Husband's Mistress Is Trying To Sue Me For Defamation After I Confronted Them In Front Of Everyone
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A 24-year-old woman begins to grow suspicious as signs of her 35-year-old husband’s infidelity build up. Eventually, she discovers her husband is cheating on her with his supervisor at work. She confronts her husband and his mistress on the job, which results in the mistress being fired. After what seemed like a reconciliation, the husband leaves the woman to live with his mistress in another state. Trouble doesn’t end there, as the 24-year-old woman is sued by the mistress for defamation of character after she wrote inflammatory things about the mistress while intoxicated, and shortly afterward she finds out the mistress is actually her sister. The 24-year-old woman is further disturbed as she is soon reminded of the mistress every day after she opens a restaurant across the street from where our main character works and begins a relationship with her ex-boss. Meanwhile, our main character’s now ex-husband ends up in prison for bribery and other crimes. Finally, the mistress reveals the level of extreme abuse, blackmailing, and emotional manipulation she was receiving from her husband, and our main character chooses to forgive her.
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She should appeal the defamation case and demand the money back with the old posts and new evidence.
Fight the suite. File divorce and charge the slt sister. ( A VULGAR TERM FOR A FEMALE) .
Plus the loss of the house due to the case and emotional damages for all of the suffering for the years that went by and sue both the mistress & ex husband at the same time for being apart of it together so when he does get out of prison he will continue to pay for that house for decades to come.
In all honesty just like she found out the mistress was her sister, I think the mistress knew and was out to ruin her life. Because her parents kept her and not the mistress.
It seems to much of a coincidence to be otherwise, every time op's life seems to be going well she pops up and op loses everything she worked for, the sister is a snake and looking to punish op for something that happened before she was born, i'm guessing she got abused by her adoptive family and hates op because she was kept by bio's
Whether the sister knew or not I'd be NC with her.....its obvious that she is going to end up in jail eventually sister's criminal behavior will catch up with her and I'd stay as far away from her as possible.
Parts of me feels that way too.
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I was just thinking the seething being the kid they kept
If what OP says is the truth it can not be defamation.
That is true but you would be surprised how many judges are thumb sucking idiots who interpret the laws according to their own twisted perceptions. I think confronting them at work was entirely appropriate as it was a workplace affair
Cheating with someone just because their wife or husband are busy and are trying to make a life is not an excuse it’s downright disgusting
My sister said that "I wasn't giving hubby enough attention"....
I think OP need to be careful. It's suspicious how her big sister (mistress) keep coming back to OP's life and became her rival in both relationship and even in business.
I think she knows that OP's her little sister and I fear she's taking revenge on OP who was raise by their parents while she was adopted.
Yep I agree fact is she committed crime by taking bribes just like ex he probably found out because he’s same as her aka scum how long did she take bribes for till he found out for all we know her admitting some stuff she did n might be adding lies make op feel guilty. Never know if ex was abusing her n using her. Both him n her bad n op just idiot for believing best thing to do is think n see odd shit going down she’s her sister and now her business rival n what better way then get ur sister work under u some way it be like she won. I hope op thinks straight n makes sure she never sees her sister again
If mistress really wants to be forgiven give back the money she sued you for!
That fact that he's a probation officer and you think he's working late at night should of been the first problem smh
Believe me POs do work late. Evening home visits, evening reporting and groups are provided for service user that work.
I don't agree with the YTA opinion. It reads like someone talking up from their high horse and victim blames. The mistress ruined her own career the moment she decided to sleep around with a married man and felt comfortable bad mouthing her coworkers to him. The only thing I agreed on was that op should have talked to a lawyer to sue the ex and the affair partner first before putting their dirty business on blast in public.
I've noticed there's been some cheater defenders that are grasping at straws to victim blame, even after it was proven the cheater was actively causing more problems.
Cheaters are never in the right and purple who knowingly sleep with a married person are equally scummy and I really don't belive the sisters lies about blackmail or trust her offer of a job
Or the mistress after finding the post.
I love this story because I was a probation officer and the gossip runs ramped.
