 telling him to keep his little gas money for his own needs. Classy ladies do not rob the less fortunate.
I would have taken it and left. Cause men will send you $30 and expect your full attention. I have $30 don't send me something I can do for myself. This man was clearly out of his league
He bothered her & talked big sht. HE & a lot of these people thought she shoulda been grateful b/c they're ok w/ being toyed with. The games they play start in the BEGINNING, clear example. She wants what he promised, to be SPOILED or get tf on! He shoulda eyed her pretty pictures & kept going.
Reminds me of the Oyster lady situation. The guy kept asking her out, and asking her out, until she agreed and he could not handle the bill she was running up so he ran away. Lol! Don’t make promises that aren’t in your budget.
@Axolotl44444a man who starts cheap will always be cheap. Dinner, your wedding, birth control, children, emotions etc. Don’t accept it if it’s not your style. He wil think he hit a bargain with a cheap girl.
Be grateful. Say thanks and block him 🤭💀 He sounds like one of those guy who will say "i take care of all your expenses" and then give you $100 🤭 When somebody shows you who they are, believe them. And he is showing he is broke, now believe it 💀 and move on
No. Don’t do that! Please do not take that man’s entire 7-Eleven pay check for that day. It’s like stealing money from the less fortunate. It’s wrong. Give him back his lil $30. He can buy himself over 15 hot dog-soda combos at a Costco with that coin!
I would have never responded to anyone asking to send me money especially a random stranger lol. It sounds like he was trying to buy a lil something and he thought she was a cheap thrill.
??? That's a completely different situation smh, this is $30 for only her for lunch and he doesn't even know her and hasn't even taken her on a date yet, he completely dodged a bullet
She is absolutely right, and admirable. This is her standard. We have every right to stand by our beliefs and we want out of a future partner. We may think anyway we want but that’s her life at the end of the day. What always gets me is men regularly set standards regarding who they will date and not date. There are single men who say they won’t give single mothers a chance, they refuse to entertain a woman because of her weight, her body type, haircut, income level, and all other kinds of reasons and no one bats an eye. But let a woman turn down a man because he doesn’t meet her standards… omg she’s a gold digger, she needs to be more grateful, that’s how women end up alone the horror ahhhhhhhhhh!!!! Nah fuck that. I walked out of a date because the guy showed up at the restaurant in crocs. Am I ungrateful for not giving him a chance? Hell no. I know what I want and what I don’t. And honestly ladies fuck all who judge us for not settling. This woman is an absolute Queen and we can learn from her.
I agree with everything you said . That's why , we have to continue to show men , we aren't doing that anymore. We can't tell them , but we can # show them 😅🎉
I live in the Florida Keys, and I work in IT. Monroe County is one of the most expensive counties in Florida. Even our sales tax is the highest in the state at 7.5%, and an oxtail plate at the local Jamaican food truck I frequent is $30. Yeah... no... he tried it. I would have kept it, then blocked him on every communication service I own. TF 😂
Being quiet led us to where we are now, with males manipulating women in private, and then embarassing her at the end after saddling her with a baby, etc. These women are sharing their stories and opening other women's eyes. It is a collective. The good news is that it is optional viewing.
@peachesandpoets some of these 'stories' are just not worth talking about. This is a storm in a teacup. If a guy sends you little money, just keep it moving and deal with the men who are meeting your standards. It does not need to progress to babies and shaming.
I'm a firm believer in if you don't DO embarrassing/bad things then you won't LOOK embarrassed or bad.... yeah, there are unfair smear campaigns but I can confidently say that the provable truth... which is simple THE TRUTH will ALWAYS prevail even if you are temporarily knocked down at first. I'm just saying 🤷♀️
@@kayshawnsimmons5585 I’m not bothered about her wanting $100 for lunch, but I do hate when women call other women “Females”. It’s part of the weirdo manosphere vocabulary and I’m hate how it’s now utilised in everyday conversation. 😫
Right? Like, YOU can call yourself a female if you're good with that, but don't call other people that. A female can be a female roach, a female rat, etc... A woman is a woman.
It's literally just lunch you be foreal, expecting several hundred dollars a day from a guy is how he'll go bankrupt, y'all aren't rich celebrities come back down to earth
@Rosemary46840 it's just lunch but why was the guy flashing money to impress the lady knowing he couldn't afford her. He went on her page and saw that she lives an expensive lifestyle men should stop lying then.
Sounds like a Splenda daddy, tbh. I mean, an order of decent ramen costs $50 via Uber Eats, so $30...mehhhh. Especially if she posts a lot of luxury lifestyle stuff?
How timely, I just got myself some lunch and everything came to about $65.00. I got a pretty large Indian platter with curry goat, chicken tikka, the naan bread, etc. This will last me for the rest of the weekend. I think as women, we spoil ourselves when it comes to food. Men are open to getting a quick steak sandwich, chips, and a drink or chick fil A. He gave her $30.00 cause that's what he spends on himself for lunch. They're just different.
30 is an even number loool it’s not an odd number… but yea any relative can send 30 bucks. If you want to woo someone, especially if you lead with money, you got to go the extra mile
Let’s be real: $30 does not even buy a McDonald’s value meal on Uber eats after the fees get added nowadays. To the person who said you can buy a 15 piece wing with that and get it delivered with a drink: no, that would be at least $42 pretty much anywhere unless you’re using a promo code.
