He gaslit her. He’s the type of man to have the wife work herself to death while he saves his money to spend on a side chick who gets everything for nothing.
He's arguing for no reason. She was giving him a compliment and he undermined the whole compliment. He couldn't just take the compliment, he had to expose his foolishness.😂
That because it was not a compliment for him. Calling him a provider is an insult. "Provider" is the same as "bi**h" for some men. Or simp. Lol. He nearly clutched his pearls after she said what she said 😂😂😂
@peapod6747 Cmon now! You said nothing but the TRUTH!!!! Its sooo crazy and weird nowadays, esp on social media! Its like demons/manosphere keeping watching every video/post, just to comment and call a man a "simp" or weak whenever they give a simple compliment! I see it all the time! There are men who quickly bash other men for being nice or saying they want to be a provider! It reminds me of how kids would tease other kids for being smart or going to school! Its ridiculous! Smdh 🤦♀️
Yep he's arguing because that's what the Redpill has done to these fools. Argumentative for no reason. It's weird. The minute they start talking crazy RP BS LEAVE!!!
@@peapod6747REALLY!? Every man Ive dealt with considers providing a masculine trait and felt embarrassed when I tried to split bills for dates or pay too much for really anything. Were the guys you talked to raised by single moms? Nothing against single moms but their sons do end up a little on the fem side.
Who is y'all? Who is they? Stop generalizing. If all the black men you've entertained wasnt ish. Then, you need to look at yourself as the common denominator. Take accountability for your bad choices in men.
This is how my father is (I’m a guy btw) and my mother would be his enabler and taking his bullshit. But not me, I cut him off and my mother would try to convince me to talk to him. Woman he is blocked on everything and refuse to talk to him. I don’t tolerate bullshit but she does.
I went to stay with my mom because we had a long weekend (Thursday and Friday was election preparation here). I stay with my dad where I work (can't wait to be done with this). My mom kept telling me to call him, I kept forgetting. I called this man and about a minute later he hung up on my call😮. So why am I keeping up with appearances, for who? The same person who gave me ulcer? Who? My mom needs to let go of this "Christian" lifestyle of keeping toxic people in your life. He's still in my life, if I do too much I end up with hate and anger because that's how most interceptions are with him. I just had 3 days off, I'm already back in his area, why did I need to soil my peace with that acid(according to my late brother, happy escape bro😢). She's enjoying her peace right now but her upbringing is still part of her (a 60+ Nigerian woman that has never gone abroad, her older sister is in Texas and completely different). She's waking up though, I can't wait for them to be woke 😅
1:30 The sassyness here tells me all I need to know. He's not a good partner. Combative, talking back, sassyness... it could have been just a moment on camera, maybe not an accurate representation of their love, blah blah blah... He's not a good partner!
The guy who's friend wanted his girl to struggle because he admired his mother thru the struggle is probably one of those guys who admired their grandparents marriage even though grandpa cheated all thru the marriage and got 3 outside kids. But he admired grandma for staying 🙄. He wants the same things. The ability to be a deadbeat dad and a cheater and a woman to allow him to do it all.
That would’ve been the moment that he would’ve became single. 🙂↔️Like who is this man? I’m tired of women who are better and more successful than their partners giving these men opportunities to elevate themselves publicly while they disrespect the women. She’s a BRAXTON. Who is he?🤨🙄
He wants it to be clear to everyone that he is not taking care of her. Smdh... all he had to do is say thank you honey, and I love taking care of you. He wanted to humble her and embarrass her.
Definitely a selfish man, not a generous man. Him telling her she HAS to work is such a red flag. He doesn't love her unconditionally and she won't be ok if she gets sick.😥
That's nothing this is an older pick me that graduated to a boy mom. They think women don't want to give men a day off they think we're bothered by them enjoying themselves but there's a world of difference between taking a few days off and doing it every single day like it's a career if a woman did this you would never geqr😢 the end of it
I don't get it there's another video I saw of a younger pick me gossiping about women because she thinks women go to these channels to bash men for enjoying themselves they think women see men as utility sources but there not some of them won't even pay there own light bill . I could understand a hard working man taking a vacation with his family but we're not talking about them because there a small majority of men that are slowly disappearing and there unavailable. We're talking about men that do nothing every single day and they want the be rewarded for it sometimes even women too that sit there every day in a relationship and do nothing to contribute and they interpret this as abuse no I call that being adult if you want to do nothing every day then stay single I don't like to serve men either and that's why I live alone I don't have the energy to clean up after people because most of them are selfish and they want to be praised for things that a woman would immediately get punished for if they just sat around all day then shes a freeloader but if a man does it he's just being a man and we should let him enjoy himself 24/7?
