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lagh believe me, that’s exactly what I’m going through rn. I was used but I couldn’t see it cause I was so caught up in this girl. But I can’t destroy and pick myself apart of it more than I already have. Everyone will find themselves sooner or later. Just find your release
lagh I just went through a break up two days ago. And I did nothing wrong but loved him with everything I had. He hurt me twice. But I believe I can find someone better than him. Not someone like him. Because you won’t grow with someone like him. It’s hard I’m not going to lie but remember that. Remind yourself that your feelings are valuable and one day someone better will come.
It's the worst feeling....ever. I made myself so stressed about it...I got so sick and I nearly went comatose over him...but hes gone, forever. No getting him back and I dont know if I can be that happy ever again...God I hope so
@@mrsniffwell7736 I got no explanation after 7 years.. Just rejection and blocked instantly from all contact... She was cold and heartless, and I still feel like crap. The doctor is right, I am going to focus on that entirely, objectively that was a monstrous thing to do. No idea why I focus on the good stuff after experiencing that kind of behavior. Only up from here!!
Damn. Yes. I heard. It's my second time I am going through this. I didn't expect I would have to get hurt again, but here I am. All over again. Crying over a man, who broke up saying he doesn't feel that we have a future anymore, and he can't help it. I will have to pick the pieces of my already broken heart, all over again, and mend it. But I guess that's the beauty of life. It will all be worth in few months or a year. And if I live 70 years, 1 year on a wrong person isn't a lot. Isn't it? It's already been few days, and in few more days, it will be months. And I will again be feeling a lil better about my existence. Till then, we fight.
@@amincampbell1939 Well, each time it's ended in disaster and furthering the pain. An important thing is to know when to cut your losses and walk away.
“Idealizing your ex instead of focusing on how they were wrong for you. Indulging thoughts and behaviors that still give them a staring role in this next chapter of your life, when they shouldn’t even be an extra” Writing this so every time someone likes it - it will remind me. Thank you Guy Winch.
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I'm here, 6 months later. I didn't think I could ever get to this point again but I have. My heart is healed. I'm never going to take life for granted again. I'm really happy with my life now
Arnella don’t worry about how a real relationship will end. If that happens, you wíll manage just fine. Don’t make the fear of a break up stop you from finding love!
Romo you will Heal. It will take time. I felt the way you for a long time. 20 years ago. I still Remember her., But I am over her. Just the Memories that I have..
Watching this again 4 months later after my heartbreak.. I honestly feel way better as compared to before, wayyyy better. Almost fully healed. It just popped up on my feed, and I clicked on it simply for the feeling of nostalgia. A reminder of the lesson I've learnt, and the emotional growth I've experienced.. Ladies and gentlemen believe me you will heal. Just takes time.
I’m in such freakin pain. It didn’t just end. He couldn’t have been meaner and it came from nowhere. I’m determined to do no contact. But I’m shattered and he’s free to be so vicious without consequence
U said time bro that’s all? It hurts a ton rtnw and I keep thinking there’s no one like her. I get sad reminiscing literally all the things he said not to do. How u been now? Btw we jus broke up today.
@@jasonstorey1905 I’ve been no contact and he keeps contacting me. I answer and I don’t get excited. Today he text and I cut him short. So he called and I cut him short. Then he showed up at my work and he can see me get flustered. That’s all he wanted to see and he left. fucking jerk
@@jasonstorey1905 me.. two days ago. it was an affair, she met another guy. didnt want to be the bit on the side anymore, im devastated, cant eat sleep think breath.
I spent Easter weekend with my girlfriend of 2 years. Things had been going pretty good, she had recently voiced she wasnt thrilled about me being a cop, (I'm a month in the police academy) but Easter weekend was beautiful. We loved on each other and really spent quality time with each other and also got to catch up with each others families. Things were going so good. Even through Sunday night. (She spent the night) the next day she said she wasnt happy any more and didnt want to see me anymore.
Aww I am so sorry! I have had my heart broken twice. It's a horrible horrible feeling. The first took years (we were married) and I am still working through the second. I'm in my early 40's and heart broken twice. I need to be with someone who loves me as much as I love them (or more).
Same here at 23 - been reaching out to my friend group and everybody is saying that everything I'm feeling right now is normal. But damn was I unprepared for the torture and the healing process.
"If you can love the wrong person that much, imagine how much you can love the right one." The quote is obviously not mine, but it definitely helped me a bit so thought I'd share...
I find some comfort knowing people can explain that gut wrenching heart ripping feeling. Eating feels like a challenge, nights are difficult to sleep through and mornings feel like the beginning of battle.
I can so relate. I felt absolutely broken when my ex left. I didn't have healthy ways of processing, I just wanted to numb the pain. I hope you have a good support system.
I feel like I can't make it. Eating,sleeping and going to work and pretending everything is normal is ... I hate the thought of going back home. I dread going to bed every night. I don't have any friends that I am close with and no family. I have to do this solo, in the same house with all the stuff there and no distraction or external support. It's all up to me to make it and I have to make it because otherwise there is no plan B.
@@Suspended24😢 It’s an awful pain, from the inside out. You need to find support, a group online, a counselor (online options), is there an employee assistance plan at your work? Rearrange furniture, remove photos, bring in a new color. Try using isochronic tones and binaural beats to help with depressed feelings/anxiety/sadness. Start watching videos of people who have survived more intense events (helps for perspective). Heartbreak isn’t permanent 🙏🦋
@@Suspended24hey there stranger. i am here, in the same shoes as you. what is helping me is distracting myself and watching TH-cam films about dealing with break up. Weve been 10 years together and he dumped me. It Stings but I Think to myself that IF they arę the one we will eventually either come back . OR IF he is actually not the one then nothing to worry about - means its not making space in our life to welcome someone far greater
Considering the size of our population I'd think that this would have hundreds of millions of views. Everyone goes through this and some people go through it many many times.
For anyone reading this, when your heart breaks and I mean, really breaks, you'll wake up every day for months and they'll be the first thing on your mind. Until one day, they're the second. Then the third. One day, though, you'll wake up and they don't be there at all. Time does make us stronger. I've had my heart splattered on the side of the road, but I know (and you will too) that love is not a finite resource. Look within and there's a wellspring :)
That is very true! After two months of pain and depression, today I caught myself thinking that it's been a couple of hours since I woke up, and he pop up in my mind much later than usual!! that also gave me clarity and understanding that it’s over for real, and it’s time to move on. But of course it will take me more months to completely heal, as I know myself, but I had the time to think about how bad he would make me feel a lot of the times, things I didn’t see or just avoid before because love is blindness ❤
thank you, going through this right now. I’m scared to go to sleep, it sucks to wake up with my heart pounding and she’s the first thing on my mind, hope this will all go soon, I’ve suffered a lot, may we all find peace.
Same here, Im on month 2 and she is still the first thought in my mind when I wake up. The pain is unbearable some days like I wonder when is it gonna end, Im starting to realize its gonna be a while until I feel better so Im not comparing to anyones healing journey. Its more painful couse we are on good terms and she still likes me but doesnt love me, so Im asking myself why so many times and thinking why it was my fault she fell out of love, but now I know those are just intrusive thoughts. Im giving myself distance from her couse we still want to keep in touch, and the only way to do it in a more healthy way is to first heal. I only trust time, that this will pass. I really hope it will pass.
Time is key. Whoever is reading this, I want you to know, that it gets better with time. I am writing this after 4 months and I am doing way better than I was before. You have to keep reminding yourself that you are good enough and gotta let the feelings of inadequacy not get to you.
@@sanayalove9194 @anthonychow6061 It scares me reading ur comments. It's been 2 days and it feels like death. idk how I could survive years. I just don't know how
@@yocool9883 I don't even know the exact months, maybe 3 now, I refuse to know the date of the heartbreak/betrayal.. But it does get better. Even though i'm typing this after not eating all day and getting up late and sobbing for half an hour, it still does get better. I am fighting right now, even still, to love and care for myself, hence why i'm on this video. I have a few set backs, I have to still get my stuff from my partner hence why we are in ocassional contact, which sets me back yards. However, there was a point last month where I didn't even think about her for a few days. I had peace. No contact is key, keeping busy and working towards goals, and 100% what he said about filling the voids. Me and her used to love raves, so I've found someone else to go with now. The key is to just keep pushing. I still often feel like I can't even breathe, but just know you're not alone, and keep getting up and trying again. Much love
my ex valued me so much that he told me to broke up with him because he knew that i deserve way more. I love him and he loves me but I wont put anyone to change for me. He knows that he is different. He suffers a lot for the fact that he cant give me what I want, and to clearify the things all the things were little things.
Most likely the latter. When we're in love with someone our brain creates this glorified image of the other person which often has little reflection on reality. Love is really an affliction of the mind.
Day 1 of healing from my current heartbreak. This isn’t my first one, or this wasn’t my longest relationship. But this break up really hurt because of it being so abrupt after I thought we were so healthy. I mistakenly thought chemistry= compatibility and here I am. This video helped me get up this morning and be intentional about how I heal this time. Sending love and warm wishes to everyone reading the comments❤
I see people talking about “the hardest part” well for me the hardest part is knowing there was still work to be done in the relationship but that person just decides to give up on you. You haven’t exhausted all options, and determined that it just isn’t working, but the other person just won’t put in the necessary work to keep the relationship going. It’s left me hurting so much & confused on why it was so hard to love me when all I asked was for the basic necessities of love. Most of us all deserve better, but we just wish that person was the better. Heartbreak fucking sucks
I totally get it. We only remember the good times and not the bad times. I've made a list but it has pros too because shes not a bad person, just a troubled person. You will find closure ❤
I felt this, like why am I the one always hurting somehow, just makes you feel like "maybe the whole time you thought there was something it was all in your head and they didn't feel any of it," i guess love just ain't for me really. Anyways hope you are well seeing how this is a year back
@@ece-hr5fg I don’t want to either. I just don’t think I have it in me to go through another heartbreak. I really don’t. I don’t even want to take the risk.
@@trixietesfaye4683 it was horrible the way my relationship ended. He confirmed those exact things. I never knew when it changed for him. It hurts so much.
Same here. We dated for 8 months and it felt like heaven on earth for me. Our compatibility was perfect and so I started to take her for granted while I must admit that she actually invested more of her precious time and more heart in our relationship which I didn't return. When she broke up with me just a few days ago my world broke apart. But now I see the reason why. Once I won her heart I stopped investing my time and ressources into her and didn't make her happy anymore because I felt like we are already married for many years and she would just accept me as I am. I was so wrong and she broke up with me because she told me that she already dated another guy who made her happy. It hurts but I'm not innocent of this outcome...
