What the 16 Personalities are like on their DARK SIDE...
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- What happens when each of the 16 Myers-Briggs Personalities gives in to their DARK SIDE?
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DESCRIPTION: In this video, we dive into the dark side of each of the 16 personalities and explore the negative or hidden aspects of each type. From the ultra-perfectionist and controlling tendencies of the ISTJ, to the manipulative and cold-blooded dark side of the INTJ, we'll cover how these negative and unhealthy versions could cause big problems not only for each type, but also the people around them. Whether you're a student of personality type theory or just curious about the darker sides of human nature, this video is for you.
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The 16 Personalities of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator are INFJ, INTJ, INFP, ISFP, INTP, ISTP, ISFJ, ISTJ, ENFP, ENTP, ESTP, ESFP, ENTJ, ESTJ, ENFJ, ESFJ
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Okay, thanks for the clarification, Frank!
what are ways for each type to navigate each other types dark side?
I should have known you were just trying to manipulate us this whole time, FJ!
@13:04 the mention of Skyrim was awesome. No worries, Frank, some of us get it. 😉
Hey man, I got a reply to a comment on this video about a giveaway on telegram. Is this really you? Thanks!
Welp it's my turn I guess:
0:34 ESTP - Recklessness
1:13 ESFP - Often does not consider the consequences
2:03 ISTJ - Control Issues
2:52 ISFJ - Catastrophizing
4:10 ESTJ - May unleash A Tirade
4:54 ENTJ - May see others as merely a means to an end
5:37 ESFJ - Friend or enemy no in-between
6:23 ENFJ - Zero tolerance for conflict inciting behavior
7:10 ISTP - Intentionally will do what they want in a way that may upset others
8:00 INTP - Believes They are smarter than everyone else around
9:10 ISFP - Obsessiveness towards something
10:22 INFP - Laser Focus on negative spirals (to almost nihilistic levels)
11:36 ENFP - Test the limits of the rules or norms in negative manners
12:42 ENTP - Questionable methods for figuring out unknowns
13:56 INTJ - Will use the architect mindset to build a future that benefits them
15:23 INFJ - Malicious Manipulator
Hope someone Liked this.
Also well done as always FJ
Yep that was a good summation, thanks 😀 and after reading it, I think my ex was actually an INFJ, not ENFJ 😜
Wow you give the dark-side types too, very useful!
I thought of doing this, and you made it perfectly. ✧\(>o
As an ENTP, I usually sum up our dark side with one word: Selfishness. When we only care about figuring out the things that interests us only for our sake which can be something important but even just out of straight up amusement disregarding anything or anyone else
@@RM-ti8nf That's easy to identify. Was she rejected from Art School? No ENFJ Yes INFJ XD
Frank: The INTP's dark side is that they feel way smarter than everyone else
Me (an INTP): Huh yes but I thought-
Frank: Now the INTPs watching this are gonna be like "hey but I thought I _am_ smarter than everyone else"
Me: WAIT HOW DID YOU KNOW-
Intj is a dark side himself. Doesn't need other side🤣🤣🤣
An infinite sphere of darkness 🤣
🤣🤣🤣 That's so me 🤣
Either pick a side or be taken out 🦾👊🏽
I think that frank James understands that an enfp (me) would write a comment quickly just hopping that frank James sees it😂😂😂
Same with entj estp and estj these are natural villains lol..
Yeah lol, these people nowadays anyways ur right 😂
As an INFP who has been through some pretty dark times I found myself utilizing my dark emotions for as much creativity as possible and I’ve created a lot of dark works
that's so creative!! i'm also gonna write smth when my dark emotions take over
Same!😢
Some of my best writing comes from the dark times. Poetry flows like a river and boy, some good stories emerge.
Damn it. I have a lot of those but I think it is not healthy for my readers to read it.
@@marianremedios5290 I’m in that same boat lol
Istp here. You’re right, and something similar happened recently, but just in my head as an idea. After being forced to interact with the (normal and not unpleasant) people i kind of wanted to troll out of spite, i remembered they are nice, normal people and that was enough to extinguish the idea. Evil fe shenanigans are unpleasant indeed.
As an INFP during the holidays it's really hard not to feel like everyone's against you, but then through the years you become self aware and realize you're the problem, which in turn is probably why everyone is against you... 😭🤬
Let's say a person A has agoraphobia, the person B never experienced this phobia. A and B both interact. B will start thinking that A's behavior is unreasonable and weird. Since phobias and mental illnesses are invisible, people are often quick to criticize those who suffer from them. Imagine there's a person who's one leg is broken. He has five friends. His friends want to race. Do you think if he'll not race with them they'll get angry on him? No. Because they can clearly see the problem, so it's easy to reason. You shouldn't just be self aware. Increase your awareness of other people too. Increase your understanding of the world. You may be the problem, but it's not your fault. And because it's not your 'fault' don't be sad. If you'll dwell on negative thoughts you'll rob yourself of the peace that is still accessible to you. If you think you are a problem, you'll become a problem. Self fulfilling prophecy. Don't take life tooooo seriously.
@@naaimanadeem9507 Or… learn to communicate better.
That is stinking thinking. Neither extreme is the truth. Reality is somewhere in the middle and much more nuanced. A good therapist can help.
