Christian Guys On Dating/Singleness- Waiting For Your Pursuer
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- ‘Christian Guys On Dating/Singleness- Waiting On Your Pursuer’
We’re back! And we’re diving into how to wait on your Prince Charming :) Don’t compromise or settle! We know the time of singleness can feel excruciating, but God is in the waiting. Trust His timing and that He has the right person for you! Let Him blow you away! Your pursuer is out there!
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Paul and Morgan Mr O you should come be a substitute teacher at our school again
Hey Charlie, I’m glad you all didn’t think I was too mean😁
Paul and Morgan I loved this video I think a guy should pursue the girl because it doesn’t just show that he can be polite but it also shows what kind of man he can be in the future, God forbid if someone harasses you or financially or with your kids in the future too.
VIRGELEY P. Right on!
Hi Paul and Morgan! Thank you for asking! You guys are great. I would love to see a video on how you fit your devotionals into your daily life or how you hear the voice of God.
I very much appreciate you guys sharing your life and your journey with us even when it gets hard. God is blessing y’all so much. I can almost feel how bright and amazing your future will be. Thank you sooo much for your obedience, it’s really helping me so much. God bless you!
Just want to encourage the ladies! Ruth didn't have to search for Boaz, she was busy being excellent with what God had put in her hands. She barely sat down for a break. She wasn't waiting to be rescued, she WAS TOUGH! IF a man can rescue you from loneliness God will never have his rightful place on the throne of your heart. We don't have to wait around and be bored and lonely, we can work our purpose! When a godly man does come along, we will already be whole and know what productive purpose looks like, ready to partner with someone else who has also already produced piles of fruit!
Thank you for sharing that, Deirdra! Good stuff!
Deirdra Harris 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Yes! Amen!
“If a man can rescues you from loneliness, God will never have his rightful place on the throne of your heart.” YESSS. So. 👏🏻 Good. 👏🏻
Thanks for dropping that wisdom Deirdra, this is so true! 👏🏾👏🏾
I forgot to mention, i totally had the same plans (get married young twenties, have kids mid twenties) but instead I ended up getting married ONE MONTH before my 30th birthday and let me tell you ... IT WAS WORTH THE WAIT! Girls/Women must know their value, we are the daughters of a KING! Never settle for someone who treats you like anything less.
Praise God, Lindsi! Love that Testimony!!
Amen I'm so happy you shared your testimony! Its now helping me realize how to act it's amazing!
Lindsi D. Wunstell This gives me hope. 😍
Lindsi D. Wunstell wow!!!! Thank you for telling me this!!!! Thank you for your vulnerability!!! I’m 28! God is good all the time!!!!! I said a prayer for God’s favor and abundance for y’all’s marriage. I pray for a strong Christian Union. Y’all look so happy. This makes me happy!!!!!!!?
"We are daughters of a King. Never settle for someone who treats you anything less."
What a suck a great quote. Love it. I needed it.
I'm sorry but I'm still laughing at "He was ruthless!" loool
😂😂😂
천사 yess😁
Bahaha! I'm also still aughing at the corny joke. Guess that's why I'm still single. Lol!
This was the best joke I’ve heard in SO long!
천사 omg same
Being pursued is so beautiful. Thankful my hubby listened to God and pursued me with patience and love ❤️
Awe amen Natalie ❤️
I almost settled. I was three months away from marrying a great guy who said he was a Christian but didn’t have a relationship with the Lord. I had that gut feeling almost the whole relationship. But he treated me so well and I didn’t want to let that go.
Had I trusted that gut feeling in the beginning we probably could have had a pretty clean breakup and been friends eventually.
DONT IGNORE THE GUT FEELING LADIES AND GENTLEMEN!
100% agree! Sometimes that gut feeling is the Holy Spirit tugging you, pulling you back! Praying for you Elizabeth! :D - JoshandStefi
Josh and Stefi thank you :)
Thanks for the comment, Elizabeth :)
I feel you there. My brother got married to a woman he "thought" was a Christian because she and her siblings attended the same Christian school as my brother and I did a couple of years before they did. He never bothered to find out where she stood on Christianity because he was convinced she was the only woman he was meant to be with. Sadly, he's been a self proclaimed atheist for 15 years, and his wife has probably been that way for longer, and I truly believe it was because he didn't search for the answers in God's Word while growing up in his teen years.
