Communication in the 21st Century: Is It What You Say, Not How You Say It? | Vivian Ta | TEDxUTA

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  • @sofiaysabela.valenzuela2905
    @sofiaysabela.valenzuela2905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I agree with what Miss Vivian Ta said in the video, that non-verbal behaviors are indeed important, but what we should focus more on is our verbal behaviors, especially now that we are in the 21st century where we all tend to communicate through technology and internet. When we communicate, our main goal is to be understood and to understand our counterpart, in short, to have a common ground understanding with the other people that we are communicating with. We always pay attention to our non-verbal behaviors thinking that they are the key to understanding each other, but non-verbal behaviors are responsible more on creating an emotional connection and relationship between communicators, and not understanding. Also, it was proven on the research conducted by Ta and her team, that verbal behavior is the only and most important factor that contributes to the establishment of common ground understanding between communicators. In previous discussions, we have discussed the things that globalization has brought to us, and one of those is the interconnectedness between nations, changes in the communications as it was affected by the technology and internet. Nowadays, there are endless possibilities when it comes to communication with the use of internet, we can communicate no matter how far or we are of different time zones, we can communicate through texts, that is why verbal behaviors are more important.

  • @za_snake4085
    @za_snake4085 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Words are powerful, gestures are meaningful. Thank you Vivian, for the reminder of verbal communications importance.

  • @EverythingKaylaKC
    @EverythingKaylaKC ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been saying this for years, pre this Tedtalk. It is a family saying that has been passed down from my great-grandparents, my grandmother would say it to me, and it has become a lifelong motto of mine. Thank you for the reminder

  • @samuelmbau001
    @samuelmbau001 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:17 *🗣️ Importance of Verbal Behaviors in Communication*
    - Verbal behaviors may be more crucial in communication than traditionally thought,
    - Mutual understanding in communication is essential for effective interaction,
    - Common ground understanding is assessed by the use of similar words and their contextual meanings.
    02:17 *📊 Introduction to Latent Semantic Similarity (LSS)*
    - Latent Semantic Similarity (LSS) is a measure used to determine the extent of mutual understanding in communication,
    - LSS is assessed using latent semantic analysis, analyzing the contextual meaning of words,
    - It quantifies the shared meaning between blocks of text or groups of words in a conversation.
    04:07 *🧪 Empirical Testing of LSS Measure*
    - Initial study used videotaped recordings of interactions between strangers to validate LSS as a measure of mutual understanding,
    - LSS measure proved to be legitimate in determining the level of mutual understanding,
    - Provides a quantitative means to assess communication dynamics.
    05:25 *💬 Verbal Behaviors as Predictors of Understanding*
    - Verbal behaviors, such as the amount of talking and asking questions, significantly predict mutual understanding in communication,
    - Nonverbal behaviors like gestures or facial expressions were found to be less essential in establishing common ground understanding,
    - Highlighting the importance of verbal communication cues in fostering mutual comprehension.
    07:00 *🌐 Impact of the Internet on Communication*
    - The Internet has revolutionized communication by primarily shifting it towards text-based interactions,
    - Technologies like email, instant messaging, and social media have become dominant modes of communication,
    - Text-based communication minimizes the influence of nonverbal cues, emphasizing the significance of verbal behaviors in online interactions.
    09:25 *💬 Adapting Communication Focus in the Digital Age*
    - In a society where text-based communication is prevalent, emphasis should be placed on verbal behaviors rather than nonverbal cues,
    - Recognizing the importance of adapting communication focus to align with the predominant mode of interaction,
    - Advocating for prioritizing what is said over how it is said in contemporary communication contexts.
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  • @ianvelascotv7623
    @ianvelascotv7623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    PURPOSIVE COMMUNICATION IS WAVING

  • @alexforonda5482
    @alexforonda5482 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    6:14 is what you need to know

  • @danielaliong2200
    @danielaliong2200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Vivian talks about the importance of
    Communication in our globalization this two types of communication is the verbal and nonverbal she talks about the differences of the two which is verbal has ability to talk to two or more person while the non verbal communication is able to talk using sign languages, body language expressions or reactions of people but Vivian is more focused about the importance and benefits of verbal communication because this will understand what the people saying and explain what they are doing but non verbal has also importance because this helps people create communication by deaf or mute persons they are making conversation by the guestures.

