Last Year Stepdad Cancelled My College Fund to Make Me Fail, But His Cruel Smirk Disappeared
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ค. 2024
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Story :-
Op is in his final year of their college and he was living a relatively normal life while making the most out of his education. Op was living with his mother and his stepfather who had just recently married his mother. Op has a complicated strained relationship with his stepfather but has managed to have a civil with him for his mother's sake.
His stepdad is a man who values money and status above everything. Therefore, he views Op’s aspirations to become a social worker as a waste of potential and resources. He firmly believes that the considerable college fund left for Op by his late father should be spent on something more "profitable". Despite the constant disagreements, Op never imagined that his stepfather would go to the lengths that he eventually did.
One day, Op finds out that his stepfather did the unimaginable. He managed to cancel Op’s college fund, claiming that it was a tough love lesson to teach Op the value of money. The move was calculated and cunning, Op’s step-father was confident that without the fund, Op wouldn't be able to afford the hefty college fees and would be forced to drop out thus failing to complete his education.
However, unknown to his stepfather, Op was more resourceful than he gave them credit for. To survive, Op took up more hours at his part-time job and scholarships, while maintaining a respectable grade point average. Against all odds, Op manages to pay off his college fees, which surprises everyone, especially his step-father.
In the middle of his struggle, Op discovers a secret about his step-father, turns out his step-father had not used the college fund for "more profitable" ventures, as he had claimed he would. He had squandered it on gambling and was now neck-deep in debt. In the desperate hope of recovery, he had risked Op’s future.
After successfully graduating, Op lands a well-paying job thanks to his exceptional grades and determination. With his first salary, he decides to pay off a portion of his stepfather’s debts, thereby saving him from bankruptcy but also exposing his lies and deceit to Op’s mother. This act was not one of kindness but a calculated move of revenge, because Op wanted his step-father to suffer the consequences of his actions. In this dramatic reveal, Op’s mother finally sees her husband for who he was and decides to leave him because of his deceit and treachery.
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OP is so stupid for not telling his mother what his stepdad did. Not only he let his stepdad steal his money but he probably stole his mother’s money too.
Stuuuuuuuuuuupid
True so is op mom gave away funds
Right it would’ve been rectified if he just spoke up
And then why keep them out of bankruptcy on his pocket? Better to have let Mom be rescued early as possible.
Completely agree.
"I found out my stepdad is a thief, manipulator and gambling addict, but I won't tell my mother any of this. Because I'm apparently okay with her living with a thieving, manipulating addict."
I would have sued Richard for stealing my trust fund
Me too!
Me 3
Was Richard’s surname Head? Rather appropriate!
Sadly it would be a waste of money, even if he won the lawsuit it doesn't mean that he will get any money. The dad has to have money in order to pay it.
@@ThatDamnedGamer1have an asset seizure request filed. Anybody that denies paying out a judgement can have a court order against them, allowing the person they owe, to just go in and seize everything and sell off everything till the debt is covered. If everything is seized and still doesn't cover the judgment, then the difference is still owed.
Why didn't OP tell mom once he pulled the funding? This would have been my first call.
Thank you thats exactly what i was thinking he's to worried about breaking his moms heart forget that if this man is capable of doing this image what else he does
Op is a bad son. His step father is a thief he had the proof but for months doesn’t tell her. Even when his Mom tells him she is financially stressed. He probably hates her too.
Sometimes the mother or father doesn't listen. They take the side of the spouse.
I've never understood that myself..
Because the story isn't real. This isn't how people recollect their memories.
I think he was way too easy. The man should be in jail for theft and embezzlement.
I would've sold him off to a slow boat to China after I broke one of his legs so he couldn't run from his owner or debt.
OPs mom is at fault too! Go to court!!!
This is why any college and/or trust funds should be administered by a law firm or a bank.
It's because sometimes the fees associated with a law firm, bank, or insurance company can be prohibitive!!
@@antoinettebates244 Better that than having the money scammed/stolen by "supposedly" trusted family members.
@@antoinettebates244you can have a piece of paper written out or a will and notarized by anyone at the bank recording the signature making it legal. The notary is $25/$50. If you have a stash of money it’s worth it
Banks are often total rip-offs.