What’s weird is that after every relationship, you find someone even better. Everyone passes you a puzzle piece, showing you what you want in a partner / teaching you a lesson. I’ve been even more in love in every next relationship I’ve had, even while during the breakup I thought I was never going to love again. There’s hope. Your first love isn’t the most important, the last one is. Keep going.
Damn. I've only been in 3 relationships and recently broke up two weeks ago. And this is so true. Recent ex was amazing but she also had red flags everywhere.
@rea33 *I think my lover is going to abandon me* *I think my business will go wrong* *I think my friend will gossip about me* This baseless imagination turns on the switch of your anxiety. In this state, a logical approach is meaningless. If you can't calm down this anxiety, your imagination already becomes a reality. That is why you get anxious and impatient search youtube "paradox of I can do it"
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I'm literally heartbroken after a 6 year relationship. She moved on right away and I'm in a literally empty house with a couch and bed. And the lockdown coronavirus makes it almost unbearable....this video helped a little which I'm grateful for.
Same:( Broke up just before the covid lockdown. Saw him out with the girl he cheated on me with, assume they’re lockdowning together. It feels unbearable.
Mate, my girlfriend has just ghosted me: no explanations, no contact - and in the middle of the coronavirus quarantine too. I can't even go out with friends to feel less lonely. Please know that you are not alone. Stay strong mate. We WILL heal 💪
Thank you for your words.. i had the best girl for me and it didn't worked out.. so no one better is coming for me.. its better for me to shut the doors
This video saved me more times than I care to admit. For anyone going through this today, yesterday, a few months ago. The pain will end. I promise. Keep moving. Even if you have to cry, cry, but keep moving. You're going to be alright.
Staring at a blank white wall, staring at a steering wheel of my car after coming home from work. I feel it and no not fun. And some reason you want more than anything for them to call.
1. Accept that the relationship has ended. Don't looking for any explanations. 2. Accept that they are not the right person for you. 3. Focus yourself on your family and friends.
Still doesn’t mean you can’t miss them you can MoveOn but you can still miss them.Why can’t people be friends anymore? I’m friends with most of my ex’sJust the last one I’m not
@@purdusterdoggett3134 yeah, 6 weeks into a breakup right now ( I am the dumpee ), and we both wish to be friends, we just need distance and no contact for now. It can happen! Just needs to be for the right reasons. And right now, I want her back, so being friends at the moment would be unhealthy
@@purdusterdoggett3134 often times its just too hard. Ofc you're gonna miss them. But focussing on that is often extremely painful. That's why its better to focus on yourself, your family, and your friends.
Loneliness is one of the most dangerous emotions to feel. Your impulsiveness is heightened, and you are more prone to making terrible decisions. You also tend to rationalize other people's bad behaviors because you are so lonely that you're willing to put up with it. I like what this guy is saying about making a list of the negative things your partner has and consistently reminding yourself of them. That's what I've done since my divorce and it's helped.
@@ef366 going through a breakup right now though. And I loved this guy. I truly did. I still do. I don’t know if anything I can put on the list except that he didn’t love me back. What should I do? I feel so lost and I’m sobbing as I write this. I know he wasn’t perfect but I can’t think of anything bad. I don’t know what to do. I miss him so much.
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i don’t want to have to give my body and be vulnerable to someone else. i don’t want to have to try again but things will get better. it sucks being told you’re not loved
I have loved 4 times . When my last loved-one dumped me when I needed him most I landed in a psyche ward. Unresolved childhood trauma resurfaced in my grief of losing this man and I ended up on anti-psychotics. Four years on I am strong, resolute and living an independent life...but I still love the very bones of that man and probably always will.
You're beautiful and never forget that. Don't allow someone to take that confidence from you. They didn't want it? Then they can't have it. Just because they broke it off doesn't mean that you have to feel as if there was something about you that they didn't like. It just means that they're giving you the opportunity to find someone who is better suited for you. ♥
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I went through a breakup and a serious depression years ago. I used to watch this video all of the time. Now, after a three year relationship, it’s not looking good. It’s likely over. And again, I am here listening to this. This is most on point video on heartbreak I’ve ever seen. I hope we all find our person at the end.
@@jenynz5334 I’m doing better but I’m certainly not a 100% over it. It’s been 5 months and I have good days and bad days. I’ve tried to stay busy - it’s the down time (like today actually) that make me sad and think this whole thing could have been avoided/ or is a nightmare. But I’m starting to accept that if she didn’t want to be with me, I can’t force that. It kills me but I’m starting to value myself. I’m really sorry you’re starting your journey. I hope you can get some benefit from this video or from your friends/family.
If someone breaks up with you, take it as a blessing, a favour done for you, that you are not in a relationship with someone who doesn’t want to be there . That person just saved you years of wasted time . Accept and move on
David Bowman yes but you have no other option . It has to be done. So you either do it now or later . I’ve seen friends let heartbreak consume them . There are so many other facets of your life to work on and experience and if you don’t have any, now is the perfect time to explore as much as life as possible . You wake up and the world is your oyster. When I see someone so heartbroken over a failed relationship it tells me that they don’t apply enough worth onto themselves . They have made the other person their world and they don’t value themselves enough to know that there can be so much more to their lives .
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Focus on yourself, start exercising, start learning something you wanted to. Now you have so much more time. Accept the pain, don't hold it in yourself, cry if you can, it really helps. Continue working through pain, don't spend your time suffering and doing nothing. Even if your brain is not as focused as it used to be, still persist in your beginnings. You have to become in harmony with youtself to overcome this.
@@HexadecimalDump thank you so much for this. It honestly helps. I want to be in harmony with myself. I feel so broken and shattered right now. I just want everything to be better. I guess I can start by fixing myself even tho that makes me sad to write bc I love him and I miss him and this is horrible.
The worst pain I've ever felt, was when I realized how quickly my ex got over our relationship. How quickly they stopped loving me. Being left to wonder, if we ever loved each other the same. I would not wish this pain upon anyone.
Yo I was ready to marry this girl. Making plans to go meet with her homophobic family (I was gonna win them over bc I am a legit person) and I knew she was gonna propose. Less than 12 hours she got drunk (I’m in recovery) and sent me messages that crossed my personal boundaries (for the 4th time and 2nd time in 24hrs) and pretended to be me and cancelled my flight while I was taking a nap. I said some horrible stuff that I’ve never told anyone in my entire life. I feel bad. I know it’s bc my inner child felt wounded bc I told her and finally admitted to be vulnerable and make a 2 year commitment to her. Yet she wanted to still play high school games. So I reverted back to default mode and was cruel. Yet I was only pushed to the end after waking up from what I said before AND her saying she was cutting the chord even tho I said the next time we end it, it will be over bc we go back and forth. I feel bad for what I said. I also feel like I need to respect myself and hold true to my word. My therapist said this is karma getting me back for all the heartbreak I caused bc this is my first time getting my heartbroken that wasn’t caused by me using and ruining a relationship.
Break ups are especially hard when they were your best friend. 😞 I literally have no one to cry to. Hopefully this video helps because I’m tired of feeling this way.
@@angelawellborn839 it's been like 7 days and it feels like eternity. she was also my best friend. I dont know if she even cares enough for this to work if she did I feel like she wouldnt have hurt me like this. she has go be hurting tho I feel like the period of being happy that I'm gone has to be hitting her already idk
You’re a baddie walk down the street and you’ll find 5 dudes in love with you already, I’ll be lucky if I get 1 in a year, and a lottery winner if I find someone that stays in love after a week.
He said me he loves me but doesn't want a relationship anymore. He can't prioritise me now so broke up with me. Yet he texts me everyday as if everything were like before and we were together. I feel so lost sometimes, it's really difficult...
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She had recently ended things because she didn’t know what she wanted anymore and didn’t want to keep on leading me on cause it would only hurt me more. I recently had asked her if there is an opportunity for us still and she responded with “There is but not now”. Her past relationship had really affected her but our relationship was completely different to her her past one. We didn’t end with hate towards eachother but at times I really get my hopes that she’ll come back. She said there’s still love but I don’t know what I should think or feel.
If someone could invent a pill that makes you immune to being heartbroken, being broken up with, taken advantage of or forgotten, I'd take it in a heartbeat.
There is something it’s called apathy you never care or trust anyone then you won’t get hurt. Guess what? It worse than heart break it’s a life of dull lonely emptiness. Heartbreak is part of love
@@Duck72432 it's dull lonely and empty even with the ability to feel and having genuine intentions I'd rather have a medicine and become numb to sadness and happiness by losing the ability to feel anything at all, being a guy and honestly loving someone is a losing game
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Completely understand how you feel! I felt horrible and was in denial when my ex decided to walk away after 5 years. I knew it was falling apart, but I tried everything under the sky to make it work. It took time to recover, but you become stronger and much happier without them. Just believe and tell yourself that you deserve someone who loves you.
I feel like that. I have been used , abused and betrayed. Still therez a part of me that needs to hear her voice and see her beautiful green eyes. Its like i need poison. My heart is broken , but i dont have anyone that i can talk about ir with.
This was bookmarked in my PC months ago when I was left by my boyfriend. We got back together and I thought I had no need for this. Months after, he left me and here I am again watching this. Heart break always feels like a new experience. I am just so tired of pain at this moment.
Worse. When someone dies they’re gone for good. When you get dumped. They’re still out there and your mind goes crazy thinking of all the possible things you could’ve done differently. It’s the worse pain I’ve ever felt.
yeah tbh. It hurts... you know you moved on but seeing the other person with someone else after all that happened still has a control over you.. in time it will be all well.
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To whoever is reading this, I know it hurts. I know you lay in bed and wonder where it went wrong. Wondering why this keeps happening to you. And then you think about their face and how it no longer smiles for you..i’m so sorry. But, it will get better. It always does. If they decided to let you go, let them. You deserve better than that honey. They’re not worth your happiness.. You’re so strong, remember that. Edit: i know how you guys feel and i understand. i was in such a dark place a few months ago when my bf broke up with me. i laid in the floor and cried for hours and didn’t eat anything. it took so much energy just to get out of bed. now, as i’m typing this, i am so happy and single and in a better place. i thank god every day for taking those stressful times out of my life. it will ALL get better with time. soon you will be able to look at them and feel no sadness. i promise ❤️
This was my first relationship and I am so scared that it will be my last. I just want to run back to him but I know I can't. All I can think about is him and I just remember everything we did. I don't know what to do
23 years old and laying in bed after 7 beers with work in 5 hours. Only a month has passed since my third and most brutal heartbreak because I thought she was the one, but this video really put things in different perspectives for me. For those that seem like your life is empty without your former significant other, leaning on your friends/family or trying new hobbies is what’s making my break up a little bit more bearable. The gym, fishing, going out more with coworkers and then my friends on the weekend. I’m not perfect and I’m still deeply hurt, but I can type this paragraph perfectly after 7 beers and I can say that I will recover and find someone new who loves me for the way I deserve and for me to love in return. Don’t give up and let’s all keep fighting!