  • @pauljosephdejesus606
    @pauljosephdejesus606 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is very informative and awakening of the notion about verbal and non verbal communication. They are both inportant and plays significant role in our daily lives. Thanks for these, it helps me aware more that the society we belong is already changing little by little. Communication either verbal or non verbal- they are useful to us people to have a bettee understanding and relationship.

  • @moiraleon8744
    @moiraleon8744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is such an interesting idea to consider when trying to understand generational communication gaps. Love this!

  • @elfea.undaloc4443
    @elfea.undaloc4443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Who's here for purposive communication ??🤚

  • @jonathansteeves1252
    @jonathansteeves1252 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thanks Vivian. An interesting talk from 2016, which when watched in 2018 surfaced the question of how the emergence of emoticons (emotional expressions in non-verbal format) and word-enhanced graphics upon social media platforms like Instagram influence the theory of what vs how. Perhaps there is a "middle way" emerging via the internet which combines both "how" and "what".

  • @דוביהולץאחדשאוהבתנך
    @דוביהולץאחדשאוהבתנך 7 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Everything she said might be true, but I got bored listening. Verbal communication is essential to understanding, but you won't be listened to if you don't have the right non-verbal skills...

    • @teslataquito3093
      @teslataquito3093 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sounds like a personal problem

    • @chukasssss
      @chukasssss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It is actually true. This is a required learning material in our Purposive Communication subject, and yet she is boring me to death. Her non-verbal skills are... very... controlled. Like, she's watching how she visually interpret her non-verbal communication ability. It becomes disengaging.

  • @PalePinkThink
    @PalePinkThink 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    When a PhD person in Communication makes you want to sleep, there's something seriously wrong about their communication.

  • @jasperdomacaoili3179
    @jasperdomacaoili3179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Shout out sa manonood nito dahil sa prpcom nila goodluck

  • @kolleen4133
    @kolleen4133 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    She didn't touch on tone of voice. Tone is part of verbal behaviour but it always falls into "how you say it." I feel like she purposely evaded that.

    • @skionen1781
      @skionen1781 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      7 % words 38% is tonality 55 % is the body

  • @williamsherman4706
    @williamsherman4706 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    She seems really nervous. Also, I"m surprised she did not talk about technical communication like Discussion Boards, or emails. In those situations, you may not have things like Body Language or Tone, but you do have the ability to set a "tone" or intent through something like a smiley face:)

  • @noneoftheabove1589
    @noneoftheabove1589 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You clearly mentioned « gestures, gazes and smiles » as examples of nonverbal behaviors that to you are not or were not important in understanding one another at least in the act(s) of communication you studied but allow me to disagree and say that you failed to mention (Consider?) one major and at times the most decisive nonverbal cue, which is voice/pitch/tone..how would I understand someone I am talking to (not texting or sending an email to) fully and clearly and be able to respond appropriately if for instance I can’t hear them well (volume) or if they said they were happy and excited with a very dull intonation or that they were happy to meet me (you said you examined a first encounter of strangers) while their intonation was rather flat?? What if I responded with a nod and a smile because I received conflicting messages (happiness:verbally, and rather « not really »: nonverbally)??. All along, you compared what is incomparable. Oral and written communication are two separate genres I like to think..and have to be treated for being so. I would go as far as to say that even in written communication it’s not just what you say as much as it is how you say it that matters; lay out and clarity of ideas, their cohesion and coherence would impact if not actually determine understanding.

