To Anyone Going Through A Breakup
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Thank you everyone for watching, if this advice helped at all, can you like the video? It really helps me
Thank you Joey.
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This helped tremendously, thank you
thank you for making this video joey
Thank you ❤️
I lost myself trying to hold onto someone who didn’t care about losing me.
Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Sam who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Sam always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.
Dear I will introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer from POLAND who restored my broken relationship, he can bring your ex back just fine he's a very good man
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Exactly
Same
It's not them leaving that hurts, it's the memories that follow.
Exactly that. I didnt even know how to put this into words but you described how i feel too.
Hang in there, im sure it is gonna be okay
@AeguFM thank you friend, you too.
@@amurphy4004 thanks appreciate it :)
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And the memories we have to forget... :(
"Break-ups heart so much because you envisioned your entire life with someone else to the point where you have lost who you are without them." This is so true 😭
Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but i could not let him go, so i had to do all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.i wish you seek his help too..
Hey I just had this happen to me like 2 h ago but I really want her back
@@Alex-zu4ljsame 💔💔
@@Sonny-cALT she is now trying to get my best friend and so now I'm getting her cousin 😠
@@Alex-zu4lj that sucks dude
There is another type of break up no one talks about. It is when both of you care, but both of you cannot get close enough, but you still try till one party gives up. It is a sense that everything could have been fixed but lack of ability to express yourself fully leads to eventual coldness and end of relationship. You get nothing except emptiness and uncovered feelings. Like death of a small tree, which could have become big oak but didn't become one. Nothing but sadness looking at such situations.
Just happened to me i feel so broken right now
It happened to me 4 days back ! I know we both love and care for each other but we just couldn’t stand each other
Same four days ago. 💔
happened to me 3 days ago. im just glad to know im not alone
Same here, a month has passed. Still in contact. No hope of recovery or getting back together. We will see each other for the last time, a couple of days later, before I turn in for military service. Her choice. Our loss.
For those who are out there, going through a similar situation: Stay true. Let it flow. Don’t fight it, embrace it. Let it hurt. God knows you have earned it.
Hugs to everyone who are dealing with breakups
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
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I really do wish I could have a hug right now. That’s all I want.
My gf I feel like is about to break up with me. She’s getting fed up with me. Other things contributed too
But she’s helped me so much in the 6 months that I know her. She used to like me a lot. And it’s hurting so much that she just wants me gone now
I think the worst part of a breakup to me is knowing you’re healing just to potentially have it happen again.
It happened twice this year to me.Damn
@@scannner7499 what happened if you mind me asking?
@@scannner7499 damn same bruh….. I had 2 relationships this year and both of them ended up in breakup. 😢especially this recent breakup, it hurts the most.
@@tigerexo6577 we’ll find the right person man. Unfortunately most of life is just waiting for the good parts in life.
Going through it right now. Hurts like hell. But hey, I will rise again. We will rise again.
I just lost my first ever relationship two days ago. Felt like death, I thought I'd pass away, but I didn't. It was necessary because we weren't right for each other and now I'm learning to look back and smile at the joy they allowed me to have.
😢😢😢😢
Sending hugs😢❤
This happened to me yesterday. I ended my first ever relationship because since the beginning I saw that he didn't care for me and he pushed me to end our things. And the worst thing is that when I told him that I want to end things w him he said "ok" bcause apparently as he told me there did exist times that he didn't feel anything abt me. I really wish you have healed and I wish I'll get over it soon
I'm in the same boat. My ex is leaving because he feels like he needs to figure himself out outside of the relationship and truly consider what he wants. We might get back together, we might not, but we're gonna try to be friends because we truly support and care for eachother and click well. I know that may not be your situation exactly, but I can resonate with your feelings. Life is a long, long time, and all the joy and pain we feel is what it's all about. Keep going. Things will be okay.
Hey just wanted to share my story. I left my ex about a month ago. This because our futures just dont align. I love her with all my heart and i know she does the same. I would love to be friends with her but i just do not see a way in where we could just be friends. This is why we went into no contact even though it is one of the most painful things i have gad to endure in life. I wish you the best and i hope you guys will find eachother again.@@EB-sw4gb
I didn't expect myself to be here. It's fine.
Do you feel better now that it’s been a few months x
I just broke up yesterday,im doing fine..cuz everthing happen for a reason..hope u doing fine too!@@Gracielouisex
@@Gracielouisexhbu?
@@gurnoorshoker78 hbu?
The hardest thing about a breakup is the fact you are with them and a routine forms and now you have to live without that routine. Without them in it
Truee!!
Exactly right! That’s how I feel right now, expecting him to text me every morning and night and now it’s like uh??? Or like stuff that he did at school yk.
Yes! I lived with mine for 10 months…I used to love my loneliness until he changed my mind, but now that he’s gone, this loneliness is different and harder. When you got so used to their warmth and affection…
We lived together for 5 years.. I got together with her when I was a kid with 17. Now I am nearly 25 and have to live without that person. It’s unbearable.
yeah...
What hurts the most is meeting someone who changed u into who u are today, yet you cared the world for them but they didn't bother losing you.
Exactly what I feel after she broke my heart few hours ago...
Exactly this
got my heartbroken last night and I feel this. it's like a hard punch in the gut.
My heart got broken almost 2 months ago...it's so hard and I though I was doing better but all of it just came and punch me in the gut. She moved on 5days after I broke up with her, I just wanted a break cause we moved to fast and there were some things I tried to work through with her but in the end I realized she didn't love me the same way even though when I told her I wanted to marry her in the future she said yes....maybe that's what hurts more is cause I could see my future with her and I truly loved her 🥺🥺 and then she went and had adult fun time with another woman not even a week after she said we could try again.💔💔
you can accept that and more if you love her.@@tcamvs4019
lost my first ever love today. i feel like ive genuinely lost a part of myself, sick to my stomach and can’t eat. i miss him so much
I’m feeling the exact same. My girlfriend recently broke up with me so suddenly. I’m terrified and lost. I have nobody to talk to and I just really need someone to talk to. I’m struggling so freaking much it hurts, it hurts like hell
@@Sadlythatsme5 months later, how are you doing my friend?
