My Son Is Marrying My Toxic Ex-GF's Daughter & Demands I Early Release His Inheritance Bc Can't-Wait
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Op was estranged from his family as a result of his relationship with a manipulative and toxic lady. As a result of his experience, he decides to get kids via a surrogate but makes up his mind against getting married. His son gets entangled with a girl at the age of sixteen, and Op is against it because his son is young and without a job. The whole thing gets more serious when Op discovers that the mother of his son's girlfriend is his high school ex-girlfriend. This makes Op strongly kick against the union. Op's son remains stubborn and allows himself to be influenced by Op's ex-girlfriend. The goal is to get Op to approve of the wedding and thereby giving them access into the family where they could get access to Op's money
In a bid to compel Op to give his permission, his son gets his girlfriend pregnant. Op remains resolute in his decision to not let his son get married to his ex-girlfriend's daughter, and he even refuses to support them financially. His son comes up to tell him that the wedding date had been fixed and he needed his own share of the inheritance as he could not wait for Op to die. Op decides to strike his son's name off his will and make his daughter the sole heir to his property. He gets a restraining order against his ex-girlfriend and demands his son get a job, or he would throw him out once he turns eighteen.
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Let Romeo go live in love with his girlfriend and her mother. Problem solved.
Dad did a all he could do. If it was anyones Daughter but Anita's daughter I believe things may have work out differently
Then the dad would have to pay child support until his son turned 18. BUT, you can't get married at such a young age without a signature from your parent or emancipating yourself... then no child support is required.
This. Kick his @$$ out and let him deal with the consequences.
I think OP is doing the right thing as I don’t trust Anita not to try and have OP bumped off knowing that Ken will get half the inheritance and she will be able to manipulate Ken for money so OP cutting Ken off from his allowance and the will Anita might show her true colours and suddenly get her Daughter to get rid of the baby and Ken as just him having a low earning job won’t make enough money for her and he will hopefully end up Ken going home single .
I was actually impressed with everything OP did.
I also kinda think Ken was in on the pregnancy since he reminded OP he'd offered help B4 he found out everything.
My only hope is that the will he signed was false, but I think it has to be notarized to be completely legal?
I'm looking forward to the rest when it's posted.
I personally think there should be a paternity test, to be sure it's Ken's child. She might be a carbon copy of her mother.
I'm still surprised that was not the first thing he requested
@@vysekrugger9186 Agreed. Also, if it does turn out to be Ken's child, as a parent trying to protect my child, I would look at filing Statutory gRape charges. Ken is 16 and the girl is 18. When I became an 18 year old, the statement "Sixteen gets you 20" was common.
I bet Anita knew exactly who Ken's father was and made sure her daughter went after Ken. The old adage "h377 hath no fury like a woman scorned" is right up Anita's alley. But Ken's dad is right he learned the hard way about her and the apple doesn't fall far from the tree when it comes to her and her daughter.
He's sixteen..NO IS NO!! FULL SENTENCE!! Cut him off. Anita would never get a dime!! That's too bad for Ken..WE NEED AN UPDATE!!
Yes, we do need an update.
I think it's a little patience needed since the gold digger needs either to terminate the baby or trying to break in and get arrested...😅😅😅.
This kid's audacity is amazing. He's told his dad fu at every turn, then asks for his "inheritance"? As if his dad doesn't run the risk of losing all his money or spending it on himself. Kid, you are not owed a thing. Such a sad, entitled brat.
OP is 1000% correct in his dealing with his son.
OP is justified in what he did. He set clear boundaries for his son. The son did not listen and now has to learn Mess around and find out the hard way. It's only right that the son should get a job and support his unborn child and baby mama
His son needs to learn that you have to pay to play.
@@zulaikagould9230100%!
That son played a man while having the brain of a child. It's sad but until the pregnancy is terminated and the gold digger has found another target OP needs to be firm.
If he's the baby daddy DNA
LMAO I was 18 when I got pregnant with my oldest and to quote my parents if your old enough to make a baby and keep it then your old enough to get a job and support it. I wouldn't give a dime to any of them....they can get jobs and take care of themselves.
Amen. If you're old enough to make the life altering decision you're old enough to take personal responsibility for it.
I agree
My daughter got pregnant at 17 . We never kicked her out. She lived with us & we supported her. That granddaughter was the apple of my husbands eyes & my mother & our whole family adored her. That was in 1991. First word Pepaw. It depends on how people r raised as to how things r handled.
