Ex-Wife Who Left Me For Taking Care Of My Sick Dad Is Now Ganging Up On Me To Take Her Back

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    OP takes care of a sick dad who is very wealthy. OP is married to Maria who is a gold digger and doesn’t understand why OP takes care of his dad so much. OP and Maria argue so much that OP finally divorces her. Maria and her family get all of her belongings, Maria’s dad tells OP he will regret not giving Maria half of the inheritance. Op goes to the cemetery to put on new flowers to find that his dad’s tombstone is ruined. And there’s a plack saying give Maria the money or else. OP calls and replaces the tombstone and reports it to the police.
    Soon after OP is at home and two bricks are thrown through his windows. One has a message talking about giving Maria the money. OP calls the police and reports it. Then OP moves to his dad's house with his kids. And Maria goes to OP’s old house and attacks the new tenants who call the police and have her arrested. Jerome breaks into OP’s house and hits him the baseball bat and OP makes him leave and calls the police. Jerome does jail time for battery and trespassing.
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  • @BillAnon
    @BillAnon ปีที่แล้ว +668

    Spouses are not entitled to inheritance, neither are ex-spouses. So what ex-wife's family did was extortion.

    • @garybulwinkle82
      @garybulwinkle82 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Need to hire a security guard!

    • @susanmcpeak7267
      @susanmcpeak7267 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I was just going to say that inheritance is not communal property - married,divorced, or just dating.
      My husband inherited $25k from his granny when she passed. I had no say in how he wanted to spend it, but since he is an awesome husband, he included me on how we were going to spend it.
      First, we paid off bills and credit cards. He gave me a bit & then I told him to do whatever he wanted with the balance. He bought a gun & an insane amount of ammo, put some away in a savings account, then he used most of the rest of the money for home improvements.
      If Maria had been nicer to him, he MIGHT have given her some money. Her & her family's horrendous attitude & entitlement killed any hope of that

    • @callenilsson8846
      @callenilsson8846 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yup, plus assault and b&e, not to mention blackmail and Destruction of property.

    • @xyz.ijk.
      @xyz.ijk. ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Sadly not true in California

    • @Gregarious3
      @Gregarious3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@susanmcpeak7267$25k? You guys got more milage from a relative small amount of money than most. Want to really win? Stay out of debt.

  • @QuotetheRaven75
    @QuotetheRaven75 ปีที่แล้ว +458

    I've said it before. More awareness needs to be raised for male domestic violence victims. If it had been Maria in his shoes the cops would've been all over OP. But because he's the victim in this situation all they did was take reports at the time. So unfair!

    • @HeoBaby24
      @HeoBaby24 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      That's the sad reality. Men are always seen as the problem and will never be taken as top priority (not saying that they should,)
      You hear more stories about men than women doing back things. But even when there is a story about a woman people will not see as serious or try making her out as the victim
      I know this comment is a bit of topics but I'm just giving a prospective that men are always seen as getting more when we're not
      We're getting less day by day and this story is a great example we're getting less help from people we count on the most

    • @callenilsson8846
      @callenilsson8846 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup, if you are not a child, a woman or the elderly, you can go screw yourself, and people wonder where the statistics regarding psychopaths, sociopaths, shooters and the whole sexual crimes acts being mostly men comes from, cause yes, let's treat someone horribly all their life and tell them from the get go that all NEEDED outlets, both positive and negative is bad, all because they have two chromosones, what do they expect to happen? O.o

    • @stephaniewilson3955
      @stephaniewilson3955 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Actually, women get the same treatment until their corpse has to be dealt with. Evidence is what is needed and lots of it which is why modern video cameras are such a blessing.

    • @HeoBaby24
      @HeoBaby24 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@stephaniewilson3955 yah but they're actually awareness for domestic abuse. For women
      But hardly any for men

    • @star3catcherSEQUEL
      @star3catcherSEQUEL ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately, most women only get a report and nothing more too. It's true that most people react to abuse against women differently in an emotional sense, but they're not anywhere near as well taken care of by the system as most assume. The system doesn't care about any victims.

  • @east-endjustice7883
    @east-endjustice7883 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    Even if you were married, most places don't consider inheritance as marital property. Spouses don't have any right to any percentage of inheritance.

    • @user-xd6nc6rg7b
      @user-xd6nc6rg7b ปีที่แล้ว +9

      If it gets mixed in with marital assets (like paying the mortgage or put into savings or retirement accounts, for example), it can be counted as a marital asset. It's important to talk with a lawyer if that's a concern.

    • @jw4111
      @jw4111 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Exactly - keep as separate account. Also, when you get married best to have a separate account if you have any assets. Speak to an attorney!

