What I CAN'T STAND About Each of the 16 Personalities!
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- What I CAN'T STAND about each of the 16 Myers-Briggs Personalities!
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This video is all in good fun, just for laughs! Take none of it to heart, dear viewer. 🤗
I think it's hilarious you made this follow up video, can't wait :)
Thank goodness! You look pretty mad in that thumbnail! 😬😄
I can't wait for being roasted😌-ENTP-T
You know that half of the people watching this are going to take it to heart, but huzzah! What doesn't kill you makes you stronger (or does it just leave them another chance to kill you...[oh gosh, I'm going to stop before I go too deep on this train of thought]). Looking forward to finding out which one offends me the most as I have taken six different tests and gotten six different results for my type!
I haven't even watched the video yet and I can smell roasts from a mile away.
FJ : "Please don't take anything I say in this video seriously"
This INFP : *watches video*
In the comments: "haha that's funny"
Later : "dear diary, someone HUMILIATED me today on TH-cam"
THIS
I would've feeled flatered
Yes! He is right but it kinda hurt hahah
yeah i was like “hes right..... but.... bUT 💀 😢 “
Lmaooo
0:45 ESTJ & ENTJ
1:37 ENFJ & ESFJ
2:54 ESTP & ESFP
4:21 ENTP & ENFP
5:52 ISTP & INTP
7:00 ISFP & INFP
8:41 ISTJ & ISFJ
10:16 INTJ & INFJ
You're a life savior :3
Thank you btw
Please pin this comment!!
Thanks for this! Just one typo needs fixing - the ISTP & INTP timestamp should be 6:57 instead of 5:57
Also - for a good time watch the whole thing at 1.5x 😉. (Any faster than that and I think the thrashing and arm waving might get too distracting - lol)
@@AliPearls oh I missed that , thanks!
INTJ: "humanity disgusts me"
Also INTJ: **is head-over-heels in love with their special one for whom they would lay in a muddy puddle for special one to walk on to ensure their shoes didn't get dirty**
INTJ: "love is overrated"
Same bro
Lol true
No because this is so relatable-
I mean we intj's are also humans so we are disgusted by ourselves to but don't call us out like that "-"
why are you calling me out like that 🤨
“Let’s talk about our feelings, man”
Tell me you’re an INFJ without telling me you’re an INFJ
I know how you feel.
“Are INFJs saying it genuinely or to manipulate you? I never know.”
We never know either
That's funny, thanks Kelsey.
I know I'm always being genuine but I've heard from other people that sometimes I can come across as intimidating or intense in a way that's off-putting. I'm a 5'6" male who can intimidate with my aura. Not really something to be proud of 😂
@@xnflg3074 That’s not what I meant. I meant that we usually know how what we say “genuinely” will effect the other person. So, knowing that what we say will have a particular outcome that we want and still saying it....is it or is it not manipulation?
I just mean....we know too much sometimes.
@@k.upward Ah, I understand now. That makes sense. Yeah, I guess because our intuition about things is so on-point we can incidentally manipulate things. I think it's important to retain your good moral code, then... after all, that's a big part of being an "Advocate," which is what INFJ is really. It's about adhering to what you believe... and if you do, it's not really manipulation because you're still acting lawfully and within the boundaries of your own belief system. Just my thoughts. Cheers.
Him: “talks about how INTP’s always think they’re right.”
Me: *about to argue against this....then I realize that just proves his point* XD
Yes, I'm an INTP too and I cant deny it🤣
But... was your argument right?
@@evelynda5235 Eventually. :)
No we don’t.
@@evelynda5235 I'd say, I don't think I'm right, but I can identify many reasons why you are wrong. It isn't that I am the fount of wisdom, rather, you are so far from wisdom that I may as well be. It isn't that I hold the answer, but, if you were to express a genuine interest in finding the answer, I could probably lead you to it.
As an INFP, I just realized you're right. I like listening and giving advices but I don't like taking it from others lol
same with me hahah
But...like... so much of it is really BAD advice, or bad advice for ME 😂 (yes, I'm an INFP)
@@larafields3106 It's just that the types that tend to give advice have a completely different understanding of success or happiness than us INFPs
Because these advices apply to them not to me !
I know when the advice is for me !.
People work by "one size fits all " ..and when you refuse it ..they say "oh ..you are stubborn ".!😅
@deutschlernen8697n nailed it 👌 , but sometimes we're just stubborn 😅
as an INFJ, I always wonder if manipulating people to help them is justified.
As an INFJ, YES. Kind of a psychologist but we don't get paid, well...in a way helping people is always a good feeling.
The ends justify the means
ofc it is :)
Well technically if we do it for the good (I personally did it unconsciously for so long lmao I only realized when my bestie sent me a tiktok in which someone was talking about how they have a personality for each individual) it can’t be bad right?
I think as long as it's coming from a place of true compassion. But even then, we can't push it. We can make space for change but it's up to the other person to move into that space or ignore it. - INFJ (learned this lesson the hard way)
Alternate title: INFJ feels overwhelmed about existing around people and roasts them while they aren't there
This is, too accurate -INFJ
bruh
This is the best description for INFJ
Was thinking about it 🤣
@@dis_sunsetsongstress7350 I'm an enfj with an infj roommate, I see you guys and ily
Ooo, we’re getting serious intensity gaze.
Our Frank is nothing if not....INTENSE! 😂😁😭
- and also funny and silly and smart and helpful and creative and, oh yeah: "COOL & ATTRACTIVE (tm)" 😁😂🤣
I want to be roasted by an INFJ, their roasts feel like compliments
@@matroqueta6825 IKR?
There are so many Captain Introverts created by this video.
I felt it in my SOUL.
6:57 About ISTP and INTP:
"They always think that they're right."
Have you ever considered that you are wrong.. often?
As an intp, I’d assume I’m right since I trust my own consistently improving logical framework more then almost anything else, but at the same time I don’t trust anything including my own thought since even mine have rooms for improvement and questions a lots of “what if’s”, but ultimately I still consider “I’m more likely to be right” which result in “they think that I think I am always right”
I guess not . Whenever , I argue/discuss I think I am right .
@@aey4433 same
I fight with my logic first, then I tried to find more information on the subject to use for further support my argument. If I know later that I was wrong all along, I announce it to the people I argued with.