Hope you’re feeling better today
How are you now
My girlfriend and I just broke up now, we were together for 2 years and lived together for just over a year, it hurts so much, I don’t know what to do with myself, I have no one to talk too, I can barely move, I’m so in shock and broken. We did absolutely everything together, we planned our future together and now it’s all just gone, i don’t know what to do with myself 💔
"Just because you are familiar with the pain of a heartbreak, doesn't mean that you are prepared to face it"
when you trust a person too much, you either get a person for life or a lesson for life🙃
Damn
An honorable risk were all willing to take
i got a lesson
Yea learned after sex don't say I hope this is what you want and I wasn't trying to be a arse hole
Lesson..it's ways a lesson.
When he said “I’ll see you when you go through your next breakup” first time I laughed in a while…
lmao i was like no shit i ain't ever gonna fall in love again
Dear I will introduce you to the same Spiritualist who restored my broken relationship, he can bring your ex back just fine he's good.
What'sapp him;
I was already questioning what on heart I’ve learned from those past minutes and then he literally killed me with with the worst possible thing he could say to give me any sense of progress and feeling confused to hell .. but .. I’m gonna give it the benefit of the doubt that it was all planed … or not .. im just raising an eyebrow for 5 minutes so he deserves this content interaction but LIKE WHYYYY LMAO
And that’s when I’ll be back and watch this TH-cam video
I got dumped last night.
I told him to do what he wants and what he thinks is best for him , I won’t beg him nor will I do anything to stop him. And he chose to leave, he said he doesn’t love me the same anymore, he said he lied to me that he really loved me a lot (just 2 hours ago).
I said okay go if that’s what you want, I’ve begged you the last time you wanted to leave and I gave you 1 month to love me again but if you still don’t feel anything and is this suffocated you can leave.
And that was it, he left.
This morning I despised him and hated him for all the false promises he made but right now in the evening, I miss him and can’t stopped crying.
Never in my life have I thought this man that fought so much to get me would let me go through this hell.
same. it's been 4 months to me
This shit hurts like hell. I have my days where I’m doing well and then she pops up in my mind and my emotions go back to square one. I cannot take this feeling of hurt and anguish. I’m clueless as to why things happened the way that they did
Same here. He just ended things and sometimes I'm doing great but some days like today I just feel like crying.
Same
She’s on my mind first thing in the morning, and I remember she’s with someone else already after a week. Hurts.
@@filoboyryan I promise you brother, things will get better with time. It will still bother you, but not as much. Use this time to focus on you. Better yourself for yourself. That’ll make you feel so much better I promise. For me it’s still a bit fresh so I go through the emotions from time to time, but I don’t sulk in it anymore. This was your sign to do better and grow. Just do it, as Shia Labeouf would say
@@kennysmith3399 thanks brother we’ll get through this 🤞🏽
I was in a ten year relationship that ended three weeks ago. This is the most difficult thing I have ever dealt with.
My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back
absolutely the same here..its day second and i'm in hell, i live alone in our apartment now and every inch reminds me of him
I feel you. Mine was seven and ended three months ago. I still feel like I died
I'm so fucking sorry man. I can't even imagine the pain you're in. I hope you have a merciful and speedy recovery.
It’s so true. It’s essentially like losing a loved one: not being able to see or talk to each other anymore…
I’m sitting in my truck listening to this video again after my second break up. Hurts so bad I feel my chest getting heavy. I loved her and she just left me without any hesitation. I know with time I will get better but it’s only been two weeks. I will comeback to this comment once I’ve completely healed. I wish everyone going through a breakup will find their true love this year as I will.
Stay strong brother....
Try the path of spirituality it will help you to overcome this situation..
I hope you'll be fine soon 😊
At two weeks myself right now. Feels like an eternity. In 4 years I’ve never gone so long without their voice or touch
I’m 21 I was with my fucking soul mate for 2 years when one night after. Work she went to a bar to get drinks with a “coworker” didint tell me shit told me she was going home next day didn’t come home till 12 and she sits me down to tell me she slept with another man she wasn’t even fucking crying bro what the fuck my birthday was on the 8th I can’t believe this we lived together and all bro she doesn’t give a fuck man I’m so fucking lost I feel like I’m drowning I just feel like I will never fucking heal I put all my eggs in her fucking basket bro I really did I thought we were gonna get married we were so fucking good idk where it went wrong I want her to fucking pay for it and I know god will do his work but at the same time I don’t want nothing to happen to her because I truly loved her like no one before I’m first real relationship man I wanted this shit for the rest of my life and just like that it’s all over and all she has to say was she was drunk she’s sorry
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Same brother
What hurts more is knowing they're not broken as you are about it all. Kinda makes you wonder if everything really meant as much to them as it did to u. And that thought is poisonous
Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but i could not let him go, so i had to do all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.i wish you seek his help too..
2 year relationship gone, 4 year friendship vanished. broken up 3 days before my birthday. I've been dealing with heavy stuff like death in the family and just mental health problems and it just caused our relationship to break because she didn't really want to work through our problems after a while. Never thought it would turn out this way, im beyond heartbroken. Its upsetting knowing how easy it could be fixed too.
I hope everyone scrolling the comments find themselves, and find peace. I hope I will be able to.
We broke up days ago. Yoy are not alone. Let's fight this battle
I feel u brother.. I’m in the same spot as u hang in there.
@@georgepanagiotou8673 Its rough i know but we will be able to get through this! Just remember your best is more than good enough and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.
@@georgepanagiotou8673 im afraid thats how ill be in the future, since she was my first relationship and basically first everything. Im really stuck on everything we did together and it just sucks it had to end so badly since I still have feelings for her. You'll find someone amazing out there, and im proud of you for making it so far after something so hard. I recently got out of my relationship which made me make the comment.
@@georgepanagiotou8673 you are very kind. i wish you the very best and if you ever need to vent this little comment section will always be here hopefully :) treat yourself nicely, because healing is a difficult process for everyone. take care 💗
I feel that it’s like a death. And, the stages of grief are hard work.
But like a death that haunts you wondering where you might see them next, wondering who they’re with and where they are now. Never getting to see someone again is sometimes less difficult than wondering who you’ll see them with 😔at least with death you can kinda make peace with it, it’s final and you work through your grief without all the constant worry of bumping into them or wondering where they are
I’m here to listen if you feel like sharing
@@Eve17705 thanks a lot :) that’s kind
And they will always be hard work, but that doesn't mean that you aren't strong enough to get through it
@@christophermclaughlin5650 Have you ever lost someone to death?