    • @zekeblake5914
      @zekeblake5914 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@jw4111actually I've heard from lawyers that write up prenups that they have never seen those marriages work.
      As great as idea as they seem, it builds into the relationship an imbalance of power. One side knows they can leave without drastic consequences. The other knows they need to walk on tip toes or the other can leave without consequences.

    • @marleneperry6972
      @marleneperry6972 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hate to say this but most people don't know their spouses well enough before committing to marriage, yes it's good to be in love but observing them and their habits on a daily basis might keep some couple knowledgeable about each other.

    • @Derzull2468
      @Derzull2468 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @zekeblake5914 You just described any marriage, what's special about your example?

  • @michaellatta7699
    @michaellatta7699 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    He broke into your house with a baseball bat and you got him into a headlock. You should have put him to sleep and called the police. Not let him go. That's insane

    • @Silverwilg
      @Silverwilg ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I think I would have let him go too. I don't think I will know how to control myself well enough to just put him to sleep. Since if he is still awake I worry he will lose reason and do something worse if I let him go or wakes up quickly. Beside the priority is getting him away so the kids stay safe and don't have to see this ugly part of humanity when they are young.

    • @JimPippin-wc7fq
      @JimPippin-wc7fq ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ​@@SilverwilgI'm thinking that he means to put him to sleep permanently

    • @ClockworkGearhead
      @ClockworkGearhead ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JimPippin-wc7fq We have the exact same people in these comments cheering when another guy is going to jail for the exact same thing. Let's not.

    • @bumpthemagnificent
      @bumpthemagnificent ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Glad I live in a state that would’ve let me put a couple rounds center mass and not have to worry about it.

    • @DemetriT1
      @DemetriT1 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly, stand your ground laws exist for a reason.

  • @nimisilverbird1239
    @nimisilverbird1239 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Nta. You owe her nothing and her family can be arrested and sent to prison. Every single one of them. Also you have the right to defend yourself

    • @jameseet
      @jameseet ปีที่แล้ว +15

      set up cameras and audio, charge and sue every last one into the ground...put a hidden camera look at my gfathers grave stone.

    • @delorescannon455
      @delorescannon455 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jameseet and a gun

  • @melaniecurtin6402
    @melaniecurtin6402 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    OP needs to increase his security around the house including cameras.

    • @kevinnaranek6649
      @kevinnaranek6649 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      The ex's family should have also have to have paid for the damage caused in addition to the rest.

    • @delorescannon455
      @delorescannon455 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kevinnaranek6649 this can't be in America

    • @mobilemcsmarty1466
      @mobilemcsmarty1466 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      yeah, I suggest to add firearms too.

  • @GenZPhantom
    @GenZPhantom ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Honestly I would've done alot worse to Jerome to send the whole family a message that practically says; "Leave me alone, if you break into my house again you will lose another one."

    • @J-Ru89
      @J-Ru89 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yep, i keep a gun in my kitchen, he would have left the house in a coroners van

    • @RavenKnighthawk
      @RavenKnighthawk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@J-Ru89not the best place. If a burglar finds it before you know they're there, you're the one needing a coroner's van. Keep it on or in your bedside table. Or at least between your bedroom and all major exits of the home.

    • @J-Ru89
      @J-Ru89 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@RavenKnighthawk my reply isnt posting for some reason, its in a concealment shelf, your not gonna find it unless you know what your looking for

  • @michellekozlowski7987
    @michellekozlowski7987 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Don't work like that with inheritance, even if they were still married, it was NOT her inheritance.

    • @rebeccacoleman3341
      @rebeccacoleman3341 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Some states have community property laws--anything one spouse owns also belongs to the other--but it doesn't apply after divorce.

    • @jedimasters1462
      @jedimasters1462 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      ​@Rebecca Coleman Inheritance isn't considered community property so isn't subjected to those laws. The only way she could get half is if it was put into a joint account before divorce was filed and served. Even then a spouse may not be allowed to get half.

    • @thematrix2661
      @thematrix2661 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@rebeccacoleman3341 Inheritance can't be shared in divorce.

    • @Fly_Navy
      @Fly_Navy ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thematrix2661Give the Fem..ist another 5-10 years.

    • @idpaydolr
      @idpaydolr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rebeccacoleman3341Incorrect for California. Any inherited property is separate property to which the wife has no claim. California Family Code Section 770.

  • @kimlehman8179
    @kimlehman8179 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    OP, sell both houses as soon as you can and move yourself and your children far away from this crazy family. Unless they all end up in jail, they will continue to be a threat. Until you leave, set up cameras and even hire security guards if need be. These people are ruthless. They didn’t know that your kids weren’t home the night they threw the bricks through the window. For all the knew, one of those bricks could have hit the kids and they didn’t care. You could even arrange to have your fathers body moved to your new town and placed in a cemetery there. Don’t let these people hurt your children. Get away from there!