I kinda suspect you might not be "the problem". Especially in a situation such as holidays - sometimes nobody is "the problem", some people are just incompatible with some other people, and should ideally not be stuck in a room together for too long, or otherwise there will be conflict and pain.
An INFP (individualistic, rebellious and introverted) during holidays (social, based on the group's traditions), where you're likely to run into at least a few of xSxJs (they are about 40% of the entire population). What could possibly go wrong? /s
Consider a more-or-less opposite scenario. An xSTJ joins a tabletop role playing game session with 4 xNFPs. Everyone is 15-60 minutes late. Everything takes forever to set up, as the process gets interrupted by random conversation topics that keep popping up. Even once "set up", the table is still a total mess. There are no plans regarding how, when and where to get food - "we'll just figure it out once everyone gets hungry". During the game, everyone just mostly wants to do either random cool things or act out highly emotional dialogue. Nobody cares about the game rules (or even has the game manual on them), and they all end up altered on the fly anyway. Sometimes, people might even handwave plot holes, because to them, it's not the exact length of a castle bridge that matters, but the underlying emotional themes. Add then the session ends 5 hours past the expected end time. The xSTJ would be driven *mad* by the chaos. They'd perhaps try to take charge, but nobody would listen to them.
So, who is "the problem" then? Some would claim what amounts to be "the odd person out is always the problem", or perhaps "the person with a personality most different from mine is always the problem", which admittedly is a pretty human way to feel, but I find such an approach to be shallow. Some personality types are rarer than others, so they will naturally be "the different one" a lot of the time, and it's just nonsensical and hurtful to alienate someone based on that (which frequently is, unfortunately, what happens). They already feel like fish out of water in those situations, no need to make it even worse.
INFP is one of such types. INFPs are also pretty sensitive, self-reflective and usually conflict-avoidant (as evident by your comment). They also tend to remember and revisit strongly emotional events from the past, and to feel guilt regarding things they used to do, even if (or, perhaps, *especially* if) they no longer do those things, and even if those things are of minimal importance. A lot of self-criticism may accumulate over time and it's easy to, at some point, just go from "everyone else is terrible" to "I'm terrible", when it's probably neither, you just naturally don't feel comfortable when out of your element.
My personal experience: I've stopped attending family holiday gatherings and I'm better off. Everyone else that wants to see me doesn't like my choice, and there were moments when I've felt guilty about that, but now I think, that perhaps they should have paid some attention when I was telling them, multiple times, every year, that I don't feel too good when they trash-talk my looks, my hobbies, everything about me basically.
@@Reu8enofleon Better communication is useful in a lot of cases, but sometimes you try and put effort into it and it doesn't really work (some people have a really hard time figuring out how to communicate and beyond a certain point it's just not worth the effort). And sometimes you do end up communicating well and it just turns out the expectations of each side are mutually exclusive.
As an INFP I’d like to formally apologize for my near constant depression and negative mood spiraling. I’m sorry if this has ever brought you down. I’m going to try and work on being a more positive person in 2023.
INFJ here, and I gotta tell you this analysis is spot on. I feel like us INFJs can be rather vindictive if someone wronged the people we care about. Correct me if I'm mistaken!
I did not expect this as an ISFP, but this is correct. Usually happens when you're at your low - physically or mentally, whenever such an obsession started, I was at some sort of low - either too scared to lose my job (without actual grounds) so I got fixated on it, or fell deeply for a hopeless guy because I was, well, thinking I was going to end up alone. So next time it starts, I'll make sure to remember your video and try to work on it, getting down to what it's cause by
OH my this made me laugh so much!! I'm an INFJ and my husband is INTP. I think I'm the only one "worthy" to understand his genius hahaha. He also knows my abilities and has a healthy respect. I am starting to think that we could be with no other personality type without a fatality lol Great video, congrats on being a dad!!
As an ENFP I can confirm. It took me a long time to see how narcissistic it was to judge what other people should be comfortable with or not. If I felt they shouldn't be uncomfortable then I would take pleasure in pushing their boundaries because I felt I was making them stronger or something
I can see I have an enfp sis who had also gone through this phase but she was building her own identity do I can understand . But what I like about you guys is as quickly as you realize something you will come to admit it and not afraid about it anymore and this is awesome ❤
I felt this as an ENFP. I still think I need to be reminded of how absolutely judgmental I am.
I've noticed with the INTJ that it not so often leads to them taking advantage of people (the INTJ usually values moral principles, at least in the abstract), but rather that they become so certain about a vision they have that they are willing to burn any bridges to die on that hill. This hill might be an unsavory political opinion, a moral principle, or a way to prepare for a future contingency, but what's common in each of these scenarios is the INTJ's oversight of what its adherence or implementation means in the short term for the people they're talking to. Think of it as INTJ being Thanos explaining to some rando why killing half the people in the universe is a good idea and then dying on that hill rather than hear the rando out on why that might be a problem rather than a solution.
This is related to the ENTP on their dark side who will happily entertain *any* idea that makes the other uncomfortable, holding no genuine commitment to any idea whatsoever. But whereas the ENTP's intuition will contort onto any political or moral position to maliciously troll people, the INTJ's intuition gets invested in one hilariously out of touch position that they'd rather be ostracised for than reconsider. On their dark side, ENTPs are nihilists whereas INTJs are zealots. Whereas the ENTP intends to hurt people, the INTJ hurts people on accident.
