Mom Was Helping Cheating Ex-Wife Keeping It Secret, So I Cut Her Off & Had The Last Laugh
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John has been a loving and devoted husband for over six years. He works tirelessly to ensure his wife’s needs and wants are met, including helping her fulfill her dream of owning her own cafe. John works extra days, overtime and sacrifices his own needs to make sure his wife’s dreams are realized.
Months after the cafe is up and running, John wants to start a family. Lisa is skeptical at first but eventually agrees. After some time trying for a child, John happens upon an empty birth control pill card. Heartbroken, by this discovery, he decides to figure out what’s going on.
One day, as he’s driving by the cafe he sees his wife kissing another guy. He’s faced with the crushing realization that his wife is cheating on him. John hires a private investigator to get to the bottom of it, then confronts his wife with the findings.
Lisa admits that she’s been cheating on him with an old friend from high school for months. John is hurt and decides to contact a lawyer to start divorce proceedings. Lisa is not happy with his proposed terms and decides to fight him in court.
Meanwhile, John finds out that his mom, who he supports financially, has been encouraging his wife to cheat on him, has been receiving money from said wife and tries to talk him out of getting a divorce.
When the proceedings happen, the judge decides that the couple’s assets (their home and the cafe) should be sold and the profits split evenly. This results in Lisa having to close the shop.
John moves into his own apartment and cuts his mother off, no longer helping her with bills, after she behaved so despicably, which causes a rift in his family. Half of them are on his side and half are not. John decides that cutting ties with that toxic side of his family is for the best.
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His mom made her choice to betray her own son and he's making his choice to no longer support her. Actions have consequences.
Wow what a monster mom
Can anyone blame this man. He was supporting 2 women that were related to him, one by marriage, the other by birth. I think this man did exactly what he needed to do. Abandon both women .
@sbradley3008-100% agree. Well said.
By the way, Mom was double dipping. Money from Son and Dil. She must have made a fortune. Did she share it with hubby that she had cheated on? Doubt it! Go OP!
Did his father die? or did he tell his father.
OP did NOT go to far. If my own mother had encouraged my husband to cheat then I'd never talk to her again let alone give her any more money. GO OP.
Facts I hope OP is doing well rn 😁
He said he was going no-contact with her. Thus, he's not talking with her.
Men and woman are different that's not the same thing
I am so sick of people and the "But it's your mom" spiel. My mom and dad divorced when we were young and she was pregnant with someone else's kid. The part about it being someone else's kid did not come up during the proceedings and my dad ended up paying child support for him also. About a year after the divorce she called him and had him come get his 3 boys, or she was going to put us in an orphanage. He was in the Navy and stationed at Great Lakes Naval Base in Illinois, but he got emergency leave and came and got us. He had a buddy's wife to help with us and we ended up in an apartment in the countryside. Money was tight, so he asked her to tell the courts that he had us, so they would quit garnishing his pay and he could use the money on us. She told him that if he touched the child support, she would tell them that he stole us. I found this out, with another little tidbit, after he passed away years later. She had tried attaching his navy pension 30 some years after they had been divorced and she had been remarried. Mostly because my stepfather was unemployed and couldn't keep a job. He had never told us any of this and had never said anything bad about her to us over the years, unlike her who always told us that he had cheated on her. We found out all of this going through his shop after he died. They're both gone now, but stories like this and people always sympathizing with cheating women, or men always makes me mad.
I'm so sorry. I hope you had cut off contact with your mother.😔
I agree. Not all mothers are 'good', same for fathers ... the Good ones deserve love and respect, the bad ones do not!
Dang I’m so sorry that happened to your father God bless his soul
No, disrespect sounds like your dad was stupid. He could have got all that done, and he didn't have to ask her anything....
What did the mother think was gonna happen when she betrayed her own son?
Actions = Consiquences, people
Unfortunately, cheaters and enablers don't THINK THEY deserve to have them applied to them!
Other than the fact that the mother was absolutely wrong, she forgot an old saying that said "don't bite the hand that feeds you." She stabbed her son in the back and was seriously surprised when he cut her off. OP did nothing wrong.
Well, technically her daughter in law was feeding her too 😂
But between the two feeding her, she chose to betray the son and to keep receiving money from both
Both his ex wife and mother reaped what they sowed!