Elowen Rasmusovs impact on the lives of those shes helped through breakups is a testament to her skill as a psychotherapist. She has truly made a positive difference.
Who is she??
Elowen Rasmusov is a compassionate psychotherapist who has guided countless individuals through the challenging journey of a breakup, providing invaluable support along the way.
Lost my first love literally hours ago. “I will be with you for the rest of my life” is the dumpiest promise I could have ever believed.
Edit: I really appreciate all the people leaving their experiences with breakup down below in the reply section. Its comforting to know that at least you’re not the only going through all the pain. Its been a year since Ive posted this comment and so far I’ve been doing well (tried new things like pursuing my hobbies etc.) To all the people going through their breakup, i just want to say that you are not alone. We are all strangers from across the world yet we are going through the same thing as you are. Its going to be tough for sure. Its been a year+ since my breakup and i still think about her all the time, reminiscing about all the wonderful moments we had together. But eventually it will get better and your wounds will heal. Stay strong yall.
Same just happened to me, about an hour ago, I hope that you’re doing better now, and I’ll be able to get where you are without ending myself. Strength and hope to you
12 hours ago man not easy. BUT IT ALWAYS GETS BETTER
9 hours for me 😔
2 days ago. I cant cope. We've been going for over 3 years and i dont think il ever find another girl like her again. Im 20, she was my first love.. i dont even want to live anymore
Same what a load of BS well I was the one who said that but she left anyway
okay but why do i feel like i’m never gonna love someone as strong ever again
now im dating someone else. not the same at all. even tho it sounds corny af she ain’t giving me that same special feeling.
and now if i break up w her she’s gon feel the same as me till she does the same to someone else till we all fucked.
if you’re in a happy relationship hold on to that shit as hard as you can. you’re truly blessed
Do you need help? To fix. your broken relationship?
He helped me not quite long. and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's
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how long have you been in your current relationship?
Elowen Rasmusovs ability to create a safe space for healing is remarkable. She has a gift for helping people rediscover their strength after a breakup.
Its no surprise that Elowen Rasmusov is a sought-after psychotherapist for breakup counseling. Her expertise and kindness are truly exceptional.
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The worst part of a breakup that it doesn't come from a normal person, it comes from a close special person to us.
To anyone who is experiencing a bad breakup, hang in there! Don't lose faith in love. There is someone out there, Yes you thought you were gonna marry them, have kids, start a family with them and all these fantasies came crashing down. Maybe you're feeling lost ; lost because that one person whom you talked to everyday is now gone, but HANG IN THERE MY FRIEND. THIS WORLD HAS SO MUCH MORE TO GIVE YOU!
Thx man means a lot and those who are recommending people who can help to bringup ex.. Wtf is wrong with u... She left me saying Iam just a looser.. After even if she come how can I go back normal... How can i trust her.. Iam gonna try to go out more as possible...its getting harder staying at home.. Thx for all people who are trying help
@@kaia7484 stay strong brah! 🙌🏾
The world's given me hell so far and the one time I found love it was lost. I want nothing more in this horrible, evil place.
This means alot man, thank you. It's Hard.
I've never had a relationship so thus no breakup how I would react simply depends on how long we were together if we were married I gotta be honest would probably throw myself under a truck or off a bridge
four years down the drain. grieving for someone who's still alive knowing they're doing well without you is exhausting; but at the same time it's the pain that keeps me alive. it's the only piece of him left on me. he was the one, i feel like i'm being sawed in half
I suffered severe depression several years ago. I could remember several years ago after divorce with my husband which brought me into my disastrous journey on Alcohol and cigarettes. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Got diagnosed with cptsd.
Not until a friend recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagram?
Yes, he is dr.porassss.
Elowen Rasmusovs dedication to her clients well-being is evident in the transformation Ive witnessed in those who sought her help after a breakup.
what gets me is that i know there just moving on without me so easily. while im stuck here dealing with the pain.
Update how are you
I feel this! The best I can do is put her out of my mind but it's hard
I feel u man she literally just say that dont you ever communicate with me and my family ever again about 3 hours ago im just 17 but it still hurts a lot i didn't know that a person can feel this much pain over to a text they just say.
@@imissme8313 Sorry for late response, I’m pretty better, doing things like hiking or making new hobbies helps alot.
@@carllobidica1352 I feel you. It will get better with time bro i promise
It’s been 3 months and I still cry everyday before going to bed.
it’s almost been a year for you, how are you feeling now?
Remembering how she’d look in my eyes and smile at me brings me a pain worse than death
Elowen Rasmusovs therapeutic approach is both nurturing and insightful, making her an ideal choice for anyone seeking guidance during a difficult breakup.
I’ve sent her every paragraph I can think of, I have no more words to type. It just hurts because it seemed like something we could fix so easily, but I ended up losing the person I’ve loved the most in my whole life over something we could have talked out
Hi , same happened with me a few days ago, he broke up with me out of nowhere , a few days before the break up he said he love me so much and things like that then we had a problem i tried to work on it he vanished then 1 day later he said he want to break up because the little things accumulated in him and he just close everything saying he love me and hug me and then breaking up
Heal save your dignity and heal learn from this and love to love another day god bless
Bro I kno how it feels,I just lost my girl over stupidness😭😭
Same 😔 I was making mistakes I didn’t realise I was doing, our communication just fell apart, and I had a miscarriage and just turned into someone who wasn’t me, I regret all the things I said and the times I acted out. I’m on day 11 and this morning I was absolute wreck
@@danien2411 hold on hun,you are not alone...And things will get better in time,I know it hurts but it will be over
She lost all feelings for me basically overnight. Just because of one small mistake. It hurts
Then she wasn't the one. "When you're in love, you just don't throw it Away. You work it out"
@@Iamj4red She literally came crawling back today.
@@FETFAZIDIS Brrrruuuuuuuuuuuuh
@@FETFAZIDIS damn dude, how are things rn for you two?
@@thisiskindacrap13 Sadly not so good at the moment. We both are kinda stressed out because of work and other private stuff so if we're lucky we can see each other maybe once in a week. Feels like we are slowly drifting away and it hurts. I just hope it gets better...
Sorry for the long text but it somehow feels good to just right it down.