  • @erikajoytabor5835
    @erikajoytabor5835 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's good to hear the reminder and inspire me to led this communications well and better I had get many ways to prove may language thank you ma'am vivian

  • @jeanieakridge5526
    @jeanieakridge5526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Although non-verbal communication is vital in understanding way beyond mere words, with today’s use of technology (texts, email, instagram) the words we use are vital in the initial communication process. Your verbal & writing skills must be sharp!

  • @activespark6887
    @activespark6887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bakaa namaaan, hi sa mga nanonood para sa Purposive Communication.

  • @duyphaminh8915
    @duyphaminh8915 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    she was just saying the same thing again and again

  • @mindvolution
    @mindvolution 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "We should be focusing more on what we say, rather than on how we say". I must agree with that! Of course, all that non-verbal communication in body language and voice also do have their effects on listeners, in the end it's down to the meaning of our words and the sense they make.
    So, in the case with political rhetoric - it's up to the common people to be more rational and pay closer attention to words, rather than being fired up by more primitive, emotional engagement of charisma. ;-)

  • @sketchur
    @sketchur 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can relate to her nervousness, her strained voice, and her stutters and filler words, so I personally understand why she thinks we need to focus on speech content vs. delivery. However ... I'm also actively aware that delivery is crucial and I wouldn't enforce changing others' speech patterns.
    How is speech in other languages? Is it all about word content, or is it important to consider tone of voice, relatability (personableness), body language, posture, gestures, facial expressions, pauses, etc.?
    Even though I speak like the speaker currently, I would say all of these are very important. We communicate these things via text-only communication as well. Actions. Pauses. Extra spacing. Punctuation. Italics. etc., etc.
    I'd like to know where the speaker (Vivian P. Ta) currently stands on this topic.

  • @chaeyoungdeserved9893
    @chaeyoungdeserved9893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel like the types of people who participated in the LSS project were the "outgoing/extroverted" ones who are always ready to talk to people (given the subject of recording conversations on first-meetings.) Because I feel like if the hefty sum of that research is participatied "introverted" people, gestures and other nonverbal indicators would definitely change the conclusion of this subject matter.

  • @angelitoviray1953
    @angelitoviray1953 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good job!! I love it.

  • @speakingcurt1266
    @speakingcurt1266 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Apologies. I always thought that nonverbal communication with me standing there with my arms crossed or roll my eyes when someone was speaking. I never considered how I say something was considered nonverbal communication. If I am yelling, I am communicating that I am frustrated or angry. Texting is a bad way to communicate. Communication most always get lost in translation. Some people are not going to text everything out.

  • @Vvvv86434
    @Vvvv86434 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing thnq so muxh i have my pi a week next

  • @schmidtbecky
    @schmidtbecky 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    our verbals - what we say, is not what we are reading on the Internet or READING in our texts; the way we write cannot be compared to the way we speak. This is a ridiculous study!

  • @kharmeeluh2193
    @kharmeeluh2193 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    1:50-1:29

  • @technovert1015
    @technovert1015 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don't know what you are proposing. we human communicated with nonverbal before we were able to invent language. all the species in the world communicate through nonverbal. with verbal we can literally say anything we like. but with nonverbal we can't say lie. we humans can give 10 thousand different facial expression. with proper knowledge of body language and a intuitive mind you can actually know the innermost emotion of a person about you. so why isn't nonverbal important?

  • @jeromegonzales4834
    @jeromegonzales4834 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Binabati ko po lahat ng BSIT 1A jan whoooo. Nuod Nuod for activity 🤣

    • @zhynnny
      @zhynnny 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      dll? AHAHHAHA

    • @angelafayehabig3119
      @angelafayehabig3119 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@zhynnny hahahaha dll yan for sure

    • @daverodriguez4472
      @daverodriguez4472 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@angelafayehabig3119ngayun kami namn ahahha dll rin ako

  • @ryanmel7141
    @ryanmel7141 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Honestly, this lady was so bad at public speaking that it was ironic she's giving this speech. She "said" all the right words but ALL of her other communication was poor. Again, the irony.

  • @ruelamagumcia4863
    @ruelamagumcia4863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When you want to convey something about communication but the way you deliver it is not clear.

