Tryna figure out if we hate the same person
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 เม.ย. 2023
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Actor: Julie Nolke
Writer: Julie Nolke
Camera: Sam Larson
Editor: Alec McKay
Production Assistant: Alexa MacKell - ตลก
Me sharing factual information about other members of staff is not gossip, it’s a bonding exercise, vital for maintaining wellness among coworkers with low self esteem.
lolz!
Ah!
Until the phone call at the end I thought Alison was factually a bitch i.e. an office emotional support doggy.
most eloquent way to describe gossip I've ever seen!
It's all fun and games until it comes back to bite you in the ass.
Talking shit behind people's back only for them to find out about it is a timeless classic
Stop commenting on everyone I watch
see that's what i really miss in the remote work and why i don't mind 5 days back in
Fjgfjj
"If organic means literal piece of shit" had me dying. You are the best Julie!
Forget about Allison! I wanna know more about the burned "Phantom of the Opera" guy! 😄
bahaaha
Same
Right? Now theatre gossip - that stuff's juicy af! And how'd he get burned? Was it an accident with all those candles, or maybe that damn chandelier? I need more here.
Once had a coworker who had parties at their apartment. They had a number of hidden microphones around their apartment. In essence, they recorded the entire party. Next day, they'd listen to the entire tape. Fact. Never a friend but well worth knowing such people exist.
😂good luck to them trying to make anything out about what people were saying though. It’ll likely be just a crazy bunch of noise unless it was a really small party with separate rooms that were recorded when only a few people were there. This is a pretty dumb idea imo as an audio engineer.
Wow! I'm actually in shock reading this! How were they found out??
And people still went to this psycho's parties there after? Says a lot about desperate need to be on the inside.
Wow... it's been 30 plus years ago... afaik, meaning iirc, he played some audio, showed me the mic he used - if I hadn't seen/heard it, i'd not believed it. This of course, when he was pretty high. So these days, wow, with the technology available, I can only imagine what people can do (audio/video).
My state it isn't legal to record someone without them knowing. I once found a device in my THERAPIST office!! They didn't know it was there.
Since BetterHelp has been found guilty of selling people's private data, I'd say you're probably better off gossipping in the office.
Yea, not sure if this skit was meant to be a satire or if she is genuinely not aware that BetterHelp was fined $7.8 Million for sharing sensitive health information with Facebook and Snapchat, amongst other things.
@@davepctech1559 Hot d@mn! I haven’t heard that one yet. Good thing I see in person therapist!
For anyone who watches youtube videos:
Be aware that when a youtuber is paid to promote something, they are only saying those things as part of their job. They are not experts and they do not necessarily have your best interests at heart. None of these youtubers who promote "Raid shadow legends" or whatever have ever touched the game. Same here. She is being paid to say some words, and that is it. Decide for yourself if it is a good idea to use the service.
yeah I got to that part and was instantly like yikes dislike
I like yt who don't promote anything or ask you to like, subscribe and tickel their bells. After all if I like your content, I will do it, if I want to.
The feeling when people are so superficially nice that they won't speak truth even if everyone knows they're lying.
No. What we initially saw was boundaries and professionalism. If you are uncomfortable with a coworker, you get advice on how to address it. You don't talk about how they're a b"tch in the break room, for numerous reasons!
I don't socialize much at work, but I live for overhearing shit talk about someone else at work
How are there comments from a day ago? Wasn't this just uploaded?
@Jared Haas fair
@@HelloIAmAnExist i have achieved singularity oneness and have physically become part of Julie herself
In college, I had two “friends” who wrongly assumed I’d blabbed about something, then proceeded to talk crap about me to two other people who I was close to. The amount of brightness in that box of bulbs was… low
I once got a poor performance review because I refused to participate in office gossip. I always left conversations when they delved into trash talking coworkers and so I was told in my review that I wasn't personable enough and needed to engage fellow coworkers better. Like, I talk to them regularly, I just refuse to talk ABOUT them behind their backs.
Ended up on stress leave from that job. Yeah, wasn't a good fit in deed.
Put in the review and say you didn’t want to stay for gossip; happy to talk one on one or don’t trust the person to share info about you.