I never liked the phrase "Always thinking you are right." Since who knowingly believes something they also know to be untrue, that would just be insane. If you know it was wrong you would just change your answer to what you think is right and then be right again. A better descriptor would be "Unable to consider they might be wrong." of course this is also something I wouldn't describe myself as because I often consider this and as such would require a pretty convincing argument before I would change an opinion I have put so much thought into.
As an ENFP I've always been obsessed with being a comedian, not to get attention, but the satisfaction when my jokes are understood by others.
yes
omg same
Making anyone laugh or chuckle feels like a "good deed" to me. Almost an E, INFP
I am an enfp my friends and family says I am funny but I don't feel like it
And when you see there's a better comedian you become an THE most introverted person in the entire universe.
Edit :There's a typo 🙂
As an INTP, I take being called a “space cadet” as a compliment
It sounds pretty nice.
ikr he's not wrong tho
Same
truly!
ikr same
Trust an INFJ to do this very analysis. Literally picking people apart.
this made me laugh especially considering his point about entps picking apart everything you say... maybe us infjs were the entps all along... 🤔
@@LKMxo I’m an infj and my bestie is an entp, we get alone like a house on fire lmao
@@KazKindred613 ahh i want an entp bestie i'm happy for u lmao
Ugh. As "someone with strong INFJ tendencies" I have learned I can be an expert at this and its evil sibling, the poison pen. 😭 I've learned to write stuff down for myself and no one else and if I want to tear someone a new one, write it down, never send, and give myself 10 days to cool off, reframe, and/or go about it productively. Warren Buffett says a friend/colleague once told him "you can always tell someone to go to h-e-double hockey sticks another day". In other words, you haven't lost your chance, and it's always better to cool your jets and give your impulses more time to process, calm down, etc.
@@LKMxo it’s great, I hope you get one too :D
As an INTP you actually called me out so hard the whole accidentally being mean thing and being sure I'm right all the time lol
Totally!
I absolutely hate when I'm accidentally mean, sometimes I'll never realize and others I'll say something to someone and 5 minutes later have it replay in my head and ask my friends if it was rude (it was)
Stereotypes exist for a reason. If you’re accusing an intp for being right all the time, it’s probably because they are XD
Hey, I'm an INTJ, and let me put your mind at ease. Yes we all have a master plan and are using everyone we interact with as a pawn in that plan. Every person in my life, from employees, to associates, to friends, to my fiancé all have a specific role to play in my life. A role that's meticulously planned out with backup plan upon backup plan.
Its annoying when peopel are so stupid and their so incompetent that there useless ,and even more anoying need help for anything , dude your in school i cant learn for you no i will Not be explaining the math Problem while the teacher is talking and getting punished for speaking.
One Kind of Person you ahould always try to get rid of or make em think that you dont know the answers. The worst i can imagine is a stupid Person in a Position of power
(Im not english sorry for my propobly bad grammar).
That didn't make me at ease :") -fellow enfp
@@ayaalioua2378 seems like your ok with Not being at ease to me.
No, I think I'm more scared. But, then again, I admire the honesty.
Surely everyone has their role to play but be truthful towards them as well regarding ur role and i appreciate ur honesty ..and kinda hope they don't hear or see it as it will surely effect them
Frank is an INFJ.
You can tell because straight away he's like "IM SORRY"
He's a INFP
@@marcusgillberg as an INFJ, I also have a habit of over-apologising, so I can understand the confusion
@@Vanyx1000 Lmaoo you guys he just (again) stated in the ''What I love about the personalities'' video that he's INFJ. Don't assume to know shit if you actually don't, and don't pretend like a certain trait is exclusive to a certain type.
Yeah so true
To infp-s: As an infj, I assure you we say "I'm sorry" all the time.
"please don't take anything I say in this video seriously"
NFP's : "Challenge accepted"
lmao yes
Like seriously
coming from an infp, yeah.
@@lyssao.8308 same
why are we like this
As an INFP I used to be so caught up in my own world I would avoid social situations. You just have to learn to say yes, bc if not there's no way we can see which kind of social meetings are actually worth it. Don't say yes if you just know by heart you're gonna feel uncomfortable, but also, get out of your comfort zone, that'll make you grow and appreciate real life for what it is instead of what it could be.
Nice advice one. Definitly trying to be like this. Buut its hard T.T soooooo hard.
I love how mine first reaction in mine head was "no" I taking advice
never.
thanks for your advice. I needed it🥺💗
Ah yes, I will listen to this advice, it will be there, at the back of my mind
When will I commit to it? idk
Great advice , I'm turning to my 30 yo ..and I accept my weirdness and do things my way ..
Have not many friends ..but REAL friends .
INFJs after watching this be like: *questioning themselves if they're really genuine to people around them*
Meeee I have such a longing for deep genuine connections but for like 90% of people I just don’t see that happening , I can tell they aren’t really genuine with me , or wouldn’t get along with the real me , so I mirror them, I’m not genuine with them back. It just makes it easier to be around people who I don’t vibe with, I don’t have any negative intentions towards them.
I hate my genuine personality, it’s so cringey. I’m really loud and make stupid jokes and I hate it. It always comes out when I try to hide it. I’m working on being less annoying right now and not so overwhelming.
@@rachelcookie321 hahaha it's alright just find yourself another INFJ friend and it'll be fine
I feel like we are always playing chess with people and it concerns me a little
@@bridedavis5152 well, you're not wrong.
Infp: ...the more people try to cheer me up the sadder I become because I feel more like a problem than a person.
Interesting. Intp and I hate being cheered up because it's useless platitudes and just makes me feel worse because you've put a spotlight on something in trying to gloss over.
Eg - I'll mention in passing about my mother dying 20 years ago and they'll go 'aww that's so sad, sorry for your loss' and it's like... That's what you got from the conversation?
It's interesting how what you've described as infp and how the into process the same thing are very similar, even if they come from a very different (Ti VS Fi) core reason.
When i try to cheer up my infp friend, i do it for them, not for me. I enjoy their company when they are in a bad mood almost as much as when they are in a good mood, it makes me feel good either way. I am careful not to pressure them into doing or being anything, i just want them to be themselves. But i still worry that they might feel like you do. I just want to be there for them, like they are there for me. How can i make sure I'm not making it worse?
