How to IRRITATE the 16 Personalities
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- What are the pet peeves of the 16 Myers-Briggs Personalities?
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I know this is 19 days later but man you be getting some sleep? I don't know if it's just me but the exhaustion is kinda obvious.
I hope you are good now
Hey FJ 😁😁
What is your MBTI? You look like you could be my fraternal twin brother...
I think I’m an INFJ but not sure does that mean I’m not?
I can attest you are incorrect about INTP. Not only would we just go "Oh", and go silent, what we rage at is willful ignorance.
Working at a (swimming) pool store, I had a colleague describe phosphates as "little pac-mans that eats away chlorine in your pool". I got stunned in horror for half a minute in front of his desk.
(At BEST phosphates are food for algae. It is inanimate. It doesn't consume chlorine. THOSE. ARE. BASIC. FACTS.)
Irritating an INTJ is easy, you surprise them with spontaneous activity that will interrupt their most cherished ritual of the day.
Just interrupting, period
Or you could just talk to them.
yeah, it's easy to get murdarized by an xNTJ
please I get so mad when this happens
Yeah, I guess my INTP ass is getting closer and closer to the INTJ side as I get older. *Starts yelling at clouds*
Surefire way to anger an INFP:
Tell them the values they seem to espouse are inauthentic or illogical. Being called illogical hurts the least of the two for me.
entp here, same.
Fr
I was talking about the nonexistent intent of suicide with a friend and they kept saying that "obviously a suicidal person wants to die"
@@hasargel so you were trynna find the deeper meaning? But your friend was like "nah there's no deeper meaning"
I'm an INFP that grew up in a family of mostly thinking types. Getting anyone to understand my point of view took a lot of work because my gut instinct is not easily explained in words. The only other feeler in the family is an ESFJ so I couldn't always rely on her to back me up T_T
As a INFP myself, one of the things that irritate me the most is when people disturb me when i'm obviously trying to be alone. Like, man, you see that i'm reading and that i'm wearring my headphones, no?!?!
IKR! it's so annoying!
My brother always interupts me when Im in my room and I'm chilling with headphones on like bro
My sister claims to be an INFJ and introverted, but proceeds to SIT DOWN it my room and talk nonstop - I'll be at my desk very obviously giving off "Please leave" energy, like "That’s great. Uh huh." And she'll just stay for an hour or two until I have to actually tell her to leave. I'll have my headphones blasting and I'll be split screening and she just doesn't get it.
And then she gets angry at me for telling her to leave. She opens my door without knocking, starts talking about random crap in my ear and then proceeds to sit on my bed or in the chair next to the window- just doesn't ask.
I love being an INFP. A lack of social battery sure does help when your entire family are extroverts 🥲🤌
I'm an INFP with INTP tendencies, and my biggest pet peeves are being rushed or being pushed. I dislike being put under pressure.
That lowkey isn't just an INTP trait it falls into INFP too. It's very disliked as an INFP especially since I have my own pace
My mom is INFP and she has always hated being rushed. She would even tell me that it makes her go slower.
I'm INTP and, as I'm getting older, and trying to manage my anxiety and emotions better, I'm realizing how much I hate being rushed as well. It gives me a lot of anxiety. But before, I wasn't in touch with my feelings. I was just taken over by Fe (you HAVE to be on time to be respectful of others, or others will hate you, etc). Now I realize I actually like to do things slowly and in my own time.
@@lishayost144 I'm the same exact, I could have written this myself, except for the part about my mom being an INFP.
It's common for INFPs to identify with INTPs, since your first function, Fi (introverted feeling) is an introverted judging function, just like INTPs' first function, Ti (introverted thinking). Many INFPs first mistype as INTPs for this reason. Edit: the reverse seems to be not as common, though. (I'm an INTJ, Enneagram type 5w6, Enneagram tritype 548.) Also, not insulting INFPs. Just explaining.
@@lishayost144 Yep same thing here. I don't even intentionally try to go slower. I just get flustered and frustrated and it kind of breaks my rhythm when people rush me so I get more...awkward. lol
I don't need anyone to irritate me into dropping projects, I'm perfectly capable of self-sabotaging my motivation by asking myself the same questions!
-INTP
Man I relate with INFJ irritations so much lol 😂 Being a doctor, I love figuring out how humans work, physiologically and mentally. But the hospital is so loud and noisy and chaotic that it's just utterly exhausting lmao
Not mentioning the work that gets in the way.
I’m an INFJ 5th grade teacher and this comment pretty much sums up the conflicting feelings I have about work
Yeah, I relate with this
Accurate.
I’m a nurse and it’s exactly the same to me. The constant bells and ringing drives me nuts.
As an INFJ one of the things that has consistently annoyed me through life is not being able to make sense of why people do the things they do (in a negative sense) and then get annoyed by the fact that there’s little I can do about it even after figuring it out.
I find accepting the fact that people can only change if they want to has been an enormous relief, and lifted any responsibility I felt off my shoulders! Of course, it's frustrating for INFJs who want harmony but also logic, to exist, but we don't live in that world. What I find incredible is finally realising some people are nasty because they enjoy making other people feel bad. I gave up warning others ages ago, because they have to find out for themselves and learn the hard lessons that way too! I don't give negative, toxic people much leeway now, two strikes and they are out, or I see them coming and avoid. That said, when I see people are honest and have generally good intentions, I tolerate their differences much better. Even though I have good intuition about people, their quirks can still surprise me, but if they are harmless, it's all good fun.
It helped me a lot to realise I could use the Door Slam when things were dire, rather than putting up because I did not want to feel judgemental or unkind, but our intuition is usually right, and we need to listen to it more. Yes, feeling sorry for people who are not worth your pity has wasted my time in the past, but once I realise they don't want to help themselves, I'm done, and won't lend my ear to constant whining about the mistakes they repeat.
@@angelatewson8202
Thank you for sharing your experience~ What you say is very relatable and I’m happy we were able to reach similar conclusions (But at the same time it is also sad we had to X’D). It certainly makes life easier being able to set boundaries where needed while at the same time accepting that people are the way they are, change if any at all can be a long process and that it is not our responsibility to make it happen. (I’m basically just repeating what you are saying now and don’t have much to add)
tl;dr I wholeheartedly agree 😂 (but it did take until about my mid-20s to get this far think)
I’m ENFP and I felt completely tortured by your description of the unexpected paperwork during a wonderful fun activity.
If I have a bad dream it is usually banal and getting caught up in trying to sort out bureaucracy.
I was just imagining getting a piece of paper and a pen and then someone tells me that, no, I cannot draw on it, but instead I have to fill in a form that's on the backside. Sigh, yeah, that's super annoying.
I gasped really loud actually when he discussed the paperwork.