State employees definitely like to talk about people, don't they? I used to work at DHS and it was a Peyton Place!
That judge must have been bought off
Cheating Mistress is trying to shame you into doing things her way . She doesn't realize that she will be laughed out of court. With all the evidence you have, she'll lose big time. You can also sue for alienation of affection and several other things. The husband can also be sued for various reasons.
Basically sue them both into the ground. Heck, the judge would probably ask the bailiff to dig the hole.
OP should counter sue mistress for alienation of affection.
If her husband is a PO and having an affair with a service user he can be sacked for gross misconduct. Screwing the service users is not a good look.
As a PO you do have a work phone and PC/laptop as you don't give service users your personal phone number...
I wonder if she ever revealed that they were sisters
You know she knew who you were from the start
He deserved everyone in the office, knowing he was having affair with his supervisor
Well the saying does go make a fool out of me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me . Sue them both. Should have never let him back in .
As much as it pains me to see op not fighting back, and taking her husband for what he was worth in a divorce suit. Im glade shes at least not telling the mistress their related. Imaging how clingy she could become if she knew they were sisters, scares me. Frankly idk if id have it in me to not completly smear her name in my family circle, so that any hope of a reunion would be tainted.
This story is unbelievable!
Yes, I was stupid enough to give my ex-husband a second chance. We even got remarried. What followed was physical, verbal and mental abuse. Then he threaten to kill me, so I called the police. I left for another state when he not only threaten me but my sisters and brother. I got a restraining order against him. But a piece of paper won't stop a bullet. So my answer to the question about Op taking her husband back is: she shouldn't have done it. She should have contacted a lawyer.
I just knew that he wanted in the house so he could take s***.
They desanctified their work place with their behavior NOT the wife!
she shouldn have bn snoopin
She's lucky because in some states you can sue the mistress. It's crazy how people do each other if you don't want to be married then don't get married especially if you can't respect your vows
I wouldn't have anything to do with the mistress. OPs husband chased after OP till they got together again and then left with mistress for another state. If he had been manipulating the mistress as she says, this would have been the best time to get away, when he was working on his wife, she could have gone anywhere and changed careers going no contact with everyone in her life that he knew. I feel she isn't finished with OP and is determined to destroy everything that is good in OPs life.
Is there proof of what the mistress said? That happened?
What is with unethical people suing people who exposed their lack of character? And in some countries people who are discovered in an affair automatically lose their jobs b/c in their culture if you're unethical in your private life then you're unethical in your professional life and the reputation of the company is worth more than any employee.
Nta. He is the one who cheated. The mistress shouldnt be surprised.
Op should sue the mistress for stealing her husband. What is it called alienation of affection or something like that
That's correct.
If I didn't know better I would think this was the story of a friend of mine! The main difference is the cheater and his Supervisor/mistress were both police officers! And she didn't take him back.
So you don't know how to block someone. He will cheat on you again.
Wickedness never was happiness and actions have consequences; mistress has no case, she took that risk when she did something stupid.
When OP was looking through husband's phone she gotta madder and madder. That just maybe she went a bit crazy is why she blew up at their job. Hope things get better for her.
The mistress is obviously lying, she is just trying to ruin OP's life
Too many RED FLAGS. Call the office. Then get a lawyer.
You reap what you sew! And these two didn't seem to care who they hurt with their affair. You should think real hard about forgiving him. It's easy to manipulate someone you've known for seven years,so be very careful.
I can get why OP would have such a raging desire for revenge. But shes doing such a self destructive job at that. For some reason at every opportunity she gets, she shoots herself in the foot.
Time for her to sue him for abandonment and the mistress also for alien of affection.
Make sure to sue them for all depression
When men cheat they always think that their SO is soooo dim they won’t possibly catch on they’re being cheated on. My ex bathed, put on his best suit, white shirt, polished shoes and splashed on aftershave…just to go fix his work colleagues PC hard drive!?! Did I believe him? Or course NOT!!🤔😳🤦♀️😂🇬🇧
OP's sister is probably taking revenge on OP because mistress was put up for adoption.
