As parents, people tend to let their children do things their parents never let them do and restrict things that they thought ruined hen as children. Parents often apply either more lax or more strict versions of their parent’s parenting. My grandma overfed my mom and she became obese. So in turn, my mom is trying her hardest to keep me healthy. Maybe she thinks her child is naive because she can see herself in her child. Maybe she has had bad experiences or had made mistakes that she doesn’t want her child to have/make. Children are a reflection of their parents. It’s only fair that she sees herself in her child and is worried.
@@livent7514 this is what people should know. when you have a problem, solve it. don't procrastinate. the problem is her mom and her mom should go to a psychologist and ask regarding her crazy anxiety. if she keeps living like this, she's going to suffer from mental disorders in the future. yes, keep this up and your whole freaking family will have a mental problem. stop with the stupid worrying excuse, worrying is normal, but people should know to what extent they should worry. i bet this girl will be so problematic in the future, and it's not even her fault in the first place, poor girl.
@@livent7514 what does it mean by being physically healthy but not mentally healthy? lol yeah, go read some books. stress creates disease, asking your child to stay at home for one whole year to keep her healthy? you need to go to the doctor, yes, don't procrastinate if you think this is normal. you have something wrong with your head.
I had extremely strict parents as a kid and I was never allowed to do anything now I'm 22 and I don't like going out and have social anxiety and I honestly think that my childhood contributed to that. It's funny because now they want me to go out and say I stay home too much.
OMG, me too and I’m 23 turning 24 in July! They tell me to go out too but when I TRY, they interrogate me SO much about where I’m going and who I’m going with that it totally puts me off and I end up cancelling! Like seriously, it was acceptable when I was a kid, but now I’m a responsible adult who doesn’t drink or smoke or hang out with bad people so just let me be! Their overbearing behavior is probably the reason why I have depression now...
Same, but I'm 16 and I have internships and volunteer sites where I have to work with adults, which is difficult for me because I started to develop a fear of talking with adults. It's even difficult for me to interact with my teachers when they try to poke fun and make jokes and stuff. I can't look them in the eye and say anything back because I'm so afraid.
Technically guy idols are actually encouraged to be free ( some ) while females can’t because they have to keep this innocent side for the male fans, it’s also there to not disturb them so yea
Convert to Seokjin Religion NekoJintoxic things like those have to be learned by experiencing it, it's not something that can be taught in school or by our parents.
Arin Yoon yes true true Am still young and i still have a lot to learn and experience by myself For me to be able to stand on my own when i'll be an adult. A parent is there to guide you A parent needs to find a balance between being a friend and a mother The mother should give her liberty but at least keep an eye on what she's doing Thus they would be able to live together
my mom would do one of two interrogate the dude or after a couple of months have me bring him to my family if he can stand my family’s craziness my mom would then welcome him with open arms
If the mom keeps this up, the daughter is gonna start to feel a deep dislike/resentment against her. Also, I can see the daughter falling into depression in the future.
sammi love Yup. Pretty much describing my life there. Depriving me from privacy and trying to control everything i am and do, also calling my friends making me look like an idiot. When i was 10 years old i started to realize that adults are not always right, they dont always do or want what is best for you, i didnt feel safe at school or at home, and at 13 years i just wanted to die. I never felt like i was truly free, i grew up hating any kind of authority, my trust in mankind was obliterated, i couldn't form any normal relationships, started smoking weed and skipping school.. i mean, what's the point of living a life if all you do is listen to what people tell you what to do? Even now, people try to force me into work while they know i only got the chance to do really shitty jobs, surrounded by people with half my IQ.. Fuck that. I'm growing weed now, if i get caught i get caught but at least i'm doing something that i like and i am not hurting anyone with it, people telling me that's wrong are hypocrite.
My mom's exactly the same. She'll go "do you even have friends?" or "what's the point of having a boyfriend if you don't go out?" and when I do go out she'll blow up my phone with calls and texts asking me to get home quickly. Smh.
My mother: *get out of your fucking room. You're always in the damn house* Also my mother: *why tf are you always out?? Vas a ver, I'm going to tell your dad!*
Wow I cant believe that u guys argue about this kind of matter..obviously its everybody own preference..not everyone have the same way/standard to define their interest Edit : I refer to the "r u serious?" statement
I don't think psychologists do a great job. I think people who r wise enough will do the job. My friends r better than the therapist I go to lol. N if the mom doesn't understand now she doesn't want to understand and a psychologist won't make her understand anyway.
kissmeon theribs nah, i think psychologist just listen and didnt point up what they did wrong, the people on this show didnt even realize their wrongdoings and this show help people snap out of their sense, they need opinion and judgement from the other ppl to realize their wrongdoings. There are some psycho, overly obsessed and overly addicted prople who didnt even realize what are they doing wrong. I think this show help people to resolve the matters together, not just mentally.
j t well for some concerns, yes, your friends may feel better just because they're more comfortable. But a lot of these concerns are actual disorders or problems that only a professional can, and should, properly diagnose and develop a way to treat. If you have something like severe depression, JUST having your friends there may not be the best case. You wouldn't go to your friends if you had an injury or something right? Psychological problems are just as important, sometimes if not more. And the mom in this case may never understand, but professional advice may still be needed just to give her a different perspective.
This show is more to make people inside n outside the broadcast knewing problems the person who come to tell their story. Its mlre they want to tell others and shares their pains. Sometimes telling other stories can released stress they having.
I think this is a concern what I'm seeing the comments that people are forgetting is that at her age and a bit younger being able to move around town on your own with your friends is normal. Having a restriction that she basically goes to school, then private lessons on weekdays and on her weekends she has to be home by 4-5pm even then she can't really do anything without her mom being in her busy and following her around. She has no freedom to explore and have fun, she does study during the week but I think she should be able to have the weekends to have fun. The privacy thing is just weird though being protective is one thing but this mom is kinda odd going through her daughters phone. And parents shouldn't curse at there children it's not healthy for their mental state and how they view their parents. If the mom keeps this up their relationship when she finally becomes independent will be almost non existent.
idk seems normal to me. I'm 18 and all my friends still have to ask parents to go out and during the school year we would not meet out of school because we would not be allowed to.
Megh Desh cultural differences. I've learned that in most of asia (from what I've seen in korea, japan, china, thailand, and cambodia) parents allow their teens to go out until 8 or so. When I was in those countries I saw a bunch of kids everywhere just freely walking along the streets. I think it's a maturity/trust kind of thing. It may not be the same for you but based on practically everyone's pov aside from the mother, it seems like they're all shocked that the mother only lets her daughter out until 5.
just tell me why hmmm maybe. All my friends are asian and I myself am an Asian, so same culture. However, you could still be right I guess. I still feel like 15 is a bit too young but that's my pov.
Eziali my mom didn't allow me to go out alone. but as a good mom, she will following me to met my friends. and oh ya, we are allowed to go out until 7pm.
My introverted ass can't relate 😂 my mom basically bribes me just to get out of my room for 2 hours. She's so pretty tho. Maybe that's why the mom is so protective.
