When A Guy Likes You, Here’s 4 Things On His Mind- Ask Christian Guys

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  • ‘When A Guy Likes A Girl, Here’s 4 Things On His Mind- Ask Christian Guys’
    Michael and I get raw and honest as we share some key insights into the way guys think when we’re interested in a girl. Men struggle with insecurities too, they just might look different than what women deal with. So here are some things the guy is probably thinking, and some advice for the girls in how to react and not be caught completely off guard! Enjoy :)
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  • @PaulandMorgan
    @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Hey Fam! Were you surprised by any of the things we shared about how a guy thinks? Any further questions about what goes on in a guys mind when he’s interested in a girl? :)

    • @francescasibley9694
      @francescasibley9694 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      all the points u covered are kinda the same for girls💛

    • @Jessie20032
      @Jessie20032 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sometimes I have no idea what a man is thinking if he likes me , I wish I did ! maybe they talk to me or stand closer then usual I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ (so out of practice it’s been years for me) I always think am I enough? Am I too complicated? Lots of things go through my mind to actually have a man like me in the first place.

    • @julianamaffattone3902
      @julianamaffattone3902 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Paul and Morgan Do you think the desire to be a provider is limited to men of faith these days? So much of what I see is men that don’t step up. Thoughts?

    • @luvpeacejoy7
      @luvpeacejoy7 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love the points and the honesty. Lots of these I think girls deal with too! Only thing I’d say in the end when u suggested the woman should let the guy she’s interested in know they’re enough & fun too if she’s laughing with other guys, good advice if you’re aware the guy has that insecurity and just to be sensitive to it. But ultimately I think the responsibility should be on the guy to find security in himself, & vis verca if roles were reversed.

    • @amparodomenech9600
      @amparodomenech9600 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You Just surprise me with every stuff, im sorry, because i cant believe it. Its so sweet every single stuff, if i had not see this video i would not have an idea of all of this stuffs. It feels good that the Boys think like that and they worries about this things as much as we (the Girls) do. Thank you so much to Share!❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊👏👏👏

  • @abigailrosebrock7184
    @abigailrosebrock7184 5 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    Satan tells me no Christian guy will ever feel this way about me & so I should settle. Christ says my identity is completely in Him so don’t worry about it. 💗

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Amen, reject Satan’s lies!

    • @madijames1046
      @madijames1046 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Abigail Rose Brock those are called insecurities

    • @happydeamon
      @happydeamon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Satan is talking to you... thats.... creepy. even for me. what did you do???

    • @preciousmatlapeng9497
      @preciousmatlapeng9497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It doesn't mean he's talking to her. Omg you guys 🤦‍♀️

    • @josedacosta9847
      @josedacosta9847 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Satan is a lier and a deciever, tune into the Holy Spirit channel!

  • @chosentobe7137
    @chosentobe7137 5 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    Also to mention that God will prepare both the man and woman before they are supposed to come together. If they seek God they will have a answer.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Chosen To Be 🙌🙌

    • @MidnightOwlASMR
      @MidnightOwlASMR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Not gonna lie I really needed to read that, so thank you 🙏

    • @happydeamon
      @happydeamon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Its important with propper preparations before a man and woman gets together ^_^ Everything just feels better if you do it right.

    • @edenalekssandria
      @edenalekssandria 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for sharing! God bless 🙏🏾😊

  • @claudiaf.2236
    @claudiaf.2236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I am married for 20 years and I think I stumbled over this video because of my daughter, she probably watched it...but I understand you guys - my husband also likes to make me laugh and I like his humor very much! We are Christians from Switzerland 🇨🇭 😊

  • @mollykate9656
    @mollykate9656 5 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    I'd love to see a video on what it means to truly have your identity in Christ. I think it's a Christian cliche thing to say but not a lot of people know what it actually means and what that looks like.

