What are the 16 Personalities Like at their BEST?
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- What are the 16 Myers-Briggs Personality Types like when they are at their best? When they have transcended their stereotypes?
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The 16 Personalities of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator are INFJ, INTJ, INFP, ISFP, INTP, ISTP, ISFJ, ISTJ, ENFP, ENTP, ESTP, ESFP, ENTJ, ESTJ, ENFJ, ESFJ
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"INFJs can give advice about all these things they've never experienced"
-Frank James, INFJ, after giving advice to millions of people
T types would be awful therapists.
@@Whimsy3692❌
I like the fact that INFP is the most replayed part. Explains almost everything 😂
That's because ENTP's just start right before entp starts
I skipped there immediately lol
You made INFP sad 😭 (THIS IS A JOKE! Or is it?)
Because there online most of the time same with intps
intp is most replay part
I’m an INFP, and I always try to avoid conflict , and not giving my opinion when in conversations. I’m not sure if this is right , but I find it as a way to protect myself from arguments .
Lol I love arguments
@@Missmagazinebura as an INFP, I love them too, I like to test my own and other people's opinions, then I can understand them better, plus I can make my opinions more full proof
As an INFP I love to have arguments about casual stuff like "who is the best character in X serie?" , chill stuff like that but not about politics or heavy topics because those are the topics that most often turn to conflict.
I love arguments of all type as long as I know the person before me will not be offended easily over the subject. If it's personal to the person, the subject is off limits.
And yeah, if someone is spewing stuff that makes me angry and aren't receptive to real debate, I walk away.
I thought for sure the best INFP would be one who embraced their goals and work towards them instead of just dreaming. - INFP
I loved this one. As an ENFP, I love mentorship and this gave me a sense of confidence and hope. ❤
As an ESTJ, it took me awhile to learn that my commanding attitude should be used mostly in situations where things in chaos needs to be verbally/physically brought together. I usually saw patterns in my friend group, since they are usually FP types, to learn and educate myself that everyone is not like me, and that's ok.
So glad to watch your discussion on "developed" ENFPs. In the comments in another video I was slammed by an ENFP hater, when I mentioned the positive traits of my ENFP significant other. I was told that apparently as an INTP I am too naive, clueless and/or stupid to see that a flakey ENFP is going to do "inevitable betrayal" (cue Wash & the dinosaur scene in Firefly). Instead, my SO exhibits the positive traits described here by Frank: mentorship, the ability to know when to stay, creativity, and caring. He absolutely is a chaos-monkey, and he loves new things, new people and he exhibits that in a myriad of ways. He love "authentic" people and he loves learning about people. He is also as steadfast, loyal and committed as they come, with an amazing inner personal "code" that he not only can verbalize, he lives it. While all people are unique, he's a stereotypical adorkable "character" and very much marching to the beat of his own drum. He's a brilliant scientist, but has worn many "hats" over his lifetime. Our NPs positively sing together. So much fun! So much intuitive, creative discussions! His E brings my I out of my comfort zone, in a good way. His Fi speaks beautifully with my Fe. Any type can be well-formed or not. People, such as the hater on the other video, need to understand that MBTI isn't destiny or fate, it isn't one-size-fits-all, that many things contribute to how the MTBI is expressed. Both my ENFP SO and I are poster-children for our types, but we are also more than that.
Thank you so much for sharing such a lovely example of a heathy relationship and how everyone can be more than their type’s stereotype. I’m an ENFP and I have always been loyal and committed in all relationships. I’m currently dating an INFP that has been my bestie for 25 years. I would never hurt him by being flaky or worse. My late husband was an ISTJ and we were so complimentary. I worry slightly that my INFP BF and I are too similar. But your comment gives me excitement and hope that we can be a good team too.