The last 4 years of my life I loved her and helped her grow into who she is, after the break up I realized I felt like I had nothing. I reached out to friends that I stopped talking to for no reason other then I just didn't think about them. Her words to me were "stop living for me live for yourself, don't contact me" I hung on the pain of don't contact me. But I think she realized that not only did I love her, but I loved her more. More then myself. More then she loved herself. I would take care of her and never expected It back, I unconditionally loved her and wanted to help her grow. I think she realized that she could not love me the same way, not that she didn't love me. I know she did, just not how I did. I lived for her. And now I'm trying to live for me. I miss her everyday its been painful not just saying goodbye to the past but the future we envisioned. Saying good bye to the names of the children that won't exist, saying good bye to the pets that we won't adopt. I hope she's doing well, and I hope she will one day learn to love unconditionally like I did with her.
Oh, this really touched my heart. I send you my best wishes and I hope you do a little better (even if it’s just reaaally little) each day. I know it hurts, but believe me, you’ve got this, you’ll get through this.
@@xa1706 thank you so much
@@sparks6477how are you now?
Hoping you find the right person this time around, someone that matches your intensity.💪
9 years... Then she broke up with me.
Everything I do...everywhere I drive, it reminds me of the times we spent together, happy, joyful, and optimistic about the future.
Now it's all gone, all I have left is unbearable pain.
I think I have to move to a different city or country to heal.
Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but i could not let him go, so i had to do all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.i wish you seek his help too..
@@IhuomaChinonso interesting
@@JuriBinturong so do you need his contact?
@@IhuomaChinonso probably not for now, thank you for your help.
@@JuriBinturongdid you end up moving ?
Completely out of the blue, it’s insane to feel this amount of pain in my chest. I cannot believe humans are able to feel this pain, she was the one and I hope the universe makes the right decision
Edit: it has been 5 months nearly 6 months since the breakup. I feel much better about the whole idea now. A few months back i deleted all photos and all messages, i would be lying if i said i didn't get sad when i thought about her still. Still not ready to have another relationship. I guess this is the time to grind fellas
It’s truly unbearable
I'm with you bro, how is it going ? It's been 4 days for me and I'm suffering so much
@@UnfilteredEmotion how's it going? 10 days for me
@@UnfilteredEmotion update ?
how is it going now? 3 months passed and I am now into this shitty feeling.
I broke up with my ex 5 months ago after being together for 2 years and I’m still crying because I love him but things just weren’t working out. I hope everyone going through a breakup finds peace
I can't find peace at all
@@ericaroundtheworld Its been 3 months since I posted that and I can say that I feel significantly better. I'm at peace with the breakup and though I still think about him, its not was often. I know it may seem like you won't find peace but with time, you will
Your the one who dumped him so why were u crying. You women blind side us and prepare yourselves mentally months before y’all leave us and where the ones that are left crushed
.But hopefully u find peace
@@trueone3093 just because I dumped him doesn’t mean I emotionally prepared for it. I was still in love with him when I broke up with him and I told him that. Don’t you think that maybe I broke up with him because he wasn’t treating me right? Just because your ex blindsided you doesn’t mean that’s the case for everyone.
@@abbysdiary8734 …. Yeah I kno but as guys we don’t be knowing that we just be assuming that you females are own to something else… thanks it’s good to hear a female point of view…. I wasn’t trying to sound rude or anything but Did you find your peace
He said that I keep bringing up the same things (financial struggle) and he did tell multiple times that he didn't like to hear it, I did bring it up yesterday and today he broke up with me.
I just wanted him to acknowledge my issues and tell me that we will get over it, it will be fine.
I would have done everything else on my own.
I know it hurts to have just one expectation out of love, to be heard and seen for who we are, and that too not being met. Know this, i am telling you, you'll get over this obstacle in your finances, you'll find a way out, you always have had. As for love, be that love for yourself which you wanted him to be, shower yourself with acceptance, validation and assurance. Hang on, life has yet much to offer, you are worthy 💗
Hi Joey, I went from shock, to sadness, to anger, to feeling nothing. I feel empty. I can’t get out of bed. I can’t eat. I can barely type this. But your video helped me a lot. I can understand my body and I am finally - just barely - moving on.
I feel the same . And its been 4 months
Everybody has their own hardest part of a break up, but for me its missing what we just once were...and how amazing it was.
.and its like youll try to do whatever you can to go back to that and its almost impossible
this.
@@banca7576 i hope you're okay
same
Fr, the time i spent with her the smile and comfort she always gave me i cant ever forget
i know.
Working through a divorce with my highschool sweetheart right now. To say it hurts would be a massive understatement. Looking back though, I'm grateful for everything that has happened. All the fun times, the memories, and the moments we've shared. I've had relationships before but she was my first love. I was so sure that she'd be the one holding my hand when we're old and grey. But you know, shit happens. Despite all that though, I hold no resentment towards her. She taught me how to love and what it feels like to be loved. She was there for my darkest days and she was right there beside me for my best. I'll miss her greatly and I wish her all the best.
Praying for you to be strong enough to overcome whatever heavy feelings you might feel 🙏
🥺🥺🥺 you’re so strong I commend you 🤝
Just hold your head up buddy , i know it hurts and im with you,your comnent helped me a bit right now...
This was 2 months ago and I hope you're doing much better and still improving every day.
I'm going through something extremely similar to what you wrote, just yesterday my high-school sweetheart of 10 years left me. It's going to be an uphill battle.
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Losing someone isn’t hard, Leaving someone you can’t stand to lose because they’ve done you wrong more times than your able to forgive. Not being able to trust a word they say knowing how many lies you believed because you loved them too much to accept the truth. Coming out of the relationship afraid of another because you can’t handle going through all that again because it will kill you, emotional or even….physically.
nobody was talking about this, how hard is being the person that notice that what is best for both parties is to break up even if it hurts! leaving when you love them deeply but you already talk and tried to manage the problems, but for the "left one" never notices the real problem, but that is because it was never a thing that wanted to change at first
Don't chase someone who isn't looking for you.
I lost the love of my life yesterday, I thought he'd be my future husband, thinking about him with someone else while I still love him hurts...this pain is unbearable
I understand. Same feelings 😭🫂
I ended my relationship on 1st of Sept, i was going to marry her, but she had inappropriate relationship with the other guy, its really hurt and its killing me
Same. You'll be okay!
I am just crying
I lost the love of my life before 4h ...