  • @jamelabulatao3092
    @jamelabulatao3092 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her presentation is very nice

  • @youronlyvanness492
    @youronlyvanness492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy @UB ❤️💙💛

  • @neetfif
    @neetfif 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's definitely HOW you say it.....

  • @georgeschlaline6057
    @georgeschlaline6057 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Too complex You can't communicate either girl

  • @JeromeVGalon
    @JeromeVGalon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ANDITO AKO KASI GAGAWAN KO ITO NG 3 PAGES CRITICAL RESPONSE PAPER...IKAW PARA SAAN?

  • @hamzaaures7060
    @hamzaaures7060 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Unfortunately I have to stop listening, I was more focused on the speaker non verbal language then on her words...So I didnt get anything other than the speaker is a likely a bit nervous..

  • @ramgaming5194
    @ramgaming5194 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kinsa taga ABM ani ga tanaw ug video?

  • @ChoppsItOff
    @ChoppsItOff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its how u say it, to get the point across depending on who u talking to. Gotta have some Game and be a Mac Master the Art of Communication.

  • @jeantagupa8251
    @jeantagupa8251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What's the purpose of the speaker?

  • @khaizahra6129
    @khaizahra6129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why seems you nervous?

  • @KennethEHall-zy7eo
    @KennethEHall-zy7eo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love it .its the real reson of communication

  • @DGonz0-
    @DGonz0- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ... non-verbals over text = emojis, gifs, pics

  • @khylieirish7008
    @khylieirish7008 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hayst PURPOSIVE COMMUNICATION

  • @ponyah-deathrunparkourspee1641
    @ponyah-deathrunparkourspee1641 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Idk if I agree and if feels like she left few things out, but for 10in speech she brought up an very intresting philosophical question!

  • @jdfklsfb_fask
    @jdfklsfb_fask 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I cant hear her well the audio is bad my friends

  • @DarwinjakeDong-as
    @DarwinjakeDong-as 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bakit po paulit- ulit yang mga sinasabi mo😢 Haystss... mas lalong hindi ko masasagutan itong PRPCOM ko 😩 🤙🤙🤙

  • @gwho
    @gwho 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    too many people say it's all about emotions when it comes to communication.
    I say the listeners are too emotionally oriented.

  • @tamaramenzies8757
    @tamaramenzies8757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this video can help me talk to my boyfriend a lot more and better than ever to have a better and healthy relationship with him in the future. :).

  • @teeI0ck
    @teeI0ck 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Manjistha Seeburn

  • @mnnysoad
    @mnnysoad 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great for entreapreaneurs.

  • @bettinaashleytulio1681
    @bettinaashleytulio1681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    haha sheyt, dito lang me dahil sa oral com. wala naman akong naintindihan, help!!!

  • @almightyura
    @almightyura 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It's funny that she gives a presentation about communication and I can't stand her voice. It's like the pitch is too high at times... there might be something wrong with the microphone. Anyway I stopped after three minutes and couldn't focus on what she was saying.

    • @almightyura
      @almightyura 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True.
      English is not my first language.
      I was just trying to say that her voice is very irritating, to me.
      For a moment I thought she's doing it on purpose.

    • @snaojao8136
      @snaojao8136 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The way she sways makes her look so nervous and uncertain. She should watch herself on video.

    • @ruelamagumcia4863
      @ruelamagumcia4863 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      me too but I've realized there's a subtitle on it that's why I opened it so that the message she was trying to convey will be understood and I will be doing 3 pages of reaction paper. asf

  • @joannejuanane6630
    @joannejuanane6630 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bat kasi naimbento ang pcom na yan pahirap sa buhay e

  • @poerava
    @poerava 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That was a terrible ted talk

    • @poerava
      @poerava 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @kim ama Plenty

  • @Joker-rz1zx
    @Joker-rz1zx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Memo à bacano

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    @comotagenevereeujanemariah4935 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Comota, Genevere Eujane Mariah
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