My thing is, I blame everyone from my past hurt. I accuse and assume all the time. My ex told me "dude messed you up everyone is not here to mess you over" But I think I need to get myself together before dating again. They say hurt people hurt people that may be true
I was really toxic, particularly in my late teens. I think what benefited me was being around far better quality people as I grew older. People who showed respect for others, but even more so to themselves. I had no respect for anyone, including myself, back then.
I have never come across a great and wonderful spiritualist like *Dr Ase coven* I contacted him through face book and and my ex came back because of his great
Tysm, this really helped me a lot to realise how toxic I am right now, I say things that I see it as a joke but hurts others, I’ve been told many times I’m selfish and ungrateful but I do try to not be, I realise now that if I say something harmful I should expect something back and accept it as I deserve it
I need advice. I am a young female and I just realized I have narcissistic traits/ habits/ behavior. I am not a full narcissist because I want to change. I am married to my partner of 3 years and he said he wanted us to split due to me treating him so badly. At first I didn’t know what he was talking about, but after reflecting and thinking about my actions in the past I realized what I was putting him the past 3 years. I treated him so badly and I feel so terrible and guilty now that we are so close to splitting. I do not want us to split, I truly do love him but I know I have problems that I need to improve on. I don’t want to do it alone I wish he would help me through this journey. I don’t want to hurt him anymore. I have recently been looking for a therapist or physiologist to help me with my toxic actions. What should I do??
I’m going through something very, very similar right now. You’re not a bad person, I promise, your subconscious mind has just been protecting you in ways that ended up being destructive. It’s also a great thing that you’re aware of it and want to change...that’s half the battle. Try taking action every single day (like meditating, repeating affirmations, practicing mindfulness/self awareness, listening to empowering music, envisioning your ideal version of yourself, etc) to become the best version of yourself. Really focus on thinking about yourself positively instead of beating yourself up for all the hurtful things you’ve done. I know it might be tempting to do that, but it will just ingrain your negative traits more deeply to constantly remind yourself of them. Tell yourself who you want to be. I just finished day 1 of 21 days of consistently working on myself and on May 1, I plan to wake up as a new woman. I’ve also found Sabrina Weibel’s videos extremely helpful, especially when she talks about releasing negative past emotions so they don’t continue to mess up your current reality. Good luck, and I hope everything works out for the best! You’ve got this ✨
Thank you for this video. I've been in such a shame spiral about how I acted in my last relationship but this helped me see that I'm not the only one who's dealing with these behaviors, and gave me a plan of action for moving forward. I am having a difficult time with step 4, any suggestions for that one in particular?
Toxicity runs in my family and nobody has addressed it. And failed relationship as well. My relationship failed with two men I dated because of my toxic behaviour. I'm at a point I feel like killing myself. I see no hope. But I'll try to take baby steps and improve.
Thank you for this! I want to be changed. 🙏😭
its a slow process... but it will definitely happen for you!
@@CyrusAusarI just wanted to.say Thank-you. You popped up just when I needed you! Relax, im.a Senior.
My thing is, I blame everyone from my past hurt. I accuse and assume all the time. My ex told me "dude messed you up everyone is not here to mess you over" But I think I need to get myself together before dating again. They say hurt people hurt people that may be true
I was really toxic, particularly in my late teens. I think what benefited me was being around far better quality people as I grew older. People who showed respect for others, but even more so to themselves. I had no respect for anyone, including myself, back then.
I really want to change my toxic behavior and need more help
Getting in contact with *Dr Danja The Spell Caster* has been a blessing to my marriage, now I am happily married to my husband..
I have never come across a great and wonderful spiritualist like *Dr Ase coven* I contacted him through face book and and my ex came back because of his great
Tysm, this really helped me a lot to realise how toxic I am right now, I say things that I see it as a joke but hurts others, I’ve been told many times I’m selfish and ungrateful but I do try to not be, I realise now that if I say something harmful I should expect something back and accept it as I deserve it
Maisha IAM working on myself 🥰
THANK YOU FOR RHIS VIDEO!! GOD BLESS YOUR DUDE. I love you mom, sorry
This was real, I didn’t realize I was toxic until a recent break up .!
I want to change so much. Thank you for this. This was super enlightening.
Why this video doesn't have enough views. You need more recognition. Thanks for this video. Very realistic and true daily situations.
Unlearning is very importent. And prepare Alternative ways than those wo lead into the Swamp.
I need advice. I am a young female and I just realized I have narcissistic traits/ habits/ behavior. I am not a full narcissist because I want to change. I am married to my partner of 3 years and he said he wanted us to split due to me treating him so badly. At first I didn’t know what he was talking about, but after reflecting and thinking about my actions in the past I realized what I was putting him the past 3 years. I treated him so badly and I feel so terrible and guilty now that we are so close to splitting. I do not want us to split, I truly do love him but I know I have problems that I need to improve on. I don’t want to do it alone I wish he would help me through this journey. I don’t want to hurt him anymore. I have recently been looking for a therapist or physiologist to help me with my toxic actions. What should I do??
Just tell her that you agree that you are toxic and u are ready to improve with help of him and promise him that these mistakes won't happen again.
I’m going through something very, very similar right now. You’re not a bad person, I promise, your subconscious mind has just been protecting you in ways that ended up being destructive. It’s also a great thing that you’re aware of it and want to change...that’s half the battle. Try taking action every single day (like meditating, repeating affirmations, practicing mindfulness/self awareness, listening to empowering music, envisioning your ideal version of yourself, etc) to become the best version of yourself. Really focus on thinking about yourself positively instead of beating yourself up for all the hurtful things you’ve done. I know it might be tempting to do that, but it will just ingrain your negative traits more deeply to constantly remind yourself of them. Tell yourself who you want to be. I just finished day 1 of 21 days of consistently working on myself and on May 1, I plan to wake up as a new woman. I’ve also found Sabrina Weibel’s videos extremely helpful, especially when she talks about releasing negative past emotions so they don’t continue to mess up your current reality. Good luck, and I hope everything works out for the best! You’ve got this ✨
this is a great video. thank you very much
Thank you for this video. I've been in such a shame spiral about how I acted in my last relationship but this helped me see that I'm not the only one who's dealing with these behaviors, and gave me a plan of action for moving forward. I am having a difficult time with step 4, any suggestions for that one in particular?
Toxicity runs in my family and nobody has addressed it. And failed relationship as well. My relationship failed with two men I dated because of my toxic behaviour. I'm at a point I feel like killing myself. I see no hope. But I'll try to take baby steps and improve.
Thank you , i want to change myself , I have to selfd determined
Thank you for this sir. I’m trying to keep being my best self
Great lesson. Thank you
Thanks bro really motivated me
Thank you
Thanks man, appreciate this
thank you!
That's true
If you have a video on how to make that plan you talk about of steps to take when you are feeling triggered can you please tag me on it 😫
Can you link your 10 Ways to Recognize Your Own Toxic Behavior video. I can't find it anywhere.
@@lillaanafortier650 10 Way to Recognize Your Toxic Behavior | @CyrusAusar
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#1 should have been "define toxic"
Thank you
Thank you!