Reading everyone’s story makes me feel like we are all connected. Going through a break up is something I’m not used too and knowing she would be the one till death hurts that she is gone. To anyone dealing with this right now I hope you heal beautifully. However long it takes we take it day by day.
It’s strange that pp criticise me for not handling a break up well bc i do not have experience on that.
Wth? Am i supposed to break up many times in my life to know that?
Is living a happy live my fault this time?
Wth?
Wth?
“One day you're going to remember me and how much I loved you… then you're gonna hate yourself for letting me go
Fck man the pain is too much I'm devastated
Same, and all I want is for someone to talk to. But I literally have nobody to talk to right now. I’m so lost on what to do and have nobody to tell about my feelings. It hurts so much that I’m scared for myself.
@@Sadlythatsme hey buddy u can talk to me if you'd like u are not alone i know how u feel am also not so good myself but Time heals all wounds don't worry so much
Going through a breakup rn. 7yrs lost like a bubbled popped. It hurts like hell, it feels like my heart was literally ripped right out then I found this video.
Sooo, thank you person from the internet. Gotta accept that things don't go always the way you want them to. Just gotta keep treading through life.
Hugs to the people going through the same 🫂
how are you feeling?
@@milff6969 2 months in. So far so good. The first month was absolute hell. It's a bit better now, more manageable.
@@aurum9413 so proud of you
Its been 3 Weeks for me now. She left me after 5 years. I dont really know what to do with my life now. I dont want a relationship ever again if the people dont stay. I hope you are feeling better now, because i dont think i will ever feel normal again.@@aurum9413
Just knowing that they are moving on so easily without you has got to be the worst thing about a breakup. You are sat here suffering while in the back of your mind, you know they aren’t.
yeah man she breaks up with me Saturday and at school Monday she is laughing with all her friends and by the next week she is talking to another man laughing and engaging the same way she did with me 3-4 months prior
Next breakup? I just never want to get into a relationship again
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks...
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@@lindabryan6854 like I said, I dont want a relationship
The pain is unbearable
Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but i could not let him go, so i had to do all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.i wish you seek his help too..
my first long term relationship, over a year of making the impossible possible, defying the odds that couldn’t be defied.
my heart is shattered. i feel like a mindless zombie with no motivation. i’m on autopilot mode barely computing until i get home in my bed and everything reminds me of her.
i’m lost, i feel so broken.
i wouldn’t wish this pain upon my worst enemy.
It’s been 1 year since I’ve first time saw this video, at that time I thought my life was finished.
I first wanna thank you Joey, theses 3 min have helped me so much.
For everyone going through this, trust time, be grateful that relationship made you realised that he/she wasn’t « the one » and ofc take care of yourself.
You are strong, We are strong.
i still feel like they were the one. and if only i acted right. it's been 1 year now and i still think about him from time to time. i still reject every guy that comes my way cause i just will never love them as much as i loved him. i hate how he moved on so easily from me tho.
@@Me-rd7poabout the same happened to me. I'm a guy tho. Took me years to get better after she broke up with me, I HATED the fact she moved on like I was nothing while I was in so much pain...
It been 10 months i still think he is the one I reject other i can not love other guy then him just keep me pain everyday
My heart is broken, my whole soul is . I've lost. I've lost in school, I've lost in family, I've lost in love, I've lost in everything. I guess now I know what an idiot I was for simply believing someone telling me that they loved me.
You are loved!
feeling like u G
Lost my first loved one. I feel myself tearing up writing this message with the flood of memories. I never felt like I have with her. I miss her so much. I want to come back here when I’m healed too
I just had a breakup today and have been crying all day thank you because this helps a little bit. 😢
Day 6: I’m so broken inside, I can’t eat, sleep or even think! It’s almost like I’m walking around my apartment lost and afraid. I feel so hopeless. I can’t stop crying! 5 years with you and 6 days without you 😢idk what to do anymore!
You wallow in the pain and choose to keep moving. That’s what I’m doing on my day 6 as well.
Day 6 as well, hope you are taking it day by day and finding peace little by little, the pain will eventually disappear and then thats where all the fun begins. You are not alone, there is light at the end of the tunnel for us
@@ChillyCholo_ thank you. I really appreciate your comment! I’m here if you need to chat!
@@oliviahurner1343 I’m sorry you also are going through that! I’m here if you need to talk
i chased a girl so much that i destroyed my academics in engineering now starting all over again with a new life in pursuit of becoming a pilot...i hope u get over it...take care missy ;-)
Broke up with my girlfriend two weeks ago… hardest thing ever. We both loved each other but we were on different paths. It was so hard to say goodbye to her. Thank you for this. I really needed this.
@@kingdomofanimosity2684 feeling a lot better now. It takes time to get better. Don’t hold in your pain, it only makes it harder.
@@kingdomofanimosity2684 take it one day at a time dude.
@@kingdomofanimosity2684 yeah man, I know that feeling too well. Work on yourself, you got this!
I feel you man I just broke up with my girlfriend today because she was always too busy to call or hang out during the summer and we are going two different colleges so I know for a fact she would just not have enough time to talk to me which is just not how a relationship should work. On the bright side we ended on better terms and became closer in friends
I had a similar experience, today though. Sometimes it's even harder when you still love each other and have no reason to hate the other person :( I hope you're doing okay now
My heart just hurts. I feel numb. I just wish things would go back to the way they were
Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but i could not let him go, so i had to do all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.i wish you seek his help too..
im not even like a kid im almost 16 but i never had such feelings for a person in a LDR too
My first ever relationship is broken now. I imagined everyday with him, my future, my family, my life... he was in every aspect of my future. But things weren't aligning with us. He had different goals than mine. I tried to fix with his, and I succeeded, but he never adjusted mine. I was under suffocation, and I realized I should leave him for the best of both of us. I still miss him soo freaking much, I cry every time I remember him, I can't eat, I can't focus on my work. I feel lost everywhere. A part of me has gone and vanished. I just can't hold this pain. We tried to fix but never a success. I believe the universe has better plans for me and him. I wish him all the very best!
breakups are like leaving a best friend. i still hope that my ex's are living their best lives and they find people who are perfect for them. i am in a happy relationship now with someone that knows me inside out. we are still different people and are still learning how to love each other everyday. when one door closes, another opens.