You're simply not toxic enough for our toxic environment. Unadaptable and won't go far in this company.
-HR 😬
I'm more of a 'gossip subduer' who shuts up the other person.... Not because of the goodness of my heart, but because I don't wanna be caught if things become messy!
I'm typically that way too. Gossip gets on my nerves and usually feels unfair to the person being talked about, so I tend to try to end it or at least stay out of it.
@@xrockangelx at that time, usually my thoughts are -
" Oh no, what if someone notices us and we get reported? "
And
" I wonder if this person gossips about me in the same manner... "
@@rqstuv9336 Oh, yeah. I definitely trust people who gossip less.
@@xrockangelx That, plus, in my experience gossipers also tend to exaggerate whatever event/person they're upset about. Venting frustration is one thing - and though I don't like gossip, I at least get why people feel the need to vent. But making stuff up is another thing, and it makes me outright angry when ppl do that.
Like, "Justin, I was there too and I know for a fact X wasn't being a 'b*tch' - they just gave you levelheaded constructive feedback and you apparently can't take criticism" - but god forbid I say something like that out loud x)
@@augustaseptemberova5664 Yeah. I don't mind talking/venting about other people when they are mean or do bad stuff. I don't like name-calling, but it's understandable to discuss how someone treated you negatively in an effort to vent or seek support. In those situations, I feel like it's justified. I just don't like people sharing other's personal information, stuff they said in confidence, or making/spreading negative assumptions about people who might have perfectly valid reasons for the things they're being unfairly judged for. It's not fair to talk about that stuff behind someone's back because then they aren't around to defend themselves.
Her TH-cam Content and timing is just awesome. I recently saw her on PBS show my kid watches where she played a wacky villain. She has the same amazing blend of commitment, humor and fun. Keep up the great work.
Which show was it?
Nevermind--it's Odd Squad. I suspected as much when you said the words "PBS" and "wacky villain."
@@LukeMaps Yep - Odd Squad is the show. She played a villain called "Dream Weaver" and it was pretty cool to see her play the role
😂 loving the sketch
😬 hearing the Better Help ad at the end...
Had 2 female friends at work. Used to go to lunch with each of them to talk about religion, politics, work, etc. One was nice but kind of lazy. She'd complain about her really demanding boss. She didn't know her boss was my best friend. When either talked about the other, I'd just sit there with my mouth mostly shut just agreeing. They were actually pretty much right about each other.
I love how Julie 3 comes, in, lights the spark, and walks out. I want to be like her. :D
"I love how Julie 3 comes, "
how many Julies are left after that one met her tragic fare during that quick transition video?
The gossip/information line is really hard to navigate as a teacher, at least when it comes to students, especially when you throw legal confidentiality into the mix.
Sometimes you need to fill multiple teachers in on what a student did, because they work with that student and it's relevant, but it really feels like gossiping.
As a substitute teacher I hear a lot of stuff about students in all grades, but since I technically could have any of those student in class the next day, sometimes it really is relevant for me to know.
Gossip
Is both a blessing and a curse while also being chaos
Didn't better help has been fined for selling personal information about their customers?
Such a good ad reading. I just had some really good pudding so the term “oh-so-smooth” comes to mind.
Loved the cringe factor in the sketch, but the ad is A1!
Allison on the phone later: "OMG Lisa, you have no idea what Julie just said about you"
Everything about this episode is the best. Acting, writing, editing, production. EVERYTHING.
Julie is so great at being multiple characters it's like she's a triplet 😄. Talk about a one woman show she really keeps the viewers engaged.
Shout out to your hairstyling today, Julie! Both styles look great AND distinctive!
I was trying to figure out how the heck she did that! :)
Love your work Julie!
I've been watching Julie since the beginning and the most-amazing thing that she consistently does is act and time things so well,. You can't tell which was the original/first recording. At some point, it becomes a timed response to the original part/recording, but I have no idea which part started the conversation. Amazing.
Loved the sketch! Can definitely relate to this kind of office chat. Interesting to hear you use the phrase "how did you find her?" - we use that phrase the same way in England, I guess you guys must do in Canada, but it came up in conversation with two separate American friends and neither of them had ever heard it before.
