ABANDONMENT ISSUES: His Father LEFT Him When He Was 12
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- Most people have abandonment anxiety... This live demonstration will teach you how to heal your inner child.
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Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!
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ABANDONMENT ISSUES: His Father LEFT Him When He Was 12
How to heal from abandonment trauma! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to heal the inner child... Discover the secret to healing abandonment issues from childhood.
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Mad respect for your work 👏
It was interesting to hear him say he's ugly bc throughout the whole the thing all I could think about is how beautiful this man is
a bit of self respect and he could be a model
pewdie pie
@@nonenone2669oh yeah that's right . That's what he looked like
That first dude thinks he's ugly? Man, I wish I looked like him. He's beautiful, and I say this as heterosexual man.
I was about to say the same thing. smh. His father extinguished the light in him. I hope he grows and let's go off the same. Same with whoever is watching this.
That's a lot of courage on display. Hats off.
Yes, MASSIVE respect to both of them! 🙏
And by Julien to interrogate people to their face in front of everyone
@@JulienHimself Massive respect for what? You got some guy to make up a bullshit reason as to why his father left him at a young age. You literally drove your questioning towards the guy in a direction that would lead to him bashing himself as a person, when his father leaving him had absolutely fucking nothing to do with him.
Maybe he just had a shit father. Shit fathers exist. Shit mothers exist. There is nothing more to ask or explain.
This is my problem with self help gurus on the internet. Yall always try to make things that are out of our control & contextualize them to fit this narrative that it is our faults.
I pray that one day a rape survivor comes to your bullshit events & you have the courage to look him/her in the eyes & tell them that them getting raped was their faults. I pray every day for that to happen.
Oh, and before you think about deleting my comment, I’ve already screenshotted my comment and I will continue to post every day until my message gets across that self help is bullshit & that yall are scammers.
Started doing the work 2 years ago but Julien by far has been one of the most helpful people I’ve ever encountered…. Where were you when I was 12? This man is changing the world
Glad my content has been so helpful! And congrats on putting in the REAL work... You got this! 🙏
@@JulienHimself I've heard somewhere that they use hypnotism in order to make someone believe hes talking to the actual person so they could tell him all the things they couldn't, and the mind thinks its real and it works, don't know, i like your approach more it takes time and courage but i think its more effective in the long run.
@@Tsourfetis I had to tell my parent in real life wasn’t easy but I feel totally unburdened after expressing and releasing those false ideas. In my situation my 12 year old brain couldn’t understand but my grown man brain does.
The best things in life are on the other side of fear they say!
That guy is crazy adorable. His characteristics are so endearing. It's crazy how many people have these kinds of issues from attachment issues to their Father's/Mother's, I hope all these dudes are getting somewhere.
Julien is the philosophical version of David Goggins to me. Listening to these two everyday has greatly improved my mindset and self awareness.
Glad to hear my content has been so helpful for you! 🙌
So true!! ❤❤❤
"What's holding you back?" is a simple key question that we should all ask ourselves on a regular basis. And then answer it in a brutally honest way. And then take things from there...
Yes 100% 👌
For sure
Asking “Why?”… seems overly simplistic at first but it works because we usually avoid investigating these issues. Out of sight out of mind. The work is all about diagnosing the real issues and then starting the process of release. Powerful video julien
Yes! Always follow the "trail of whys" 🙏
Julien bro, I cant thank you enough, After going through HVC (Especially the letting go meditations) I started being social as FUCK, not a day goes by where I don't make a new friend. I literally talk with everyone I can, Last week I organized a BBQ and invited a bunch of people, made loads of new friends and afterwards was talking to every person passing by to the point where my friends had to pull me away cause I would just have conversations with everyone.
This is a HUGE improvement from 1 year ago, or even couple months ago when I had severe social anxiety and couldn't express myself let alone THINK of approaching a random stranger!
From the bottom of my heart, Thank you
Much Love
Amazing to hear!! Congrats! 🔥👊
What is HVC?