At first I was like "wow just 30" then she said lunch and I was like "hmm.." but then she gave all the context and yeah nah. Too many dustys going above their league not knowing what a beautiful woman who can actually provide for herself goes through. How is $30 spoiling when you started off with money talk 😂 boy bye
I think… as a woman who likes to be spoiled, I’ve never accepted money for lunch. I much rather just take a large amount meant just for me. To do whatever I want with.
As a woman, I would be offended if a man used the word "afford" referring to me. I'm not selling anything.... and if I were, then that would be a red flag for him. 🤷♀️
To be fair, this guy does not have that for food for himself if that’s his definition of “spoiling” someone. That $30 could buy him 3 lunches or multiple Costco Hot dog/drink combos. Conclusion: he shouldn’t be trying to impress women with his 7-Eleven paycheck. Don’t mention “spoiling” if you don’t got it like that.
She have her standards and I respect that. Me, I would have taken that $30 and got me a meal and still had some change leftover to buy a happy meal for my son. And I would have appreciated the gesture. Just saying 😂
7:43 why does it always have to be about illegal activities maybe the girl has standards and clearly is on her business / plus knows her worth and value - men should stop pursing women not on their level. I woukd have rejected the $30 because at that moment thats how much value he saw in her. A nice resturant date would have been acceptable- a few hundreds is spoiling a woman.
This is an interesting one. For the average girlie like me it would make my week - heck my year haha if someone wanted to treat me to a lunch like this. But if bro filtered out the regular ladies and honed in like a missile on someone whose account I assume shows her as high maintenance then tough if she dragged him for not correctly assessing her price point 🤷🏻♀️Also I don’t think she really at all spends 100 bucks on lunch I think ‘lunch’ is just a euphemism for ‘access tip’ to be allowed communication rights in the hopes of getting a date or other personal services but I guess that sounds too crude haha 😅
@muadhnate You sound dusty stay out the league - even dating men you gotta be making atleast 3k per month to deal with someone like me - my accounts are never dry !
Who has time to have starters, main and whatever else on their lunch break? She must be an entrepreneur. 😂 Okay reading the comments I had no idea some areas are super expensive and $30 would only pay for a starter. If he’s from her area he should have given her more, if not she just needs to communicate with him not social media.
What I love about her is that she respects her own standard about the type of man she's willing to accept into her life. She made it very clear to this guy that he can't meet her at her level. He was clearly trying to impress her but then breadcrumb her by only giving her like 1% and she wasn't having it. Good for her 👏🏻👏🏻
Thats random...I would feel a bit weirded out....why is he sending me money when we havent even gone out....I would expect an invitation to a real date not some lousy $30.00 sent for me to dine on my own lol i can make my own lunch or order it, if you want me you have to invite me on a real date nothing less
My lunches were $15 when I worked in Manhattan in the Financial District. For lunch, $30 seems pretty nice. For dinner? That would be a different story. But I’d rather have him come and take me out personally for dinner than just send cash. That way I’d get to know him in person.
When you can't do 3 points do you blame the basket ? I know he saw women he could afford but tried this one specifically because of her lifestyle and appearance So I'm fully on her side 😂😂😂 I can barely afford fast food with 30$ so keep it sir and thanks for the effort 💀
At first, I thought that $30 for lunch aint bad. But if she’s at work & needs it delivered then $30 wouldn't necessarily cover it on Doordash or Ubereats. It really depends on the area they're in cause usually when I get food delivered to the office it's like $25 with the tip (that's on slow days like Mon-Tuesday, a Friday order would likely be over $30+). A bigger city like LA or Atlanta would definitely cost more. And they certainly couldn't have a nice dinner date with that amount 🤷🏽♀️. Idk I’d just move on unless he said let me get your feet/nails done & then ONLY SENT $30 cause wth am I going to do with that 😂😂!?
i love herrr!!! you can tell she is well kept and i do believe he saw her profile and she....she's killing it...and then when you see he has racks on racks on racks then you understand he was throwing chump change at her.
For me personally, I typically bring my lunch to work every day to save money. No way am I spending $100 for one meal, especially lunch. So for me, $30 would be a treat.
He was leading with his money and she choose to separate herself from the crowd by not accepting 30$ since he flashing money. If he came off genuine it would’ve been different. But he big daddy warbucks. Spend it 🥷 . I wouldn’t want my daughters to deal with men like this but I do want them to recognize them. Good job boo. I spoil my daughters.
He said he wanted to “spoil” her. He should’ve never used that word..when I spoil myself for lunch, I go to a nice sit down restaurant and order food with drinks..which will be about $100..if he talking about lunch in the middle of a shift, I can kind of understand the $30 (more like $50 though) and he shouldn’t have said spoil. She was out of his league 🤷🏾♀️
Now these men do claim they got “long money” and do be sending 5’s and 20’s… for “lunch” like no one has to give me anything and I appreciate it. But I do tell men and women (i love my studs) that I can do FAR MORE for myself so out do me when it comes to spoiling… especially you claiming money isn’t an issue or spoiling cause last time I checked $20 ain’t a shopping spree. Honestly if it’s not a celebrity or known wealthy guy or hell even a older established man many guys around our age don’t got it like that… tbh that money in the picture was probably his grandmas income tax, that he probably got $50 of it driving her to the bank to withdraw it. 😂😂
The context matters, he flashed money at her so she expected him to give her a good spoiling. If you flash money at me, I am expecting the cash to flow like a waterfall. It doesn’t matter if I make my own money. That’s why it’s important to present yourself truthfully.