This story is fake
So Richard was never required to pay anyone back and got away with it. OP instead of protecting his mom by keeping it from her should have told her so she can decide what to do from the beginning! Just my opinion!
OP's first action should have been to see an attorney and sue the step father until he pisses blood.
Wow, pisses blood...love it, lol.😂
That's what I'm talking about
OPs biggest mistake was not telling his mom straight away when he was logged onto the computer and had proof of richards shenanigans
Dude, should have should have told his mother early in. Why didn't he tell her once she came home?! Makes no sense...
OP has alot of harsh learning lessons in his future when it comes to people
Well from the title, I think he wants op's college fund for himself.
I would not have given him that check !
OP you should have never given Richard that cheque he would only use it for more gambling
That's what makes this story even more fake, rewarding the person who stole your trust fund...they sure allow lots of idiots into uni these days
I think Richard wants to steal his money and spend it on himself. OP should listen to his friend. Now I'll listen to the rest of the story. OP did things the right way. But I wouldn't have given him any money. I would still ask Richard for the money back because OP's father wanted him to have it .
1st he should have told his mom right away. Just in case he stole from her too and put her in a financial bind. When people try to protect someone's feelings they wind up making things worse.
OP's mom should also be charged with theft as well by giving Richard access to the fund
They both belongs under the jail
Op was too nice he should have pressed charges for theft of his trust fund
OP deserved to loose everything for not notifying mother and stopping this early on. OP is doubly stupid to give that prick a check. OP could help mom alone and let prick rot.
OP is a moron if this story is true, who rewards the criminal stealing from you??
I don’t know why OP is giving money to the stepfather,to help him when the stepfather stole OP’s money.I don’t know but this story sounds like a novela.
OP should have let Richard fall on his own face, and not given him money for his debts. For a gambling addict, that will just enable them to continue.
At OP'S age why isn't he in control of the fund?? Usually at age 18 u get control over your own trust fund.
You can set the trust fund at any age
OP should the police and charge the step.father for theft
9:13 this man is evil, Jake said it right.
I truly blame OP's mom, she never listened to her son. I don't know how a parent is not aware of her children and the true interactions between them and current partner.
I'm glad that he got to finish college. They got himself a good job and I’m glad he exposed his evil stepfather, and that his mother’s divorce him like you said you gave him a chance he blew it. Good luck in the future.❤
Oh hell no. I would have told Mom to call me after her meeting because this was important, almost an emergency and told her as soon as she called back.
I think that this is a complete work of Fiction. Unbelievable.
Totally agree...fake
Richard is blowing smoke and trying to redirect everyone’s attention. He’s up to something.
I'd have sued, prosecuted, and tempted some desperate drug addicts to have an encounter with it that left it with lasting lesson.
What a complete piece of crap. I could never keep this information to myself like OP did. His Mom is so lucky that she never married this guy. OP is a great son and every mother should be so blessed.
He should have told his mother right away after the funding was pulled, maybe all the money was not gone at that point and it likely would have exposed the addiction
Yeah, not talking to his mom utterly wrecks the already flimsy suspension of disbelief.
How is this guy keep talking about being dissapointed at what happened and how glad he was about the "blessings" he has. Just tell your mom she would have done something
yep, could have dumped his thieving a** sooner. OP has to recognize that his mother is a strong woman and can handle her business.
The first thing I would have done was call his mom.
Second file lawsuit for fraud and or embezzlement.
Being The stepfather how did he even have access to his trust!
OP 🤔 Why give Richard money 🤡
I think Richard has thought of a way to sabotage op.
I hope he took pictures of the documents and send them to her.
Not telling his mother, right away is the same as lying. He’s not helping himself or his mother by keeping it to himself. I never understand people for keeping their mouth shut in situation’s that are serious. This isn’t tattling it’s information she needs to know.
I have a feeling that Jake is right about not trusting Richard. All those snide remarks were totally uncalled for. If it wasn't for social workers hundreds or maybe millions of abused or neglected kids would never be taken out of harms way.
Op should sue Richards for the value of the trust fund.
oh, yes. I totally agreed with that!
I doubt OP would see much of that money...
Why didn't OP tell his mom initially when she asked about the trust fund?
Someone needs to tell o.p. the story of "The frog and the scorpion ."
Optimism doesn't change a person's character.