Me too but here I am have to take responsibility for household as my mum is working in foreign country inorder to feed me and my sisters I never went out with my friends in school and high school now I am in university but rarely go out with my friends and it's always shopping for household not hangout
Wow. I wish I had my own room. In this house. Regardless of how introverted, we see each other and touch each other 😨. I want my room that I can wallow innnnn. Or at least my own beeeed that isn't a deckeeeeer
Lmao I have many pictures of Kpop boys and my mom started shouting of why I have many CHINESE boys on my phone and If I dated all of them Yeah I wish I would date all of them fr I even showed Park Jimin ripping his shirt and grinding and told her he was my boyfriend and Y'all my mom almost faintend Lmaooo
This is goals. My parents know BTS is Korean, but they constantly tease me about dating them or whatever and when their song comes on while playing the radio, they yell, "YOUR BOYFRIENDS ARE HAVING THEIR MUSIC PLAYED."
the mother is so controlling and that method of raising her child is going to slap her in the face. All that oppression will only lead the daughter to eventually exploding one day and ending up doing everything her mother doesn't let her do. Even with all the control, the daughter manages to have 10 boyfriends, just wait until she has more independence .....
D.O loves Jungkookie Korea may be conservative but most parents still let their children go out, that mother is being too controlling and has to understand that her daughter needs some privacy.
She's fifteen years old. She is most definitely old enough to go out to the theatre to watch movies with her friends. She is old enough to have a boyfriend, because these things are called living; she needs to learn and experience heartbreak and such while she's young. Privacy MUST be respected, and her mother going through her phone and reading all her text messages and stuff? That's awful. She can't crack dirty jokes and talk about personal things with her friends, because her mother is gong to read them, and get mad. The girl is hardly living. She's pretty much trapped. It's horrible. She needs freedom. She needs privacy. Her mother is building walls between her daughter and society. She's not going to be as close with her friends, as they're scared of her mother, and she can't even hang out with them. The boys will think she's a freak. And most importantly, the girl is UNHAPPY.
Uwaaa i wish everyone thought like that :(( Im 14 this year but im not even allowed to go to the playground near my house to meet up with my female friends. Im only allowed to have a boyfriend when im 21 *^*
· gavrina · Tbh my Mum is pretty strict (im 14) im not allowed to date any boys, and i litterally never go out to hang out with my friends, omg and when im waitng for my mum to collect me from school some boys (when they're close with girls) give me a hug and its so awkward cuz like i cant push them away so i just hug back and pray to God my mum didnt see anything xD tbh i did get used to it by now but the whole boys issue is difficult
Also the more she restricts the more she is gonna rebel and his things from her in the future ....if this attitude of her mom continue then that is what will definitely happen ...in fact that is the reason she has dated around 10 ppl ....also she will have deep resentment towards her mother ....this is very bad for her .
yasss finally someone who can understand, this child will be so problematic in the future if her mom keeps this up. the worst part is she will have mental health problems and it's not even her fault in the first place.
I feel like there would be two sides, either she would become have extreme social anxiety and less self esteem , cause of how much the mother overprotects her and invades her space or they can become even more rebellious and start doing stuff behind her mom's back Either way it's not good
i can relate by this even tho im the mom here.... my husband is so strict to my eldest daughter.. me on the other hand im more easy going to my daughter(since my mom is strict bck then) i let her do what she wants behind my husband back.. since i feel bad for her.. my sis in laws kids always jealous of my daughter that they trick my husband that my daughter got bf(even tho they dont hang out or talk with my daughter its just d jealousy idk why ... (but tbh if she did she will tell me cuz even someone guy likes her she will tell me asap she dont hide nun from me) my husband dont let my daughter go anywhere without me... she dont hang out wd friends cuz of her dad... so im the one telling her secretly "give me ur besties number ill set u both and hang out in d mall" if she hesitate bout her dad i just tell her "dont worry im just gonna say im buying things for couple of hour.. then i let u hang out with them.. and im just gonna wait for yall in d parking lot when you both done" ik i should be stepping up why my husband do this but.. i cant argue with a narrowminded person i cnt change him or his toxic fam... i just gonna do what i hve to do so my kids be happy...
that's exactly right. when I was in middle school, my parents were so strict about me going out. I was not even allowed to sleep in my friend's house eventhough it was a girl. it's very hard for me to hang out with my friends if there are boys too. since they restricted me too much, I became much more interested in those kind of things and I dated a lot, I even got acquaintance with older boys that I got to know from internet etc
My father is very strict. So strict than this, and I've been experiencing this for 5 years but I didn't rebel even once, maybe it depends on the mentality?
i'm 15 also and here my mom who always says "don't you wanna date someone?" "go out atleast twice a week" "why are you so obssesed with your room?" lol
omg this is exactly what my mom says except the dating thing .......i dont even go out....... the girl goes out atleast 5 to 6 times in a year...i go out just once a year lol .....
Wah I wish my mom would say that to me just once........If my mom sees me with a guy she would say is that ur bf don't u dare date someone or u'll be out of the house
My parents also restricted the hell out of me and my siblings. We were barely allowed to stay up past 5pm. It took an hour just to go somewhere with my friends so I couldn't even hang out. Now all of us are shutins aside from one of us. She stays out late every night and returns at 1-2am. That's basically what restricting your children gets you. They get tired of being restricted and starts to rebel when they have a chance.
HitThe Jackpot yup! (Your username is perfect in this context lol) It's like reverse psychology. Everything in moderation. Too much of anything is usually going to backfire somehow.
my parents are basically 10x as strict and when i heard that she went out 5 to 6 times in the year i was like woah! thats how much Ive been out in my entire life... rip
my parents were never THIS bad when I was growing up, but they were controlling as hell. no internet after 10pm till I was 14, no t.v. on weekends, be home by 9, etc. So the minute I left home (I study medicine abroad) I was drinking, smoking, going out around three times every week etc. I'm not as bad now, but I still do smoke, and drink, and have a bad time maintaining relationships with guys. they're much less controlling now, but I still find it hard to fully trust them, and if I have issues I go to my friends or try to solve it myself. I know this is long, but it's unhealthy to treat your kids this way, it's borderline abusive.
Was it hot ? eehh.... tbh, my parents were pretty much what you just described and even if i was so mad at them, because i wasn't allowed to have internet in the evening, but to be honest, at that age it's also kind of understandable now that i'm 19... i was never drinking, smoking, never dated, never went to the disco or did anything like that.. i mean, i really don't judge anybody, my point is more like: strict parents aren't the reason for all of the things you do :) (once again, i REALLY don't judge you! like, for real, i do NOT think you are bad or anything like that. besides, you already mentioned, that you got better! :3 so that's cool and i seriously cheer for you and hope that you can be truly happy~)
I can understand her mom's concern .. her Daughter grew up physically and easily looks over 18 but still a child mentally .. but her Mom should educate her about the world and people outside .. instead of blocking all the channels to the outside world.
Damn if Taejoon sat next to me, I would be too shy and embarrassed to look at him too. He's just literally so handsome. Especially in his movie, Eclipse he gives off a bad guy vibe but he's so good-looking
WAIT this is common to basically not go out with your friends when you are 15??? Is my social life seriously that bad? (I'm not talking about anything else)
I think its one thing if its by choice, whether you hang out with friends or not, if you want to then you should be allowed to and of you dont want to, then you shouldn't have to
i’m 16 and i go out with my friends at least once a week.. and i’m the most introverted in my social group. i guess it’s different cultures as well but the girls mom restricting her to this extent is too muh
It is up to you. Most people want to go out if you don't that's fine. But if you feel lonely without going out you should change that asap it is much harder to make friends as an adult especially if you aren't very good at making friends.