Yeaouch. That hit where it hurts.
Wkwkwk same here brug
I feel ✨exposed✨
Every description I've seen of INTJs: "You are just really evil"
Me, an INTJ: "What is evil? Does it exist? Is it just a moral characterisation of undesirable or deviant people? Wait... what if I'm just really evil but haven't realised my potential yet? Hmm..."
Me, also an INTJ: "Thanks for telling me, now let me tell you all the reasons why humans in general are disgusting and why me being evil from your point of view really is a badge of honor to me!"
At least when talking to religious people, nobody else told me that I'm evil so far...
If you ask them to explain them with theyre own thoughts, not the social norm thoughts, they dont know what to say about ist. Allways funny
Are the evil people actually that evil if there are that many evil people around? Are the good people the true evil ones?
@@oopsididitagain4885
Well that was my basic questions and the conclusion is that just changing the name will not change their effect.
If it was other way around, we wouldn't have made it so far.
At the end Good and evil are just names for sure.
@@diewahrheitistmitdir675
Because these thoughts are better and will lead to good for everyone unlike those foolish social rules revolving around individuals who lack the foresight and will eventually lead humans to destruction.
INFJ here, and I actually do get a lot of people who initially think I must be faking, or just trying to get them to like me. What they don’t grasp is that no, I’m not trying to get you to like ME. I’m trying to get you to like YOURSELF. And for you to be able to go out there and succeed. I very much enjoy the aggressive optimism line of “You WILL succeed. It is INEVITABLE.” I work at a trade school so it’s a lot of fun to watch people grow, and to help facilitate that. But it’s not fake. I TRULY want you to be the best you, and will work with you to help achieve it.
"INTJ and INFJ, these two types are freaking weird man!" Me, an INFJ who married an INTJ: 🙌 preach! 🤣
You married an INTJ? That's so cool, since most INFJs want to be INTJ.
tell me how to marry intj hehe
My twin is an INTJ and we are best friends..... he really hit the nail on the head. lol
Your INTJ spouse is beyond lucky to have married an INFJ like you.
me too, but am an intj :)
“ENFPs joke a lot.” *my ENFP self laughs remembering several jokes at the same time.
Xd I’m an enfp you are so right
Are we the only type watching these cool vids? 😮💨
Robin Williams and Carol Burnett are in this category. Woooo hooo!!
YESSSS
Ikr, I was cracking up too
I laughed so hard when you said “are you guys on earth?” In the INTP part, I even tell ppl, myself, I went to different dimensions when I zone out next to them. Also, trying my best to not accidentally hurts anyone feeling 😭 I’m still learning.
As an INFP, I relate to that so much 😭💀
Another INTP here and same bro 😭😭 I'll zone out and my dad will ask me where I went I ill say like,,, wonderland or Mars or some random new kingdom name 😭
@@reignmaefall I mean these responses are cool though, respect 😂❤️
@@reignmaefall Alice in wonderland is an Intp
A coworker once saId I was slow like a 1990 computer in my processing because I was zoned out thinking ..Intp here so yes space cadet
You nailed it. As an INFP, our weakness is emotional fixation and listening to advice without feeling like you don’t know what you’re talking about. Or at least that’s my experience of it
As an INFP, I can completely agree with this: I never "listen" to advice. I mean I listen with my ears, technically, but I know that i won't do it. It's kinda exhausting
I struggle with this and I hate myself for it. Any advice?
The being independent thing. My mother always used to say that.
I be like "please stop giving me the advice I didn't ask" at that mere moment
Yea... me to, I end up sitting there like oh yeah that's cool I might try that sometime when in my head I'm like... pls I'm never going to do this, stop wasting time trying to convince me bananas taste good on pbjs
@@cerealis_5432 Don't hate yourself. That's the most important rule. Just trust your feelings and intuitions, and don't let anyone change how you feel about something (unless you find out that you were wrong).
Was weird seeing him trying to pump himself up into angry mode, all while trying to stop himself from laughing ... at himself 🤣
Haha ikr 😅😅 I love Frank (/p)
That was awesome. Hahaha
It's adorable and the entire video is hilarious.
@@wasabiwarabi Yes, it is lmao
Omg as a ISFJ I didn't know that "being nice" would affect someone or make him/her feel bad, but I kinda had that feeling already. Sometimes I was texting to my best friend, and he was saying about his problems, relationships and that kinda stuff and saying that "I'm just a piece of shit, I cannot be loved" and I was there like "hey yo don't say it, you're amazing, you'll find someone nice.." and while of my "being nice" he was like "stop why r u so gooood guy?"🤦🏻♂️
Having a good heart it's a good thing but we ISFJs don't mean to make you feel bad about yourself we're just being kind. Hope yall understand and make sure to keep that kind of friends that helps you when you need even though the personality is another one ;)
🙌
ISFJ here. Always protecting others (strangers included) and always trying to make others feel good about themselves while I'm putting myself down.
🤷
"Yeah, I get it, INTJ. You figured out everything."
Me: "Good, we agree. Now get to work." 🤣🤣
everyone to INFJs "you're being fake!" INFJs: "YOU CAN"T HANDLE THE TRUTH"
🤣🤣🤣
true xd
True! 🤣🤣
True hahaha
So true!!
INFP’s and ISFP’s making an art of not doing stuff they don’t feel like doing is a mood.
Honestly as a INFP I can confirm
Yep, my friends and family can confirm as an ISFP, I definitely do that (its especially worse if people try and tell me to do something...🙃
As an INFP, I seriously can't focus on something if a I don't feel like doing it. I find myself bouncing back and forth between different things to avoid getting bored so that I can maintain productivity. It's difficult to reach those big dreams if you can't focus on them.
@@SpaceLobster21 i can relate
This is exactly why I can’t do art commissions
Hey, just because my fellow INTPs have gathered the information, looked at the problem, imagined every single possible outcome, and presented you with a calculated answer, doesnt make us always right...it just makes you wrong.
Beautifully said 👍❤️
-INTP
@@kokucat Worked pretty well for me :P
As Long as they aren’t right. I’m good
@@FireFoxie1345 It's the moral victories that count.
Agree-INTP
As an ISTP, i take this as a compliment, Thanks Frank.