I'm INTJ and I agree, I've even thought like thanos so that the other half is happy 😲, but my intentions are never to hurt even if it's sometimes by accident, I regret it a lot, since I'm faithful to my principles
They don't care about morals, just what makes sense
As an infj, there was a moment when I was pretty manipulative in an online community. I ignored my irrational behavior, but one person was able to see thru me. Surprising really. Makes me wonder what type they are 🤔 They didn't expose me, but it ultimately led me to leave that community. It was unhealthy for me in many other ways, too
When you say "in THIS online community", you actually mean "in ANOTHER online community", right? Because I started wondering who you were manipulating around here.....
@coloraturaElise oh lol yeah a different app completely. Lemme edit this
@@coloraturaElise plus can we even message ppl on TH-cam? And have convos? I've never tried
@@youknowwhoiam278 we used to
It wouldn't surprise me if they were also an INFJ. Again, us INFJs are really good at reading people and can recognize behavioral patterns others might miss.
Thank you! yes I see that I’m not on the dark side of the ENTJ. I always strive to look after the best outcome of my community.
well curiosity killed the cat but satisfaction brought it back so it should be fine like what's the worst that can happen bro - ENTP
PREACH BROTHER PREACH - FELLOW ENTP
Frank you're the friend that helps us see ourselves and laugh that our bad behavior. We might not change but yeah you're right!👍🏾💚🤣
i was confused whether i'm an ENFJ or an INFJ (figured out that i'm an unhealthy ENFJ that was taught by ExTJ parents to use thinking too much), but i can clearly see that my dark side is a mix of what Frank said about ENFJ and INFJ. I do stuff that stuff as ENFJ, but i'm really manipulating A LOT. Sometimes my motives are good and i just want to protect myself or another person, sometimes it's my issues acting, and sometimes i'm doing it without realising at all, and just after i've manipulated i see what i've done. pure horror.
You can only be one or another and ENFJ/INFJ are NOTHING alike.
INFP in a black hole of emotions here. Damn Christmas! Why don’t people understand we’re supposed to love each other and have peace and harmony?!?!
I am so frustrated and upset, I might have to go running down the street hugging people like a mad man.
I might be the only one on this but I heavily relate to the INFPs dark side more despite most tests telling me that I am an INFJ.
Still, cool video tho! Very insightful and interesting!
The ESFJ part is so true!! You were right on point Frank. I'm an INFP and had a friend like that and one is abilities was being good at manipulation and they would make everything a group issue.
Can you please do the 16 personalities in an escape room?
I just went to one yesterday. As a TJ with two INFP’s and one ENFP with me it was utter disorganization. I got teased about being bossy the rest of the day.
One was just sitting in the corner acting like we had all day…at one point they were singing - another point pouting because I wasn’t actively involving them.
Another one went around working on one puzzle for 1 minute and then giving up and moving to another puzzle and giving up and just scattering sh*t everywhere.
The last person I basically turned into my minion and if she hadn’t been willing to take orders and work with me I think it would have been so much worse.
I swear, if I hadn’t been there-they wouldn’t have gotten a single thing done. Lol
Have you heard about the archetypes of seduction which are explained in the 'art of seduction, written by robert greene?
I think that associating every mbti to an archetype would be interesting.
If you want to consider the idea :)
He has great books. I also loved his detailed explanation about these archetypes.
As an INFJ, I've been aware self- aware sense I was a kid. I know I could manipulate and I think generally anyone can. I see even kids manipulate each other but I just can't stand it and won't do it even for the greater good. Being direct and honest is the way for me
Wow I’ve gone to the dark side twice, once as an INTP and once as a ISTP
Wow this is kind of accurate for me as an intp, the frustration of not being understood building up, and my esfj friend and then an infj exfriend who was manipulating her girlfriend group
I feel like Frank was relating pretty hard with the ISFP’s experience 😂
As an INTP I can agree, even if I don't like to admit it or realize it, I do end up thinking I'm smarter than other people, and being that smart I actually think is a bad thing. I end up being very lonely because of how difficult it is to explain my mind to people and to talk to people and I am very much isolated from a lot of people, and unfortunately from that and also a health issue I have, I developed Agoraphobia, which is the fear of leaving your house, and one of the unfortunate things about INTPs is we know *too* much causing some of us to become depressed and fearful of everything because we know too much about everything so we realize how dangerous things really are, and so they can develop a lot of phobias like Agoraphobia, I am unfortunately one of the INTPs like that, and another thing with knowing too much, if you already have anxiety and a lot of fears, you end up just curling into a ball and you quickly lose your sanity because you're stuck with your own mind and just your mind, which can be a very dangerous place with knowing too much because at some point, you will break, its the curse of knowledge
That's why an ENFP is a perfect match for an infp. We know just how to get an infp out of that Darkness
Very true I’m an intp and whenever I get pushed of the edge I do think I’m the smartest there
Merry Christmas, Frank!🎄🎅🏻🎁🌸
As an INFJ, I don't think he's wrong. I personally stay away from the dark side of it though, and it does come easy to spot emotions
INFP✋
I've passed that 800 horsepower a while ago...now I've jumped off the cliff & hanging in that one tree branch which caught me while falling...so all good👌 Happy holidays ✨😌
@4:53 The dark ENTJ sounds like Light Yagami/Kira and Griffiths from Death Note and Berserk.
