Ab$uive Mom Tossed Me Out On The Street So I Called Grandpa & Oh Boy He Had Enough For Her BS !!
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Op never knew her father as she was the product of the promiscuous life that her mother lived. Her grandfather who was a retired army chaplain was the closest thing she had to a father figure. Her mother makes her forfeit her admission into college under the pretext that there was no money but unknown to Op, her grandfather had been sending money to her mom for her upkeep and even her college for some years. Op's mom develops the habit of sending her to go babysit her friend's kid on weekends while they went out to party.
The whole thing continued until Op turned eighteen and got a job. She falls out with her mom one night when the mom demanded she go babysit and she reluctantly did so. She calls child support to report her mom's friend and the child is taken away. Op's mom kicks her out of the house that midnight and Op reaches out to the grandpa who talks sense into his daughter. She brings Op back into the house but there is now tension between them. Op decides to go stay with her grandpa and expose how his daughter had sunk deep into the terrible lifestyle she led. After Op's mom's deceit comes to light, the grandpa cuts her off permanently.
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OP was a child who grew up in an abusive household and only had her narcissistic mother’s word. She didn’t know that her mother was stealing college funds from her, because she wasn’t aware of any arrangement. The people asking what took her so long should be ashamed. They are blaming the victim.
OP is barely an adult. She trusted her mom to tell her the truth as children so innocently do. Don't expect an 18-year-old girl to have the wisdom and life experience of a 30-year-old....or for that matter, an 18 year old who had a responsible adult around all the time.
Totally!! She believed her mom!! She had been told over and over that Grandpa wouldn't be able to help!!
I just about DIED when cartoon mom fell sideways from the slap 🤣 What kind of fall is that⁉️😂.. And I love grandpa's hutzpah‼️
Good thing OP called child protective services
Agreed.
1) Contact CPS. Good for you. You're an honorable person. Grandpa failed his daughter. Keep your guard up.
Yes,but no mom or other figure to balance parenting. Granted it can be done by one parent,but not always works. Grandpa didn't have the right method perhaps.
I'm glad that OP finally went to Granddad and told him the truth. I don't think she went earlier because she was scared of her mother.
OP was clear that the problem was that she was an Army Brat who was raised by an aunt and really had not parental figures in her life. She was already addicted to a disolute life when her father finally came back into her life too late and probably too hard.
13:40 she’s saved that baby
I believe she was still a child and scared before she turned 18 to make waves in her small toxic family. When she did turn 18 she felt more awareness and knowing she was able to move out at that age.
Should have reported herself to CPS.
THANK GOD FOR OP'S GRANDPA BILL!! A REAL EXAMPLE OF A REAL TRUE MAN!! OP SHOULD'VE CALLED HER GRANDDAD FROM THE START!!
Lll6l6😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
How is he an example of a real true man? He literally abandoned his daughter to the point that she was raised to be the monstrosity that is ops mother LMAO. He was a s*** father and a s*** man for being a s*** father and so he's trying to make up for it with OP instead of trying to fix the daughter he damaged so much
And a real Man of God who obviously loves Jesus and his family. May God bless him and his granddaughter. The mother needed to repent for what she’s done.
Quit frankly, Grandpa Bill was just as abusive as OP's mother. 3 dirty slaps? That's an assault. OP's mother was also awful. And OP's mother's friend was bad too.
18👍's up MR RA thank you for sharing 😊
Grandpa Bill is the Patron Saint of a honorable Man, OP should've done it from the Beginning.
I may have missed what country this took place, but it wasn't in the United States. Not a single CPS in the United States will tell you who called to report you. It's done anonymously, so the person that reported someone to CPS isn't put in potential danger.
Not unless u choose to do it anonymously
It's probably a fake story.
Eh, you forget it’s also the US CPS and honestly, I wouldn’t be surprised if someone just didn’t give a damn or, hopefully, didn’t realize it was supposed to be anonymous. Have some friends who work for CPS related jobs and they hear about it being an open secret of who called CPS on the family. At least here in Kansas is that way
When I lived in North carolina and was going through a divorce with my now ex-husband, he called cps often and they always informed me it was him. He did the same after I moved and they told me as well. I was able to get a permanent restraining order because his constant harassment. So I think you have to report it and not provide details on who you are.