$30 is good for fast food but I’m not into fast food for lunch especially on my day off. And the fact that he said he wanted to spoil here does matter in this situation and he should have upped the ante and went over board because that’s what spoiling is 🤷🏾♀️
THIS is what "simping" is... Leading with money with hopes to receive some type of affection from the person your attracted to is SIMPING. She wasn't wrong. Black women are allowed to have standards. He couldn't afford her.
@@Rosemary46840umm I think you need to learn when to walk away... Black women can have standards too... If she's too much, walk away. You're not entitled to every woman YOU find attractive.
Girl what is she eating for LUNCH that cost $100 by herself 💀 i can understand thinking its a joke if he said “let me pay for your nails” and only gave her $30, but a meal? Sis i would happily take a free $30 to get me that large plate of oxtails with extra sides lmao
This one is pretty cool. The dating market is like the job market. People lying about their cv and organization lying about their work offering aren't rare. Nowadays profils aren't totally authentic so it's important to filter problems by being genuine and specific. The wrong was more on the guy that tried to date out of his league. It make me think of proverbs 12:9: "Better to be lowly and have a servant than to play the great man and lack bread." Thanks again Priscilla for your content. It really challenges my thinking and help me watch the big picture
A LOT of mf, especially if you eat healthy and you’re going OUT to eat. A chick fil la mela is what $16, that unhealthy shit. If you go to a cheap salad spot like Sweetgreens, that could easily run you $23 without a beverage🤷🏿♂️
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This girl is actually a travel nurse so she isnt a scammer and has money her delivery was loud and wrong without context but SHE wasnt wrong😂
I’m a doctor and I don’t see how any healthcare worker has time to go to fine dining restaurants and have 3 course meals EVERY day for lunch. When you’re on the clock you usually only have about 1 hour for lunch. Unless she is literally inhaling her food and drinks I don’t see it. It’s not even about the money for me. Lunch is simply not a meal I have time to indulge in like that on a daily basis. Also I would hate stuffing myself until I am full and then having to go back to work. I’d be tired af the rest of the afternoon 😂
@@Kelema86 her page gave some context, she wasnt at work that day she clarified, she doesnt do $100 3-4 course meals everyday so she was being OD dramatic-the dude lead with money so she matched his energy thats the part i think she wasnt wrong in
And you're only speaking for yourself. My cousin is a doctor in Sonoma. She has time to go to places like french laundry etc so@@Kelema86
She making a base minimum of $100k , traveling nurses can easily make $200k. So yea he was punching above his weight class as she says she easily drops $100 for a meal. So ne&ro sit all the way down😊
$30 is fine, but after she gave the context, I get where she’s coming from. He’s either capping or he’s testing her…either way, I’d send it back and tell him to take care, beloved
THIS.
That's not spoiling. Spoiling is also consistent. She should not accept money from a male she aint committed to. These females(yes, I said females in this case) are insufferable. They compare their lives with married women and women in committed relationships and expect the same treatment with these manosphere males.
That's why your single.
@@JasonFlake-op1ll
Women can always find men.
Exactly
When she said 30 won't get her 2 drinks, she's most likely in LA or Washington state because 30 is about 10 in LA or Bellevue. Location matters in this situation
$30 won't touch an appetizer / meal here
Yesss, I'm in LA, I thought she was here. 🤭🤭🤭🤞🏿🤞🏿😏😏👏🏿👏🏿🤣🤣🤞🏿💅🏿💅🏿💅🏿🍿🎥🥶
In San Francisco and I literally spent $ 32.00 on a SMALL pizza and salad at a pizza chain today and I drank water, for lunch. So… I get her point. But TBH, I would have never accepted $$ from some dude I don’t know anyway, because I don’t like to be obligated and I personally would think his game is pretty classless.
30 barely getting red lobster 🦞 grub hub to my job up the block here in nyc 😂😂😂
@@daijourcalloway998 These people throughout the comments are cheap and expect dust
Ladies, it’s very worth it to work hard at school and work, spoiling yourself feels sooo much better. When you can afford anything you want, the quality of men goes much higher.
Boom 💥
Exactly!!! I’ve busted my ass all my 20s I just turned 26 and I’m graduating with dual master’s degree in May. I have way too much pride to even accept money from people/random men. Even when my dad tries to send me money I just can’t accept it at my grown age.
I mean, why did he say he was gonna spoil her? With $30? In 2024? And again I say, why put it on the internet?
It’s giving “eat the cake Anna may” and I’m sick of it 🤣
Many women have decided that it is worth the embarrassment of having to ignore a few hypocritical and judgy women with their "that couldn't be me" attitude if it is helping others and also just purging the nonsense.
A lot of women have learned that it is important for us to share stories so that other women don't feel insane for the bs these males are doing to us, and to find community with other women. People are always welcome to scroll, so it harms nobody.
@@peachesandpoetstrue. It is also quite entertaining.
Exactly and that’s what a lot of these women don’t undertahd
Today's XY😹😹😹🤦🏾♀️
Men always try to have premium/luxury experiences while paying discount/clearance prices.
EXACTLY 💯🤡🤛🏾
Exactly. And the my ALWAYS feel entitled to the women outside of their league.
@@levelupgoddess9289facts
This is something that is baffling to me
A gay woman would not do this
If someone is out of your league then get on their level to compete for their attention or leave them alone
Simple two options
And if you succeed then keep them at their level or improve it
Don't drag them down
Many men get angry that the person out of their league wants to have the life they have always had
It's so confusing what goes on in their brains
discounted discounts.
