THIS Is Toxic Positivity! ⚠️
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- She's been AVOIDING her pain... This is the "dark side" of positivity!
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THIS Is Toxic Positivity! ⚠️
What is toxic positivity? Is toxic positivity real? In this short, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to avoid toxic positivity! Discover the truth about toxic positivity culture and how positive thinking can sometimes be harmful!
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She's been AVOIDING her pain... This is the "dark side" of positivity! ⚠️
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Didn't she say that she DOES allow herself to feel the pain? Toxic positivity wouldn't admit that they do suffer at times.
Where is this video
And this statement is exactly what is wrong with this world, grow up and stop acting like a child
@@iamjackhill5897 if everyone through out time acted like you, we would still be living in caves. Life is hard, deal with it then move on and leave 8t in the past.
@@iamjackhill5897 you're the one out here exploiting people for profit,not me
Being positive should be a realization not a choice. To let things go and be grateful is true positivity
This is the equivalent of eating Taco Bell and then trying to hold back the explosively spicy diarrhea
It's a fools game..
Eventually all shit hits the bowl 🙏
Lol, that's quite the analogy... But yes!
@@JulienHimself I am just a poor boy, from a poor family
I could never reach your level of linguistic sorcery Master Julien the Blanc 🧙♂
@@LilBurpee you should try holding in a coffee enema for fifteen minutes 😁
@@t5396 now this, this is funny 😆
I’m probably the only person who doesn’t get the shits from Taco Bell.. fruit on the other hand… yikes!
Reason I try to keep emotions to myself is because the reality is most people really don't care about your problems. It is what it is.
Let them out and if people reject you or get mean or don't care, cut them out so fast. You will find people that care.
Let it out for you, not for people to care
Do you care about other peoples problems?
@@SnorkZiE exactly! No ond gaf
This is why I'd like to hear the rest of this conversation.
This seemed more like someone trying to make another person feel pain than toxic positivity.
*Acknowledge and deal with pain. She’s already feeling it, it’s just “progressive” not to show she’s feeling it.
@@keeganwebb7777 🤣 You think that’s impossible to argue with? After the third “Really though?” if you’re not answering “Asked & answered” then you’re just itching to get something off your chest. Maybe that works in interrogations where you can’t leave but nobody’s allowing themselves to be forced to confess something they don’t feel.
Sounds like Nazis expect people to swallow the pill that they found a way to embrace hate and pain and therefore you should join them in their misery because it loves company. Pathetic goose stepping fascists.
No it didn't. Dummies.
There’s also a big difference between being positive and keeping some distance in public vs. private. You cant expect everyone to thrive the exact same way that helped you
This is the equivalent of trying to hold a beach ball underwater. Eventually, it's gonna come to the surface, either when your grip is slipping or when someone pushes you (getting triggered emotionally).
Exactly! One must realize: THE ONLY WAY OUT IS THROUGH 🙏
Awesome analogy! Totally true. I've learned that the longer I let insults go, I eventually blow up unexpectedly..which is not healthy for me and totally catches the other person off guard.
@@JulienHimself what's the difference between embracing that in the moment especially with a beautiful woman in an honest manner oppose to keeping strong emotionally strong, agreeing and amplifying a person's shit test perhaps? There's always that fine line between a shit test and a comment that may actually be hurtful but funny to others where you're in a position of being between of someone who holds boundaries vs. being sensitive/overly sensitive?
In other words. If a man has the right mindset, then he'll naturally let the volleyball erupt right?
@@busTaGTx Not mindset. Authenticity.
She's very positive, massive positivity
The moment you throw away the mask/persona that you are showing to the world and start to embrace your true self, that's when you start to find real freedom and happiness.
YES! Authenticity is ALL!
Here's me being authentic: She's got big milkers 🤪
@@xMCxVSxARBITERx yes! I appreciate you for thinking like me 👍
@@xMCxVSxARBITERx hell yeah she does. I like little ones too tho
@@carnivoroussarah
Of course! 😁 I'm a 🍑 guy anyway! 🙈
Imagine if the body never sent messages to your brain that you had any pain if you broke or sprained a bone, and you continued moving about without letting the area rest and recover. Your body would break down so fast. Mentally you need this same rest for emotional damage.