32 and still waiting. But thats ok with me.😊Morgan is right, listen to your gut. I'd rather be single than go against what God wants for me. No one is perfect, man or woman, but they gotta love Jesus #1! 👍
InThe Light amen! So happy to hear you’re content and walking Gods path! ❤️😄
Paul and Morgan Thx! Lord knows it hasnt always been like that. God has worked on me over the years. Keep up the great work you guys!💛🕊
Ok can we not say waiting it might be God's will for you to be single
You are amazing
InThe Light I’m also 32 and still waiting. God is good! You are not alone in singleness. Thanks for sharing and pray on!
"What was Boaz before Ruth?"
"He was Boa...?"
"HE WAS RUTHLESS"
😂😂😂
Michael speaks like he's on fiiiireeeee! 🔥👌
Yeah he does!
Great video guys (and girl)! Best line: "God is in the business of blowing you away"...AMEN!! love it!
Praise God, Ana. Glad you could relate!
Aw I love you guys so much, as a single guy I think about this often and the line that brought the most encouragement to me was when Morgan said “and All of his friends were Godly too” which goes to show that there are many Christian girls out there who aren’t settling and even their friends will be Godly and benefit from her. What a precious thing to wait for!
Amen bro! That’s such a good point and perspective. There are more! 😊
I LOVE THIS SO MUCH!!! "If God has placed this desire in your heart, you can trust God with it and He's gonna fulfill that longing." Great words of wisdom and corny jokes. Rooting for ya Flynn Rider and Aladdin!
Haha awesome, Evelina. Praise God!
Which one is Aladdin and which is Flynn?
Katie Drake Michael is Flynn and Paul is Aladdin! I love it when they make the disney reference 😂😂
Violin Person, Ah, I see. Thank you so much! 😄
Yea, but what if I desire a nonbeliever?
Thank you so much for this encouraging post. I was saved at 22 and now I’m 37 and never imagined I’d still be waiting. But God has never left me and continues to provide the strength not to settle with different suitors that have tried pursing me throughout the years. Morgan...LOVE your JOY!!!
Amen, Sabrina!
I’d like to just say that there are times were my married friends, family ask me “when are you getting married?”, “do you have a boyfriend”, “do you like someone”, “when are you going to date someone?”. My answer is either, I’m not ready, when it’s God’s will, or I don’t know. I’m 23 and I feel like if God still has me single till this day it’s because He is still working in me, He is preparing me and I will use this time to just serve Him.
True.
Amen, sister.
God loves you❤️
I really like how y’all touched on guys being the pursuer and that the guy your interested in needs to be bearing fruits of the spirit. I know the Lord has definitely put in my heart to want to be married. But I know in this season of waiting he is molding me and my future husband and teaching me how to solely rely on him. Thank you guys for sharing about yalls singleness and how Jesus has molded y’all during that time as well!
Amen Danielle, love that you are sensitive to how God is working in your current phase of life :)
The man being the pursuer is not biblical. It’s just an opinion. The woman needs to make an effort, pursue some and show interest levels.
Yeah, but also keep in mind that the pursuit is not biblical, I see it as this, if you love someone, and you are sure that person is right for you, pursue them sometimes because you are showing that you also put in effort aswell, regardless of your gender, thank you for reading this and have a nice day
You guys are so funny
"He was ruthless"😂😂😂 priceless
Michael is single? WHAT!!! that man is perfect. 😍
Dayna Peña yesss! such a great man of god!
Hit him up
Great encouragement guys! I have no problems with waiting. My mentality has always been, “ if it happens great. If it doesn’t oh well. I’m still going to have a great life.” It’s a win-win either way!
JamesPrime 😊
Great video guys! I'm almost 24 and single, like Michael said, I thought I would of been married by now. I know the Lord has a purpose for why I'm not married, He has taught me things I could never of discovered if I was in a relationship. I've grown so much closer to Him and I wouldn't trade it for the world. I appreciated what Morgan said about how its okay to be single, being single doesn't mean you're sitting at home doing nothing. Use this time for the Lord, get involved in a church or go on mission trips, grow in your relationship with God! Thanks guys!!!