Grandpa needed to stop turning the other check with his daughter long before he did.
Thelma deserved to have her kid taken away.
Thelma needed child care OP arraigned for it ,simple. It may not be under terms she would prefer. But so be it the kid will be better off.
Yes, she could have and should have told her grandfather sooner but she had been subject to gaslighting and emotional manipulation not to mention outright lies. Sometimes it takes others longer than some to step back and see the bigger picture and realize what's happening.
Is this MOM's father? If so then she's long since learned to manipulate him. It's why she is the WAY she is right now, as it seems you immediately learned the hard way. (not quite through the vid mind!) I wish you well OP. Oh, and abusers always yell at you and at any potential flying monkeys, for YOU being 'angry' and 'sensitive' because you won't meekly accept their abuse. Just FYI.
So the military sits around roasting marshmallows 🤣😳🤣😳🤣😳🤣
Hindsight is 20/20 and bystander always has clear mind. Sometime, no matter how awfully the victim being treated, they really can't see it as they are in the fog. No point talking about "should have done that earlier"
This is so true. My monster had to die before I was able to start seeing what she did to me. And it was a lot 😢
@@JuniAllen I am so sorry to hear your suffering. Nobody deserve to be treated awfully and betrayed by close ones. I wish you a calm and peaceful life going forward
Op anyone can Google Bible passages. Op didnt lie. She had been beaten into submission. I hope the baby is healed and in a good home
Unfortunately, most of the time when you're in a situation like that you have become numb and are just surviving. As a child/young adult you don't see a way out, you're caught. It takes some type of final "push" to get you to see/walk out and change the life you grew up in. Remember, this child/ young adult has been conditioned to accept this all as her "normal".
Grandpa was her savior. For others it's college (schooling of any type), other family a job etc. Which can allow them freedom to grow and blossom.
Absolutely true. I was abused in every possible way and controlled for years. Finally I broke free after I finished college, got a good job and moved out. I helped my sister get free too. My parents were so sneaky about flying under the radar. They moved us to a super small private school where my mom worked so that nobody would report them for the bruises and marks.
@@BusArch42 Good for you! For me, my younger sister ran away and ended up with aunt and uncle. It provided me the relief/cover as she would know and tell to relatives as we talked by phone. I was able to finish senior year and leave for college. Unfortunately, back then, even though many folks in town knew what was going on, nothing could be done. Parents had absolute control, no such thing as child protective services then. My closest relative was thousands of miles away and I lived on an island (not Hawaii).
Regardless of how awful the female parent (she's not a mom or mother), OP felt some kind of trust to believe what she had been told. I mean, this was all OP's fault, right? If only she had been better or ... But here she was coming out of the fog at hearing the blatant lie from female parent to grandpa. And still, OP felt guilty because abuse victims take on the role of causing problems. Her sense of reality has been seriously warped, and that's why it took so long to come clean (and probably still trepidation at what grrandpa would think of her).
Grandfather's the hero.
Huh. CPS usually doesn't tell the neglectful parent(s) who ratted them out. If this is true, OP could sue.
She did not know her so call mother was getting money for her college from her grandpa
She was afraid to go against her mother until the last straw that broke her.
OP mother’s friend can find another babysitter, OP’s mom failed
OP's mom was monitoring and controlling her conversations with her grandfather. Plus, at 18, there was little the mother could do to her because she was legally an adult. It doesn't seem that much time passed between her turning 18 and getting a job and the call to CPS. That call to CPS happened when her mother demanded she babysit the FIRST time since she had gotten a job. Her mother locking her out happened because of her calling CPS and then right after that was when she went to her grandfather's house.
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23:16 23:16 😊😊
Your grandpa is awesome and your Blessed to have him ❤🥰😍👍👏
Grandpa: I'm about to whoop somebody's @$$ ohh I'm about to whoop somebody's @$$ ...
Me: she done it now
Ok mom is a piece of work, but anyone else feel like the grandfathers constant preaching is what led to the mom turning out that way? This story disturbs me on so many levels and not even for the reasons it should.