@@barbaraunderwood1762you were not a gold digger targeting the Grandfather
@@barbaraunderwood1762that’s your choice. There’s nothing wrong with not wanting to deal with other people’s life’s choices.
You did the right thing. If he wants to be a grown up we'll get a job and be a grown up. And also advise your son to get a DNA test. Anita is a gold digger.
Yes exactly. I was thinking the same thing get a DNA test.
the first thing I thought when they said his son's gf was pregnant was "why not demand a paternity test?". if they refuse or make excuses, then that's all the proof you need right there that neither of them can be trusted
What if that test proved it was indeed his son's child? The best way to deal with such money hungry hyenas who has gotten a grip on ur son for ur money is to wash your hands clean of it. Too bad he lost his son, but given how the son was keen on him dying so he could get his inheritance, he was dead to him anyways.
@@small_joys2022 considering who her mother is, I would very much doubt the gf is any different. where is her father? why isn't he in the picture? also how is it that Anita just so happened to recognize someone she hadn't seen in close to 20 years?
Yeah, by calling his sister he expected her to be on his side not his dad's. Not surprised that he dragged his feet over apologizing. And to use her own daughter just to get the money she wanted from op is beyond disgusting and entitled. She believed that money should be her's and was willing to use anyone to get her way. Ken brought it upon himself that he gets no inheritance. And the way he said it to op, I'm beyond disgusted. He's going to see how vile and selfish they are when they dump him once they find out that he's not getting any inheritance. Their going to toss him aside because they aren't going to get anything.
Depending on the abortion laws she might have to carry out the pregnancy. Either she keeps it and dumbs Ken or Ken is left to be a single parent. But if OP gets too close they will reclaim the child as a door to the money...
I'm on the father's side. He knows what his ex-wife is like and I have no doubt in my mind she told her daughter to get pregnant with his grandchild. His son deserves to lose everything for not listening by putting his father into a possible financial crisis.
I have no doubt in my mind that stupid boy was targeted by the ex through her daughter. The fact that he fell for the exact same trap as his old man did tells me everything I need to know. I believe in bizarre Coincidence’s but the daughter of the harpy that targeted him when he was the same age is too damn much to write off.
Omg! For those who says this woman isn't a gold digger there's definitely something wrong with these people. I guess gold diggers don't ask for $10,000
Anita was his high school girlfriend. never his wife.
@@karenbaldwin2867I thought the same thing.
@@robingibson6561 I know right I think she might still be pissed at him because of what happened the first time, him having money now it’s just a bonus. Because it looks like she never landed the rich husband she needed.
The father is doing the right thing not giving him money
I would do the same as OP, if the son is old enough to get a girl pregnant then he needed to step up, grow up to his responsibility. Great story
Brilliant!! Boot the son out and demand a paternity test when the baby is born. Have your lawyer put a stipulation in the will that if the daughter gives her brother anything that everything will be donated to the spca and she will not inherit a dime.
Why wait until the baby is born? A NIPT will nipp all the bullcrap in the butt and save a lot of time and heartache.
Why would you want to donate to a group that pays the top brass super extravagant salaries, when all the actual work is done by volunteers?
Donate to the homeless veterans that put their lives on the line to ensure you live in a country where you are allowed to do stupid things.
I actually agree with OP here. His son is an absolute idiot and after he told his dad that inherentance bs he deserved absolutely what he got. O p would have been a fool to let that ex back in to his life to parasite off him and his family. The boy wants to be a man and a father then he should stand on his own 2 feet, not expect his father to foot the bill exp after he was told in no uncertain terms that not only was he being played, but the dad wanted nothing to do with it.
He played stupid games and will have to live with nothing
fafo...
Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
I completely agree with OP he needs to do all he can to protect his family and by making sure that his son can’t get any of the family money then the son will very quickly find out of his GF and her mother actually love him for him or just his money. Also I’m surprised that OP didn’t ask for a paternity test after finding out his son’s gf was actually pregnant.
Yes this. DNA TEST FIRST. Then talk support for baby.
I agree with op. If your old enough to bring a life into this world your old enough to finance the the child...
I disagree op punishing people got nothing do with what his ex did to him. Noone told op so steal from his parents that was his choice .
The $10K request makes pretty good evidence for Op's side!
@@caseydemmings6666 Well, OP's ex was the mother of his son's BF ..so I feel its a safe bet that she used some of her 'moral values'' on her daughter
Gold diggers don't put down their shovels.
LMAO….I love this saying 👍😉🤣🤣🤣
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After OP's experience with Anita, the first thing he should have done was demand a pregnancy test and...if the girl actually IS pregnant...a paternity test.