Ohhh sh.... James gonna roast us all
He will roast all of us including himself
the intj part was a compliment
ENTP here, "ooh I am going to get roasted? I knew this was a good day, let me get my popcorn"... ENTP comes and me... "Wait, that was it? that can't be it, I demand more roasting!"
Why does you're comment say 2 weeks ago when the video us only a week old.
"INFJ and INTJ. These are so weird man. Even I get weirded out by them."
Me, an INFJ, and also pretty sure Frank's an INFJ: wow, we must be really weird.
So we're weird?
Nah we're not weird they just can't understand us.
@@angelicaalmuete3518
We can't understand ourselves either
Why do you think we keep asking ourself more things about life than talking with friends or other people?-
you do tend to be weird, but as intp I am fine with that weirdness
"INFJ is the rarest type"
Everyone in the comment section: " That's so me! "
as an INTJ just stop y all dont really know what really is being an INFJ
@@shanks6603 Not anymore. ENTJ is now the rarest personality type. INFJ ranked third.
The INFP and INTJ ones are so accurate. I’m an INTJ in a relationship with an INFP, and when things go down it gets really hard to settle since the difference in our emotional gauge is miles apart.
I feel you, bro! I'm an INTJ, my girlfriend is an INFP.
Me: "What's wrong?" *WHY DO I ASK THIS!*
Her: "You were playing your video game, and I let you, and I sat here wondering how long you're going to play it, because we have things to do and I have limited time to see you on the weekends and right now you're just ignoring me. It makes me feel like you don't need me...
Me: >
Her: "...so it wasn't until I said I'm so hungry I'm going to chew my arm off that you stopped playing and made us breakfast, and I felt like I had to yell at you and hurt you to get you to acknowledge me. You never used to do this, you were always so attentive and sensitive and caring and thoughtful but as time goes on it's like you're not anymore...
Me:
Actually you both use Fi and are intuitive so I think you can find common ground, just need to work it out 😊
Actually, these two have some commons.
@@nightx.. well, naturally so, because we’re both IN- types. I never really said we’re completely different, i just mentioned how it’s challenging when things become hard since we both produce different emotions and sentiments that set us apart.
@@Jooney91 I agree. Things have become better now after talking about our differences and how to understand each other. It’s surely a challenge, of course, but out similarities helped us try to understand each other better.
INFP here, funny video!
I sometimes feel the need to 'talk away' my emotions and then nothing is more annoying than unwanted advice. I know perfectly well what all possible solutions are, I've gone over it in my head hundreds of times, thanks. I've now learned to tell beforehand that I just want to ventilate.
I do take/ask for advice but only from people I trust/feel connected to.
I hope this helps someone understanding the INFP a bit :)
The worst part is when you finally make a difficult decision after months or even years of contemplating and people still question your decision even though there's no going back
INTP literally listening to someone criticizing their personality: HAHAHA SO ACCURATE THIS IS AWESOME
Exactly what I was thinking, lol!
Hahaha yes!
Same lol
I was complimented, not offended.
I read this comment before watching the video and I was like no, I'm coming here to get serious and rethink my biases! .... And then I just giggled through the INTP part.
"They won't do stuff if they don't feel like it. Everyone is like that but ISFP and INFP take that to an art form" well we are natural artists after all
It’s so annoying lol
my friends/family have called me out on not doing things and not taking advice so many times
I feel called out D:
I was so called out by that bruh
I do reject stuffs that i don't like doing and don't do the work if I don't like it but I take advices only if they makes sense lol
He's still so soft and sweet even when we're being insulted. I love this man.
As an INFJ, yes, until we mature a bit more, we often play the chameleon. As we mature, we care less about pleasing others or fitting in. The whole trying to understand how everyone and everything works...the gut instinct of knowing how people operate...that never really goes away; it's both a blessing and curse. ;)
I totally agree.
So when does this maturing process start or triggers
@@hidden_ki394 Depends on your life experiences. I spent a number of years studying to be a priest, where I interacted with people from all sorts of backgrounds: rich, poor, Christian, Muslim, atheist. And, I walked with people at their best and worst moments in life. Age doesn't really matter as much as experience with others because it lets you see who you are and strive to be; you begin to see that being true to yourself, being at peace with your conscience, is more important than others' opinions. For me, this started around 17, but it is different for everyone.
Everyone else: Hey can you cool it with the superiority complex?
INTP and ISTP: But we are superior.
facts
T R U E
As an intp...... I can confirm.
we're superior, try changing our minds
yeah, we got that god complex pretty bad bro
As an INFP, I do realized how I easily get demotivated when someone questions anything I'm doing, and then proceeded to keep it to myself and became really negative to other people
As an ENTJ we dont really want to hurt your "feelings" or whatever that is, we just want to make sure that it works out and you don't fail in it yk. Better safe than sorry:)
I relate
Yeah and people say INFPs can’t take criticism but as an INFP I don’t agree with that. Most people don’t know how to word their thoughts in a way that would be constructive and not hurtful to the person. Also if I am doing MY thing, it means I am depicting my own self into it, say it’s something artistic or scientific, doesn’t matter. I would still listen and judge if the advice was right but I wouldn’t still do it. I assume that’s related to how we are tied to our principles.
As an INFJ, I can relate heavily
@@ayaansharif1225 the thing you don't know is that if we live safe and never try to live the "impossible" way, we won't be happy. I have one life, there's no guarantee there's something after it, I wanna at least try to make impossible possible, safe life isn't fun nor satisfying and even if we don't succeed and regret trying, at least we had fun along the way and the road to achieving goal is more important than goal itself, but also emotional support to do it is important as well. Like I wanna mountain climb and drive a motorbike among other things and given my lazy safe way of life I might not succeed but I'd like to try cause sitting safely in safe job and safe house like this isn't making me happy. But at the same time everyone discourages me from it cause it's "dangerous" and I get demotivated and miserable immediately because of such opinions by others, especially people I care about, so I daydream about my goals instead and shut them and world out most of the time. If they only knew they are making me live miserable melancholic life by keeping me safe with their advices... I mean I tried to explain it to them multiple times but they just don't get it, their brain isn't wired that way. They are satisfied with rinse and repeat lifestyle and can't understand for the life of them why I don't like it too. Sigh...
As an ENFJ, I can admit we put alot of pressure on ourselves to accommodate others that if we don't tune into our introverted feelings enough then it jumps out of us. We take constructive criticism well.