@@unicorn73212 So true balance and that's what these older women don't understand its not man bashing but exposing the inequality that exist in this partriarchal system
Alot of these men are mad at woman because we are women. Naturally soft and nuturing, naturally worthy of being taken care of and loved... and they hate it 😢 🤦🏽♀️
I’m glad more women are realizing this. They (men) claim they want to protect and provide but they hate doing it and don’t think we deserve it, which is why most men are so abusive in their treatment of women when doing it. This is also why they’ve flipped the script and want to be the princess in the relationship where THEY are being pampered and taken care of… not the woman.
They say black women lack feminine energy, then they turn around and say they should work (masculine), princess treatment be damned.....side chick alert👀 *bobmastic side eye*
He married her for her last name and clout he’s a mean person that probably just wants to gossip in the barbershop and let everyone knows he married a Braxton
Yup, ol’ musty bastard! I can smell his f*ck boy cologne through my screen. I knew men like him growing up and seeing how they mistreated the women in my life. Ughhhh
Side bar: Men wanting soft life (and those harping on about submission) amuse me. They forget that the Bible (that most refer to because of submission) states (from the very 1st book) that they have to toil/work hard to produce food 😂😂.
15:43 dude’s “mama” only stressed and struggled because his daddy was a deadbeat. So I’ll ask, what cycle are men really trying to perpetuate here? The cycle of “creating strong women through adversity” or the cycle of “deadbeat daddies having their fun and then bouncing”? Sounds a lot like the latter to me. You can’t win, ladies so do what YOU want. It’s YOUR life and you deserve to LIVE ❤️
"Happy" needs to be in quotation marks, because I guarantee that they aren't really all that happy. And most of the unhappiness will be on her part because she puts up with his noise.
@@reallynow7718 This, especially when the majority of provider men resent their wives just as much if not more than Towonda’s man. Some hide it but most don’t which is why I left a provider man after 30 years. My life is much softer and peaceful now.
I know a man with bad character at this point pretty fast. The way he talks, I already know he is full of poop. His bald head, his beard, his little studded earring and his tone is just 🤮🤮🤮 Major ego and demanding. Absolutely NOT! She’s so beautiful and deserves better.
Why does the male immediately go to “sitting around all day getting her nails done and getting massages?” I’ve never met even one woman in my entire 49 years of life that doesn’t work hard inside and/or outside the house. Are these males believing that women all live like a Princess?
3:30 Other men wouldn't even call him a simp, they'd still admire him for being able to keep a woman home with his financial success (but she chooses to work). He just choose to be an a hole! So unnecessary to publicly "humble" her. Says a lot about his character. But yeah you're right, he just wants her to know that she shouldn't get any ideas and that she should stay in her place. Unlesssss we are reading it wrong, and he meant to chime in on her comment about "having to get up for work, but i don't *have* to" as in, well you don't have to, but you wouldn't ever be able to do nothing, because you're a workaholic (and/or in masculine energy)"?
Listen at first I thought she was just on someone’s live then it hit oh no this her man and he truly do not like her it’s given hate her but tolerate her 🤷🏿♀️
I am glad we are able to see this, let them show their true colours. This is why i do not even need to go on a date anymore. Social media makes it so easy...to vet a man, there is nothing to talk about on a date if i already know how he thinks, who he follows, the music he likes, where he shops, what he is in to.... I really hope they are not married yet. If she ever needed confirmation that he is in love with her, this was very clear. He is not in love with her, nor does he like her from the looks of it.
When would a man NOT take the opportunity to gloat about his finances, so that he can gather other women who would be willing to answer to his every call. Priscilla is right, the fact that he chose to denounce her (bowing down to his kingliness) is a sign, he don't like her very much. They chose not to care for their selves and got exactly what they deserve males that hate them.
Beyond their music, I never really followed them or their personal lives. With that said, where is her pride? I will not keep lowering myself for a guy that's perpetually reluctant. That's what their interaction and the backstory he gave in that other video said to me. I don't really want you, but also don't want you to get away in case I change my mind or nothing better comes along, so let me throw you these crumbs. Crumbs as in the pseudo commitment and the pretend princess treatment. Make sure you don't lose sight of what it really is, though. Here, let me help by knocking you off that pedestal you just tried to get on....I'm exhausted just reflecting and typing this out. I cannot imagine the eggshells she is making herself walk on to keep this guy appeased. F-all of that and then some. It's not for me. And I would say that to whoever he is with. If he can treat his "down girl" or ride or die like this, what the ever loving f**k could you expect from him?