Her mom is very narrow minded ...I think she is very conservative and worries about what society thinks also ppl who have girl children often tend to be more secured and doubtful if u know what I mean But still that is no reason for letting her be free ....the girl deserves to be free ....totally out of context but her fashion sense is 💯 🤗🤗🤗🤗
yeppp, 100% right. this girl is a human being, and she deserves to be free (to an extent). her mom is the root of the problem, it's not even her fault, but this girl could have mental health problems in the future. poor girl.
It took me a while to think of it but am I the only one who thinks the girl resembles *Yooa from Oh My Girl?* Shes really pretty and I could know why she got 10 boyfriends
My mom does this alll the time whenever i talk to my a guy friend she says "who is the boy " ," why are you talking with him", "are you and this guy in some relationship" its just so frustrating and tiring i have to explain my mom that the guy is ONLY a friend , she reads my text messages to see if i am doing something wrong
Omg same, one time when I was out with my family, I met up with one of my classmates and he approached me because he was looking for something and then my mom straight up asked right after "who is he? Is he your classmate? What's his name" and she wouldn't stop looking at him, it's like she already has a grudge on him omfg
그것은 리 채-린이야. 암캐. aw just plastic. try a wooden table at 11 or 12. ;) gotta love east asian parents, luckily i dodged thanks to my karate and kick boxing lessons kind of helping my reactions and reflexes be quicker
Well, it's actually not that good to be so strict with your daughter because sometimes they might turn rebellious just like my friend. But the fact that the girl is 15 and already dated 10 boys must be a worry, because you never know what can happen. So i think it's ok that her mom is strict about it. But seriously locking your child in your house and not letting her go out in any place is a bad parenting
i think she's dated that many because she couldn't last long in a relationship and wanted to be in one. if she was able to have a longer relationship with the mother interferring then i think she would have dated fewer because she wouldn't have ended too quickly
Taehyung.serendipity My mom was like that too. The only difference is that I'm 23 and haven't dated yet. She can either become a rebel or become an awkward person. I became an awkward person because of my mom. She just said a few days ago that she doesn't want to anymore because of a stupid package that my cousin didn't pick up. I'm sorry for my bad English.
I'm just going to assume that she doesn't get enough attention from her mom or family, so she's looking for it elsewhere. Can't blame her. Everyone wants to be loved and to love. :/ based on how her mom treats her, she's just pushing her away. 😔
7:26 Omg she looks a lot like V when she's smiling, plus the fact that she has a beauty spot on her nose 😂😂❤. Ps: don't hate on me please, it's just my opinion ^-^.
I think her mother is worried cos she knows her daughter is very pretty 😂 But I can understand her mom tho. My mom was worse than her, i could only have my own phone when i entered the university and it was sooo hard for me to be allowed to go out with my friends (i only have that freedom in my last year of degree). And when i think about it now, it was kinda wise to control me like that cos now that i reflect back on my life, there were many bad choices that i could make if my mom wasn't there to stop me. But yes controlling excessively like that could make kids to be rebellious too.I think the difference here is that instead of the mom making the daughter be afraid of her by scolding her and such, she should make her daughter obey her out of love and respect, and not fear? Idk but for me, the only reason i didn't go long with my rebellious phase was cos i love and respect my mom too much to trouble her and make her upset, not that i'm saying the daughter doesn't love her mom. Ugh idk how to explain 🤷♀️
mega rainy same, just as my grandparents are. But I just told them how guys of my age are nowadays. They only want one thing and leave after and I'm not down for that. And my grandparents where shocked by how I spoke and I just said you wanted a reason, now you have one and dont talk about it again cause you will get an even more descriptive answer. They havent mentioned it since 👍
Ok so you are telling me she is 15yo and dated 10boys and then there is me who's turning 21, never dated a boy in my whole life :) btw she is so damn pretty , tall avsjvdjd
damn she already dated 10 boys im here sitting waiting for my prince charming to come pick me up tho but shes only 15 yrs old oh god what am i doing with my LIFE
I literally had the same problem as hers too ... and I absolutrly felt what she's feeling. Before, my mom wouldn't let me go out even just ONCE, she'll get my phone before sleeping, and even knows my social media password then stalks my inbox. It also started when she found out that I started dating someone. She didn't like it and she said that I can only date someone when I'm done studying TT and like her mother too, my mom texted the guy, and told him to stay away from me, scolding me before I go to school, and even talks about it with her friends(and now I can't even look at their eyes) she puts me into a lot of shame TT then I started not talking to anyone, and felt depressed... that was a hard time😂😂😂💀 but fortunately, she stopped now that I broke up with that guy... now I realized that maybe she's doing it for my own good.. but she was toooo strict. P.S until now, i still can't hang out or go out with my friends lol
The sad thing is that my friends parents are exactly like this also. They take away her phone at night and dont let her have it until noon, they don't let her have her phone alone in her room, they look through her social media, pictures, notes, etc. They take away her school chromebook, they make her take down blm and lgbtq things she posts, *she doesn't even have a door to her room.* And in 3 days, (when school starts again) she's only allowed to have her phone for an hour a day. She was recently diagnosed with depression but her parents don't help her at all and just keep restricting things. No matter how many reasons we come up with of why should should have more privacy, they don't listen because to them, we're still just dumb kids who don't know any better. Please, if any of you are pregnant or planning to have kids, don't do this to them. She cuts daily and I can't be there to stop her because her family doesn't trust us together. Please let your child have freedom. Just because you created them doesn't give you the right to control everything they do.
1st of all the girl should become a trainee or smth she's very pretty and seems nice. 2nd of Her mother is soon annoying. Parents ought to understand that the more strict you are more you cause all the things you forbid to appear appealing to your child ( like the forbidden fruit). 3rd of all Joy, goddess you tell her!♡
I can understand her mother regarding their leaving in small town and everyone talking about people and who dated who I can relate to that sometimes big cities are blessing thing
I’m a Filipina and I have worse rules;) 1. If you don’t do atleast 3 chores, no phone. 2.Has to give phone at 7:30 3.Cant go out. Never been outside with friends before:< 4. Checks photos, chats, friends, friend’s family background. 5. Collects every single friend’s numbers (yes even their parents) 6. Cant wear short skirts, crop tops. (Anything going higher above the knees, anything that shows too much skin) 7. Cant wear makeup. 8. Cant talk back unless you want the slipper:0 9. Has over 30+ rules in the house. 10. Cant swear. 11. Cant have guy friends:( Thanks for listening to my Ted Talk
I remembered my little sister with that "skeleton" word because we used to call her like that when she was young and I'm using her account to reply at your comment. I want t tell you, you made my day. hahahaha
People wanted her to have more weight but then when she gained weight,some people called her fat...I feel so bad for the poor idol who has to live through that,Controlling fans are disgusting
Chanyeol Hyung Actually she was at a perfect weight and no one was complaining but she suddenly ended up gaining a lot of weight due to stress and tight schedules. She was heavily criticised for it especially after not losing any weight after a period of time unseen from the public. When they made their next comeback Wendy had lost an extreme amount of weight. She then got criticised for being too skinny and bony.
I can relate to her. My dad never let me go out to eat with friends. Then he expects me to ask the cashier for extra tissues which is hard because I became really socially awkward.
It makes me glad that my parents were extremely strict with me when I was younger, and became a lot more lenient as I entered high school. The only things I couldn't do were get a boyfriend and stay out too late which I didn't really mind. So thank, God I never had to experience this.