Yes, as a matter of fact INFP’s do feel joy sometimes and consider yourself lucky if you see them do it (or a friend)
Yup. I'm INFP, and for some reason I tend to hide my emotions. If you see me expressing them, it means I feel ok being myself around you.
In school I used to get teased if I showed emotion so I started holding back. It took over a decade for me to start feeling comfortable enough with others to allow myself to express any sort of feeling.
As a ENFJ I sometimes pretend to agree with friends, so that there is less conflict. However I love debating. Don't ask how I do both
How?
Lol same! ENFJ and I usually diffuse moods and nod at peoples bullshit knowing damn well it’s bullshit 😂 LOVE debating if I feel moved and I always win when I decide to “go there” lmao
@@jellyfishi_ ah ok i get it now
My mom is an ENFJ and she for sure does that a lot
@@spiritualempress6691 Try not to "debate" with an XNTP, they are...VERY passionate about it
Saaammeee lloooll
As an ISTJ (though I do have a high % of ISFJ too), I can confirm that every time I explain to my mom how to do something the most efficient way and she shrugs it off as unimportant and keeps doing what she's doing, I literally start to have a frustration aneurysm
I'm ISTJ and gets really frustrated when that happens. I'm very organized and do things in the most efficient way. And when anyone messes my routine up for no reason or laziness, it really pisses me off! 😅
As an ISFJ I can confirm that what Frank said is true. Btw I definitely feel you guys..😅
As an INTJ, I literally cannot stand going to school because of my classmates. Everyone’s always interrupting the teacher or making weird noises, or asking stupid questions or being loud. There’s this guy who screams every two minutes for no reason and interrupts the teacher to ask them a question that they were already answering or answered previously. Sometimes I wish I didn’t get annoyed so easily. 😟
I got one, I'm at a work training and one of the team is egotistical to an extreme and continually interrupts the teacher/lecturer giving his opinions and his knowledge like we flew across the country to hear his dumbass opinions.. OMG I WAS SCREAMING INTERNALLY. Even the teacher was starting to show signs of telling him to stfu. There was some redemption though he ended up trying to prove the teacher wrong which backfired and an awesome comment from the teacher. "Well I guess that's why I'm the teacher and your not" almost everyone in the class laughed at him. This was a group of 20s - 40s working adults too.
I'm now a teacher in my forties and I still wish I didn't get annoyed so easily. But the upside is high efficiency and and the ability to avoid crap pretty well.
ISFJ teacher for 32 years…I guess it would just be you and me in that class because I would never put up with such nonsense! 🤣 Try to survive until graduation. Sorry for your unhappy experience.
I can't believe how classes are run since I was in school. I went to a couple of my son's high school classes and I don't see how anyone could learn anything. Kids were running around all over the room, talking to each other, playing with their stuff. Nobody was paying attention to the teacher. And this is supposed to be one of the best schools in the midwest. I think the school is fudging their stats.
as an INFJ…..yes. I yelled at my mom one time because she turned off my background noise that I can’t function without. also dad tried to open the vent in my room and I told him that if he changed it, I would never be comfortable again
LOL as soon as anyone tells my INFP husband what to do, he doesn't want to do it. So accurate.
intj marketing director here, thank you so much I am able to learn from your analysis , equips myself mentally when I deal with clients and co workers, my interpersonal skills improved too. to do marketing you don't need to be an extrovert. it really comes down to how well you understand where your client is coming from intj do not hate people. we just hate people who can't explain what they are thinking its annoying,
As an INTJ one of the things that infuriates me the most is when someone says: "I'd tell you, but you wouldn't understand"
When they are talking about rational things, of course. But if they are talking about emotions... I know my own weaknesses.
as an iNTJ myself i couldn't agree more. it annoys me so much to the point of being happy, to anger.
As an INTJ: Nope, that doesn't bother me at all. Aside from the fact that I can't think of any secret interest (I generally will tell people things, it's merely a matter of time or asking the right questions), I welcome criticism. It provides for a stimulating intellectual conversation and may lead me to a deeper appreciation of a hobby or the perfection of a plan. And if I don't find the conversation stimulating because your points are stupid or not even points, then I walk away because you're (hypothetically) an idiot and I don't care to waste any more time talking to you.
Things that actually irritate me:
1) Stupid people
2) Childish people
3) Being micromanaged, particularly when the reasons I'm being told to do things are "because I said so."
4) The moral conflict between what I'm capable of doing as an INTJ and my view of myself as an ethical and fair-minded person.
Yeah, I think that's about it.
Yes.
Yes.
Yes.
Actually that doesn’t irritate me; I’ve made my peace with it.
Well-stated. I try to be as patient as possible with stupid people, telling myself we all have those moments. But being micromanaged is intolerable, on the level of a flea infestation to me.
😂 The playful piano music for irritating the types! Very funny! This was quite educational! I'll have to try some of these out...stupid wifi!😜 Thanks, Frank!😊👍
Triggering an INTP: just barge into their personal space
My son got really strict about me knocking properly on his door when he used to live at home. He also got angry more recently (grown up now) when I stayed with him and cleaned (not rearranged), cleaned (it was a mess) his kitchen for him the first day. I just did it because I knew he had little time before Xmas (I don't love cleaning). He 'found it insulting' though we reached a truce, and later he said thanks a lot. Really, it was so he could enjoy Christmas and spend more time with his daughter and me. INTPs touchy? That is an understatement. I love him though with my INFJ heart. I understand he has to walk his path, often alone.
@@angelatewson8202 Thanks for your interesting input! I'm always interested to learn more about this type
I have an Infp friend who every now and then comes up with these big, visionary goals and dreams about things he is deeply passionated about. But doesn't seem to have any practical plan how to actually reach these goals, which I can't help but reminding him of ... I can now see how this can annoy him 😂
INFP here, it’s because their sensation(action) is their buried function. I’ve struggled with this my whole life.
"Yes INFPs do feel joy, they aren't just depression memes"
Thanks man keep going!! I actually relate to this!!
As an INTP, what does it matter if it has value for someone else? Lol
Right? Big wiff by frank on this one.
This topic would be hilarious in comedy scatches as well!! Or how the 16 types can irritate others.
Yes, when I first saw the video, I thought it was going to be one of the comedy sketches. It was a good informative video though. I'm sure these videos are easier, not having to change clothes 16 times lol!
Wouldn't it be fascinating to watch the sixteen personality types (Specially ISTPs)
1. as Princesses? 💕🩰
2. Inside a classic tale.(Imagine Istp as red riding hood or Cinderella)(An Istp Cinderella would probably ask the grandmother to burn the ballroom 😂) (it's just a joke)
3. As Greek gods and goddesses (as an INFJ, I want+don't want to be Athena)
4. Typing literary characters.(I wonder what's Beatrice's ,from Shakespeare's plays, personality type is.)
5. As world leaders/politicians, historical or otherwise- Requested by my "not" friend, personality sibling INTJ Lyra Serpentine.