I personally would not get involved in the topic of money with men that I don’t know because you just never know what type of situation that will be. Flashing money is a red flag.
Exactly. A lot of women don't get that if a man immediately comes out the gate with luxury this and expensive that for you, then something is wrong. A good man never leads with his wallet, and a busy, successful man will give you a lot of what is scarce for him - his time.
@@beautyininsanity421 well said!
@@beautyininsanity421agreed.
Yup. It's a trap and a heavy debt over wom3ns heads.
So true
She is not ungrateful she is just out of his league.
Exactly.
Facts
While she complaining of money sent to her yes your a very logical one indeed
@@gregkareem9824 Yeah seem like you are illogical. He is the one biding to get her attention. She was not bothering him. She is not happy with his translation of her worth that is why she is sharing the experience on the Internet. She just asked for folks opinions but she has her standard that is why her decision was already set. It is fairly simple but I understand it is complex to the laymen.
@@efreeholdings1575 burden proof of fallacy Hitchens razor Ad homeman attack not surprised by your pfp you'd say this
if your going to tell a woman your going to spoil them. Spoil them on their level not yours.
💯 agree 😂😂
Exactly
What did she do for him to spoil her.?
@@SamSneed001shit
@@SamSneed001ironically nobody replied smh i wouldnt surprise if its nothing
These ladies are lying!! $30 is not enough for doordash. My doordash is never under $40
Damn I doordash and pay normally no more than 30 you must live somewhere expensive
@@trendydiy2931 northern Virginia. I cringe every time I put stuff in the doordash cart. I can get it to $30 if I'm specifically looking for deals and the companies that so the 50 cents or $1.00 fee specials.
Then don't be lazy and go get your food. There's literally no reason to doordash unless you're too physically disabled or don't have a car
My question is, why would you fall for the trick of a guy sliding in her DMs trying to flex his fake money? It’s a scam sis
Thank you for this comment!!
She’s out of his league. He should keep it moving. Live and learn.
Facts 💯
Other way around its a grown woman who can get a job just like man he's out of her league get it right she should be grateful she even got money if a girl sent me that money I'd be happy I wouldn't be complaining ironically to no surprise that was a woman who was complaining no surprise work for your own money don't ask people for money your strong and independent as a woman right ?? Smh
Woman ☕️
@@gregkareem9824No, because you all are the ones who end up. Homeless neglected in nursing home and fear. Being old and single, we actually do not fear having pets and being single women. Single women statistically are happier and live longer. The same cannot be said for you males so keep being better l o l
@@gregkareem9824 She shouldn’t have to work at all. Being in her very existence is more than most men deserve. Only broke men talk like that.
For HER standards $30.00 is a joke. Because she is used to having other men show out and $30.00 is honestly a joke. You have men out here who literally know a woman are out their league, yet they continue to persue her expecting her to accept his low value self!
THIS
You hit the nail on the head
True. Date someone who you are compatible with 😅
BOOM
A woman that begs a guy send her money, she's out of his league. Yea tight.
I am from Africa and i will not accept 30 dollars 😂.
Black women aren't allowed to have standards of any kind unless those standards are basement level low. How dare she expect him to spoil her like he said he would. $30 is basic, he's passively saying she's basic and to her that was unacceptable, as it should be.
Perfect comment. He tried her & she blocked him . 😂🎉
8:31 Why she gotta be a scammer or a dope dealer gf? She said it was her day off so, TO ME, it appeared that she already planned to have lunch at a “sit down” restaurant. I do the same on my days off
If you hop in my DM flashing money & talking about spoiling, of course more than $30 is to be expected
Exactly , she told on herself . That's how some BW see other BW with standards . Since they don't have any standards, they try to make others to be the " underbelly " of society. 😅 Just because , some BW have #standards 😂. He thought he could slid in her life unnoticed , then use her up or tear her stuff up . 😢 # boy bye
Is everyone overlooking the fact that he said he was going to spoil her? I'm no insta baddie, but I'd be disappointed too if someone said that and I found out they send me 30 dollars😂
If he wanted to spoil her, hed send 3 or 4 digit amount of money. Hes not cause hes saying this to multiple women at once and is broke
@@maryjanerxHe shouldn't be dating anyone broke
@@77kc_77 he shouldnt be flexing while actually being broke
@pidgeoncoocoo8496 well yeah, but xys don't care because this system has conditioned them to be entitled to women broke etc
I would have been gracious but he wouldn’t have heard from me again. Those are her standards and what she can do for herself… the only issue I see is her embarrassing him by bringing it to the internet. 🤷🏾♀️
These males have no issue embarrassing women online EVER DAY ESPECIALLY Black Women.
Facts
he embarrassed himself from what it sounds like to me.
I'm a firm believer in, don't DO questionable/embarrassing/bad things & you won't LOOK questionable/embarrassed/bad 🤷♀️
I think everyone else should start to switch over to that way of thinking which would lead to more self accountability.
If you're going to tell a story about someone, keep them anonymous
I didn't hear her say his name .
$30 ain't spoiling 😂 I would send the money back and tell him (politely) to kick rocks
Exactly😹😹😹
Depends on which circles you travel in: high power lawyers in LA or equivalent comes to mind & I know there are other careers & locations
@@dinkyboss He told her he was going to spoil her. She didn't ask him for anything😒😑
@dinkyboss Clearly she has standards $30 is nothing
Yes ma'am. Men these days have no idea what that means.