It's entirely possible that the whole thing was just a mother/daughter scam.
My first thought was that OP was the girls secret father and they were siblings, lol
Did you read the story??
They did a pregnancy test TWICE!!!
Having a paternity test would be something th son shoud demand ...if he had any sense
@robertx8020 prolly too soon for a paternity test, usually only safe to do those late pregnancy
@@deaftone311 True ;) I was mixing up the Pregnancy test (can be done very soon after being pregnant) end the paternity test ...
I was thinking they should have a paternity test done too, who knows if Ken really is the father.
First things make sure the baby is his. I'm on the dad's side.
If he’s grown up enough to make a baby he can get a job to support it
Good on OP. Let him learn the hard way. And notice how the girlfriend never said a word and let her mother do all the talking.
Hold up. There was something here that made me do a double take.
Did I understand OP correctly that he'd be fine with Mabel wanting to get married at 16, because "she's a girl and her husband would take care of her"?
That's just f-ing gross imo
It’s also because he probably knows his daughter makes sound decisions especially since we see what each sibling decided to do.
@@clunychalumeau3442 Still gross imo
@druidofscosglen2868 I know that. I live in Europe
I'm with OP and if I was him I'd ask for a DNA test
Don't give your son any money. The girlfriend and the mother have motives.
I am team father. Idiot son needs to accept the consequences of his actions. He needs a job. HE needs to take care of his own mistake, not his father. And as for Anita, that kind of leopard does not change their spots. She's greedy, grasping and I have the suspicion she masterminded the whole thing. Stand your ground sir! Disinherit your son. If he marries the girl then throw him out. If he doesn't , make sure he knows that child support payments are on him. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
I felt great schadenfreude as I read this. He is estranged from his son for the same reason as he is estranged from his parents. What a story.
I hope there’s an update soon. I agree with everyone that OP should absolutely get a paternity test. However, there is a strong possibility the child really does belong to Ken.
No way OP is the father of Anita’s daughter. Anita would have been demanding child support from OP.
OP could get a restraining order so Anita can’t come to his house anymore. And OP had better keep his lawyer on speed dial. I have a feeling Anita may try to sue.
Ken would have the same last name as OP, so I think Anita knew all along whose son Ken was. So sad.
was it an update in the end?
Anita would sue who? OP? For what exactly? Child Support? For Who? Who impregnated who?
Ken should leave the house and go be a man with his responsibility. They should leave OP alone.
What he did was perfect. Better cut of tiles early than late.
I would have put my son in foster care after disinherenting him. Then I'd tell him to prove himself as a man, regain my favor and apologize if he wants even a quarter of his inheritance back
That move with the lawyer saved that man's life.
Am I the only one who thinks OPs son should have a pre-birth paternity test done on his pregnant girlfriend who is two years older than he And who is the daughter of OPs old nemesis?
Nope!
Just a thought, if the son is 16 and the girl is 18 couldn't she get in trouble by the law due to him being a minor and she is considered an adult. Isn't that considered delinquency of a minor, she could get arrested for that.
It depends on the country
Depends on where they live. If the US, then it depends on the state.
It also depend how they are going to apply the law
In theory, when 2 15yr olds have sex, they both had sex with a minor BUT I bet there are almost no ppl ever put in front of a judge for that 'crime'
Also there are those "romeo and juliet" laws. Where if they were dating before she turned 18 she would be fine.
@@rikubrown8109Yep. With an age limit within a couple years of each other.
Sure hope there is an update to this story.
I bet the baby is not Ken's. Tell Ken to get a job.
Make him take a DNA test. Bet it'll come back negative
Maybe ..or maybe not ..for OP it would make no difference and the son is dumb enough that it micht make no difference for him either
The fact the money amounts mentioned was getting larger and larger shows Anita wants as much as she can get out of OP. Glad he is showing son the door and not caving into Anita's demands. Son is in contact with his sister so once everything plays out and Anita and daughter ditch the son, OP can tell his son he can come home, hopefully son will see what has been going on and forgive OP and go home.
Op did the right thing. Gosh!!! I love op.
it´s funny that the parents didn't want them to have girlfriends because they weren't married to them but how can he get married if he isn't allowed a girlfriend I don't get that logic.🤣
Probably arranged marriage
@@femboy__bunny This and the fact that religion doesn't make sense
Arranged marriage most likely
Depending on country, or religion, definitely arranged marriage!