Amen Aimee that’s great stuff! God is faithful
It's true, the Lord what's you to be close to him before you can be close to someone else, I'm staying single until I become the greatest me and until I'm close and have a healthy and great relationship with god
Also I hope you find the right guy for you one day
This topic was addressed in my dream last night, I was guided "enjoy your single life, now". I'm also glad that no one is wearing sack cloth. :D
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✋31 and waiting too. This is an encouragement. Thank you guys. Love you guys from Kenya.
EVERYTHING YOU GUYS TALK ABOUT IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEED TO HEAR IN MY LIFE RIGHT NOW. Thank you thank you thank you for making this channel. I was needing to revamp my TH-cam to start watching more Christian inspiring content and I was not expecting this perfect of channel. You guys are doing so great with letting God speak through you... God is so stinking good. Thank you.
Awe Praise God, Hannah! That’s so encouraging to hear!
Hands up singles right here
Morgan's face when Paul said 'she's like our little sis'. Also I love guys that just know the Word & use that, like yes, have it in your heart, live it out! Bring everything back to what the Bible says!
Amen so good! Haha I had to do it😂 -Paul
Wow. This is a slap in the face. I’ve been praying for enlightenment so much. I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago. Since we were gonna see each other everyday at college we decided to stay friends. He isn’t a Godly man, but he has a good and humble heart. He just didn’t grow up in a religious family. Tomorrow we graduate and go our separate ways. I still care so much for him. I want him to be free and happy, and I worry for his soul. When we broke up, he bought a Bible and started reading it. He started praying and going to church, but I felt this urge to not get back together. I still love him and it breaks my heart to know I have to let him go. I’ve been thinking that maybe one day God will fix things up between us, but I get so afraid everytime I realize maybe God has another plan. Thank you guys for sharing your story ❤️ You are very cool people. Please pray for me. God bless your souls 🙌
Thanks you for sharing, Priscila
Awesome topic! Mike sounds like he’s a preacher, it just flows right out. First time listening to M&P and I enjoy it.
Yeah I feel you. I'm 35 and still waiting. Men are getting de'men'ized and are so hard to find now. Trying to keep the hope that the Lord has someone for all of us :)
Im single & patiently waiting for my Godly man. Im glad my decisions are right to wait for the Man God has for me. I get anxious at times but its okay. Seeing Godly men like u Paul Michael & all out there, i have a NEW HOPE now that God has a GODLY MAN in Store for me whose gonna pursue me & love me & lead me closer to Christ... Thankyou for ur encouragement
Amen!
I don’t even know how your video popped up on my feed but it was there, and Ive just seen one video and love you guys already. It’s nice to know someone else thinks being single isn’t bad. Just waiting on God’s timing. This world makes you think you HAVE to find someone if you’re in your late 20’s which adds unnecessary pressure. I loved what you guys had to say. So Needless to say I have subscribed!
Morgan's karate chops are becoming legendary bahahaha Loved this video, guys, and Michael has some stellar advice and counsel of his own to offer!! This message was definitely so timely for me!! I've been struggling with giving a guy over to the Lord and just waiting and seeing what God has planned and cultivating the courage to trust Him no matter what the outcome. I think so often, we're like "well yeah, of course I can trust God...as long as I know He'll give me what I want or what I ask for" but that's not really trusting God 'cause He's not a vending machine where we can just pray and He'll give us everything we ask Him to. We've got to believe that His will holds more glory and beauty and joy than we could ever imagine even if it's not what we thought :) Ooo Amen!!! No guy is gonna be perfect, we just have to consider whether or not his particular sins are ones we are committed to live with and help him overcome. Mmm yes, so good! A lot of us girls can be too picky, myself included haha I appreciated Michael's honesty too about his singleness 'cause I feel like we mostly hear girls talking about their journey to contentment and joy as God gave them more years of singleness than they had previously envisioned. So it was refreshing to hear a guy's perspective as well! So thrilled again about how your channel is taking off! What an answer to prayer!! Love you guys and keep shining
Tabby love your thoughts here. What you said is on point, and yes, Michael’s story is a blessing and encouragement. Ohhhoho that’s a great topic! Putting that on the list!