I'm an INTJ and I have friends who are sensory type. The pros are that I learn to live, observe and enjoy the moment meanwhile the cons are... You know, you feel bad about it and you feel like you're losing yourself but when you look at the bright side of being with people you know a lot. INTJs are more likely to be reserve anyway and will become disinterested in th SEs. My advice to my fellow intj's is that get out there once in a while :)
I'm an Intj who thought he was an istj for a while so thanks for helping frank, don't let it get to your head though
When I am a developed INFP but he is an undeveloped INTP
Me getting frustrated cause he doesn't actually think things through & him getting frustrated cause I point out that without proper planning he plans to fail essentially. Then him sarcastically asking, "aren't you the feeling one?"
Anyways I have to remember boys mature slower than girls normally & he is only 17
Me too same . I don’t think , just take action or no action at all so I get stuck
Your videos rescuing me from certain bad things. Thanks pall. You're the best
Not sure about INFP. I think this type tends to avoid conflict as much as possible, even to an extent where they ghost/go along with it while hating it/are in pain, etc. So I would say an INFP at their best is one that can handle conflict in a healthy way without beating themselves up about it but also standing up for themselves and taking others feelings into consideration. Just a personal opinion 🌻
INTJ currently playing pacman for dopamine while efficiently watching you on 2x, while not eating dinner.
Just because I'm an INTP, it doesn't mean I wear glasses.
I mean, I do wear glasses, but not because I'm an INTP.
The only thing INTP's are good at :
Overthinking
Nah .... I think they are better at procrastinating ( and then overthinking about their procrastinating habits)
@@argyrous_p procrastination .... good point right there
@@argyrous_p yes if you stopped our procrastination we would be the greatest
I overthink too
groups and therapy....are so underrated !it feels childish at first but feels so flavorful and tastes so much like a professional version of my self. i can handle caring less about people not liking me. or not liking them self and that's why they don't entertain " fools" .
I pay for premium TH-cam and these ads are PREMIUM! 😂😂😂 -ENFP
Damn its so true about the unhealthy INFJ part, I always tend to not give the best advice I am believing to others cause I think it could upset them, so I rather gives a advice (good advice in a way) that they would like to follow.
ENTPs are to invent new ways of thinking about important things. Perspectives are what we provide. How to monetize this? Any advices?
Patent
You're right about the morals. Still learning to be less demanding.
ENFP at 12:32 🥰
12:32 ENFP (INFP remove myself from the situation. I'm getting good at this!)
This video is perfect, thank you, FJ 💗
*INTJ* who discovers at the *end of the workday,* the same coffee/snacks (from that *morning)* still sitting unfinished... *shocked with my own dissociative tendencies* :0
Interesting video. I hope you make a video about the opposite of this topic "what are the 16 personalities at their worst". Cuz I'm at my worst right now (INFJ) 😭
I'm trying my best, it's not much but it's honest work
you explained infp really well! thanks
Trick question. I'm always at my best
12:32 timestamp is missing
everyone panic! the video isn't perfect!
Me panicking in ISTP: Zzzz... lol
Can we just talk about how good Franks accent was, even though wasn't exactly the language of the Scotts I would say it's passable for a British
To my ears, it was a combination of about three different accents.
Mr. Frank james made my day better when he cleared my doubts about what I had of not being Enfj but now that I know my condition was Enfj after evolution I'm ignited with relief and peace now.
As an ENTP I can confirm this
As an INTJ I don't look at the next goal, I look at the string of goals that will guide my precise trajectory into a grand goal. What that grand goal is I'm not really sure 😊
As an ENTP, i've reached the agreeable charming level that i started suspecting that i'm an ESFJ but my barely there Si and my critical Ti -Te axis always debunk that idea. I personally believe that ENTPs reach their "maturity" when they stop jumping from one idea to the other in a glimpse. JUST CHOOSE ONE IDEA AND FINISH IT. God i wish it was as easy as it might seem but it's not. I get bored so easily that i can't even stick to one idea and sustain it for a week!!!! And yeah... Week is a very long period for the fxcking immature ENTP. I really wish i can stick to one thing and finish it
Frank? Why am I always last? Saving the best for last? 😂
10 mins later…my thoughts - that’s going to go over like a fart in church
Your accent was actually pretty good 😂 okay now to watch the actual main part of the video lmao
Signed, a brit
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INFP and ENFP have the same timeline in the video hehehe
A suggestion: The 16 personalities GETTING ARRESTED!