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Day 2 after the breakup of my 11 year relationship to my childhood sweetheart, her decision to end the relationship hit me out of the blue, i tried to save it but it felt wrong loving someone who has 'clocked out'. I feel numb and have struggled to sleep and eat. Im hoping in time i will heal, to anyone going through a similar situation i wish you all the best you will get through it. Hard life lessons always make you stronger, keep going.
I'm 35 and on week 2 we were together for 11 years as well with no children then out of the blue he says he's moving out no explanation no nothing . I was in such a state of shock all last week but it didnt take long for the shock to wear off and then suddenly realize im 35 and alone now all that work wasted and thought of starting all over with some one new seem so impossible and daunting. The pain is so raw I cry myself to sleep most nights I can't eat I can't sleep only go home when I absolutely have to its so hard being there in that house some hours are better then others but right now it feels like I'll never have peace again
@@samanthaowens7241 That sounds awful Samantha. The first month is very hard, your whole life has been turned upside down and like me it seems that you were blindsided.
However, I can say now that at 3 months I feel much better, so hang in there it does get better trust me, you might not think it at this moment in time, but you'll look back and see your improvement.
You haven't wasted time, someone, somewhere, whatever you believe in was really looking out for you, you don't need someone who cleary doesn't respect you in your life, so they removed themselves.
I promise you, you will find peace, once you rebuild your life, and find someone (if thats what you want) you'll thank him for setting you free. The best gift is now your freedom, its up to you how you use it.
Dont worry about your age, your still young and don't rush it, good things take time, make sure your properly healed first. Once, you can be indifferent to your ex you'll no your ready.
Keep going your doing great.
Dan.
Hey, is it weird that I'm feeling my life has no meaning now? She left me out of the blue this morning without telling a good reason. Last night we talked nicely, she even said she loves me and that she doesnt want me to disappear.
I keep checking my phone every 5 minutes to see if she texted me back. She actually blocked me from all our socials and completely off contact. It's night and I absolutely cannot sleep.
@@Ichigo-gp9vq its not weird but the reason is because you have made that girl your life purpose and that's where you messed up. find a new purpose and pursue that your purpose should never be a person
@@Ichigo-gp9vq It's not werid at all, I felt pretty simular the first month or so. You will go into shock, i.e. out the blue, not sleeping eating etc. This is because we evolved in tight social groups and thus brekaing up with someone is like being thrown out of your tribe, you now have to survive by yourself. However, you'll likely have close friends and family so try and reconnect with them. My breakup has led to me improving my relationship with friends and family.
Your life has plenty of meaning, like me you put your ex on a pedestal and thus she was the meaning of your life, you likely had your own purpose before you met her, so try and regain it, but it does take time. Once, you start to live your life for yourself, you'll actually thank you ex for dumping you, that may seem strange now, but sometimes its a wake up call that you need, everything else in your life will improve and in time youll be ready to meet your next partner, if thats what you want.
I can remember the same out of the blue feeling, but again many people are very poor communicators and wont really tell you the honest truth. You in time will realise that you dont actually need a reason, judge people by their actions, and her action is that she has left you, you don't leave people you love.
Honestly, as hard as it is, if you dont need contact i.e. you have kids, then go no contact and remove any pictures etc for your room or phone. Its very hard because you'll be craving her attention like a drug addict, but its the only way you'll get over her. Also all the stuff about her still loving you and wanting to be friends is total bullshit, I'm sorry to be harsh but women will say this just to be nice, or to keep you as a backup plan. Again I'd advisd you to go no contact, if you want to be friends in the future once your recovered, then so be it, but right now just cut her out.
I hope this helps bud, please just give yourself some time, don't make rash decsions, as your emotions will be running high and that can led to recklessness. It really does get better, I promise you in 3 months time you'll look back and be proud of where you are. Keep going your doing great, life has some nuch in store for you.
Dan.
One lesson i learned from a very long relationship full of betrayal and lies is that no matter how much you care about someone, understand that the world doesnt revolve only around then.
I know many of us, want to support and be always there for the person we love.
This is what love does and is right.
But never forget to sometimes think on yourself and do things for yourself and because you want a change for yourself and be the best version of yourself.
After 10 years I was left after coming home from work … i how is my world not ending when it was my whole world?
She broke up with me yesterday. There wasn’t a single doubt in my mind that she wasn’t the one. I was so happy and content, I never doubted her to stop loving me for a second. I feel utterly broken and alone, everything that I thought I knew has been turned upside-down. I don’t know anything. I miss her so much, and sadly enough I would take her back in a heartbeat. I feel like I’ll never stop loving her. I want to hate her because that would be so much easier, but I can’t. I love her so much. I’ve decided to write once a day to express my emotions on a page. Hope it helps. Thank you TH-cam comments for being my venting dump
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He helped me bring back my ex permanently few days ago, without any delay, after six(6) years of separation🥰🥰
Hang in there man. It’s gonna hurt and cry it all out. There’s no time limit to heal, you are only human. You’ll hurt and feel and go on. Even though it feels like your world has lost its meaning. Believe me, you are just shedding a new skin
My boyfriend broke up with me less than a week ago and I feel the same way. I love him so much but I wish I could hate him so I could move on dreaming about finding somebody else. All I can do is think about how special it was for me. We split up in the spirit of friendship and a possible comeback in the future, so a part of me is still waiting for his distraught call to make up and try again. I hope you're doing better now.
I know how you feel, and i hope you are better now. One thing that i have learned is that now that i love myself and i have confidence, things are less painful when i have breakups or a broken heart.It doesn't mean it does not hurt like hell sometimes, but you will heal, slowly and love might be painful, it is also a beautiful feeling :) it's not your fault and i am sure you will find a love in you, and maybe who knows, someone else soon
You know that feeling when you miss them when you hear the songs you two used to sing together...... sometimes you couldn't listen to the song because it hurts too much......I guess I had a long way to go ahead but we are humans and we are still learning.....thnx, Joey, your videos always help me feel I am not alone.
Youre so right
In logon ki bakwas pr mat believe karo
Bheek mein mile pyar ka kya karogi
😭😭😭😭
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Yes I couldn’t play so many songs 😭🤣
grief is the proof of love is real
I just couldn't please her. Every decision I made just always seemed to be the wrong one. After one mistake that I didn't even know about she just lost it and the relationship just went downhill fast after that. Each day just got worse. She broke up with me hours ago and I'm just sitting here lost, hurt, angry, sad, depressed... How can it all go bad from one little mistake that ahe never talked to me about so how could I have known. I told her I still loved her and she didn't say it back. How can you just lose love for someone over something like that and how do you just lose all you love for someone like that that fast???