This is what happens when glorifying relationships on social media goes wrong. A private life is healthier. Nobody knew what she was doing with the first husband until she put it out there
To me it sounded like he was saying that she is the kind of woman that likes to work. However, he was also reminding her that she’s never going to be that girl that gets the “soft life”. He wants to make sure she continues to have that spirit of enjoying work. She quickly changed her demeanor and reassured him that she will never want to be a “kept wife”. He gaslit and Jedi mind tricked her 😂
OMFG, not even two minutes in this can’t be her husband, he sounds like he hates her, he actually sounds like he’s talking to a stranger!! Ladies, if a man talks to you this way, run immediately. I have so much self-respect I don’t even let men raise their voices around me, we need to bring back self-respect, and leaving when a man hates you!! OMG what is going on in the world, I can’t even believe this
That’s what she gets for attempting to flex on single women (BW in particular). He looked repulsed by the idea of her being a kept wife. No sympathy for pickmeishas. 😕
Yes Towanda is Braxton but she has never had her own career doing anything, has a criminal past and has been exploiting her late sister’s death on the most recent season of The Braxton’s.
Who is she? Someone famous, apparently. Our sympathy for them both is zero. (edit: their body language was off...) And at e same time, waking up early to do a job u like is a real thing. I would have done my job for free if I didn't need to work. Not anymore. Not that job, anyway. Someone can be driven to do things, even when they don't need to. Conflating "have to" n "driven to" is an easy mistake to make.
Wooooow!! I am speechless. He shut her down like he was telling a servant to pipe down cause Massa is speaking. And she kept fawning trying to placate him, to ingratiate herself to him, to illicit even a nod of appreciation, a pat on the head and an "atta girl" -- and he knew it!!!! He knew it!! And that POS wouldn't let her have even that!! This is why no woman flashing a damned ring or talking about how long she been married can ever impress me. What they do to keep a man is just clown world BS. They'd get more appreciation from a cat.
Miss lady. I love your videos. I'm sitting here calm as a cucumber heart rate at 56bpm by 13 mins in i'm at 105bpm this video triggered me and stressed me tf out. I can't wait to talk to my therapist about this one. She's going to love this revelation.
It's the same dynamic she had with her first husband. (Andre?) He did most of the childcare while Towanda worked, and she always praised him as a father, never wanted anyone to treat him like a "babysitter." After the divorce, him being a father was a distant memory. 😒 In other words, he was always just the babysitter-- just like everyone suggested before. Pay attention Towanda.
Why are you apologizing? You said that you would take a break on the weekends to be with your kids. We will start complaining now when we see 👀 you on the weekends 😂. Enjoy your kids while they are young, they won't be young forever 😊.
Honestly, even if she was making her relationship seem better than it was, why did he need to let everyone know that she gon be working regardless. That was weird
He said HER insides wouldn't allow her not to work. He didn't say she had to work because he required her to. That was a nod to the fact that she's innately a go getter. If my man was a provider of ALL of my needs, I would still work in some way or another, whether it be entrepreneurship, non profit work, or something. I would not sit at home all day and do NOTHING. I would always be doing something with the life that God gave me. I wouldn't bury my talents in the dirt just because my man has money. 🤷♀
Chile my husband watched his dad pamper his mom, so he takes pride in giving me the things I want in life. I could NEVER be with a man who hates the mere thought of his woman having an easy life. This was SUPER CRINGE! She needs to run
He's been watching Red pill content and waited for THIS moment to embarrass her. Their relationship behind the scenes is chaotic, she's pretending to the public shes ok but she's desperate to keep this fake relationship going smh
Wow wtf!! This looks so envious and evil. Why can't people just be happy for other people. Are you mad because you have to work? Thats her luck maybe he will have his luck in another way. He is very envious and jealous.
Yeah see nah. Time a man tells me what ima do, i stop listening completely. Like there’s a way you gotta talk to me because I’ll ignore the sh!t out of you and don’t tell me what I will and won’t do. Because who are you talking to. Watch your tone and be careful with me 😊
If it weren’t for the comments, I wouldn’t know that was her husband. He’s so oppressive. He reminds me of an ex, who said “ we don’t argue…” . I had to correct him, If there’s a disagreement, we may need to argue, we don’t aim to but there might be a time.
He gaslit her. He’s the type of man to have the wife work herself to death while he saves his money to spend on a side chick who gets everything for nothing.