This is the most genuine and pure thing I have EVER seen. I absolutely love this and I think every young Christian woman and man should watch this.
Tomi O aww praise the Lord! Thank you so much! 😄
I’m so thankful that y’all make videos like this! It’s wonderful to see Christian men valuing the importance of the pursuit. As a young woman who has never been in a relationship, I find comfort in knowing that there are men out there that understand the importance of pursuing and cherishing God’s daughters. So while I wait for the man the Lord has for me, I know I can find comfort in these truths! So thank you guys!
Hey guys I just found you and I love your videos! This one in particular is very encouraging to me as I am one of those single women who feel God has asked me to wait. I also didn’t picture myself single at 33! I chose to take advantage of my singleness and serve the Lord and travel and give of myself to ministry and people. There are moments though where it hits you out of no where! Loneliness and feeling like you did something wrong! I’m thankful when those moments come God has confirmed to me that I am in his will and even revealed to me why he still needed me single a little longer. Right now I’ve been given the privilege to lead the young adult college age ministry and form a team! I never imagined God would use me to lead in ministry as a single woman! I’m terrified but excited and I know one day soon I’ll be leading along side my husband! I’m encouraged to know there are other Godly men still out there! I gotta say though that it is rare to find a man who is truly passionate about God who is willing to serve him wholeheartedly. Thank you for this! Don’t know you guys but you are my brothers and sister in Christ and already love you all! Wish you blessings and so excited to see there are still very passionate young adults who love Jesus! I look forward to inspire many more young adults in pursuing God with their whole hearts as you guys are doing with these videos!
There isn’t a day where God doesn’t blOW mY MiND aye.
I feel like I just got a pep talk and it was amazing. There’s nothing better than a pep talk that is centered around that perfect everlasting God love.
Much love to you guys, God bless
I'm 24 and I've never even had my first kiss so-
God is never late, he works things out, he’s working it out. Encourage yourself with Ephesians chapter 1 verses 16 through 23. He will open your eyes to see what’s next for you, if it’s marriage or a different season. He will walk you through.
Wait my friend. God knows your desires and will do what's best for you. Patience. 😊
I’ve watched a couple of your videos and I have to say they are so comforting! To hear young guys speak with such a clear mindset and determination towards Godly values is a breath of fresh air. Really.
I think my hope renewed from watching you. Trying to live a pious life in Christ is a journey of difficult tests but beautiful strengthening and it’s nice to hear testimonies like yours’
Paul and Morgan you’re a beautiful couple!
Michael, I truly think God gifted you with an extraordinary mind. Along with your faith, wow
Strikes me that you’re single, any woman would be lucky to have such a man pursue her. God must be preparing a wonderful wife for you.
Thanks for sharing guys! I look forward to more of your videos!
I know I’m a little late on commenting, but this really really encouraged me! When I was 12 God began to speak into my life telling me his plan for my life and that included telling who he has for me. Well it has been a long continuous 7 year wait and I’m just trusting God through the waiting! This video really gave me a fresh patience and peace! So glad I found ya’ll!!!
Michael was on fire! Literally such truth was coming out of his mouth and it really touched me. Keep doing the amazing things you guys are! All the love
Awe praise God, Meaka! Love hearing that
I am in the early stages of waiting, and I definitely feel what Micheal is talking about when he said the Lord puts those desires on our hearts (the desire to marry) and I am learning to trust God and know he's got it handled as I wait, even tho at times it's really hard, cuz I'm not gonna lie, I would love to have kids soon, but no man yet sooo, prayin' hard haha. This was so great! Lord bless
Amen Melody. Stay strong! God is faithful!
Go do community service! Plenty of nice people there. I hope you meet someone.
I started watching your videos last night. This is BY FAR my favorite one that I have watched. Thanks for all of the reminders about waiting in singleness-even singleness that has stretched into your 30s, way longer than you had expected or hoped.
