I think the key is actually understanding that breakups hurt, understanding that it's normal, and it's ok. I'm 4 months after the biggest heartbreake of my life, and a lot of the problem was about me wanting to prove some point, to be 'better' or 'stronger', everyone was telling me to forget, to cut off the past. But I'm still thinking about that person every day, it still hurts, but a lot less. I'm finding out there's hope, I can be happy, even by myself. It's okey to miss someone, to think about them, it's okey to go through photos and think of nice moments, as long as you understand, and truly belive, that it's going to be all right. It will hurt, but time really fixes a lot, just be patient.
'You deserve better' is such a hurting statement really. It makes us question our own decisions and makes us feel that we might never be able to know who's the right person for us! I loved this video so much. Every sentence you said is so meaningful and comforting to hear. Please make more conversation videos! You're such a great conversationalist!❤️
I also don't understand the statement - Somebody told me about a girl I lost but still love (and that's why I couldn't accept her friend offer) that I could do better than her. She was a great person and I don't know what they mean by better - Better looking? money? person? There are many women out there but there will only be one of her. I may end up dating somebody different, but they won't be better - Just a new person and experience.
I don’t know if you still read these. But thank you. I’m going through a breakup, second day in, and man it hurts. This video stopped the crying. And i didn’t feel so alone for a moment. Thank you, for putting this into the world for those of us who need it, to find and draw comfort from.
all of these are so complicated, you know, anything isn't so easy as it seems to some ppl . but what seems like a problem to me is probably getting back together to someone ... i mean it can't work anymore and those who say spanish fly is enough they're not right, it's just for healthy relationships!
What stood out to me was, that you said you don't tell people before you went on like your fifth date... I really could resonate with that because before I dated my boyfriend I went through a very hard break up. He was the first guy I really dated and I dind't tell anybody at first … I just wanted to have those moments for myself before sharing & then loosing it all again. Thanks Joey, I think we all needed to have this conversation. ❤️
before -know what you like, where your boundaries are, who you are -find your best friend with no expectations of romance -dont hold high expectations, everyone is their own person -remove the importance of having your world revolve around someone else -it's about sharing moments with that special someone over the course of a life not viewing them as your life relationships -dont lose yourself in someone else, coexist with someone -dont change who you are to fit with someone else, they're probably not the person for you -don't give so much of yourself to taking care of someone else that you lose sight of who you are -"that person fell in love with you for who you are, and when you stop being you, they go looking for someone else" -"theyre not trying to fall in love with themselves because they can't handle themselves" after -remembering someone is a beautiful thing -no use in hating someone you share so many memories with
I agree.. It took me a long time after a break to realize I needed to live for myself. I watch friends date person after person. They do not take time to find themselves.
What if the heartbreak was so intense, more so then you ever experienced before and you no longer believe that there is someone else out there for you? That you can’t even see yourself on a date with someone as you no longer believe in the concept of love in the way you once did.
in this video about love and relationships i'm the "lonely hoodie" and that's kinda sad sometimes. i used to worry a lot about being alone and not having a partner like everybody else, but now i know that i don't want just to have a boyfriend and i don't want a relationship in case of just having a relationship. i really want to find a best friend and love all in one, to be the real me with a person without trying to impress them every time, to understand that they make my life so much better but i also can be happy without them cause i'm my own person at the end of the day. thank you so much for this honest and deep talk, Joey. that was amazing! lots of love
@@jienchess9770 thank you!! it's just my thoughts but it's really nice to know some people find it relatable or just...cool idk. joey's vids always make me think about my life in different perspectives so i share it here;)
the advice that i'd probly give someone going through a breakup is to try to look for the good in the now, take care of themselves and to stop looking for advice in others (as contradicting as that is to this). any of your friends could tell you that you'll be okay and that it just takes time, but it means nothing until you realize that yourself. there's going to be days were you feel like absolute garbage, and then there'll be days when you think; shit, i'm okay. if you're a friend of the person going through the breakup i'd just be there for them, check on them, remind them of the people they still have and the good in life, and be there for when they need either someone to talk to, or jusr a good distraction. this comment might not make much sense but i'd still like to put it out there.
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thanks man im just really wondering about whether if/when i love again,if i would really love that person just as much or more than i loved my ex its destroying me,loving and caring for someone never felt better
I've just had a break up & got this feeling of afraid to start over with someone new. I'm feeling so lonely sometimes while my friends are busy with their own relationship & stuffs, especially when I'm off work. Thank you for the words, it's so calming.
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
I just had to walk away from a 4yr relationship this past Sunday. It was long over due but yet so difficult to do. Sunday I felt relief and then just normal. But Monday and today, a complete mess. My issue was feeding into a false potential and not knowing when to let go. I also lived for this person, you actually just made me realize that, although I feel like it’s something I’ve known deep down. Time to heal, grow, and reinvent. I hope I cry less tomorrow haha 🙃
So I don’t know about everyone else but I struggle when the word love is brought up. Love to me is something sacred, important, reserved for a person who you’d tell anything to, do anything with, etc. But my thing is every relationship I’ve been in whenever the guy has said “I love you” it doesn’t feel right. In one it felt manipulative, the other it felt too fast, and the last when he said it ik I didn’t feel the same. Now, because of my experiences, and stuff I feel like I just don’t even like the word anymore. I use it with family but when it comes from anyone else the little voice in my head is questioning the motive behind them telling me they love me. Which maybe that’s fine. To take a moment to really think why they say I love you but idk ig I’m wondering how you guys feel about the topic and the word “love”?