    • @kathyschaefer5768
      @kathyschaefer5768 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's what I just said

    • @yestfmf
      @yestfmf ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Rent the house to a cop. Move out of state. Then send the gold digger a text that they will have to try harder.
      They show up to try harder, break in on a cop…..problem solved.

    • @oliverscorsim
      @oliverscorsim ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You guys know if someone breaks into your home you can shoot them right 😂

    • @karenbaldwin2867
      @karenbaldwin2867 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ⁠@@yestfmf evil morally reprehensible and totally legal I’m in!!

  • @millerlucerojames
    @millerlucerojames ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Yeah ex doesn't get anthing ... also get yourself a restraining order a protection order and a weapon to defend your self ... cause crazy doesn't stop

    • @wendwllhickey6426
      @wendwllhickey6426 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That them tocourt with police reports and have a lawyer a good one

  • @robertbelton7635
    @robertbelton7635 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Something similar happened a friend of my over inheritance. it was his sisters husband and his brothers that were doing the intimidation (she knew nothing about this). My friend is a shy guy and was been bullied. There was five of us sitting in the kitchen drinking coffee when they turned up again and were banging on his front door . My friend answered the door and was been threatened ! We stopped recording wat was going on , we came out of the kitchen ,told my friend to go upstairs and do not ring the police . then we went outside...Eh.. for some strange unknown reason .. Eh...they never came back ..

    • @kevintull3302
      @kevintull3302 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I don't know you but I know we would get along very well!

    • @FredRated1967
      @FredRated1967 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Outstanding!

    • @capolot
      @capolot 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hell yeah!

  • @sst1911
    @sst1911 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    This is why every homeowner needs to own a gun. Do you think the ex's family would have tried any of this if they knew OP was armed?

    • @NazzyDragon
      @NazzyDragon ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Based

    • @FredRated1967
      @FredRated1967 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Yeah, he could've put Jerome to sleep permanently.

    • @bigwill9421
      @bigwill9421 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Say Hello to My Little Friend..!!!

    • @timothyross718
      @timothyross718 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Absolutely

    • @bluemenace04
      @bluemenace04 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You'd be surprised.

  • @barbaraunderwood1762
    @barbaraunderwood1762 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Inheritance isn’t marriage assets. This family was crazy. Brother & sister got there just rewards.

    • @markarca6360
      @markarca6360 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, it is NOT conjugal property.

  • @earlinejackson8151
    @earlinejackson8151 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Well, I would NOT have let Jerome go after breaking into my house and attacking me with a bat! I’d have kept him right there till the cops got there. And might have accidentally dropped the bat on him a few times while waiting.

    • @gregorywilks1036
      @gregorywilks1036 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂when the po po got there I would ask....y'all got that body outline tape cuz you gonna need it.

    • @doriangray6985
      @doriangray6985 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes I don't understand why he didn't prosecute

  • @ceciliacalvin263
    @ceciliacalvin263 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    And 2: in most cases, inheritance is not considered marital property.

  • @waltdoherty540
    @waltdoherty540 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Inheritance. You have enough money to out-lawyer them. Do it.

  • @lynnechapman6204
    @lynnechapman6204 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    So, I guess Maria does not care what happens to her kids. OP, I am praying for you. I hope you post an update soon.

  • @kyleanuar9090
    @kyleanuar9090 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    So Maria is clueless where her ex and kids moved to but her brother knew where to break in and attack op?

    • @beverlyarcher546
      @beverlyarcher546 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe he followed them?

    • @mwilliams1330
      @mwilliams1330 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@beverlyarcher546 or maybe the OP has an imagination. A guy breaks into your house, clocks you with a bat, you gain control and do not have him arrested for several felonies? Yea, ok.

  • @kentjensen4939
    @kentjensen4939 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    They really think they can talk you into doing what they want by using violence and attempted force? That ex is obviously a gold digger as well as egotistical.

    • @marktwain2053
      @marktwain2053 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Plus, assault with a deadly weapon, attempted blackmail, and extortion aren't quite the same as veiled threats!

    • @lonniemonroe2714
      @lonniemonroe2714 ปีที่แล้ว

      Castle doctrine

    • @janettpalmer7641
      @janettpalmer7641 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😅

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    What an insensitive, horrible family Opie’s wife are to destroy a head stone of a person who OP just lost and cared for oh, I want these people to pay for what they did. Please let them pay for what they did.