Yep
ENFJ-T here. Def true. I've snapped at my friends n family. It's rare tho.
As an INTJ with a younger, ESTP brother, yes this is quite accurate. So much chaos, so many things that don't work out well and yet there is never an ounce of evidence that he understands things like consequences, cause and effect, or obvious connections between point A and point B. It's like being around a hurricane of 'I MUST DO THINGS' energy
"Are you even on earth, bro?"
No. Most of the time, I'm not.
Sincerely, an INTP
Lol I was staring to comment this, then saw your comment.
My friends think I’m high all the time
@@cmc9986 lol once I was trying to hit the cue ball with the 8ball and not even realizing it. And everyone were like are high dude? And I said no I'm just thinking why the pizza box is square but the pizza it's self is round:(
@@saeedjaderi1024 Oh no. I am now curious as to why the pizza box is square instead of circle.
@@isopale5343 so i wasn’t the only one?
Me, an INTP: *watch me forget to eat, sleep, and other general health practices while imagining myself twisting the gas knob and exploding myself for no reason other than curiosity.*
Making up conversation/argument in our head.
69th like.... I will see myself out
🚪🏃🏻
Eren go back home
@@muzankibutsuji6477 Sorry I'm zoned out rn and I'm too lazy to zone back in.
true that mate
As an ISFP I can only agree. It's like: my boyfriend says something, I get stuck with one certain aspect that coul be interpreted as an implicit accusation, I feel down to the point I stop reacting (like smiling or talking), my boyfriend asks what's wrong and stupid ISFP thinks it's for the best to say "Nothing" xD
I am an INFP and I do take advice from other people sometimes. I absolutly hate it because it makes me feel dumb and dependent but when I am really stuck on a problem and I can't find a solution on my own, I try to actually listen (it's so complicated sometimes 😭)
To INTJ “And become more human”
No one explains WHY should we become more human
Dude, I look up to INTJs. You guys are like us INTPs, but more productive, even though we can generally be a bit better at analysing. Don't become human, stay cold
@@piyushmeshram4761 I agree, as humans we do have feelings and principles. However, I personally feel like I have a mind which is more robot-like rather than human-like and this mind which has infinite potential is being pressured by self-doubt and irrational feelings that get into the way. I don't like emotions, even though they define me as a human being but I can still recognize their value
LOL it’s so true tho. But how does one find joy in life if it isn’t tinkering with ideas. My whole channel is mainly my testing things in my food lab haha aka my kitchen like hmmmm this and this and THEN!!! 92 calorie chimichangas
@@alexandrosioannou2230 as an intj I wish I had less emotions, they just get in the way.
@@Verllac I know, right? It's impossible for me to create peace inside that head of mine so bottled up emotions make things even worse. Sometimes I just wanna embrace my feelings so I can finally feel joy, but then I realize that my emotions are nothing but a nuisance
"Can't you be a little more human?"
This INTJ: "I literally hate being human, humans are weak and stupid."
As an intj, I agree
Yes, this is so true
I absolutely agree. The human mind is severely inadequate and at times feels like cage.
As an INTJ, I would say, I am already a human. I don't even know what "being a little more human" means. Unless they explain clearly themselves what that means, I'll just treat that as nonsense and they don't even know what they're trying to convince with.
Whom else that tests as INTJ looks forward to the Neuralink testing? Id surmise most INTJs view this reality as if a child-troll created it. Its a horribly planned experiment. Most likely thought up by an ENTP 😈
I’m ENTP and this exact trait infuriates my ENTJ brother to no end. ENTJs really are right pretty much all the time. But if I can pull apart one small detail and throw away a whole argument based off of that, then I am pleased with myself 😂
Finding inconsistencies in people’s arguments is so fun 🤣
my mom is an intj and messing with her like that is so fun
I AGREE! It drives my family bonkers that im always rt!!! And i always back the fact that im right up with information, so even they know im rt!
about ENTPs: to them it's fun, it's a game they're playing, intellectual gymnastical display.
me: thinking how fun it would be to tease him in any ordinary conversation.
Frank: "ENFPs joke about everything"
Me, an ENFP: isn't that a good thing?
It is. It just can be annoying to people not to be serious/authentic/calm for 2 seconds straight xD Also, it depends on the mood of the other person or of the ambience.
Not saying this to offend, though, just trying to explain why it might be felt like annoying, just in case someone is seriously wondering :0.
Much love, from an INFP :)
@@sakura5sango6 iNFP
Well on sensitive topics definitely not okay it gives me chills and psycho killer vibes
@@ADeeSHUPA yes? OwO
@@solace027 haha it's true 😶, when somebody tell me something awful like yeah, yesterday I had this huge fight with my family, i just tend to laugh 😶 and idk why, lol. I think it's just for relieve the tension, sometimes I hate it, but it's so harsh to notice it until the others people's face turn into: 😐
FJ: infps dont do things because they dont feel like it
Me, an infp: gets up and starts washing the dishes I’ve been procrastinating to do so out of spite
Love this!!
Literally
omg this😀🛐
I saw the video while I was washing the dishes hahahahahhaha
Omg lol I just did this
I felt the entire ISxJ segment on such a personal level that it feels like a friend was describing me, especially the "feelings-" "no." part. I'm pretty sure that I've heard most of these things before from the people around me. This was absolutely hilarious.
The moment when Frank said (8:26) "They won't do stuff if they don't feel like doing it" as an INFP that REALLY hit home, more than it should have...
Oh yes and the worst part is when people still criticize you for it even though we're already doing that ourselves every single day. We know we often make irrational decisions but sometimes it's just what's right for us and it makes us happier than living with the alternative.
As an INFP when you said "They won't do stuff, if they don't feel like it." I felt called out. That is me! Everytime someone ask me to do something, I'll always say I don't feel like it.
Same as me. This is the reason why I'm always grounded.
Honestly I can't even get a job and support my own life if I don't feel like it. 😂
Fr
Why I'm a serial job quitter...
That's why I always give my work after the set time
INFJs: *Seriously, I wanna be sincere. This time around, I won't get creepy or weird.*
Friend: Hey!
INFJs: *What did he mean when he breathed through his left nostril, not his right?!*
Relatable
Yes. Just...yes. 😅
-INFJ
ENFP, who the fuck thinks about nostrils?