Maybe there working girls
I am a victim of abuse. It is a slow ride into a dark hole that you find few ways out of. Props to Op for finding her way out of the abuse.
Grandpa is a badass
Unfortunately, the victims of abuse don't always realize they are being abused, especially when they grew up in it.
Grandpa is such a super star in this. It is sad that OP's mother had her so under her thumb and convinced that Grandpa was, as Egg Donor stated, that it took this long for OP to finally reach out. Grandpa is the true hero and put OP's egg donor in her place and CPS saved that innocent baby from the disgusting conditions the friend's house that CPS brought the hammer down. Hopefully, when the dust settles, OP can go and have the college experience and the life she deserves. She has earned it. And knowing that Grandpa has her back when push comes to shove, must be so comforting. Grandpa may be a hard ass, but he has the heart of a Grandpa and knows how to be soft and caring when needed for his granddaughter and when to put all his military training to good use. Reminds me of the bumper sticker I have seen on more than a few cars: Not quite as mean, not quite as lean, but still a Marine!
Just because a woman pushes out a baby doesn’t make her a mother. Thelma was no real mother. As I always say, “if you didn’t want kids, then you should’ve kept your legs closed or used protection.”
I lived with my grandparents for years
Sounds like mom was abusive verbally when you’re in that situation there’s fear that something may happen to you if you remember finally told him he had no place to go
"Why did it take so many breaking points?" THAT DUDE RAISED THE MOM THAT WAY, THAT IS WHY JFC how can you not see that?
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Granddad was partly to blame, he should have been there for his daughter when she was growing up, maybe she would have been a better person then. But ultimately mum was horrible, friend was horrible, OP got away from mum thankfully, and saved that poor baby.
OP has a kind soul and was very young...it just took alot to get to that breaking point
I miss them all they been gone for years now
I'm so sorry for your loss. 😔🤗💛
OP being young is probably why she did not go to her grandfather first
Grandpa needs to sue his daughter for the college money
I doubt that she has a penny to her name as everything was doublessly blown alomost immediatley on cosmetic work and/or partying but keeping her in hopeless debt for the rest of her life, on the run from loan sharks and credit firms is a nice, karmic punishment.
I don't understand why anybody would blame OP for anything. The way I see it, she grew up well for her circumstances and tried her best to succeed.
Thanks for the video
The why is easy, abused kids really want their parents to change and fantasise about how it could be.
Giving up on her mum was hard. Yes she was abused but she thought that's love.
My partner felt the same way until others opened his eyes to it.
when you want your mother's love ( that every human being craves during their lives) you will wait seeing if they will suddenly see you for you and show you love, then you mature and realize that it's never going to happen and the gaslighting has been happening your hole life so, you don't know that what's going on is not ok. and one day it slaps you in the face and you have to ask yourself if you have had enough and one day you do. love the channel try to watch every video subscribed of course much luv piece 🍀
Thelma didn't pay either, did she?
OP is/was a child who believed her mother. Why, as a child, would she not? But as she grew up and started hearing and noticing the lies that her mother was feeding her grandpa and the lifestyle she was leading, she did something about it. OP's Mom and Thelma were barflys trying to hold on to their young which is really quite sad. OP calling CPS was the best thing OP could do to save Thelma's child. Now OP can go to college and do something with her life and make her grandpa proud, while either going NC or maybe just LC with her mother.
A retired Army chaplain would get a $5000 per month pension. The amount keeps going up. Retirees with 40 years in retirement make as much as $11,000 per month.
Also would depend on rank at which the retirement happened. A 0-5 at 20 years would get less than an 0-6 at 20 years.
But, a chaplain, being an officer, would almost always be an 0-5 before retiring, and if he also got whatever VA comp he was entitled to, he could've been making a hefty sum for just waking up
@@spectrelead A commander/lieutenant colonel (O-5) would still get a nice pension.
so mum grew up with a judgmental yet absent father and we wonder why she turned out badly!
OP could have easily told her grandfather what her mother was actively doing..OP could have had her grandfather shut down her mothers many lies & thievery..
Thelma is not a good mom
This story is bull. CPS NEVER discloses who makes the phone call to start an investigation.