Yeah, I've never experienced a relationship where we both felt the same amount of love. At this point I doubt it's even possible. I never felt like anyone truly loved me. I'd move mointains when I'm in love. Nobody ever did that for me. Not even in my family, just no one. It's miserable.
I love the word and cant really relate. I love my best friend and have loved, still love a lot of people. I guess some people give love easier, the expectations might aldo be different. I never expect somebody I love to totally change my world and complete me and my life or whatever. Maybe I have low expectations for human connection and love as I never got thos from my family. People are different, I guess.
Thank you Joey. Just found you in the middle of a breakup. About 2 months down, and still feeling lost. I miss "my" person, but she didn't choose me back. I tried so hard that I lost myself. There is so much to learn. I love your videos
My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back,
Joey's videos always make me feel better and I'm so glad he is so open with us. He makes me realize that it's okay to have emotions and how to love life even when it's not going how I planned. Thank you so much Joey, for being the person you are
that video is the best one about dating i've ever seen in my life!! there are a lot on youtube but none of them are sooo deep. it was such a great personal chat, like a friend giving you an advice. thanks so much for this, joey!
I’m glad I’ve reached a point in my life where I’m living for myself and not basing it off of other people’s opinions. It’s hard to not be influenced by what others are doing but they could be more ready than I am or have different view points in what they want in a relationship.
You and your breakup story remind me a lot of myself and my past relationship. I was in a relationship for 7 years and thought it was so romantic that I was living my life for her Instead of living my life for myself. Instead of really imagining her doing things with me that I wanted. Your comment about that and it being depressing really hit hard and I definitely see what you mean. Definitely saves a lot of pain in the long run!
I just got out of a 7 year relationship 3 months ago . I felt everything you said exactly man . Been blaming myself and hoping she would come back but now I lost hope in that. I Hope you over came it . This girl was my life 24/7 we would sleep together every night. Hang out everyday . I loved her. not having someone who you thought was gonna be in your life forever hurts .
i really needed this video. you basically put into a 14 minute video what ran through my mind the last couple months. i just got out of a relationship of nearly 6 years and was so lost with myself because i was invested on living and changing for the other person. and when i lost her thats when i lost my direction in life. i was blessed to have my friend group because they aren't like other friends. they tell me what i need to know and not what i want to hear. they put me on a direction for self growth instead of selfishly trying to replace the missing void. ngl i have fun talking and meeting other girls but i know that i still have more to invest in myself first before i can coexist with someone else again. i know that if i just hop into a relationship without taking my time then someone gets hurt and i repeat the cycle. its all in the process of growing i guess. either way, this video is exactly what i was scared to accept about my relationship and myself and it really helped with my healing process.
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Your message about living for the other person hit home. Made me think about my past relationships and whether or not I did that. Made me ask if I became another version of the person I was with or if I stayed myself.
I really needed that right now. I have been struggling with a break up for 20 months now. I know that I have to let go but I can't. Please keep your channel going the way it is now! It is super pleasant to listen to you so
This is meaningful. It's been almost two months ever since my first girlfriend broke up with me and, it reset me to fabric mode. We study at the same boarding and that doesn't make it easier. We are close to graduating and start new lives in less then a month and, I still miss her even though I see her daily. But indeed, I was living for her rather than living for me. I became too dependent, more than what she ever felt with me. I don't feel anything whatsoever now, I spend my time mostly studying for finals. I am 19, and, sure, there is plenty of life ahead. Just feels like the closest person in the world became a stranger from one day to another. Let's see what the future awaits. Maybe it was destiny, but feels like perfect timing for this video to be upload and me seeing it today.
@@surbhisharma8674 It's crazy to look back at this, I even forgot that I wrote it in the first place. As an update, I have done plenty of progress ever since. I have became someone with whom I am feeling happier to be as rather than the person who wrote this a year ago. I have decided to pursue my dreams and that makes me proud of myself. I have taken decisions that at first I thought were "childish", such as erasing her from my social media. However, once I did it, I finally felt that I was able to breath without complications. At the end of the day, you must do what feels right to you. I no longer talk to her and that is alright. You aren't forced to be friends with your ex after a breakup. Sometimes I remember her. It's inevitable, she was my first girlfriend. However, I remember the experience from the good moments, at least there were some good memories. I switched my mindset from "Without you I couldn't live" to "Without you I could live great as well" and from "Let it be for forever" to "It will last as long as it takes". My apologies if I went too long with the answer. Nevertheless, change is the only constant. Sometimes you do it alone and sometimes next to someone else. @Surbhi, thanks for the follow-up. It was a nice feeling to realize about the long distance I have walked since the beginning of this journey. I wish you the best if you are undergoing something similar. Time is always the best ally and the best healer. And hey, if you need someone to talk to, I am here...Life is a bitch but that doesn't mean you are gonna let it make you its bitch.