@@user-bw9jo2iz5s joke man
@@user-bw9jo2iz5s The story of us! 😆
you can tell he doesn't just blabber about his personal experiences but instead puts a lot of thought in his videos with how each trait he dislikes connects to a certain cognitive function. keep up the good work 💪
ISTJ here. True story, my husband didn't believe me that my friends all start taking to each other when I tell a story about an event. He laughs all the time when he sees it happen now. He said he thinks they get bored because I take too long to get to the punch line of the story.
I had to really focus on keeping that concise.
my husband tells me I use too many words.
He he told us he loved us, but we got on his nerves
Hahaha a comedy skit himself
Builds us up to tear us down
Just INFJ...though the stable moral principles, an object has more than one view, right?I am just a deeper, who loves people and when I am socially tired...I hate anyone and I can see the imperfection in everybody ':)
@Snowdrop Nature yeah you can’t trust ANYONE! *crying*
He is mad, just disappointed
Bro, as an ISTP I can say for sure that we don't THINK we're always right. We just are
y'all need to stop (jk
I love you. I just had to say it you made my laugh my bro. 😎 -Entp
INTP here, we are always right
Im an ISTP and i agree
We don’t even consider second or third opinions at times cause it’s a waste of time & we have other things to do. But also, we know we’re right and nothing can change that
INFJ here. “I feel like they have this whole map to the world, and I’m just a pawn,” I died when he said that. Idk why that was so funny
As an INTP with an ISFJ best friend this is so true. I always feel like like a bad friend because I don’t buy a present for her every 3 days
I'm an infp and, yeah, when people give me advice I'll be like: okay, thank you for the advice, but I'm so not gonna do that
and I feel like people are bossing me when they try to give me advice, and I hate itttt
I'm an INFP too and this is so true. Why are there other people telling me how to live my life??
Same! I´m always like "I´m not dumb. Why do you think I´m dumb? Like I love to listen to your problems, but don´t try to solve mine."
I personally live my life for self-development and if you don't accept famous sientific proven advices from successful people (that you didnt even knew it existed bc INFP are usually not interested in these people) then I think you are not doing amazing in life my friend... unfortunately. (but you can get better) with love, INTJ hahahah......
I sincerely apologize for that. I don't want to offend anyone, just wanted to express myself. Thank you!
If someone gives me advice and it is proven and really logical then I accept it, take action, see the results and enjoy life even better. It's like an obsession of getting better and better...
It depends on the type of advice of course. I absolutely hate silly advices. Everyone does. But if its a good advice then why not? Really?
@@sun-wo9vp I take advice too but only when it will help me find peace and happiness. I personally don't care about self development. I'm focused on happiness and reducing stress. If people give me advice on how to be happier or things like that then I take their advice but most advice is about "being successful" which basically to most people just means achieving things that will gain you respect from other people
As an INTJ, I'm well aware that my own plans - detailed as they are - lack other perspectives and will inevitably have holes.
I surround myself with a variety of people I hold in high regard and trust to provide some of that input.
If you aren't getting multiple viewpoints and integrating that information in some fashion... I do think you're a little dumb.
"Be more human!" I'm going to have to respectfully decline. - An INTJ
"Can you just take your foot off the gas pedal for a second" also gonna be a respectful no from me lmao
@@piyushmeshram4761 Wtf kind of nonsense are you spewing, nutcase? >_>
Even WITH a human identity, you still wont find a meaning in life because surprise surprise... there is none, doofus. :P
Depending on the season in life I switch between ISFJ and ISTJ and your description was hilariously spot on. I am not open to new and abstract ideas but I will do everything for you to make sure you are ok, even when I am frustrated and uncomfortable with you.
My hubbs and I are both INTJs. You are 100% correct. There is a master plan. We have it figured out and working for this life and the next one. We have the transition between the lives all prepared, too.
now you're speaking my language!!!
I feel roasted. So this must be how roast beef feels like every day. - ENFP
A rare condition to be sure 😉
He really do be delica-stressin' us out here.
@@revolutionfrommahbed4246 medium rare..
As an INFP, I can attest to what FJ said...the ENFP roasts get very annoying sometimes. But at least you guys are funny and kind
Haaaaa haaaaa yeah -ENFP
As an INFP, I should be deeply offended, but I can relate to this. :D And there is an another annoying INFP-thing, that I'm frequently doing. I like to think trough different deep and controversial topics, and I often thinking loud, and I expect from my boyfriend to listen my thoughts. We like to talking about deep things, and I'm curios about his opinion. And I really hate if someone interrupts me or tries to change the topic. So today my poor bf made pancakes, and I started to talk with him, and he frequently interruped me, because he wanted to ask me about the recipe of the pancake dough. I was really annoyed, because we INFPs hate to deal with boring practical stuff, especially when we are up to some important daydreaming or philosophizing. But luckily he is and ISTJ, and he can always pull me back to the ground, and also really patient with me :D
OMG this! Definitely. Sometimes I'm daydreaming, having ideas or just making plans in my head and somebody interrupts me, I get soooo angry.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA this is so funny and cute 😂😂😂 I also hate talking when I'm busy daydreaming. 😂😂😂 It's a whole mental state / inner world.
Also im glad you have such a patient istj boyfriend sjdhshdh
Yas I can relate to it so much. Sometimes when Im so Deep in my thought, that Im nearly to vent to another univers and someone bring me to real life, I feel so strange like I just woke up from the dream and I dont even know where I am and what am I doing. Then this person ask me question... And they expect me to anwser. Seriously. I dont even know where am I and who I am and they expect me to anwser xD
As an INFP I'm legit jealous of that.
As a infj I not proudly say yes, knowing emotions makes it easy to control people
This is really, really good. You’re really a joy to listen to and watch sir.
As an INFJ I assure you I deal with people differently to the point that become someone else. Dude I can fake an accent, act dumb, or even try to be innocent just so I don’t hurt others or just to get over with the situations. It creeps me out how I act like chameleon sometimes, but it’s the only way I can survive in this world.
Eh, I even creep myself cause I don't even want myself if I m trying to menipulate or being genuine
Damn ...so me
Yea I feel like I can fit in with like any friend group by changing how I act but it doesn’t feel like I’m acting like someone I’m not. It’s just a different part of me.