  • @BreeCrutch
    @BreeCrutch ปีที่แล้ว +14

    😂😂😂😂😂 I'm laughing at that blender spinning around while OP & Carlos, and OP/attorney were talking in the kitchen. 😂😂
    Sorry to hear about OP's dad. 😢

  • @DCGamingNetwork
    @DCGamingNetwork ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I have watched several of Mr. Reddito's videos and this has got to be the most selfish, entitled, narcissistic spouse I have ever seen on this channel. Like this lady only cared about herself and only herself. She didn't love OP, she only loved herself and her greed wound up costing her more than she thought. As for OP, I'm glad he got out of that toxic relationship.

    • @ClockworkGearhead
      @ClockworkGearhead ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I mean, the guy very obviously embellished. The part where he's bad-mouthing his ex to his children is kind of the biggest tell.

    • @patrickgoss6949
      @patrickgoss6949 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He had no balls

    • @koikoivison4753
      @koikoivison4753 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      my ex could complete easily

    • @koikoivison4753
      @koikoivison4753 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@ClockworkGearheadseems hecwas telling the truth

  • @evilisfun9935
    @evilisfun9935 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Accountability is a woman's kryptonite. Leave them to boxed wine and cat land where they belong.

    • @Ares99999
      @Ares99999 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That is stupid on so many levels.

    • @emurder99
      @emurder99 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She got what she deserved for sending her brothers to do her dirty work just because she was going to get some of his father's money but now they are behind bars for throwing bricks with letters and with a baseball bat trying to get him to submit some of that money to her this man took care of his father till his dying days and left everything to his son to take care of money and his new house 🏠 they moved in with the son and daughter and for Maria i hope the gold digging business is going well because you just missed out on the finest thing in life it had to offer and you blew it up in smoke

    • @gloriabeckley7464
      @gloriabeckley7464 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not just women. Be truthful, that is why jails stay full.

  • @hvymax
    @hvymax ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A few cameras would get plenty of evidence to get her family sent to jail.

  • @robingibson6561
    @robingibson6561 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    OP, please take your children and moved far, far away. This is not going to stop until you either get seriously hurt or something worse. She has already shown she's too unstable to parent your children. Leave the country, tell no one accepted your attorney, your whereabouts and go love a peaceful life with your children.

    • @kathyschaefer5768
      @kathyschaefer5768 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes a country where Maria's family has absolutely no connections

    • @stephaniewilson3955
      @stephaniewilson3955 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      OP can afford serious security. He should hire someone who knows what they are doing to watch over the house for him and deal with the thugs.

    • @andrewmarshall8187
      @andrewmarshall8187 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      OP should actually have done that right away after his ex-FIL threatened him. Especially after they desecrated his Father's tombstone. That was just sick, and going too far.

    • @danacarter9147
      @danacarter9147 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly. If OP's STBX-wife had custody of the kids, they would've been on their way to the foster care system, when the authorities remove them from her and her psycho family.⚠️

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I hope OP warn the renters of his crazy ex, and her family. Hope she was pressed with charges for slapping the renter.

  • @connierichards9121
    @connierichards9121 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Awh heck. We need an update op. I know that beeyotch didn't give up that easy.

  • @walterstarr1588
    @walterstarr1588 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Inheritance is never considered common property in a marriage.

    • @OpenBarn
      @OpenBarn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Was about to say this too. But once it's transferred into a joint account then it is marriage assets. Always keep inheritance separate and never combine it with marriage assets.

  • @cheekysaver
    @cheekysaver ปีที่แล้ว +15

    If I were OP, I would get a will done up putting everything aside for the kids in the event of his death. Something he picks who runs it.... not their mother. I would have it so they get their schooling all paid for and everything else put aside until they are 30. I would also insist on every receipt for the schooling... and pay the school fees directly. I would also make sure to have a dash camera and cameras in the garage and everywhere he parks. Then, at next contact I would let them know that even in the event of your end... you have made sure they get absolutely nothing.

  • @ericklein2589
    @ericklein2589 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The more I listen to these stories the more I’m convinced they are just made up for entertainment.

  • @kingjoeyofoc
    @kingjoeyofoc ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Op needs to file a restraining order

  • @danielamaro4656
    @danielamaro4656 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The second she came in already somehow knowing the father died, that would have been an instant restraining order against the whole lot of them. Of course, I live in a state with really good castle doctrine, so they'd only need to make a mistake once before it would have been their last

  • @blitzwolfmon8297
    @blitzwolfmon8297 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Shame those plaques put near graves aren't made of metal. If they were the Ex's family wouldn't have been able to break it at least. My big question though is how the Ex new about the money so fast? I mean it was like practically instantly.

    • @ajaxjohnson7999
      @ajaxjohnson7999 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is quite the plot hole

    • @calvinmccormick3053
      @calvinmccormick3053 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The hospital could have informed her because they didn't know about the divorce

    • @blitzwolfmon8297
      @blitzwolfmon8297 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@calvinmccormick3053 Okay now that makes sense. Still was pretty interesting that her brother knew where OPs father's house was and yet the Ex was bilssfully unaware to a comical degree. Me thinks he was trying to get the money for himself. Lol.