Hope you feel better, these activities and the drinking may lower your pain for the moment, but the problem will just strech out. Like he said, fight the heartbreak!
The toughest part of letting go is realizing the other person already did and the saddest part of is saying goodbye to someone you wish to spend your lifetime with. Heartbreak can strike at any age and like Guy said, it can happen to anybody. If you're going through it just know that you are not alone and it WILL get better. Do something for YOURSELF, take your time, work on YOU and involve actively healing things as much as possible. We got this Kings & Queens, never lose your faith and trust fate.
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@@ivynguyen8583 please take care of yourself. We get into a relationship to be happier in the first place. If that is not being catered due to any reason better to switch back to self-care/self-love mode.
Rightly pointed! Such an important aspect of going through heartbreak. We are the chosen ones who are woke emotionally. So much more important is to make sure that if you've ever been heartbroken then not to take it out on your next emotional connection. Be compassionate. Just got heartbroken and deceived myself by this girl who took it to having me meet her parents and ask her hand only to completely back off last min. We had talked about our past heartbreaks and I thought she would be compassionate after going through it. Apparently, she just used me to get over her last ex. I had stayed away from relationships for the last 3 years to completely recover myself from my last.. only to fall into her trap. But I will not turn toxic. I will still open my arms and heart for the right person. I will not carry her baggage and break someone else's heart to fix mine.
A year ago i broke up with my ex and i came across this video and i saved the video thinking i would be back after i heal my broken heart. I remember watching this video with a sour and muded head. Just wanted to remind anyone going through breakups, worry not and give it some times. The pain will go away and you'll look back and think of those silly moments. Cheers!
It's crazy how when you see other people going through a break up you look at them and jokingly say *"Ha scrub just move on"* but then when you go through it you think *"So this is how it feels."*
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But how do you let yourself fall in love without attachment? I've been in relationships when I've realised I'm not in love and not going to be. I felt it's my obligation to end them because I felt it's unfair to the other person who has feelings I will never have. And when I've been in love, and it's always a risk that, my feelings might outlast theirs. To be in love but indifferent. Sounds like the ideal, but it also sounds impossible.
First breakup and it feels like I'm about to die. But everything on the comments is true: if they cherished, valued or loved you more, you both could have worked things out. Even though hope is the worst for this kind of situations, maybe they will understand things and be ready to try again someday. But don't hold onto that: learn to truly, madly, deeply love yourself until you sincerely realize you are happy on your own. This too shall pass, I promise.
Move on! Be strong, it will pass. Until, take care of U! Trust me, it will pass. LE. Still hooked on some pain, sorrow and useless thoughts abt. breakup but better none the less. So, keep moving forward!
Phantom Alma me too. First boyfriend and first break up. And yes it’s true, I wish I loved myself more instead of depending on him. I wish I knew better because I gave him so much love, when I didn’t receive the same love. But I’m young. Life moves on, and I’ll move on.
@@layoramirez4993 Monday I had a good day. Thought I was finally on the right track. Right back to wallowing in pain today. it’s been 2 months and I’m really sick and tired of being sick and tired. But I guess one good day is better than none.
I see a lot of people saying that the saddest part is when the other person gives you hope For me tho, the saddest part is when I give myself hope, even tho the other person has not nor ever done anything that should give me hope... and now I’m just trapping myself in this delusion that just maybe... he “loves me”...
exactly, never give yourself hope, it killed me every single day. until i had to cut him out completely and find out that he doesn't care about me at all and has moved on. there is no hope when you know that he has moved on and doesn't care anymore
potatohacker I want to confess to my crush, because Ik he doesn’t like me, but I NEED to confess to him so I can hear him say it, & then maybe I’ll finally face reality...
@@EmiDucky I confessed yesterday, I knew for sure he will reject me, but I still confessed and it did happen. But you know what, the good thing is this confession helps with the process of moving on. I still cried, but this time, something's different, I try to find myself once again.
“Once someone's hurt you, it's harder to relax around them, harder to think of them as safe to love. But it doesn't stop you from wanting them.” ― Holly Black, White Cat
Hello Dana Monica Simpson. if you need help, I can recommend you to someone powerful who helped me to bring back my ex after we broke up; he is actually good in spells and treatments,,,,💯💯
Same. Felt like I did everything I could to make the relationship works but it got to a point where he stopped caring even though sometimes he told me he did care but didn’t show it. I had to leave 😭
My partner of 5 years broke up last week and I thought she was the one. We disconnected over the last few months and she ended up cheating on me. What he just said resonates so much with me. I'm feeling heartbreak in all its forms right now. I can't even remember who I am. But I'm going to start filling these holes left, pick myself up and move forward.
Same situation, we had problems and she did things I forgave her for but this time we ended because I hurt her. Last few months I felt her getting distant and constantly asked for more effort, it never really showed up. We were together 5 years and I’m on day 5 of the break up with it being day 3 of no contact. I struggle to see the light, but I’m slowly finding it easier to fill that void as the days go. Good luck to you, you owe it to yourself to be the best you can be for yourself and one day you will be able to share that with the right person.
It is still fresh so don’t beat yourself up about how you are feeling. Let yourself grieve and cry if you need too. My partner of four years and the mother of my two year old daughter left me four months ago and is now living with this new guy . She is taking our daughter out with him for the first time tomorrow. That hurts me more than anything. It does get easier over time though I promise.
Guys I made it thru the worst parts. I just want to say “time doesn’t heal” it’s just a measurement - it’s what YOU DO in that time that matters. Spend it investing in yourself and learn ways to expand your heart to contain all the love and emotions you have now. It does get better, I am proof!
Hey, buddy! You know what? It's been over a year that my ex broke up with me. I was almost certain that I had finally overcome him, and my love for him. I actually thought, a year is enough to forget someone. I saw his picture again today. And I bawled my eyes out. Yet again. And it is the happy memories with them that are dangerous and terrible, and not the sad ones, the ones that show us the very reason the break up happened. I remember how he was grocery shopping with his roommates one day, being all funny and crazy and video calling me at the same time, notwithstanding what the world thought of him, because back then, apparently, I mattered more. He talked of marriage and children and a future together. He called me "My girl." The memories I had with him were the most magical and overwhelming I ever had. But he broke up, in some months. Reason? He still missed his ex. :) Waking up with the memories is the worst, I agree with you so completely in that. But there's much MUCH more to us than what hurt us, right? Hold on to that! As I'm hoping to do the same.
Its so refreshing to see a comment section filled with so much positivity and people trying to support others. Sharing advice and experiences. This is dope
here is my list : he wasnt there for me he left me confused many times he dissapointed me he would be constantly unsure about our relationship he was brutally honest and insensitive to my feelings he would shut me out constantly he didnt understand my problems he wasn't willing to change his problematic attitude toward me and others i wasnt his priority.. thank you for reminding me
It’s been over a month, but I still think about him everyday. I’m not crying anymore and I can definitely still live my life to the fullest but I can’t help but feel incredibly sad at late hours of the night. It sucks but I hope everyone can get through it! Update: I completely forgot I made this comment, but I wanted to give a brief update. Time does fix things. I thought about him everyday, for around 7 months straight but one day, I literally stopped caring. It was the strangest thing ever but I am thankful it happened. I hope everyone can heal from whatever heart break they are going through and just know you deserve someone who will actually cherish you!
Hello dear I know of a powerful man who can make your ex to come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me to get back with my ex and we are living happily together so far.
Clara, I am going through the same thing... it's beyond uncomfortable, I know. I just limit myself to "Hello" and that's it. He's getting married to someone else and there's nothing I can do but lock myself in my office or in the bathroom and cry in order to relieve the pressure.
I'm in the same exact situation as well and it feels so bad, but I promised myself I'll improve and be strong enough to overcome this for myself not for him,, and sooner or later I'll feel I was the winner of that break up!
@@jayk7395 I understand you, Jay... makes you wonder what was the point in everything you've done for the relationship... I've come to the conclusion that you've never needed that woman to validate you. You are your own person and if she doesn't see that, well, her loss.
An old song from the 1960's helped me through my broken heart and I hummed the lyrics in my head for two full years. "Got along without you before I met you, gonna get along without you now". Those words will help anyone going through a loss of love. And it does get better with time. Honest.
Please take this man's advice. My high school girlfriend who I was head-over-heels in love with broke up with me seven years ago, and I'm still feeling the effects to this day even after other relationships, because I had such a hard time letting go and, perhaps most importantly, killing the hope that we would get back together. A huge mistake was reconnecting with her and talking with her for another two years three years after we had already broken up; it allowed all of those feelings that had been dormant to rush back in again for nothing. She found someone else and is now engaged. The most valuable piece of advice I can offer you is this: if you go through a breakup with someone that you were really in love with, sever the tie right then and there. Do NOT "just be friends." There is no going back. The best you can do is move forward and follow the advice that Dr. Winch lays out so eloquently for you in this video. Learn from my mistake. Learn to find happiness from within rather than relying on someone else for it.
@@deformercr6680 I'm still fighting that battle every day. Hobbies are huge. Distractions when you're feeling down. I hashed it out with one of my best friends, which helped. But I wouldn't talk about it with too many people. Only those who you think can really help you along. Exercising I'm finding helpful, as well. Essentially, probably the best advice would be to do whatever makes you feel best about yourself.
@@ernestovasquez4295 Thank you, my brother. I'm doing very well, all things considered. Keeping those positive thoughts and channeling sadness into productivity and creativity.
@@burnout713 we will get through it homie. Pain and suffering is what makes the mind strong. Watch David Groggins videos man. Dude is a beast. Remember this quote brother. Peace out homie. "Happiness is beneficial for the body, but it is grief that develops the powers of the mind."--Marcel Proust
I had a bad breakup in 2012 with a woman and did all the wrong things and went a bit insane with despair, although its a bit amateur i made something about it, i hoped other guys wouldnt make the mistakes i made. If anyone wants to see it after then just type in the following title in to the search bar above........Some blokes guide to relationship breakups
Letting go is the hardest part if you truly valued an loved the person. Our minds are so dangerous after a breakup. I have bought some mindfulness books and really trying hard but it’s still really painful 🙏 We have to meet things head on and be strong. Peace and love to everyone who are finding things hard. You will get there!!