I grew up with strict parents as well and even though I understand why my parents are strict and protective of me, it still frustrates me when I had to go through their many levels of clearance before I can go out with my friends. I can't really blame my parents, it's the bad and ugly parts of society that made them so protective.
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"is it because he is too handsome?"
"Yes"
"What does that make me?"
amakookie chan 😂
A trash can lmao 😂
Where did she said that
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@@lizbetagocejo5457 5:37
“My daughter is quite naive”
I wonder why? Maybe it has to do with the fact that you never let her do anything.
It's because daughter is liberated that's why she's strict
As parents, people tend to let their children do things their parents never let them do and restrict things that they thought ruined hen as children. Parents often apply either more lax or more strict versions of their parent’s parenting. My grandma overfed my mom and she became obese. So in turn, my mom is trying her hardest to keep me healthy. Maybe she thinks her child is naive because she can see herself in her child. Maybe she has had bad experiences or had made mistakes that she doesn’t want her child to have/make. Children are a reflection of their parents. It’s only fair that she sees herself in her child and is worried.
Elisabeth Lyonheart eyyy atiny
@@livent7514 this is what people should know. when you have a problem, solve it. don't procrastinate. the problem is her mom and her mom should go to a psychologist and ask regarding her crazy anxiety. if she keeps living like this, she's going to suffer from mental disorders in the future. yes, keep this up and your whole freaking family will have a mental problem. stop with the stupid worrying excuse, worrying is normal, but people should know to what extent they should worry. i bet this girl will be so problematic in the future, and it's not even her fault in the first place, poor girl.
@@livent7514 what does it mean by being physically healthy but not mentally healthy? lol yeah, go read some books. stress creates disease, asking your child to stay at home for one whole year to keep her healthy? you need to go to the doctor, yes, don't procrastinate if you think this is normal. you have something wrong with your head.
Can we talk about how gorgeous the girl is? And she's only 15. A little bit older and she can totally be a model.
Diannovi Nugraha IKR
I’m 15 and why I still look like a ping wing 😭 god why does my glow up pas by me
I mean, I just turned 16 myself, but she looks so pretty and tall for her age, unlike me I'm so short and ugly 😣
Diannovi Nugraha ikr im a potato🥔
Okay...
I had extremely strict parents as a kid and I was never allowed to do anything now I'm 22 and I don't like going out and have social anxiety and I honestly think that my childhood contributed to that. It's funny because now they want me to go out and say I stay home too much.
Zeina Ian are you me? Lol. I became an ackward person because the way I was raised, but I'm trying to change step by step. It's very hard thoug 😕😧
OMG, me too and I’m 23 turning 24 in July! They tell me to go out too but when I TRY, they interrogate me SO much about where I’m going and who I’m going with that it totally puts me off and I end up cancelling! Like seriously, it was acceptable when I was a kid, but now I’m a responsible adult who doesn’t drink or smoke or hang out with bad people so just let me be! Their overbearing behavior is probably the reason why I have depression now...
Are you me? ahahaha
Same, but I'm 16 and I have internships and volunteer sites where I have to work with adults, which is difficult for me because I started to develop a fear of talking with adults. It's even difficult for me to interact with my teachers when they try to poke fun and make jokes and stuff. I can't look them in the eye and say anything back because I'm so afraid.
Zeina Ian Lol I had the same exact childhood they also tell me to go out that I stay too much at home but I feel the same way as you .
that sweet smile when she saw her sisters made my heart melt
Hannah Wondergem Ikr that was so cute!
Hannah Wondergem when ?
7:24 :)
ItssTeeVee thank you thank you !😀
Hannah Wondergem i know right!!
"What is so wrong to date?"
*Meanwhile grown-up kpop idols sign a No Dating contract*
😢😢
Markson Png not all tho
Technically guy idols are actually encouraged to be free ( some ) while females can’t because they have to keep this innocent side for the male fans, it’s also there to not disturb them so yea
Did u know a lot of kpop idol get into trouble bcause they r dating , there is a male idol kill by his gf .
u do realise theres a very big difference between kpop idols and just regular teenagers
@@myalovesdani kpop idols are still normal people and should be allowed to date, like everyone
"15 years old and dated 10 boys"
22 years old and dated 0 boys
sahar al buqami same 😂😂😂😂😂
Saaaaame
sahar al buqami 23 yrs old and dated 0 boys 😂
sahar al buqami same 😐
just turned 2,7 and never dated anyone.
she's my age and she's dated 10 guys already; I've never even held hands with a guy
Jin's Pink Hair I'm 20 never been in relationship among my friend I'm the only one who is single one of them is getting engaged
I've held hands with one guy...
....my dad.
I barely speak to boys nowadays in an all girls school
I’ve held hands with a guy a few times bc i had too (praying,field day,etc)😂
Same tho
7:25 ☺️ her smile is the prettiest
It really is 😊
A whole damn anime character like goddamn
evil smile to be correct
"my daughter is too naive"
how will she learn if she won't experience heartbreaks
Arin Yoon EXACTLY!!
We need to experience things first for us to be able to know what's good or bad
Convert to Seokjin Religion NekoJintoxic things like those have to be learned by experiencing it, it's not something that can be taught in school or by our parents.
Arin Yoon yes true true
Am still young and i still have a lot to learn and experience by myself
For me to be able to stand on my own when i'll be an adult.
A parent is there to guide you
A parent needs to find a balance between being a friend and a mother
The mother should give her liberty but at least keep an eye on what she's doing
Thus they would be able to live together
maybe her mom was worried about sth worse than heartbreak?
Arin Yoon agree
oh my..even her voice sounds depressing..poor girl..:(
She's a prisoner to her overbearing mother; I'd be defeated and depressed too!
My mom would literally throw a party when a guy call me on phone wjhsg
Wow your mom is great😂
Lucky
Same😂😂
Lucky! Your mom is forever young
my mom would do one of two interrogate the dude or after a couple of months have me bring him to my family if he can stand my family’s craziness my mom would then welcome him with open arms
OK BUT SHES SO PRETTY
nur i wanna find her on insta :(
UGH I'M GLAD SOMEONE AGREES I FELL FOR HER IN ONLY A VID WHAT
Ughh same, I would love to find her insta account. If she has one..
And i thought that i'm the only one thinking that she's cute
Areana T
She probs don't
If the mom keeps this up, the daughter is gonna start to feel a deep dislike/resentment against her. Also, I can see the daughter falling into depression in the future.
sammi love i feel like she's going to be very paranoid about everything when she grows up
I'm 15 and my parents told me I can't date until I move out
sammi love
Yup.
Pretty much describing my life there.
Depriving me from privacy and trying to control everything i am and do, also calling my friends making me look like an idiot.
When i was 10 years old i started to realize that adults are not always right, they dont always do or want what is best for you, i didnt feel safe at school or at home, and at 13 years i just wanted to die.
I never felt like i was truly free, i grew up hating any kind of authority, my trust in mankind was obliterated, i couldn't form any normal relationships, started smoking weed and skipping school.. i mean, what's the point of living a life if all you do is listen to what people tell you what to do?
Even now, people try to force me into work while they know i only got the chance to do really shitty jobs, surrounded by people with half my IQ..
Fuck that.
I'm growing weed now, if i get caught i get caught but at least i'm doing something that i like and i am not hurting anyone with it, people telling me that's wrong are hypocrite.
I grew up with an emotional abusive father and it’ll give her anxiety, depression and sometimes paranoia
yeah shes going to be very skeptical about things
My mom:
"Why you never go outside?? Get out!"