Both are entj...real suckas, i hate them!!
As an infj when I heard what the infj does on the dark side I was like What that's exactly ME 😭😭
As an INFP who doesn’t really know too much about the 16 types, I can say that this is a little too accurate… 😅
My dark side is crippling depression and destructive self-criticism as an INTJ. I'm wishing to have the kind of dark side you described here - at least it's better than this stagnation.
INFP with bipolar, adhd, and anxiety disorder really fucking sucks. It can be amazing, but go rock bottom really fast and will last for months sometimes.
My mom is isfj and i can tell you that's super accurate
As a INTP i actually feel superior mentally to others and when i can,i will maje fun of someone who i hate
10:54 Yes, it's true. I had experience with verbal bullying and it took me about 4-5 years to get back on track.
As an INTP guy, when someone interprets or spreads misinformation, I will correct someone asap because I would hate for the individual to be stuck in a world full of lies or false information.
At some point I do give up and let them fail & crumble if they think it's true and not say a word and focus on whatever I was doing.
So yeah, pretty accurate ^^
As an INFP, my S.O. has been able to pull me out of the everything bagel by telling me I am the one that chooses my own life, that I can make it whatever I want and focus on what matters to me.
amazing video! though i'm not sure which type i actually am
and I love your hair! it's very fluffy and curly!
As an INFJ, I always knew I can manipulate people but I never use it for my personal advantage. One time I persuaded someone to help some other people.
I have realized that so many people are so underappreciated, so when they hear a genuine compliment, they start opening up. So, I give them genuine compliments and hype them up. This in return establishes me as a person they can trust and rely on.
lol INFJ made me laugh. I reserve that for the monsters of the world. Those that would hurt others and proved it without a doubt, overwhelming evidence. Then yes, once in a blue moon, I'm not nice, and ngl, I enjoy it haha
I know an INTP with a slightly different darkside.
On a related note: can someone help me figure out how to get someone to realise that a 95% test score, while not in the top 10 of an elite class, is not a failure so bad they are "absolutely worthless" don't "deserve the luxury of living" (direct quotes)? My friend has been showing... worrying behaviour over reasons like that... after every single test they write...
Edit: they refuse to admit they have self worth issues...
Edit to edit: I looked back to the test they sent me back then, they scored almost 50/50 between F and T - that might explain it...
Struggling INTJ here - I am falling into that dark side. I hope it isn't too late but at this point in my life it's about ruthlessly trying to build a better future for myself and not caring how others feel about me using them because dammit, I need them. I used to be pushed around so much that now that I have started to show resistance and stand up for myself to try and feel better and get what I need, that power and skill is going to my head and I can't seem to stop aiming for better for myself, even if it comes at the expense of others. I hate myself for this because I still have morals, but I can't seem to stop because of how desperate I am.
I guess it's just trying to break out of a cage. I tell myself I'll stop sometime when things are better for me but inside I know that things physically can't reach that state. If anything I hope one day I can calm enough to appreciate humanity a bit and stop this nearly psychopathic, cynical tirade. Hurt people hurt people, but where does the retaliation stop?
Infp is my mom 🥴 and one of my friends. Honestly they annoy me so much when they constantly counterattack my expression of emotions. I always try to be nice with them and a little gentle because I know they are comfortable with that, but they both never reciprocate anything. That's why I just stopped sharing my emotions with them, it was useless. I'm an Entj and it's already hard for me, but these Infps sometimes never understand anything.. It's like sometimes they get so self centered and forget that someone else is around them too (no offense).
Everytime I do the personality test I always end up with INFP, but I have many traits associated with INFJ. I have both dark sides.
I'm an INFJ dated an INTP. He surely did think smarter than me, but I made a way for him to question himself anf his abilities that he isn't good enough on anything and made him feel bad for being himself lol. Yeah, we broke up. We were both at our dark sides that time 😂
I (ISTP) was married to an ISFJ, our marriage broke down due to exactly this. First it was Catastrophizing me drinking Caffiine, then playing Video games even once a month, then Catastrophizing the marriage altogether. I loved her but this whole guilt trip about doing things I loved pushed me away. I did try to present evidence as an ISTP but exactly as you said she called me irresponsible, a child and immature and then left me. Much happier now!
my friends were like talking about sexuality or relationships, (i pretended i'm interested) but suddenly i started to question about them in religion and politics to create a conflict. they were also drunk, the thing was so satisfying :)
-entp
16 personalities meditating (or trying to…ENTP 😂)
16 personalities going through a break up
Further is supposed to be used for a metaphysical type distance and farther for a more physical one though they are often used interchangeably (I'm INTP).
Loved the Skyrim reference for the ENTP 🤣🤣🤣 I’m an INFJ but my brother and my boyfriend are ENTP’s and it’s honestly accurate
As INTJ, I can confirm we don't have a "dark side" we are quite literally all the time either
25% Entj + intj or just 100% entj + 100% intj. Cause really we/I don't feel anything (not in cringy emo way, like I quite literally can't feel any emotion besides actual pain or boredness.) we just think all day and relax.