To anybody struggling with a recently ended relationship: If that person didn't want to be with you, they aren't the one for you. It is so hard to get over that person but you are better off without them.
Chadd Griest hi chadd. So did mine about 10 years ago. I was close to dying to say the least as it became the trigger for my depression. What helped me then was this simple idea: "Be the better person for my daughter". Today, i have full custody of daughter. She wants to become a lawyer so she can sue people who leaves for the wrong reasons lol
My girlfriend of almost 8 years left me today , i am hurting tremendously at this moment . Last time i had a major break up i was sad for more than 2 years and I feel this time is even worse than that .. I do find a little confort knowing i am not alone with this pain and have hope for the future. God bless everyone!!
Dr Steve can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
@@robynredman88 i feel your pain , i feel the same way at this moment, and its been really hard . I cant eat i cant sleep , im not interested in anything.. but i do understand that for my situation to get better i should help myself instead of over thinking the situation. It helps to talk to ppl who you know love you and care about you. Stay strong, my best wishes go out to you 🙏
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The feeling of “I’ll never find somebody like them again” is probably the most destructive mindset for me.
lagh I feel the same way, but then I have moments where I tell myself... why would I want someone like them, someone that couldn’t love me
Then that greatest moment you find someone who surpasses them. Why end your world over one person when there’s a billion in this world
Bryce Valdez very true. It’s difficult to look at it that way when you invest a lot of time and effort into somebody.
lagh believe me, that’s exactly what I’m going through rn. I was used but I couldn’t see it cause I was so caught up in this girl. But I can’t destroy and pick myself apart of it more than I already have. Everyone will find themselves sooner or later. Just find your release
lagh I just went through a break up two days ago. And I did nothing wrong but loved him with everything I had. He hurt me twice. But I believe I can find someone better than him. Not someone like him. Because you won’t grow with someone like him. It’s hard I’m not going to lie but remember that. Remind yourself that your feelings are valuable and one day someone better will come.
Stuck in between “wanting to feel that kind of love again” and “don’t want to feel that kind of heartbreak again
i feel ABSOLUTELY the same.
I feel you on that. Right now I’m leaning towards the latter
@@FuriousFerrell I'm never trusting again I can't take another heart break
YES
It's the worst feeling....ever. I made myself so stressed about it...I got so sick and I nearly went comatose over him...but hes gone, forever. No getting him back and I dont know if I can be that happy ever again...God I hope so
It hurts man. It really hurts.
S A D B O Y same man, same
It really really does 💔
Same.
Eva Nartey it does
I know...
“There is no break up explanation that will make you feel satisfied”
DAMN that hit home..
There all denial accept and face the feelings
I believe a feasable explanation is better than no explanation.
@@mrsniffwell7736 I got no explanation after 7 years..
Just rejection and blocked instantly from all contact...
She was cold and heartless, and I still feel like crap.
The doctor is right, I am going to focus on that entirely, objectively that was a monstrous thing to do.
No idea why I focus on the good stuff after experiencing that kind of behavior.
Only up from here!!
Sure did
Damn. Yes. I heard. It's my second time I am going through this. I didn't expect I would have to get hurt again, but here I am. All over again. Crying over a man, who broke up saying he doesn't feel that we have a future anymore, and he can't help it. I will have to pick the pieces of my already broken heart, all over again, and mend it. But I guess that's the beauty of life. It will all be worth in few months or a year. And if I live 70 years, 1 year on a wrong person isn't a lot. Isn't it? It's already been few days, and in few more days, it will be months. And I will again be feeling a lil better about my existence. Till then, we fight.
Hope is the most dangerous thing ever during a break up
indeed....
Cannot agree more. It seems so rational
to have that hope when it is so clear the relationship is done and there is no coming back
Tejus Coulagi so should just give up on ever getting back together with her
@@amincampbell1939 Well, each time it's ended in disaster and furthering the pain. An important thing is to know when to cut your losses and walk away.
Tejus Coulagi but there still sum chance we can get back together I don’t believe she’d just end it like this
“Idealizing your ex instead of focusing on how they were wrong for you. Indulging thoughts and behaviors that still give them a staring role in this next chapter of your life, when they shouldn’t even be an extra”
Writing this so every time someone likes it - it will remind me. Thank you Guy Winch.
You have to work towards your confession my dear friend i can recommend you to a great relationship restorer from the US that can help you manifest your ex back without any delay in less than 24 hours 😊
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Whtz>>app him
Thank you but that relationship was not healthy for me and I do not wish to restore it.
Yup this one really set me straight. The pain in my chest is still heavy. I realize as much I wanted closure he just wasn’t the right man for me.
A doctor once told me
*”Because you didn't want to lose them, you lost yourself in the process. Find yourself again and you will find happiness”*
damn
Such wise words such truthful meaning so well said
you dont need happiness
How can I find myself...
Thank you
I'm here, 6 months later. I didn't think I could ever get to this point again but I have. My heart is healed. I'm never going to take life for granted again. I'm really happy with my life now
I want to feel that😢
@@sushantkhanal2303yeah same man!....it hurts kills....but it need to move on....Just like that....lets hope Together
We can do all things through the lord he who strengthens us🙏🏾 we will heal one day
Want to skip a year
I wish I can heal as fast it’s been 7 months I saw him again and it’s like day 1 all over again I’m so sad
the worst part was, i felt this loss for someone that was never really mine.
Do you mind if we have a chat
@@arnella3087 omg same, I understand you...
Arnella don’t worry about how a real relationship will end. If that happens, you wíll manage just fine. Don’t make the fear of a break up stop you from finding love!
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They never really are ever yours. It was just your turn.
I just want the pain in my chest to go away. This is an update 2 months later and I am so much better.
Viviana Romo, don't worry, I know of a man that will help you get your ex back and heal your pain
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He will help you get your ex and happy again, he get me my ex back last week
Time is the best healer
Romo you will Heal. It will take time. I felt the way you for a long time. 20 years ago. I still Remember her., But I am over her. Just the Memories that I have..
Never believe someone is better than u nothing last for ever
They are the crazy ones don’t mind them
Tell me about it 😒
It really is...
it was probably your fault
Just because they turned cold on you doesn’t mean they don’t feel anything. I turn cold to protect myself.
Watching this again 4 months later after my heartbreak.. I honestly feel way better as compared to before, wayyyy better. Almost fully healed. It just popped up on my feed, and I clicked on it simply for the feeling of nostalgia. A reminder of the lesson I've learnt, and the emotional growth I've experienced.. Ladies and gentlemen believe me you will heal. Just takes time.
I’m in such freakin pain. It didn’t just end. He couldn’t have been meaner and it came from nowhere. I’m determined to do no contact. But I’m shattered and he’s free to be so vicious without consequence
U said time bro that’s all? It hurts a ton rtnw and I keep thinking there’s no one like her. I get sad reminiscing literally all the things he said not to do. How u been now? Btw we jus broke up today.
@@jasonstorey1905 I’ve been no contact and he keeps contacting me. I answer and I don’t get excited. Today he text and I cut him short. So he called and I cut him short. Then he showed up at my work and he can see me get flustered. That’s all he wanted to see and he left. fucking jerk
@@jasonstorey1905 me.. two days ago. it was an affair, she met another guy. didnt want to be the bit on the side anymore, im devastated, cant eat sleep think breath.
One year out everything is the same
To all the heartbroken peeps in the comments, I'm with you, and I love y'all. We gonna get through this 💪🏽
thanks man u too!
👑👑😥thank you and the same to you💆🏽♀️
No we're not we cant
I spent Easter weekend with my girlfriend of 2 years. Things had been going pretty good, she had recently voiced she wasnt thrilled about me being a cop, (I'm a month in the police academy) but Easter weekend was beautiful. We loved on each other and really spent quality time with each other and also got to catch up with each others families. Things were going so good. Even through Sunday night. (She spent the night) the next day she said she wasnt happy any more and didnt want to see me anymore.
@@ibold1000 I'm sorry to hear that :/ thanks for opening up though, it takes courage
As a 23 year old experiencing heart break for the first time, I had no clue how it actually really hurts.
The love specialist can be of great help to you, he offers the best solution in restoring and fixing broken relationship.
Aww I am so sorry! I have had my heart broken twice. It's a horrible horrible feeling. The first took years (we were married) and I am still working through the second. I'm in my early 40's and heart broken twice. I need to be with someone who loves me as much as I love them (or more).
Me to at 20
@@rachellydy3367 this love specialist can help just give it a try
Same here at 23 - been reaching out to my friend group and everybody is saying that everything I'm feeling right now is normal. But damn was I unprepared for the torture and the healing process.
"If you can love the wrong person that much, imagine how much you can love the right one."
The quote is obviously not mine, but it definitely helped me a bit so thought I'd share...
:”) me and my bf recently break up... this made me sad
Then you realize there is no right one
That definitely helps lol. Thank you.
😭💔 thank you
this is so sad :(
I find some comfort knowing people can explain that gut wrenching heart ripping feeling. Eating feels like a challenge, nights are difficult to sleep through and mornings feel like the beginning of battle.
I can so relate. I felt absolutely broken when my ex left. I didn't have healthy ways of processing, I just wanted to numb the pain. I hope you have a good support system.
I feel like I can't make it. Eating,sleeping and going to work and pretending everything is normal is ... I hate the thought of going back home. I dread going to bed every night. I don't have any friends that I am close with and no family. I have to do this solo, in the same house with all the stuff there and no distraction or external support. It's all up to me to make it and I have to make it because otherwise there is no plan B.
@@Suspended24😢 It’s an awful pain, from the inside out. You need to find support, a group online, a counselor (online options), is there an employee assistance plan at your work?
Rearrange furniture, remove photos, bring in a new color.
Try using isochronic tones and binaural beats to help with depressed feelings/anxiety/sadness.
Start watching videos of people who have survived more intense events (helps for perspective). Heartbreak isn’t permanent 🙏🦋
@@Suspended24hey there stranger. i am here, in the same shoes as you. what is helping me is distracting myself and watching TH-cam films about dealing with break up. Weve been 10 years together and he dumped me. It Stings but I Think to myself that IF they arę the one we will eventually either come back . OR IF he is actually not the one then nothing to worry about - means its not making space in our life to welcome someone far greater
"Mornings are the beginning of a battle" - spot on
The fact that this video has 4.9 million views is scary so many hearts broken .
I am here just in case this happens to me which it probably does.
Jolez _ it happens to the best of us my friend .