"Why always outside?? Come home!!"
*wat*
Exactly
Can relate
My mom's exactly the same. She'll go "do you even have friends?" or "what's the point of having a boyfriend if you don't go out?" and when I do go out she'll blow up my phone with calls and texts asking me to get home quickly. Smh.
Exactly
My mother: *get out of your fucking room. You're always in the damn house*
Also my mother: *why tf are you always out?? Vas a ver, I'm going to tell your dad!*
"People had babies even during wars" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👍🏼
o
I wouldn't look at him too, I'll probably faint sitting next to him 😂
My thoughts exactly, he is gorgeous. He definitely needs more media attention.
Rimmi Singh are you serious I think Jung yonghwa more attractive than him
Rimmi Singh are you serious I think Jung yonghwa is more attractive than him
Nah...
I prefer Taejoon. I like the cute-manly type better than the masculine-manly type XD
Wow I cant believe that u guys argue about this kind of matter..obviously its everybody own preference..not everyone have the same way/standard to define their interest
Edit : I refer to the "r u serious?" statement
"She was 160cm in Grade4".
Me: I was the size of an *ant* in Grade4 and throughout middle school.
Still a piece of garbage lol I will always remain the size of an ant 🐜
I was 170cm in 4th grade xD
Kerttu Hartikainen damn you’re a beanstalk sksksk
I'm 17 and not even 160cm . Sad life
Nicole Lim tragic ngl
she is 15 and already dated with 10 boys while i'm 19 and never been dated with anyone. :')
yeah. she is pretty
你 without 爱 same here but I'm 18
你 without 爱 rip
你 without 爱 Omg same ur not alone
你 without 爱 same
Yes I'm not alone 😭❤
When I was 15 my parents used to beg me to go out. lol
Ellena Mania hahahaha same 😂😂😂
Ellena Mania hahahaha xD same here
Ellena Mania same 😂😂
Ellena Mania same until now 😅
Ellena Mania my mom begged me out too but when I went out she would call me after an half n' hour to tell me to get home.
this show stresses me out. i need to stop watching these episodes at 2 in the morning.
jenny it’s exactly 2 AM for me rn
2:07 right now
2:24 for me rn
It’s 02:20 right now ;)
Unlike me who watches during 1-7 in the morning
do call psychologists to this show pls. the mother will never understand if it's only comedian, idol, and actor who says this and that.
kissmeon theribs I agree with you
I don't think psychologists do a great job. I think people who r wise enough will do the job. My friends r better than the therapist I go to lol. N if the mom doesn't understand now she doesn't want to understand and a psychologist won't make her understand anyway.
kissmeon theribs nah, i think psychologist just listen and didnt point up what they did wrong, the people on this show didnt even realize their wrongdoings and this show help people snap out of their sense, they need opinion and judgement from the other ppl to realize their wrongdoings. There are some psycho, overly obsessed and overly addicted prople who didnt even realize what are they doing wrong. I think this show help people to resolve the matters together, not just mentally.
j t well for some concerns, yes, your friends may feel better just because they're more comfortable. But a lot of these concerns are actual disorders or problems that only a professional can, and should, properly diagnose and develop a way to treat. If you have something like severe depression, JUST having your friends there may not be the best case. You wouldn't go to your friends if you had an injury or something right? Psychological problems are just as important, sometimes if not more. And the mom in this case may never understand, but professional advice may still be needed just to give her a different perspective.
This show is more to make people inside n outside the broadcast knewing problems the person who come to tell their story. Its mlre they want to tell others and shares their pains. Sometimes telling other stories can released stress they having.
I think this is a concern what I'm seeing the comments that people are forgetting is that at her age and a bit younger being able to move around town on your own with your friends is normal. Having a restriction that she basically goes to school, then private lessons on weekdays and on her weekends she has to be home by 4-5pm even then she can't really do anything without her mom being in her busy and following her around. She has no freedom to explore and have fun, she does study during the week but I think she should be able to have the weekends to have fun. The privacy thing is just weird though being protective is one thing but this mom is kinda odd going through her daughters phone. And parents shouldn't curse at there children it's not healthy for their mental state and how they view their parents. If the mom keeps this up their relationship when she finally becomes independent will be almost non existent.
idk seems normal to me. I'm 18 and all my friends still have to ask parents to go out and during the school year we would not meet out of school because we would not be allowed to.
Megh Desh cultural differences. I've learned that in most of asia (from what I've seen in korea, japan, china, thailand, and cambodia) parents allow their teens to go out until 8 or so. When I was in those countries I saw a bunch of kids everywhere just freely walking along the streets. I think it's a maturity/trust kind of thing.
It may not be the same for you but based on practically everyone's pov aside from the mother, it seems like they're all shocked that the mother only lets her daughter out until 5.
just tell me why hmmm maybe. All my friends are asian and I myself am an Asian, so same culture. However, you could still be right I guess. I still feel like 15 is a bit too young but that's my pov.
Eziali my mom didn't allow me to go out alone. but as a good mom, she will following me to met my friends. and oh ya, we are allowed to go out until 7pm.
Come on, not all asian cultures are the same.
My introverted ass can't relate 😂 my mom basically bribes me just to get out of my room for 2 hours. She's so pretty tho. Maybe that's why the mom is so protective.
Me too but here I am have to take responsibility for household as my mum is working in foreign country inorder to feed me and my sisters I never went out with my friends in school and high school now I am in university but rarely go out with my friends and it's always shopping for household not hangout
Wow. I wish I had my own room. In this house. Regardless of how introverted, we see each other and touch each other 😨.
I want my room that I can wallow innnnn. Or at least my own beeeed that isn't a deckeeeeer
Oh same 😂
Same😂
True
And here is my mom begging me to go out and socialize and finally date someone....
Exo Ruined My Life same here
yup! me too!
Exo Ruined My Life loooooool me too xD
Literally same 😂
Exo Ruined My Life sameeee & im older than her smh
She's so pretty
Ok but she’s so gorgeous. How is she just 15??
Actually 14 15 in kr age
Lmao I have many pictures of Kpop boys and my mom started shouting of why I have many CHINESE boys on my phone and If I dated all of them Yeah I wish I would date all of them fr I even showed Park Jimin ripping his shirt and grinding and told her he was my boyfriend and Y'all my mom almost faintend Lmaooo
This made my day!
PAJAHAHAHAHAHSJG NONONONOOOO "EOMMAAAAA JIMIN OPPA IS MAII NAMJACHINGUUUUUU"
This is goals. My parents know BTS is Korean, but they constantly tease me about dating them or whatever and when their song comes on while playing the radio, they yell, "YOUR BOYFRIENDS ARE HAVING THEIR MUSIC PLAYED."
ARI BRIELLE
OMG XD
Jimin grinding? how have I not seen that lol
the mother is so controlling and that method of raising her child is going to slap her in the face. All that oppression will only lead the daughter to eventually exploding one day and ending up doing everything her mother doesn't let her do. Even with all the control, the daughter manages to have 10 boyfriends, just wait until she has more independence .....
emma jung excatly what happened with me.. fell into the world of drugs
-Uryuu- Minene- really???
emma jung But then again you have to remember it's Korea
My friend's parents were very strict with her and as you say, once she became independent from them, she started to do crazy shit...
D.O loves Jungkookie Korea may be conservative but most parents still let their children go out, that mother is being too controlling and has to understand that her daughter needs some privacy.