Me, an intp: Well guess i'm infp , I don't wear glasses
Thats Right, call me Mr. Charming. - ENTP
INTP's wear glasses, damn wearing the same ones
Frank James British/Scots accent is actually really pretty good.
Well, if we follow the MBTI model, then we must base our model on its origins as Carl Jung proffered, ie a healthy person has integrated their shadow and brought all function to conscious control, meaning they are no longer any of the type but a complete person, yes?
infj here 👋
The ENFP time mark is missing on the description.
Does someone know which type Frank himself is?
Me as an glassesn’t INTP: 🤡💀
🕳🏃💨
INTJ really accurate 😀
16:46 INFJ 100%🥲
isfp and infp are very similar in this one i'm really curious what differences you find bw them
Having a certain personality is basically how you are made and there are maybe some chances that you haven't yet developed a personality or have truly figured out yet.
They are like an ability and your IQ/EQ is the level of how long can you take it just like they show in fictional movies / anime. don't be discourage about not being an INTJ/ENTJ or any personality type that has been told to be the smartest of all but they are not the best of all. its just how you perceive your life goals to be and where you find your happiness in your life, a person with 200IQ can be a farmer because they love doing that according to their personality.
I wonder if you just read what i wrote, its harder for people to read long opinions and if you did you're somehow smart.
and btw i was shocked to know that sherlock holmes has the INTP personality too but i aint got 190 IQ tho :)
whats yours?
As an INFJ I would like to say, EWWWWWWWWWWWW CHANGESSSSSSSSSS
とても興味深いです。
いつも、このテーマについて考えています。
ENTJ
As an INTJ, this is so true. I sometimes do not invest myself to the fullest and just want to accomplish the goal. Also, watched this video at 1.75x speed not to waste time. True INTJ moment.
I downloaded an extension and can now watch at up to 16x speed
I watch everything at 1.5 speed. It gets to the point much faster. I'm an INTJ as well.
@@FernLake by the time you answered you must have seen it If you didnt lie in your first response, so no, you didnt 1uped him.
@@FernLake as a INTP , your wise words have inspired me to just skip to the INTP part like a true heathen not wanting to waste time.
@@FernLake i have an extension that allows me to watch at 3x speed, so i 1up you
(as an intj)
As INFJ, I totally Agree, I thought it’s social anxiety, but it’s just me being unhealthy. But I am getting healthier sloooowly 💪
Frank James is at his best.
😁 You said it, brother!
Yeah me too. I always just chucked it up to social anxiety. Damn
Wait, isn't social anxiety itself is the unhealthiness?
@@luigimatthew6614 Every person is born unhealthy, and by good parenting you should become healthy. Does that mean every INFJ is born with social anxiety? I dont think so. You can get social anxiety as unhealthy INFJ of course, but it’s just side effect of unhealthiness.
as INFP, it would ideal for me to be surrounded with people who have different values and principles without the pressure of conforming to theirs and also them expecting them to conform to mine. Instead, I hope to be in community with others, appreciating each other's differences, and being able establish healthy relationships with others while staying true to myself.
I am an INFJ and I feel the same.
Im an INFP aswell and all i want is for people to be nice to eachother (aka the opposite of twitter) and i also want to be true to myself i was going to say another thing but i forgor
Oh and i also want to avoid arguments as much as possible
@@NoSkill_fr Dude, same! People just need to be nicer. I never liked watching people insult each other for fun, let alone doing it out of actual anger
@@ethanielm03 It’s nice to know someone found me relatable I guess lol anyways have a good day
12:33 ENFP’s as mentors! And sticking with a good opportunity! Totally! Nothing feels better than helping someone develop their creativity! 😁 Thanks Frank! ❤
Probably why I choose to be a psychologist haha
Therapy could be a form of mentoring, or the opposite.