@@caec8655 I have been on this journey quite a few times ..but it's so hard each time.. I'm so happy to see your progress 😍..I would love to talk to you..can we connect on telegram coz I don't have insta 😅
Very insightful! I'm currently experiencing a loved one jumping into a relationship with the wrong person, they've changed themselves dramatically almost overnight it seems. It's hard to watch, I've tried voicing concerns but it's somewhat of a lost cause. I feel I may lose this person over this, but I have to accept that it's beyond my control and prioritize my inner peace. Modern dating culture has a very selfish tone. Far too many people are seeking attention, validation, an ego boost, etc. at the expense of others' feelings. I wish we would all be more mindful and date with clear intentions 😊
i just broke up with my fiancé. it was strange. i felt it was necessary because i’m not ready for marriage, i have a lot of love to grow into, for myself and for others. it’s strange because we were best friends but it seemed like something was off the whole time, i still don’t know what. but i pray for her whenever i think of her, and i hope she succeeds. i really love her, i just don’t know if she was for me
Just discovered your videos which I found really comforting. The thing you’ve said in this one about “living life 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 them, not 𝘧𝘰𝘳 them” kind of hit me. I still need to process a lot of things as I’m going through what feels like a breakup, but thank you for conveying so much kindness 🙏🏼
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I really needed this, I’ve had such a shitty experiences with dating recently, every single guy has ghosted me, or put everything on me. I deleted dating apps for a few months to give myself a break from them. Now there’s a guy I like but because of all the bad experiences it make me scared to message him. I just wish I could trust them
If he hasn't given you a reason to not trust him then why not give him the benefit of the doubt, though keep in mind that if he also hasn't given you a reason to trust him you should'nt serve your heart and soul to him on a silver platter. Find that balance. You like him, so tell him, just do it when your ready for everything that follows. Whether that's a new relationship or a rejection. Either way, you've got this! Everything happens for a reason, you could be potentially entering a new chapter in your life. You'll gain new experiences, and grow as a person, and get to know yourself that much more. So whatever happens, don't forget that you can find the beauty in it all. Good luck hun, I'm sending many blessings your way❤
change your way of thinking and look at things..... because of your shitty experience of dating and you're scared you'll attract the same people again.., eventually you'll end up attracting the same people because you still have the same idea and mindset and still vibrating in the same frequency as them and that's the truth. there is one video i watched recently of finding the lover of your life.. you just have to write down what type of man/woman you want in your life and start living with him/her as your imaginary friend and imagine how you would like to be with him and all the things you wanna do together. i promise you.., your dating game will change
@@DeogratiusJrMichael do you mean visualize yourself with your ideal significant other? Or something else? Would love for you to elaborate or refer the video bc I’m intrigued. 😳.
Thanks Joey, you're right. I fell for a girl because of her rich interesting world but I didn't offer much of my world in return. Now I have the time to build my world
Just got out of a 2 year relationship, and I have been feeling devastated for about 4 months now and your video really helped me a lot. Our relationship went horribly nearing the end of it because she wanted a lot of attention and so she wanted to devote too much of herself to me too early when we're still too busy with our daily life and job. I couldn't handle her overwhelming love as I was too busy but I still loved her. I'm heartbroken because she found someone new after just 4 months of breaking up but it's fine, I've got to learn to love myself first and figure out who I am first instead of putting all my feelings for my partner.
My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back,
I've watched your videos from the first moments of my breakup leading up to a week or two later and soon to be more in the future. Even if I understand it the first time I re-watch anyway since I hit bargaining stage in my grief multiple times so it's easy for me to second guess my choices moving forward. However, hearing you explain logically and calmly helps out. Thank you for being a part of my journey of recovery
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Thank you! 🙏 Ive been through a breakup this winter. We met when were around 18, now beginning of our 30's. So much change during those years! So I think its hard for me to remember who I am deep down without the relationship. It will be a big self discovery journey!
I’m going through my first breakup with someone who I considered my person and the father of my daughter… it’s hard seeing her do her firsts and not have him here to see it too:(
I didn't had a breakup yet, but the things you talk about are exactly what I see, when breakups und dating again happens surroundings. They don't take their time after the breakup and define their life through relationships with their significant others - its so sad to watch.
litteraly crying dude... your hard breakup is exactly what i have experienced. Broke up 3 Days ago and currently trying to find myselfe againg. Thanks for helping me out. Means a lot man💗
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Don't worry anymore Sweetheart , I will introduce you to The greatest relationship Restorer that helped me get my ex back in less 48 hours... He will help you okay
man best channel ever i really needed this channel it truly feels like im sitting there next to him sipping the exact same coffee he is sipping without having that shyness that im broken after a breakup this channel really did help me so many times sho
So inspiring and just lovely to hear someone else say the things I've had on my mind so often. Especially the part where you were talking about having to tell people that it didn't work out, and how painful that would be, is super relatable to me. Thanks for your braveness and honesty!