Sure there is arranged marriage but OP never said anything about it or that his parents had it or that it was going to be, or that it was something in his religion.
The father (OP) is a genius.
S1: Sadly there are a lot of hormonal teenagers who have watched their IQs drop because of a girlfriend or boyfriend. Sadly it usually ruins their chances of success. It certainly makes the chances of a higher education and job prospects a lot slimmer. Life is hard enough, but having successfully navigated it. I can understand it because it happened to all of my peers.
We told our two kids that we earned our way through life and don’t plan on getting any inheritance. They did not work or contribute a dime for anything, so don’t think anything we have is yours.
then they owe you nothing too
@@seabreeze4559 Hmmmm, perhaps you are right, but family is more about behavior than just blood ties. However children should never feel like they owe their parents for bringing them into this world. If anything we owe them an apology at the least since the world is turning into a huge mess. I’d like to think that we were excellent parents to our two kids. I worked hard and so did my wife. Sometimes I made more from my VA retirement check than I did actually working. I made every parent teacher conference,Taekwondo class, cheerleader event, flag football, award ceremony.etc. My wife also tried to make them as well. Both now have college educations, my daughter has a very good job, unfortunately my son followed in my footsteps. He joined the Air Force, he wanted to be a cook. I tried to get him to go into the Navy but he wanted to be in the Air Force since his mom was a retired Master Sergeant. While I joined the Army at 16 and turned 17 in basic training and medically retired at 28.He was sent to a small Army FOB in Afghanistan. He was medically retired at 28. The Army made him train everyday, and would close the small chow hall (my son was the only cook) and use him as a straight leg Infantry soldier. They also made him a M240 gunner. He ended up getting medically retired at 28. Still he has a good job as well. They both are married and have children, and they live with about 1.5 miles away. Both of them when starting out have lived for free in one of our rentals. We routinely have our grandchildren come over and are a major part of their lives. We have a 12f, 11m, 10m and a 2m. Right now the house is crowed because their two cousins (on my wife’s side) are here. So we have two 12f, one 11m, two 10m and one 2m in our four bedroom house. We raised them both with lots of love and affection, my daughter used to ride on the back of my Harley in Japan. She would jump off and press the crosswalk button, then run back and jump on. My son didn’t enjoy riding on the back and routinely feel asleep. The 1st time he did that we had to take off a few belts and strapped him on me. He would not stay awake. I believe they know we lied to them about an inheritance. We told them that a portion will be left to them, but a larger portion to the grandchildren. Neither really seem to care, we opened savings accounts for all the grandchildren and have contributed every month. We have two kids that turned out a step or three ahead of us, and we love them, although I had to explain the difference between love and like once or twice.
Son is 16 and girlfriend is 2 years older. Why didn't he call the police on the girlfriend. He's underage. Also, paternity test.
Nope 11:56
My question is how did his son ended up being acquainted with the person he never wanted to be involved with? Like she clearly take after her mother as her toxic carbon copy. Well what happens to ken either he gets cheated on or abandon/swindled he deserves it for being a fool getting involved with his dad’s terrible ex’s family besides I’m sure the kid isn’t his anyway plus let’s see if she’ll stick around since he won’t be getting no inheritance I’m most certain there true colors will unveil and he’ll regret ever being stupid in the first place
It has all the earmarks of the OP's ex having kept up with him (it's not really that hard), had a daughter with some random guy (who quickly dumped her), then finding out that her, now well off, former target had a son near the daughter's age (it would be interesting to find out if they had tried this swindle previously), they cooked up the scheme between them to drain the father dry.
Grifters will go to great lengths, especially when there's the possibility of large sums of money involved.
The OP saw through this, and took the appropriate actions!
Anita taught him a valuable life’s lesson. MGTOW all the way baby!
Edit to add: OP’s son is thinking with his Richard and not with his brain.
If the person is still alive there is no inheritance. Wow. The nerve of some people.
As a single father of 2 boys - I would have played it the exact same way. The only difference is that both of my boys would have gone into this expecting this outcome. I had always been candid with them about what they could expect from me if they knocked up a girl - and to plan accordingly.
And I would like any update on this story because op left the story on a cliffhanger
Ken just needs to first , get a job, second move out of his father's house , third open his eyes. If they do have that child, Anita seem like someone who is capable of taking care of all of them. My question is did Anita's child support stop when her daughter turned 18? But Ken's father feeling may change when he sees the grandchild, that he can be part of Ken's life , but keep Anita out. But of course marrying so young the divorce rate is high. But either way watch your back with Anita
DNA test!