ENFJ here...... Absolutely TRUE! I think im turning to the dark side more often nowadays
I personally think the dark side of ENFP that is utterly crappy is when they completely misunderstand others or make up a whole story about others people intentions, then lash on them, then get wrecked... which fuels them with even more resent and desire to cause trouble.
i see, i'm an unhealthy INFP
I was feeling down for about two years until one day while sitting in church, praying and talking to the Lord when he gently told me my answer to my problem, "you need to stop thinking about the bad moments of the past and aim for the future to help others with me helping you achieving this." And ever since then I was so excited for the future. Remember that you have Ne- (Extroverted intuition) to help you with that. 🙂
@@jimUkay i'm an atheist, i grew up in a religious family, i become depress and seek help from them(Family, Friends, Churchmates) but it doesn't really work, don't try to convert me back, i will not, i already realize what's wrong with it and i stop believing in your theology, i need a psychiatrist not a pastor that will gaslight me. I appreciate your intention but this is not for me, if it works for you, it will not work for everyone else. Thank you🙂
INFPs:
- Laser focused on negative emotions
- Neutral stuff gets perceived as negative when in a bad mood
- Feeling and Perceiving = Not changing anything
- Spirals out of control
- Imagination fuels the spiral
Sounds accurate bro
Great video, Frank!
❤️🔥just waiting for your video. 🎊
oh yeah i'm like addicted to manipulating people but at least i change them in a good way, which is still a bad thing, but less bad
As an INTP, I’d say it’s less of an ego and more of a general disappointment. I don’t think I’m smarter than everyone/know everything. It’s just there’s so many stupid people bumbling around and not taking two seconds to think before doing/saying something, that it gets old. People who think really are a rarity to bump into. It shouldn’t be, but it is. It’s just disappointing people don’t think. It makes you bitter to the point you just start challenging people verbally, hoping to God this person will prove me wrong about literally anything, you don’t care how small, and instead you just get proven right, over and over. So you just stop caring and focus on yourself instead. And every time you poke your head back in to check on humanity, you nope the hell back into isolation because they managed to somehow get worse. I’ll just focus on the people I can actually speak with and not die of an aneurysm.
Ngl I only show my dark side as an ISTJ if I absolutely have to or you're on my bad side. If there are some minor things missing that don't affect the results, I usually let it slide. If I know someone's usually very reliable and made one small mistake, I don't make a fuss about it. But oh boy... if you're always like this, you're gonna have a really bad time with me.😂
This deserves a million views.
my grandmother is ISFJ, and she shows that a lot. It's pretty annoying sometimes.
As an ENFP, I relate more to the INFJ dark side
An INFJ going “bad” would make an interesting plot twist. Like: talking somebody REALLY FREAKING EVIL into doing something reeeeeally stupid.
As an INFP-T this is accurate.
It is difficult to deal with an ISFP & ISFJ when they are on the dark side
Can you tell us more? I don't have much ISFP and ISFJ in my life.
@@vambinigreich3655
For an ISFJ, it is difficult to change their mind about something they are convinced of, even if it is wrong. I know someone who needs to have surgery, but he refuses the easy way because he heard from a “random person" that this method will cause him permanent burns.
No matter how many times we try to explain everything to him about this matter and tell him accurate information about this surgery, he is never convinced, and then he treats us as if we are trying to attack him, “He might cry too.”
Also, even when it comes to simple disagreements, if you have a different opinion about something, they will make your life miserable, they will create a problem about everything you disagree with them about.
For him, the solution is to agree with him about everything.🤕
If ISFJ in the dark side thinks he has cancer, even if the best doctors in the world tell him that he doesn't have any health problem, he will think that they are all stupid and he knows more than them😭
Unfortunately, it is easy to fool the ISFJ in the dark side, you just have to pretend that you agree with them on everything and think that they have great ideas.....etc. In this case, they will trust you easily.
They always trust the wrong person.💀
@@vambinigreich3655 For the ISFP, Frank described it well: They focus on a specific goal and keep it in mind, but they don't care about anything else.
It's like they're looking through a tunnel, they see a light at the end of that tunnel and they rush toward it, but they don't know what's surrounding that tunnel. Or what will happen when they reach the point of light!
It doesn't have to be sunlight! Maybe that's the light of a big truck heading towards them and they should be careful 🤷🏻♀️
If you live with an "ISFP on the dark side", they will refuse to help you at home and will choose a job that doesn't meet their needs, or they may not get one because they want a job that suits their personal standards even if they do not have 1$.
As a roommate, family or friend, you will have to take care of him, and when you give him advice, he becomes very hostile and thinks that you don't care about him and you are only thinking about yourself or money and that you are trying to marginalize his dreams, all this because you just asked him to study to pass the exam, or because you asked him to look for an actual job, it's not like you said something cruel or unfair 🤦🏻♀️
Unfortunately, they notice their mistakes too late, then decide to take another path, but they repeat the same mistakes 👀
As an intj this is accurate
me just realizing I've been a dark infp my whole life💀never had a chance
ENTP win arguments by poking at your most sensitive parts until your so broken that you don't even want to fight back anymore.
Oohhh, that was dark. And helpful 😊xx
Does anyone else love when FJ makes himself laugh? 😂
Me as an 8 year old INFJ asking my little sister: don't you feel like having an ice cream? Her shouting to our mom 2 sec later...
Alchemy of souls
Thanks!
thank you!