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@@Simon-ki5ye i understood that reference lol
@@Eserr7856 I understood that reference
Without pain the body suffer in silence
Perfect illustration
This is called being a mature individual and not letting others ruin what you're trying to build. And not let them drag you down with you.
Exactly. I consider myself a very positive person and its not because I ignore my negative feelings its because I replace them with something more constructive. One way to do this is the use of perspective. It's easy to say I had a bad day, but did I actually have a bad day? More likely I had a bad 10 minutes that I have decided to let define my day. Why not define my day by its best 10 minutes as opposed to its worst? The truth is life is largely awesome and seeing that is just a matter of perspective and makes you better equipped to deal with life's challenges because you know that good will come of it.
@@poling1990 that's stuffing your emotions away though. how are u feeling rn at this exact moment?
@@poling1990being better equipped to deal with lifes challenges means doing what you need to do out duty or responsibility, even when you know its going to turn out bad. Not just reframing everything into positivite perspective. Then when something truly brutal knocks at your door some will not answer, others will.
That rack is very positive. I love positivity
As much as I applaud this video, society (in a way) "forces" us to be (fake) happy and positive.
Agreed! Good thing you're here to unplug and reconnect with AUTHENTICITY! 🙌
Not everyone can live with steady Eddie emotions.
For people with severe mental problems, like depression, containing your bad spells {in my experience} is absolutely essential.
If I didn't tightly control myself during my depressive bouts I'd literally be unemployed & suicidal within a month ...
This is a high level push pull. Gonna try this at the club.
Lmfao Julien masking his game through his spiritual seminars
Haha It's was his playfull tonality that was doing the push-pull
Push pull is in itself a toxic positivity solution for butthurt men who got hurt by thots
ITS GENIUS!!
It's not always about game my good man. Ladies need to be able to tackle these inward issues themselves too
The funny thing is, allowing yourself to feel how you're feeling (even if you feel unhappy) actually feels better than the 'fake happiness' from forcing positivity.
“fake happiness”
I call it sugar-coating
Ok but what's the solution tho?. It's ez to say go through it but ppl just leave it at that.
How much time do you need to waste on the feeling of being hurt? And what happens when it's just a cycle. Sooner or later youll just hop back on the positive train after being exhausted feeling shitty. Can someone make this make sense?
If you're emotionally damaged, talk about it to someone, express it via art, write about it
Expression is key. Dwelling on it is toxic for most people as most people won't get over it that way
And bottling it up is always toxic
It eventually comes out.
@@blackatem1174 to focus on the positive means to embrace the negative
If you're feeling negative and try to hide it from yourself, all you're achieving is a false sense of positive, allowing stress to get trapped inside until further notice.
It’s not a waste of time. Letting people hit their rock bottom is actually an act of love. People need to go through it to heal, how long? is usually a natural process. But it’s rarely takes too long.
@@blackatem1174 to me it does exist... positive and negative should take a back seat to reality and logic... example:
If someone's fat and they want to change and become more in shape they think they're ugly when their fat, this to them is logical fat is ugly if you think it's ugly on your body. Now imagine someone says "no no your beautiful the way you are you just a little heavy" that's a nice compliment and a positive thing to say. However it's not reality, if your fat your fat, and if you don't like being fat you should try to stop being fat... the opinion of others often gets in the way. With the woman in the video she simply needs to come to terms with her sadness, that does not mean give up on life, it means figure out why your sad and find a way to solve the issue and it's usually coming to terms with reality literally... if she's sad about a death she needs to realize he's gone and it's okay that he's gone she can miss this person but needs to realize all she can do is remember that person through things that remind her of that person and appreciate the past. Vs constant mourning or constantly ignoring those reminders of that person.
Yeah, dude was just trolling.
Give yourself a few days girl. You deeply deserve that. If you find how to just be you’ll find it’s a lot better. But before you get there you have to feel the pain.. cuz it’s there and it’s real.
Feeling your feelings doesn't stop you from moving forward. In fact slowing down and allowing those feelings to take space and then giving them your attenion and compassion actually helps you move forward. Where as pushing them away can actually slow your progress down.
Before I took the red pill I never realized how emotionally damaged so many pretty women are. Now I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything good by staying single. That also makes it much easier to focus on building my own life.