(The amount of times I have commented this is unhealthy and possibly annoying to some people. I apologise if this annoyed you.)
Yes, please, I'd love to see Frank unleash his inner Princess!
the amount of times u have commented this is indeed unhealthy. please dont stop
As an ISTP female i totally approve!
Love these 😏 👏🏽
Come on, you are slowly getting more likes in every video! I’m sure that someday Frank will see it and use your ideas
I'm an ENTP and my girlfriend is an INFP and she still brings up how distraught she was when one day I went a bit far on the debate bro and crushed her dreamy ideas of the nature of death.
...still looking back on that one honestly.
I’ve been trying to figure out if I’m infp or infj for a while and this video is the one that finally did it. I have so much experience with my parents doing exactly this; continually pointing out how impractical all of my dreams are and it has crushed my spirit
Infp here, what really irritates and even puts me down is when people tell me I am ignorant or cold hearted or insensitive. I use to think about certain subjects very rational when talking about it, thaz doesn't mean I am not understanding the individual or emotional struggles people have with a certain circumstance. I always feel like I shouldn't share or talk about my thoughts. It seems I am not enough or don't know how to act or react to others or specific situations. I feel awkward and out of place and I feel not listened and it puts me into a deep dark hole every time. I don't want to feel small or awkward all the time. So I stop talking and I build up walls. It's difficult for me to connect with people again after they made me realize how awkward I am, even if it is a person I love and know they love me too. It's a bad feeling. I don't know how handle this.
12:37 i laughed at this with tears in my eyes as im supposed to be studying for my finals instead of watching youtube
As an entp I can confirm. I got so mad when my discord just broke and I have to do their validation test thing and I have to make my new email and it’s just ahhhh why tf does this system still exist.
yup, as an entp, can confirm I despise rules and bureocracy, get me paper work or just dumb rules that don't make sense and hinder a process or people abusing their authority, and I will die of frustration ♡
Oh, now that I am back on track and you mentioned puzzles, let me tell you.. Mom used to get these great variety puzzlebooks and they had some wonderful logic puzzles. I loved mostly all the puzzles, but the logic puzzles were my favorite for ever so long. I have not seen one logic puzzle, in decades, that actually gives worthwhile clues that make sense all the way through and do not rely on you making a gross assumption at a critical juncture. That drives me mad!
LMMAAAO I think my dads an ISTJ. I’m an INTJ and once he spent like 5 minutes showing me his method to “properly” wrap chicken in aluminum foil I just went “Why does it matter? As long as it’s sealed won’t it bake the same?” He got so annoyed he was speechless for a moment. Then he went “Stop nagging me and let me do it my way! Jeez!” So I think it’s confirmed 😂
Wow! I thought to myself how much fun it would be if anyone assumed I was anyone of these personalities (even my own type, INFJ) and tried to challenge me with the content Frank presented. Like intellectual and emotional swordsmanship (with non-lethal weapons, of course)! I may not hold those beliefs, but I have a plan for that!!! And I am an introvert.
Almost like debating club but where you can present both facts and emotional content!!!!
Sounds like it would be well within an extrovert's bailiwick to be challenged by these light hearted affronts! Let the games begin!
Thanks Frank!
This was fun 😂 Thank you!
as an ENFP that often gets frustrated with how convoluted the processes to some things are when literally i just wanna vibe and try and decompress, i felt this hard, lol.
for me personally, my biggest pet peeve/frustration is when people aren't considerate. and not because it inconveniences me, but because i simply cannot imagine being in their shoes and *not* moving to let someone walk past, or not giving someone space when the obviously don't want to talk, or not helping with the chores, etc. even if it's not affecting me in any way, the lack of baseline empathy of some people drives me absolutely insane
As an INFJ *i get irritated with loud noises but also enjoying listening to TEA,,,, but seriously i dont even know who i am cuz i am practically GHOST*
As an ENFP I'm not usually bothered with the entering code and plugging in device or whatever stuff it is, but it gets in my nerves when that sensory interruption takes too much time and do not get fixed.
Infj here and these are some of my personal pet peeves:
-Disharmony or arguments
-Pushy people
-Unnecessary cruelty
-Being unprepared for a situation
-Getting interrupted while I'm deep in thought
-Unfairness
-Lack of compassion for other people or animals
-Pulling cruel or hurtful pranks on people
-Making the world a worse place for everyone
-Fake people
-Feeling unproductive or lazy
Also, personal pet peeve that probably doesn't have anything to do with my type, people trying to talk to me while I'm listening to something with headphones on. This INFURIATES me because whenever this happens I'm just thinking "DUDE I'M WEARING HEADPHONES! YOU CAN SEE I'M WEARING HEADPHONES! WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO TALK TO ME?! I'M OBVIOUSLY NOT LISTENING TO YOU!" But since that sounds very rude I just pause what I'm listening to so I can wait for them to finish. It's especially annoying when I'm listening to music because I listen to music to cool myself down and drown out other stimuli in my environment. So if that gets interrupted I get really annoyed. My parents do this ALL THE TIME and I have told them to stop on several occasions AND THEY KEEP DOING IT NO MATTER HOW MUCH I EXPLAIN THIS! ;_;
Nailed this right on the head....you suggest a chain restaurant or some sort of tourist trap....I explode
something i truly hate as an INFJ is when i am doing my own thing after i had announced that to my friends, and then suddenly someone brings an unforeseen event (usually doing groceries or going out to do something for someone, meeting someone new...) that i didn't even see coming but i felt the air was tense. so my entire peace is messed up with.
I was visibly offended when you said my hiking trip was influenced by the boot ad
12:55 😂😂😂😂 didnt see that one coming 🤣🤣🤣
as an ENTP with an ISFJ mom and ISTJ dad i can confirm that endlessly asking why WILL annoy them to hell and back.
Just be an ENTP near them. ISXJs will be VERY annoyed soon enough.
As an ISFJ mom, I can confirm you are correct. What you may not know about why it irritates us is, we often think we know the answer but HATE interruption of a task we are in the middle of, or we know the answer and it is an issue we are concerned about but don’t want to make others upset about too.
I'm an INTP and I imagined when I'm in the middle of talking about interesting thing and someone looks stupid and don't care about it and breaks the vibe with saying something like that. YOU HURTED MY SOUL, I FELT IT PERSONALLY AND YOU KNOW I HATE IT! But you have big knowledge and i respect it.