Well good for her for having audacity these men will ask you to sleep with you after sending that 30 😂or date you first date and ask you to sleep with him 😂 so yes sister we are entitled for audacity we are Queen 😂 not peasant
She's right. She didn't go beggin for money. He said he'd spoil her. 30 ain't spoiling shit.
Once a man starts off cheap and you accept it he will forever be cheap.
Cheap??? Hes literally giving her free money for no reason and she's complaining df 🤦🏽♀️nothing cheap about free money, especially since he don't even know her, he dodged bullets with this
Yep I only deal with ppl on my level -
@Rosemary46840 baby girl your such a pick me like I can tell you're not used to men going all out for you.
@@Rosemary46840money she didn’t ask for, if you want to do it, do it right.
@@Rosemary46840 Okay, Rosemary pickmeisha here. He was flexing his thousands on here and even offered to "spoil" her. He wasn't going after no regular girl he was going after a RICH girl. Of course she won't be impressed by 30 dollars. Would you spoil Bill gates with 30 dollars? Exactly.
I personally don't deal with men who can't do more for me than I do for myself
aren't you all scrong an independent and don't need no man? then why take nis money.
@SamSneed001 idk about everyone else but that's not how I would describe myself. I take care of things because I have to and I'm single not because I want to be independent
@@TheJalesa1207-I call it being self-sufficient, just like every other adult. The fact the commenter thought he ate 🙄
I won't even deal with a man who can't outdo what I'm doing for self
@@77kc_77 -I wish people would grow to understand this, because there is no substitute for peace. My best friend says, “You’re responsible for your peace. The only way it’s disturbed is you extend the invitation.” My best friend is an older straight man. I keep this circulating in my brain. I really enjoy my own company, which it seems is rare these days.
Men who flash money or talk about how much they have are broke and lacking. Use that as a que to walk away.
I keep trying to tell people this!
The girl saying she appreciates 30 doesn’t get anything at all 😂
She sure doesn't... she doesn't get how that broad is clearing $8.4K on food A MONTH.
Facts 🤣🤣
Yep I can tell
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As Shera says “every little bit counts” lol! But that’s definitely not what’s considered “spoiling” someone. If it were me, I’d cash app him back his $30 telling him to keep his little gas money for his own needs. Classy ladies do not rob the less fortunate.
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Lol , right # reverse Robin Hood 😂🎉
I would have taken it and left. Cause men will send you $30 and expect your full attention. I have $30 don't send me something I can do for myself. This man was clearly out of his league
Home boy didn't do the research and got clowned. I don't see her in the wrong at all
😅 true...he said he was going to spoil her😮
i spend more than $30 on my lunch delivered from panera bread. 😂😂😂
He bothered her & talked big sht. HE & a lot of these people thought she shoulda been grateful b/c they're ok w/ being toyed with. The games they play start in the BEGINNING, clear example. She wants what he promised, to be SPOILED or get tf on! He shoulda eyed her pretty pictures & kept going.
Reminds me of the Oyster lady situation. The guy kept asking her out, and asking her out, until she agreed and he could not handle the bill she was running up so he ran away. Lol! Don’t make promises that aren’t in your budget.
@@PileofAshes53 It sure does & I definitely agree 🤣
@@PileofAshes53 Right , he probably should've worked overtime , to afford whatever Sis wanted to eat .😂
All the girls accepting 30 will be back crying like the wtf did I marry stories 😂
EXACTLY I already see what type of women they are
They work 9-5 jobs while many of us are self employed- I don't deal with men not self employed/ business owners
They deal broke and dusty below average men and these men should pursue women like that
@Axolotl44444a man who starts cheap will always be cheap. Dinner, your wedding, birth control, children, emotions etc. Don’t accept it if it’s not your style. He wil think he hit a bargain with a cheap girl.
@@beautifullEternalSCHOOL THEM ! 🎉
Why do we continue to entertain foolishness like this
Be grateful. Say thanks and block him 🤭💀 He sounds like one of those guy who will say "i take care of all your expenses" and then give you $100 🤭
When somebody shows you who they are, believe them. And he is showing he is broke, now believe it 💀 and move on
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he's broke when she is the one begging for money.
@@SamSneed001She didn't beg he offered to send her money
No. Don’t do that! Please do not take that man’s entire 7-Eleven pay check for that day. It’s like stealing money from the less fortunate. It’s wrong. Give him back his lil $30. He can buy himself over 15 hot dog-soda combos at a Costco with that coin!
@@SamSneed001incel, you need to go back to school because clearly you don't know the difference between begging and offering 💀
She ain't lying Lunch cost me 50$ fr tho.🤔
Where can you get a good chimi & a strong margarita for 30 with a tip..AND have change in the US??
Send that money back, he obviously needs that money more cause bro is struggling
I would have never responded to anyone asking to send me money especially a random stranger lol. It sounds like he was trying to buy a lil something and he thought she was a cheap thrill.
Thank you for this comment!
Exactly
He shouldn't have used the word spoil bc that sends the wrong message as money is half it's value nowadays.
Ok so a man except a woman to look cute and give up the cheeks on the first date but will only give you like ten or 20 dollars like wtf 🤦
Yes girl they think $20 & $30 is deserving of some cheeks
??? That's a completely different situation smh, this is $30 for only her for lunch and he doesn't even know her and hasn't even taken her on a date yet, he completely dodged a bullet
These men can't afford some of the women they chase they should stick to pick mes and stay broke
I can't get over the fact that she normally spends $100 on lunch 😱
That's normally what I spend $100
$100 is chump change
Right
We’re not college kids, we’re adults going to real restaurants babe
@tonijackson3421 Right self employed here- have yet to meet a man on my level
She is absolutely right, and admirable. This is her standard. We have every right to stand by our beliefs and we want out of a future partner. We may think anyway we want but that’s her life at the end of the day.