Oh, well, thats a bit to accurate….I never think I relate to intj stereotypes, yet the more I look into it the more it fits me. - Intj
7:48 my ISTP father (not dark side though) once cleaned the entire kitchen of my grandma during my grandma's (his mother in laws) birthday because he wanted to get away from the croud and thought that if he had to use that kitchen (my INFJ mother made him frequently cook for her parents) it better be clean. My grandma was thankfull that her kitchen was cleaned and considered it one of her best and thoughtfull presents while my father just wanted to get away.
I have indeed been stuck in a pit of despair for over a decade, but I don’t let people know that their joy hurts me because I try not to be an asshole lol
Infp nature or severe mental health issues? We’ll never know 😂
When you watch this and realize that you live in the dark side 0-0
As an INFP, the dark emotions is too much on point that it’s scary. I’ve been there and my parents call it a deep rabbit hole nobody can get me out of while I drag those who want to help me in with them. Of course with a lot of help, I’m doing better. But when I was dark, it was dark dark.
As a fellow INFP I can confirm.
Same
Real,no one can bring me up,literally everyone i know tried their best to help me,but i feel like I’m the one dragging their mental health down with me
I have a sister who helped me alot as she is an INFP. So she does let me in after a while, letting her alone. This makes things easier
Same here, dark of dark. (even tho I tested INFJ, I relate much more to INFP so I guess the test can be wrong and/or autism can distort the results).
INFP here: My dark spiral had me in a bleak outlook on life that lasted months. What took me out of it was an act of kindness by a complete stranger in my most desperate hours. My advice to others feeling the same way is: There is kindness in the world. Sometimes you have to be strong enough to reach out.
And I think it’s our duty as kind people to also reach out to others in need of help once we’re in a good place. :) I’m currently in a really dark place right now, and I plan on being nice and to show acts of kindness to everyone I meet as soon as I get better. I think everyone else should do the same because it will make the world a better place to live in. :)
As F types, we should always strive to make this world a better place with whatever we have and can do :)
Your best bet if your infp is to find structure and a routine that will help with your mental health , like the gym etc
as an INFJ i really didn't expect manipulation would take the cake, I've always thought it's when we use our gathered observations and data to crush someone that made us snap or angry, then i realize it's actually also a form of manipulation, in the end we really be manipulative without realizing it
When I am at my worst, I really do know that I 'm doing it, but make myself at ease momentarily for "vendetta" and self justice: in those moments, I really do care only for making it pay the major amount of demage for making me upset, knowing that I really do pay a part of it as well later, (when sober from the drunk on self justice)...and sometimes, even saying half baked lies for manipulate the situation to my advantage...but I really do try not to be in this kind of positions, when I can, I run away from them, the most I can...I don't really like this way of me being a "toxic manipulative atomic bomb"
@@michelacherchi i too hate manipulating because i know the feeling of being manipulated and i dont like to have someone feel that feeling but i notice now that we seem to consistently unconsciously manipulate and has actually became a habit to us, it doesn't necessarily have to be bad since most of the time we manipulate the situations for good like what parents do when they want their kids to behave and such or manipulate someone's feelings to uplift them, whenever we intentionally manipulate for the bad though we feel a strong sense of guilt which is why we dont often intentionally manipulate hence to us we seem like we don't manipulate that much
As an infj i can confirm i do manipulate people but mostly it's a positive type more like pushing people in the right direction and helping them to do the right thing but I'm at regret most of the time even if it does benefit them at the end of the day. I have been manipulative unintentionally in a negative way too without even realising it. It's like an uncontrollable part of myself. Like i just keep accumulating such a lot of anger and rage within myself till one day i explode and someone may get the worst of it. I didn't realise that was being manipulative and now i realise how fucked up my dark side is. with the knowledge and understanding of other people it's just too dangerous. And i know when people are manipulating me at times and it just hurts to hurt that person but then i end up manipulating them. And i admit i lie a lot at times and i don't even realise it i picture myself as an honest human being but this side of me kicks in to push people and help them or just out of a fit of rage.
@@henrysmusic5212 I think it's a twisted gift... When used for good, you can be indulgent when using it... But when in rage mode, is devastating and I even call it "corrosive"="corrosivo", it's not simply a poison, it's definitely an acid, really the worst. I really do like being onest the most part, even sometimes when I can sound so really impolite, because there's times, when you can't be onest, and simply saying things "euphemistically", like I try to, when possible...I try, really, to not be "corrosive", when enraged, but sometimes, is the world that takes the best of us at worst level, and even this, is so frustrating I can't blame myself all the times, if it happens
I live with an Infj and am enfp he is stepdad kind of not really. Probably because im a enfp i tend to notice whenever he's being subconsciously manipulative about something like he'll try to tell me about his opinion on how a certain person does things and I'll just know that it will also be a "lesson" to me on how to act. A lot of conversations I have with him even if they are casual seem to have an undertone of trying to teach me something. It's not like he's evil bad man trying to control me (but sometimes it feels that way) but more like he's trying to genuinely help me.
However I always end up thinking, "why doesn't he just tell me directly? is it because he thinks ill react differently if he's being subtle?This is more complicated than it needs to be" I mean sometimes they are direct but as a true enfp I truly don't like being controlled so it always makes things suck.
An INFP here, and yeah, I just got out of my black hole year. It felt just like that.
it's such a big difference, isnt it?
but do you still have your Ferrari 812 superfast 800+hp brain power / Imagination tho?
@@corollavirus4age Most likely! We INFPs are pretty much saddled with a Ferrari 812 superfast 800+hp imagination for life lol.