@@Vestu something to do with air conditioners I believe
@@lootbaglex3612 Yep that seems right.
@@Vestu High Vibe Communication
2:02 "No more running away from that hell. Tune into it. You're strong enough now to handle it, to experience it, and more importantly to go trough it." GOAT
Wow.. this tapped into my childhood and a memory of when I started not feeling enough and emotionally attacked.. cried for 1hr .. this is what growing feels like .I'm ready for more.
i love this live Demonstration, they help so much!! Please more of them!!
Your level of certainty at facilitating these transformations is truly next level, I don't think the world is ready for all this authenticity.....but they're gonna get it, ready or not!
One minute in and so much Respect to this guy for having the balls and brain to sit through this and actually articulate his emotions ❤
This was an amazing video ❤️❤️❤️ The people who shared were so open and honest. I hope they know they help us all.
I also love the camera shots and everything in this one. You’re the best Julien!
I'll never forget the first time I ever stumbled upon one of your videos. I think I rewatched it like 3 times in a row. Really powerful and life altering shit. I appreciate you
This guy is a life changer. Absolute legend
You are amazing . You put into words far better than I have been able to and have tried to do for almost 30 years now. I have tried desperately for 10 years to explain exactly what you are right here to my wife. Listening to you say the words that explain so well exactly what I have been trying to tell others for so long made me cheer with joy. My wife and I are separated right now and I can't speak to her but God I wish I could show her this video. Her , her friends, family the whole world. The world would be so much more of a better place if everybody got this. All I can say is God bless and amen. I don't have words to express how much I love this video and what you're saying here......
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This is so beautiful to see the vulnerability. It’s so common, though. Congrats on being a real man!
"Whereever you go, there you are" Jesus, that one hit home.
Such amazing angles from these new videos where we can see peoples faces up close and intimate. Amazing event
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There was some really powerful concepts here Julien, thank you. I think learning to navigate the complexity of our emotions is one of the most important things we don't teach our children enough. How much collateral suffering could be alleviated simply teaching people this?
I didn't even know I needed this until it made me tear up a bit, Thanks for trying to make us better men
Very intense stuff here.
Big thank you and keep strong, Julien.
That's very deep and powerful Julien! I could feel your genuine desire to help and it felt good to be able to focus on your content without being distracted by your clothes lol
Crazy that he said he was ugly
I can’t express my gratitude to you enough - Thank you Julien and god bless
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Thank you for sharing these profound ideas and tools
I'm extremely grateful for your work! Thank you! 🙏🏻
You're so welcome! Glad it's helpful! 🙏
Thank you so much for this content 🙏🙏
I actually started crying watching this video
Hey Julien , really love the videos , very helpful.
Just a suggestion , perhaps doing the 360degree camera at these seminars so people could feel what it’s like to be there, perhaps that may amplify feelings and the realness in these conversations for some people, I know VR is not common everywhere but it a lot bigger than you’d imagine and I’d love to watch these feeling like I’m in the room, I’d imagine there would be other people like me.? Just a suggestion.
Anyway god bless to everyone , peace and love , keep up n grinding everyone let’s be happy and keep doing you!
Bro, only you make sense to me! Thank you!
Great vid and example, Julian! His laughing as a defense mechanism is so ingrained!
Amazing content this video really hit deeply
Love this a lot
Epic work Julien. Thank you
Thank you! Glad this resonates! 🙏
I like the dynamic shots in this video it's "like the office" style or documentary. The over the should zooms give it attention to the emotional expression.
Thanks! The goal is to make it as immersive as possible, almost as if you were there in person!
Wow, I'm always realizing alot when watching your vids Julien, thank you!
Happy to hear that! 🙏
I so needed this. Thank you
You're very welcome... Glad this was helpful!
This is AWESOME!! 🔥🔥
Thank you! 🔥👊
This was a really great video. Thank you for sharing Julian.
You're welcome! Glad it was helpful!
@@JulienHimself Welcome. A while ago i watched another short video and there i noticed more shadows at play in your approach. This video felt void of that and so i think its only fair to express appreciation for that too.