Purely hypothetical examples... Right? 😁 (during a research, no MBTI types were harmed)
ENFP, yep, you're totally right
it's like heck yeah, I've already found some time to do something fun (dismisses thoughts about unfinished chores), lemme just-- WAIT WHY AIN'T YOU WORKING or MUM WHY ARE YOU CALLING ME RIGHT NOW
and the mood disappears
this is so scary
also I have an INFP friend - he's really a depression meme but also an amazing person, I couldn't do what you said to him lol
Practically all these things infuriate me 😆
also, really good lighting and set in this one. 👍
For me as an ENTP, my biggest pet peeve is rules that don't make sense. Really just about any system or structure with glaring counterproductive flaws.
ENFP here. To provide a recent example that drove me crazy, related to your irritation, were all the crazy restrictive rules put in place during Covid, especially once we got more information on the virus and already had medical protocols in place to deal with it. All the restrictions at the point were nothing more than flippant reactions surrounding the uncontrolled and misplaced fear and anxiety.
Clear examples reflecting our types I’d say, both dealing with lack of flexibility and movement but slightly different stemming from irrational logic/emotion 🙄
@@benwells2338 Yes! Totally agree. Like keeping everyone from going parks or beaches, when fresh air and exercise are necessary to keep a healthy immune system. Or incentivizing healthcare workers to quit their jobs at nursing homes where they were needed most to get better pay from unemployment,
OMG, ISTJ joy at explaining an organizational system or process and then having someone say, meh, not important--heart breaking.
As an Infp I will say that
My dreams are my wants! I don’t need a plan to have them. Yes I need them to reach those wants and dreams but in the end they are not the A to Z itself.
Dreams aren’t plans and now I’m irritated by how easily I got irritated. It’s a video of how to irritate people so why did I walk into the obvious trap that I knew would leave me in such a state? I’m dying
I'm an intj with delinquent accounts on a couple dozen different chat room websites because I kept getting accused of being delusional and over thinking my bullet point analysis of artsy movies I love. I had to find some place where people would give me a fair shake on my take. So yeah, your irritation effort was more like a knife in my belly, but dead on though.
I’m an ISFP, and sometimes what irritates me is when people act differently than what I’de like them to. Like if people do stuff that makes me uncomfortable, it really gets to me.
Although most INTJs say they are more irritated by people being emotional or doing stuff inefficiently, I've gotten used to most people disappointing me in ways I've already expected.
But no matter what state I am in, motivated or depressed, any sensory disturbance is a clincher for annoyance. That dog howling in the distance, that one person who invited me to do something spontaneous, that weird grammatical decision an author makes, that paperwork that could have been easily digitized, that home appliance that needs fixing, etc.
I find that other types don't get irritated by that stuff as often as INTJs do (ISTPs, ISTJs, and INFJs I know come close). Having to deal with such trivial matters is just... wrong.
in infp, when you said; "just do it when you want to be featured on their next poetry slam" i laugh damn hard coz its true, but i only make poetry when that anger turns into sadness and rage then they mix in my mind to create such a coded message. Mostly when I am really really mad and I can't make any poems out of it, I include that overwhelming feeling in my novel
My brother is an ESTJ who’s into finance/accounting and I’m an INTJ who’s into dungeons and dragons so this is spot on
I'm into both finance, dungeons and dragons lol, ISTJ here 😌
as an infp, I'm the one who always keeps pointing out to myself how impractical and stupid those dreams are. well i mean that's why we just imagine, that's how imagination is,🥲 like even if i get to have those little moments or experiences that i love imagining, i wouldn't really be happy with that and wouldn't enjoy them and of course i would ruin them for sure🥲, but in the end in all cases i feel shitty even if I'm enjoy my imaginations and all, it just makes me feel bad afterwards")
INTJ here. Not cool, FJ! Not.cool. I already have 3 older brothers who operate on The Older Brother Principle: figuring out what irritates their siblings and playing on it, I don't need you instructing others in how to do it. As an INTJ we don't like to be fully known, so you're on thin ice, man!
It's like FJ can see into my soul and my life.
And no, I don't play D&D, but my kids, their spouses and my husband (ISTJ) do. I do the cooking for the day long campaigns. It's been part of our family read aloud literature culture that started when the kids were little and went on until they started college. It spanned The Chronicles of Narnia to Anathem. We've been doing collaborative story telling focusing on......you called it, FJ,.....literary analysis, allegories, and symbolic thematic elements their whole lives, which makes us naturals at D&D (INTJ son-in-law is usually the Dungeon Master) and Fibble (a game invented by Ursula LeGuin that's perfect for those steeped in fantasy and Sci-Fi.)
INTJ here. When you said what our pet peeve is, I physically frowned out of irritation.
INTP: The worst thing for me is being denied information or lied to. It drives me crazy to not know things.
Watching these just proves I truely am an INTP, I still sometimes go "there's no way I am like that" when I quite clearly am.
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣I just love this video overall. “Here‘a how you can piss EVERYONE OFF”
This might help :))
1:21 - ENFP and ENTP
3:28 - ESPF and ESTP
5:08 - ESTJ and ENTJ
6:43 ESFJ and ENFJ
8:32 - INFJ and INTJ
10:17 - ISFJ and ISTJ
11:50 - ISFP and INFP
13:00 - ISTP and INTP
TYSM
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Thank you. You time stampers are a great help. 👍
Bless you!
1:21 ENFP and ENTP
Some other things that irritate me, an INFP:
- Controlling, imposing, or trampling on others
- Trolling or needlessly being a pain to people
- Narrow/rigid minds
- Sanctimoniousness
- Fakeness
- Unfairness
- Lack of humanity/compassion when dealing with people or animals
- Spreading of ignorance/misinformation
- Making the world an uglier place (visually or otherwise)
As an ISFP I 100% agree with you!
INFP, completely agree with every single one of these. ESPECIALLY the last one.
Ohmygosh YES to all of those
Yep, that covers it. Good list.
Inability to answer the question "why" when giving an order with anything other than "just because"
The other day, my ENTP boyfriend was cursing so loudly, I thought he had hurt himself. But when I went to check on him, he was having to fill out paperwork online for health insurance on a website that wasn't working correctly, and saying "Why do I have to do this?! Why can't the government just let me die in peace?!" I have never seen him so angry, lol.
I'm ENTP and I'm in my home these days in quarantine because I'm with COVID and I spent one hour yesterday and another this morning filling paperwork and trying to register in government website to send to my company the paper that say that I'm ill and I don't have to work. It's like a nightmare!!! I'm ill!!! Why the government can't send that to my company themselves!!?? I only want to rest in peace!!!! It's impossible to register in that page because they have error maintenance due to all the people that is ill trying to get the same paper 😫😫😫 Finally I called to my company and told them that it's impossible for a normal user to register due to maintenance error and that they have to ask for the government that paper 🤦♀
ENTP here... My computer has received the worst of language.....