What always gets me is men regularly set standards regarding who they will date and not date. There are single men who say they won’t give single mothers a chance, they refuse to entertain a woman because of her weight, her body type, haircut, income level, and all other kinds of reasons and no one bats an eye.
But let a woman turn down a man because he doesn’t meet her standards… omg she’s a gold digger, she needs to be more grateful, that’s how women end up alone the horror ahhhhhhhhhh!!!!
Nah fuck that. I walked out of a date because the guy showed up at the restaurant in crocs. Am I ungrateful for not giving him a chance? Hell no. I know what I want and what I don’t. And honestly ladies fuck all who judge us for not settling. This woman is an absolute Queen and we can learn from her.
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I agree with everything you said . That's why , we have to continue to show men , we aren't doing that anymore. We can't tell them , but we can # show them 😅🎉
Completely agree
She entertained a stranger in her DMs claiming to want to "spoil" her... she's not looking for a partner.
She is bad, I wish I could be her friend 🤣😂 I have NOTHING negative to say about her, I hope she continues to get her coins
We definitely should be friends lol 😆 she's my type of friend
I live in the Florida Keys, and I work in IT. Monroe County is one of the most expensive counties in Florida. Even our sales tax is the highest in the state at 7.5%, and an oxtail plate at the local Jamaican food truck I frequent is $30. Yeah... no... he tried it. I would have kept it, then blocked him on every communication service I own. TF 😂
In NY this ain’t really shit
Why do we feel the need to react to such clownery? What happened to keeping calm and carrying on? 😑
Being quiet led us to where we are now, with males manipulating women in private, and then embarassing her at the end after saddling her with a baby, etc. These women are sharing their stories and opening other women's eyes. It is a collective. The good news is that it is optional viewing.
I agree💯
@peachesandpoets some of these 'stories' are just not worth talking about. This is a storm in a teacup. If a guy sends you little money, just keep it moving and deal with the men who are meeting your standards. It does not need to progress to babies and shaming.
@@tinachristine4573you’re right but she’s obviously one of those volatile quick to anger sorts 😅
I'm a firm believer in if you don't DO embarrassing/bad things then you won't LOOK embarrassed or bad.... yeah, there are unfair smear campaigns but I can confidently say that the provable truth... which is simple THE TRUTH will ALWAYS prevail even if you are temporarily knocked down at first. I'm just saying 🤷♀️
“FeMaLeS” 🙄
Why brag about spoiling some one if that's not what your going to do. Depending on the woman and how she lives 30$ is and Isn't a meal
@@kayshawnsimmons5585 I’m not bothered about her wanting $100 for lunch, but I do hate when women call other women “Females”.
It’s part of the weirdo manosphere vocabulary and I’m hate how it’s now utilised in everyday conversation. 😫
Right? Like, YOU can call yourself a female if you're good with that, but don't call other people that. A female can be a female roach, a female rat, etc...
A woman is a woman.
You can't say you going to spoil them with $30 be foreal.
It's literally just lunch you be foreal, expecting several hundred dollars a day from a guy is how he'll go bankrupt, y'all aren't rich celebrities come back down to earth
@Rosemary46840 it's just lunch but why was the guy flashing money to impress the lady knowing he couldn't afford her. He went on her page and saw that she lives an expensive lifestyle men should stop lying then.
Sounds like a Splenda daddy, tbh. I mean, an order of decent ramen costs $50 via Uber Eats, so $30...mehhhh. Especially if she posts a lot of luxury lifestyle stuff?
😂 not a splenda daddy.. omg
?? He's not trying to be a sugar daddy though he's trying to be her man. Expecting every man to be a sugar daddy is why y'all are single and lonely
How timely, I just got myself some lunch and everything came to about $65.00. I got a pretty large Indian platter with curry goat, chicken tikka, the naan bread, etc. This will last me for the rest of the weekend.
I think as women, we spoil ourselves when it comes to food. Men are open to getting a quick steak sandwich, chips, and a drink or chick fil A. He gave her $30.00 cause that's what he spends on himself for lunch. They're just different.
So you bought a large enough meal for you to make MULTIPLE meals, and you think you're saying something?
This is me. No problem dropping money on food but that isn’t same for everyone, no shade for that either
That bald brother spoke the truth the dusties won't admit 😂
He set himself up for failure because he wants to test her with $30.
Exactly
I think it's the thought that counts... as a kind, genuine gesture... but how genuine are *these* men really 🤔
30 is an even number loool it’s not an odd number… but yea any relative can send 30 bucks. If you want to woo someone, especially if you lead with money, you got to go the extra mile
Let’s be real: $30 does not even buy a McDonald’s value meal on Uber eats after the fees get added nowadays. To the person who said you can buy a 15 piece wing with that and get it delivered with a drink: no, that would be at least $42 pretty much anywhere unless you’re using a promo code.
At first I was like "wow just 30" then she said lunch and I was like "hmm.." but then she gave all the context and yeah nah. Too many dustys going above their league not knowing what a beautiful woman who can actually provide for herself goes through. How is $30 spoiling when you started off with money talk 😂 boy bye
I would have said thanks for the 30$ but I'm blocking your behind 🤦
I think… as a woman who likes to be spoiled, I’ve never accepted money for lunch. I much rather just take a large amount meant just for me. To do whatever I want with.