@@connor8709 Totally! I don't have a hole in my chest anymore lol
@@corollavirus4age I still have it, of course haha. But I found out that my brain can't fully process the potential worst case scenario when it's right in front of me. Picturing bad stuff cause I'm bored? Sure. Picturing my worst nightmare cause it might come true in the next hour? Nope, show me some memes, I can't think about that or I'm gonna break without no actual reason. But anything lighter than my worst nightmare can be totally imagined lol, and it is not a really scary thing.
17 year old INTJ here. I would add, based on personal experience, that when INTJ's feel incapable of creating a better future somehow, they will begin to despair. At least that's been the pattern for me. Over the course of my teenage years, I've sunk into some pretty serious depressive episodes where I've felt completely walled in by the feeling that I can never improve things enough because of the mistakes of both myself and others
I have a solution. Get therapy you intj take forward thinking to the next level, what happens if life doesn’t go as plan what happens if the world ends fricken tomorrow and then an alien does a poo on your house will u still invest in being an entrepreneur thenn
Yeah, totally relatable intj feeling.
Best thing I can say is to sometimes take a break from our dominant functions spelling doom and gloom (Ni and Te) and just step into our other introverted personal of ISFP and just enjoy the day, go for a walk, buy and drink favorite coffee. Listen to some music or watch favorite movie.... just step into the Fi-Se. It will help.
@@grazynawolska8160 music is an absolute life saver, I will say that :)
@@grazynawolska8160 this is very good advice. Stepping into Fi and Se helps you understand you're not responsible for whole world nor you have to be a change this world needs. Take care of your mental health, find your passion, create and enjoy your life. You never know how much of an impact and change you can make just by setting an example 🙂
Hey fellow INTJs. Totally relate here. Self criticism and high standards will stay with you most of your life so best is to adapt. Agree music is a healer, and self compassion is tough but helpful. Either way, you'll be just fine 🙂
I wouldn't say I'm a completely healthy INFP, but at least I don't blatantly bring down everyone else's mood. I still feel like a black hole of negativity sometimes, but I slap a pretty little bow on it in public so other people can still be happy. Or if it's so bad that I can't do that, I'll hide myself away until I'm emotionally presentable again. Definitely not healthy lol but I'm trying
Same here
Same
INFP here. I was saved from this dark spiral by love: My love for other people and seeing how painful it was for them to see me in such a bad place. Love is our superpower. 💖
As an INFP, same. In addition to loving other people, what helped me immensely was also learning to love and value myself properly. I wasn't just a useless waste of space incapable of contributing anything to the world. I had to keep trying to acknowledge that, even when my brain kept lying to me and telling me that I was a complete disappointment in everything.
Nope, there are plenty of INFPs who use love as a creepy and destructive controlling weapon. And it tens to be the sort of love that makes the INFP feel good. You goobers will cry over how many feelings you feel and then feel so many emotions because you feel so much love. Not really elegant refined adult love though.
@@sexytechreviews_ I wont deny there are definitely INFPs out there who can get pretty unhealthy and manipulative with their feelings, and I definitely understand how frustrating and toxic that behavior can be to deal with. That said, for the rest of your comment, I'm kind of wondering, were you making an attempt at provocation, or was it the tone accidental? It's fine if you don't like INFPs -- not all types are the most compatible with ours after all, and I think we do generally take longer to mature and stabilize than other types -- but I would at least encourage you to not take the unhealthiest and most troubled members of a group and paint the rest with the same broad-sweeping brush. I find that's a pretty good rule to use when looking at any group of people in general, and it keeps your mind open to new information you may not have heard of before. In any case, hope you've been having a good holiday season, and have a Happy New Year!
@@sexytechreviews_ pls have some ice cream or something because you sound bitter. Also why governments should not have the power to enforce lockdowns when other countries did not, and have the audacity to fine people for being more than 5km from their homes, influence companies to follow the same tyrannical stance and fire people for choosing to not take red/blue pill when said pills were not sufficiently tested and should any adverse affects happen take no liability for pressuring people to take the pill - it would be "oh well". I met a woman over xmas whose healthy 20 yo son, Melb Aus, dropped dead early 2022. Cardiac arrest. Had absolutely no health issues whatsoever. This is being documented all over the world too, people randomly having heart failure and dropping dead. Innocent people who did as they were ordered and took one of the pills. It's easy to take out your upset on other people, say the INFPS, (personally the ENFPs drive me crazy), but how about the people who make up the rules as they go as well as mandates? The same people who in other countries imprison conscientious objectors who want zero part in killing another person under the political farce of "security" /war which is always the result of people arguing and a refusal to make compromises in the name of peace and to prevent the deaths of the innocent. Rant over. Happy new year.
Love... Why can't it stay with me forever... I mean, I have someone who care about me, I know it, but she can't rly be as close as it used to anymore and... Ugh, it's complicated...
I just wanna hug...
Time stamps, also merry Christmas everyone!
ESTP - 0:33
ESFP - 1:14
ISTJ - 2:04
ISFJ - 2:51
ESTJ - 4:10
ENTJ - 4:55
ESFJ - 5:37
ENFJ - 6:23
ISTP - 7:10
INTP - 8:02
ISFP - 9:10
INFP - 10:23
ENFP - 11:38
ENTP - 12:44
INTJ - 13:57
INFJ - 15:25
ESFP for the second one, not ESTJ
you forgot ENTJ
Thank you.