As a INTP minor, i haven’t had to do that yet, but I can see where the frustration comes from
Lmao my ENTP bf was told to go to like 600 websites and retrieve some numbers into excel. To me this is just casual and fun, but my bf is so pissed off he was smoking 4x more cigarettes. Had me laughed for half a year while I helped him with those works.
@@harerutoast what is your type?
I'm ENTP and that job seems desperately boring as hell XD
How to annoy an INTJ:
1. Have an irrational, overly emotional outburst totally disproportionate to the situation at hand.
2. Double-down on an unsubstantiated claim, despite solid empirical evidence that it’s untrue.
3. Interrupt them when they’re deep in thought.
4. Spring *anything* -good, bad, or neutral- on them at the last minute.
5. Make annoying noises. You know, ….like breathing. 😉
just imagining these happening makes me annoyed already bahahaha
I've been annoying my intj sister my entire life and I agree with this list. I'm an infj and have had a lot of success with #1 especially.
The sound of my husband breathing bothered me, not that he WAS breathing, but the fact it was so loud that I could hear it. Stop smoking you big idiot!!!
OMG 100%
I've annoyed myself with irritating noises. And it's devastating that I have tinnitus and there's no cure for it.
Nah. I have perfected my ability to just walk away. You first have to find a way to make me responsible for you before any of those have a chance of working.
ExxJ: "Forget other people, how do YOU feel about this?"
ExxP: subject them to soullessness and mundanity
IxxJ: create chaos and instability
IxxP: try to strip them of their individuality
INTP here, I don't really care about what others think about my individuality, what REALLY annoys me, is that they try to tell me what to do, bonus if they tell me HOW to do it, and extra bonus if it is about some important decision in my life
I am actually fine with most chaos, but the EJ one definitely feels like me. Lol
10,000% on the ENFP scale!!! We ARE that child that never ever responded well to "You'll do it because that's the way it's always been done." Stand back and prepare to be ignored.
@ponpon Sometimes a thought that I could be an INFP, but after several tests and reading about cognitive functions, I'm definitely main Ti parent Ne.
✍
…”starting off with the friskiest of ponies, I’m gonna talk about what irritates the EP’s…” LOL Frank’s dialect
"... the mostest." 😉
"The coolest of cats..."
"INFPs aren't just depressions memes," made me chuckle as someone who grew up with an INFP mum and an INFP brother.
And me looking at myself in the mirror this morning, just before work, trying to smile..then goes, Urgh, I can't even give a smile to myself 😐.. Thank you, mask😷
I just read a Socionics description of the equivalent to INFP: "Their faces convey the feeling that their soul is suffering even when it is not."
I actually felt very happy when he said that cuz quite a bit makes me happy
@@honeybeemoo Yes! Most people see me as happy. I do get sad easily, but most people don't do or say things that make me sad. And when I am sad, I usually keep it to myself. I cry when I'm alone, or write sad poetry, or come up with a sad story in my head.
Infps are so cute I love thrm maybe I’m one myself
I'm an INTJ, and one way to really irritate me is to say "Because this is how it's always been" or " Because I said so. " Not giving me a real answer always makes me angry.
Exactly
YES
Oh hell yeah that is irritating 😡
When they answer me like that (after asking why) I say "so you don't know why..."
@@nishatjahan339 I agree. It makes my skin crawl when they do not give me a proper answer.
As an INFJ, I usually keep things organized and neat especially at my workplace. But when I get home, I tend to cause irritation to myself by ignoring the mess building up in my own room then one day getting infuriated when I have to sit on my desk to do some analysis/daydream/just thinking and all the little things around my PC on the desk and then realizing I did it to myself even adds up to the frustration. So I have to start cleaning and it becomes a form of therapy by the time I finish, I don’t have time to do what I planned to do in the first place. Anyone else like this?
INFJ and is me to a T. At work and in my house common areas I'm tidy, but my bedroom is a disaster. And yes, there is the added frustration I did I to myself in addition to not being able to do a little ritual I wanted to do and clean instead...like surf random crap on the internet in my coziest sweater with a cup of hot tea.
Yes!
I’m an INFJ and apparently so is Marie Kondo. When I learned about her I decluttered my whole house. (Although it wasn’t completely out of order in the first place.) My room is the one place that some things can get a little messy but it’s definitely not out of control. I have unfinished projects (pictures that need to go in albums, etc.) but they’re in neat ‘piles’.
I relate to the whole - I’m having an existential crisis because I’m not happy about this thing but I know all I have to do are ‘these things’ to fix it but I have no mental energy because I’m upset with myself for not doing it OR I’m upset that my idea of perfection is not reached 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ We wear ourselves out mentally! I think so much I often have to re-read while reading several times or rewind shows 🤦🏾♀️
You just explained my life perfectly 😅 Also I feel like it fits the INFJ characteristic of being full of contradictions. Because I’m really neat with things like school work but, my bedroom is absolute chaos
Yes! Communal areas are clean and tidy but my own rooms - meh, it's only my stuff, it doesn't matter. I know where everything is (roughly) in the chaos. Looks like we've got an INFJ Messy Bedroom Club forming!
INTP here. What irritates me the most is when someone insists that THIS way of doing something or looking at something is the ONLY way. Maybe my way won't work, but I have to come to that conclusion on my own, through searching, experimenting, comparing, analyzing and so on. Also hate any personal questions from basically anyone but my loved ones.
I relate to this, and I also don't like personal questions from family members. They can tell me all about their life, but I don't want to talk about my life. I'd rather talk about my ideas, or things I've been thinking about.
Same - INFP
That has nothing to do with INTP, not a single thing. Everyone hates it.
@@dimensionalblade2778 Nothing's exclusive to any one type. He was just sharing his biggest annoyances, and that's ok. Also, while there are a lot of things that are annoying to most people, some types will tend to be affected especially strongly by any given thing. Some types are more amenable than others to doing as they're told or accepting one established way as correct and don't have as great a need to explore and figure things out for themselves. There's some obvious relevance to INTPs here given that their Ne needs to explore and consider different perspectives and their Ti needs to reason things out independently.
Same. I also hate when someone insists that they know the right way to do things when I've already seen their way fail. I also can't stand people who think/act like they are much smarter than they are. I've been around enough thinkers in their insecure formative years to sniff it out quickly. (It also reminds me of when I was young and stupid. I don't like that.)
Frank: INFJs struggle with anxiety.
Me, an INFJ: Is it that obvious?!