Wow. I was worried about oo not revealing what happened but damn that kid turned out to have some moves after all. Haha!
I would not have let any of that go with the crap Richard pulled. Step dad is a thief.
There is no way I would of been able to bite my tongue for as long as OP did.
Personally if I was OPs mom I'd of kicked the stepdad to the curb long ago. I grew up with my dad belittling me (he claimed he was trying to use reverse psychology). If my husband started insulting my child I'd of said something about it, if it kept up they'd be gone. I will not put up with people insulting others repeatedly. I even set my kids, grandkids (when they were young) and great grandkids about this.
His deceased father set up the college fund..the stepfather has no claim on it, nor can he touch it. What he did is fraud. Not even the mother would be allowee to touch it, let alone let someone else handle the fund
Jake is straight up telling it like it is don't trust him!
Wait! This sorry excuse of a "man" steals money from a Trust Fund & he doesn't go to jail?! WTF?!
OP shouldn’t have given the stepdad a penny and should have filed charges for fraud. At the least left him in debt and worried about his next meal. He deserves to take residence under a bridge.
If it were me I would have told my mom immediately. Nor give him a chance to use the money that my late father left for me. And he definitely wouldn't have gotten any money from me afterwards
Jake is completely correct and op is just a good man
24👍's up MR RA thank you for sharing
Revenge on the somebody for doing something so horrendous to you is selfish and pity but I like your style
OP played the long game and won. OP, take care of mom as she is certainly been there to take care of you. This is a mother/son relationship that needs to be protected. Hopefully mom doesn't go off the deep end being a sugar momma, however, at this point, id she ended up a sugar baby, I could not fault her for it. Momma bear has surely earned it--at least for a bit to just let loose. OP is an amazing son. Bar none.
I think Richard has something up his sleeve (at the first break in video). For someone to 'change' that quickly makes them sus. I kept wondering why OPs mom even married him.
With such poor judgment, one has to wonder what kind of counselor OP actually is.
You should rename your channel: Narcissist R US! See how ordinary people get revenge on Narcissists, their flying monkeys and their twisted brand of logic. I've been really enjoying this channel mainly because I have been a victim of these sort of people in the past. Thank you for the content and keep the stories coming.
OP was a far better man than I would've been under the circumstances...I'd give him a single dollar towards helping him with his financial problems.
Giving him a check, for any amount, would lead OP vulnerable to check fraud on Richard's part...he has a signed financial instrument that has OP's bank account number and his signature.
If Richard is desperate enough, he'd have the means available for check fraud on his hands.
Dude probably committed grand larceny against OP, in addition to running his mouth and assaulting OP AND his mother.
The fact that OP did not press charges is appalling, and quite frankly, if it were me, the guy would probably not have any teeth by the time I was through with him.
How appropriate. A throwaway account about a throwaway stepdad. 😈
As a mom, I would gladly suffer a broken heart than have some sleaze bag steal my kid’s future by squandering it.
I’m constantly bewildered by “adults” who think they are entitled to be supported by parents or step parents.
Do you mean op? His dad literally saved the money for him. It's not entitlement to wanna use it for it's intended purpose.
Sooo you condone theft of inheritance??🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ by a piece of scum, no less?
Defending the step father is weirdo but ok.
Make him play every dime back
You know when op didn’t immediate tell mom reminds me that the discontent on this channel is that stories are based on true stories or fully fictional. That was infuriating! 😂
If I where the mother .I would have tolded him.Once I found out what he did.I would tell him he better learn to sleep with one eye open from now on!!!!
His mom could do no wrong in his eyes
What kind of doormat is your mom to sit there and watch as that joker makes fun of her kids doesn't matter what age some idiot making fun of your kids intending to be genuinely hurtful is never gonna fly with me.
OP should’ve sued him. As soon as he found out truly exposing him to everyone. OP was too easy on him and he was horrible to OP since the beginning!
I think op should have spoken to his mother sooner and I most certainly wouldn't have given him money. He probably spent it on gambling. As for the company they should have pressed charges then perhaps he could have got help to overcome his addiction. As it stands I doubt he's changed or sought out help himself.
The part I don't understand is how in the heck did the stepdad was able to steal it.
Under law only the one that set the fund and the fundee can have access to it.