Oh my ... I think when we get to the point where words ( especially gossip and slander ) have more weight than the reality of ones actions we are headed for a whole lot of trouble... 🐝
Just look at American politics, we have arrived
@@markfeland2285Almost, but not quite. A number of US politicians, including the 2 most recently elected presidents have been broadly attacked for alleged actual actions done in person or by command . This includes admitted mishandling of entrusted secret documents, alleged commanding of riots, alleged adultery and alleged false accounting .
1:38 the way she slowly raises her head will always get me
DAmn! How do you do this?!? Hilarious, and the editing is top notch! Seamless! Great actress to be able to pull this off!
You are glowing!!! Absolutely radiant ❤
😂😂😂😂 Julie, you Rock the comedy, girl. I love the awkwardness in your character’s faces when they paint themselves in a corner, so to speak, and try to speak their way out of it. You are a natural skitster. 😂
I had a workmate who would go and sit with the boss and his clique every day at the beginning of the job. He once asked me why I didn't join and I said I didn't care for office politics. He said I wouldn't believe what they said about me, I told him I didn't care because all I wanted to do was my job and go home at the end of the day! I then looked at him and smiled, "they talk about everyone while you are there, imagine what they are saying about you when you aren't!"😆
Now I couldn't relate to the video because of all the places I have worked, NOBODY held back on what they thought of the people in HR!🤣🤣
1:39 the wide eyes of anticipation, pure gold 😆
Thanks for the video Julie, helps a lot!
Always loved your vids, you bring the worst out in people but in a good way humorously😂❤❤❤
1:33 LOL!
The glance at 1:33 is just so awkwardly desperately PERFECT 😅
This was a beautiful modern remix of all the best bits of Mean Girls.
Edit: the PotO bit at the start was hilarious
This reminds me of something I heard once...
When you gossip about other people behind their back, what you're really doing is showing that you can't be trusted.
It's a dangerous game.
Brilliant as usual!
Gossip is never cool and makes work hell on earth. Praise out loud only! I am done working at a place where all you hear is negative talk and whispers from other cubicles. Commit to being the person that shuts gossip down immediately.
slippery slope, great work Julie!!! :)
You guys rock, always a good laugh.
Love how you set up the set with an Office feel so simply!!
I gasped at the ending.
Triplets gossiping in the break room is a very rare thing...
literally every office I have ever worked in.
I literally walk into conversations like this at work lol!
You are looking very polished and refined as journey into motherhood ❤️
I get such Severance vibes from this. Might be because all the workers are pregnant
Not to mention that Allison's work style is unique, and her accomplishments are unbelievable! 😉
So is Better Help still sharing personal details with advertisers?
Lol. I am so fed up with gossip. I am very careful about what I say at work. Sure it means I am out of the loop a bit but its so nice not to deal with drama. When I overheard a manager talking shit about me I literally just went up to her and said "if u want me to do something then tell me." She smiled and acted oblivious. I told her gossip partner "i prefer to be talked to not talked about". "Oh. I dont talk bad about u." Uh-huh sure. There's always people who work and people who talk about the people that are actually working. Thats what I think..
You need to take over the world of comedy pronto!
lol that segue to Better Help was perfect, bravo. i recall hearing that Mircea Eliade was a big fan of therapy (before it was healthy and cool), and he compared it to going to confession (in his day and age). but honestly sometimes you just need to vent to an independent person, with the safety of some good old patient-therapist confidentiality.
The entire video up to when Julie #3 came along was literal torture to watch
Congrats Julie! ❤ You are so radiant that I think a recent video title of yours is actually true😊
I was very lucky - I started a new job in a relatively senior position and within 2 hours a woman at a similar level got me on my own and told me that the CEO was sleeping with and living with one of the junior staff members, and they considered it "fun" to drop snidey comments about the other to new staff members to trick them into saying something nasty about the other.... then they go home, compare notes, and confront the Noob. The Junior would deliberately act bitchy, the CEO would drop totally sexist comments and they would see what you said about them. Armed with the knowledge my new best friend gave me, I managed to stay totally neutral through-out, but it was a total trap. They were toying with new staff in a very twisted way. I still got fired, but that was because I kept turning up drunk.... different story....