Exactly
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Nah this the type of man that complains about never getting appreciated then you realize no compliment is ever good enough
That makes no sense
He's arguing for no reason. She was giving him a compliment and he undermined the whole compliment. He couldn't just take the compliment, he had to expose his foolishness.😂
He is arguing with his homeboys!! Because that’s what’s important to him. He does not want them to see him in a certain light 😂
That because it was not a compliment for him. Calling him a provider is an insult. "Provider" is the same as "bi**h" for some men. Or simp. Lol. He nearly clutched his pearls after she said what she said 😂😂😂
@peapod6747 Cmon now! You said nothing but the TRUTH!!!! Its sooo crazy and weird nowadays, esp on social media! Its like demons/manosphere keeping watching every video/post, just to comment and call a man a "simp" or weak whenever they give a simple compliment! I see it all the time! There are men who quickly bash other men for being nice or saying they want to be a provider! It reminds me of how kids would tease other kids for being smart or going to school! Its ridiculous! Smdh 🤦♀️
Yep he's arguing because that's what the Redpill has done to these fools. Argumentative for no reason. It's weird. The minute they start talking crazy RP BS LEAVE!!!
@@peapod6747REALLY!? Every man Ive dealt with considers providing a masculine trait and felt embarrassed when I tried to split bills for dates or pay too much for really anything. Were the guys you talked to raised by single moms? Nothing against single moms but their sons do end up a little on the fem side.
Girl he corrected her quick he said you ain’t no precious princess bih you a work horse get to it!
This is accurate 💯🤦🏾♀️
Damn 😩
Basically 🤷🏽♀️
This woman is giving him a compliment and appreciation and THIS is his response?! Alright then 🤷🏾♀️
All right then? No don't let that slide on through. Cuss him out in the comment section
Men are always disagreeable its disconnect in communication
l agree.
@@latoshastanfield5523Welp, that's her choice 😅
But yeah, let's cuss him out fr
He needs to be cussed all the way out smh
The way they will find a way to always try to publicly embarrass y’all AND YALL STILL LOYAL TO THIS!! SMFH 🤦🏿♀️
Yesss, the embarrassment was too real !
It's Insane to put up with this BS
Who is y'all? Who is they? Stop generalizing. If all the black men you've entertained wasnt ish. Then, you need to look at yourself as the common denominator. Take accountability for your bad choices in men.
I’ll never understand this level of insanity especially when you hit a certain age. STAND UP FOR YOURSELF! Ughhhhhhh
Y’all who? I’m celibate 😂😊
This is how my father is (I’m a guy btw) and my mother would be his enabler and taking his bullshit. But not me, I cut him off and my mother would try to convince me to talk to him. Woman he is blocked on everything and refuse to talk to him. I don’t tolerate bullshit but she does.
I went to stay with my mom because we had a long weekend (Thursday and Friday was election preparation here). I stay with my dad where I work (can't wait to be done with this). My mom kept telling me to call him, I kept forgetting. I called this man and about a minute later he hung up on my call😮. So why am I keeping up with appearances, for who? The same person who gave me ulcer? Who? My mom needs to let go of this "Christian" lifestyle of keeping toxic people in your life. He's still in my life, if I do too much I end up with hate and anger because that's how most interceptions are with him. I just had 3 days off, I'm already back in his area, why did I need to soil my peace with that acid(according to my late brother, happy escape bro😢). She's enjoying her peace right now but her upbringing is still part of her (a 60+ Nigerian woman that has never gone abroad, her older sister is in Texas and completely different). She's waking up though, I can't wait for them to be woke 😅
@@tamiausten873 girl they still haven’t changed. I’m 25 now and it’s the same cycle of bullshit with my parents
1:30 The sassyness here tells me all I need to know. He's not a good partner.
Combative, talking back, sassyness... it could have been just a moment on camera, maybe not an accurate representation of their love, blah blah blah... He's not a good partner!
Exactly! Smdh 😭
Why did he get so angry when she described how relaxed she was? This+ that man who wants his kids to suffer show how evil “a certain type of man” is
I saw that clip about the guy wanting his kids to suffer and Im glad that woman checked him on that bs.
These MFs are unreal. Bro was having a conniption at the mere imagination that she doesn't HAVE TO WORK
If SETTLING for a man was a person. The father of her children was a bum too 🤦🏾♀️ This guy is just a step up smh
One step up only because he got a job lol. All the Braxtons (except maybe Michael, don't know much about him) have relationship problems.
See ladies??!! Even appreciation doesn't work 😂😂😂
Exactly 😂😂How many embarrassments have to happen? People need to stop trying to post these so called "perfect" relationships online🤦🏽♀️
The guy who's friend wanted his girl to struggle because he admired his mother thru the struggle is probably one of those guys who admired their grandparents marriage even though grandpa cheated all thru the marriage and got 3 outside kids. But he admired grandma for staying 🙄. He wants the same things. The ability to be a deadbeat dad and a cheater and a woman to allow him to do it all.