I can’t be a therapist . I failed psychology and socialogy
Thank you for adding this timestamp. I guess James forgot to add it to the video.
@@nassipnapso420 Yes! Somewhere in a parallel universe I’m a psychologist too. And a National Park ranger. And a teacher. And a world traveler living abroad. And a . . . . 🤣
Yep!
INTPs at their best, wear their lenses and even remember to take them off before they sleep. 😎
(INTPs at their worst - or simply without sufficient amounts of caffeine - look for their glasses while wearing them 🤓)
Ok... I might be an intp after all😆
An ENTP at his best can, no matter his current level of boredom, walk by a self-destructive choice to sow chaos and not get tempted. I am not there yet. There has yet to be a new fire alarm that I walk by without studying how to use it... and it is not because I deeply care about always practicing good fire safety. I am the same guy who sometimes feels the urge to toss the fire extinguisher through the glass table below. I will not do it... but sometimes... you kinda want to.
@@HerKnightable An INTP on the other hand, would probably think of using the fire extinguisher on a person while saying: "Your stupidity is on fire.Let's put that out."😈
@@argyrous_p I mean, let's be fair. My favorite quote from an ENTP to an INTP is as followed- "We're just alike... you and I... except your boring." The difference between our types is not nearly that huge.
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This was actually really true for me as an INFJ, because my friends always wonder how I can give so good advice without ever being in the kind of situations their in, like relationships for example. And I do give advice to myself too, but following it is a different part😅 still have to learn in that.
You should be a therapist
@@Missmagazinebura otherwise I could, but since I feel others feelings so strongly I couldn’t take it and I would be really drained mentally. Now already hearing some of my friends situations hurts me so deeply. I definitely want to help others, but that would be too painful for me.
it's weird, how we empathize with the situation, taking to me what the person is feeling. And I can't say that to anyone because it would seem presumptuous of me, but I feel the anger, sadness or joy as if it were my own.
For example, a friend lost her daughter, I have never lost a son or met someone who has, but based on what I know of her, I was able to help with advice and words of comfort. On the other hand, that ended with me too, the pain of seeing her sad was such that it hit me in a way that was difficult to deal with.
Yes, following through is the hard part. "I often give myself very good advice, but I very rarely follow it"- Alice in Wonderland.
ENFP here and one more strength is that we can be a big part of the glue that holds a workplace/ family together!
Whenever I’m not at work all I hear about is problems, fights, disagreements, etc. people come and complain to me about others all the time and it gets frustrating!
I’m not perfect for sure but I know how to pull off a days work PEACEFULLY:❤
Well, your ENFP power teaches you to seize things one by one while ours (INFJ) tells us to plan, to use our precious energy for priorities and reload when things get too much. I hug you.
Yes! I’m an ENFP too and I often feel like the glue in my family. It can be hard sometimes to hold people together, but it’s an important job. I know that if I wasn’t in the picture my family would be in a very volatile and toxic place. Good and healthy communication is key and it usually falls on me to instigate that. What would the world do without us?😂
@@flutterwinkle yes it’s hard to hold people together!
They either respect you or take out all their frustrations on you.
I have one side that I swear is all ESTJ and they are so difficult to work with!
@@omomo202 My sister is an ESTJ😂 We’re actually really close and similar in some ways, but yeah when she’s in full blown Te mode, I don’t know how to handle her. She can be very blunt too, which can hurt people’s feelings. I have to extinguish a lot of her fires🔥
Agree! The healthy ENFP is good to talk to about personal problems :) I called my ENFP friend the other day, because I needed to talk about a problem regarding my ENFJ friend. The ENFP was very open-minded and non-judgemental, while still being logical about the situation / INFP
As an INTJ, i seem to notice i waste way too much time on planning and i find myself not even knowing why im putting so much work into something other than the fact that i'll reach my 'goal' so this was painfully accurate
absolutely true, TvT
as an intp it's so hard to explain my thoughts or ideas to others
Fellow Intp here and its the same for me. Also that Scaramouche pfp is cool
Its like people expect you to open up immetiadly
Don't worry intp, as a developed entp i have adapted the ability to understand your abstract and unusual way of thinking.