Question:
How do you deal with working through retraumatisation? Its challenging to do shadowwork around that and i can not find information about that because all info is in regards to childhood trauma. Perhaps you have an idea on how to approach that?
Great stuff as always Julien. I hope the business and family is going well.
Thank you! Things are going great!
love the shadow work
Incredible video. My mum died when I was young and it left me with abandonment issues. I worked through a lot of them (partly thanks to you, Julien). Then, last year my best friend stopped talking to me because I didn't get the covid jab. It's given me a few nervous habits due to that same root issue. Working through them at the moment. Thanks for the video, it helps stay on track. And respect to the people for being so honest.
I can relate.
Got abandonment issues too. It got triggered REAL hard last year when my gf left me.
Huge upside tho is now I'm putting the work to go through that stuff instead of avoiding it.
@@wooof8575 good for you. It'll pay off. I'm in the best relationship of my life and it's because of working through that stuff
@@michaelburton1970 how do you work through them?
Life changing video thanks alot ❤️
You're very welcome!
Julien is a legend
You’re doing great work Julien ❤️
Thank you! 🙏
awesome!
Love the punching tummy analogy
Glad it resonates! 👌
I would have like to see more! Great video about how to not repress feelings! I study social work presently and we are taught to learn the tool of introspection and man this is not always funny because once you start going that route of introspecting everything, a lot of deep issues can come to the surface, I think this what Julien refers in this video, it is to allow ourselves to experience those deep issues to really start working on them!
Shoot the whole video 😅 I would like to see practical ways we can address those a issues with people who are concerned by them!
Glad this video resonated with you so deeply! If you're interested in some of the specific tools I use, I'd highly suggest checking out Transformation Mastery: www.julienhimself.com/8p
astonishing🔥
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I always have this fear of loss. Then I get clingy and do things that push people away
I am currently 49 years old and my father left when I was 3. By choice. It didn’t really hit me until I had kids.
This has absolutely devastated me. Lost opportunities and relationships. It’s the worst feeling.
Awww. He's so beautiful though. And brave!
Yes, MASSIVE respect to him! 🙌
Awesome video
Thank you!
Incredible.
Thank you! Glad this was helpful! 🙏🙏🙏
Damn. This was intense
Glad this was impactful!
Watching these videos has made me realize that I am kind of two different people almost, when I am at school vs at home. Glimpses of my authentic self would come out during different parts of the school day, but when I got home, I could feel my personality shift a little bit, in to a fun, less serious person. I don’t really know why this happens though, it’s really weird.
Hey if you don’t mind, do you still feel that way?
gold
thank u, really thank u
You're very welcome! 🙏
Trying to talk it out and reason your way doesn’t change anybody. Trust me I’ve been in therapy for a while and all that happens is someone listens to your said little story
Agreed, awareness alone isn't enough... It's about AWARENESS + LETTING GO 🙏
I was about to do Therapy but thanks to you I am not. I rather stick to the books I'm reading and the lectures based on Psychology, Philosophy, religion and other great subjects. It's up to me to triump in heaven or hell.
Amazing
Thank you! Glad this resonates!
Thank you
You're welcome 🙏
Man that shit goes deep.
Oh, yeah... And the content I post on here is still just scratching the surface. Goes A LOT deeper! 😉
so hard to listen to it ! can feel the pain
Thank you soo much for putting this out there! (and thank you to me for showing up + checking in front row ^^)
When I first saw the title I was like: OMG NO!
Really felt exposed but the video just allowed me to dive into the questions again.
The part where Julien says "You are your own boss" really only clicked now.
This anger, pride, etc. was buried under a lot of inner resistance. "What's more important is what I inflicted on MYSELF in that situation!"
Yeeehaaw🦁
Congrats on having the courage and willingness to do the work! Massive RESPECT for that! 🙏
And yes, come back to this video every now and then and see if you can go even deeper, and see what sensations get triggered as well… (And of course let go!)