It is refreshing to be told Bible reference after Bible reference about Christian dating and the role of the woman and man in a godly relationship! Sometimes it's hard to wait for a man to pursue me and how to know what that should look like. But this video reminds me that I just need to wait on the Lord and wait for a Christian guy who will pursue me. AND I LOVE the part where y'all said that the man should be producing fruit, because that shows that on his own he is pursuing the Lord and making good come out of his life. Thank you thank you for this refreshing Christian message!!
I love all your videos, how you speak the TRUTH, how fun you make it, and I've been telling lots of my friends to go and watch your videos!!
Jessi Mitchell yay! We’re so happy you appreciated this video. We love making them for you! 😊 ❤️
Thank you for tackling this topic!
I just started following you guys....maybe a few weeks ago? I am in the same shoes are your friend in a lot of ways, 30 going on 31 and still single. I thought I would be married with several kids by now honestly *laughs*. But this was an amazing reminder for me to NOT settle, to follow and trust God and that my desire to be married and have kids is a godly desire.
And thank you for reminding me that there ARE good Godly men out there! In this day and age it is so hard to remember they are out there. Many "christian" guys I have met or even tested waters with haven't been very mature in their walk or actually been walking with God except in name only.
And my last thing I want to say is that this is an AMAZING video for young single women AND men! Please don't ever settle, I have seen the results of settling in my friends relationships and I have seen the results of trusting in God and His timing. And the people who waited and trusted in God's timing and listening to Him...wow their relationships/marriages blow me away.
So anyways to end this LONG comment. Thank you, I needed this reminder today.
Wow Justine thanks for writing that. Amen, super encouraging! God is never gunna leave us dry!
When you mean settle, do you mean you shouldn't settle for less
I love how every time they give advice it lines up with the Word of God💖
Praise God, Adia!
Paul and Morgan I was wondering if you guys could make a video for teens staying pure (mentally and spiritually)? Especially for us going Into college. I know for sure that would be a huge help for a lot of us.
This video came at the right time! It so good! Im a new subbie, and you guys have been challenging me to go deeper in my relationship with Jesus with every video i watch..!
Thank you!!!
I love seeing honest stories of singleness from people who are walking it out. Thanks for the single perspective (from both singles and married folks)! Loved it.
“What did boaz have before Ruth? He was ruthless”. Haha 😂😂😂 so cheesy but my goodness I’m crying
Love these videos you guys are doing! And really liked hearing Michael’s advice and about how he gets his fulfillment in Christ during his season of singleness. and Paul and Michael, thank you for being men who believe in pursuing and treat women properly!! You all are so filled with the spirit.
And Morgan too of course ;)
Praise God, that means a lot, Coral :)
This makes me have so much hope! I recently started going back to church and it's amazing!
It is so crazy I found you guys because I have struggled with this issue so much. Like the struggle is so real to the point that I have had very very dark thoughts about myself, my life and it feels good to see other people who understand and that can relate in a Christian way. Thank you for making this video and I love that you guys references to Disney. I love Disney. 💜
This came at a perfect time. Thank you for this video!
BabyBlue praise God! 😄
I'm so glad I found this channel. It's been less than a month and you guys already feel like close friends that I wish I can hang out with.
So good! I’m 34 and single and had the same thoughts as Mike all those years ago, but GOD needed more time to cultivate who I am as a woman/friend/leader to be able to attract the right kind of Godly man. I may still be waiting but now I know the depth of man that GOD has for me! Thanks y’all! Love the videos!
"Those who wait upon the Lord won't be disappointed" BUT THAT QUOTE ON A KIRKLAND WALL FRAME!! My fellow men, and fellow ladies, don't settle for less, God has an awesome partner for you! Wait on Him! Love this guys keep crushing it! - JoshandStefi
Amen Josh and Stefi! Thanks for encouraging the Fam😊😊
Excellent video!! Thank you for creating this! This was very timely for me.. I needed to hear this.. God bless you all!! I just recently became a Christian and this video gave me a lot of clarity!!
I Believe In Love Again - BoYee awe praise God it makes us very happy to hear that!
This was definitely one of my favourites! So many great "preach" moments and hilarious side comments made this so wonderful to watch! Thanks to all three of you!
Awe good!