    • @tabitha.mwihaki4964
      @tabitha.mwihaki4964 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree

    • @kierrarichardson80
      @kierrarichardson80 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean by identity in Christ. Do you mean what part of the Body of Christ you are? Like your purpose?

    • @misskat7437
      @misskat7437 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/I8o6_IqKdy8/w-d-xo.html I hope this helps.

    • @flowersparks4766
      @flowersparks4766 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Molly Kate How did you come to that place

    • @sotonwasuccess3011
      @sotonwasuccess3011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kierrarichardson80 it means who you are in Christ... Like when your identity is in something, you are identified with the person... you have the same qualities the person has.....and in the case of one's identity being found in Christ, it is like you are who Christ says you are.... you are what He says you can do........and so on
      I hope this helped

  • @zogly9469
    @zogly9469 5 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    #2 and #3 are definitely accurate. And if I'm honest, in me those questions tend to blend together a lot. "Am I good enough for her," and "are we spiritually compatible" starts changing into: Am I good enough to lead us as I should? Are my mindsets and habits and spiritual growth even good enough to consider pursuing this girl? Am I focusing too much on her and not trusting/seeking God as I should be?
    Things start to get a bit messy with just a little doubt or insecurity.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Zogly appreciate you sharing. Those things def are not uncommon, we need God’s help in pursuing her with confidence and truth!👊

    • @Giftedtoinspire
      @Giftedtoinspire 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Zogly This is interesting ~ & I believe God will love to confirm and allow you to be confident about~ :)

    • @haroldmcboingboing888
      @haroldmcboingboing888 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Don't question yourself. As the man you lead by living you're life in a Godly way.

    • @zogly9469
      @zogly9469 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Harold Mcboingboing - I know I need to do that, but tend to question whether I am doing that well enough; or if I am ready to do that well enough, as is the case now. My inclination is to say that if I have to question whether I am ready to spiritually lead, I probably am not. But that is also exactly how some of the people God used most felt about themselves. So you end up coming to a “maybe I’m where I need to be, but I don’t feel like it” sort of place. I’m probably questioning too much and not trusting enough.

    • @haroldmcboingboing888
      @haroldmcboingboing888 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@zogly9469 you seem the philosophical type in which case you may have a very high iq. Not everyone"leads" the same way so use you're rationality to deduce how you in you're own niche can lead. Many women i assume would want an intricate mind to make good decisions

  • @jerrycampersii5989
    @jerrycampersii5989 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    So good to see real men who love our really real God!!!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sin City Pastors amen! 😊

  • @chosentobe7137
    @chosentobe7137 5 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Girls appreciate messages. Although some times in the waiting on God they start of by enjoying being just FRIENDS.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Chosen To Be 😊

    • @wdekeizer
      @wdekeizer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Me and the girl are in the just friends phase. It's tough and challenging for me to be in this spot with her, but it just makes those little moments of chemistry and getting to know her slowly makes it all precious and memorable! Last week she laughed at a side remark joke that I made and no one else did while we were chatting in a group. I'll never forget that moment.

    • @Jessie20032
      @Jessie20032 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Chosen To Be yes! It’s so good to start off as friends and if God wants you to be together He will make it so

    • @kierrarichardson80
      @kierrarichardson80 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@wdekeizer If the girl likes you then starting off as friends is a great and safe way to get to know someone! Look for signs though whether she is interested or not. Girls we can pick up on a guy when we are aware that he's interested. We just have that feeling or we might know what to look for. We either draw near, dodge, or smile 😁, laugh at your jokes etc. For me, being friends first with a guy I know God has for me is an awesome way to start off. I won't entertain other guys because I'm only interested in him. Especially when God has shown that he is the person He has for me.