@@rachelcookie321 Wow, that's such a good way of putting it. That's how I feel most if the time with people. I mean I am myself most if the time, but I may tweak how I speak or act depending on who I am around. But it's like you said, they are all little parts of me.
@@rachelcookie321 Ugh this makes me feel better, thanks
Frank: complaining abt INTP being in their own, space cadet, out of this world, no space for anyone else, and we can accidentally be kind of mean.
Me, an INTP: Yeap, that is so accurate, I'm not even offended. I wish more of my acquaintances know this and leave me be.
Agreed. I am INTP.
Even feeling flattered about it, while imagining myself raising hands above the head happily screaming 'Yeeeeeeeeeet!'.
Honestly same, I realize I've said mean things long after I've said them or when it's too late and people are already upset.
@@blissfu_lee8522 this is a typical INTP problem. I feel this so much 😔😔😔
@@pararaeraven5777 I know right? for me personally, at least, it feels bad if someone doesn't take my feelings into consideration. But it's not like I do that well either, so it's a bit hypocritical of me to want that in the first place lol.
Well, I totally agreed with you what you said because I also knew my worse side of personality too, but I can't control it. Hahaha.
Whenever I want to tell about my story in the past or just the newest event, for some reason, I feel like every detail is important, and I end up giving my friends long storytelling that is included my opinion too. Then I always feel tired because of talking too long, but I still can't make it short when I get another new chance to tell my story event again. Haaaa.... I wish I myself could be a better listener some days as well.
Oh, yeah, I can't deny something so obvious like 'This idea is too innovative or weird that I am not confident about how to make it successful, so I like to say NO first because it's the easiest and safest answer like back to basic routine, please. Well, if someone gives me solid information that is so clear and precise, I will listen.' -- ISTJ
Videos like this help me to understand every personality better that I'm starting to study every personality so clearly and as you represent each of them, I started thinking of atleast one person I know for each personalities and started labeling them like my family, my Boss, workmates, etc, with MBTI. I'm glad that I can understand them better now.
INFJ’s worst fear is being called a “fake” but we all gotta admit we do that sometimes whether it’s intentional or not 😂
It's why we're surprisingly good at customer service jobs lmao
Customer doing something I wish I could hang the fuck up on them for
Me: No no, you're fine
Customer gives me 10/10 service despite my wanting them to fuck off 😂😂😂
Lol
Well we seem "fake" because we reflect other people and know people so well. But that's simply a part of us. So it's not really being fake.
yeah, we do 😂😂😂
I chat on Discord when I play my video game and a few of the people I play with are from the South and I (a Massachusetts native INFJ) have noticed that I've started saying y'all around them. I'm not doing it to be fake. I can't seem to help it!
INFP here - Why discuss my feelings when they’re often so misunderstood and there’s nothing anyone can do to alleviate them anyway? I recognize my feelings are my problem and so I’ll do what I need to and try to process them. No need to involve someone else; unless I feel a breaking point has been reached and can no longer bear the inconsideration. I recognize some of those feelings may be silly, but they are still my feelings, I can’t help it. Patience please. 😂 As great listeners we try and understand everyone’s individual perspective, however, rarely (if ever) does that genuinely feel reciprocated.
Also as great listeners, while we take in other people’s opinions, of course we won’t inherently adhere to advice. We don’t often share the full picture of what we see, only key things. And it is often in those undisclosed details where others advice usually fails. Others can’t see the full spectrum of our plans or what we aim to achieve with the decisions we make.
Dam.
-INFP
Yes, seriously it hurts even more when someone can't understand what I'm feeling. It's tough. Sometimes I need to be alone and do my own thing so I don't have a complete meltdown.
Same here! On one hand INFP feelings can sometimes be abstract and hard to explain, and on the other hand, it really hurts when someone just dismisses them and tell me to “stop being so sensitive” or “be stronger”
It’s still kinda sad though because most INFPs have a deep desire for others to accept & love their authentic selves, but the fear of coming off as eccentric / needy really makes it hard for them to open up
@@maggiemao4813 i find it even harder to find “safe” people to open up to. Bc we are so sensitive, being vulnerable with others can be devastating to us when they respond unkindly. I end up with people telling me they can’t read me, but that’s bc I hold back so much to protect myself, and I suppose in some way them too lol.
You...you just summed everything up perfectly. 😲 INFP here.
As an ENFJ, if I don't ask you how you are doing every couple of times in a day, I feel like I am ignoring you and that is hurting me because I think you may feel like I don't care, but I really do, but I'm too afraid to ask if that seems like I'm bothering too much, so I'll consciously not ask, but also think about it at night if I should have asked and if that other person was sad that I did not ask, so then I ask, and everything is pretty same the same as it was 24 hours ago which makes me feel dumb by asking but also internally relieved to do that.
This is my favorite Frank James video ever!!! Top tier content! Always come back to it.
As an INFJ, I feel like I manipulate people by accident, only cuz I usually can pick up a person's personality within a few minutes of interacting with them
He was actually quite gentle on the INFJ and the INTJ. Imma say it then: yall INFJ think you're so damn perfect but you're probably the most unstable of all types.
@@LittleSparklingStars as an INFJ I can confirm that we already know we're unstable, how one has an inferiority complex and an inferiority complex I don't know but here we are 🤧
@@mariahill9371 i felt that on a nother lvl
@@mariahill9371 I feel like infps are very similar to infjs because I’m an infp and I relate to every infj in this comment section
I’m intj and I do this often too 😂 it’s like you catch yourself like oops didn’t mean to do that
INTP: are you even on earth bro?? 😂
Also when he said "it makes sense to me" and the head got big it was very funny 👽
he just big brained us (ISTP) and I thought that was hilarious too
Me, and ENTP with an ENFP bestie: 🧍
We literally never shut up and since nobody else matches our energy we'll just be on the phone for four hours at a time since we live in different states
Same
Me being entp my bestie being enfp
We talk for like hours and our mothers get fed up its amazing
Im ENFP and i was talking to an ENTP guy on Phone. Believe me our conversation takes from morning to night lol even we both still chatting while driving. I know we shouldnt use phone while driving, but we really chatting while driving our own cars. AT NIGHT. damm just thank goodness we both still fine >_< someone really need to be in the between while ENFP and ENTP talking to each other or else the Phone bill will be high. Now im thinking how in the world our conversations could be that long... both mbti are the most introverted extrovert and also ambivert too... oh ya what he chatted me is only about him wanting to hear me nagging him... He literally let me do that. Im so confused
As an ENFP myself... the most thing i hate about ENFPs is... in some situations we just talk to much... sometimes get a bit loud too... and in other situations.. we just like to be an introvert...