FAMILY is a primary consideration..... Having said that, NO ACTUAL FAMILY MEMBER would condone "cheating" on ANY other family member. Mom violated her position as "mom" by condoning the infidelity. Her excuse that she, herself, had strayed "once" is irrelevant. She was actively helping her son's wife hide her infidelity. THAT crosses ANY reasonable boundaries. Both mom and ex are rightfully "cut off".
He did the right thing by cutting his mother out of his life and his ex-wife what they did to him was no less than brutal. I’m glad he’s getting therapy. Maybe now he’ll be able to find love true love
Op,you didn't go far enough, you should get every last bit of money, housings, mortgages,and anything else from his mother and all of the relatives until they are all destitute. That would be a proper punishment for a mother and relatives siding with a cheating wife.
Courts doesn't work like that. He can only get what the court allows.
The fact rhat she was OP's mother is highly relevant. She betrayed him. Not the other way around. For the abusive aholes (only abusers defend abusers) saying 'but shes his mother', tell them rhat that is the point. That she should protect him, not betray and abuse him. By doing so she lost all rights of parenthood
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Skip all that NO mother would do that to her child, OP cut everyone off especially your monster mommy
Op didn't go too far at all. She got what she deserved
His mom made her choice when she was taking the wife’s money and never letting her son know that she had that additional money. She is very self centered. She wants every thing to remain the same so she gets to have a little bit of extra without her son knowing anything about it. Greedy is as greedy does.
His mom made her choice when she became the kind of woman that her DIL actually called to ask for advice on how to handle cheating on her son. Clearly OP's ex already knew that she was a cheater, that she could trust her to betray her own son, etc. I'm sure OP's ex already had many talks with OPs mom and knew full well what kind of women she was -- family cheating, her reaction to others, her relationship with OPs father, etc.
OP made the right decision. I cannot think of a worse kind of betrayal than a mother who betrays her son. The mother got exactly what she deserved. Karma's a B17CH.
OP's mother made a choice and it wasn't OP. She is old enough to know that if you don't support the person who helps you financially, they will stop. The mom card doesn't work after you played the DIL card instead of the son card.
Who else laughed their butt off when the woman who was cheating flipped regarding the private investigator, saying that marriages are supposed to be built on trust? ! B, you've been cheating on your husband and lying about 'trying' for a child with him! You have no moral high-ground here!
I would have cut off my mom the same way. She betrayed him and didn't care about how it would hurt him.
Loved the way he treated his mother. Go, OP!
You did the right thing devorcing her and get what she deserves 🥰👏👍🤭🙃😍🤩
OPs mom was also supporting the cheating wife as she made sure OP was not able to have a kid. Something that OP mentioned was extremely important to them. The mom is a cheater and she chose to support the cheater. She is not entitled to OPs financial help at all. "but thats your mother!", Yes that is a person who decided to have sex and had the responsibility for 18 years to take care of that life she birthed. You dont get good credit for doing the minimum you are supposed to and having a kid in no way entitles you to their help or care when they grow up.
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I think OP and his mom have their own plan . I would take the cafe from the cheater. Now I'll listen to the rest of the story. OP did not go too far , both the mother and ex-wife got what they deserved. Keep in contact with your father's side of the family.
Cheaters be cheaters.
Awful people be awful people.
Op's Mom was working both sides for money 💯‼️❗ she was getting stipend from OP and hush money from wife..... banking 😭🤣😂😂
Cheating in itself is bad enough, only drinking is worse, but your own parent the enabler amplifies things tenfold.
Great story. I am very much on OP’s side, he handled it just right. There needs to be room for forgiveness but, it will take a very long time. (Forgiveness does not mean forgetfulness).
I’m on OP’s side.
Actions have consequences and OP’s mother is finding that out the hard way.
Good for OP and hope he’s having a great life without his toxic relatives.
OP mother deserved everything she got, she knew and encouraged her to cheat, and then when OP find out she pushed him to stay with her.
1st of all OP'S mother should have told his wife end it and come clean with him he should know, but she told his wife it is normal to cheat, which it most certainly is not. 2nd of all, she confessed to having cheated herself more than once, just driving the knife even farther up and closer to OP's heart. I would have immediately cut off his mother, but he had the decency to wait a bit before finally making that decision.