  • @woeisme2009
    @woeisme2009 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Hey, Guys, my Name is Michael and I am obviously on my Wife’s computer.
    I was disappointed that you never even mentioned Jesus Christ. I did hear self esteem being important.
    As Christians, Christ esteem should be most present, and important to overcome the other then equally yoked compatibility’s . The most powerful and decisive quality/attribute I saw in my Bride to be was her love of the Lord God, a truly defining level of Christ that made her supposable shortcomings less then relevant. Oh, and she is Gorgeous! Appreciate your thoughts, Michael

  • @livingunashamed4869
    @livingunashamed4869 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Everything was so accurate lol. Just making sure we're equally yoked and not just infatuation is big for me.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Amen! Yeah, that's very important!

  • @kierrarichardson80
    @kierrarichardson80 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm going to be honest society has conditioned me and a lot of girls not to think guys really had emotions or that they were confident and could care less about what we thought of them. It's always like finding a new gem stone when I hear guys like you speak on how you guys really do experience emotions like us and you care about what we think k and etc. I enjoyed the video! 😊 thanks for the tips and I am very observant when it comes to guys. And when we girls are around a guy we like, we can be very observant about almost everything, that we are able to recall things that guys tend to forget about lol.

  • @gabrielalopez4606
    @gabrielalopez4606 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Yes spiritually compatible!!! I had to learn the hard way lol but yea ladies.... dont try to be mother Teresa. He could even be going to church but he may not be on the same page spiritually. Goes the other way around🙈❤

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for the comment :)

    • @happydeamon
      @happydeamon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mother theresa thought that suffering would bring you closer to god. So when sick people came one of her churches she let them suffer as much as possible so they would get to heaven faster. ^_^ Nominated to most evil nun ever!

  • @faithgartzke
    @faithgartzke 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    When Paul broke out into The Greatest Showman song... XD
    Great video! I feel like us girls don't usually think as much about how guys can have insecurities and compare themselves to eachother as well. But it's true, we all have these things to overcome, and we need to not be intimidated to pursue relationship with one another, whether it be romatic, or just a friend relationship. And when we're open and real, we can help and encourage eachother in these struggles as well with Christ's help!
    So thanks, guys for being real and open in this video today. Looking forward to part two! God bless, y'all!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen, thanks for the insight! Right on😊

    • @jazzye_92
      @jazzye_92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree, as women we tend to overlook a man's possible insecurities because we're so wrapped in our own, some of which may be the same as the guy's. Plus society tries to depict guys as macho/ultra masculine and not allowed to be insecure cuz then he's either wimpy or gay. Yet we wonder why a lot of guys have trouble managing or expressing feelings when in too many cases they're taught to suppress them all the time

    • @mazelam391
      @mazelam391 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jasmine E, that’s so sad

  • @chelledue1624
    @chelledue1624 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Thank you for this video. This brings me a lot of awareness of how human guys are, and how awesome it is when Christ is in their lives: how they think of potentially being good matches for the women they like. Excellent stuff!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chelle Due Amen! Thanks for sharing :)

  • @sophiaB270
    @sophiaB270 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Always remember that Christianity is a JOURNEY that goes through the whole of your life, and in which you grow every day.🤗🤗💓💓

  • @16icecream
    @16icecream 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I half expected Micheal to say “the weather outside is frightful” almost disappointed he didn’t take the opportunity for a joke.

  • @lizetcano8316
    @lizetcano8316 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I feel like I’m sitting there hanging out with y’all. Thank you so much for the insight into the mind of a guy. Love your humor!

  • @chidinmaoguamanam9147
    @chidinmaoguamanam9147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I remember speaking about being equally yoked spiritually with the person i want to be with in the future and some friends will say that if i set standards then I'll most likely let all good guys pass me by, i guess where they see a loyal and providing man as good, i see a man after God's heart as good. I believe when you follow God everything else falls into place, i want a guy that i can trust the way i hope he'll trust me

  • @darlingdara255
    @darlingdara255 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Great video! I feel like us females are put in the weird position of being pursued and not knowing how to show interest without being accused of pursuing the guy. Like you mentioned not wanting to text too much, or be too clingy. I feel like sometimes girls are put in this position of “should I text him? Or should I just allow them to pursue me and do all the first moves???” It’s rough finding that balance, especially with what you guys were saying about guys generally appreciating hints from girls that are interested. AAAHH its all so complicated, that’s why I asked God to just send me a guy who makes it clear 😂

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dara Mack I hope you get a guy who is clear and straight forward!😊

    • @SarahAgapi
      @SarahAgapi 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol so true

  • @amandaderby4407
    @amandaderby4407 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    im gonna say it- the bloopers at the end of your videos literally always get me... ahahaha!