She deserves a "Another" style of death for every horrible thing she did to OP.
Did she ever tell her they are sisters
NTA definitely. despite the exhusband getting his karma,how do we know the mistress is telling the truth? Op can forgive BUT says she won't forget it n rub salt in the wound that she messed with her sister. Any chance the mistress was oblivious that they were related. Now I'm hoping this is fake.
I would have to say that OP was not the ahole . If it had been me I probably would have done the same thing .
She could have sued the mistress back for alienation of affection & won a settlement so she wouldn’t have to sell her house
Im sorry she was dumb as heck for taking him back.
Ikr.....she deserves everything she is gonna get. Better not get back on Reddit... complaining we were right.
@@marleneperry6972 And look at what happened to her. Dummy.
I hope we get a part 2
I’m so sorry 0P your husband sucks. No one should talk about their spouse like that and it doesn’t matter how someone looks. That’s what it is in the inside that counts these two do not get it but OP does
The mistress was part of it. They both deserve to be fired. It takes two to tango. He should know that.
I think she's now just stalking OP on the last two updates. She isn't done trying to ruin her life. OP should file a restraining order with the texts, the defamation lawsuit case and the locations of their workplaces as evidence.
I'm not going to lie I'm not the type of person who thinks cheating is acceptable whatsoever but it's like I don't understand why the cheater ever thinks to like let it cross your mind to like music tonight be affectionate also towards the person I'm previously in a relationship with or married to instead of being so cold and distant and stupid and you know making themselves look very questionable to the point where this is how your significant other manages to find out that you're actually possibly could be cheating on them because this is why I will never understand people who cheat always acts so cold and distant and all of a sudden when they're caught they turn so loving all over again towards that person because understandably they don't want their lives to ruin they don't want to look like the bad guy and on top of that they think they're the victim in this situation because they're going to use every excuse in the book to make it look like it's your fault which I do get that that's what cheaters do
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I think mistress knew you were her sister and new she was adopted and decided to ruin you to get back at your family
You know I had a counselor once, was truly broken, kept asking how could he do this to me, my councilor told me I was asking the wrong question, said I should be asking myself why do I let him do this to me? Ask yourself this question, you will c that the ball is in your court. Take back your control. No doesn't make pain go away overnight, but the sooner you take back your control, the quicker you will feel better and hopefully do better.
How do you not counter sue for loss of affection. She was his Boss! How could you not get a lawer who would not tell you to do that.
I wouldn't trust this "sister" to quickly, didn't op say she saw texts of the mistress asking if she was hotter than op? She knew what was up.
Everything you probably said about his mistress was true she’s the one who’s the cheater she’s the one that’s been bad mouthing you, and has even met you, your husband and her. I hope the relationship gets ruined once a cheater usually always a cheater.
I don't understand how the mistress won when everything she said was the truth. If it's true it's not defamation.
Love can make you overlook many things, but it's clear thar op was suspicious and she should have listened to her instincts from the beginning and got ready to leave him a long time ago.
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I thought defamation had to be a lie but maybe she was gotten on harrassment 🤷🏻♀️ I know she should appeal but that’ll cost money
But my god she’s naive for trusting the woman … unless she offers the money back F her.
That second commenter must be running for sainthood 🙄
I can see why she took him back, but she shouldn’t have. He is a disgusting human being. If he was in love with his affair partner, he never should’ve moved back in and try to make it work.
He's a sociopath and will probably do it again when he gets bored.
She should never taken hubby back!
I'd never let him back especially after everything
He's broke that's the only reason why he wants back
Forgiveness is a good thing but revenge is better.,
Why would she believe the mistress?
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This is what op deserves and get for being stupid. And then she let the man that cheated on her dumped her ass not once but twice.. 😂😂😂
I don't believe the mistress.
Real stupid. Like how many red flags you have to see waving before you decide "oh maybe something going on" foh
Yeah, the math is a 🤬. OP is 24 to her husband's 35. Fine, everybody is an adult.
But she mentioned they have been dating since she was 17. A 28 yr old man was dating a high school student 🤢
Surprise Surprise, he is a cheater.