That would’ve been the moment that he would’ve became single. 🙂↔️Like who is this man?
I’m tired of women who are better and more successful than their partners giving these men opportunities to elevate themselves publicly while they disrespect the women. She’s a BRAXTON. Who is he?🤨🙄
Towanda has never had a real job, she has a criminal past too. She’s a damn snake.
He absolutely does not like her. 😂
This
He wants it to be clear to everyone that he is not taking care of her. Smdh... all he had to do is say thank you honey, and I love taking care of you. He wanted to humble her and embarrass her.
Yea, he don't like her at all.
GIRL! That was painful and cringe AF all at the same damn time😳🤦🏾♀️
@@kayshawnsimmons5585yes her fumbling trying to explain what she meant because she you see/sense he was taking it negatively 🤦🏾♀️
This is horrifically embarrassing. GOD FORBID!!!!!!!
Definitely a selfish man, not a generous man. Him telling her she HAS to work is such a red flag. He doesn't love her unconditionally and she won't be ok if she gets sick.😥
Most black women in relationships like this it has to be a struggle bus with chaos and confusion.
ALSOOO can he not also get massages?? Go shopping?? Get a pedicure without the polish?? Self care isn't restricted to women only XD
@helena3631 so true and so f******g annoying
Lmfaoooo he said NAW YOU GONE WORK 😂 I would’ve been WORKING on a break up
Why 👏🏾 are 👏🏾 people 👏🏾 bringing up👏🏾 their 👏🏾 relationship 👏🏾 online 👏🏾 ?!?! Grown folk! Like, why?!
For us to talk about duh 🤣🤣🤣
@@Traytriunetheomnist😅
That's nothing this is an older pick me that graduated to a boy mom. They think women don't want to give men a day off they think we're bothered by them enjoying themselves but there's a world of difference between taking a few days off and doing it every single day like it's a career if a woman did this you would never geqr😢 the end of it
I don't get it there's another video I saw of a younger pick me gossiping about women because she thinks women go to these channels to bash men for enjoying themselves they think women see men as utility sources but there not some of them won't even pay there own light bill
. I could understand a hard working man taking a vacation with his family but we're not talking about them because there a small majority of men that are slowly disappearing and there unavailable. We're talking about men that do nothing every single day and they want the be rewarded for it sometimes even women too that sit there every day in a relationship and do nothing to contribute and they interpret this as abuse no I call that being adult if you want to do nothing every day then stay single I don't like to serve men either and that's why I live alone I don't have the energy to clean up after people because most of them are selfish and they want to be praised for things that a woman would immediately get punished for if they just sat around all day then shes a freeloader but if a man does it he's just being a man and we should let him enjoy himself 24/7?
@@unicorn73212 So true balance and that's what these older women don't understand its not man bashing but exposing the inequality that exist in this partriarchal system
Alot of these men are mad at woman because we are women. Naturally soft and nuturing, naturally worthy of being taken care of and loved... and they hate it 😢 🤦🏽♀️
They really do
I’m glad more women are realizing this. They (men) claim they want to protect and provide but they hate doing it and don’t think we deserve it, which is why most men are so abusive in their treatment of women when doing it. This is also why they’ve flipped the script and want to be the princess in the relationship where THEY are being pampered and taken care of… not the woman.
She was literally complimenting him and he just crashed and burned the plane 🤦🏾♀️
Yup she literally hyped him up and he dragged her down for it
They say black women lack feminine energy, then they turn around and say they should work (masculine), princess treatment be damned.....side chick alert👀 *bobmastic side eye*
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Dear God, why embarass your partner like that. He could have just let her compliment him even if it's not true
He’s well kept bad bish. 💀🤣💅🏽 He seems EXHAUSTING. 7:25 8:20 HE HATES YOU SIS.
This comment right here💯🧐🍿☕
Bahaha lawd this shouldn't be this funny
Bahaha lawd this shouldn't be this funny
IJS!!!! EXHAUSTING!!!!! SMDH 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Take your breaks, dear Priscilla 😊❤
Thanks hun 😊
Girl.... it sounds like she HAS to work 😂😂😂
He talked over her so hard.. goodness!! Does she get to say a word behind closed doors? lol
Nope 🤦🏾♀️😒😑
No it says men talk more than women in the pewstats it's another one from a school I just forgot wat university
He married her for her last name and clout he’s a mean person that probably just wants to gossip in the barbershop and let everyone knows he married a Braxton
Yup, ol’ musty bastard! I can smell his f*ck boy cologne through my screen. I knew men like him growing up and seeing how they mistreated the women in my life. Ughhhh
Side bar: Men wanting soft life (and those harping on about submission) amuse me. They forget that the Bible (that most refer to because of submission) states (from the very 1st book) that they have to toil/work hard to produce food 😂😂.
Lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Or they don’t eat. But they didn’t lie when said want to hide something put it in a book!
15:43 dude’s “mama” only stressed and struggled because his daddy was a deadbeat. So I’ll ask, what cycle are men really trying to perpetuate here? The cycle of “creating strong women through adversity” or the cycle of “deadbeat daddies having their fun and then bouncing”? Sounds a lot like the latter to me.
You can’t win, ladies so do what YOU want. It’s YOUR life and you deserve to LIVE ❤️
I think they kinda want both...or are so self absorbed and/or obtuse they're not even thinking it through that far
Bro.....being SINGLE is an option!!!!! And a better one. Yall really allow these males you tear yall down. Chilleee.
This they desperate for a man
Ewww did you "Bro" someone on a page owned by a woman.
Right lol she hype him up just for him to tear her down
Wow! It went right over his head! Damn, But WHY IS EVERYONE PUTTING THEIR BUSINESS ONLINE?!🤔
I have a feeling this happens often too🤦🏾♀️😒😑
If you put about 80 percent of happy marriages on a podcast, you will realize the amount of red flags in those marriages.
Marriage is NOT a flex
"Happy" needs to be in quotation marks, because I guarantee that they aren't really all that happy. And most of the unhappiness will be on her part because she puts up with his noise.
I feel like happiness in relationships, and marriage is synonymous with how much BS one can take.
@@kayshawnsimmons5585 Neither is being single.
@@FaridaDawkinsYYFalse. If you've never seen a happy, healthy marriage. Then ....
She wanted to be picked so bad, so she got what she wanted.
We all want to find the love that we deserve and desire. Why put someone down for trying to live her best life.
@@sharmarie777It's called jealousy.
Having a provider husband is a pickme? Well, I guess I've been a pickme for 36 years. Ya me.
Why do you feel so attacked? If the shoes fit I guess 😂. All over the comments yapping and giving dumb takes @@VerleanHurd
@@reallynow7718 This, especially when the majority of provider men resent their wives just as much if not more than Towonda’s man. Some hide it but most don’t which is why I left a provider man after 30 years. My life is much softer and peaceful now.
Not him implying women who are provided for are less than. He wishes he'd be that person and he's very jealous.
Meanwhile others take pride in their spouse not having to work, and enjoying leisure.
She was complimenting him, and he tried to turn it into an argument. She's this guy's doormat.
I know a man with bad character at this point pretty fast. The way he talks, I already know he is full of poop. His bald head, his beard, his little studded earring and his tone is just 🤮🤮🤮 Major ego and demanding. Absolutely NOT! She’s so beautiful and deserves better.
And then he tried to undermine her character.. it was absolutely disgusting
Why does the male immediately go to “sitting around all day getting her nails done and getting massages?” I’ve never met even one woman in my entire 49 years of life that doesn’t work hard inside and/or outside the house. Are these males believing that women all live like a Princess?
They think this is what all women want to do if they don't have to work.
D to the L. He is DL. He's a princess.
Why is he arguing with her after she said that. Weird!
3:30 Other men wouldn't even call him a simp, they'd still admire him for being able to keep a woman home with his financial success (but she chooses to work). He just choose to be an a hole! So unnecessary to publicly "humble" her. Says a lot about his character. But yeah you're right, he just wants her to know that she shouldn't get any ideas and that she should stay in her place. Unlesssss we are reading it wrong, and he meant to chime in on her comment about "having to get up for work, but i don't *have* to" as in, well you don't have to, but you wouldn't ever be able to do nothing, because you're a workaholic (and/or in masculine energy)"?
Some men resent when their wife stay home. Men value hard work, anything less is viewed as lazyness to them
Unless it’s them being lazy in the relationship, that’s perfectly fine.
She just wanted to give him praise but he got a whole additided about it 🤦.
Baby he SAT HER DOWN QUICK!!! Im so embarrased for her🥴
Wait a second... this is her partner?! 😳
Hmmmhmmm
@@Priscilla_Boye I had to watch the beginning like 3x to really grasp the unpleasantery.
I wonder if this was after a fight because... jeeez
IKR?!? I was like 👀 TF?!