5:30, you’re welcome
Ava Arif I don’t get it
Dirty Dirty Water My Faceuu The title.
Thank youuuuu
Haha me with my crush
Thaaaanks !
These korean shows are so interesting
그치?ㅎㅎ
@@hyojukim0924 ur not korean why are y answering in korean?cuz this person didn't wrote in korean too it meaningless
Ryte ? Too bad that the rating isn't that high.. huhuhu
@@anamiramin3613 I know 🥲
The mom is too strict like fr 👎🏼she needs to understand that her daughter is now a teen and needs privacy 🙂
I'm trash but only for Kim Namjoon shes a child at the end of the day
She's fifteen years old. She is most definitely old enough to go out to the theatre to watch movies with her friends. She is old enough to have a boyfriend, because these things are called living; she needs to learn and experience heartbreak and such while she's young. Privacy MUST be respected, and her mother going through her phone and reading all her text messages and stuff? That's awful. She can't crack dirty jokes and talk about personal things with her friends, because her mother is gong to read them, and get mad. The girl is hardly living. She's pretty much trapped. It's horrible. She needs freedom. She needs privacy. Her mother is building walls between her daughter and society. She's not going to be as close with her friends, as they're scared of her mother, and she can't even hang out with them. The boys will think she's a freak. And most importantly, the girl is UNHAPPY.
MulticultureINSPIRIT being a child doesnt mean you dont deserve to have privacy
she's not strict, she's abusive. There's a BIG difference.
Uwaaa i wish everyone thought like that :(( Im 14 this year but im not even allowed to go to the playground near my house to meet up with my female friends. Im only allowed to have a boyfriend when im 21 *^*
It's like that phrase
"Gun's don't kill people, Dad's with beautiful daughter's do"🤧🤣🤣🤣
my mom is strict but never to this point. 😭
· gavrina · same
· gavrina · same
Lucky mine is worse than this girls and I'm 16
LOL
· gavrina · Tbh my Mum is pretty strict (im 14) im not allowed to date any boys, and i litterally never go out to hang out with my friends, omg and when im waitng for my mum to collect me from school some boys (when they're close with girls) give me a hug and its so awkward cuz like i cant push them away so i just hug back and pray to God my mum didnt see anything xD tbh i did get used to it by now but the whole boys issue is difficult
Also the more she restricts the more she is gonna rebel and his things from her in the future ....if this attitude of her mom continue then that is what will definitely happen ...in fact that is the reason she has dated around 10 ppl ....also she will have deep resentment towards her mother ....this is very bad for her .
yasss finally someone who can understand, this child will be so problematic in the future if her mom keeps this up. the worst part is she will have mental health problems and it's not even her fault in the first place.
I feel like there would be two sides, either she would become have extreme social anxiety and less self esteem , cause of how much the mother overprotects her and invades her space or they can become even more rebellious and start doing stuff behind her mom's back
Either way it's not good
i can relate by this even tho im the mom here....
my husband is so strict to my eldest daughter..
me on the other hand im more easy going to my daughter(since my mom is strict bck then) i let her do what she wants behind my husband back.. since i feel bad for her..
my sis in laws kids always jealous of my daughter that they trick my husband that my daughter got bf(even tho they dont hang out or talk with my daughter its just d jealousy idk why ...
(but tbh if she did she will tell me cuz even someone guy likes her she will tell me asap she dont hide nun from me)
my husband dont let my daughter go anywhere without me... she dont hang out wd friends cuz of her dad...
so im the one telling her secretly "give me ur besties number ill set u both and hang out in d mall" if she hesitate bout her dad i just tell her "dont worry im just gonna say im buying things for couple of hour.. then i let u hang out with them.. and im just gonna wait for yall in d parking lot when you both done"
ik i should be stepping up why my husband do this but.. i cant argue with a narrowminded person i cnt change him or his toxic fam...
i just gonna do what i hve to do so my kids be happy...
that's exactly right. when I was in middle school, my parents were so strict about me going out. I was not even allowed to sleep in my friend's house eventhough it was a girl. it's very hard for me to hang out with my friends if there are boys too. since they restricted me too much, I became much more interested in those kind of things and I dated a lot, I even got acquaintance with older boys that I got to know from internet etc
My father is very strict. So strict than this, and I've been experiencing this for 5 years but I didn't rebel even once, maybe it depends on the mentality?
i'm 15 also and here my mom who always says "don't you wanna date someone?" "go out atleast twice a week" "why are you so obssesed with your room?" lol
omg this is exactly what my mom says except the dating thing .......i dont even go out....... the girl goes out atleast 5 to 6 times in a year...i go out just once a year lol .....
@@adimarai9293 same girl same😂
I go out to buy books maybe that's why my mom gives me money when I go out before.
Wah I wish my mom would say that to me just once........If my mom sees me with a guy she would say is that ur bf don't u dare date someone or u'll be out of the house
@@sakatariang my mom really hates the idea of dating 🧍♂️ and I like girls..🥲
My parents also restricted the hell out of me and my siblings. We were barely allowed to stay up past 5pm. It took an hour just to go somewhere with my friends so I couldn't even hang out. Now all of us are shutins aside from one of us. She stays out late every night and returns at 1-2am. That's basically what restricting your children gets you. They get tired of being restricted and starts to rebel when they have a chance.
HitThe Jackpot yup! (Your username is perfect in this context lol) It's like reverse psychology. Everything in moderation. Too much of anything is usually going to backfire somehow.
she looks like Yeri 😍😍😍
Glad i wasn't the only one who thought that 😂
Paula Safira yessss i was looking for someone else who thought this
i think so
Annoying
Paula Safira maybe it is
And now Taejoon is married. He's so kind and cute😍😍
Taejoon's name on the title is such a click bait.
Cali Mori but that's not the point of the video 😂
Cali Mori okay right😊
that girl is so pretty
Handsome Tae Joon. Very talented actor too.
my parents are basically 10x as strict and when i heard that she went out 5 to 6 times in the year i was like woah! thats how much Ive been out in my entire life... rip
J73^^ cultural differences is all i have to say
factsssss
J73^^ SAME HERE...I've been out for 6 times to be exact in my whole lyf cus deyr so protective over me...I'm 15 btw
yup, thankfully im off to college now so ill have a little more freedom hopefully^^
J73^^ SAME DUDE 😂😂
so happy for tae joon and shin hye, god bless them
I think the mum is so protective because her daughter is very pretty.
my parents were never THIS bad when I was growing up, but they were controlling as hell. no internet after 10pm till I was 14, no t.v. on weekends, be home by 9, etc. So the minute I left home (I study medicine abroad) I was drinking, smoking, going out around three times every week etc. I'm not as bad now, but I still do smoke, and drink, and have a bad time maintaining relationships with guys. they're much less controlling now, but I still find it hard to fully trust them, and if I have issues I go to my friends or try to solve it myself.
I know this is long, but it's unhealthy to treat your kids this way, it's borderline abusive.
Was it hot ? This was very interesting to read. Wish you the best.