15:23 😅he lost me at the man is the leader.
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As a woman, I would be offended if a man used the word "afford" referring to me. I'm not selling anything.... and if I were, then that would be a red flag for him. 🤷♀️
That's what women say though-"he can't afford me"
$30 lots of woman don’t even have that for dinner tonight for the kids
😢 They shouldn't have kids
If women can't afford to have kids they shouldn't have any - I spend $30 on my kids a week eating out
To be fair, this guy does not have that for food for himself if that’s his definition of “spoiling” someone. That $30 could buy him 3 lunches or multiple Costco Hot dog/drink combos. Conclusion: he shouldn’t be trying to impress women with his 7-Eleven paycheck. Don’t mention “spoiling” if you don’t got it like that.
Irresponsible to bring kids into poverty
That's exactly why she said " I am not , one of the women , who takes less." 😌💅
She have her standards and I respect that. Me, I would have taken that $30 and got me a meal and still had some change leftover to buy a happy meal for my son. And I would have appreciated the gesture. Just saying 😂
Wire fraud girlies took me out 😂
That was me at 18. I would get money from guys I never met😅
Online pan-handlers.
@@SamSneed001 Aww it was easy money. Now I just play my video game and livestream.
7:43 why does it always have to be about illegal activities maybe the girl has standards and clearly is on her business / plus knows her worth and value - men should stop pursing women not on their level. I woukd have rejected the $30 because at that moment thats how much value he saw in her. A nice resturant date would have been acceptable- a few hundreds is spoiling a woman.
Your a failed TH-camr what could possibly bring to the table?
This is an interesting one. For the average girlie like me it would make my week - heck my year haha if someone wanted to treat me to a lunch like this. But if bro filtered out the regular ladies and honed in like a missile on someone whose account I assume shows her as high maintenance then tough if she dragged him for not correctly assessing her price point 🤷🏻♀️Also I don’t think she really at all spends 100 bucks on lunch I think ‘lunch’ is just a euphemism for ‘access tip’ to be allowed communication rights in the hopes of getting a date or other personal services but I guess that sounds too crude haha 😅
You really need to get out more😂
@@BlkOnyx0508 you need to understand sarcasm 😂
$30 😮 I normally spend $80 on myself and $100 on me and my kids - send that $30 back
@muadhnate RESTAURANT not BK , Mickey Dee's, etc cheap restaurants
He could have sent her $80 max
@@muadhnatePrivate owned like Sammy's Grill in Louisiana
@@muadhnateI don't do AppleBees, Chili's, TGIF honey
@muadhnate You sound dusty stay out the league - even dating men you gotta be making atleast 3k per month to deal with someone like me - my accounts are never dry !
Who has time to have starters, main and whatever else on their lunch break? She must be an entrepreneur. 😂 Okay reading the comments I had no idea some areas are super expensive and $30 would only pay for a starter. If he’s from her area he should have given her more, if not she just needs to communicate with him not social media.
She could be self employed a lot of us are
Not all of us work 9-5 why many of us leveled up and don't settle for less of !
@@77kc_77 that’s not the flex, you think it is because majority of y’all are broke, failing or scamming.
"Let me get you lunch" and "let me spoil you" are jot the same but broke bare minimum low effort men will try to tell you they are the same.
What I love about her is that she respects her own standard about the type of man she's willing to accept into her life. She made it very clear to this guy that he can't meet her at her level. He was clearly trying to impress her but then breadcrumb her by only giving her like 1% and she wasn't having it. Good for her 👏🏻👏🏻
Also he clearly said he wanted to spoil her. Spoiling means enjoying luxury things or activities, not eating at McDonald's
Thats random...I would feel a bit weirded out....why is he sending me money when we havent even gone out....I would expect an invitation to a real date not some lousy $30.00 sent for me to dine on my own lol i can make my own lunch or order it, if you want me you have to invite me on a real date nothing less
Right his approach was wrong and he's clearly cheap & broke
@@77kc_77 i find that men who are ready to send you money before even meeting are usually looking to sleep with you
It's literally a nice gesture that's it, he's shooting her shot and expecting to take her on a date after smh
I'm a regular girlie but u ain't about to flex on me with $30. Just send it and I'll say thanks but talking about spoiling is an eyeroll from me.
Idk man this is one of those things I cant get with. $30 for lunch would be dope 😂
My lunches were $15 when I worked in Manhattan in the Financial District. For lunch, $30 seems pretty nice. For dinner? That would be a different story. But I’d rather have him come and take me out personally for dinner than just send cash. That way I’d get to know him in person.
Get $30 from him......get 100 from another, take all the bags ladies... Let it add up ✔️
When you can't do 3 points do you blame the basket ?