Joey, I think a lot of people undervalue self-development and instead look for someone else to complete them. They tend to abdicate responsibility of self in their pursuit for love. We often forget that we determine what gives our lives meaning and purpose. And it’s never a good idea to place the weight of our worth on being with someone. It’s empowering when we are able to fill our on cup; when we do it for us. 💖
I agree the romanticization of someone “completing you” is absurd but the mass media and society reinforces this so we’re programmed to look for “the perfect one”, when in reality, we were always whole ourselves. True happiness is found from within, friends. c:
I think this is a a sign for me to finally move one and I thank you joey for reminding me as always to love myself more than loving someone else who doesn't love me the way I love her.Still I'm in the process of healing because of my bad break up but I know I'll be fine knowing your there with your inspiring words to always cheer me up.☺️😍I love you Joey make more videos for everyone who is going through a lot of things in their life. Stay safe and be happy always😍😍
Hey idk if you still read these but i just had my first real breakup yesterday. I found your videos trying to find help dealing with it and you’ve been so helpful. I just want to thank you. I hope other people can find you when they need you just like i did
How can a person be so amazing ? .. You don’t know me , I don’t know you personally but how can I connect to you .. your each and every sentence just gets imprinted in my mind and I ponder about it again and again . Thank you for giving so much of motivation and strength ❤️❤️❤️
I thought I was the only one that felt the same way about relationships. I never dated anyone growing up in grade school. Even tho some of my friends did. I'm super glad I wasn't like that back then. I think I gave myself time to get to know me better. I know I don't ever want kids, but (especially lately) I've always wanted a best friend to trust & share my deepest secrets w/. I'm scared to start dating & have shard some stuff thinking they might "be the one". To find that our relationship didn't last. Idk if it would work out this way but I hope I can just meet that "one" person w/ out having to date other people first.
Resonates I am living for me. I am 2 almost 3 months out of a relationship that I was over months before. I recently met someone new and I instantly told her about my ex not because I am not over it because my ex is crazy she has contacted multiple people since our breakup and spread lies about me. I only mentioned my ex once to my friend as we are not dating. She said she understood. I just wanted to explain it first before spending time with her more and then her suddenly getting a message from a stranger. Looking back my friends and family said I changed for my ex. That was a mistake. I need self love and to focus on myself while having someone else in my life that can COMPLIMENT me not CHANGE me. My goal is not to break and anyones heart but to take things slow just mingle. If things happen it happens. However I will proceed slow as far as moving in etc. I also do not believe in ever taking exs back. People do NOT change. They came into your life for a reason and for that reason only.
You're so right man. I did the same thing. I just completely lost myself in the person. Knowing now, that was a big mistake. I need to find my own self worth.
I loved everything you had to say. I really needed this as I’m going through a kind of breakup as of last night actually. I’ve watched you for quite a while, I love everything you’ve been doing, just wanted to show my appreciation.
Amazing I needed this a couple months ago I broke up with a person who thought I was 'the one' for them but I wasn't sure so I decided that if I broke up with this person and I realised that I didn't want to live my life without them I would know then but when the time came I realized that they wasn't 'the one' and that they hadn't changed anything in my life but me...they changed me...and when joey said that it kinda hit home...100% the truth
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Don't worry anymore Sweetheart , I will introduce you to The greatest relationship Restorer that helped me get my ex back in less 48 hours... He will help you okay;;
especially the last part, thinking about what you want to do and finding the person to share those activities with was eye-opening for me. At least the way you put it made me realize that I do think too early about all those big plans and kinda lose myself while loving the person so much. it's just so difficult to control oneself in these early stages when one's brain is mainly emotionally active..
I fell in love with my best friend and then I lost myself in them. She broke up with me in the beginning of the year and it’s been so incredibly hard. We have known each other for 16 years and dated for 5. We also haven’t seen each other for almost 2 years. Yes we were long distance she was in NZ while I was back home where we grew up.
That’s pretty funny. I'm currently having hard time with my boyfriend and your video appeared on my screen... I don't know what I should do, if we are going to breakup or not and what I will I have to face. However as usual your video gave me hope and strength. Thank you for sharing such meaningful thoughts!
Keep doing what your doing. Not many people nowadays want to hear this but this is the most real thing I’ve heard in a long time. You truly have the most pure mindset about life that I’ve seen and I admire that so much. I take so much of your words into heart, and even use them as advice to my friends when they come to me with their relationship issues and at the end of the day, your words are the words that made them see what they need to do and what they deserve. Thank you.
Thank you so much! I hope that I can someday in the near future, close the chapter of my last break up.. she left me and there is no anger, just sadness, that there was no second chance.. In the end I know deep in my heart, that there might have been a billion second chances but I have been blind.. At the time were I realized that somethings wrong, it was already to late and beyond repair.. Now getting up again seems like the hardest thing.. So often I am dreaming the dream of getting back together, but wake up to being alone.. I want to take your advice and really try to focus on myself and my own well-being. Thank you for these kind and vulnerable words. This really helps in dark times like these right now. Take my subscription:)
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this was beautiful it spoke to me directly. I have been stressing over my last relationship for months because that person decided to hate me and I don't know what I did. this basically cured my depression thank you
Thank you so muchhh Joey for talking about these things because it's not just about the another person or breakup it's about the impact that has left on you. You're left with guilt, insecurities and too much. You just forgot your real self before that relationship/ friendship. Even friendship can hurt you too much but everyone take these things like it doesn't matter, you deserve better but something has stuck in our heart, that hole and nobody could see it except yourself so you just sit always and think about that hole and many many things crosses in our mind. Great to hear these words from you❤️. . . . . . . . . . I'm sorry if my english isn't that good:-)
Nice video ! Loved the pencil effect on the corner I would like to add something it’s okay to wait what is considered a « long time » before you date again because it’s better to grieve and heal from the breakup before you start something new and sometimes it takes a few weeks, a few months and somethings it’s a few years to truly move on and it’s really okay to go at your own pace 🤍 there’s no rules, do what feel good for you
I’ve had two bad break ups back to back. I broke up with them because I felt like I wasn’t being acknowledged or treated well. I’m at the point now where I don’t even want to talk to another girl , I’m jus tired of being let down.
i just went through the "omg i think this is the person for me" last month. I went and told all my girlfriends, and one month later, I found out he had a gf. and its disappointing because you had such high hopes for it to work out, and i started creating scenarios in my head, and now to see them walk out of my life, i have to tell my friends that it didnt work. It sucks a lot, but he did impact my life and im glad I was able to meet him. I do wish things didnt go like this, but it is life.