I like these videos, I needed so much. I think, when you really know what kind of guy you want, you will just wait till he arrived into your live. I HOPE AND PRAY, GOD HELPS ME WITH this. I ve been on a relationship for a few months, I knew on my heart God was telling me "this is not the one, just wait" I was just trying to avoid that idea. But now I feel peace because I accepted on my heart.
Yeeeeees! I want a pursuer, I don't want to pursue him. I want to feel good being with this person. 🥰
Pdta. Thanks for reading
Michael - I can listen to you speak about God’s Word 🔥and sing Disney songs all day! (And the smoulder was defn working 😉) Morgan - girl, you are gorgeous and just a joy to watch! Paul - Aladdin to a T! I’m so glad I found your channel! Much love from Lincoln NE 👊🏼
You guys have given me hope in finding someone who values a relationship with God as much as I do but the cynic in me can't help but think that the men on this channel are unicorns :)
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I’m so glad that Michael mentioned college because I’m a senior in high school and have been struggling with the idea of college and the stress that might come with it. Also, whether college is right for me or not. God has given me certain passions like art, psychology, journalism, and teaching but I’m not sure how he wants me to pursue those passions. I worry about getting lost in the college atmosphere and maybe not spending as much time with god as I should be but, I also like challenges and think that maybe college would be an awesome time to grow closer to the lord. I want to know your thoughts on college and maybe some tips on how to stay close to god while in college. The videos y’all post are so comforting, reassuring, and inspiring! Thank you so much!
Thanks for the comment, Dixie!
Just stubbled upon your videos and I know it was no coincidence. Thank you guys for sharing your faith so openly and answering questions all young people have with faith as the center of all the answers.
Michael is back! I love watching you Paul and Morgan I lvalue your opinions and advice.... sometimes it’s nice to hear advice from a single guy! God bless y’all!!!❤️❤️❤️
Michael- I feel your struggle, being a woman and 26 going on 27 snot married and no kids that’s tough too. I thought I would’ve already had 5 kids a husband a dog and a turtle 😂
Morgan - (I swear I’m gonna have 1 million comments on this video I keep pausing it to write a comment )... your mindset was a lot like mine is right now especially being older it feels like it is impossible to find a guy who will lead in marriage who will lead spiritually and who will wait for me and not try to pressure anything physical before marriage. I feel like when the words no sex come out of my mouth people look at me like I am crazy )
Preach y’all preach.
Hey Monica! We love Michael’s presence on the show😊
Thanks, Monica!😊😊
Lol I have no idea how I found this, but you three are amazing! ❤
This is amazing and something I really needed to hear. I am very young but I am good friends with a guy and we both have feelings for each other but we both agree that right now we need to focus on growing in Jesus and our faith which isn't easy but we know that's what the Holy Spirit wants for us to do, I definitely was the pursuer in the beginning but now I am just going to let him take over and we will see what happens
Being almost 30 and still waiting, still single, this was so nice to hear! It’s especially comforting to hear it from Christian men- it helps us women know there are still Godly fellas out there. Keep doing what you’re doing!!
This is the first time I'm watching y'all, I love that Michael quotes the bible so much and always look so serious, this guy ought to become a pastor by the way he talks 😄
#ItSaysInTheBible
:)
Paul: “I get it, I can relate... I mean not really though because you’re still single”
savage😂😂😂
This was timely and comforting to hear. You guys are a blessing. Thank you ♡
You guys make my day, keep making videos and spreading the word. Bless you. 😊 hope everyone has a goodnight. Peace
ey wow I really needed this right now, would appreciate prayers! xx
Hanna got you sister x
Wow, Michael is sooo wise, inspirational, and good at speaking! It's clear he has a very deep relationship with God. I love that y'all are doing videos together because you guys (Paul and Morgan) are also very wise and Godly, so the three of you go very well together. 😊❤
Awe that’s awesome, Olivia! Yes Michael is wise and a strong man of God!
I really like your spunk Morgan ;D and I like all of your spontaneity in answering questions. It was fun and uplifting. ☺️ Thank you. God has done deep work in me during the waiting.
Back in the old days, I did act as a pursuer. But God has been teaching me about what it will look like when His best shows up and becomes the zealous pursuer. I used to be anxious to meet him at times, but now I’m content in waiting.