Not even his mother is allowed to touch it, so yeah I'm curious in how he was able to take it
many stories in this channel make absolutely no sense, things that are supposedly impossible to happen, happen...
Op,s mother was in affair fog and was high functioning asthmatic with asbergers syndrome. Her toxic autism prevented her from having codependency with her new husband. Narcissistic tendencies are rampant in the family dynamics.
Why in the name of sanity wouldn’t he tell his mom???
Tell her the truth
How did he have control over the trust fund if they weren’t married with community property? That should be the moms and the sons only, so that has me scratching my head.
Op should have told his mother and never ever give a a gambler addicted person money. It would have better been given to this mom to help with the divorce and hiring an attorney to punish his step dad for the theft of his trust fund.
I’m wondering if the step-father used that check for gambling or his depts. Interesting. He could have been sued for the trust fund misappropriation. ?
The comment his step-dad made about the trust fund being used for something else.....red flag red flag
OP is a simp! He's hurting his mother by NOT telling her!..and why give HIM money, when he stole from OP..smh
Spending his stepson's trust fund on GAMBLING, while denying the young man a college degree...Does the word "EMBEZZLEMENT" come to mind? If the state prosecutor's office gets wind of this, possible bankruptcy would be the LEAST of the crook's problems.
OP says he didn't expose richard as he didn't want his mother to go thru heartbreak. But then he exposes him and she goes thru heartbreak anyway. All that changed was that he couldn't salvage any of the trust fund which might have been possible if he acted sooner. His mother is the one that gave the mofo control of it.
So you call that revenge giving him money
Why didnt OP just tell his mom that richard stopped the Fund? What richard did was illegal
Jake's right. He wants something or gonna do something.probably his mom made Richard apologize.
bro let his stepdad piss away his entire trust fund when he could have prevented it months in advance. Really hard to say who was the bigger dunce in this story.
So, a top-of-the-class college student does not mention a felony theft to neither his mother or police at a point where it could have been prevented, and opted to instead spend more money to reward the thief for his theft.
This is creative writing.
OP hoo let him steal your trust fund and wrote him a check for more cash? No need to be so kind to anyone that steals from you
The only worth while revenge is exposing the truth and living one's best life.
Op didnt have to suck it up and act like it was ok he chose to to protect his mothers feelings, real stupid letting that man get away with larceny. And this is why people do what they do
Richard apologized because his mom made him. He's a fake.🎉
Op is a fool for waiting so long to tell his mom. They should have told his mom from the start. Also I question where op lives as a social worker making that much money. This feels exaggerated in alot of areas.
Because they had their own finances are why the mom never knew what happened. I can bet Richard had his mind set on that money from the first time he heard about it.
Also something that doesn't make sense is why Richard didn't act nicer when op could expose them at any minute. The mom should be mad at op for not telling her sooner.
WTH..Suck it up??? Why didn't OP tell his mother what was going on?? Richard is using him and his mother!!
What do people see in people like Richard like why would the guy's mom marry somebody like that
Op is one of those good and naive people
I think op went about this wrong 1st he should have told his mother about the trust fund being taken away then he should have told about the gambling because this man could have ruined his mother’s financial security with him not knowing about the marriage debt not being shared. I don’t care about revenge I would have protected my mom immediately when I found this stuff out.
Um if op's dad left it for op, it doesn't matter even the mom couldn't touch if he left it only for op, so op should have called the cops on the stepdad right then and there, let alone wait because he could have been stealing from the mom too.
There was no revenge in this. Op should have got his trust fund back. That money was from his father and his mother should have gave that back because she gave her husband control. I cannot understand how he was fine to let it go.
Why would he not tell his mother that stepdad wasn't paying his school fees? Mom needs to wake up, anyway. Not sure why Richard didn't take the money....he sure didn't have any problem taking the trustfund money.
The first thing OP should have done was call his mom. The second thing he should done contact a lawyer. He misappropriated the founds. His actions were illegal.
When he found out the whole story, he should have confronted Richard. By saying nothing Richard was able to continue his illegal behavior, driving Richard deeper in debt and putting his mother at risk. She was partially at fault for letting Richard access to the OP's college funds.
Why did you give him the cheque? Once he refused it and you knew your mom would not be on the hook for his debt, I would have ripped it up!