@@TonyMontana-ne3mw Sad truth :(
but it is also strangely comforting as it reminds us that we are not alone... and all millions of us will be okay eventually :)
Considering the size of our population I'd think that this would have hundreds of millions of views. Everyone goes through this and some people go through it many many times.
the hardest part is realizing that they are strangers to you again.
@@paulharry5589 what's his WhatsApp
Oooof this hit diffrent, so true
@favour Lucky thanks alot for your recommendation my ex is back
Heavy Man, really heavy!🤔
The man of my dreams just proposed to another and it feels as if my heart has been ripped out 💔 💔 😪
For anyone reading this, when your heart breaks and I mean, really breaks, you'll wake up every day for months and they'll be the first thing on your mind. Until one day, they're the second. Then the third. One day, though, you'll wake up and they don't be there at all. Time does make us stronger. I've had my heart splattered on the side of the road, but I know (and you will too) that love is not a finite resource. Look within and there's a wellspring :)
That is very true! After two months of pain and depression, today I caught myself thinking that it's been a couple of hours since I woke up, and he pop up in my mind much later than usual!! that also gave me clarity and understanding that it’s over for real, and it’s time to move on. But of course it will take me more months to completely heal, as I know myself, but I had the time to think about how bad he would make me feel a lot of the times, things I didn’t see or just avoid before because love is blindness ❤
I really needed this♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
thank you for writing this
thank you, going through this right now. I’m scared to go to sleep, it sucks to wake up with my heart pounding and she’s the first thing on my mind, hope this will all go soon, I’ve suffered a lot, may we all find peace.
Same here, Im on month 2 and she is still the first thought in my mind when I wake up.
The pain is unbearable some days like I wonder when is it gonna end, Im starting to realize its gonna be a while until I feel better so Im not comparing to anyones healing journey.
Its more painful couse we are on good terms and she still likes me but doesnt love me, so Im asking myself why so many times and thinking why it was my fault she fell out of love, but now I know those are just intrusive thoughts.
Im giving myself distance from her couse we still want to keep in touch, and the only way to do it in a more healthy way is to first heal.
I only trust time, that this will pass. I really hope it will pass.
You know the comments are actually more comforting than the real videos. This is when your heart breaks the most.
Same hear the comments are healers.
This!❤
someone please take away this pain in my chest. My heart is damaged.
Do you need help?
She can help you too with all your pains!!
January Orcullo I need help
That's my number.
Im so sorry to hear that 😔💔
“Hope can be incredibly destructive when your heart is broken”. Wow.
Unfortunately it is very true.
Nikki M x
so true
6:00
Hope is last to die, but first to kill..
“Getting over a heartbreak is not a journey, it’s a FIGHT” - Thank you for this
True
That makes sense, cause no one ever wants to go through it. But you do have to face it to live.
A fight that I'm about ready to throw in the towel for. The daily pain is just too much for me to bear.
@@wizardofahhhs759 I feel you! I’ve been really going through it, I’m a lover not a fighter
@wizardofahhhs759 how are you feeling now? Sending lots of love and light ❤️🙌
Time is key. Whoever is reading this, I want you to know, that it gets better with time. I am writing this after 4 months and I am doing way better than I was before. You have to keep reminding yourself that you are good enough and gotta let the feelings of inadequacy not get to you.
you're lucky at 4 months! I couldn't feel better for 2 years
It has been 1.5 years, my heart is still broken.
@@sanayalove9194 @anthonychow6061
It scares me reading ur comments. It's been 2 days and it feels like death. idk how I could survive years. I just don't know how
@@yocool9883 I don't even know the exact months, maybe 3 now, I refuse to know the date of the heartbreak/betrayal.. But it does get better. Even though i'm typing this after not eating all day and getting up late and sobbing for half an hour, it still does get better. I am fighting right now, even still, to love and care for myself, hence why i'm on this video. I have a few set backs, I have to still get my stuff from my partner hence why we are in ocassional contact, which sets me back yards. However, there was a point last month where I didn't even think about her for a few days. I had peace. No contact is key, keeping busy and working towards goals, and 100% what he said about filling the voids. Me and her used to love raves, so I've found someone else to go with now. The key is to just keep pushing. I still often feel like I can't even breathe, but just know you're not alone, and keep getting up and trying again. Much love
@@yocool9883 ¿how are you doing now friend?
" A person who values you, wouldn't ever put themselves in a position to lose you."
this is not always true i feel.....
I valued her too much... And she ended things really badly...I don't have any friends or close people left.
@@cognitio278 whatever has happened... don't hold a grudge man....it will just worsen you....i wish that you will get over your tough times
my ex valued me so much that he told me to broke up with him because he knew that i deserve way more. I love him and he loves me but I wont put anyone to change for me. He knows that he is different. He suffers a lot for the fact that he cant give me what I want, and to clearify the things all the things were little things.
That statement is not entirely true
Was i in love with him? or was i in love with the romanticized version of him that had no connection to how he was in real life?
Madi Dork asking myself the same question.
I ask myself this all the time... for 13 years I've asked myself this.....
Most likely the latter. When we're in love with someone our brain creates this glorified image of the other person which often has little reflection on reality. Love is really an affliction of the mind.
I'm asking this myself. And I came to the conclusion that I romanticized everything with him
@@lizzymaria3776 YES! That is exactly how I feel!!
WE ARE GOING TO HEAL
🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Did you?
For sure
U know what Alfred used to say to batman? Neva, hehehe
You are. But not me.
Day 1 of healing from my current heartbreak. This isn’t my first one, or this wasn’t my longest relationship. But this break up really hurt because of it being so abrupt after I thought we were so healthy. I mistakenly thought chemistry= compatibility and here I am. This video helped me get up this morning and be intentional about how I heal this time. Sending love and warm wishes to everyone reading the comments❤
hi! it's been 2 months and im wondering how you are doing with your heartbreak now
in a very similar situation rn
I am feeling exactly the same right now.
How are you doing now?
I see people talking about “the hardest part” well for me the hardest part is knowing there was still work to be done in the relationship but that person just decides to give up on you. You haven’t exhausted all options, and determined that it just isn’t working, but the other person just won’t put in the necessary work to keep the relationship going. It’s left me hurting so much & confused on why it was so hard to love me when all I asked was for the basic necessities of love. Most of us all deserve better, but we just wish that person was the better. Heartbreak fucking sucks
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I know how that feels, my relationship was going great for the most part but she dumped me without warning.
@@averagejoe6031 don't worry ok you will get your ex back to
I’m gonna feel better for 3 minutes after watching this.
lmao
I'm gonna make a list now
SAME
Unfortunately this kind of videos don't help me at all. It's like they make it worse... My salvation is sharing my feelings in the comment section
I totally get it. We only remember the good times and not the bad times. I've made a list but it has pros too because shes not a bad person, just a troubled person. You will find closure ❤
Heart break is truly the worst feeling. I could never wish a heartbreak on anyone.
you never did heroin withdrawal (neither did I)
A shotgun to the chest would tickle me instead of this pain
@Zein Miftah 😂😂
I wouldn’t even wish it on my worst enemy.
@Zein Miftah but without IE there wouldn't be other browsers. So thank you IE
knowing she's probably doing completely fine while i'm breaking apart is the worst. i don't think i ever want to love somebody again
I felt this, like why am I the one always hurting somehow, just makes you feel like "maybe the whole time you thought there was something it was all in your head and they didn't feel any of it," i guess love just ain't for me really. Anyways hope you are well seeing how this is a year back
@@ece-hr5fg I don’t want to either. I just don’t think I have it in me to go through another heartbreak. I really don’t. I don’t even want to take the risk.
@@trixietesfaye4683 it was horrible the way my relationship ended. He confirmed those exact things. I never knew when it changed for him. It hurts so much.
Same here. We dated for 8 months and it felt like heaven on earth for me. Our compatibility was perfect and so I started to take her for granted while I must admit that she actually invested more of her precious time and more heart in our relationship which I didn't return.
When she broke up with me just a few days ago my world broke apart. But now I see the reason why. Once I won her heart I stopped investing my time and ressources into her and didn't make her happy anymore because I felt like we are already married for many years and she would just accept me as I am.
I was so wrong and she broke up with me because she told me that she already dated another guy who made her happy. It hurts but I'm not innocent of this outcome...
@@JackoBanon1 same. That’s the worst part. Looking back and knowing you could’ve done better. You’re not alone , unfortunately ):
What’s weird is that after every relationship, you find someone even better. Everyone passes you a puzzle piece, showing you what you want in a partner / teaching you a lesson. I’ve been even more in love in every next relationship I’ve had, even while during the breakup I thought I was never going to love again.
There’s hope. Your first love isn’t the most important, the last one is. Keep going.
Thank you a lot
Thank you darling. I noticed that before. The thought that each partner was better than the last crossed my mind. 💗
Wow gotta note this
Damn. I've only been in 3 relationships and recently broke up two weeks ago. And this is so true. Recent ex was amazing but she also had red flags everywhere.
@rea33
*I think my lover is going to abandon me*
*I think my business will go wrong*
*I think my friend will gossip about me*
This baseless imagination turns on the switch of your anxiety. In this state, a logical approach is meaningless. If you can't calm down this anxiety, your imagination already becomes a reality. That is why you get anxious and impatient
search youtube "paradox of I can do it"
"Hope is terribly destructive when your heart is broken." This hurts me so much.
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I'm literally heartbroken after a 6 year relationship. She moved on right away and I'm in a literally empty house with a couch and bed. And the lockdown coronavirus makes it almost unbearable....this video helped a little which I'm grateful for.
I feel ya... being stuck inside with nothing to do is making everything so much worse
It feels like a really weird bad dream we can't seem to wake up from. Stay strong.
Same man. Five years and cheated on before replaced. Was way easier to deal with while going out and drinking than while staying in looking at a wall
Same:( Broke up just before the covid lockdown. Saw him out with the girl he cheated on me with, assume they’re lockdowning together. It feels unbearable.
Mate, my girlfriend has just ghosted me: no explanations, no contact - and in the middle of the coronavirus quarantine too. I can't even go out with friends to feel less lonely. Please know that you are not alone. Stay strong mate. We WILL heal 💪
They say heartbreak is like dying but staying alive just to feel the pain
We all had the person who broke our heart in our mind while watching this video.
True
Sad but True but we need to get over it. I lost my identity and I'm trying to find it again.
True
we been knew
Yes
To the people whose broken rn I hope one day you'll be okay and I know someone better is coming for you. You'll comeback stronger than ever before
Thank you sooo so much!