I've only come upon your channel a couple weeks ago. Your videos have been so refreshing for me! It's so great to see others who have the same exact belief about waiting & dating that I do. It seems so often that abstinence is such a minority now, even in the church, that it's discouraging at times to believe I'll find someone who has made the same purity choices that I have. However, I've never wanted to settle or compromise and I don't intend to ever do so. By the start of high school, I had already made the choice to remain abstinent until marriage but then God called me to a commitment with Him that I would not date until He released me to do so. I am now almost 28, always been single, and have not been on a date. It has not been easy, but God has used that time to change, heal, and mold my perspective on dating, relationships, & marriage more into what He has designed it to be. He has recently released me from that commitment, and now I am looking while still waiting on God. One time during the waiting, I was getting anxious that I was expected to figure it all out on my own who I would meet and marry, but God spoke to me saying, "You already seek My will in your life in the areas of job, career, ministry, church options, family, friends, etc. You trust that I will provide for those areas. Why would your love life be any different? Why would I leave the area of who you will love up to you to decide on your own?" I remembered that He IS love so out of all the areas of life, that would be the last area He'd want to be left out of. That encouragement He gave me sustained me for a long time, making the waiting season easier to live out.
Thank y'all for making these videos! God bless!!
~Hannah Gaut~
Wow thanks for sharing that, Hannah :)
Y’all are the best ❤️ Loved it & learned so much 😊
Thank you, Lizet😊😊
The Holy Spirit speaks to you through your gut feeling, I love it!!!❤️❤️
Amen!
I am loving watching your videos. As a young Christian woman this touches my heart deeply. I am constantly having to remind myself that God is in control, and that I can bring my desires to Him and wait for Him to direct my path.
Extremely thankful you guys are posting these videos! I am currently in a season of waiting and these encourage me so much! Praying for you all!
Awe praise God, Skye!
Yaaas!!! I needed this reminder! ❤️
That Chic Called Hannah yayyyyy!! God knew it! 😄😉
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Rachell Petty wooo! We love you! 😄
Great video once again! Totally agree that the guy should be the pursuer. Because if he is then he is showing his leadership abilities right there. That if he can pursue you then he'll be able to lead the relationship and bring you both closer to God! Also really like what Michael said at the end about how we don't find our identity in what we wear! It's okay to be fashionable or not be. I personally love wearing sweatpants and hoodies because they are so comfortable!! Keep up the great videos! 😊
Good stuff, Madison :) Thanks for watching!
Im so encouraged with this message, thank you so much Michael to be so open about your own singleness expirience. Wonderful to see that God is everywhere the same: so faithful in making His promisses true in us, when we alow Him to do His work in us!☺️
Good video! Preach Michael!
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Thanks for sharing guys! Everything y'all have said is exactly what I needed to hear! I'm 22 and never had a boyfriend or even been on a date because I wanted to keep myself for the right guy. I haven't found a guy I feel right in my spirit about getting into a relationship with yet so it's never worked out. So your message has greatly encouraged me! I also know of young lady as myself who needs to hear this so I will definitely share! So glad I found your channel! Your videos have helped me a lot with questions I've had. Thanks again! ❤
I do have a question also! What do you do as a young lady (speaking of myself) who is 22 years old, but apparently looks like she's still in highschool to everyone else? This has been a slight problem because I seem to attract guys who are a way to young for me and the seems like the older guys avoid me because they think I'm underaged and in highschool. It doesn't matter how grown up I try to look it still doesn't work! What I guess I'm trying to ask are there certain ways I can conduct myself that would make people think I'm actually my age (22) instead of a teenager? It's really serious because I've been told I look 14ish through 17! 😳 Thanks for any advice you can give!