    • @AzraelThanatos
      @AzraelThanatos ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@blitzwolfmon8297 Or facebook, or death announcement...
      My former aunt showed up again when my uncle died to create trouble...fortunately her habits got her in enough trouble to stop her from doing it for long.

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    OP wife never should get full custody of those kids. The husband is the better parent in this case.

  • @danrossell6375
    @danrossell6375 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If dad died after the divorce you owe her jack squat!
    Take out a restraining order on her and her family. I'd have told FiL that I have provided a home, a car and all the bills are being paid what more could he possibly want for his daughter?
    OP should have had security cameras installed at both his father's house and the rental property so he could document all the stupidity that was likely to ensue.

  • @Someonereallycares
    @Someonereallycares ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is bull crap because the police would have arrested Maria's brothers.

  • @theevilmilkpudding
    @theevilmilkpudding ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He should have done something the moment they fucked with his dad's headstone. Plus she has no right to an inheirantance.

  • @jacksonhaslam2753
    @jacksonhaslam2753 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I try not to judge OP's extended family. Even though you think it should be a given you'd want to save family, organ donation is not a simple matter, and I realize that even for someone you love, it can be a difficult decision. The wife and her family though...yeah, they're awful.

    • @indirastone7382
      @indirastone7382 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, human beings judge behaviors. Since I'm a human being I'm stating what they are. TRASH!

    • @AzraelThanatos
      @AzraelThanatos ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah, there are a lot of potential issues with organ transplants, and for anyone who would give one there is a pretty massive laundry list of things about how it would change your life.
      On top of that, several things that can go wrong with a kidney there are genetic in nature, and could end up putting the donor in a worse case than the one they'd donated the kidney to...

    • @art2388
      @art2388 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Also they have to take antibiotics the rest of their life. So the organ doesn't get rejected by the body.

    • @ripvanwinkle3432
      @ripvanwinkle3432 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Most kidney problems are due to bad eating habits. Why would i sacrifice my health to help someone that doesn't keep up with their own.

    • @francesheinig6420
      @francesheinig6420 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@art2388 it's anti-rejection drugs not antibiotics. Antibiotics are for bacterial infections.
      Rip Van Winkle kidney problems are usually caused by diabetes and genetic disorders not what you eat. It can also be cause by how much alcohol you consume on a daily basis over a lot of yrs. To much alcohol can ruin your liver, just like smoking can cause cancer. Most ppl who need a transplant haven't done anything wrong to mess up their organ but some ppl do. So if you had two family members both need an organ transplant. One drank themselves to this point, or so you thought, and another lived a very healthy lifestyle, so you thought. Who is more deserving the one who destroyed their organ or the one who didn't. Let's say you give it to the person you "thought" lived a healthy lifestyle and then after you find out it was all a lie. What if the other person didn't destroy it's organ and it was a genetic disorder but it's to late you gave your organ to the one who did destroy their organ but fooled you into thinking they were a health nut. Would you be mad at yourself that you jumped to conclusions about the one who you thought destroyed it's organ or would you be mad at the person who fooled you until it was already to.late to stop it. Usually we don't know the whole story about anything whether it's family or not. Ppl are capable of lying to get what they need to survive. You having the attitude that they destroyed there organ so I'm not going to help is ridiculous bc if it's family and you love them you should want to help no matter the circumstances.
      Unfortunately this poor man's family didn't love him enough to want to save him for what ever reason. We don't know why the family didn't want to help, do you understand what I'm saying. If you are a loving and caring person you should want to help in anyway possible and no matter the circumstances. That's all I'm saying. Being kind and caring doesn't make you stupid or anything else it makes you a person who loves and wants to help anyone or anything. God bless you all and have a great night.

  • @JudiLong-lb2vn
    @JudiLong-lb2vn ปีที่แล้ว +5

    OP said as long as he knew Maria she had been a gold digger so my ? Is why in the world did he marry her then. That makes no sense to me. But I'm glad he has his kids n all his $ n that hopefully B4 long that whole family will be in jail or prison for a long time

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When I heard catering to her every need, I knew she was a problem.

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    OP has a spine thank you. I’m glad he told her off.

    • @susanmcpeak7267
      @susanmcpeak7267 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      A VERY shiny spine indeed. That is what you need in order to battle with psychotic entitled sociopaths.

  • @justinpettenuzzo8210
    @justinpettenuzzo8210 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I hope OP'S father haunts them for vandalizing his grave.