I like this format! Was already thinking about commenting how I liked it even before I saw the end of the video. subbed! I'm currently near the end of the stages of a break-up, it was tough but I'm actually thankful that it happened. I was stubborn and I have friends told me that I was living for my partner, and I didn't listen. Only at the end I understood what they meant. Don't stop being you. Thanks for the video Joey!
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Don't worry anymore Sweetheart , I will introduce you to The greatest relationship Restorer that helped me get my ex back in less 48 hours... He will help you okay;;
I was in a 4 month relationship, still sitting here crying 2 months later. I think a big part of moving on is (and im still working on this) learning that even someone who makes me so happy doesn't really belong in a relationship with me. He was in a bad emotional state and it just didn't work out, it wasn't some big dramatic thing. Its hard to believe I can be that happy again but I'm holding on and giving it time. Life's a journey.
I'm watching in 2024 and believe it is even worst. I'm trying to find peace on my own and love myself. I feel like no more trying. Whatever will come my way let it come itself. Great video. ❤
I swear you read my mind. Like right now today on the bus home I said I give up with love. I've said this before that it's hard for me to show emotions and when I do it's weird, but then when I like someone I can't even look at them. Then they probably don't like me back so then I have to try to get over them until I come back to them again. During seminar I wrote my feelings out just because and once I started I couldn't stop. Idk how you read my mind, but your videos are the best and always help🥰❤
Thanks for sharing this video with us!I just experienced a very heart breaking breakup! I thought I find the one but it lasted only 3 month! I’m very scared of dating again and just to experience another bad breakup T.T Thanks Joey. Your video gave me light, gave me hope and gave me comfort!
I really needed this, and I have a mind to share. Do not be with someone if you are not 100 percent you. Dont make yourself 80 and this person 20 percent. No. If you feel like a hundred percent, then go and enjoy. And it is totally normal, if you meet someone you drop these 100 to 90 or 80 or whatever. But please, dont stop being you. get this back to a hundred, otherwise it hurts so much more. Peace.
When he said “don’t lose your self” it hit hard because I found my self in 4y relationship where I felt like if I change this thing about me it will last over and over again
I actually needed to be told this, because it's hard to think of when will I be ready, in my opinion. I found out during covid I've numbing myself for years because my life was a rush and no time think emotionally and I got lost. There are no skeletons in the closet, just monsters hidden in the hearts of people where bad blood can be seen. I can see a light but I'm scared to put it out like mine.
You are just awesome the way you mentioned about living with them and not for them…..it just touched me because to be honest i did the exact same thing that was the exact same reason for my bigg bigg breakup 🙌🏻
Watching this video especially today where I need to hear this the most. I am still crying over a potential relationship, which was likely to be the most ideal one. I was convinced it was "the right person wrong time". There were just so many things we didn't get to do and we just drifted apart like that. During the past months I really made a lot of improvements and changes to a point that I can confidently say I am truly happy with myself. However, he is still the most vulnerable part in my heart and I would cry like a baby when I miss him. I feel like I am so ready to give my love to someone else, but honestly I haven't met anyone who I think is better than him. 😢 I think the main reason of me not getting over him is I don't understand why he chose to walk away.
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
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I know this post was three years ago but I want everyone to see this break ups are hard a broke up with my ex a month ago and I don’t know if I’ve moved on or not I feel like a horrible person like I messed up I don’t know if I did or not but I met this girl at a party Idk if that’s a good or bad thing but she finally made me feel happy again I feel obsessed and I feel that first love that I felt with my ex ik all relationships don’t work out but putting ur self out there talking to new people might bring you to the one they may be hard to find and you might have to meet along of people to find them but I hope everyone knows that the person for them is out there and you will hopfully find that love some day ik the person I’m talking to now might not be the one but its worth a shot and all the shots you don’t take is a miss so don’t be hint up on your ex just move forward and be who you want to be and the person you love will come to you hopefully stay safe everyone and this comes with all love
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Today I lost the person who showed me I actually am worth something He made me feel loved like never before and what sucks is the only reason it ended was because he doesn’t know if he’s ready to continue this 2 year relationship because of external factors such as no longer having a stable job It sucks because if the job never was lost we would still be together and never would have taken the time to see that if it’s meant to be losing that job wouldn’t mean the end of us too I’m worth more than that and even if it happened a few hours ago this video has helped so much to show me those things
I broke up with my ex almost two years ago. We had been together for 6 years, so when she left me, it was freaking strong heart breaking for me. But now we have new lovers each other and feel happy. She told me how I should spend and share the time with my current girl friend well, so I do really appreciate her.