OP gets the free and clear in my book. Not only did she give the greenlight on cheating she admitted to cheating herself. That's a whole extra serving of 'nope'. One nope would cut down the goodwill to "sigh, she is technically my mom", because she did do a lot for OP. The second nope is what removes the last of the bonds holding them together.
i just thought of something if you can sue your cheating spouse affair partners can you also sue someone for helping your cheating spouse cheat sorry if this is a stupid question i was just curious
Good question
Alienation of affection can be sued for in some states. Id try a civil suit just to get it in the public and on the record.
Depend's on state/country as what you can sue/claim for. Unfortunately one size does not fit all.
I hate it when people say “but she’s your mom” being your mom or dad isn’t a free pass to act and treat you horrible. If anything she should have been on her son’s side. She has to pay for her actions.
NTA!! No need to ever let Mom back in!! WTH was she thinking??
Mom hitched her horse to the wrong wagon. She should have known better. OP definitely made the right choice. Peace of mind is priceless!
He didn't go far enough with his mom!!! She doesn't deserve his support. She backed the wife for money and gave no thought to her son's mental wellness.
Op made the right choice by choosing himself first!
I have always been of the opinion that someone who tries to condone cheating are also cheaters! So, the half that say he went too far with cutting off his mother (who, if you recall told Lisa that she had also cheated on OP’s father “once or twice”), well, I think they’re also cheating (or had cheated) on their spouses!
Your mom help your ex cheated. So, you did the right thing. Let the family support his mo good mom. I agree with OP cut the financial add off.
I am someone that had to go no contact with my mom with things she did during my divorce. There wasn't any cheating that I am aware of, though sadly I had to lose my entire family over that decision.
It sucks to hell and back, but that is the price of removing toxic people from your life. OPs mom was very toxic there.
OP did the right thing in all respects.
A cheater saying it's okay to cheat. Yeah that's brilliant advice to give to a cheater.
I applaud OP.
Cheaters are less than human and deserve to be treated as such.
They deserve no help, support or sympathy from good humans.
Why would anyone side with the mother in this scenario? Not only did she knowingly encourage her daughter-in-law's cheating and told her to keep it a secret from her husband but she then had the gall to tell her son to basically get over it and offered no emotional support to her own child. She didn't care about her son's feelings and by the looks of it, she was only concerned with getting money from him and his ex-wife. In my opinion, that awful harpy got what she deserved.
He did the right thing for him.
LOL. Imagine people you don’t want to deal with cutting you off from them thinking it’s a punishment or a way to exclude you.
Like thanks. Don’t threaten me with a good time.
He did JUST the right thing! You don't bite the hand that feeds you and you don't treat your kids that way
Really sorry for op, all the work money and time put into his marriage and she was happy to throw it all away, good on you mate
Mom or not, disrespect is disrespect no matter who it is
Don't you ever underestimate the women courage to call you a lot of crap names when you got her red handed. Pure evil.
Op did the right thing
His mom straight up betrayed him in the most profane way possible.
That bridge isn't just burnt, it got nuked into a smoldering crater.
OP had every right to go scorched earth on both the cheater, and his mother. Cheaters deserve no mercy, and those who betray their own family to support cheating deserve less.
Anybody that wants to defend the mother in the slightest for not only not disparaging the infidelity, but actively enabling it, are absolutely nuts.
Actions have consequences. I don't know why people don't think things through.
i just thought of something if you can sue your cheating spouse affair partners can you also sue someone for helping your cheating spouse cheat sorry if this is a stupid question i was just curious...
Copying comments real original
Op did the right thing. Some times it is best to cut people out of your lives no matter who they are 😢
No op needs to cut both off
@@kathleenhudson7470 Especially monster mommy
OP needs to protect himself.