💯💯💯 preach. red pill saved everything for me.
Agree completely.
@@Mfor1998 She probably has 1,500+ beta followers online, but sad that she can't find a high value "real man" aka retirement plan.
Truth
That may be so, but redpill is filled with half-truths and outright misinformation. His entire doctrine of hypergamy is not even accepted Within evolutionary biology. Very often it seems like instead of reviewing all the data and drawing conclusions, it reviews the data with the intention of twisting the data to validate what it preaches
Being positive isn't toxic
She's not wrong tho lol its good to stay positive, not fighting it off leads to depression.
oh yeah that seems correct right? but hiding off shit is disasterous
Neutrality>>>
Actually it sounds like she is already depressed and not expressing it. There is nothing healthy about what she is doing.
Honestly tho, negativeness and self pity can be addicting. I think she has the right idea.
Good point, but wouldn't it also be good to try to find the cause of the negative feelings and work through them and go to a psychologist if necessary or talk to a friend or family member instead of just letting the feelings continue without tying to treat the problem, especially if you have depression or a personality disorder like BPD? Just Feeling the feelings and pressing on is one thing but it might cause more problems over time. And it depends on the severity of the negative feelings. If you were abused or traumatized or feel suicidal or have a mental illness like I said it wouldn't be a good idea to just put on a happy face and ignore it when it can be helped. Sometimes it won't go away on it's own.
@@DarkAntiCretin2012 Yeah but trauma and self pity are two different things. Trauma you can’t help, Self Pity is a choice.
Totally agree with the woman here
That's sad.
Emotions are like a river. If you hold them back like a dam, it’s only a matter of time until it bursts and comes crashing down. Even if you maintain that holdback by letting a little through, you’re going to remain in that uncomfortable state unless you fully let them through.
You need to let your emotions come and go like an unrestricted river, as then you can live alongside them, rather than in front.
This is like trying to fight a sneeze. Just sneeze and be done.
it depends on what kind of sneeze it is. It could be a very horrible sneeze or a chronic painful sneeze. Just letting it happen might not always solve it. Might need a different solution. Maybe a professional.
Embrace your pain. Willow in it. Obsess over it. Pick your scabs. Dwell on the pain in the world. WTF? Have a positive frame of mind in the face of adversity. Drown out the negative voices with positivity. Leave the negative Nancys in the dust.
Exactly. Enjoy life, even its challenges. None of us have enough days to afford to have and bad ones.
@J Daniel you cant have good days without bad days. its impossible to enjoy life 24/7, its good to have positivity but balance is key
Temporarily, yes it's ok to feel pain. it's not a crime. It's called self compassion. Dr. Kristen Neff is an expert on this. It depends on the problem. With mental illness for example, people aren't totally in control. With personality it depends on where the are on the big 5 personality traits. Or it could be a personality disorder like BPD. It's easy to overestimate the ease of control and underestimate the difficulty of the psychological struggle. That's part of the stigma of mental illness, "just snap out it." No disrespect, but your method is not based on psychology. I'm not a psychology major but I've been reading about it. Sometimes it requires a professional. it's not just a matter of will or determination. It's real just like a physical problem. It might not be easy to just wish it away with positivity. I prefer to be compassionate to the negative Nancys. They're human too. Land of Hope and Dreams. Love that song.
"Im hurt?.... hey.. wait a minute.. YEAH im hurt!"
lmao nice entrance bro
Don't open the door to the dark feelings
Have to keep fighting! Moving forward! Can't wallow in self pity! Learn from mistakes
The guy seems very counter productive
Dealing with pain by remaining positive is not toxic nor would it be avoiding pain. People have the choice to find the good in their bad. You don’t have to live in your pain. And if someone says you live in a false reality because you choose to be positive avoid them at all costs. Listen carefully to how he speaks with her. She’s trying to be positive and move forward and he is trying to bring her down. Let people find their happiness.