  • @jeccym8715
    @jeccym8715 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I looooooooooooove God, sometimes I question myself if we still have responsible Christian men and women in this wicked world! I trust in him and him only❤️❤️
    Good info bros

  • @emilyfletcher6665
    @emilyfletcher6665 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just discovered your guys channel and being a single Christian woman, it’s hard to find a man who has a heart for god and a faith like me. You give me hope and really good advice and you make really good points.. and Michael, I’m not sure if you’re still single, but you are very attractive and I love your heart for god!

  • @daniellewoodard4113
    @daniellewoodard4113 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I really enjoyed this video! I knew guys had insecurities but really didn’t know about if they are enough or with their spiritual walk. Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @gabrielles98
    @gabrielles98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LOVE THIS! Thanks for sharing! Love hearing/seeing Michael!
    #1, #2, & #3 is honestly true for girls as well! I can relate at least! Interesting to hear that guys deal with/think about these things too.

  • @samanthavang1564
    @samanthavang1564 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Being spiritually compatible is an important thing to consider. I used to really like this Christian guy while I was in college, but now, I feel like he's become more of a social justice activist than a Christian. I'm glad I never sought him out because it wouldn't have work out anyways. My current fiance and I are very compatible. We agree to do good in our community because we are Christians before anything else.

  • @jazzmiahwatkins8452
    @jazzmiahwatkins8452 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You guys are encouraging and sooo funny lol Thank you for your consistency🤗

  • @jessicamerced9116
    @jessicamerced9116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was great👍Women feel this way too, we're all human, we all struggle. Thanks for being vulnerable 😇

  • @abbystorey5292
    @abbystorey5292 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I definitely appreciated this video so much! Tips to definitely consider when dating because it's so hard to read guys all the time

  • @BenjaminTebbe
    @BenjaminTebbe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Surprisingly accurate. Good words of wisdom!

  • @MariankGonzalez
    @MariankGonzalez 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks so much for clarifying for both men and women! Great job. :)

  • @kimberlygower8904
    @kimberlygower8904 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great insight! Bless you guys. Love love loved the ending! You guys are such fun!!!

  • @zainonechiamanell964
    @zainonechiamanell964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "So number is this..."😂😂😂
    That was so funny!!😂
    God bless you guys. Thank you so much for the video!

  • @briannacollie2742
    @briannacollie2742 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Men are terrifed to talk to me. All they do is stare at me and assume I'm "taken". It's annoying

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      One day a good, Godly man will be brave enough to speak with you. :)

    • @sateenma1
      @sateenma1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same girl same.

    • @tealsimpson2429
      @tealsimpson2429 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you tried dating apps?

    • @darleneokeke268
      @darleneokeke268 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you see how gorgeous you are ? Maybe they are taken away by your beauty.

    • @nick624179
      @nick624179 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Go talk to them and hint on wanting to hang out, problem solved

  • @faithkaringithi3379
    @faithkaringithi3379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for the video once again Paul and Michael. Never disappoints for sure. You’re definitely funny Mike, the Italian ascent is just hilarious 😂 😂💦 Be blessed in your ministries!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      faith karingithi awe thanks so much!

  • @fourseasonsnorth
    @fourseasonsnorth 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It's good to know and understand a mans' perspective a bit better in this area - especially as there are five of us girls who don't have older brothers!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh wow! That’s awesome, thanks for watching 😊

  • @deion312
    @deion312 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great video. I've definitely thought these things.