I know he saw women he could afford but tried this one specifically because of her lifestyle and appearance
So I'm fully on her side 😂😂😂
I can barely afford fast food with 30$ so keep it sir and thanks for the effort 💀
TY & block. He did not meet ur standard. 🤷♀️ No need to explain or put him on blast. Silence is LOUD. JS
I would send right back because you are not going to say you're spoiling me and send me 30😢
$30 is alot. My lunch is $10 or less. She doing too much
No she not ! She has a right to keep her standards high men should pursue women on their level
@@77kc_77 if they are talking clearly she believes he on her level. But i agree
@@zero1188 I guess he found out - I don't entertain average or below average men
Can't even go to McDonalds on $10 where I live
Entertaining him periodT was too much 🤷🏽♀️.
if wants the women who would be "grateful" for that, then thats who he should pursue, not have her bring her standards down
At first, I thought that $30 for lunch aint bad. But if she’s at work & needs it delivered then $30 wouldn't necessarily cover it on Doordash or Ubereats. It really depends on the area they're in cause usually when I get food delivered to the office it's like $25 with the tip (that's on slow days like Mon-Tuesday, a Friday order would likely be over $30+). A bigger city like LA or Atlanta would definitely cost more. And they certainly couldn't have a nice dinner date with that amount 🤷🏽♀️. Idk I’d just move on unless he said let me get your feet/nails done & then ONLY SENT $30 cause wth am I going to do with that 😂😂!?
She was off, not at work.
i love herrr!!! you can tell she is well kept and i do believe he saw her profile and she....she's killing it...and then when you see he has racks on racks on racks then you understand he was throwing chump change at her.
For me personally, I typically bring my lunch to work every day to save money. No way am I spending $100 for one meal, especially lunch. So for me, $30 would be a treat.
He was leading with his money and she choose to separate herself from the crowd by not accepting 30$ since he flashing money. If he came off genuine it would’ve been different. But he big daddy warbucks. Spend it 🥷 . I wouldn’t want my daughters to deal with men like this but I do want them to recognize them. Good job boo. I spoil my daughters.
He said he wanted to “spoil” her. He should’ve never used that word..when I spoil myself for lunch, I go to a nice sit down restaurant and order food with drinks..which will be about $100..if he talking about lunch in the middle of a shift, I can kind of understand the $30 (more like $50 though) and he shouldn’t have said spoil. She was out of his league 🤷🏾♀️
You're not going to lie what do you expect you saw what she was like 😂
Now these men do claim they got “long money” and do be sending 5’s and 20’s… for “lunch” like no one has to give me anything and I appreciate it. But I do tell men and women (i love my studs) that I can do FAR MORE for myself so out do me when it comes to spoiling… especially you claiming money isn’t an issue or spoiling cause last time I checked $20 ain’t a shopping spree. Honestly if it’s not a celebrity or known wealthy guy or hell even a older established man many guys around our age don’t got it like that… tbh that money in the picture was probably his grandmas income tax, that he probably got $50 of it driving her to the bank to withdraw it. 😂😂
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Goodness, Sis , you went # scorched earth # didn't take any prisoners 😅
The context matters, he flashed money at her so she expected him to give her a good spoiling.
If you flash money at me, I am expecting the cash to flow like a waterfall. It doesn’t matter if I make my own money.
That’s why it’s important to present yourself truthfully.
She said it was her off day. He said he was gonna spoil her. Maybe she was going to have lunch at the spa/ resort i.e. michelin star chef restaurant
Shout out to dude @ 17:15 lol he know wassup 🎉
$100 a day on lunch yeah ok. 😏 But he lead with money so I can see why why she came off that way 🤷🏽♀️yall aren’t compatible
30$ is fine but if you say you are going to spoil someone, do that. Don't lie, spoil if you are gonna spoil or don't spoil and be honest about it.
$30 is good for fast food but I’m not into fast food for lunch especially on my day off. And the fact that he said he wanted to spoil here does matter in this situation and he should have upped the ante and went over board because that’s what spoiling is 🤷🏾♀️
THIS is what "simping" is... Leading with money with hopes to receive some type of affection from the person your attracted to is SIMPING. She wasn't wrong. Black women are allowed to have standards. He couldn't afford her.
Y'all needa learn the difference between standards and entitlement smdh
@@Rosemary46840umm I think you need to learn when to walk away... Black women can have standards too... If she's too much, walk away. You're not entitled to every woman YOU find attractive.
A hundred dollars for lunch is ridiculous.
One guy who claimed to be interested in me invited me to his barbecue event and my friend and I had to pay for the food 😂😂. She should enjoy that 30
Why yall ain't leave 😳🤦🏾♀️
@@kayshawnsimmons5585 lmao I am too kind for my own good. Tried to be supportive 😂
You the fool
Wtf 😳
Tacky
What is she eating for lunch? That she needs 100?
I don't think she was wrong for expecting more from a man that made the offer to give her more.
Girl what is she eating for LUNCH that cost $100 by herself 💀 i can understand thinking its a joke if he said “let me pay for your nails” and only gave her $30, but a meal? Sis i would happily take a free $30 to get me that large plate of oxtails with extra sides lmao
And the chic saying that is not the type he wants either lol
This one is pretty cool. The dating market is like the job market. People lying about their cv and organization lying about their work offering aren't rare. Nowadays profils aren't totally authentic so it's important to filter problems by being genuine and specific. The wrong was more on the guy that tried to date out of his league. It make me think of proverbs 12:9:
"Better to be lowly and have a servant than to play the great man and lack bread."
Thanks again Priscilla for your content. It really challenges my thinking and help me watch the big picture
Who eats more than 30 dollars for lunch though?
People who can afford it
A LOT of mf, especially if you eat healthy and you’re going OUT to eat. A chick fil la mela is what $16, that unhealthy shit. If you go to a cheap salad spot like Sweetgreens, that could easily run you $23 without a beverage🤷🏿♂️
I’m shook and experiencing culture shock from the comforts of my own space. This whole situation is BRAZY!