Was it hot ? eehh.... tbh, my parents were pretty much what you just described and even if i was so mad at them, because i wasn't allowed to have internet in the evening, but to be honest, at that age it's also kind of understandable now that i'm 19... i was never drinking, smoking, never dated, never went to the disco or did anything like that.. i mean, i really don't judge anybody, my point is more like: strict parents aren't the reason for all of the things you do :) (once again, i REALLY don't judge you! like, for real, i do NOT think you are bad or anything like that. besides, you already mentioned, that you got better! :3 so that's cool and i seriously cheer for you and hope that you can be truly happy~)
André Domingues thank you :')
Lo D yup we're working with each other to get closer to each other again :') and thank you💕
I don't trust my parents at ALL! Idk why. They always say it to my siblings out LOUD?!
Lmao she's so pretty
I can understand her mom's concern .. her Daughter grew up physically and easily looks over 18 but still a child mentally .. but her Mom should educate her about the world and people outside .. instead of blocking all the channels to the outside world.
She will appreciate it when she grows up.
Damn if Taejoon sat next to me, I would be too shy and embarrassed to look at him too. He's just literally so handsome. Especially in his movie, Eclipse he gives off a bad guy vibe but he's so good-looking
Elena Kendrick I agree, he's so handsome !!
Elena Kendrick yasss I saw him On missing nine and even if he acted as a bad guy, I loved him so much!
That little smile she did when her sisters were mentioned. 💕 you can tell that she loves her sisters. ❤
WAIT this is common to basically not go out with your friends when you are 15??? Is my social life seriously that bad? (I'm not talking about anything else)
I think its one thing if its by choice, whether you hang out with friends or not, if you want to then you should be allowed to and of you dont want to, then you shouldn't have to
i’m 16 and i go out with my friends at least once a week.. and i’m the most introverted in my social group. i guess it’s different cultures as well but the girls mom restricting her to this extent is too muh
not it is not common. You should go out with your friends when you are 15.
It is up to you. Most people want to go out if you don't that's fine. But if you feel lonely without going out you should change that asap it is much harder to make friends as an adult especially if you aren't very good at making friends.
When im 15, i just went out with friends almost every day. You only have your friends when u don't have enough entertainment at home.
Her mom is very narrow minded ...I think she is very conservative and worries about what society thinks also ppl who have girl children often tend to be more secured and doubtful if u know what I mean
But still that is no reason for letting her be free ....the girl deserves to be free ....totally out of context but her fashion sense is 💯
🤗🤗🤗🤗
yeppp, 100% right. this girl is a human being, and she deserves to be free (to an extent). her mom is the root of the problem, it's not even her fault, but this girl could have mental health problems in the future. poor girl.
It took me a while to think of it but am I the only one who thinks the girl resembles *Yooa from Oh My Girl?* Shes really pretty and I could know why she got 10 boyfriends
SoneReVeluv #GIRLS6ENERAT10N #HolidayNight she looks like a mix of Yooa and Yeri
Having strict parents drove me from having social anxiety into having a crackhead energy..idk why
Same here and I’m not allowed out either, not allowed to stay in my room either
My mom does this alll the time whenever i talk to my a guy friend she says "who is the boy " ," why are you talking with him", "are you and this guy in some relationship" its just so frustrating and tiring i have to explain my mom that the guy is ONLY a friend , she reads my text messages to see if i am doing something wrong
Omg same, one time when I was out with my family, I met up with one of my classmates and he approached me because he was looking for something and then my mom straight up asked right after "who is he? Is he your classmate? What's his name" and she wouldn't stop looking at him, it's like she already has a grudge on him omfg
Mariya Hussain when same happens to me I just go "mom im gay!"
My mom too
My parents are just as strict 😂 but I don't mind since I'm a major introvert and prefer to stay with my mum rather than friends 24/7 😂
unicorn yixing me too 😂
unicorn yixing yeah me too!
Me too hahahha
Same😂 my parents are strict but in my case I don't mind because I'm lazy and like staying home most of the time
Choi Tae Joon is really funny 😂
Well, my mom just threw a plastic pipe at me... I'm 22..
그것은 리 채-린이야. 암캐. aw just plastic. try a wooden table at 11 or 12. ;) gotta love east asian parents, luckily i dodged thanks to my karate and kick boxing lessons kind of helping my reactions and reflexes be quicker
what?!?!?!? oh my....
みう why are you being condescending? Lmao she's just saying she's had a bad experience with her mom.
+Vic right? as if it is a contest of pride between who gets beaten better ha ha
Try a damn glass 😌
Well, it's actually not that good to be so strict with your daughter because sometimes they might turn rebellious just like my friend. But the fact that the girl is 15 and already dated 10 boys must be a worry, because you never know what can happen. So i think it's ok that her mom is strict about it. But seriously locking your child in your house and not letting her go out in any place is a bad parenting
i think she's dated that many because she couldn't last long in a relationship and wanted to be in one. if she was able to have a longer relationship with the mother interferring then i think she would have dated fewer because she wouldn't have ended too quickly
Taehyung.serendipity My mom was like that too. The only difference is that I'm 23 and haven't dated yet.
She can either become a rebel or become an awkward person.
I became an awkward person because of my mom.
She just said a few days ago that she doesn't want to anymore because of a stupid package that my cousin didn't pick up.
I'm sorry for my bad English.
I'm just going to assume that she doesn't get enough attention from her mom or family, so she's looking for it elsewhere. Can't blame her. Everyone wants to be loved and to love. :/ based on how her mom treats her, she's just pushing her away. 😔
7:26
Omg she looks a lot like V when she's smiling, plus the fact that she has a beauty spot on her nose 😂😂❤.
Ps: don't hate on me please, it's just my opinion ^-^.
It honestly sounds like the mother is suffering from PTSD and paranoia.
I think her mother is worried cos she knows her daughter is very pretty 😂 But I can understand her mom tho. My mom was worse than her, i could only have my own phone when i entered the university and it was sooo hard for me to be allowed to go out with my friends (i only have that freedom in my last year of degree). And when i think about it now, it was kinda wise to control me like that cos now that i reflect back on my life, there were many bad choices that i could make if my mom wasn't there to stop me. But yes controlling excessively like that could make kids to be rebellious too.I think the difference here is that instead of the mom making the daughter be afraid of her by scolding her and such, she should make her daughter obey her out of love and respect, and not fear? Idk but for me, the only reason i didn't go long with my rebellious phase was cos i love and respect my mom too much to trouble her and make her upset, not that i'm saying the daughter doesn't love her mom. Ugh idk how to explain 🤷♀️
Correct......
daneelee bad choices are there to learn from.... how are you supposed to learn how to handle these kind of situation without any experience
daneelee arent you over 21??
I totally agree with you... And this is quiet normal in Asian culture. I don't know why everyone in the comment section is getting so mad 😂
I agree a lot and i think my life is way more worse than her so that is not a big problem for me 😂
우리나라 채널이고 우리나라 댓글들 보면서 공감을 얻고싶은데...죄다 영어밖에 없으니....
ㅠㅜ
그러게
이참에 영어 공부 좀 해.
kbs world입니다. 애초에 외국인들 겨냥한거임
간간이 보이는 한국어 찾는중..ㅋㅋㅋ ㅠㅠ
Yonghwa story more fun n funny...hahaha...but my mom just like mom joy....i love my mom...
The indignation on Taejoon's face is gold he is so cute, caring and he always makes wise comments
8:22
Also knetizens: *DATING IS SCANDAL*
those are just the girl fans who are jealous
i'm 24, single, and my parents keep telling me to get a bf..
lmao u should ...