The OP didn't have any part in creating the grandchild so he doesn't have any financial responsibility to take care of the child. Ken did an adult mistake and he should be ready to become an adult to deal with it, and adults don't get allowances from their parents.
I'm with the opinion of group #2. Kick all of them out of your life. Well, financially only for the son. He wants to be grown... then go on and grow up, son. 🤷🏾♀️
You let a high school girl determine your opinion of all women??
My father said "You made your bed, now lay in it." He volunteered to watch my child on occasions, but not a dime of support.
Why didn't anyone think to get a paternity test
I'm a parent. My children knew, if they were big and bad enough to walk all over our leadership and go out and jump into the deep end of the pool of adult choices and responsibilities after they've been warned not to go there, then they would be the ones handling all of the consequences that result from their choices. We began when they were little teaching that privileges come after responsibilities. Everytime they tried to take privileges or perogatives that they had not earned by being responsible, they had to deal with the natural consequences. That is how humans learn to be Reasonable, Responsible, Rational, Respectable (as in worthy of respect), human beings. It also teaches the Cause and Effect Balence of Human Interaction. Good parents make their kids have this down rock solid before High School.
I agree with the father. Why take care of child that was brought on by his son and his ex girlfriend daughter who is a liar and a golddigger. His son need to learn responsibility
OP's son need to have a paternity test done.
Son inherited his dads poor taste in women😂
Paternity test. I'd wait to see if the child is even his sons.
I wonder if the lad came up with the advanced inheritance himself. I don’t think so. I like what OP did. That was there is no carrot for Anita and her daughter to chase.
I hope there'll be an update after the baby is born to get a paternity test!
Poor OP. There are many decent people out there. Look for a friend and if it goes further, then good. If not, you still have a friend.
That son is naive and blind. I don't think the son is the father. OP did the right thing.
Nope. Nope. Nope. He was warned, he chose. Chose wrong. No marriage College/ trade school or out.
The main duty of a parent is to teach their kids to not be a burden on society, and to be self-reliant (take care of themselves). At 16 years old it seems neither of the twins have learned this lesson yet and his son is a SIMP just like he was at that age.
He said Anita looked surprised, and OP looked alarmed😂🤣
Op raised his children,they need to learn from their own mistakes if they don't plan on listening on their fathers advice.
Op, congratulations on being a good man.. Follow him up this way, he will go back to collage...
I would have sent that boy away. He was 16. He needed to not be anywhere near these women.
Let him have it without OP's help. If he's that determined then he should fund it on his own. He was warned.
OP dodged one bullet. Now he's getting grenades thrown at him! I like how he cut his son out of the inheritance! Get a JOB!!
I side with the father, Time to grow up, Would love to hear another update about how this is working out,
First, get a paternity test to ensure the son is the father. Second, the OP is doing the right thing. His son decided he was man enough to get a girl pregnant, it's time to learn what it means to be a man and father and support them with his own blood sweat and tears. OP is not responsible for the actions of his son and I don't think the GF is responsible for the actions of her mother. That boy is about to find out how difficult life can be, but he has a chance to work hard and make something of himself.
OP needs to tell Anita that his son has been disinherited, the only child support will be what Ken earns himself, there will be a paternity test required -- from a facility OP"s lawyer chooses, OP will not pay one cent toward the wedding or wedding expenses, and that Ken will be served an eviction notice on his eighteenth birthday giving him thirty days to pack his belongings and move out of the home and off the property. Also, try yo get s trstraining order against Anita and her daughter once the paternity test is done, especially if Ken is the father.
Why does he not wait until a paternity test is done?
Anita asking for $10,000 is ridiculous, it just shows you the scheming for inheritances
I would have silently contacted a family attorney to get legal custody of the baby as soon as it was born. I would have purchased and set-up a full custody agreement with nursery in my son's room, and then I would have taken the girl to put her on my healthcare insurance to be sure she is getting he best of care. Basically I would treat her no better than a surrogate.
2:13 if you're aren't married you don't need a boy/ girl friend
This is the most mind numbingly stupid thing I've ever heard
OP is doing double standard with allowing daughter but not son get married. Let them get married just don't give them one penny and not live in your house. OP don't back down for you are right that daughter is like mother. Also if he marries since he is do grown he needs to have his own place for "his family."