  • @virginiagiangulio9532
    @virginiagiangulio9532 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was in the same place but I move very far away from all of them and love where I am .

  • @indigowulf
    @indigowulf ปีที่แล้ว +8

    When people start making things physical, arm yourself and get cameras and an alarm system. There should never be a chance for someone to be in your kitchen without you knowing.

  • @Swnsasy
    @Swnsasy ปีที่แล้ว +16

    1st she's a horrible person BUT, she has ONE point... Your father is VERY wealthy but wouldn't help you pay for your upkeep while you had to stop working as much to actually take care of him so you had to go out and get a loan in order to pay your daily expenses... Now, he passed, he gave you everything because he probably wanted to see if you would do what you did out of love and not his money... You proved his point.... Cruella gets NOTHING period...

    • @aulduronsmith5577
      @aulduronsmith5577 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      OP never asked for help.

    • @kathyschaefer5768
      @kathyschaefer5768 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's because he stated from the very start op, stated he didn't want to use and or abuse his father's wealth and that his problems weren't his father's, his father had enough to deal with considering what he was going through with his health

    • @JimPippin-wc7fq
      @JimPippin-wc7fq ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Let's not forget that it was her frivolous spending that put them in debt so deeply. He didn't want to feel like he was taking advantage of his father.

    • @jaimerivera6435
      @jaimerivera6435 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not wouldnt. He never asked. Op took pride in self sufficiency. As a man, we stand on our two feet otherwise your just a grown boy. As for him SEEING what he would do with the money, dad is dead and gone. He left him the money because his son EARNED it. He seems to have a good relationship with the father that extended prior to his health concerns. He raised his son well

    • @Ares99999
      @Ares99999 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jaimerivera6435 It's less on the son's side that I have a problem, and more on the father's side. He is repeatedly said to be very wealthy, and kidney failure doesn't mean your mental faculties are down. The father could have hired staff (chauffeur, private nurse, etc.) and made arrangements that alleviated the burden on his only son. Instead, it seems that OP pretty much stopped having a life for an extended period of time.
      I'm not sure I like the idea of the father having tested his son that way. My own father would have a few choice words to tell the man about that. The fact that the son's made a pretty good life for himself financially with no help from his dad seems to me that the son earned this before his dad ever got sick.

  • @stevebanner5609
    @stevebanner5609 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    With his father’s money why in God’s name didn’t he get a lawyer and sue them for harassment, restraining order, etc.

  • @suzannepatterson3445
    @suzannepatterson3445 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    With all that money you'd think he'd have put up security cameras, filed for restraining orders, even hired security guards. That's what makes this so unbelievable. If he knew they wouldn't stop going after him, why wouldn't he have done all that to protect himself and his kids?

    • @girl1213
      @girl1213 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Inheritance doesn't automatically mean you can afford things, especially legality or paying for guards. For all we know, he had debts to pay and used the money for that so he could focus on his plans for the house.

    • @mwilliams1330
      @mwilliams1330 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@girl1213 You let your ex B-in-law leave after committing felonies, yet talk about safety for your children. The story has so many holes.

  • @nerdygeekgamer5528
    @nerdygeekgamer5528 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If the last will and testament of OP'S father is legally binding and he's the only one in the will then NO ONE CAN DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT not even a spouse or EX SPOUSE

  • @brendamonrreal7887
    @brendamonrreal7887 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I hate it when they lied in description. The wife didnt left him he divirce her

    • @edub0524
      @edub0524 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂

    • @nikig2891
      @nikig2891 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It says ex-wife.

    • @brendamonrreal7887
      @brendamonrreal7887 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nikig2891 the ex wife still didnt left him.

  • @VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer
    @VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer ปีที่แล้ว +4

    if OP was in America, he should've bought a gun after the brick incident and always carried it with him

  • @PastaMakerCordy-qy4uz
    @PastaMakerCordy-qy4uz ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You owe her nothing.

  • @jordanbrawley6222
    @jordanbrawley6222 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This story does bring up a question i have, if you donate a kidney to a family member extend their life but do die of other reasons b4 u can they actually replant the kidney into its original owner ?

    • @katwiltz1134
      @katwiltz1134 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Idk but would like to.

  • @Fireguy97
    @Fireguy97 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The fist mistake that OP did was not getting a lawyer and cameras to deal with the family.

  • @zachmedlin2608
    @zachmedlin2608 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Buy a “force multiplier.” If they want to speak violence. Scream it back at them.

    • @DemetriT1
      @DemetriT1 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂 a "force multiplier" that's definitely from a video game.