Hehehe
Yep... I am the definition of a socially ANXIOUS yet sometimes blabbering dum fuk
Im an INFJ and I despise people being loud and boisterous. Talking too much also goes along with this.
Yeeeeessssss! - another INFJ
INTP here. What you described did affect me when I was younger, but not in terms of irritating me, rather it just made me sad or, when not sad, made me dismiss the other person as not able to grasp it (aka dumb). Now though, at 45 years of age, I've already introjected that what I find important and interesting isn't really for anyone else, so I myself tell me this.
However, there is one thing that still irritates: it's when I talk about something I really _know,_ and the other person dismisses the information I provided as wrong because they don't acknowledge that I know about it, then say they want to hear about it from someone who actually knows about it. This used to make me go nuts and argue bitterly. Nowadays I don't argue anymore, I just stop talking about it and, if the other person doesn't want my input, I let them deal with it on their terms. But I still do feel that pang of irritation internally when it happens. 🙂
OMG THIS!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Especially the second part. There are some people (older family members included) that I don't even bother talking around anymore because it would just piss me off. I realize it's not actually about me, that those are their own hangups.
Yes, I'm also an INTP and that irritates me. I like to solve problems and if someone dismisses my solution, esp if it's because they'd rather just complain about it, I wash my hands of them.
Yes!
@@shuris_vibranium Yes, it is their personality clashing with yours. Te Fe people tend to look more to "experts"--whatever that means.
@@lynnes1864 Same! I basically just said this exact same thing in a comment.
As an INFP, I want to add that *not* being unique is something that annoys me so much.
For example, in high school, the teacher would ask us to talk about a certain country and I would ask every student what country they chose, just to avoid repeating what they have done. I used to be so obssesive about it 😅
oh yeaaa filling commun is so frustrating !!
Same and im a isfp
*smiles in infp 4w5*
I'M ASSDFKDSNFS I gotta admit I still feel annoyed when I discover someone else is an INFP even though later we can enjoy the same things and think the same about them
Same!!!
"Kill the WiFi"
Me, an INFJ: *always saves her mobile data so she'll have lots of it in case of emergencies like this one and will just continue what she was doing before without the WiFi*
Oooooh I do that. Now I understand what Frank meant. Cause I might die (or go into a coma) if I couldn’t use my data when we lose WiFi. My focus is a precious thing. Especially with ADHD.
Omg .. I'm an INFJ and I do that too...
I do that too LOL
Being stuck in some anniversary where I know no one and the friend in question has to give attention to everyone makes me desperate inside if I have no mobile data, I even download books sometimes 🤣
A few years ago, I ripped all of my DVDs and Blu Rays to my NAS, just so I could keep streaming media whenever the internet stops working, which is maybe twice a year.
How to annoy an INTP:
1. Ask, "Can you give me a call?"
2. Say, "We should get together!"
3. Be completely illogical, especially if you think you're being logical.
4. Complaining about your same problems to me again when you won't do what I suggested a million times already.
It is nice to have others like my creations, but that is secondary to me liking it/the process (or it being useful to me).
First two just sound like you're antisocial but 3 and 4 are extremely fucken relatable.
Yea 3 and 4 are definitely where it’s at, 1 and 2 is just an antisocial thing
@@loganblack6684 Yeah 1 and 2 might just be stereotypes of introverts, but it does apply to me personally.
INTP, at least at some point, no longer expects others to "get it," and it's really their own problem. Ours is loneliness, but also people who want to interrupt our time to ourselves.
That last part tho, I feel that:”)
To irritate an ISTP you can tell them some illogical crap in a very emotional way.
Or argue with ISTP based on feeling and insisted that was 'logic'
@@atesakarn7448 you’re certified evil
Ye, hell no we're dealing with someone who refuse to get straight facts inside just bc that's brutally truth.
yes, that sounds far more logical. He was saying what bothers ISTP and I'm like, "well that doesn't bother me, just means there's more good people out there than I thought." If you wanna get under my skin, ya, arguing something completely dumb in an emotional way and I'll flip out. Like it deeply angers me when I see trees planted very close to powers lines because it makes no damn sense. TREES GROW and they're gonna hit the power lines and then you gotta shave the tree and the the tree looks silly
@@helmetmcbarinyeah, not being unique doesn’t bother me at all.
*How to irritate the 16 personalities:* Tell them their worst weaknesses.
I'd either be sad or like just agree with that.
"Yeahh you're right, but don't you worry fellow human, you can't make me think anything worse about myself than I already do....Oh wait, is that too dark?? Lol sorry!!😅😅😬😄😁😁😅"
-enfp
if you tell an intj their weakness AND you are right, they won't get annoyed
@@GeekNewz they will. They'll eventually agree but fi isn't very good at accepting people's contradictory opinions... Unless it's an obvious one of course
@@saloni.sharma as i said, they will not get angry only if you are right
@@GeekNewz I'm just adding that they initially would if it's something valuable and personal to them like FJ mentioned. They'll agree if it's right but initial response is defensive when Fi is involved.
As an INTJ something that annoys me is doing things that have no purpose or result or seeing others do such things
Same here
Like the people @ work not working. No purpose being there.
Like watching this video lol
Is that becuase youre an INTJ or are you a millenial meme and everything has to have a purpose?
EXACTLY!! Doing worthless things that have no use to me is my greatest pet peeve, followed by the fact that I have to deal with XSFXs and ENFXs at a regular basis and let me tell you, they give me instant migraines. No wonder I suffer from migraines once every week!
I (INFP) was telling my older sister (INFJ) about my dreams for the future, my job, the things I wanted to accomplish, etc. And she started telling me how stupid and unrealistic they are and how when I grow up I'm going to live in a ditch or on the street cuz of my high expectations for my future. I can't even explain how upset I was...I was screaming and crying telling her how it isn't her decision and how I want to live my life to its fullest and experience all sorts of things and have adventures...I know it is because she cares but it was like a knife to my heart 🥲
She clearly doesn't know anything about lifegoals. One is supposed to have high standards and goals. The higher they are, the higher u get. Think big in order to achieve big. Ofc one has to put in the work, but higher goals are more driving
Considering what you said, if she verbatim mostly said it the way you mentioned it, that is truly going too far and I'm saying that as an INFJ myself lmao. Like I'll also humble someone to calm down a little and focus on one step at a time, and remind them it might never happen, but at the same time I'll cheer them on if they're dead set on it because you never know unless you try. Of course, there are limits like wanting to marry some celebrity lmao, some things are really just dreams that don't influence your real life. In that regard if someone was complaining why they couldn't find their "*insert celebrity name*" and whatnot, obviously they wont find a copy of that lmao. Having good standards doesn't mean asking for god almighty. Even a perfect celeb or perfect seeming person has to have their bad sides. To this day I have not met a person in real life that doesn't have their down side. Of course, same with life goals, sometimes it's too much coming up with too many possibilities at once especially if you might change your mind later- in that case, there really is so much one can focus on at a time so if you were acting very other worldly and just hitting off possibility after possibility without regard for both your strengths/weaknesses and financial state and the steps that it would take to achieve something big from what you currently have, no doubt the INFJ might get irritated and depending on factors, their reaction might be more aggressive than necessary 😅. It essentially feels the same as being all talk and no action; INFJs are just that future oriented that when they make goals, they don't just say it, they size up the requirements.