It's that constant wonder about whether or not they ever think about you still. Those quiet moments when you wake up in the middle of the night are the toughest. That aching sadness. I guess we'll all look on this one day and wonder what we were sad about about. Hopefully so, stay strong 💪
- Update, it does get easier, still some darker days but not as bad. Keep strong people, time heals
Hopefully. I need that to be true❤
thank you
Thank you
Do you.think.your ex will.ever think about you even as years go by ?.im in a new relationship and yet i sometimes get flashbacks of memories of my ex and me and i feel guilty about it
My fiancée left me just over a month ago. We lost our baby in a miscarriage in April so this year has been very tough on so many levels. Walking round the house knowing there is no one there to talk to anymore. All the laughs and cries we had together. All just…gone and I feel so lost without her and what our family could have been. I have been hitting the gym lately and lost a stone in 3 weeks. But it’s when I get home I still can’t knock the feeling of emptiness and sadness. She helped me with my anxiety. Now that’s back with a vengeance and I struggle to cope. I really do hope it gets easier
i’m so so sorry, i really hope you heal and learn to find peace and happiness by yourself. remember there will always be someone that loves you, even if you don’t know it.
I feel you it's hard to know that when your partner is mentally drained you try everything to be by them and help them to be told it's too much and they just can't deal with it. I understand your pain I go to work come home to an empty house lonely as hell like you I joined the gym but would come home to Memories that made my heart sore 😢. Hopefully our hearts will find peace
@@MrUHTiger They will my friend. If you need a friend. Get in touch man
@@MitchellTalks Thank you I will definitely be needing someone to reach out to as my mentality is destroyed, lost lonely I'm always trying to put on a brave face at work but my heart is wrecked even at the gym I tear up when I'm about to finish at the gym as I know I'm going back to memories Great and bad but I seem to nit pick what I could have done better to help I tried to reassure her that I'm always going to be there and always would. To be told that it's not me it's mental health and that makes me feel so useless, helpless and not needing me to help through the pain...
I would like more advice and help my brother I'm really finding life hard..
Same! I had soo much anxiety before knowing her, and then when she came into my life she helped me soo much with my anxiety, she’s a good person but I really fucked up since it was my 1st relationship and I didn’t know really what I was doing… I really tell her I’m sorry for everything but I’ve fucked up so bad she doesn’t believe me and the way I screwed the relationship up was by my silly actions which were accidental as well, I never hurt her on purpose, I never would, I hurt her accidentally too much because of me being clumsy and I wish she’d just understand it’s been 5 months later now since the breakup and I’m a changed person for the better, but she doesn’t believe me anymore
i’m 2 years late but i’m watching this bc i literally cannot stop crying
I just lost my first girlfriend today 2 days after our one year anniversary.....I had to be the one to pull the trigger on it, because I knew that...I was putting on a mask for her and we had this cycle of ups and down in our relationship that I felt wasn't good for me or for her. I've never felt grief and pain like this before and I'm struggling to live with myself right now knowing that I broke things off, but I would have felt bad forcing it for longer. I just miss having someone to be there to make me feel important and appreciated like she did. Should I feel guilty? I really don't know what to feel anymore...all I can feel is hurt
I went through the same exact thing yesterday, I lost my first bf too(we’d been childhood bsfs for years), we were together for over a year and he broke up with me for probably a similar reason, i was overwhelmed with my own problems and tried my hardest to make it back up to him but it just wasn’t enough for either of us and now the only thing I really feel is the butterflies that danced in my stomach dying every time I think of what we were…so I understand what your going through and I want to lyk your that not alone :’)
don't feel guilty. I am at the position of your girl, it hurts like hell knowing someone who've been there for you for years suddenly saying that we should stop seeing each other.
I was always afraid of losing them, because I feel the love has fade, everyday I feel anxious, but now I don't feel afraid anymore.
all of the pain that I feel right know, is my body trying to adjust to the sudden big change, a new way of life without them.
I lost myself, I lost my way in understanding who I am as a person. I truly deeply felt so connected with this person. Knowing I am not alone makes the situation more easeful. Thank you for this and hopefully this pain can change into something more beautiful.
Let's try to change this pain into something more beautiful, as you say, I like that
It's hard not to think "Why bother anymore" after things like this happen, really... thoughts like yours are appreciated
@@DaenaMichelle i am glad thank you and keep loving yourself !!
How are you holding up now? I lost myself too. And I have to find myself again and get trough life. I'm lucky that I have support that I can talk to. But it is still a super hard process.
@@BitcoinLifeToday I am doing a lot better than I was. I’m happy that you had people to be there for you. Now I have learned a lot within myself that everything happens for a reason in life. People come and go and that’s how we learn. The pain was the hardest and it still hurts. But I make sure I surround myself with those who give me the same amount of energy I give to them. At the end of the day you are all that matters. Focus on self love and there you will flourish I hope you are doing okay! Stay strong and you got this
@tialammers9551 This is a beautiful reply! I'm glad you're doing better! Keep up! You can do this, and so can everyone else. It will hurt, but we will heal enough some day!
I’m losing a relationship not because any of us wanted, but because we are not allowed to stay together. This hurts even more than a usual breakup.
im with you on this, same here..
@@hitorimellow Stay strong.
@@krafuae same to you.
I lost my girlfriend, she fought for me so hard. I couldn’t give what she needed. I want to focus on myself and finish the last year of my football career and college. It hurts, we made so many memories.
But I will be forever grateful for the endless laughs, cry’s, argument’s, and adventures we had.
I walked away because it wasn’t fair for her to give me her whole heart, only when my heart was half in.
I love you Micah, and always will.
I hurt because I had to let go of someone who I grew comfortable with even though I knew he wasn’t the one. I kept trying to lie to myself, I kept trying to force it on me. But it hurts that they are no longer with me ❤
Feeling pain in the heart and not being able to cry out hits different
I haven’t been able to cry too. You are not alone. We can do this, I believe in you!