    • @Edgar-kl6us
      @Edgar-kl6us ปีที่แล้ว

      Break into my home with a baseball bat, to intimidate me, … ??? You’ll be the next in line for a casket, … I’ll shoot you where you stand, … and NO, … regret, … will not be a part of my defense, … I am able to require you to die for breaking into my home, in your attempt to sway my judgement, … which, by the way, is legal, anywhere, USA, …

    • @mawillix2018
      @mawillix2018 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @DemetriT1
      Yes, I'm sure that when Malcolm R. Currie wrote "Electronics: Key Military 'Force Multiplier'" in the Air Force Magazine of 1976 the words were definitely from a video game. It's not like the word was used to describe the effects of a lever before the ministries of defense of multiple countries started using it to refer to something that *multiplies* the value of a military *force*.

  • @peterkelly7611
    @peterkelly7611 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would use the money for bodyguards..

  • @codeapp
    @codeapp ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yeah ex doesn't get anything ... also get yourself a restraining order a protection order and a weapon to defend your self ... cause crazy doesn't stop. The other comment is my alternate account

    • @MsKaz1000
      @MsKaz1000 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      why would you copy and paste someone else's comment

  • @MaddyFish
    @MaddyFish ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My dad is my Kidney donor🥰 I don’t need it right now but I’m headed for dialysis due to a wrestling injury killing my left kidney. Once I get to the stage of dialysis my dad will be the one to give me his🥰❤️❤️

  • @LAALLARD
    @LAALLARD ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'll take "Things that never happened" for $500.

  • @hvymax
    @hvymax ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OP's Tennant's should sue the crap out of him for setting them up!!!

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    OP’s ex-wife, family are psycho

  • @Imaih048
    @Imaih048 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I have CKD, might need a kidney someday, and really just dislike OP - not for anything about his wife, she is terrible - but for the "simply giving a kidney". There is nothing simple about organ donation, it's brutal, terrifying and life changing. No one is entitled to anyone's organs, no matter how sick. If some day I should need it and got it I would be grateful, but NEVER would I downplay the sheer COST of donating an organ for the donor, and don't feel entitled to expect anyone to make that sort of sacrifice for me.

    • @MelanieCravens
      @MelanieCravens ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Not to mention all the testing beforehand to be sure of an organ matching. There are a lot of factors that go into being a match for organ donation. It isn't just a "you have one and I need one, give it to me!" thing.

    • @SeviathTheHumanDrago
      @SeviathTheHumanDrago ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@MelanieCravensAllot of people don't/didn't have medical professionals as a parent. I did so I kinda know the importance of having a matching organ, you also need to have the proper blood type.

  • @christineb629
    @christineb629 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Even if OP and Maria were stl marrie, she wouldn't be eligible for half if OPs inheritance. In xases of divorce, inheritance is not paart of the division of marital assets.

  • @darrellreid5312
    @darrellreid5312 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1st from Michigan. Hello everyone 😊

  • @user-hr5pc3rt2n
    @user-hr5pc3rt2n ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Too bad OP didn't hire security personnel. He could certainly afford it. Might have wrappthis mess up sooner. Oh well all well that ends well.

  • @loveyashua237
    @loveyashua237 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Not sure what took OP that long to get security camera. These ppl are dangerous. Also feel sad about y to he tenants who could have gotten killed, walking into a situation that they had no idea was going on.

  • @gregoryk.9815
    @gregoryk.9815 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please get some home defense ⚔️👉 and use it when they break in .

    • @gregoryk.9815
      @gregoryk.9815 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't be a nice guy remember that you are the one responsible for protection of your children.

  • @a.g11jean5
    @a.g11jean5 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The dude is so lazy to make a restraining order from the beginning. Or some security stuff in his own home.

  • @21deangelo
    @21deangelo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Notice that when the man went thru all that with the family especially get hit with the bat that the police did nothing but write a report l but when the woman tenant got attacked the wife instantly got arrested smh men have to go thru so much stuff

  • @NessaEllenesse
    @NessaEllenesse 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My husband's parents died in 2006. As they lived 6 hours away there was nothing I could do to help. If my husband had been in OP's place, I would have had FIL move to our spare bedroom. I was a CNA and could have cared for him myself. Especially as we didn’t have any children at the time.

  • @karinaashmon
    @karinaashmon 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thats when you call the cops and have her and her family arrested

  • @Monkeywrench542
    @Monkeywrench542 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If the wife is in jail or prison, then move to someplace else before she gets out.

  • @bigwill9421
    @bigwill9421 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He should enlist the services of his Dad's Lawyer/Friend. Great Story...!!!

