How To Save Your Second Marriage Before It Starts

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  • You find yourself embarking on the beautiful journey that is marriage... for the second time. While it may be blissful at first, at some point, baggage from your previous marriage can catch up to you and endanger your current marriage. To know just how to prevent that, watch this video as I give you pointers on how you can save your second marriage before it even starts!
    00:17 Saving your second marriage
    00:52 Use your first marriage as a learning experience
    01:42 Take a look at your own impact on the first marriage
    02:40 You are still the same person
    03:28 What you're bringing into your new relationship
    05:40 Do more of what works and less of what doesn't
    07:18 Nine principles of making a marriage work
    Watch and Enjoy!
    Dr. Paul Jenkins
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ความคิดเห็น • 51

  • @drmandeepkaurmandeepnursin9699
    @drmandeepkaurmandeepnursin9699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    1.positivity
    2.shared values
    3.humility
    4.forgivness for ur self
    5.respect
    6.love
    7.compassion
    8.worth
    9.wholesome recreational activity
    thankuuu dr
    love u tons

  • @jesuslovesyou916
    @jesuslovesyou916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Marriage principles
    1) Positivity. Always being positive will uplift your partner
    2 ) Values. Share values how you come together and why you are in the relationship.
    3) Humility. The willingness to change.
    4) Forgiveness. Forgive yourself, ex and move on.
    5) Respect.
    6) Love. This is a commitment to stand by.
    7) Compassion. This is the willingness to suffer for someone or something.
    8) work
    9) Wholesome/Recreational/Activities.
    Good luck in your future or present marriage

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Blessin Nusraty, thanks for the recap.

    • @jesuslovesyou916
      @jesuslovesyou916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LiveOnPurposeTV You are much welcome. God bless!

    • @BachClarinet
      @BachClarinet 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      2) reason why my marriage is over. I couldn't take it anymore.

  • @eternityseven6200
    @eternityseven6200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Alienation of affection!

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eternity Seven, thanks for watching.

  • @angelicaries2517
    @angelicaries2517 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this video. It made me really think about my contributions to the relationship.

  • @Mushroom321-
    @Mushroom321- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Liked"! Before the video started. I knew this was going to be good!!
    How do you know what I need .? 🤔😲 creepy!
    THANK YOU for sharing!! Psychologist..
    I ❤ this!

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wendi Watson, so glad you are here at the channel, so positive.

  • @andriyshapovalov8886
    @andriyshapovalov8886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wasn't until you mentioned that in the title.

  • @Ahmed35956
    @Ahmed35956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fantastic advice!

  • @dshannon1038
    @dshannon1038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    8? 😯 Not judging. I pray I have my one and only one, no matter what.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      D Shannon, me too.

    • @Mushroom321-
      @Mushroom321- 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, it was shocking, i did too.. It's helpful to know each other attachment styles before going into the marriage. That's one thing I wish someone could've told me.

  • @tan1575
    @tan1575 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People carry on with past behaviours and expect the new partner to be different to the first...shame people dont learn and float about from one person tonthe next ..

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Faris Ali, we do need to work on ourselves before entering another marriage.

  • @deborahlyles3083
    @deborahlyles3083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great info 😊 ❤

  • @10666W
    @10666W 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent content, and very well edited.

  • @jesuslovesyou916
    @jesuslovesyou916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    1) Death
    2) Divorce
    Your third D is Devil... I've seen people being devilish to their spouse
    Never be unequally yoke in your relationship leading up to a marriage

  • @tan1575
    @tan1575 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So much common sense in this video

  • @Elmoriel.
    @Elmoriel. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    D is for drinking!

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shannon Underhill, I won't ask what.

  • @sophialeuapepe6118
    @sophialeuapepe6118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And your channel is cool extra extra extra cool how many videos do you post a day anyway I got so many in my feed that it's hard not to watch him they're so good and what is your name anyway

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sophia Leaupepe, I post one a day and my name is Paul Jenkins.

  • @PG-sf5sq
    @PG-sf5sq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🧢

  • @DeviantMotives
    @DeviantMotives 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She sounded like she was borderline

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      DeviantMotives, thank you for watching.

  • @thefletchlife7837
    @thefletchlife7837 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dishonesty!

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Best to be honest in all relationships.

  • @tabathaterry2998
    @tabathaterry2998 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude seems like he is trying to help but no life experience

  • @kharma327
    @kharma327 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The opening advice he gives about responding to a woman who said she was in relationships with abusive men is so so horrible. It is possible for more than one man in the word to be abusive and it does not mean she was asking for it. More likely the abused woman was accepting certain behaviors that she was already comfortable with and learned her partners were abusive after she already developed strong feelings. Please see a licensed therapist and don’t listen to this guy.

  • @tan1575
    @tan1575 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fantastic advice 👌