First of all love the hoody looks so cozy n comfy. This video relates to a lot of ppl out there going through it like myself I was in a 3 1/2 year relationship and been broken up for like almost 4 months now it still hurts n lingering my ex wants to stay friends but I part of me still do n don’t it’s hard to let go but it’s feels good to find yourself again. I’m still mad at the fact she hook up with someone bout couple weeks after the breakup n that person with us in the company which sucks but I think I’m over it I’ll forgive but I don’t forget I have start dating now and that feeling felt soo good knowing someone else is interested in you n you can share your feelings n thoughts with building that bond anyways keep making these videos n don’t stop being you!
at first i was so inspired by what you said in this video, and than i realized that my main problem wasn't really that I am going through a break up , and honestly it is the person i wanted to spend my life with, i wanna live all the experiences im going to go through with them. but the timing made it kind of wrong the place too, the society and even if im 20 i need to grow up according to our society which is kind of complicated here, and grow up through the eyes of my parents , and i cant do that in a week, it needs alot of time , and they couldnt wait for it maybe, they couldnt live with the idea of not having all possible experiences right away, and I kind of understand that thats what it takes them to know if it is worth it or not . and I am still attached to them the idea of coming back together (knowing that we meet kind of alot for exes, we are still friends and kind of work together and study together) even tho I know it wont happen; that hope is still here somehow I so want to live my life with THAT person , spent only few months in a relationship with them and i felt like i grew up so much, I hope they felt the same way
Just went through my first break up after being together for 6 years and I was a wreck. The break up was mutual and on good terms, but it didn't make it any less painful because we still loved each other and were best friends, we just grew apart and were incompatible at this stage of life. But the WORST things people have said to me are "You deserve better", "I never understood why you were with him", "You'll find someone better", "At least you'll be skinny!"(because I was sick to my stomache over the break up for a month), "You have that post break-up glow!". All from people who never even met my ex. They mean well but it just was NOT what I needed to hear. To tell someone they deserve better or that their ex didn't deserve them is, I'm sure, helpful if you're spiteful and hate your ex. But when you shared a loving and great 6 YEARS together, hearing people put down your ex feels like a personal attack. Not to mention it's just extremely shallow and immature, because everyone deserves love and nobody knows what's truly at the core of another person's relationship. To say someone's ex was not good enough for them is just a very shallow view. It's okay to say that a person isn't right for you. But it's entirely different to put down another person simply because the relationship ended. When you have a deeply committed relationship with someone and love them unconditionally, that person becomes like family, or even almost like an extension of you. And to hear other people tell you that they weren't good enough is an insult to everyone involved. I don't know, maybe those types of people just don't love deeply or have a shallow world veiw, and they mean well, but what they say is really shitty.
Im really happy yt recommended me this video at the perfect time. Im going through a terrible breakup right now. Watching this made me realize that I stopped being ME. I became exactly like him, his twin. I surrounded my life around him, I gave all my time and effort TO HIM. I laid out my whole future with him in my mind, so certain we’d stay together forever. I really believed he was “the one” for me, my soulmate. I prioritized him over my own self. And because of all that, when he left me, I felt like half of me went missing. I feel like he took a big chunk out of me, and I feel incomplete. I depended on him, I relied on him. Big mistake. But that’s the beauty of a relationship that doesn’t work out, you learn from them. It’s harsh and it makes me feel lost and confused, but i’m starting yo learn and realize my mistakes. Thank you for this video ♥️
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Thank you for sharing this important video ik how it feels to talk about it in front of a camera so don't worry. This really helped me and everyone else thanks Joey.
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I think the key is actually understanding that breakups hurt, understanding that it's normal, and it's ok. I'm 4 months after the biggest heartbreake of my life, and a lot of the problem was about me wanting to prove some point, to be 'better' or 'stronger', everyone was telling me to forget, to cut off the past. But I'm still thinking about that person every day, it still hurts, but a lot less. I'm finding out there's hope, I can be happy, even by myself. It's okey to miss someone, to think about them, it's okey to go through photos and think of nice moments, as long as you understand, and truly belive, that it's going to be all right. It will hurt, but time really fixes a lot, just be patient.
Hurts
Break*
Not "brake."
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man it’s been 9 months and i still miss her so much
I really needed this. Let's admit. We all did
True😢😢
I'm always here to talk
@@joeykidney you're such a sweetheart 🥺
@@onshou ikr🥺
"Dont live for them".... i felt that
Thank you sooo much for such a good video man✨❤❤❤
'You deserve better' is such a hurting statement really. It makes us question our own decisions and makes us feel that we might never be able to know who's the right person for us! I loved this video so much. Every sentence you said is so meaningful and comforting to hear. Please make more conversation videos! You're such a great conversationalist!❤️
I also don't understand the statement - Somebody told me about a girl I lost but still love (and that's why I couldn't accept her friend offer) that I could do better than her. She was a great person and I don't know what they mean by better - Better looking? money? person? There are many women out there but there will only be one of her. I may end up dating somebody different, but they won't be better - Just a new person and experience.
I don’t know if you still read these. But thank you. I’m going through a breakup, second day in, and man it hurts. This video stopped the crying. And i didn’t feel so alone for a moment. Thank you, for putting this into the world for those of us who need it, to find and draw comfort from.
THIS WORLD IS HELL! SAVE URSELF
all of these are so complicated, you know, anything isn't so easy as it seems to some ppl . but what seems like a problem to me is probably getting back together to someone ... i mean it can't work anymore and those who say spanish fly is enough they're not right, it's just for healthy relationships!
I think “don’t stop being you”needs to be new merch.