I love this video. You really take it from your own experience and perspective. You show it with vulnerability and humor. And it makes it that it doesn't feel like an attack, more like a humorous mirror.
As an isfp, you just gave the nudge to get up and now I feel like making some art, how stereotypical XD.
I am quite intrigued about how other types see us as lazy, because I have difficulty understanding my experience of laziness. I haven't felt that I am a lazy person. Rather the contrary. I do a lot of work on self-development and I can work crazy hard for anything I put my mind and heart towards, I try to put myself out of my comfort zone and try to figure out my ethics and how I see myself in relation to the world around me. This all takes a lot of energy XD. My challenge is doing /wanting to do too much. The result is that I sometimes just don't have space for some other things (mostly more repetitive maintenance stuff) and people say that I'm lazy. And then I think: well you are lazy, because you don't do this self-development or challenge yourself to get out of your comfort zone or whatever and you just blame the world around you for your (or the world's) misfortune or your negative emotions (or the world's negative attitude and behaviour). I call that lazy. xD. But seriously; from my perspective more types are as lazy, but just in other areas in there life.
I think knowing the truth and sharing it to people is actually a sign of kindness, I’m doing it to help you. -INTP
Yeah, that's why I stopped doing it to people that I don't care for.
It's not that i think i'm always right (just most of the time XD)
But i often need time to think about it to find out that i'm wrong (when i am. never happens lmao). I just can't change my mind like this, i need time, i need as informations as possible, i need an objective pov.
That's why i can stand out someone's opinion even if i'm wrong, but i'll overthink it all night long and most of the time i'll admit my mistake because i just can't bear being wrong!
Voilà :D
Question for all introverts
- Are us ENFP’s really that annoying? That exhausting to be around?
Same here I appreciate when people tell me the truth if it it’s mean or hurtful since I don’t really care and I do the same with others kinda like that cheesy golden rule “treat people the way you want to be treated” and as you can probably guess I’ve gotten in trouble countless times for saying something hurtful on accident lol -intp
@@ilikecats3860 yeah.
Some video ideas:
16 Personalities in a Fairytale / Fantasy World
16 Personalities at Graduation
16 Personalities as Villains
16 Personalities at Disneyland
I love these and am especially supportive of the 16 personalities as villains. This is needed
16 personalities as Villains: the infp (me)
Okay I can't take this anymore you feel scared I feel scared too
I would love to see all of these... especially the villain one. That would be great!
Yassss please
INTJ as villain: Two words.
James Moriarty
When you said you can’t tell if an infj is hypnotizing you or talking to you it just made me start laughing so much because I am an infj and hearing that was funny because I just try to really understand other peoples perspective and I am often told I am very empathetic and the thought of someone seeing me as trying to hypnotize them is kinda funny. Also when you said that we think of things big picture and have a map of how the world works I kinda relate to that but on a MUCH less extreme level. I think big picture but more in like a “planning my life and career” sorta way and less of a creepy understanding of knowing how the entire world works and everything about everyone… although I guess I know a lot about people and their feelings because I see things from their perspective a lot and because infjs are known to be good listeners, also sorry this is a REALLY long comment so thanks if you read the whole thing (you probably didn’t)
Aw, the thing he said about infj at this video, it flatter me, thankyou frank🤗
As an INFJ, I was more amused seeing Frank talk about his own personality type in a negative manner, and surprisingly I was not offended
What is Frank? INFJ too?
@@SK1MD Yup
im an INFJ too !! and tbh it was funny, how frank talked about his own personality type that way
Ha! I guessed his type right lol
INFJ too, made me lol for real 😅
Enfps... "they don't plan anything"
facts.
I personally am ALWAYS planing, but never doing it ~ ENFP
They're just so cute tho... We end up going along with their quirky cute caring spontaneity and it does our very SOULS good 🌟
@@punkbunnee9558 wow that just sounds so positive😂😂😂🌝
Okay it's not like I don't plan anything , I try to make a plan and follow that but I fail to follow the plan properly
@@lunanighter7289 samee
Brilliant as usual, thank you. Loving all your videos !! You are the bomb
As an infj i definitely agree about manipulation. I'll give a few examples that I do that I'm aware of. Maybe others can share too.
1. I pretend to agree with others and that I understand what they're saying just to keep them happy, relaxed, and to avoid confrontation due to disagreements
2. If there's something I want someone to try even though I know it's not their thing, but I know it would be good for them, I plan a way to get them to do it without them knowing it. Sometimes it works and the person never notices and sometimes it backfires and I get called out on it.
3. If and when i get called out on something, to avoid confrontation, I may lie and make up some excuse. Sometimes it works, and when it doesn't, I may play the victim but also reveal my true intentions behind why i did what I did and how I can't control it. Sometimes the person on the receiving end, understands and feels sorry for me and forgives me and I probably won't do it to them again or they call me out on it eqch time and I don't end up pursuing the plan I had for them.
4. Sometimes coming up with stories and lying to paint a specific image of me helps me avoid confrontation, punishment, judgement, etc. It's like a defense mechanism to hide my true self.
As someone who tries to be nice and isn't good at it, and who values honesty and has lied very few times, I appreciate your effort to be nice but this kind of thing makes me feel like I can't trust people. Being told a straight-up lie that you realize later was just the person trying to be nice (which has happened), that hurts me more than the person being honest or saying nothing. Maybe because I'm a thinker. No offense of course and thank you for sharing.
infps: they dont like taking advice
me: who feels annoying inside when someone give me advice or information that I already know but dont show it :-D
Yep🙋🏽♀️
Same here but there are times when I don't mind cuz I'm lazy but at the same time, feel kinda patronized
Me too 🤧
Yeah, it's always like: "tell me something I don't know"
omg yesss
"INFJ's come off as fake"...
Well, yeah, I guess. I myself often cannot tell if I'm being fake or not, even though I really, really want to be genuine.
This is your most insightful video