@@MsFadir me too I had to rewatch a few times.
Listen at first I thought she was just on someone’s live then it hit oh no this her man and he truly do not like her it’s given hate her but tolerate her 🤷🏿♀️
Trying to understand -Why are they online? What’s the context? A podcast? And also, I don’t like his vibes 😒
good question🤔🤷🏾♀️
This is sooooo embarrassing for her. She was trying to flex her marriage and wound up exposing it as a struggle marriage.
Yup. Her flex on single bw backfired. 😂
I would rather having to work than having to deal with him, tf is wrong with him?
I rather not work n not deal with them honestly
I am glad we are able to see this, let them show their true colours. This is why i do not even need to go on a date anymore. Social media makes it so easy...to vet a man, there is nothing to talk about on a date if i already know how he thinks, who he follows, the music he likes, where he shops, what he is in to.... I really hope they are not married yet. If she ever needed confirmation that he is in love with her, this was very clear. He is not in love with her, nor does he like her from the looks of it.
When would a man NOT take the opportunity to gloat about his finances, so that he can gather other women who would be willing to answer to his every call. Priscilla is right, the fact that he chose to denounce her (bowing down to his kingliness) is a sign, he don't like her very much. They chose not to care for their selves and got exactly what they deserve males that hate them.
Beyond their music, I never really followed them or their personal lives. With that said, where is her pride? I will not keep lowering myself for a guy that's perpetually reluctant. That's what their interaction and the backstory he gave in that other video said to me. I don't really want you, but also don't want you to get away in case I change my mind or nothing better comes along, so let me throw you these crumbs. Crumbs as in the pseudo commitment and the pretend princess treatment. Make sure you don't lose sight of what it really is, though. Here, let me help by knocking you off that pedestal you just tried to get on....I'm exhausted just reflecting and typing this out. I cannot imagine the eggshells she is making herself walk on to keep this guy appeased. F-all of that and then some. It's not for me. And I would say that to whoever he is with. If he can treat his "down girl" or ride or die like this, what the ever loving f**k could you expect from him?
WOWWWWWWWW‼️
He wouldn't hear not nan'Nother kind word from me for the rest of his life....He clearly DGAF about her...
Do men think stay at home wives/mothers just spend the day going to spas, shopping and eating at 5star restaurants? SMH
Right! That's a hard job to do, it's 24-7 no days off. These men are nuts
That's exactly what they think.
Not Pickmesha trying to make us believe she landed a provider. lol
I could see he is abusive after the first two videos.....
This
I will sit next to do nothing..😂😂I won’t work
Smh I’m good being single
Could never be me! I would've denounced him right on set! And walked off.
Unfortunately, she praised him too soon she financially did everything for the first husband, some stuff you should keep to yourself
This is what happens when glorifying relationships on social media goes wrong. A private life is healthier. Nobody knew what she was doing with the first husband until she put it out there
To me it sounded like he was saying that she is the kind of woman that likes to work. However, he was also reminding her that she’s never going to be that girl that gets the “soft life”. He wants to make sure she continues to have that spirit of enjoying work. She quickly changed her demeanor and reassured him that she will never want to be a “kept wife”. He gaslit and Jedi mind tricked her 😂
OMFG, not even two minutes in this can’t be her husband, he sounds like he hates her, he actually sounds like he’s talking to a stranger!! Ladies, if a man talks to you this way, run immediately. I have so much self-respect I don’t even let men raise their voices around me, we need to bring back self-respect, and leaving when a man hates you!! OMG what is going on in the world, I can’t even believe this
That’s what she gets for attempting to flex on single women (BW in particular). He looked repulsed by the idea of her being a kept wife. No sympathy for pickmeishas. 😕
Yes Towanda is Braxton but she has never had her own career doing anything, has a criminal past and has been exploiting her late sister’s death on the most recent season of The Braxton’s.
Hmmm ok
Tawanda had a personal assistant business
@@kayshawnsimmons5585 she was Toni’s assistant for a few years.
@@stilljocelyn_ And Tamar
She also went on tour with her sisters
Child. 😂😂😂😂 men know how to make a fool out of you.
Who is she? Someone famous, apparently. Our sympathy for them both is zero. (edit: their body language was off...)
And at e same time, waking up early to do a job u like is a real thing. I would have done my job for free if I didn't need to work. Not anymore. Not that job, anyway.
Someone can be driven to do things, even when they don't need to. Conflating "have to" n "driven to" is an easy mistake to make.
This guy is a joke.