Possibly yes
Possibly no
Thank you for your words.. i had the best girl for me and it didn't worked out.. so no one better is coming for me.. its better for me to shut the doors
@OP: Tell that to all those INCELs out there...
Thank you just getting over 6 year thrown down drian
_"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option"_ ~ Mark Twain
S 0 L 4 C 3 my god this happened to me....
Eva L it's exactly what happened to me, which is why i was so dumbfounded when i first read it. i knew i just had to comment it
I get it. But it’s so much easier said than done...
Damn this hurts now😥
S 0 L 4 C 3 I think this massage for me
This video saved me more times than I care to admit. For anyone going through this today, yesterday, a few months ago. The pain will end. I promise. Keep moving. Even if you have to cry, cry, but keep moving. You're going to be alright.
Why they are still in our memories?
Ah, youtube's been hearing me cry. Thank you for this, government.
For real... I'm here trying to figure out how to survive this heartbreak and this comes up.
@@caroline3206 you've got this. It sucks, but we're in the same boat
Shout out to the boys at the FBI
Exactly😂
I feel you.
Have you ever wanted to cry but no tears came out, so you just stare blankly into space while feeling your heart break into pieces?
Feeling it right fucking now
Yes. I feel your pain . I've been there.
Staring at a blank white wall, staring at a steering wheel of my car after coming home from work. I feel it and no not fun. And some reason you want more than anything for them to call.
This is what I'm feeling right now.
i feel you
1. Accept that the relationship has ended. Don't looking for any explanations.
2. Accept that they are not the right person for you.
3. Focus yourself on your family and friends.
Still doesn’t mean you can’t miss them you can MoveOn but you can still miss them.Why can’t people be friends anymore? I’m friends with most of my ex’sJust the last one I’m not
@@purdusterdoggett3134 yeah, 6 weeks into a breakup right now ( I am the dumpee ), and we both wish to be friends, we just need distance and no contact for now. It can happen! Just needs to be for the right reasons. And right now, I want her back, so being friends at the moment would be unhealthy
@@purdusterdoggett3134 often times its just too hard. Ofc you're gonna miss them. But focussing on that is often extremely painful. That's why its better to focus on yourself, your family, and your friends.
@@quartzar yeah exactly. Sometimes its too hard too early to still be friends
I can’t do that I want her so bad
Loneliness is one of the most dangerous emotions to feel. Your impulsiveness is heightened, and you are more prone to making terrible decisions. You also tend to rationalize other people's bad behaviors because you are so lonely that you're willing to put up with it. I like what this guy is saying about making a list of the negative things your partner has and consistently reminding yourself of them. That's what I've done since my divorce and it's helped.
@@ef366 I went through a breakup a while ago and this was single handedly the reason I never went back. He was toxic. It was a long list lol
@@ef366 going through a breakup right now though. And I loved this guy. I truly did. I still do. I don’t know if anything I can put on the list except that he didn’t love me back. What should I do? I feel so lost and I’m sobbing as I write this. I know he wasn’t perfect but I can’t think of anything bad. I don’t know what to do. I miss him so much.
It's honestly beautiful seeing a comment section filled with the same emotion, just knowing that I'm not the only one whose experienced this
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im heart broken over someone who was never mine.
I know how you feel ❤
Same
Right now
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@@john-ui5ee lucky
Its painful . One day ur loving, sharing thoughts , kisses and hugs ... the v next day total cold and unfeeling. The change is scary and hurtful.
It’s like you’re strangers all over again...it’s the strangest and worst feeling ever. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone 😔
this is exactly what happened to me, it came out of no where and everything changed
This has Gemini written all over it
Kenneth N happened to me yesterday/today I’m devastated
i don’t want to have to give my body and be vulnerable to someone else. i don’t want to have to try again but things will get better. it sucks being told you’re not loved
I have loved 4 times . When my last loved-one dumped me when I needed him most I landed in a psyche ward. Unresolved childhood trauma resurfaced in my grief of losing this man and I ended up on anti-psychotics. Four years on I am strong, resolute and living an independent life...but I still love the very bones of that man and probably always will.
@@johedges5946 thank you for posting this. It helps a little bit to be honest. I’ve loved twice. This breakup is one of them. I’m broken.
I’m fighting to heal and promise myself that I won’t lose my self-esteem for someone who doesn’t value me.
You're beautiful and never forget that. Don't allow someone to take that confidence from you. They didn't want it? Then they can't have it. Just because they broke it off doesn't mean that you have to feel as if there was something about you that they didn't like. It just means that they're giving you the opportunity to find someone who is better suited for you. ♥
Emily Cheng I’m in the same boat love
A little progress each day adds up to big results. Time goes on and so will we
YOU deserve more than the world
Emily Cheng I felt this so hard
"Love is so short, forgetting is so long". Not mine, but Pablo Neruda's words.
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@@proudindian9140 bro why does it matter?
@@proudindian9140 you people sexualize everything.
Don’t make someone a priority that only sees you as an option.
They don’t deserve it. ❤️
👏🎯👏🎯EXACTLY
Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn. Put that on a t-shirt 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
U right Pixie.
Thank you
I need to believe that every guy i love leaves me
Yes
I went through a breakup and a serious depression years ago. I used to watch this video all of the time. Now, after a three year relationship, it’s not looking good. It’s likely over. And again, I am here listening to this. This is most on point video on heartbreak I’ve ever seen. I hope we all find our person at the end.
i am sorry for u
Sadly its unlikely the case that we will find THAT someone.
Have to learn to live independently
Same happened to me during 14 years, but even I achieved relief.
I hope you are doing better today. I'm starting my journey now.
@@jenynz5334 I’m doing better but I’m certainly not a 100% over it. It’s been 5 months and I have good days and bad days. I’ve tried to stay busy - it’s the down time (like today actually) that make me sad and think this whole thing could have been avoided/ or is a nightmare. But I’m starting to accept that if she didn’t want to be with me, I can’t force that. It kills me but I’m starting to value myself. I’m really sorry you’re starting your journey. I hope you can get some benefit from this video or from your friends/family.
Life truly is too short to care about someone that doesn't care about you...
Then there is no point in what so called love....Even they don't care we cares...That is love....
So much easier said than done...
That hurt
You’re right! I feel better
Sara Wilkinson actually not true
If someone breaks up with you, take it as a blessing, a favour done for you, that you are not in a relationship with someone who doesn’t want to be there . That person just saved you years of wasted time . Accept and move on
The Iron Yogi - Experience Yoga ~ True, but that’s so much easier said than done. That’s why we’re all here watching this heartbreak stuff.
David Bowman yes but you have no other option . It has to be done. So you either do it now or later . I’ve seen friends let heartbreak consume them . There are so many other facets of your life to work on and experience and if you don’t have any, now is the perfect time to explore as much as life as possible . You wake up and the world is your oyster. When I see someone so heartbroken over a failed relationship it tells me that they don’t apply enough worth onto themselves . They have made the other person their world and they don’t value themselves enough to know that there can be so much more to their lives .
@@davidbowman10yearsago39 I feel the video i made on dealing with heartbreak might help you in this regard :)
Thanks, I needed to hear that.
Tell us your story.
The saddest part is "the love of your life loses interest and moves on while you are still in love with them and there's nothing you can do...!
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While he's on a journey with his new girlfriend I'm here, still getting through the pain.. it's devastating.. totally got you
@@doroty1299 i know....it really hurts..going through it....!
😔😔😔😔😔😔
Focus on yourself, start exercising, start learning something you wanted to. Now you have so much more time. Accept the pain, don't hold it in yourself, cry if you can, it really helps. Continue working through pain, don't spend your time suffering and doing nothing. Even if your brain is not as focused as it used to be, still persist in your beginnings. You have to become in harmony with youtself to overcome this.
Thank you, we just broke up today . It seems like you went thru it too. I appreciate the words.
@@jasonstorey1905 it gets easier every week
@@HexadecimalDump thank you so much for this. It honestly helps. I want to be in harmony with myself. I feel so broken and shattered right now. I just want everything to be better. I guess I can start by fixing myself even tho that makes me sad to write bc I love him and I miss him and this is horrible.
This man said in 5 minutes what 6 months of therapy couldn't tell me...
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The worst pain I've ever felt, was when I realized how quickly my ex got over our relationship.
How quickly they stopped loving me.
Being left to wonder, if we ever loved each other the same.
I would not wish this pain upon anyone.
You're a guy right?
@@mmmbbop9351 Yeah.
Ur. Not alone 😢 me 😭 💔♒
I can relate to your comment❤️
Yo I was ready to marry this girl. Making plans to go meet with her homophobic family (I was gonna win them over bc I am a legit person) and I knew she was gonna propose.
Less than 12 hours she got drunk (I’m in recovery) and sent me messages that crossed my personal boundaries (for the 4th time and 2nd time in 24hrs) and pretended to be me and cancelled my flight while I was taking a nap.
I said some horrible stuff that I’ve never told anyone in my entire life. I feel bad. I know it’s bc my inner child felt wounded bc I told her and finally admitted to be vulnerable and make a 2 year commitment to her. Yet she wanted to still play high school games. So I reverted back to default mode and was cruel.
Yet I was only pushed to the end after waking up from what I said before AND her saying she was cutting the chord even tho I said the next time we end it, it will be over bc we go back and forth.
I feel bad for what I said. I also feel like I need to respect myself and hold true to my word.
My therapist said this is karma getting me back for all the heartbreak I caused bc this is my first time getting my heartbroken that wasn’t caused by me using and ruining a relationship.
The hardest part isn’t thinking “I’ll never find someone like her again,” it’s “I’ll never find HER again”
anonymous 20002001 I broke up with my girlfriend 5 days ago.
@anonymous 20002001 then you never loved. Lust is always easy to move on from. The loss of love lasts a lifetime
My thinking is:"I'll never find someone."
Its like i dont want anyone else other than her!!!
Non Care thank you
It breaks my heart knowing there are so many beautiful souls are there questioning their worth because someone they loved made them feel unlovable.
😢
Yes mate
Break ups are especially hard when they were your best friend. 😞 I literally have no one to cry to. Hopefully this video helps because I’m tired of feeling this way.
Going through this myself. It fucking sucks
Carolyn Ledesma I hope you feeling much better
Denever Broncos me too. I feel like I can’t catch my breath
@@angelawellborn839 it's been like 7 days and it feels like eternity. she was also my best friend. I dont know if she even cares enough for this to work if she did I feel like she wouldnt have hurt me like this. she has go be hurting tho I feel like the period of being happy that I'm gone has to be hitting her already idk
I actually left once b4 ik about this and when I reached out it worked. But it feels so different this time mainly me being the hurt one now
The feeling of " I'm never gonna connected the same with someone again like that " gets me everytime ..