Interesting. Toxic positivity, as far as I know is a real thing. It's a term used by psychologists. It's a subclinical psychological term. Toxic positivity is not a negation of positivity. it means when people often unintentionally deny the difficulty of your own or someone's circumstances by telling them something that like a job's comforter, positive intentions but unhelpful such as if you lost a loved one and some said "It's just death, we all die. You'll get over it. Don't worry." Instead of "I'm sorry for your loss". Or if you have clinical depression and someone says "Just be happy." Instead of "I know this is hard for you" or "How can I help?" It's about empathy. There's a balance. I don't believe in one size fits all solutions. People are different. There are different root causes, there are different symptoms, there are different ways people react to those things, there are different personalities. And sometimes it's mental illness and people don't choose that or have total control over it nor do they have total control over personality or mental illness or personality disorders. I'm not speaking against positivity. I'm just saying people tend to generalize and oversimplify the problem and/or solutions when the problems and/or solution(s) might be complex. That's all.
There’s fundamental reasons in the creational energy of love that to have outcomes that are beneficial to the self, thought has to be in a high frequency. If you want crap for yourself, keep in low frequency thought and you will be negative and negative things will come to you
These are private matters! A human soul is to be protected and not publicly picked apart for anyones benefit. Friends I am truly disturbed by this. May God have mercy on us all.
she chose to be there and on stage brother
I'll admit that my mind can't process my emotions half of the time, but I would rather be this way than be weak and talk about my feelings 24/7. Obviously balance is the best option, but I prefer to stay this way compared to other options
I don't think feeling emotions is weak. It's not that way in psychology. There's a problem with that label. It causes people to socially reject others. It causes the reverse halo effect in which people will simplistically see someone as only one negative thing and disregard other positive qualities they may have, essentially throwing the baby out with the bathwater. No one has all strengths and no weaknesses. No one has all weaknesses and no strengths. People have varying degrees of both. So it's inaccurate to label them as just weak. Also, there are different strengths. Maybe it's like Howard Gardner's theory of multiple intelligences but with strengths. Weather someone is weaker or stronger we all deserve kindness.
Someone that who is so beautiful on the outside but so hurt and dark on the inside. It’s sad…
Think everyone is getting mixed up with emotion and motivation. Fair play to her she seems to be able to just get on and there is nothing wrong with that. Just because other people are miserable doesn't mean she has to be.
wheres the full interview ?
Feeling hurt is healthy. And when you acknowledge hurt you can permanently heal it.
I watched this several times with sound off... 😂
lol always wondered what’s everyone race to go forward as fast as possible
We want to be the best possible situation for ourselves and our kids before we're old so we're able to enjoy it while we're still young. That requires a lot of energy.
Boy is that woman gorgeous
The real question is are those natural or fake. Pretty sure they are fake, but it could be push up 🤔
@@electric0618 i think they're natural...i mean you never really know but they don't look anything unreal to me i've seen as good as that in real life
Does anyone know her name? I have an overwhelming interest is seeing her other body of work
@@Andy-mr8te wish i knew too
For me. I just don't want to be a dark cloud hanging around like a burden.
Man, I felt that
It's better to be happy than sad all the time. I get it
I was on the dark side for 34 years.
From 5-39.
Then I popped into enlightenment.
The dark side is actually your friend.
But 34 years is one heck of an investment.
Thing is I had no idea I was a genie trapped in a bottle.
Then one day, I was freed from the bottle.
what happened to you in the span of 34 years if you mind sharing?
I really don’t see an issue with wanting to stay positive and move forward rather than sitting and feeling bad for yourself. It’s not toxic. If the hurt isn’t great enough to stop you then why voluntarily stop?
And if it does stop you then take a moment to cry it out. But once you have let it out, collect yourself and work on moving forward again. Or you else you’ll just stay in that negativity.
How do you move forward? Find something to motivate and drive you. Passion, person, lifestyle. It really could be anything. It just has to be realistically reachable.
You're not allowing your emotions to come forth.
How is it okay to not cry?
How is it okay to just pretend to be okay?
@@cutesyprincess14 It's ok to not let your emotions to get the better of you. Like I said if you need to take a moment or day or week depending on what you just went through then do it. But you can't stay in that negative head space forever. Nor should you volunterrily let yourself be there. There is taking time to rest and then there is using your trauma as an excuse to not better yourself.
And I never said anything about faking it. I said find a way to get out the negativity. Humans don't learn unless interested. Humans don't better themselves without reason. Get interested in bettering yourself. Figure out your reason and use that to motivate you.