Wooooow!! I am speechless. He shut her down like he was telling a servant to pipe down cause Massa is speaking. And she kept fawning trying to placate him, to ingratiate herself to him, to illicit even a nod of appreciation, a pat on the head and an "atta girl" -- and he knew it!!!! He knew it!! And that POS wouldn't let her have even that!! This is why no woman flashing a damned ring or talking about how long she been married can ever impress me. What they do to keep a man is just clown world BS. They'd get more appreciation from a cat.
This type of relationship is exhausting when a man takes a compliment as an insult and becomes argumentative, been there done that.
Miss lady. I love your videos. I'm sitting here calm as a cucumber heart rate at 56bpm by 13 mins in i'm at 105bpm this video triggered me and stressed me tf out. I can't wait to talk to my therapist about this one. She's going to love this revelation.
😅 I hope your heart rate is back to normal now ❤
This
I clicked and I literally said to myself: I hope this one does not annoy me.
Luckily I wasn't annoyed, I've seen worse for sure. lol
It's the same dynamic she had with her first husband. (Andre?) He did most of the childcare while Towanda worked, and she always praised him as a father, never wanted anyone to treat him like a "babysitter." After the divorce, him being a father was a distant memory. 😒 In other words, he was always just the babysitter-- just like everyone suggested before. Pay attention Towanda.
Saw this on LipStick Alley a few days ago. Was hoping to see it discussed on here. That was so much drama and embarrassment for no reason!
Why are you apologizing? You said that you would take a break on the weekends to be with your kids. We will start complaining now when we see 👀 you on the weekends 😂. Enjoy your kids while they are young, they won't be young forever 😊.
When I saw this, I just knew that was her ex husband, not her current fiancé, honeeeeey talk about a walking red flag.
Wait!!!! Thats her husband?, I don't watch them so this is a real question? I thought she was live with a fan OMG!
Why do they just embarrass their wives unprovoked like this?! IS THIS WHAT I'M SUPPOSED TO WANT?!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
2:55 This is exactly it! Lol
Honestly, even if she was making her relationship seem better than it was, why did he need to let everyone know that she gon be working regardless. That was weird
He said HER insides wouldn't allow her not to work. He didn't say she had to work because he required her to. That was a nod to the fact that she's innately a go getter. If my man was a provider of ALL of my needs, I would still work in some way or another, whether it be entrepreneurship, non profit work, or something. I would not sit at home all day and do NOTHING. I would always be doing something with the life that God gave me. I wouldn't bury my talents in the dirt just because my man has money. 🤷♀
Wow he’s awful to her
This is so sad? 1:23 she thinks If she says it enough she will believe it. So sad
Chile my husband watched his dad pamper his mom, so he takes pride in giving me the things I want in life. I could NEVER be with a man who hates the mere thought of his woman having an easy life. This was SUPER CRINGE! She needs to run
What is wrong with him. She was literally giving you a compliment, bro. He seems controlling.
He's been watching Red pill content and waited for THIS moment to embarrass her. Their relationship behind the scenes is chaotic, she's pretending to the public shes ok but she's desperate to keep this fake relationship going smh
Please!!! I am NOT a shopper but I would NEVER utter those words around a man because I do love gifts and surprises😂😂
🙄🥴🥴. All he had to say is thank you baby, but nooooo😮
UK people are GOAT at imitating American accents 😂
......but if it was a woman of another race....like white....would he be saying this nonsense to her?
Thank you!! I cannot stand the BS out here for real.
I thought the same thing, had it been a non black woman he would have puffed his chest out and grinned about providing for her.
This is crazy stuff!! Why is he trying so hard to go? Very weird exchange!
8:20 exactly
Wow wtf!! This looks so envious and evil. Why can't people just be happy for other people. Are you mad because you have to work? Thats her luck maybe he will have his luck in another way. He is very envious and jealous.
You look amazing, I had to do the same thing the other day, but it was so nice to feel my scalp again, welcome back, so good to see you❤
Yeah see nah. Time a man tells me what ima do, i stop listening completely. Like there’s a way you gotta talk to me because I’ll ignore the sh!t out of you and don’t tell me what I will and won’t do. Because who are you talking to. Watch your tone and be careful with me 😊
God, suddenly very happy im with a guy whos not from... this subculture. This shit is foreign to him.
Men need to stop talking to us like this.
The usual suspects 😂
He hates women red flag - when he's upset that you are in enjoyment of any kind.
If it weren’t for the comments, I wouldn’t know that was her husband. He’s so oppressive. He reminds me of an ex, who said “ we don’t argue…” . I had to correct him, If there’s a disagreement, we may need to argue, we don’t aim to but there might be a time.