This had me cackling. We've all been these people.
I've definitely been an alison before haha
This happened in my former office and for two years it’s was pure hell…
I do gossip but not really a gossip type. Good work, buddy.😂😂😂
"How did, um... how did you find her?" I just walked around the corner and there she was!
The coffee machine is a Breville Barista Express Impress (manual) which cost 899USD. My decades old machine Saeco Magic Deluxe is an automatic and cost the same back when it was bought, I can still sell my machine for half of what was paid for it.
Buy a good machine and it will last you a life time.
It's crazy how only one person does this all... And at such a professional level! #blownaway
cuz she is a professional
"I know right"... famous last words
the fact that I worked 10 years in an environment without gossip made that place super boring and dull
And here I thought they were boutta write up a whole recommendation letter for Allison XD Really had me in the first half hahaha
Your videos always seem like your fictional characters are just projecting your true self and that is such a mood.
The feeling out with the other person if it's okay to roast somebody is a little too real haha
I don't think I could ever work in an office again. Don't miss it.
"Did you hear what I heard about that Nolke, chick?...I heard she got herself knocked-up."
it's hard to gossip when you work from home... you have to schedule a meeting just for that 😅
Yep...that's too real! LOL! And soooo weird, I was thinking of Phantom of the Opera, played your video, and BAM! You two were talking about it! XD
Julie, do you happen to read Ask a Manager? Only asking because the woman who runs it is named Alison Green haha (if y'all don't read ask a manager, you should though, Alison just responds to different questions about workplace scenarios, and there are some CRAZY questions that people ask)
At first, I thought they meant she had body odor.
I knew a guy who was playing 'Phantom'. He also got half his face scarred. The problem was that it was the bottom half so he just looked weird in the mask.
Thanks!
Normal Gossip Podcast is 10/10 for us small-community gossip lovers!!
I was expecting that sponsor segue to lead to twitter, not therapy
Ok, but this is my everyday life. (only that's a different type of ofice) It's hell. I love it.
Sipping the tea until it spills.
I've had moments like this... ... except I'm less a gossip and more of a make positive change with action...
... gossip is just a side benefit for learning what we need to take action on lol
Nice video Julie. Gossip was a really good and sorry last video miss but this was watching and like also. Thnx for sharing and take care of yourself Julie. And more thing I like your costume in this video too . See you soon bye Julie
Once that seal has been broken, then it's fair game to spill all the juicy jelly beans!!
The corporate environment is exhausting. Running my mouth, stabbing people in the back, spreading innuendo, no wonder I am tired when I get home.
Hahaha, that's my kind of gossip.
just wanted to say both the green and pink outfits and the HAIR looks amazing
"oh my god Allison...."
I work in an adult store, and I'm a server on the weekends, so we gossip about our customers. I've never worked in an office setting, and I don't think that I could.
Amazing
Good word!
LOL!
I have a friend who lurrrves to gossip.
So, I start with telling her I have loads to tell her.
She on the edge of her seat waiting, then I say, "If I tell you, what will you do with the info."
She always tells me it will be between me and her.
I kid you not, I tell her zilch but make out how interesting going to the shop was.
She falls for it everytime.
I want more videos about the weird Cthulhuesque eldritch horror that takes your form and communicates to you from its hellish home dimension via mirrors. One of these days it will drop its human mask and melt you like the Arc of the Covenant or drive you hopelessly insane, but until then I enjoy its drunken, snarky humor.
My momma always said "if you aint got anything good to say, dont say anything at all"....
gossip? desperate for gossip?
did you hear the latest?
someone got knocked up!
"this mornins all i sun" yeah i know you ar ethe pinnacle alot! i wantthe top !
'ALOT OF OPINIONS' hahahahaa
That's what SHE said!
Lisa having one set of 100 small envelopes and another set of 40 slightly larger envelopes really put a stamp on Lisa's hatred of Allison.
I chuckled right through the commercial at the end. Then I realized that wasn't part of the shtick.
I assume (with no judgement) theres a cool referential bit to Friends in this using coffee cups and mugs to hide the baby bump