Same, recently turned 24! My last relationship lasted for a month and I have been single for five years now 😂😅
mega rainy same, just as my grandparents are. But I just told them how guys of my age are nowadays. They only want one thing and leave after and I'm not down for that. And my grandparents where shocked by how I spoke and I just said you wanted a reason, now you have one and dont talk about it again cause you will get an even more descriptive answer. They havent mentioned it since 👍
You're lucky. I'm in my 20's and my parents doesn't want me to be in a relationship 😂
mega rainy I am 22 been single for life and everyone is telling me to get married straight 😂
“What the hell? No way!”
No, say it like a mom
*puts hand on hip and doesn’t change anything else* “What the hell? No way!”
she's so pretty!! her hair is really cute and the red lip looks good on her
Her mother like my mother but i used to it, because i'm introvert .
Ok so you are telling me she is 15yo and dated 10boys and then there is me who's turning 21, never dated a boy in my whole life :)
btw she is so damn pretty , tall avsjvdjd
Its not a fucking competition
damn she already dated 10 boys im here sitting waiting for my prince charming to come pick me up tho but shes only 15 yrs old oh god what am i doing with my LIFE
13 in USA
my mom is like this but not this extreme I just can't go out with friends especially their houses
Nana Roi I didn't even notice that😂😂
She is a beautiful girl with a life like a sh!t 😐😐😐
Negin Ak it'll get better as she grows up. she'll get more freedom, in one way or another.
She won't be experienced though. She's missing out on so many things because of this. Poor senorita.
Negin Ak where did u find ur profile pic
2:26 that part was so cute, I love Joy lol
Oh my god... Taejoon is so sweet, he helped her put her shoes away.. aww.. 3:04
I love the people who edit this show, they're so funny 🤣 That moment at 10:29 🤦🏻♂️
Handsome taejoon (◍•ᴗ•◍) congratulations on your marriage ♡
I literally had the same problem as hers too ... and I absolutrly felt what she's feeling. Before, my mom wouldn't let me go out even just ONCE, she'll get my phone before sleeping, and even knows my social media password then stalks my inbox. It also started when she found out that I started dating someone. She didn't like it and she said that I can only date someone when I'm done studying TT and like her mother too, my mom texted the guy, and told him to stay away from me, scolding me before I go to school, and even talks about it with her friends(and now I can't even look at their eyes) she puts me into a lot of shame TT then I started not talking to anyone, and felt depressed... that was a hard time😂😂😂💀 but fortunately, she stopped now that I broke up with that guy... now I realized that maybe she's doing it for my own good.. but she was toooo strict.
P.S until now, i still can't hang out or go out with my friends lol
Your name and pp is killing me kdjskjsjsjs 😂😂
eating SUGA? nO pApA your name has me rolling 🤣🤣🤣🤣 i laughed for a good 10 minutes. Thank you for making my day
I know our parents want the best for us but what ur mom does is too much
This happened to me too lmao the exact thing its so embarrassing
Taejoon got married yesterday💜💜
OMG, I just realised, that's Taejoon from love in trouble DRAMA. OML I'M SHOOOK
Both of my parents are exactly like her mom lol
Queen Ramen same and worse loll
same
She needs to be an idol!!!
The sad thing is that my friends parents are exactly like this also. They take away her phone at night and dont let her have it until noon, they don't let her have her phone alone in her room, they look through her social media, pictures, notes, etc. They take away her school chromebook, they make her take down blm and lgbtq things she posts, *she doesn't even have a door to her room.* And in 3 days, (when school starts again) she's only allowed to have her phone for an hour a day. She was recently diagnosed with depression but her parents don't help her at all and just keep restricting things. No matter how many reasons we come up with of why should should have more privacy, they don't listen because to them, we're still just dumb kids who don't know any better.
Please, if any of you are pregnant or planning to have kids, don't do this to them. She cuts daily and I can't be there to stop her because her family doesn't trust us together. Please let your child have freedom. Just because you created them doesn't give you the right to control everything they do.
FIFTEEN?! WHAT? Wow she’s seriously so beautiful I can’t believe she’s only 15..
Donghyup is a really funny, simple and great MC but I always crack up more when he reacts to sensual topics. 😂😂😂
I m 22 and still haven't dated anyone... times like these make me wonder if it's stupid 😅 am I missing out.
Youre not alone~ :')
Me too. Me too. HAHAHA
Yes same same
1st of all the girl should become a trainee or smth she's very pretty and seems nice. 2nd of Her mother is soon annoying. Parents ought to understand that the more strict you are more you cause all the things you forbid to appear appealing to your child ( like the forbidden fruit). 3rd of all Joy, goddess you tell her!♡
cant really blame her, taejoon really is handsome!
I can understand her mother regarding their leaving in small town and everyone talking about people and who dated who I can relate to that sometimes big cities are blessing thing
This girl; “my mom is strict.”
Other Asian moms; Hold my slippers
Hispanic moms; honey that’s so cute
Black moms; hello
I’m a Filipina and I have worse rules;)
1. If you don’t do atleast 3 chores, no phone.
2.Has to give phone at 7:30
3.Cant go out. Never been outside with friends before:<
4. Checks photos, chats, friends, friend’s family background.
5. Collects every single friend’s numbers (yes even their parents)
6. Cant wear short skirts, crop tops.
(Anything going higher above the knees, anything that shows too much skin)
7. Cant wear makeup.
8. Cant talk back unless you want the slipper:0
9. Has over 30+ rules in the house.
10. Cant swear.
11. Cant have guy friends:(
Thanks for listening to my Ted Talk
정체이없다 ehh, I mean I’m only thirteen so😂❤️
@@btsandfoodislifeu5612 SAME
*Arab moms entered the chat*
@@btsandfoodislifeu5612 This is what happens in my life for past 18 years 😒
can anyone just look at how skinny Wendy has become? at this point i feel that she has become a skeleton..
I remembered my little sister with that "skeleton" word because we used to call her like that when she was young and I'm using her account to reply at your comment. I want t tell you, you made my day. hahahaha
People wanted her to have more weight but then when she gained weight,some people called her fat...I feel so bad for the poor idol who has to live through that,Controlling fans are disgusting
Chanyeol Hyung Actually she was at a perfect weight and no one was complaining but she suddenly ended up gaining a lot of weight due to stress and tight schedules. She was heavily criticised for it especially after not losing any weight after a period of time unseen from the public. When they made their next comeback Wendy had lost an extreme amount of weight. She then got criticised for being too skinny and bony.
MC Taejoon ❤❤❤ Him putting away the girl's shoes at 3.6😍❤❤❤❤❤
I never knew I could relate to someone this much. I go through the same exact situation and it’s horrible. I can’t socialise and have fun with friends
I can relate to her. My dad never let me go out to eat with friends. Then he expects me to ask the cashier for extra tissues which is hard because I became really socially awkward.
She is stunning
He's too Handsome, really too handsome!
It makes me glad that my parents were extremely strict with me when I was younger, and became a lot more lenient as I entered high school. The only things I couldn't do were get a boyfriend and stay out too late which I didn't really mind. So thank, God I never had to experience this.
I grew up with strict parents as well and even though I understand why my parents are strict and protective of me, it still frustrates me when I had to go through their many levels of clearance before I can go out with my friends. I can't really blame my parents, it's the bad and ugly parts of society that made them so protective.
When joy said she's not drinking and again i remember sung jae says to her that dont drink again and i feel sad again😔
I was just going to move on then i saw this comment i watch them again😢
i remember during wgm when sungjae told joy that they need to ask for her dad's permission first before they go to Han river and drink a can of beer