Moving Past Low Self-Esteem into Confidence at a Big Age
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.ค. 2024
- How confident do you feel? Has your relationship with confidence changed over time? Margo and Tashira check in and talk about the ways that their confidence is showing up at a big age, and how resilience and other characteristics play into one's ability to own that confidence and take up space in a patriarchal society.
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The way I just yelled at the “feeling like Oliver Twist asking for seasoning” 😂😂😂😂😂 Truthfully if I can’t get a white woman friend like Margo, I don’t want it!! 💜
A morsel of seasoning!!! 😂 😂 I ❤ y'all!!
@@TACo-281 right 😂😂😂😂 I just feel all the way out!
We second that 🥹💚 #teamMargo
Being at the really big age of 70, I grew up in South Berkeley, CA, in an all Black neighborhood where excellence was visible to the right and the left. I was totally convinced I could do or be anything until I went away to college to the University of Texas at Austin. It was there that I was hit smack in the face with the way the world felt about me. It has taken me years to disabuse myself of the world's erroneous notion. I discovered just in time that I'm the business. Xoxo 💕
"I worry that I take up too much space..." OMG...I distinctly remember having a high profile law gig in DC in my late 20s shopping for suit and thinking about not getting it because it would make me look too powerful...smh
“Somewhere someone is waiting for you to heal”…🌹
:)
it is so true. we sometimes just need a reminder
3. That upbringing sounds so nice. Black girl from Haitian immigrant parents and the FEAR I was raised with!!!! It was so important that their girls stay ignorant of their power, intelligence, and beauty. Like the worst thing on earth was to walk around as if you were all that. I don’t know if they were afraid of what would happen if we discovered that we weren’t? Or that we were?!
“I needed my reflection in that moment”…..🙌🏾
Tashira I love the way you swear...it comes out so elegantly my potty mouth azz be like why can't I do this in corporate lol.
it is to true!
“It’s Up & It’s Stuck!” The way this pod cast just does it for me! I am elated to be here before the world hops on the Bone Broth wave! TY.
Thank you!
I am hollering! 😂
Now y'all were really doing your good preaching that day lol! Beautiful episode with so many great gems, that I had to write some down. Thank you ladies!!
Yes! Thank you!
I'm here and from Texas. There are tons of wise, educated women in the state. Part of what happens in Texas is wildly racist, but completely legal redistricting that shifts what our votes and voices look like. One day I'd love to hear you two discuss how redistricting silences people.
Absolutely - Thank you so much for sharing!
this is a great idea. thank you for watching!
This is real talk !
Why was I not assigned a Margo to be in my life? This episode touched me in so many ways. I used to listen to the show on Apple but now that I’ve started watching them it’s even better. ❤
“Is there Monistat for your stomach…”. Omg tuning in - how did we get here?
candida overgrowth baby!
Okay imma be commenting several times. 1. If there is one thing that is gonna get me off my ass to get in shape it will be the need to take part in the revolution
Tashira put that shit tf on tuhday lol .... great episode guys
Thanks so much ❤
Word!!!!
Thank you for this candid conversation.
A morsel of seasoning lol 😅❤
lol
This podcast is constantly elevating.
wow wow wow- thank you!
Speaking on “Be sweet” the other twin to that is when we women are asked to “smile.” That. Ish. Grinds. My. Gears. Too many instances to count where I’ve been called out by the patriarchy for not smiling or just smile etc. I digress. Loved everything fiscusssed in this episode girlfriends. Shoutout to Margo for adding a lil Kosher (salt) to her chicken now. 😭 love y’all!
lmaoooo thanks for watching!
Can I just say as a 28 year old how much I needed this conversation today! I feel like I learned so much from y’all today. I am so appreciative that y’all were willing to have this conversation. Thank you Aunties!!
You are so welcome!
thank you so much.
I have my margo and i'm get her to watch this podcast. and Tashira you're the greatest and i agree with margo you're not open enough. i love it BE MORE UNAPOLOGETICALLY YOU!
This episode was EVERYTHING!!! I was a work almost doing a praise dance and several moments! I am approaching a big age, and let’s just say this conversation was timely and deserves a re-listen. You made me view my resilience positively. You spoke Truth when you said your confidence CHANGES based on certain life stages. Whew!!! You all spoke to my spirit today.
Wonderful!
we are so happy, thank you!
Wohooo! Go Wellesley ❤
YES WELLESLEY! I am the yellow class. you? :)
Love the show! Could you have a recap of the Super Bowl and the how payment of already top music artists not getting paid for performance done at an high level of excellence. Did Jackson State receive a substantial payment for their time, travel and scholarship? Why do we have more black half time performers but we working for only Recognition and not payment? Something is so wrong with this.
This episode is sooooo good! As a healthcare professional, you all were right on! ❤
Thank you! We hope to earn you as a subscriber!
Me again. 2. So happy to see you looking so much better, Margo!
thank you! i am really feeling better each day.
Okay but I would like to hear a podcast on the lack of nutrition density in food today lol
Love this! This episode was everything. It spoke to me on so many levels❤.
Thank you!
so so glad.
These 2 crack me up
at the 36:00 mark, I worry about that too and I know men never think that. also at 37:00 my mother never had friends or socialized and I wonder how that impacted me? I have never found making friends, organizing nights out etc to feel natural.
I appreciate this podcast…thank you both😊
Glad you enjoyed it!
Love this
How has your experience with confidence changed over time?
I’ve realized over time that confidence takes work. You can’t “fake it” - you must be intentional with action and dealing with truth, embarrassment, guilt and fear. At 50 , I waiver. It’s not realized through podcast, osmosis, books or being around confident people. YOU are what you believe. Knowledge is key.
I was not confident when I was young, as I was the only black student in my elementary school. I chose to disappear into the environment and became really shy. During my last year of elementary school we moved to an entirely black neighborhood where I was accused of speaking too properly and trying to be white. I believe the confidence I have now, came from exposure, experience and education (not sure why my brain thinks in alliterations, maybe because I was a Kindergarten teacher.. who knows). The more I was exposed to new information, cultures and ways of thinking, the more I understood and made connections. The more experience and education I gained the more I had (have) to offer. That allows me to be incredibly confident. Also, I don't have to be right. I find more strength in being curious. I find myself lacking confidence when I am lacking in one or more of those areas.
dont tell me margo doesnt use seasoning then expect me to have a real conversation
It was all jokes and fun! 😂
hahahahahhah!
I'm here for the woo, but, I am with Margot and the bone broth! If you have ever had digestive issues, then you understand. Now, as far as that unseasoned soup, it's unnecessary! You can season your soup with herbs & salt-free seasonings. C'mon, Margot, just a morsel of seasoning won't hurt the soup.
No seasoning!!!???? Greatest crime ever committed. This is a cultural divide. Lol. Margo wouldn't make it in Jamaica (or most Black households), she would end up in prison.
Actually, my Grandma loves Margo deep so she'd rescue her and throw my non-cooking ass to the wolves 😂
@@PoliticsFashion So you snitched on Margo when you don't cook??!! Also, another crime. Lol
@@PoliticsFashion tashira my cooking is evolving. :)
@@PoliticsFashion😂😂😂😂😂
Needed this.🤍🙏🏾
Gosh. I really love this conversation and the dynamic you have with each other. Its so good to see. You dont even know 🥹