  • @scarletspie
    @scarletspie ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I want to know why is it always the good men who get trapped with these type of women. When there are perfectly good humble loving women like myself who sits at home lonely. I'm tired of fishing alone and eating alone. Where have all the good men gone? 😆 🤣

  • @crislipmichelle
    @crislipmichelle ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Inheritance is yours only, even if you are married

  • @deborahkizer4664
    @deborahkizer4664 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Call the police. Keep her out of there life. ❤

  • @yuvrajagarwal6816
    @yuvrajagarwal6816 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I couldn’t understand one thing though. Why didn’t OP just hire a Private Investigator to collect proof of them causing harm? Or to keep taba on them so as to safeguard his kids and himself.

  • @millicentspears
    @millicentspears ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dont trash the transitioned graves. They will whoop your ass in ways you can never imagine

  • @DDuMas
    @DDuMas ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Regarding the loan that is needed for bills she says "half the money is mine". It's FOR THE BILLS YOU MAD BINT. 😮

  • @nuckingfutsguy
    @nuckingfutsguy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    um if OP's dad was in hospice then that means he was approaching the end of his life so I don't know why OP would hope he'd get better.

  • @TheSchaef47
    @TheSchaef47 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's a variation on the axiom, success has many fathers but failure is an orphan.

  • @jeannettecampbell8862
    @jeannettecampbell8862 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why didn’t OP get security cameras after the divorce? And get a RO?

  • @TraceyBoyland
    @TraceyBoyland ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This story is pretty close to the earlier one

  • @janbentzen6814
    @janbentzen6814 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Damaging a tomb stone is illegal. A few well placed cameras would be helpful.

  • @user-rp1st3nk8y
    @user-rp1st3nk8y ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That's why pencils come with erasers, to fix past mistakes like they never existed.

  • @talyaplays51
    @talyaplays51 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is why I preach cameras rings every where

  • @jumaane5066
    @jumaane5066 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If I didn't experienced something similar to what OP is writing about I would think that this is fake and that no one could be so cold. However some people are like that in this world

  • @rongarrett1366
    @rongarrett1366 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Google: "Generally, inheritances are not subject to equitable distribution because inheritances are not considered marital property. Instead, inheritances are treated as separate property belonging to the person who received the inheritance and are not be divided between the parties in a divorce." Also: "If your divorce has finalized, you have no children with your ex, and a spousal support agreement is already in place, then your lottery ticket and the resulting winnings would be your separate individual property if you purchased the ticket after your divorce."

  • @kathyschaefer5768
    @kathyschaefer5768 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    To ensure his kid and his safety op should move out of state or even the country as long as it is as far away from Maria and her family as possible

  • @robertdimarcantonio3580
    @robertdimarcantonio3580 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She's cold blooded. We all die .How we treat each other is where we are going when we Die.

  • @covercalls88
    @covercalls88 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It really surprises me you didnt set up security alarms. Not just to protect you, but the kids.

  • @theultimatelibra21
    @theultimatelibra21 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I would’ve sold the houses, paid the best lawyers money can buy, took all of the evidence of all the violent acts that her and her family did and said, took her to family, civil AND criminal court and got SOLE custody of the kids, pressed charges and moved so far away that I practically disappeared!!! She and her insanely greedy family wouldn’t have ever seen me again!!! 🖕🏽

  • @stevebanner5609
    @stevebanner5609 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mr. Reddito I agree. I thought the whole ex fam would be jailed; oh, still I say shave the beard-you’ll look 10 years younger unless you’re going for the older look lol

  • @caseydemmings6666
    @caseydemmings6666 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How did op ex brother inlaw know where he move to if he didn't tell anyone

  • @dorothylloyd1804
    @dorothylloyd1804 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Have a good evening

  • @marcopolo7768
    @marcopolo7768 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They wouldn't have gotten 💩. She an ex she's not entitled to Jack. As far as her family throwing bricks through my window, they'd get sued for damages and charges would be pressed for vandalism

  • @vickichavez9956
    @vickichavez9956 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Her family was just crazy and entitled he was right to divorce her when he did

  • @dannyleo5787
    @dannyleo5787 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Last girlfriend I was with was the exact same, conniving irredeemable gold digger with issues. What made me stand against her was the woman was caught red handed stealing my sisters money from her own purse to afford her own medications. I told her that you can’t pay back the six hundred dollars cause your ass doesn’t work at all, so I packed her things, took her key and got her to go back to daddy. Kept calling me for months trying to return, I just ignored her and messaged I moved on. Never again

  • @larryballout4702
    @larryballout4702 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've press charges on her and the family.

  • @patriciasampson5268
    @patriciasampson5268 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ooh I really enjoyed this one. It was very interesting and had a great flow. I love these animations, hat of to Mr Reddito you just get better and better.

  • @npdabuserecoverydiscussion714
    @npdabuserecoverydiscussion714 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I cannot imagine any circumstance where she would be entitled to anything. Not only did you come into the money AFTER separation, but it is inheritance. It cannot be touched by an ex