Text him via WhatsApp
This hurts
I'm also broken hearted by my girlfriend.
So I think I can the chance of healing your heart so you heal mine....
You’re a baddie walk down the street and you’ll find 5 dudes in love with you already, I’ll be lucky if I get 1 in a year, and a lottery winner if I find someone that stays in love after a week.
That is My biggest fear….. and it’s comming tru
never give someone hope after a break up. It sets someone back so much more than a clean break.
True
He said me he loves me but doesn't want a relationship anymore. He can't prioritise me now so broke up with me. Yet he texts me everyday as if everything were like before and we were together. I feel so lost sometimes, it's really difficult...
@@BluesofButterfly he broke your trust. You need to allow time for you guys to build trust up again
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She had recently ended things because she didn’t know what she wanted anymore and didn’t want to keep on leading me on cause it would only hurt me more. I recently had asked her if there is an opportunity for us still and she responded with “There is but not now”. Her past relationship had really affected her but our relationship was completely different to her her past one. We didn’t end with hate towards eachother but at times I really get my hopes that she’ll come back. She said there’s still love but I don’t know what I should think or feel.
If someone could invent a pill that makes you immune to being heartbroken, being broken up with, taken advantage of or forgotten, I'd take it in a heartbeat.
Struggling massively with heart break right now, I feel you!
Same here too!! And the painful part is suffering for something you didn’t do. All I ever did was to love her. It’s well ooo
There is something it’s called apathy you never care or trust anyone then you won’t get hurt. Guess what? It worse than heart break it’s a life of dull lonely emptiness.
Heartbreak is part of love
@@Duck72432 it's dull lonely and empty even with the ability to feel and having genuine intentions I'd rather have a medicine and become numb to sadness and happiness by losing the ability to feel anything at all, being a guy and honestly loving someone is a losing game
@@suez3017 you can fill your life with love without romance
It’s so heartbreaking when the person you love doesn’t love you
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I don't love him anymore, I don't want him anymore, it's just the hurt still there. I can't explain.
Love is the result of investment, you probably invest so much for him
Completely understand how you feel! I felt horrible and was in denial when my ex decided to walk away after 5 years. I knew it was falling apart, but I tried everything under the sky to make it work. It took time to recover, but you become stronger and much happier without them. Just believe and tell yourself that you deserve someone who loves you.
Caren R Sabatina I understand more than you know. Xx
I 💯 feel you. Im trying to find an explanation right now no bullshit
I feel like that. I have been used , abused and betrayed. Still therez a part of me that needs to hear her voice and see her beautiful green eyes. Its like i need poison.
My heart is broken , but i dont have anyone that i can talk about ir with.
Didn't think I'd need to look up sites and videos on how to get over someone
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Same
same here its killing me
Yeah 😂
This was bookmarked in my PC months ago when I was left by my boyfriend. We got back together and I thought I had no need for this. Months after, he left me and here I am again watching this. Heart break always feels like a new experience. I am just so tired of pain at this moment.
🙏
it’s the same feeling as if someone died
Natalee Denlinger they say worse
Grieve the loss of a person who is still alive
Yes I list my girlfriend my first love when i was 16 now I'm loosing the person I love again and it's very similar
Worse. When someone dies they’re gone for good. When you get dumped. They’re still out there and your mind goes crazy thinking of all the possible things you could’ve done differently. It’s the worse pain I’ve ever felt.
@@johnq7505 so true
The hardest part is letting go!! It’s like you have a flashback of every beautiful memories we have done
It literally can't let go, even after seeing her profile pic with new guy lol fml
KingJugganaut19 thank you so much❤️
yeah tbh. It hurts... you know you moved on but seeing the other person with someone else after all that happened still has a control over you.. in time it will be all well.
@@adamfarah2065 thanks man 😃
I am very happy to Femi for helping me get my ex lover back and this make me very excited that i came online here to post about his work I make a promise to him that if he got my ex lover to me in 24 hours, i will make a great testimony and bring many people who needs help. His spiritual temple is in Africa and he has been in this work and helped so many people. He is a great spell caster and can help you no matter where you are. My lover is now back with me and this spell caster brought my lover back to me in 24 hours, someone who left me for years contact Dr Femi today and get your problem solved email him on
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To whoever is reading this, I know it hurts. I know you lay in bed and wonder where it went wrong. Wondering why this keeps happening to you. And then you think about their face and how it no longer smiles for you..i’m so sorry. But, it will get better. It always does. If they decided to let you go, let them. You deserve better than that honey. They’re not worth your happiness.. You’re so strong, remember that.
Edit: i know how you guys feel and i understand. i was in such a dark place a few months ago when my bf broke up with me. i laid in the floor and cried for hours and didn’t eat anything. it took so much energy just to get out of bed. now, as i’m typing this, i am so happy and single and in a better place. i thank god every day for taking those stressful times out of my life. it will ALL get better with time. soon you will be able to look at them and feel no sadness. i promise ❤️
Thank you for this, you are spot on
This was my first relationship and I am so scared that it will be my last. I just want to run back to him but I know I can't. All I can think about is him and I just remember everything we did. I don't know what to do
Thanku ur words are so nice
Wow... doing that right now actually. Thank you.
😭 reading this as you cry... made me cry even more.. trying here
23 years old and laying in bed after 7 beers with work in 5 hours. Only a month has passed since my third and most brutal heartbreak because I thought she was the one, but this video really put things in different perspectives for me. For those that seem like your life is empty without your former significant other, leaning on your friends/family or trying new hobbies is what’s making my break up a little bit more bearable. The gym, fishing, going out more with coworkers and then my friends on the weekend. I’m not perfect and I’m still deeply hurt, but I can type this paragraph perfectly after 7 beers and I can say that I will recover and find someone new who loves me for the way I deserve and for me to love in return. Don’t give up and let’s all keep fighting!
How do you feel now it's been almost 2 weeks, hope you feel better
Hope you feel better, these activities and the drinking may lower your pain for the moment, but the problem will just strech out. Like he said, fight the heartbreak!
Are you a pilot?
Slow your roll start working out start now or you’ll regret it when you finally start getting the results you want
Drink liquor it’s faster lmao jk
The toughest part of letting go is realizing the other person already did and the saddest part of is saying goodbye to someone you wish to spend your lifetime with. Heartbreak can strike at any age and like Guy said, it can happen to anybody. If you're going through it just know that you are not alone and it WILL get better. Do something for YOURSELF, take your time, work on YOU and involve actively healing things as much as possible. We got this Kings & Queens, never lose your faith and trust fate.
I’m going through a tough time, I needed to hear this!
I know a powerful man that can help you to bring back your ex love back to you without delay,he was the one that helps me to bring back my ex love back to me within 3 days
Like you said my brother is head to say goodbye to someone you wish to spend your life with
@@ivynguyen8583 please take care of yourself. We get into a relationship to be happier in the first place. If that is not being catered due to any reason better to switch back to self-care/self-love mode.
@@ivynguyen8583 how about a professional?
"So if you know someone who is heartbroken, have compassion"
Rightly pointed! Such an important aspect of going through heartbreak. We are the chosen ones who are woke emotionally. So much more important is to make sure that if you've ever been heartbroken then not to take it out on your next emotional connection. Be compassionate. Just got heartbroken and deceived myself by this girl who took it to having me meet her parents and ask her hand only to completely back off last min. We had talked about our past heartbreaks and I thought she would be compassionate after going through it. Apparently, she just used me to get over her last ex. I had stayed away from relationships for the last 3 years to completely recover myself from my last.. only to fall into her trap. But I will not turn toxic. I will still open my arms and heart for the right person. I will not carry her baggage and break someone else's heart to fix mine.
Raise your hand, if you watch this crying, surrounded by tons of tissues!
Am surrounded by tons of drugs but crying is what we have in common
Even as a kid I haven't cried as much as I did when she broke up with me...
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Literally same
I hope you got well, sweetheart
A year ago i broke up with my ex and i came across this video and i saved the video thinking i would be back after i heal my broken heart. I remember watching this video with a sour and muded head. Just wanted to remind anyone going through breakups, worry not and give it some times. The pain will go away and you'll look back and think of those silly moments. Cheers!
thank you for this 😢
It's crazy how when you see other people going through a break up you look at them and jokingly say *"Ha scrub just move on"* but then when you go through it you think *"So this is how it feels."*
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He can be of great help to you
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What a great talk. Thank you.
“The root of suffering is attachment. Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional.”
Wow. Thank you. I felt an anvil left off my shoulders.
But how do you let yourself fall in love without attachment? I've been in relationships when I've realised I'm not in love and not going to be. I felt it's my obligation to end them because I felt it's unfair to the other person who has feelings I will never have.
And when I've been in love, and it's always a risk that, my feelings might outlast theirs. To be in love but indifferent. Sounds like the ideal, but it also sounds impossible.
Maybe it really is because of that attachment.
First breakup and it feels like I'm about to die. But everything on the comments is true: if they cherished, valued or loved you more, you both could have worked things out. Even though hope is the worst for this kind of situations, maybe they will understand things and be ready to try again someday. But don't hold onto that: learn to truly, madly, deeply love yourself until you sincerely realize you are happy on your own.
This too shall pass, I promise.
Move on! Be strong, it will pass. Until, take care of U!
Trust me, it will pass.
LE. Still hooked on some pain, sorrow and useless thoughts abt. breakup but better none the less. So, keep moving forward!
Im going through my second heartbreak.
I cant love myself im disgusting
@@splitaone7794 No, U are not! I'm positive abt. that.
Someday U"ll love yourself again and take care of U as it should.
Phantom Alma me too. First boyfriend and first break up. And yes it’s true, I wish I loved myself more instead of depending on him. I wish I knew better because I gave him so much love, when I didn’t receive the same love. But I’m young. Life moves on, and I’ll move on.
5 months on and it’s still as fresh as day 1. I really loved her.
Well that’s not reassuring. No way I can handle it
@@Leaveitalone1382 I went on holiday, made some new friends, went on some dates. It gets better my brother. Sending you love.
@@estellaa4672 as above my man✨
Man lolll im scared on day 2 now after reading this, but we all heal at different paces. Hope you are all better.
@@layoramirez4993 Monday I had a good day. Thought I was finally on the right track. Right back to wallowing in pain today. it’s been 2 months and I’m really sick and tired of being sick and tired. But I guess one good day is better than none.