I agree with OP, until they started to show signs of helping them selves, I personally would cut him off. Op has only taken him out of the Will ( I'm sure he consulted his lawyer before he got there & play along with him to show his son he will not be getting anything due to the MIL) to show him he means business. This will soon shock his son to his senses that dad means it. I feel the baby is not his any way, as he was warned the first day he started school about her, but she said"don't listen to them as they were jealous of her" being told that, he should of done a runner. So yes Op has done the right thing! I'm sure now don't blow your trump here guys, her mum will not let her keep the baby with no financial support from Op. I do feel for his son, but when it comes to his partner, the apple don't fall from her mothers tree. Nothing is free in this day & age. So stick to your guns Op, this will be over as soon as the futureMIL finds out there's no allowance or gain from his WILL. mx
Does it matter if he's got a job or not it's not dad's responsibility to fund the child he must get a job or maybe even three jobs to support the mother the daughter and the baby and himself otherwise plenty of room under the bridge
Just cuz his dad dodged the bullet doesn't mean he's got to pay for the son that was dumber than a rock to lie down with a woman when he didn't have the means to pay for what he might create but then is a twist here it might not even be his kid she just chose the richest dad out of all her boyfriends
Well, IF this story were true:
1. OP has ZERO idea what he's doing. From the start he handled the issue with his son terribly. He completely failed. He has zero idea what he's doing.
2. It seems all this guy learned growing up was math, accounting, pain, humiliation, and fear. Saved little else.
3. His interpersonal skills suck, too. Notice there is no mention of friends? Something tells me he's socially inept.
Go, dad go! It wasn’t an accident, it was by true love and choice. What the heck is the matter with him he can get a job. I had a job at his age with a visual imitation! He needs a taste of the real world. However, when he comes and asked for your forgiveness when everything blows up in his face be like everyone else on this site. Don’t throw him away, gradually take him back into your life. Once a father, always a father, once a mother, always a mother. Good luck.
Did he really get her pregnant? Personally I would want a paternity test. I would not agree to a teenage wedding, heck I think we should raise the marriage age to 25. If its true love they will wait, but it sure would cut down on the divorce rate. Anita is looking for that golden ticket. And yes I know of several teenage pregnancies, a few were given up for adoption, but most of my peers back in the day were told to get a job & balance school w/ childcare. I only knew of 1 person kicked out and only 2 marriages at the time of birth. Both of those got divorced. Another couple coparented and got married after the went to college. Still ended in divorce.
OP is tacking the right path. I might have been willing to help a little with college as long as there was no wedding. You get married, you have formed your own family and nobody owes you anything, they may be nice and give, but it isn't owed.
How does a 16 yr old have the ability to get married without consent of some form.
Petitioning a judge. d!t the pregnancy.
OP knows that this is the only way to protect his son or at least himself. Either that pregnancy scam is stopped or his son grows up. Fast. But I guess... without them 😅...
Nta. He can marry whoever he wants. This is true. But sonia your money is your money. Nothing says it gas to go to him. Op you can do whatever you want with your money. You do not have to leave him a cent.
I'm for the tough love camp. It may seem harsh and unsupported, but it will be a lesson learned. As a parent, it is very difficult to watch my child struggle as I would want to make their life as easy as possible, but they need to stand on their own feet and be responsible for their actions. I'd also be asking for a DNA test.
Ghost your son ownce he turned 18 keep the pop on that sick ex girlfriend and daughter
Op, I'm sure will get a dna test.
Take him out of your will too.
OP should have kicked his son out but given him like 10k. Let the son learn, and if the women steal his money and make him miserable, he would know his dad was right.
The dad was a boss! He needed to do a dna too. I would've done the same.
I'm on the father's side for sure. Why isn't anyone demanding a paternity test? Don't understand that. THAT would be the first thing out of my mouth given the history with the mother.
Op is doing the right thing.
Very confused and honestly l am not ready for this..
I think OP son should go get a paternity test to make sure it is his child since Anita likes to play games. And two, if the son wants to get married and be a father then he should get a job. What if OP didn't have money the son would still have to get up and get a job. He wants to be a man then OP is treating him like one.
no financial support for the son was the best move the father could make, making the son take full responsibility.. he got her pregnant he can pay the cost.
Youre son is 16. He needs you now more than ever. At 16 you dont have the maturity that OP is demanding.
Tell him to pack and move out.. cut ties with your son permanent
OP should have demanded a paternity test. I'm like 70% sure the kid isn't Ken's.
I 100% agree with op. OP, keep Anita away from you and your son.
We need a final update!!!
PS: If she can't pay for her baby, give it up for adoption.
yup, every state has a baby Moses laws , any woman can turn a child in and walk away with no cosquences.