Yup, a fool.
Can someone explain to me how OP lost the defamation case? It's not defamation if OP is speaking the truth. Did OP say things that were a lie?
I question this, too. I have two possible ideas: 1) she didn't bring any proof of her assertions to the lawyer or court. (Lousy lawyer.) 2) In her drunken online rants, she said wild, unsubstantiated things and didn't restrict herself to provable accusations.
Oh no way is it a wise choice.
My question about this story is, did OP ever tell her long-lost sister that they were related?
NTA. I’m wondering if she told her they are sisters. I want an update on that.
NTA confronting cheaters in the workplace, if you had proof then it's not defamation. She should have had a better Lawyer.
No good idea to take an idiot back like that. He may have come back to do destroy evidence, or steal money ect.
If the mistress was suing her how could she not be allowed in court to see and know the name of this mistress especially since it would directly involved her in the suit
Why do I hear Adele's I said Fire to the Rain playing instead threw them both in the flames😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
OP should have told her sister that she wouldn't forgive her until she was repaid the money that she lost in the defamation case.
At least he showed his true colors after only three weeks. He could have strung you along for much longer than that .
I think OP should tell the mistress aka her sister the truth and what she discovered, I’d like to see how she takes the shock and awe
Your making yourself a doormat if you let him back.
Karma sweet Karma NTA
WTH plot twist with the DNA TEST
Character defamation is only applied if it's a lie but if it's true and you have evidence it's not character defamation now is it
I think OP said that she went too far when she was posting the info about her everywhere while “drunk, “ so I’m thinking she might have gone beyond what she knew to be true.
Never take cheaters back.
Hell to the F NOT the AH they had it comming. Cheaters gonna BURN!!
The only thing cheaters are good for is bring home and infecting their home partners with STDs and STIs etc. Believe me you are better off without IT/HIM/THEM!! I was not whoring around, I got hpv by a lying cheating ex (my oncologist tells me it's only contagious when I'm having a flare-up which I have not had in years)
Honey there's some kind of stupid you don't have to be. When people show you who they are believe them.
Nope definitely not the ahole. Actions have consequences period.
It's easy to forgive when you're codependent on other's. Trusting someone that cheats on you will always be a failure.
F*** that! BYE!!!!✌️
Why didn't the guy just come out with it? Stop cheating!!
Let this video be a warning for all 'forgiving' partners when 'forgiving' a cheater!!!
This will always bit you! (well, in 99,9999 % of the cases)
Btw I don't get the outcome of the lawsuit...?? I thought OP had EVIDENCE to back up everything she siad?
How could she have lost?
The judge was either bribed or victim blaming.
Robbing the cradle much, who's to say it won't happen again
Once a cheater still a cheater.
So we all walking past the fact that he was 28 and she was 17 when they started dating? 🤔
Why didn't she tell her she was her sister? She said everything else.
Update 1: 17:46
Update 2: 21:42
Update 3: 25:18
Update 4: 28:16
Idk if their is anymore updates I missed
27:38 Those kits tell you what your background is, not who you're related to. So how did she know the mistress was her older sister without her DNA as well? 🤔🤔🤔
The results also show who you're related to. I found my dad's (bio paternal) family that way.
Still working on his maternal side.
IF they have also taken the test and opened their information to the public.
So OP is the idiot for ruining the mistresses career but it's totally fine that this woman destroyed OP's marriage and her life? 🤣 You have to love the mental gymnastics narcissists do in order to justify their behavior. Lol OP is NTA. The supervisor knew the risk if she was caught. She did something horrible and suffered the consequences of her actions. The end.
So she was 17 dating a 28 yr old?!
Your ex going to prison and he's a former parole/probation officer,his life is fixing to be hell once the other prisoners find out who and what he was. To put it politely his horizons are about to be expanded.🤪😱
Once a cheater always a cheater
Can't you sue them for compensation
How is it defamation if she actually did it?
THEY JUST GOT WHAT THEY ABSOLUTELY DESERVED!!!!!!