  • @myronhighsmith
    @myronhighsmith 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Spot on video. I'm always thinking about that pepperoni pizza

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Terence Highsmith 😁😁🙌

  • @cionellefabiana7300
    @cionellefabiana7300 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE the stuff you talked about. I’m definitely gonna work on being aware :)

  • @cassidyr8861
    @cassidyr8861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I would love if a guy I liked texted me a ton!!!!!!! It shows he really likes you. As long as he isn't trying to get you to do things you don't want to do

  • @carolineurena8509
    @carolineurena8509 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for the insight guys! 🤗🤗 Also love the merch! 🤩 Can't wait to buy some!! 🤗💕🤩 And Pizza is *always* a good thing... doesn't matter how it's made (unless it has pineapple lol) 😂😂😂

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Caroline Urena awesome! 👚👕 glad you liked the vid😄 CMON PINEAPPLE IS SO GOOD ON PIZZA!

    • @carolineurena8509
      @carolineurena8509 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PaulandMorgan Hahaha noo!!! Its the worst 😂😂😂

  • @kristennnnn0902
    @kristennnnn0902 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the video, it made me smile! :) especially the pepperoni pizza part

  • @SkullyBud
    @SkullyBud 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I think that when Michael is in the room it should be called the Paul and Michael show XD You can still keep the M and everything! Also, anyone think Michael looks like Hugh Jackman or is that just me?

  • @larisastruble6551
    @larisastruble6551 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh number three is one of worries!! That we won’t be on the same spiritual level! So glad I’m not alone. Lol

  • @MyQuietCorner
    @MyQuietCorner 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gotta say I was entirely shocked by the ending ... 😭😂 Very good points though, guys!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha thanks for watching 😊

  • @natalieohlsson7777
    @natalieohlsson7777 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is awesome guys, thank you!

  • @tealsimpson2429
    @tealsimpson2429 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can definitely attest to the spiritual compatibility and comfort/confidence level with laughing in a guys presence. It seems like if the girl feels insecure in a relationship she may not laugh as freely and inadvertently make the guy think she is less interested.

  • @lizm9863
    @lizm9863 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really helpful insights...
    Think it will enable the ladies to be able to affirm the guy and help him in very many ways; know how to communicate better
    also I think a lady has to be wise as to letting the guy know how involved the conversations should be as the relationship develops... Ie if there's a possibility that something may not be quite as on song as the guy and girl hope a lady should be able to be responsible enough to tell the guy, that they care about, please be a little cautious in this time and guard your heart.

  • @slayergirl6983
    @slayergirl6983 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so glad y'all know Joey Gladstone from Full House! I'm a Christian too and Full House is one of my favorite shows!

  • @amparodomenech9600
    @amparodomenech9600 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Uh, i love this type of videos. I want to undertand the mina of the guys!!! Thanks to Share it 😁

  • @GothicLoser411
    @GothicLoser411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If a guy likes me it is a huge turn on when he texts me every day, wants to have actual conversations with me and would message me each time I signed in, either way back in the day on AIM or on Facebook, because I was way to shy to message first but when a boy/man is confident and shows his interest instead of playing games and trying to restrain himself, it is so attractive when a guy is very upfront, honest and real and doesn't withhold his feelings. It shows to girls/women that the guy is confident in himself and his feelings for you, it shows you are interested and aren't playing games or holding back for the sake of holding back, it makes the girl feel great because she knows you are thinking about her, caring about her, and are excited to text and msg her, especially if you talk mostly through messaging apps like Facebook or AIM type apps where you have to sign in for the person to be able to message you, it shows he saw her sign in and got excited to talk to her and messaged her. I cannot even express how happy it made me and how much it made me smile and giggly and how hard I fell for those guys which I've had 4 relationships and they all heavily pursued me which is one of my and most girl's biggest turn on's. Getting and having a guy's full attention makes us feel special and cared about. If I feel I have to msg a guy first it really turns me off and is a realization for me that they do not like me very much and that I need to move on.