Josienne Henrichs Omg we have the exact same problem 😂😭. I’m 23 and I’d be at work and people would say “aren’t you supposed to be in high school “ and I’m like umm college? 😅. From my experience I think dressing your age is a great start(if you haven’t already). You don’t have to go super business casual but something that said I’m not a high schooler I’m 22... if that makes sense? For some reason too updo hairstyles help?😂 I hope I helped! I saw your comment and was glad I wasn’t the only one attracting people younger than me😂. I usually immediately ask their age and just say oh too young and run fast!🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️💨💨💨lol
Chelsy Fuller Wow! I'm so glad I'm not the only one! Lol 😂 Yes, I've tried dressing my age and wear my hair up a lot but it only seems to add a couple of years on and I apparently look 18 or 19 then! I can never seem to get past the teenage age range into the 20's! 😳 I used to waitress and a older gentleman said I looked 14 and had stolen someone else's driver's license! 😳 I was like thanks I guess, and that's only one of many times I've been told how young I am. Lol 😂 I have been told to appreciate it down the road when I'm a lot older, but it's really frustrating right now!!! 😒 That's why I asked because I think I need to work on how I conduct myself. I may act younger than my age too and just not realize it. Thanks for at least trying! I appreciate your help! 😊
😮 omg we have the same exact issue ! 😂 it is well
I needed this reminder :) I'm a Sophomore in college and we have the exact same culture around marriage you were talking about. It's hard watching my friends from high school get engaged/married. But YESS WAITING FOR MY PRINCE NO SETTLING BLESS YOU GUYS. Real talk, it can be really frustrating but yes I agree with everything you said. I love the way all three of you talk with such Holy Spirit confidence. Like, you don't have to stop and think before you say something because you know it is Spirit led and inspired. Love you sm haha.
YESS! Thank you for your support! :)
I love that, I never thought of “seeing the fruits of the spirit!!!” Reminds me I have some work to do to make sure I am producing the fruit of the spirit !
This really helped me! 💕
Awesome!
I’m only 13 so I’m fine waiting
From Louisville here! Exactly what I needed to hear. Just ended a long term relationship with the guy I thought had to be "the one". I just never had peace in the Lord about if our relationship was right. I honestly felt like I was the only one seeking His guidance and after it ended, I felt that peace enter me. I am 25 and have often felt like Michael that I would have been married with a baby already but I just have to trust God's plan because it will always be the best way! Thanks for the advice and reassurance! God Bless!
Thanks for sharing that, Nena :)
this video is fire 🔥🔥 Currently in a period of waiting on the Lord and this really encouraged me. Seeing your godly relationship inspires me not to settle!
Praise God, Emily. Stay strong👊
I would like to see more videos of you men calling out other Christian men to live their authentic lives as Christians and what that should/could look like. I feel like I don’t see enough male mentors more female mentors. So I think it would be great! I also would watch to see what men struggle with :)
This a pretty solid observation... thanks for sharing! Getting some ideas! -JoshandStefi
Good suggestion, Kayla :)
LOLOL sack cloth and ashes!
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Michael, I admire your endurance! Singleness is hard, but truly a gift in many ways.
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Praise God! I'm so glad I came across your channel/video. I believe it was God leading me. Thank you for stepping out in faith and creating this video. Be blessed!
Yea but you have to put yourself out there so the guy can actually see you and notice you... he ain’t gonna come to your apartment and take the ice cream out yo lap and cut off the Netflix and take you to coffee.. you gotta hang out at the coffee shop.
Ahaha! Yep, totally agree! There's absolutely nothing wrong with putting yourself out there! :) We encourage that!
This was incredible. Just what I needed right now. You guys are the bomb. Michael has such an anointing on his life. So glad to see iron like you guys all have!!!
Thank you I needed this! Being 27 and trusting in God for my prince charming sure has it's rough times but I know God is faithful and I know being patient and not settling is the way to be! Also thank you for loving Disney movies, it made my day!
Thank you for sharing, Ashley :)
Loved this video! Thanks for the shout out Morgie! 😘
Awe thanks for watching, Tina❤️
So good!! Thanks guys! And very encouraging to hear a single guy talk like this! Way to go!
Hi I have been in many relationships and this has been such an eye opener. I always went for the guy who was broken with the intention to bring him to Christ and fix him. Yet those relationships hasn't worked for me at all. Knowing the Fathers love, I knew how I should be treated but I was I was very indecisive on who and what I wanted. Definitely love your videos
I think this is my favorite video of yours so far! Loved this so much, you guys are great.
Yay for pursuers! such a great video // you guys really crack me up and really speak stuff that makes so much sense! thanks ya'll