@@MCPanda-bl3nc yeah, I understand where your coming from...but I've dreamed of doing these things all my life and have worked hard in my academics as well. I'm a good student and willing to work hard to make my dreams a reality. She just didn't believe that there would be a day that I would achieve that reality. As much as I hate thinking about real world situations. I am aware of the steps I have to take and the things I must learn to do so. Thank you so much for writing back to me. It meant a lot!🤗
@@sofiereads Yeah I get you. My sister's also an INFP but I've never had a reason to doubt her goals and such. She doesn't have super high dreams per se but she's capable of also being more than one thing and I know when it's all said and done even if someone achieves one of or their main goal, one day they may decide to go a different route and it's just how it is sometimes. Your sister might just be too overprotective or doesn't want you to experience a huge setback badly because it seems like a waste of time, but in all honesty, sometimes it's just better to get something out of your system even if it'll end badly or turn out to not be suitable for you lol. I myself have a problem with wholeheartedly believing I'm capable of much but only way to get somewhere is to try. Your sister might just also not be at a point to realize that, annoyed by the assumption that if it doesn't work out or it feels too unsure then it's a waste of time which is honestly something that can also hold me back at times and wish it didn't. Anyway good luck on your goals!
@@MCPanda-bl3nc thank you🤗🫂
Nope, that isn’t anywhere close to the most irritating for an INTJ. It’s mildly irritating, but we’re used to people not getting us so we expect people not to get that stuff either - that’s why we don’t share it with you in the first place. Besides, we enjoy the parts that don’t make sense in a play setting; it’s hilarious. Of course we’re aware of it. If we get irritated when challenged about it, it’s not because it doesn’t make sense. It’s because the person doing it is doing it to put us down and do that emotional bullying that Feelers like to do. That’s the irritating part. But, say another NT type pointing out the same things but with the aim of sharing the fun of the incongruity, we love that.
To reliably irritate any INTJ, be as bad as possible at controlling your emotions, be as unhelpfully irrational on issues - especially in a critical situation - or even better, make an issue out of nothing out of feelings that you whip up in your own mind with no justification from reality. Be so unself aware that you can’t be reasoned with.
Alternatively, entrap the INTJ in a situation where you force them to do things in stupid inefficient ways, and hover over them constantly so that they can’t rearrange things to make more sense either.
This INTJ agrees.
But feelings are real. 😋
Once I made an INTJ the most annoyed person in the world just by doing something without a plan in front of them
The cherry on top was that my planless way worked out in the end
This guy never fails to entertain
As well as teaching us brand new tricks and concepts 👍🏽
Yeah he is also so accurate
@@memecult3639 that's INFJ intellect for ya 😁
And he never entertains failure.
How to annoy INTJ: do everything in the most inefficient way possible. Will do the job every time.
And include a lot of paperwork along the way lmao
@@TeaLeafNeeka make sure that paperwork asks for repeat information constantly too
true, bureaucracy and redundancy are strongly related
Agree. I even find people speaking slowly to be irritating.
@@PaleGhost69 and doesn't use terminology consistently.
What annoys me the most as an INTJ is that FJ has not included timestamps for different 16 personality categories on this video and no one appears to have done it yet in the comment section either.
Now I have to watch through the whole video till I get to the INTJ part. Not the most efficient way!! 😉
INFJ here I did it :)
@@managerMcDonalds as an INTJ I love you for this.
@@bluwaterdragoon :)))
As INTJ what irritates me the most is micromanagement.
So true.
Yet that's what xNTJs do subconsciously
@@--thatbih If you intuitively know how things should be managed and are managing things for yourself, the last thing you want is someone to mess up your arrangements.
If by "micromanagement". you mean "babysit idiots who won't think for themselves or can't be depended on to do a job correctly without someone watching over them or refuse to do a method that literally makes their job easier because they are either lazy or incompetent...", then Yes.
As an INFJ I can confirm.
Tried and true ways to annoy an INTJ:
1) Invade their personal space
2) Waste their time
3) Small talk (or talking in their vicinity)
4) Bother them when they're having alone time
5) Breathing loudly
6) Surprising them
7) Having no emotional filter
8) Talk to them
@@shortstacks592 yeah, that's about it!
I cant even point out which annoys me the most! They're all equally annoying! 😅
The same applies to an INFJ.
the breathing is terrible
As an INFP I can confirm that I do feel joy alot, I just express it in a more reserved way. Or if I can completely trust you and we are best friends, I will be more outgoing about my emotions and interests.
Very true. Can relate here
Same here, I don’t like to talk strangers but friends yes I can talk a lot
here's time stamps from an intj y'all
rejoice ..
1:21 EPs
1:51 ENFP , ENTP
2:05 enfp
2:44 entp
3:27 ESFP , ESTP
3:48 esfp
4:19 estp
4:52 EJs
5:08 ESTJ , ENTJ
5:20 estj
6:09 entj
6:43 ESFJ , ENFJ
6:57 esfj
7:36 enfj
8:13 IJs
8:33 INFJ , INTJ
8:43 infj
9:29 intj 《no i don't play d&d》
10:16 ISFJ , ISTJ
10:31 isfj
11:00 istj 《ironically on point》
11:33 IPs
11:50 ISFP , INFP
12:04 isfp
12:32 infp
13:00 ISTP , INTP
13:13 istp
13:39 intp
finally.
INTP. I confirm everything you said, it actually annoyed me a little what you said 😅. And apart from what’s been shared from other INTPs, I want to add:
- When someone is pretending to be an expert when it’s clearly not the case.
- When someone is being dishonest specially if it’s because s/he doesn’t want to take responsibility or if I already now the truth.
- When someone cannot stick to its own principles.
- When someone uses another person or lets her/himself be used.
- When someone pretends to care about me, aka: just asking for favours and then ghosting me.
- When someone dismisses others’ opinions, likes or dislikes and tries to impose on others, specially if their “reason” is unreasonable.
The last one really annoys me, everyone has their own taste for things the only thing I can do is shared mine and listen the reasons behind others’ likes/dislikes and even though I might not agree, it’s not my life, why would I try to impose? Plus I might find something interesting to search for.