  • @glennasmith1187
    @glennasmith1187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent advice. You guys are awesome 👏

  • @kassandradel435
    @kassandradel435 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved this! This was really helpful (:

  • @niccatnip9202
    @niccatnip9202 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow. I never realized boiz had feelings. Thanks. V helpful vid.

  • @Michelle-by9fp
    @Michelle-by9fp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can see how guys dont want to come off as too needy, but when my husband and I met 11 years ago as teens he did the opposite. I ended up being the one thinking that meant he wasnt interested and I sought out affirmation in other guys who I knew and were showing me they were interested. That was 100% my decision and a mistake that I made. But I do recommend just making it clear that you're interested in that person.

  • @ruthiey03
    @ruthiey03 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the leads :) lovely video

  • @ccalexander1924
    @ccalexander1924 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Funny thing about the last one. About having sense of humor etc .... there was a guy at work I had a little crush on him..... until I talked to him. He was the most boring guy and all he would talk about was work. I guess maybe he wasn’t into me ? He use to stare all the time and he would make sure to say hi to me loudly to make sure I heard etc ... but I just couldn’t get him to open up or really laugh. So my feelings for him went from 100 to 0! So yes a sense of humor is a wonderful thing to have

  • @Eli.M.
    @Eli.M. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Paul, your hand is ok?
    Love you guys ✌😁♥
    Make more videos👏👏👏
    God bless you

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Eli M haha thanks for checking in. I hit my knuckle on the wall, it’s healing fine😊😊

    • @Eli.M.
      @Eli.M. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PaulandMorgan Well, keep taking care of that, greetings to Morgan!
      Have a good weekend!
      ✌😄👏♥

  • @cherylinszucs1407
    @cherylinszucs1407 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good job Paul good job Michael! Good topic! 👊

  • @tabbyrh978
    @tabbyrh978 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shazam....so I legit didn't realize how insecure guys can be haha I have a brother and I'm thankful he's been able to clue me in to the whole thing where like guys size each other up when they meet each other for the first time etc etc but even when you guys were saying how if a girl is laughing at another guy's jokes more than at her guy's jokes, her man may begin to doubt his ability to keep her attention and then sort of lose motivation...I hadn't even thought of stuff like that haha Seriously, soooo insightful!!!! That being said, I did sort of have a guy tell me he was too much of a mess for me hahaha and basically that I was more mature and spiritually-minded so that I was aware of when you both mentioned it :P Also, I will just say from the girl's perspective that when we like a guy, like really like you, we're gonna be laughing at pretty much every joke you make 😂 But I'm veryyyy glad to know that guys need encouragement and affirmations etc 'cause I think that's a need the Most High has specifically designed us ladies to meet....we just seem to want to encourage and nurture and I think sometimes we can wonder if we're being over-the-top in that way. Stellar video!!! Missed seeing Morgan :/ Love you guys and keep shining

  • @Deborajet
    @Deborajet 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was veryyy helpfull:}}}!!!

  • @Fearless_Kat
    @Fearless_Kat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Nice bait, now I have to wait for number 3.

  • @ashablaine
    @ashablaine 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haha too needy!!?? I feel like guys act way too distant but interested at the same time!!! I’m barking up the wrong tree lol

  • @mandela_explains
    @mandela_explains 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey Paul & Morgan, I'm kinda in a emotional confusion but on top of that I'm a saved Christian, I wanted you guys to make a video on 'What If your ex wants you back' how to approach it in a Christian way, cus most of us kinda get confused on this situation.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for the topic suggestion :)

  • @abigailtarpley
    @abigailtarpley ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was so good!!!!!

  • @sailav1014
    @sailav1014 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hahahah youre the best, loved the ending :D

  • @TheShortiexoxo
    @TheShortiexoxo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really like this video. Sometimes I can’t figure out what’s going on in a guy’s mind so this is a big help. Here’s a question, and guy kind of touched on this, but why do guys disappear? And how long is it ok to hope they reappear before moving on. Praying about it of course, but also just confused on the deafening silence..