Use pictures
@@Missmagazinebura Actually, that’s true … I’m become a PowerPoint master for exactly that reason. I use visuals (and data) to help me tell the story.
As an INTJ whose been outwardly successful but have been stuck in an internal struggle of what I really want to do with my life and what I truly want to pursue, I actually got tears in my eyes watching this. My health has been deteriorating lately because of the goals I’ve been working towards but have no love for, so I feel lost. And I find it hard to accept because there’s the stereotype that INTJs have their lives planned 10 years ahead, and actually I do have a 10 year plan, but I’ve never been convinced whether I want to follow it, but at the same time I don’t want to throw everything up until now away, and I don’t know what else I would do either. I don’t even know what things I’m passionate about if I’m honest.
You are not alone. INTJ-T here, under regular psychotherapy sessions. I have 3 Master's degrees, one almost completed Ph.D. degree, Switched jobs twice, in my 30s, I have no idea what I am doing with my life!
You have to find something in your life that will keep your focus from the ugly truth. In my opinion, life has no special meaning, but I don't have to constantly think about it. I would rather focus on family, friends and hobbies that will distract me.
@@manuelmrsic742 Yeah, I play badminton on Saturdays for 2 hours. I stay in the present only when I am playing, otherwise, I am always in the future planning.
@@afrinakhanam4696 Thank you that was comforting to hear. I'm sure I'll figure something on the way after all 😊
@@manuelmrsic742 Thank you you're right! I think I need to focus more on the present and simply enjoy and value the company of those around me.
It reminds of that time not so long ago when my ENTP friend nearly cried because he wanted every day to be different yet all his days are the same. [and it wasn't too easy to convince him that instead of making "every day different" he should just build a more joyfull routine]
As an ENTP, it can feel irrationally irritating to simply repeat myself once in a conversation after someone doesn't hear what I said. However, when I have to repeat myself because someone doesn't _understand_ what I said, then it's much more intellectually challenging and therefore more engaging and less frustrating.
My partner recently asked me why that was. I'd honestly never thought about it, but I realized that it had a lot of relevance for how I live my life day to day. Whether I'm repeating my point in a conversation or I'm repeating my tasks in a day, how I do something is often more important than what I'm doing. If I say the same thing multiple times, but experiment with different framing, phrasing, framing, tone, body language, etc., it can even be fun. If I do the same thing for multiple days, but experiment with different techniques, collaborators, timing, etc., it can be similarly fun.
So, if your friend is like me, maybe he can make every day different by doing the same things in different ways. This might sound strange, but personally even a really good daily routine filled with things I love will eventually grow stale and feel oppressive. Variety is absolutely critical, even if it's just variety in how I'm working out or how I'm commuting to work.
I have to make chores intense. Like inviting someone over so I know have this amount time to clean the whole house or it is just not interesting.
ENTP…I drive a different way to work each day
What are we like at our best?
We have superpowers, basically. Galaxy brain stuff.
-an INTP with glasses
but without glasses ? - INTP without glasses
@@Soviet_Cat1729 whether or not you have glasses doesn't matter. LOL. It's just the stereotype Frank used as an example. I wear glasses, and am an INTP, so it just tweaked my funny bone to call myself an INTP with glasses.
I'm an INTP without glasses!
@@priyanzhu I am an INTP with and without glasses 🧐
@@argyrous_p INTP crew here lmao
As an INTP, important also is competing your ideas and bringing them to fruition. There's not a whole lot of need to explain a thing if the thing is done. Similarly, external experiences are your lifeblood, so get out there and try new things. It's easy more important than you'd think.
Hey fellow intp, one question, how do I deal with this problem called “procrastination”?