You got this man! 🔥👊
Well done dude. That took a lot of guts and you did it. :)
you are the best dude
Really awsome to see you work through this max!
@Julien when you will come to Belgrade ( Serbia )? Will be really appreciated
Yo. Thank you.
Does the absence of the wacky trigger inducing clothing costumes signal that we’re in the next iteration of Mr Blanc? Fantastic video btw as always 🔥
Kinda reminds me of the 4th step in AA
omg, how do you even achieved that much higher level of thinking?!
Hey Julien have you ever tried the Emotion Code?
We need to address our feelings without laughter or smiles ..its ok to be masculine
It's ok to FEEL and BE EVERYTHING that is you! 🙏
@@JulienHimself facts..smiles is a mask
Ive been abandoned too and it happens way tooo often than people think. Most men are egoistical cowards anyways
what the heck. he is so beautiful
2:31 I love how Julien just grabs him by the face BLM style and intimidates the guys in the front row
I wouldn't call it intimidation but an approach. The kid was losing himself in deep traumatic thoughts, Julian had to snap him back to reality. Nothing like a physical touch. You know, the ones that make you feel like home. That kid is carrying one heavy burden.
wow. just: wow
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I need to watch this, but I can't. Few minutes in, and I run away....Maybe later.
Work to be done! 😉
@3:10 that was intense. Like I felt that.
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So if nothing works how do you improve the experience of yourself?
Time to put on the detective hat and dive into yourself with no stone unturned.
YES! 👌
Wow
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Who the f*ck put this tear in my eye…
JUST WOW 🤔
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Is that not pewdiepie?
Julian you're staging content now?
This guy is seriously struggling. He almost had a panic attack... It sucks
This camera work is throwing me off…
This is shot like a comedy
how do you know youre "you" again?
When you look at yourself in the mirror and throw yourself a kiss! Feel it to heal it. Let the limbic sympathetic vortex rabbit hole collapse , activate your kundalini now! Go!
When you dont blame yourself
When you start feeling "at home" within yourself (a feeling of relief) and the things/people that used to TRIGGER you, no longer do... 🙏
"Peel those onion layers until nothing is left but the smell of the onion. That smell is you". - Prof. Sam Vaknin.
YES! 🙏
2:33 the way Julien grabbed that FemBoy was just too sexual. looks like a Prision-bisexual moment lmaooooo
He doesn't care even if the belief system is correct j feel bad for people in his seminar leave them alone
Julien is the Joker of the self help sphere.
Why are people sooooo concerned about things not “being their fault”…. People everyday say “ but it’s not my fault”….. I want everyone to starting telling them things are their fault, because that’s the only way they can fix things…. People use the words, it’s not my fault as a way to not have to fix things in their life…. When you start saying to yourself, it’s my fault, your life will start getting better….
..so what about his dad leaving him was his fault?
this is the problem i have with self help bums on youtube.
i made a comment on this video a minute ago but this dipshit deleted it bc it exposed his useless garbage he's spouting to the world.
Why are people so hung up on their parents leaving them and then they get so emotionally fucked??? I dont get this self pity that's how I see it and as a weakness
And I'm asking in a sincere way I am genuinely curious??
Because when they leave and you are still a kid your brain is not fully developed to process it logically and you think there must be something wrong with you since your own parent the person who was supposed to care for you and protect you just left without carrying. By the time you grow up a lot of self esteem and self worth issues are already ingrained in you and most of the time it is difficult to get rid of them without getting help. You can't fully understand unless you experienced it. I'm guessing you never did...
@@Rwissam1987 he'll.
the Mother Complex or Peter Pan syndrome. I read about those and I now understand.
My father abandoned me and it has caused me some sort of anguish and hurt. Bad self talk is one of those symptoms, I'm sure. It's not an easy thing to go through. Once you've experienced abandonment at a young, impressionable age then you'll know what has changed. I'm assuming that has never happened to you so you don't really understand. Either that, or you're lying to yourself. And I'm saying this in a calm and gentle way.
Ohh shi he gay bro ❤