Most of the time I don’t care about these things but it really annoys me when I’m somehow involved.
If you don't find these things irritating, then their is something wrong with you!
Also when people contradict themselves... Or the rare occasion where I contradict myself. Hell I can annoy myself with that one.
As an ISTP, (I haven't reached the part where ISTPs are mentioned yet) But I can assure you, the most effective way to irritate us is asking about our feelings.
"How do you feel about [certain situation]?"
Mate, it doesn't affect you in any way (I made sure of that). Therefore, not your problem friend.
Also, what makes you think I k n o w how I feel like?
As someone who has irritated an ISTP before I agree wholeheartedly.
Yup, yup. If I had to do things based on how I feel about it, I would never get anything done. Cause I'd never know.
I’m ISTP. Discussing feelings? Ugh. Could we not?
As an INFJ, I'm thinking they aren't saying anything, so it must be really terrible.
INFJ empathetic hug mode initialized.
My Husband is an ISTP and it is definitely a way to irritate him.
When people say INxJs are manipulative, they miss out that we're just great observers and know what makes things/people tick. Frank assisting people to annoy each other is one use of that INFJ observation... 😂😂
Also, my bff is ENTP and it's so easy to annoy him anyway... Just make him follow specific steps or finish things and watch his world burn 😂
as an ENTP i absolutely hate you
@@Moon-oq7mf 😂😂😂it's fine.. I like ENTPs anyway. They're fun people.
Besides.. He annoys me equally by making me do spontaneous things etc so we're even. 😛
as an INFJ, I totally understand that infj observation. I do that to people and I do manipulate the situation but only because I hate it when everything gets awkward
@@thousandyardgavri2785 my understanding is that we work like thermostats at times as well and not just manipulators controlling the surroundings (people or objects)... Changing ourself to mingle in with the tribe to be accepted with our reasons or values.. It's weird but it makes sense to us haha..
@@saloni.sharma 20% of population are Highly Sensitive and INFJs are Highly Sensitive people. Crowds and noise overwhelm them, they like socialising sometimes but need days to recover, get overwhelm quickly. They are highly observant and thanks to extraverted feeling, quickly pick up on atmospheres. So we act as harmonisers in social groups, helping the introverted come out of their shells, calming down the extraverts, and keeping a balance and of course, avoiding conflicts (we hate them generally). It's been said many other types see this as fake or manipulative when it isn't. Our goal in life is to have harmony around us, and that is why we are called counsellors or seers (who in tribes are the medicine or wise man or woman). This is only acting out the way our cognitive functions make us like other types. We are using it to help others, not ourselves. Of course, I know I could be manipulative and be good at it if I wanted, but I hate dishonesty and it hurts to think that people think I'm fake (chameleon ability). It used to worry me too (who the hell am I??) but now I understand it. Generally, I try to be kind and helpful but also keep my own schedule and have time to myself as much as possible.
However, famous INFJs are apparently Jesus, Martin Luther King, Gandhi, Hitler, Charles Manson and more! So we do have a dark side (Darth Vader curve) and if we let ourselves go there, it can have unpleasant consequences. I hate when because it is a rare type, a lot of people want to be INFJ like it's precious, and other worldly, when like all the other types, we have our good and bad sides, and we all need to work on our shadow sides more. We have all cognitive abilities, but have four stronger ones, that of course we like to use most because it's just easier (human brains love to take the easier short cut).. So for INFJs we need to work on our extraverted intuition (i.e. having the confidence to communicate our ideas and beliefs and articulate them well, and our extraverted thinking, work on our introverted feeling (i.e. working out who we really are and what we really believe in without the distraction of other people's feelings and thoughts) and most of all, our introverted sensing so we can run our real lives better (those hated mundane and practical tasks, having a direction and vision to go with). When we strengthen these, then we can become a better and more balanced person.
I do feel with this video Frank was letting out his dark side,, with some relish!! I have found it helpful when I've got in some tight corners with friends where the situation has been quite dangerous). Anyway, it adds some dark relief. People need to be careful if they try to take down someone I really care about, otherwise outwardedly I seem very easy going so I'm told (not really true, inside I'm a seething mess of ideas and sensations).
“Yes, INFP do feel joy, they aren’t just depression memes.”
Fiiiiinallyyyyy
Actually what I think that irritates us the most is being called depression memes
As an INTP, one of my greatest pet peeves is group work - it's a lose-lose situation. Either everyone around you is as smart or smarter than you, meaning you have to consider the ideas of others, or everyone around you is less smart/incompetent, meaning you have to do extra work on their part and to tell them what to do. It's mainly team games that piss me off the most.
As an Intp myself, having smarter people around me annoys me. It's even worse when they can prove it.
If I feel tired or don't like the work we're supposed to do, I'd rather be with smart people so they can do it for me. If I really like what we're doing, then I just tell them what to do my way and if they don't do their part then I just don't do the group work either
I love being around smart people. it gives me a "feeling" of connection. past experiences provide this pattern, usually someone as smart as me has evil intentions masked by benevolence. I don't do group shtuff.
Especially if the teacher is extroverted, goodbye social battery.
@@beepboop4679 absolutely. it's like - are you going to let me work or not, sir
“Wackness, Timmy, Frisky pony, stay cool and attractive” are official words and phrases in the FJ dictionary.
"Faker Daker" too..
"You piece of shrimp 🦐" lol I love this 🤣
Coolosity, the uniquest
I've been itching to know the backstory of "my frisky ponies"😂
@@chidinmaajayi2000 lol me tooo XD
*How to irritate the 16 personalities*
*INTP* : exist
*INTJ & INFJ* 8:35 tried D&D but prefer tarot :D fun fact, Lewis Carroll (INTJ) was a mathematician but also birthed *Alice in Wonderland* ●__●
INTP here and you nailed IT. Other things that irritate/ sadden me:
- when people demand that I suddenly start respecting their superstition-based beliefs they have no logical explanation for,
- intellectual laziness in general and people who just refuse to learn basic informational hygiene "cause it's haaaard",
- people who ask for advice yet ignore it just to keep making same mistakes over and over and then whine about it more,
- when people read/ listen without understanding because they twist everything through so many emotional filters that any and all information is completely lost on them which seems to be a problem most of humanity has,
- as a result they make assumptions or jump to conclusions, get angry and now you have to defend yourself from accusations of things you never said or thought in the first place,
- folks driven by fears and weaknesses who refuse to work on these things in order to become better people "because it's haaard" or they're just so hopelessly bad at introspection that they don't see any problems.
That's probably enough, you get the idea.
Pure facts above -INTP
Yes *especially* the first one - another INTP
As an INTJ, same, especially the first one