@@thedoomdragon2895if you deal with that problem then you become INTJ so you cant really-INTP
What's everybody's top example of the 16 Personalties at their best? Thanks Coach Frank for the inspiration to be our best selves! You're the top Inspirational INFJ for being an anchor for those of us swimming up stream. Stay cool and attractive, Sports fans!
My lords and fair ladies, who doth you picketh to lead your Frisky Pony Kingdom?
ESTP:
ESFP:
ISTJ:
ISFJ:
ESTJ:
ENTJ:
ISTP:
INTP:
ESFJ:
ENFJ:
ISFP:
INFP:
ENTP:
ENFP:
INTJ:
INFJ: Lord lord Frank James
@@JohnHenrysaysHi As an anarcho-syndicalist I pick everyone
@@g.i.r.l. Is he your ENTP pick? No, but just because of time! I liked his "How to Get Everyone to Like You" song, and his videos with Frank James. Do you have recommendations?
Sorry, it took me so long to get back! I was excited for what people think!
@@louisejoel Woah. So you're picky while not being picky?
@@JohnHenrysaysHi th-cam.com/video/R686uRAzwIk/w-d-xo.html
I'm an INFJ and this is very accurate. I work hard to establish and accomplish dreams (I've been after one thing for years that I'm praying about accomplishing because I can't explain how much it hurts...long story) and I can even give others advice on trying to accomplish their own dreams. I'm a very empathetic person and can give advice on things I don't have firsthand experience on.
Love that commercial, and I want to be Lord Lady Stephanie!🤣 I really like this video. Very cool to get the picture of what we are at our best. I hung my head in a little shame at INFJ, because yes, I don't always take my own advice.🙈 Leaving now, to work on that. Thanks, Frank.☺️
As an INTJ, I couldn’t agree more with this. Back in college I didn’t even bother showing up for graduation ; i just went to school, got my diploma then moved to the other side of the country for no good reason. Now I’m a few months away from finishing med school and I’m already looking to my plans ahead. Not really too excited about the prospect of graduation still, unlike my peers; I just want to get the diploma then move on to the next big thing. It’s hard to slow down sometimes to just enjoy the fruits of our labor. It’s a chore to have to exist in the moment, but I find it is a good exercise for long-term effectivity.
Your comment makes me realize why graduation days just feel like another day, aside that it's the time to party (not necessarily a day to relish in the moment after years of hardwork). But if I had the chance to choose how I'd celebrate my graduation days, it'll be most likely just be with my family and a few close friends that have been part of the journey. Oh, and not needing to go out to get a toga and all those photoshoots and prepping for the program and stuff. Saves more time and money.
Same! I just graduated and I've chosen the option of picking up my diploma from my uni's office instead of going through the whole ceremony stuff. I've already moved on both mentally and physically.
INTJ here as well.
My graduation ceremony was nearly half a year after I actually finished, and I moved on completely. But my mother wanted to go, so I did - and to my surprise and although I barely recognized anyone (I did another year, so most of my peers finished a year before, also covid happened so didn't meet many new people from the year I finished with), it was great. Long but it felt good, like giving myself a big "well done" applause. So I still recommend it :) go with someone who cares, and in the worst case - it's just some hours doing something you may never do again.
LOL! I can relate. INTJ-T here. When I got a scholarship to do my Master's degree abroad, everyone else was happy, throwing a party. I was calculating if the scholarship money is enough to pay my living costs abroad! 😆
Yes a daily chore to mark which surprisingly takes up the whole day
1:53 - estp
2:35 - esfp
3:34 - istj
4:23 - isfj
5:03 - estj
5:59 - entj
6:55 - esfj
7:45 - enfj
8:52 - istp
9:30 - intp
10:29 - isfp
11:28 - infp
12:32 - enfp
13:21 - entp
14:18 - intj
16:00 - infj
This can already be found in the description. Please check there first before wasting your valuable time on a task, that while useful, has already been done.
@@connorfries8297 thanks 4 letting me know!!
@@connorfries8297 in fact, he mist the ENFP time… so this comment isn’t useless
@@connorfries8297 he did well, I couldn't find ENFP and go to comment section right away. He's the hero you don't deserve but the Hero ENFP need!