I also needed this video.
well he has a Hoddie that says "Stay You" like that's basically the slogan of his entire brand ☺️
@@livm99 hahh that is true
You're very wise and your voice is so warm and gentle. Thank you so much for just existing right now.
you're too kind, thanks for tuning in
DONT STOP BEING YOU!
This really stood out
You’re too kind!!
honestly joey
apart from my parents,and friends
all i neeeded was u,joey
thank you
What stood out to me was, that you said you don't tell people before you went on like your fifth date... I really could resonate with that because before I dated my boyfriend I went through a very hard break up. He was the first guy I really dated and I dind't tell anybody at first … I just wanted to have those moments for myself before sharing & then loosing it all again.
Thanks Joey,
I think we all needed to have this conversation. ❤️
phew i was waiting for someone to call me crazy on that one haha
before
-know what you like, where your boundaries are, who you are
-find your best friend with no expectations of romance
-dont hold high expectations, everyone is their own person
-remove the importance of having your world revolve around someone else
-it's about sharing moments with that special someone over the course of a life not viewing them as your life
relationships
-dont lose yourself in someone else, coexist with someone
-dont change who you are to fit with someone else, they're probably not the person for you
-don't give so much of yourself to taking care of someone else that you lose sight of who you are
-"that person fell in love with you for who you are, and when you stop being you, they go looking for someone else"
-"theyre not trying to fall in love with themselves because they can't handle themselves"
after
-remembering someone is a beautiful thing
-no use in hating someone you share so many memories with
I agree.. It took me a long time after a break to realize I needed to live for myself. I watch friends date person after person. They do not take time to find themselves.
What if the heartbreak was so intense, more so then you ever experienced before and you no longer believe that there is someone else out there for you? That you can’t even see yourself on a date with someone as you no longer believe in the concept of love in the way you once did.
I would like to know if you still think in that way… because I am in that step right now…
That‘s me right now
Nice..I cant even have hopes that in the future it will be better…🙃
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Same. :(
in this video about love and relationships i'm the "lonely hoodie" and that's kinda sad sometimes. i used to worry a lot about being alone and not having a partner like everybody else, but now i know that i don't want just to have a boyfriend and i don't want a relationship in case of just having a relationship. i really want to find a best friend and love all in one, to be the real me with a person without trying to impress them every time, to understand that they make my life so much better but i also can be happy without them cause i'm my own person at the end of the day. thank you so much for this honest and deep talk, Joey. that was amazing! lots of love
omg I swear your comments are gold 💛
@@jienchess9770 thank you!! it's just my thoughts but it's really nice to know some people find it relatable or just...cool idk. joey's vids always make me think about my life in different perspectives so i share it here;)
the advice that i'd probly give someone going through a breakup is to try to look for the good in the now, take care of themselves and to stop looking for advice in others (as contradicting as that is to this). any of your friends could tell you that you'll be okay and that it just takes time, but it means nothing until you realize that yourself. there's going to be days were you feel like absolute garbage, and then there'll be days when you think; shit, i'm okay. if you're a friend of the person going through the breakup i'd just be there for them, check on them, remind them of the people they still have and the good in life, and be there for when they need either someone to talk to, or jusr a good distraction. this comment might not make much sense but i'd still like to put it out there.
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
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@@tracyspencer1674 uhm I was talking from former experience, I have the love of my life but that you!
@@tracyspencer1674 *thank
thanks man
im just really wondering about whether if/when i love again,if i would really love that person just as much or more than i loved my ex
its destroying me,loving and caring for someone never felt better
I've just had a break up & got this feeling of afraid to start over with someone new. I'm feeling so lonely sometimes while my friends are busy with their own relationship & stuffs, especially when I'm off work. Thank you for the words, it's so calming.
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
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I just had to walk away from a 4yr relationship this past Sunday. It was long over due but yet so difficult to do. Sunday I felt relief and then just normal. But Monday and today, a complete mess. My issue was feeding into a false potential and not knowing when to let go. I also lived for this person, you actually just made me realize that, although I feel like it’s something I’ve known deep down. Time to heal, grow, and reinvent. I hope I cry less tomorrow haha 🙃
Hope you are doing better now
@@VishrutIyengar I’m doing way better now, thank you! I had forgotten all about this comment I left lol
@@gabrielaangeles2644 hopefully I can come back in 8 months and say the same thing.
11 months on how are you coping with everything?
Literally going through the same thing now and it made my depression worse too. I don’t know if I’ll ever be okay
So I don’t know about everyone else but I struggle when the word love is brought up. Love to me is something sacred, important, reserved for a person who you’d tell anything to, do anything with, etc. But my thing is every relationship I’ve been in whenever the guy has said “I love you” it doesn’t feel right. In one it felt manipulative, the other it felt too fast, and the last when he said it ik I didn’t feel the same. Now, because of my experiences, and stuff I feel like I just don’t even like the word anymore. I use it with family but when it comes from anyone else the little voice in my head is questioning the motive behind them telling me they love me. Which maybe that’s fine. To take a moment to really think why they say I love you but idk ig I’m wondering how you guys feel about the topic and the word “love”?
For me love is trust and being prior to your partner
bro....can't say I relate 100% but I def relate A LOT!
we'll figure it out. eventually.
idk how but we will :)
take care and stay safe
Yeah, I've never experienced a relationship where we both felt the same amount of love. At this point I doubt it's even possible. I never felt like anyone truly loved me. I'd move mointains when I'm in love. Nobody ever did that for me. Not even in my family, just no one. It's miserable.