Balance is the key. Learn from pain, positive mindset on moving on (with more experience and knowledge) expecting that you will make mistakes and will get hurt (again). Repeat. It’s life
Absolute jumbo yum yums
Nobody knows what you feel or think inside. She just gave all her power away that she's working hard to maintain. She's absolutely right. Don't let these false profits fool you into accepting the darkness as all there is, loathing in it, telling you theres nothing wrong with staying in one place with pain and darkness... This is modern day witchery. Bless.
"Sounds exhausting"
Are we talking about positivity or personal hygiene, bro?
Nah this isn’t toxic positivity. Yet another wanna be motivational speaker with low EQ. She said she acknowledges her pain and let’s herself feel it. But she’s absolutely right wallowing in it and not making progress is detrimental to your mind and body and life. Staying in one place is what’s toxic
Fax
This dude is booboo
I take the piss but you're wrong, lots of people ignore their confusions then it piles up and they explode. People who ignore it hurt other people more often breeding negative energy
What she’s saying sounds familiar to me, and I eventually developed panic disorder despite having a great career and material surroundings, my mind could not handle all of the hidden anger and sadness, working at that all now and yeah it actually requires you to stop for a bit and learn about your own feelings.
@@ThepurposeofTime every study ever done shows the opposite. Her approach seems really healthy.
100% You have to face the suffering head on, not ignore it.
I wish you could speak to men with such kindness more. I know you’ve got it, tough love is powerful but it’s not the most powerful on ever person
She is beautiful ❤️
Time is an illusion
Guys, I surpressed my pain and anger 15 years now. Now I just have depression or aggression and I am on meds. Seriously, find a healthy way to let your anger out. It is difficult. A bunchpack helps.
Train your mind to withstand adversity forthrightly instead of crumbling underneath it. You will never escape the harsh oppressive reality that we have and there’s zero gain that comes from collapsing to pressure.
Idc about their dialog. I just want to comment that she is gorgeous 😍 ❤️ 💖
Shallow af lol
The simpiest of the simps
"I don't care about her feelings, only the way she looks" is hardly a charming statement
SIMPING detected, opinion rejected.
It this point I'm tempted to think having positive energy just means lying to yourself until you believe it is.
It may seem that way.. but it’s possible.. you can most definitely be positive and happy. As long as you know that you will also be sad again as well.
Feels manipulative. "Feel your pain SO I can support you - and get credit" rather than "it's ok to feel pain AND I'll support you".
Women hide their pain and just brush it off while men have a bigger heart because they feel for one…eventually we forget
You can feel her pain as she quivers, she seems like a beautiful person, I hope she allows herself to get the time she needs❤️
Was me to a tee. I was miserable.
Pretend that nothing is wrong. Be happy. Avoid the neg. I appeared peaceful and happy but when people got close they quickly saw I was the exact opposite inside. Isolated myself Years and years of that. Then someone got close and I opened up. The relationship was fantastic for my soul. Then I got triggered and he saw the anger. He ran away. But after that happened, I feel more at peace than I ever have. I don't have to pretend anymore. Youve got to allow yourself to feel stuff, not avoid. I'm happy the relationship happened. I'm happy he saw how horrific my anger was. I let someone else see it. I'm happy he ran away. It was good for my soul.
This is the equivalent of eating a beach ball underwater.... Eventually is gonna explode into diarrhea
Hiding pain to be positive is not the best thing. it's not authentic
Yeah I just recently quit calling myself a pu*** and allowed myself to acknowledge the pain and finally got over a hump. It’s been a while since I’ve felt that release.
Amazing to hear! 🙏
She’s been avoiding her pain so much, even her words are a confused scatterbrained mess.
She’s basically saying being hurt is for bitches and it is better to just tough it out and be productive I agree
It’s tough because technically good is good and bad as bad. So feeling bad is obviously bad, and feeling good is obviously good. But what people don’t realize is that the balance of life requires both. Which doesn’t mean that we should just let both happen. But what it means is that we shouldn’t let one go out of its lane and bleed into the other.
ACKNOWLEDGING negativity is a form of positivity. Ignoring it is a form of negativity.
You don’t need to promote negativity to acknowledge it.
Positivity can eventually cause negativity that requires positivity to clean up after it before eventually turning into it again.