True God mode here
Thx
Slightly off.
I came here just for the INFJ part. As an INFJ myself, I can confirm that it is so true. We can be, and are, manipulators, especially when things are not working in our favor and we are trying to get things right based on our own standards.
Yup...
Yeah sometimes unintentionally we slither our way into people's minds.
@@olivierestrada5233 So true! I try very hard to be consensual about it tho. Like, "Hey is it okay with you if I rummage around inside your brain right now? 'No' is a reasonable answer."
As a 15 year old INFJ I never really have been manipulative but I always knew I could be of I wanted to.
This helped me identify some stuff in myself surprisingly. As a somewhat stressed out INFP wanting my passion project to be perfect I've lately became rather cold to those around me. Becoming annoyed by the tiniest things and sometimes even snapping at people I care about for very trivial things. I've become so inwardly focused that I realized how detached I am from my usual patient and charismatic demeanor. Luckily I've apologized to everyone and am trying to de-stress as I'm approaching my deadline. I know it's not going to be perfect but I still want to do a good enough job.
Same. INFP here.
Yeah my darkside always appears when i'm in a bad mood, then ill start to annoy everyone just for fun
ISTP-
As an intj i just want to say that it's not a dark side that i have, it's a dark personality
Oh look a real INTJ.
+1 - intj person
INTJs are more emotional than most people
@@ttawananna I can agree, but it makes my personality darker tbh😅
As an INFP, we wallow deep in our negative emotions since we feel them on such a deep level. Since we're aware of how deep our emotions go, that is where we tend to go quiet and not be so outward with our emotions since we don't want to harm someone intentionally with out negative emotions. However, if you get caught in crossfire, you WILL know how we're feeling. It's like a dam being released. And yes Frank, we'll get creative with letting someone know how we're feeling but it's mostly restrictive to our imaginations since we don't want to harm anyone.
I’m always a little stuck in that INTP rut, where I dedicate myself to an obscure topic and no one else would get it, or rather, they don’t care at all, ha. When I get far too deep in my search for answers, I feel alone and un-relatable, so I basically self-ostracize. In this "dark side" of ours, we view all relations with people as shallow and fleeting if it doesn't somehow pertain to our interests and understandings. The thing is, I know when I'm doing this and isolating myself, yet I get comfortable because it seems like I'm "protecting myself" from the sensation of being an outcast by doing it before anyone else can. Then I lament why I have to be so weird and closed off. I'm always fighting myself lol.
Also INTP, I appreciate shallow and fleeting relations because it’s easier to escape or protect myself. Distancing yourself from people before they push you away is so relatable. I also do down-smart myself on purpose if its to protect my intellectual status. People appreciate more when you act more dumb, really what’s wrong with people.
@@kunogi09midori Can you explain what you mean by down-smart yourself to protect your intellectual status? Does it have something with you growing in an intellectual pursuit towards wisdom to accommodate people?
Sorry if you deal with a lot of jealous, selfish, insecure people who don't appreciate your gifts.
@@JohnHenrysaysHi Speaking out has the risk to make stupid comments/statements so if there’s risk, no matter how smart inside the brain if not communicated well it will instead be stupid. To prevent that from happening, either to make a safer comment/statement (like saying I don’t know even if you know or state general facts) or stay silent. But yes, also to accommodate the general surroundings. Some topics can be off putting like in my place anime has a line between normal and otaku.
@@kunogi09midori Gotcha. Really appreciate your insight. Thanks! Hope your week is going well.
im INTP too. u r not alone :))))))))) we can be mates if u wan.
As an INTP, I can agree. Especially when I've had issues with friends and family these past few months. I feel like I'm in constant competition to be better than those around me, especially in school. It has led me to be more isolated from people. I began pushing more people away. I feared having friends because of the issues and the things people have done made me isolate myself even more. I've isolated myself to work and things that appeal to me. It's a toxic mindset, and I hope to be able to make things right.
I got one of my daughters who is an INTP the game Everdell. It's so unique and detailed in the rules but very quirky that she loves it. Now she's socializing with it, getting people together to play it...and she's the gamemaster.
@bethtaylor9773 ah. That's awesome. I personally like to think of different situations and events as well as solutions. Like the world has a bunch of problems to solve. I think of strategies as if it's a game of chess. And I like to think of what if things happen differently in sets of events. I think the main way to socialise better is to find "Your people" or a community that you feel are supported and welcomed in. It can be a group of friends or anything really. Just look for people that you can connect with
Fellow INTP here, I hope things get better! I've definitely been there, and it's easy to rationalize isolating yourself, but it's usually harmful long term (still working on that one myself).
You need to lean into enfp friends. They will appreciate your genius and overlook your 'toxic' mindset 🙂👍🏻
Also a fellow INTP, I’m sort of noticing my dark side recently too. I seem to be a bit more mean recently when people approach me. It’s like “you want this? *throws the item* go get it!” then hope that person will not come back anymore.
Dark INFJ= Albus Dumbledore
Yeah..i hate this sucker!!!
he should probably be in the grey zone....right...?
I agree🧐
Gandalf the Grey zone
@@docthefaust4519 gandalf is intj and i don't know the books but in movies he was way better than dumbledore.