Is it just me or do I see often that multiple channels missing the Enfp in their tag list 👁️👄👁️
I'm an INFP and I've always had an issue with confrontation, and I've always avoided conflict like the plague. I've recently come to the realization that I have gotten so accustomed to lying about what I believe or think just to appease the other person and make them think that I agree with them. I do not think that my best self is the person I've let myself develop into. I think there is a balance when it comes to discussing beliefs, thoughts, opinions, and values. So no, I don't believe that removing yourself from the situation is an INFP at their best. Obviously, you need to be respectful of other people's beliefs and understand that other people think differently than you and that what they think or believe isn't bad, but it's better to not be so agreeable. It is not worth the distress that comes from a dissonance between what you say to other people and what you truly think and feel.
I agree, my problem is that I have not developed the skills to express myself verbally because of my isolation and this has led to many discussions where I state my opinion without being able to support it with well versed arguments.
My ESTP bf is like a problem-solving machine. He always has a practical response to my problems. I appreciate that but, at the same time, I'd like him to be less harsh and more sensitive with his words...
Great video, Frank! I love that you brought this up; not many people talk about how amazing healthy MBTI are. Fully developed MBTI gives me so much joy.
I do have a few things to add: I have an ISTP dad and an ESTJ aunt, and there's way more development in them than just gaining control over their dominant function. ISTPs start to care more about what makes others happy and actively enjoy communicating with people and finding things in common to talk about, and they are very patient and calm even while dealing with emotions. My ESTJ aunt has developed inner values that she strongly stands by and while those values may come off as imposition when she tries to suggest them (because of her slight inability to communicate them properly because of her Te) it's still obvious that she is just sharing what she thinks is right and may make life easier for another person. They're also really goofy around loved ones and take management errors more patiently.
INFPs as well, I think---solely out of personal experience---that they avoid being too hard on themselves and try to enjoy the moment so they can store it as a meaningful memory. I think I'm participating more than life than simply being a wallflower and trying to exist in an outer world, and try to actually solve problems for my loved ones while understanding their feelings. This might just be a personal thing but I'm taking bluntness and criticism a lot better and there's a zest for doing better and fixing problems rather than chasing for an arbitrary level of perfection, and it's way easier to exist and really invest in real life now.
INFP here, and what you say about perfectionism really hits home. Just today, I was talking with my mom, and she told me that I'm way too hard on myself, something that I have a very hard time not doing... I can only hope that as I gain more life experience I can learn to accept myself for who I am, instead of striving for some abstract manifestation of my ideals then berating myself for not being up to par. Meanwhile, I guess one day at a time? 😅
I'm glad to know I'm becoming a much better ENFP than I used to be.
Makes a video about personalities at their best... still ends up criticizing most personalities... oh, Frank...
The doodoo jokes get me EVERY TIME! -ENFP
That dopamine hit is what i sometimes crave for in Ni-Fi loop where am missing any objective progress. Figuring out goals and providing reasons, adding meaning to process and enjoying journey, helps in acheiving goals and being satisfied/content ~ INTJ
Often I feel that when I loop in the ni-fi using Te helps me stop looping, but maybe the true solution is satisfying that fi. -INTJ
@@Oldladies_o7 Yes, I would actually advocate to satisfy that Fi while using Te to get out of the loop. Finding something productive that's about the thing that's close to our heart and passions and values just causes us to just will ourselves despite the struggles.
INFP here, it's my first comment. Hi Frank 😄
Enfp here, is this the joke that Enfps can't be healthy? 😭
Classic INFP, we tend to take things too personally sometimes. Over the years I've learned to shrug off minor criticisms. I understand that's probably one of the harder things for an INFP to do, but you'll be much better off once you develop that tolerance.