Honestly I feel like this is toxic negativity, this video makes it seem like he is manipulating her thoughts to be what he wants them to be so that he can diagnose them then ‘help’. The questions he uses puts pressure on her to come up with an answer whether it is true or not.
EFF TOXIC POSITIVITY!!!!
Recent employers over the past 5 years have given me lots of pain. How do you balance the residual pain and the lessons learned from each incident and move forward striving to be a positive person so that you can positively contribute to society through your job?
Take the lessons and learn to LET GO/emotionally process that "residual pain" 👉 Let me know if you'd like my help with this: application.julienhimself.com/
Man, I wish she would let it all out, it's not good for her. 😔
She want me fr
IDK if it's toxic but I'm pretty much painless at this point.
Allow yourself to feel hurt?? Like what does that mean? When do you stop feeling hurt cause believe me I would love to just lay around and do shit all day everyday but it’s not fulfilling. It’s not about allowing yourself to feel pain, everyone feels pain whether you want to or not. This is so cringe
That's the thing
It better to spend your time doing something with very few breaks to well
.. breakdown every now and then than to just continuosly stay in place and weep and cry about situations that have past and can't be changed
Instead direct the energy to changing what you can to make yourself better and hopefully the environment around you too
Keep fighting queen
This isn’t toxic. Y’all have accepted misery. She literally said she allows herself to feel it sometimes but usually fights for joy, how’s that toxic ?😂😂
I admire your work, Julien! 🔥
Thank you! Glad my content is so helpful! 🙏
@@JulienHimself It really is. Thank you for not only the live events but also for the content you put out here for many more people to see!💥
Julien , your way of guiding others including myself, is Absolutely Amazing. Pushing them to their own Imaginary Barrier which has them encaged, you help us free ourselves through truth and self-love, thank you. We need more of this.
Thank you so much! Glad this is helpful! 🙏
You are genius ✨
Dude wants a piece of cookie so bad 😂
This is actually much more beneficial… This guy Jullian is a weirdo
Yep , nothing wrong whit not make a big deal about everything
The perfect questions 🙏🏻
Sorry......I'm on her side! The guy's a looser. Move on. It's more exhausting wallowing finger pain
Also, anyone who had his little sister dressed him in the morning has nothing pertinent to say
@@johnlindauer5324 lol i can't be the only one looking at how he was dressing its so weeeird 🤣
The other Guy next him dressed in shorts 🤣🤣 like dude you are in an évent in front of thousands of peopel and you came dressed like a 9th grader
What vid is this from? Like what episode
Toxic positivity I see as coming only from outside sources more so than something we're doing to ourselves.
When we don't process pain its because there needs to be a safe outlet for that first. Like a good therapist.
Toxic positivity to me is when you go to said therapist and they shut down your emotions or don't allow them to arise. Or its like a self help guru suggesting you CAN be successful.. you're just not trying hard enough.
Her problem is like most of us:
We are conditioned to believe that feeling bad will not resolve itself. We also don't have a reference in our life (like in childhood) to be loving towards our selves when we do feel bad. So... the anxiety of the negative stuff feels so scary we run instinctively because its how we are wired.
This is called being an adult, and not acting like a child.
its hard to stay positive if you have that kind of racks..
It’s okay to not be okay.
Yes, exactly! 🙏
Very nicely done, and I don’t give out compliments often
Thank you! 🙏
My answer would have been.
Does your question lead to another question?
I know that this is not the goal of the video and maybe I'm being a douche, but this woman's beauty really got me.
Finally we are realizing the positivitt can be negative sometimes
Yes! 👌
So if you try not to be depressed and move forward your going to miss out and not enjoy life
Working hard towards a goal is cool n all.. but we also need to be satisfied with what we have in the moment.... I feel the trick is to find what we need instead of always focusing on what we want...
What are your thoughts?
That was a rather toxic question and a bit manipulative. Many people feel hurt inside and try and cover up things it’s not unusual at all. What’s the adage ? The wolf we feed is the one that gets stronger ?
I just hate living through morose dark freezing feelings. Can't help it! They last forever and drain me. Drain me baaad. So much ao i start questioning my life and want to finish it. What kind of life is it to feel depressed disconnected and hurt for this amount of time?