Thelma should have been paying her for babysitting. That baby needed better care than the mother was taking of that poor baby. Not many people would even bother to call. She should have stayed home with her kid
OP didn't know about the líes her mom was telling to her grandfather. And one of the most respected myths in our society is that elderly people is both helpless and oblivious to their surroundings and even their family, which is BS. My dad died just a week before his 92th birthday and he was perfectly lucid and an cranky as ever up his nearly 89 th. one. I loved him dearly but our arguments were epic (I guess I took after him in crankiness, if that word exist.
Still trying to get “love” from her MOTHER ???
S1: Another shoulda, coulda and woulda situation. I’m surprised that OP’s mother didn’t have plans to make a party or juicy girl out of her daughter. With any luck OP can rise above the albatross of a mother. OP’s Grandfather knew what type of person his daughter was, yet seems to have just let her run wild.
I have severe doubts to this story based on how fast/easy the children were taken away, but even if it is true i have ti be honest I have mixed feelings about calling the Grandpa a hero. From the sounds of it there is a high chance that his religious obsession probably resulted in abuse of its own kind to the mother and alot of her behaviour may have stemmed from that. Is it an excuse? Absoloutely NOT. However I do feel that there is probably alot more to the family dynamics/past that we're not hearing about
I agree. There is no excuse for the mothers behavior, but I’m willing to bet the reason she is that way is because of the way she was raised and most likely abused by her parents. The super religious type are extremely controlling usually so I can’t imagine what her life was like, but like I said, it is no excuse for how she treated her daughter.
A child's loyalty to one or both parents are 100% until they understand what's wrong and the child is supported by trustworthy ppl. After all the children don't know of anything else, unfortunately ☺️❤️💔
If I try to understand I think op was just a child and that is why op didn't tell anyone about the abuse sooner
I'm not surprised. She already had no dad and didn't want to lose her mom too. So she was easily manipulated by her mother.
The reason people do not report things like that is that they are raised to accept the abuse. They are taught it is normal.
Clear example of people that do not have the right to be a parent.
No wonder the mother turned out how she did with that over religious father. And only after he found out what his actions caused, he became a better person? I feel sorry for OP in the entire situation.
Great ❤
What the hell!? When did raising a child suddenly became training like an animal!?
I'll NEVER understand when OP and others KNOW that they have someone to call when they need help and support never do until its too late! I would have called my grandfather the moment my mother demanded that I babysit! No way would I have tolerated that abuse, no way!
She did not want to turn on her mother, but her mom is so despicable, she forced her hand.
There are so many errors in word usage, grammar, and pronunciation that I’m convinced this is an Artificial Intelligence production. In spite of some of the jarring or confusing errors, I enjoy the stories.
I assume a lot of these are from non native English speakers. Most English speaking countries allow teens to work full time from as soon as they finish school. They can usually work part time before then. It is a strange local law that said OP couldn't work until she was 18.
Hypocrites will always expose themselves, you can call yourself a Godly person but your actions will always expose the truth. There are a lot of so called Godly people that are in for a big surprise, God sees and knows all.
I'm sure OP didn't even know that her grandfather was sending money to her mom for her . Children don't know about things like that. And she probably didn't want to bother her grandfather with her problems. Abused children are like that. They keep things to themselves because they think no one will believe them or that they will cause problems.
So CPS is not allowed to reveal who called them as it breaks HIPPA this would not have happened. Also CPS can’t remove a child, they can petition a judge to remove a child but that is it. The police can PC a child (put them into protective custody) but CPS is not the ones to make that decision. Depending on the state the rules for what the police can even take a child for varies.
OP was a teenager and sppeared to be an obedient child. At the time she had no reason to suspect her mother of lying about grandfather's financial status. She simply believed her mother until she was a little older and came to realize her mother had been lying to her.