INFP's can be very difficult. As INTP it's not hard to understand their feelings, BUT since they're so sensitive, they are really defensive and this will not work in a relationship where you have to communicate and be open to keep the relationship going. I feel like it's like a sinking ship with INFP, the way is only down since they hide so much about themselves. That's why they're so lonely. Anyway, probably healthy INFP can maintain relationship but they really have to learn how others feel and not just focus on their own feelings.
@@niiskuneitiBANAANI usually ignore my feelings when in relationships 😑
Or conversely being able to recognize when it is worthwhile to confront someone about a real problem. INFPs are very conflict-averse, partly because they spend their lives being told it's always their fault for being too sensitive, when really what's necessary in many cases is fearless communication and action. But that's hard so we'd rather bottle it up and just run mental simulations in our imagination.
As an INTP, I am extremely analytical and logical, but contrary to popular belief, I actually have a heart and do care about others. I definitely do have a heightened Fe but do have a problem with thinking about how someone will react prior to me telling them something. I did not even know people did that until my INFJ best friend told me she does that 😂 I am at my worst when I try to use Ti with Fe, that turns into insanity at its core. I use Ti as my dominant function to make connections to things, Ne allows me to have the idea to execute, Si works in the background that helps me remember key details as visual memory, then backed up by Fe to give me a social purpose of doing what I want to do. And thats how I live my life.
As an INTJ, I can't agree more. I've realized some problems like planning too much and not paying enough attention to the present. Currently I'm working on them.
Thank goodness Frank is out there, being his best as one of the best INFJs (being their best)! 😜😀👍🔥
Why ISTP always get less time than other types? 😅😥
We're straightforward people. Not much to say about it.
Biggest sad reacc...
I swear he hates us. I razz him constantly.
I love istps- signed an infp
Because ISTP are not so complicated to understand than other types but at the same time the hardest to get to know them in a deeper connection :)
It takes time and trust:)
-ENFP girl with an ISTP bf :3
That Infj Part about giving myself advice really waked me up! Now I got a reason to think about my self for a moment! Ah. So relaxing!
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So true! I'm a bit of an INFP and INTJ. Trying to reach goals asap while trying not going past my morals too far is a constant battle zone internally lol
You are not bit of an INFP and INTJ. It sounds like your Fi and Te are in 2nd and 3th slot (can’t say which one is 2nd and which one is 3rd), so you are one of the following : INTJ, ISTJ, ENFP, ESFP (my guess is INTJ or ENFP)
Avoiding conflict is a natural INFP thing to a fault😉
I often find myself giving advice, even if it's to people I only know semi-well, but not knowing how to implement it in my own life. I think every good INFJ should know when to take a step back and observe themselves for a change.
As a great man once said, "you can't help the world until you help yourself"
I've been wishing for this one! Also, could you do shadow types interacting with each when they've learned how?
Okay after yearsss of being an ENTP, your videos made me want to do the test again. I am now a fully fledged ISFP and life makes sense again 😂
INFPs feeling alone in the world makes a lot of sense.
Maybe I’m an infj (vs INFP?), lol. Back in junior high many eons ago, I got yelled at for answering incorrectly, apparently: “do you learn best from your own mistakes, or from the mistakes of others?” Well, I thought at the time, if you are observant enough you can learn more if you don’t wait to make every mistake yourself”.
INFJ and INTJ are both true for me. That third letter is hard for me to figure out.
It's just figuring out if you act more from an emotional standpoint or a logical standpoint. Not the absence of one or another but the prominence
It means you are in contact both with your thoughts and feelings the same. You would speak your mind the same as telling how you feel.
Quite developing for the personality.
@@grababundoberni Yeah, that's me.
When you learn that as an ISFP, you are basically on top of your game and fully matured. Can't say I was expecting that!
The ESFP one is so true it hurts. My friend got into an argument with an ESFP and his basic complaint boiled down to 'He's mad but he can't tell me why he's mad, he wants something from me but he can't tell me what that is, he doesn't even know what he wants out of life, trying to get anywhere with him at this point is beyond frustrating'
This video is just FJ calling us all out. "C'mon dude, you know you can do better, stop hiding in stereotypes!"