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thelittleone21 I think that because guys are humans (of course), they are subject to fear, apathy, and flakiness. all of these fleshly tendencies play a big part in that. I’m sorry for hurt you’ve experienced. He must not be the godly guy you should pursue. But it’s hard to for sure without knowing you’re specific situation. God bless

    • @mattpatterson1447
      @mattpatterson1447 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch the guy in the way he is acting. If he chose to leave and things were left unsaid, find a way to clear the air. That can be difficult but also gives affirmation. If things are clear in the way he left, than you have to decide what is necessary. Through all of this be vigilant with keeping God present in the situation. Guarding your heart is important, but also fighting for a healthy relationship is just as important

  • @eniolafujah
    @eniolafujah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Well I must say this is really helpful because I am legit about to break up with this guy that seems nice but I feel like isn’t showing enough interest. A bit more patience perhaps

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Appreciate you sharing, I pray God leads you

  • @julissab6954
    @julissab6954 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m a young believer and think you may have a lot of young believers that watch your channel aswell. I know you guys are young adults, but do you have any specific advice for youth in their walk with Christ, like during relationships or staying steadfast to your beliefs in highschool and college no matter what you face?

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for the topic suggestion :)

  • @psalm91rdwlkfpgrl
    @psalm91rdwlkfpgrl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ohmicow, the blooper at the end, though x'D

  • @erikacarrillo9796
    @erikacarrillo9796 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Haha Michael’s Italian accent cracked me up!

  • @sacredrose5477
    @sacredrose5477 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I often ask myself if I'm coming across as too needy.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sacred Rose if you think that may be the case ask someone close to you who you trust. Tell them to be honest with you

  • @cathyecooper4376
    @cathyecooper4376 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    #3 is huge🙏🏽 & women think about that too..

  • @jonathanblair2283
    @jonathanblair2283 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good advice! The very end made me laugh!

  • @christyn1459
    @christyn1459 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I haven't finished this video yet, but I bet it's gonna be great! 😁

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christy Northup that’s right!🙌

  • @d.p3540
    @d.p3540 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Guys where did you that wall hanging from?? that black and white one on the left, I really like it

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      D. P Target :)

    • @d.p3540
      @d.p3540 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PaulandMorgan Thank you :)

  • @mollykate9656
    @mollykate9656 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    More vids like this please!

  • @ijeomalaureta9121
    @ijeomalaureta9121 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, my boyfriend is currently going through some internal things and I see God working in him😪🙏🏽, although he still goes through it. Our communication level isn’t as great as it used to but I keep praying for him just as he does for himself. What do I do to kill this overthinking like I won’t be able to bear it anymore?

  • @vaniswatchingyoutube
    @vaniswatchingyoutube ปีที่แล้ว

    1. When he likes a girl, "am I too needy?" (affirm him)
    2. "Am I enough?" (created to provide; bring this up in discussion with him)
    3. "Are we spiritually compatible?"
    4. "Am I fun enough?" (show you appreciate him)

  • @somethinggood9267
    @somethinggood9267 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Michael reminds me of Sam from the show supernatural

  • @Grace-sj2bo
    @Grace-sj2bo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These are the same things I struggle with and I'm a girl lol 😂

  • @abbydillard2583
    @abbydillard2583 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    y'all should do a video on long distance relationship. and how to grow in the Lord together. in a long distance relationship

  • @thememoryguardians
    @thememoryguardians 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ok please help me - a guy I like is joking about another guy I have zero interest in liking me. He does it cause I get annoyed but I get annoyed because I want to tell him I like him not this other irrelevant guy. It comes across a bit jealous to me and to be clear doesn’t come across like he’s trying to set me up with him. It’s like he’s trying to gauge what I think of the guys in our circle.
    Help me decipher what’s going on please?