I’ve just lost my whole world. We wasn’t toxic or hated each other we had a lot of bickers for the past month or two and we had chats to sort everything and it never did but the pain about loosing her is that bad I know that we could fix it. I seen her yesterday to collect my stuff and we cuddled and cried and I gave her her Christmas presents I just want her back I love her so much
The thought of them being with somebody else…wanting somebody other than you…..💔💔I’ll be okay
the breakup didn't hurt but the memories of your loved ones hurt. it keeps on flowing
This is my third time watching this, I'm a month into a breakup from a 3 year relationship, and I genuinely feel like I can't live my life anymore, like I don't even have a life anymore.
Mine was for 3 yrs too n it’s hurts
We couldn’t be humble enough to assist n work through our simple issues but things was too much deeper as individuals. Traumas that not being fix so we cant enjoy a healthy version of an relationship without toxicity 😢
We soooo good together ☹️
Hi i'm in the same exact situation, knowing that i'm not alone helps. I am experiencing feelings I did not even know existed and my life seems to have turned upside down overnight. However, I know there will be a time where we are moved on and don't even really think of this person anymore. I know that sounds harsh (especially when you are still in love with that person, like myself) but point is there will be a time where we realize its only up from here. Keep your head up I am rooting for us!
you deserve better,Wish them well,and let them go
I experience exactly the same feelings rn
I truly understand you
How r u now??
It's been 2 weeks since my ex and I mutually agreed to part ways. It was honestly the most beautiful breakup I've experienced as we still cried for each other knowing that there is a real loss and having to face that its also what's right...
Still doesn't make it easier..
I lost my first love yesterday, she was so special because she was the first person that really gave me the feeling of love and she was the first person to ever feel real love from. She went from the most important thing to kind of a stranger in a day. It feels so strange, she’s just a person now, not my girlfriend anymore. I cried like never before and I still do watching this. It hurts so much
"One partner loses who they are and become dependent to the other. And once that weight becomes to heavy, someone has to break."
This is exactly what happened between us. Thank you for the wise words.❤
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Update: looking back at this relationship, It was actually very toxic and I'm glad it ended. I just didn't realize that when I was in love.
As someone who feels like I've felt nothing for a long time, acknowledging that I am going through emotions/pain right now meant a lot.
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My ex just broke up with me, he said he lost interest and started flirting with another girl. After 3 years of relationship with him I feel bad but also happy about it. He never truly loved me and I did so much for him but never received anything back. I need to keep going and forget about this shit
My wife just left me. Been together 6 years. This was the only person who truly cared about me...God I wish she'd take me back. I was an idiot, had become This toxic person lately and she is the sweetest women I've ever known - caring, loving, beautiful and all that. I'd do anything to get her back...I feel like my soul left my body - empty.
Just gone through a break up, I knew it’ll happen eventually, as nothing ever really lasts forever. I’m however a bit relived but it’s still hard to breathe. It’s just hard to carry 4 lives at once, friends, family, your partner, and your mental health. It’s gonna take time to recover, but stay strong out there guys!
Edit: hey guys I’m back haha, I want to disclose a few things, after getting out of another relationship (this one a bit toxic), you have to realize it was no one’s fault and you need to accept the fact that you too aren’t for each other. Having a better view of what love actually mean could help you cope a bit. Want what’s best for the other person, don’t be selfish, talk things through if needed. Love someone at your best and you’ll be able to give them the world, ba baii!
how’s it going buddy ?
@@antonios2002 I’m feeling great thank you
@@nartman3477 any updates brother
@@antonios2002 feeling much better now, I’ve basically let go if love and started working on myself, I feel better than ever
@@nartman3477how long did it take for you to feel better? It’s for me now more than a month ago and still feel shit about it. Don’t feel I will get over it..
When you keep thinking about him and it hurts so much when you know he’s the only thing that keeps you going and now he’s gone I just keep telling myself to keep going and I’ll find somebody new
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Alright ignore all these bots commenting, but I understand you ive felt the same way. But we cant depend on someone else for happiness, once you find happiness alone you are truly ready for what life has to throw at you
It’s so true. but I know I’ll never find someone like him, who have me the same feelings, thoughts, and everything.
I lost my girlfriend because I was unhappy with my own life. I hated my job, I hate it when I think about what a disgusting person I was. That's not me. I hate myself for not listening to her. I hated that I gave up on my friends. I felt "lonely". I moved 50 KM to her and I hate myself for hating my own life so much that I didn't see what an idiot I was and let a great person go. But that's life.
bro it sounds like u r the one breaking up w me TT
Holy man, I feel like maybe I was too negative as well in the relationship I had. Now that I think about it. I feel so lost and really need someone to talk to. I just want somebody to have a conversation with me. I’m so lost
Been with her for 3 years. We grew together, and she was my first everything. I really thought I never thought we would break up. I know it’s not the end of the world but I’ll just miss seeing her and embracing her all the time. Good luck to everyone else going through this.
I loved her so much. i miss her. especially when i thought everything was going well between us. my brain feels foggy, my life just feels over.
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@@imissme8313 I got you. its been a good month, since everything went down. Since this, Ive been locked in a psyc ward, after trying to end things once, and almost another time after that. Im definetly in a better spot then I was but am still healing. She screwed around on me after a year of us being together, and having gone through this before it hurt a lot, because I trusted her a lot. However, my life is currently on a good track and things are getting better! I appreciate the concern, kind stranger :)!
@@voidzz9943 hey, you seem like you've come a long way and if it's worth anything to you I'm proud of your progress man. God bless you
@@voidzz9943how are you now?
even if it’s just one month, it still hurts. we did more in one month than anyone else has for me in years. i felt like this. it sucks. it’ll make some sense sometime soon
Thank you, joey kidney, this was the first ever break up i had and the first ever in my life, the first girl that confessed to me, she first said she had commitment issues so she said it wont work between us and insisted being freinds instead, i begged for her to not do so considering she was my first and the first girl that confessed to me, but still din't get her love, i was thinking if she dint like me anymore and lately shes avoiding me since, yesterday i am experienced the worst day and now she build it up more by breaking up with me, i now know how it feels to experience a breakup..thank you, joe kidney, i'll keep smiling for myself and for her and move on.
I've been watching a lot of these videos the past few days since she just told me she no longer loves me. It hits me so hard in the gut because in the short time we were together we've done so much, from traveling to living together for a short while, but it was always long distance in the end. A part of me hopes we can grow and later get back together once things settle, but I know it's not for me to choose. If you read this, I miss you, and I'm sorry for every negative thing I've said and I wish you the best.
Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but i could not let him go, so i had to do all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.i wish you seek his help too..