In answer to your question, if op should have acted sooner. She had observed her mother & her lifestyle & knew it wasn't right. She knew if she didn't change, she would end up like her. Soooo, by doing that, she might have learned to respect her elders. I was raised that way (I'm 66 & still continue to do that). I raised my children the same & they do follow that same way. It could be that she felt that she was disrespecting her mother, even though she was treated like she was. Thank goodness her grandpa turned her situation around.Just a thought 😊
There's product of environment, product of bad parenting, and product of bad life choices. op's mom is absolutely a product of her own bad decisions. It's not Grandpa's fault she turned into a bad apple given the situation. He had to work and had a commitment to the military. You can't control the kind of people your children choose to be once they're adults. She chose to be a horrible person and a toxic mother. I wish op could have told Grandpa the truth from the start. He's a good man.
You narrated the story but were not listening. Mothr4r took op because grandpa sent money which op didn't know.
Op listen to mother as she believed her that grandpa was poor.
It doesn't matter how quick to call was made. People can say that all they want in the comments section but I'd like to see how they would react to something like that themselves. It's the people who talk the biggest that they themselves would cower the deepest
If the mother abused op aswell even if she was little then tell grandpa how all happened and how she was selfish how she used it the money on her self. I even talk about how karma won’t happen that mother just go bleed another man.
An old-school hardass military chaplain, ooh boy you can bet your ass if he repeats a question, wrath is about to occur
The mother had a history of this kind of thing, so why would the father ever take her word on what was happening?
The daughter had been mistreated for so long, she thought that was the natural order of things.
While I'm not a Bible thumper, what her grandfather had predicted would befall his daughter if she didn't change her ways came true, and she has no one to blame but herself.
30:32, i know what took O.P. so long to tell her Grand Father. TRUST... She has misplaced TRUST in her mother. She thought mom was telling her the truth and not CONNING her as well.
You can still go to colleges without your parents help.
Yes, OPs mom was a big, huge mess and I am glad she has gotten away. But to tell you the truth it seems to me like grandpa is a little bit over the top himself and I am not at all sure that OP hasn't just jumped out of one bad situation and into another. I am glad that OP will soon be going to college, and I hope she finds her way into a life that doesn't go to either her mother's extreme or her grandfather's extreme.
Toxic grandfather gets Toxic daughter and has the audacity to claim his hand are clean? Yeah that tracks.
May she is a slow thinker.
Easy because it seems she didnt know about the money being sent all those years. I thi k had she known she would have told her grandpa alot sooner. Acter all she was led to belive that her gramdpa had only a ti y pension and couldnt afford to give her money for school. She didnt want her grandpa to be burdened and didnt want him to feel bad.
She should jave
While I sympathize with her story, she still ends up sounding like her mother...selfish.
She should have spoken with her mothers friend and express that she doesn't want to babysit or negotiate a wage that she found acceptable to watch the child. Snitching for what was subjective "right way to raise a child" was an overstep.
It's Chap not shaplin.... Chaplin . Sorry I'm a stickler for proper pronunciation.
Yeah. It was bugging me too.
That commenter doesn't know how influence certain parents that lead a stray can have on kids and their community. So parents like that would know that children will go to their grandparents if their parents have failed them.
the grandfather created this whole situation with his neglect and toxic behavior towards his own daughter who in turn was a horrible mother to OP.
Yeah that's actually sad
... That mother got into the 'littlefinger' mindset and saw nothing wrong with it, even as everything fell apart around her. Big thing about the charcter was that he was always thinking how to fuck everyone around him for stuff that happened when he was young, no matter how much the consequences came back upon him. At least until he was set up and executed by the Stark sisters.
U can work before 18. Some 18 year old r more mature than 25 year old.
Too long for a boring story,!!!!!
I don't think this story is real at all. Too many stereotypes and too much absurdity.
I agree what was wrong with OP she didn’t seem as if she was the ripest piece of fruit on the tree. She was to old to be so for lack of a better word STUPID!!! That whole time she was working and or somewhere alone she could have called he grandpa
As a gentle example of what I mean in prior suggestions, "mincing" and "menacing" are VERY different in meaning. I can see easily how the pronunciation could be wibbly, but this is affecting your ability to convey a story. Ditto "feening" (to rhyme with, well, I guess Halloween-ing) as pronounced (i have only heard this as a craving for a substance and even then slang) but FEIGNING (fay-ning first bit rhymes with "bray" ) is pretending. These issues genuinely take me OUT of the story you are trying to tell. But are easily fixed. Be well.