    • @viola887
      @viola887 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have the exact situation! Am also confused.

  • @LeniceRomney
    @LeniceRomney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice video ✨ and really interesting 🤔

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey! Glad you liked it😊❤️

  • @warsha9516
    @warsha9516 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening to #3 on repeat

  • @rachelashalen1868
    @rachelashalen1868 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    None of those were really surprising to me, but I will say though, I often thought in the past that when a guy was struggling with those thoughts that the reason he wasn't pursuing was actually because of something I was doing, i.e. rejection, and not because of his own internal struggles. So if this is happening, it wouldn't hurt to at least ask her out.

  • @docmadi96
    @docmadi96 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do a video about when it’s time to stop pursuing. I’m sick and tired of being bothered by a guy who is very much into me. I just want my degree, I don’t have time for relationships right now. He’s all for getting married, having kids. But that’s not what I want in life, not right now. He’s a ride or die for Jesus,so Idk how to turn him down without hurting his feelings.

  • @esther3278
    @esther3278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    MAKE A PODCAST!! PLSSSS

  • @nadyachristanti4956
    @nadyachristanti4956 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So funny to watching this when you actually have a crush 😂😂😂

  • @danielnilson6115
    @danielnilson6115 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah point 5 is a HUGE deal. It can be super discouraging when she doesn't laugh

  • @makenab.6725
    @makenab.6725 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ima girl and I can relate to all of these insecurities.........
    😬
    😆

  • @johnpaulmoses5630
    @johnpaulmoses5630 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well said brithers

  • @Melanie____
    @Melanie____ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my family all the women are the funny ones and make the strong men smile.

  • @BBLClinton
    @BBLClinton 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you! I’m a gay Christian and I found a really hot man of God. We’re gonna get wings at Applebees and talk about scripture.

  • @chrisachen6806
    @chrisachen6806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love u guys.

  • @hannahconley7706
    @hannahconley7706 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You’re doing a good job! You’re not too “needy” lol

  • @tonilee1013
    @tonilee1013 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These are all the things I worry about when I like a guy! Haha

  • @camillewray151
    @camillewray151 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Number 3 .....yes is good, however the flip side of that and it comes from a old saying “ so heavenly minded that you’re no earthly good!” .....what do I mean you ask. YES Jesus is the number one priority, then it’s family, then it’s church..... should never be EVERY single thing that’s comes out of your mouth is scripture, church etc etc...... we are still on this earth..... speak to me like a normal human being! 😊

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha, definitely understand what you're saying.

  • @beffjoe8845
    @beffjoe8845 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ugggg is it sad I need to see this? I’m so oblivious to everything but every time a guy at church likes me it almost always bc of “my looks” 😖 anyways loveeeeeee y’all ✝️♥️

  • @sadieesther9721
    @sadieesther9721 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy and I just started dating and before we met each other we admitted the ways of the world were wrong and wanted to be pure in our next relationships.... now he is thinking about me less every day after about 2 months. Is this normal? Most couples would have had sex by now and had that physical bonding.... how do we continue to connect without that physical contact?

    • @yzmundanord1908
      @yzmundanord1908 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you dont mind my input I believe pure christian relationships are successful because the male and female became bestfriends first. This happening and its only been two months...it might of just been physical for him and because nothing is happening hes losing interest or hes trying to stay away to stay pure with you. So if hes losing interest or forgetting you after two months it may be 1) His interests are elsewhere 2) He isnt ready for that kind of relationship 3) it finally hit him that you guys arent going to be sexually active until MARRIAGE. So hes could probably be thinking thats a big decision and he doesnt want to take it lightly. Idk but I do suggest you continue to look to Jesus and what he is telling you to do. He might be telling you to pursue it or he might be saying look to me come closer I have something better for you in due time while I prepare you for him.

  • @anne-marie234
    @anne-marie234 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your so funny guys!!! 😍😂😂