I see a lot of people saying that the saddest part is when the other person gives you hope
For me tho, the saddest part is when I give myself hope, even tho the other person has not nor ever done anything that should give me hope... and now I’m just trapping myself in this delusion that just maybe... he “loves me”...
exactly, never give yourself hope, it killed me every single day. until i had to cut him out completely and find out that he doesn't care about me at all and has moved on. there is no hope when you know that he has moved on and doesn't care anymore
potatohacker I want to confess to my crush, because Ik he doesn’t like me, but I NEED to confess to him so I can hear him say it, & then maybe I’ll finally face reality...
@@EmiDucky I confessed yesterday, I knew for sure he will reject me, but I still confessed and it did happen. But you know what, the good thing is this confession helps with the process of moving on. I still cried, but this time, something's different, I try to find myself once again.
Jess A.R.M.Y awe stay strong ❤️
True. The fact I know it's all my fault for getting my hopes up makes me hate it even more
“Once someone's hurt you, it's harder to relax around them, harder to think of them as safe to love. But it doesn't stop you from wanting them.”
― Holly Black, White Cat
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The worst part is how badly I wanted to stay and how much I wanted it to work, but he gave me no reason to.
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Same. Felt like I did everything I could to make the relationship works but it got to a point where he stopped caring even though sometimes he told me he did care but didn’t show it. I had to leave 😭
My partner of 5 years broke up last week and I thought she was the one. We disconnected over the last few months and she ended up cheating on me. What he just said resonates so much with me. I'm feeling heartbreak in all its forms right now. I can't even remember who I am. But I'm going to start filling these holes left, pick myself up and move forward.
Be strong bro. Same situation right now.
Same situation, we had problems and she did things I forgave her for but this time we ended because I hurt her. Last few months I felt her getting distant and constantly asked for more effort, it never really showed up. We were together 5 years and I’m on day 5 of the break up with it being day 3 of no contact. I struggle to see the light, but I’m slowly finding it easier to fill that void as the days go. Good luck to you, you owe it to yourself to be the best you can be for yourself and one day you will be able to share that with the right person.
It is still fresh so don’t beat yourself up about how you are feeling. Let yourself grieve and cry if you need too. My partner of four years and the mother of my two year old daughter left me four months ago and is now living with this new guy . She is taking our daughter out with him for the first time tomorrow. That hurts me more than anything. It does get easier over time though I promise.
How are u feeling now brother man. Any progress
Each day I wake up with tears and begin the countdown to when night falls and the silent loneliness comes. That the worst part for me.
same. I'm with you brother
Guys I made it thru the worst parts. I just want to say “time doesn’t heal” it’s just a measurement - it’s what YOU DO in that time that matters. Spend it investing in yourself and learn ways to expand your heart to contain all the love and emotions you have now. It does get better, I am proof!
It will get better man. I’m going through that rn too but there’s still a little bit of hope left in me that it won’t be like this for much longer.
I feel that.
I will offer no platitudes. I don't think my situation can improve, unfortunately.
Hey, buddy! You know what? It's been over a year that my ex broke up with me. I was almost certain that I had finally overcome him, and my love for him. I actually thought, a year is enough to forget someone.
I saw his picture again today. And I bawled my eyes out. Yet again.
And it is the happy memories with them that are dangerous and terrible, and not the sad ones, the ones that show us the very reason the break up happened. I remember how he was grocery shopping with his roommates one day, being all funny and crazy and video calling me at the same time, notwithstanding what the world thought of him, because back then, apparently, I mattered more. He talked of marriage and children and a future together. He called me "My girl."
The memories I had with him were the most magical and overwhelming I ever had. But he broke up, in some months. Reason? He still missed his ex. :)
Waking up with the memories is the worst, I agree with you so completely in that.
But there's much MUCH more to us than what hurt us, right? Hold on to that! As I'm hoping to do the same.
Its so refreshing to see a comment section filled with so much positivity and people trying to support others. Sharing advice and experiences. This is dope
here is my list :
he wasnt there for me
he left me confused many times
he dissapointed me
he would be constantly unsure about our relationship
he was brutally honest and insensitive to my feelings
he would shut me out constantly
he didnt understand my problems
he wasn't willing to change his problematic attitude toward me and others
i wasnt his priority..
thank you for reminding me
Good for you love thinking of you
I feel you I’m crying now too
I need social support
These are the exact reasons my relationship didn’t work out either
Oh my god, my gf did all of these things too😭😭😭😭
YOU DESERVE BETTER
He is speaking as if he invented heartbreak, so insightful. I feel so uplifted.
It’s been over a month, but I still think about him everyday. I’m not crying anymore and I can definitely still live my life to the fullest but I can’t help but feel incredibly sad at late hours of the night. It sucks but I hope everyone can get through it!
Update: I completely forgot I made this comment, but I wanted to give a brief update. Time does fix things. I thought about him everyday, for around 7 months straight but one day, I literally stopped caring. It was the strangest thing ever but I am thankful it happened. I hope everyone can heal from whatever heart break they are going through and just know you deserve someone who will actually cherish you!
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Hello dear I know of a powerful man who can make your ex to come back to you begging you for a second chance.
He helped me to get back with my ex and we are living happily together so far.
"Noone breaks our hearts, they break our expectations; and by doing so they bring us closer to our hearts." - Kyle Cease
That’s beautiful... And closer to God, I will add 🖤
Very true
My heart never been broken by “a girl”. Only family members or friends been able to...but I’m forgiving
Wow.
the worst thing of my heart broken is to see the person who broke it everyday and try to get over
Clara, I am going through the same thing... it's beyond uncomfortable, I know. I just limit myself to "Hello" and that's it. He's getting married to someone else and there's nothing I can do but lock myself in my office or in the bathroom and cry in order to relieve the pressure.
I'm in the same exact situation as well and it feels so bad, but I promised myself I'll improve and be strong enough to overcome this for myself not for him,, and sooner or later I'll feel I was the winner of that break up!
I still live with her, and fucking hurts everytime she leaves cuz I know where she is going, too see him. The pain is sometimes unbareable
I can imagine what it like but keep doing good for yourself and don't let no one take your joy nomore
@@jayk7395 I understand you, Jay... makes you wonder what was the point in everything you've done for the relationship... I've come to the conclusion that you've never needed that woman to validate you. You are your own person and if she doesn't see that, well, her loss.
An old song from the 1960's helped me through my broken heart and I hummed the lyrics in my head for two full years. "Got along without you before I met you, gonna get along without you now". Those words will help anyone going through a loss of love. And it does get better with time. Honest.
Please take this man's advice. My high school girlfriend who I was head-over-heels in love with broke up with me seven years ago, and I'm still feeling the effects to this day even after other relationships, because I had such a hard time letting go and, perhaps most importantly, killing the hope that we would get back together. A huge mistake was reconnecting with her and talking with her for another two years three years after we had already broken up; it allowed all of those feelings that had been dormant to rush back in again for nothing. She found someone else and is now engaged.
The most valuable piece of advice I can offer you is this: if you go through a breakup with someone that you were really in love with, sever the tie right then and there. Do NOT "just be friends." There is no going back. The best you can do is move forward and follow the advice that Dr. Winch lays out so eloquently for you in this video.
Learn from my mistake. Learn to find happiness from within rather than relying on someone else for it.
So did you find happiness from within? How did you do it? What finally helped you out?
@@deformercr6680 I'm still fighting that battle every day. Hobbies are huge. Distractions when you're feeling down. I hashed it out with one of my best friends, which helped. But I wouldn't talk about it with too many people. Only those who you think can really help you along. Exercising I'm finding helpful, as well.
Essentially, probably the best advice would be to do whatever makes you feel best about yourself.
@@burnout713 stay strong homie. Feel your pain. Keep your head up.
@@ernestovasquez4295 Thank you, my brother. I'm doing very well, all things considered. Keeping those positive thoughts and channeling sadness into productivity and creativity.
@@burnout713 we will get through it homie. Pain and suffering is what makes the mind strong.
Watch David Groggins videos man.
Dude is a beast.
Remember this quote brother. Peace out homie.
"Happiness is beneficial for the body, but it is grief that develops the powers of the mind."--Marcel Proust
As someone who is going through heartbreak right now, thank you.
How is your heart doing now?
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Me too girl. Me too 💔
Yes, Thankyou so much
WhatzppTex† him on What'sapp
The recovery from a broken heart is worse than heroin withdrawl. I don't wish a broken heart on anyone ever.
Herb Tenderson yes, my heart hurts right now and i can't sleep or eat and it sucks
jack Lim me to man. I feel you. We will get through it though day by day.
When u dream about them is Rough also
jack Lim exactly what I’m going through right now
I had a bad breakup in 2012 with a woman and did all the wrong things and went a bit insane with despair, although its a bit amateur i made something about it, i hoped other guys wouldnt make the mistakes i made. If anyone wants to see it after then just type in the following title in to the search bar above........Some blokes guide to relationship breakups
Letting go is the hardest part if you truly valued an loved the person.
Our minds are so dangerous after a breakup. I have bought some mindfulness books and really trying hard but it’s still really painful 🙏 We have to meet things head on and be strong. Peace and love to everyone who are finding things hard. You will get there!!
To anybody struggling with a recently ended relationship:
If that person didn't want to be with you, they aren't the one for you. It is so hard to get over that person but you are better off without them.
My wife just left me with no explanation
ah... sorry to hear that man... i feel you..
This is the best advice.. many thanks to you..
Chadd Griest hi chadd. So did mine about 10 years ago. I was close to dying to say the least as it became the trigger for my depression. What helped me then was this simple idea: "Be the better person for my daughter". Today, i have full custody of daughter. She wants to become a lawyer so she can sue people who leaves for the wrong reasons lol
What if they were taken away from you?
And what I've learned, truth is, so many people are in love but not together, and there's many people that are together but not in love.
jinsoul's blonde hair is my life this is so true wow lol
Ik that's Really sad tbh..
Like your mum and dad
jinsoul's blonde hair is my life very profound
My girlfriend of almost 8 years left me today , i am hurting tremendously at this moment . Last time i had a major break up i was sad for more than 2 years and I feel this time is even worse than that .. I do find a little confort knowing i am not alone with this pain and have hope for the future. God bless everyone!!
Just got through the same, I feel your pain, stay strong Jose you are not alone. It's all gonna get better 🙏
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@@robynredman88 i feel your pain , i feel the same way at this moment, and its been really hard . I cant eat i cant sleep , im not interested in anything.. but i do understand that for my situation to get better i should help myself instead of over thinking the situation. It helps to talk to ppl who you know love you and care about you. Stay strong, my best wishes go out to you 🙏
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