Op made the right discussions to go the contract
OP definitely made the right choice to cut off Mom. Mom had not only been supporting the cheating, but was taking money from OP and Lisa. Now she needs to learn how to budget on the pension. Actions have consequences. 😻😁😁
OP did good
Being betrayed by your family is the worst form of betrayal, anyone taking the mother's side doesn't see this as a problem. Which makes me question their ethics
Op definitely made the right decision
How can you fixed something that's been broken beyond repair. 💔
OP'S mother is a toxic person, she cheated on OP father for god knows how long , the poor died of a heart attack. But have the nerves to help OP'S wife cheated on him, she deserves nothing from her son. She made her bed, she have to sleep in it. All of mother's flying monkeys, should help pay her bills now. OP please take care of yourself and your mental health and well-being.
Your ex-wife got what she deserves.
The family that agreed with her can help take care of her
I find it amusing that as you were saying church-going Christians you had people lighting a menorah
Op made right choice cutting everyone off.
OP needed to look out for himself. Clearly, his mom wasn’t. She was greedy.
This guy reads like a cartoon cat
I can’t I just can’t, why did he have the Jewish candles for hanaka when he said his family was “good Christians)
No, encouraging cheating on your OWN son is completely inexcusable!!!
Cut, don’t be a doormat!
Nope. OP didn't go too far. I have 5 sons and i cannot imagine doing what OPs mother did to any of my Sons marriages. She is so wrong for that.
OP was 100% justified in cutting off his extremely toxic mother. That doesn't mean he necessarily should have, but he certainly had every justification in doing so.
Every family is different. I would never claim to be qualified to make such a decision for someone else, particularly a stranger on the internet.
If ur mom betrays you in such a way, then you owe her nothing.
Op is drowning seeing his wife and AP enjoying themselves on the beach while his mom throws him an anchor. Just because your life is a dumpster fire doesn't mean that should be the standard for everyone else.
Hush money was given to your mother. Tuff luck for her! F around, found out.
Well, I was right! OPs incubator is as much a POS as OPs ex wife is.
She picked her side and it is what it is
I know, Lisa can go stay with his mother, since bird's of a feather flock together.
The reason they’re mad about op cutting her off is because they don’t want to support her.
These simps be crazy RIGHT OR WRONG IM NOT SLEEPING IN A BASEMENT OR SPARE ROOM OR COUCH BECAUSE SHE FUCKED UP IN ANY TYPE OF WAY
The sisterhood is very strong smh .The thought of having your own mother taking side with your cheating wife is so bizarre and disgusting 😑.
Op you did good ! Your "mother" is a toxic person she cheated on your Father and saw nothing wrong with your wife cheating on YOU ! WTF ? Stay away
Loved the story, though!
I do think that OP was really bitter but I really do understand. I hope he finds peace in the end. His mom should never have contacted family about his business. I really don't think that OP went to far. Family always comes first.
Not when they betray you!
His mother can get her a** a JOB. So that means she was getting money from both of them. No contact NO MONEY AT ALL!!!
She could get a job on the streets, the mother could take a cut. Lol.
She sided with the wife instead of her own son. So yes OP deserved to cut his mom and her side of the family off!!!
he did right!
That's the best news you said OB just think how much more money you get to save not buying heartless people any presence😂🎉😊
He didn’t. His wife cheated, and his mom not only covered it up but CONFESSED TO CHEATING HERSELF!!!! Kick her to the curb. Family doesn’t do that, and she’s no member of the family for that. Same for those who take her side. Cheating is terrible and they are saying they’re ok with it by taking her side.
If his mother has family that condemns him for cutting financial help for her they can give her a ride to the social services office if they are so concerned for her well being.
OP did the right thing.
It doesn’t get much worse than being betrayed by your own mother (and for his cheating wife)?
He definitely got a terrible lawyer a good lawyer would’ve sued her for compensation and her lover and then the divisional of assets will come out after that
Can someone pls create a word for being moderately addicted to these stories where the villain/scoundrel gets their comeuppance?
Cheating is a/the deal breaker
Since OP mom cheat on dad OP the pension should be revocked
OP made his decision and I agree with him. Mothers are supposed to be there for their kids.
299👍's up MR RA thank you for sharing 😊
Completely agree with OP on this one
Once a cheater always a cheater.
Yeah his momtelling op’s ex it isn’t that big a deal sucks!!!!! OP’s mom should have have told his ex to fess up and beg forgiveness. She doesn’t deserve any more money. OP DID THE RIGHT THING!!
OP mother is a piece of work 😡🤬