I love the word and cant really relate. I love my best friend and have loved, still love a lot of people. I guess some people give love easier, the expectations might aldo be different. I never expect somebody I love to totally change my world and complete me and my life or whatever. Maybe I have low expectations for human connection and love as I never got thos from my family.
People are different, I guess.
I don’t either and at this point I can’t even have sex either gave that up a long time ago
People come into our lives for a reason and purpose for a season. Love this truth.
Thank you Joey. Just found you in the middle of a breakup. About 2 months down, and still feeling lost. I miss "my" person, but she didn't choose me back. I tried so hard that I lost myself. There is so much to learn. I love your videos
My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back,
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@@uchennauc278 oh thank you! But I think if she left me and broke my heart and never looked back, she's probably not the person for me!
@@0Laura199101 are you really sure about that?
Joey's videos always make me feel better and I'm so glad he is so open with us. He makes me realize that it's okay to have emotions and how to love life even when it's not going how I planned. Thank you so much Joey, for being the person you are
that video is the best one about dating i've ever seen in my life!! there are a lot on youtube but none of them are sooo deep. it was such a great personal chat, like a friend giving you an advice. thanks so much for this, joey!
I’m glad I’ve reached a point in my life where I’m living for myself and not basing it off of other people’s opinions. It’s hard to not be influenced by what others are doing but they could be more ready than I am or have different view points in what they want in a relationship.
You and your breakup story remind me a lot of myself and my past relationship. I was in a relationship for 7 years and thought it was so romantic that I was living my life for her Instead of living my life for myself. Instead of really imagining her doing things with me that I wanted. Your comment about that and it being depressing really hit hard and I definitely see what you mean. Definitely saves a lot of pain in the long run!
I just got out of a 7 year relationship 3 months ago . I felt everything you said exactly man . Been blaming myself and hoping she would come back but now I lost hope in that. I Hope you over came it . This girl was my life 24/7 we would sleep together every night. Hang out everyday . I loved her. not having someone who you thought was gonna be in your life forever hurts .
How are you coping with it now? @@brandondiego5714
i really needed this video. you basically put into a 14 minute video what ran through my mind the last couple months. i just got out of a relationship of nearly 6 years and was so lost with myself because i was invested on living and changing for the other person. and when i lost her thats when i lost my direction in life. i was blessed to have my friend group because they aren't like other friends. they tell me what i need to know and not what i want to hear. they put me on a direction for self growth instead of selfishly trying to replace the missing void. ngl i have fun talking and meeting other girls but i know that i still have more to invest in myself first before i can coexist with someone else again. i know that if i just hop into a relationship without taking my time then someone gets hurt and i repeat the cycle. its all in the process of growing i guess. either way, this video is exactly what i was scared to accept about my relationship and myself and it really helped with my healing process.
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Your message about living for the other person hit home. Made me think about my past relationships and whether or not I did that. Made me ask if I became another version of the person I was with or if I stayed myself.
Honestly man would love to have a conversation with you. I enjoy deep talks like this and often think of very similar things!
I really needed that right now. I have been struggling with a break up for 20 months now. I know that I have to let go but I can't. Please keep your channel going the way it is now! It is super pleasant to listen to you so
Did u recovered now. How u feelng rn
This is meaningful. It's been almost two months ever since my first girlfriend broke up with me and, it reset me to fabric mode. We study at the same boarding and that doesn't make it easier. We are close to graduating and start new lives in less then a month and, I still miss her even though I see her daily. But indeed, I was living for her rather than living for me. I became too dependent, more than what she ever felt with me. I don't feel anything whatsoever now, I spend my time mostly studying for finals. I am 19, and, sure, there is plenty of life ahead. Just feels like the closest person in the world became a stranger from one day to another. Let's see what the future awaits. Maybe it was destiny, but feels like perfect timing for this video to be upload and me seeing it today.
Hey..how are you doing now 😀
@@surbhisharma8674 It's crazy to look back at this, I even forgot that I wrote it in the first place. As an update, I have done plenty of progress ever since. I have became someone with whom I am feeling happier to be as rather than the person who wrote this a year ago. I have decided to pursue my dreams and that makes me proud of myself.
I have taken decisions that at first I thought were "childish", such as erasing her from my social media. However, once I did it, I finally felt that I was able to breath without complications. At the end of the day, you must do what feels right to you.
I no longer talk to her and that is alright. You aren't forced to be friends with your ex after a breakup.
Sometimes I remember her. It's inevitable, she was my first girlfriend. However, I remember the experience from the good moments, at least there were some good memories.
I switched my mindset from "Without you I couldn't live" to "Without you I could live great as well" and from "Let it be for forever" to "It will last as long as it takes".
My apologies if I went too long with the answer.
Nevertheless, change is the only constant. Sometimes you do it alone and sometimes next to someone else.
@Surbhi, thanks for the follow-up. It was a nice feeling to realize about the long distance I have walked since the beginning of this journey.
I wish you the best if you are undergoing something similar. Time is always the best ally and the best healer.
And hey, if you need someone to talk to, I am here...Life is a bitch but that doesn't mean you are gonna let it make you its bitch.
@@caec8655 I have been on this journey quite a few times ..but it's so hard each time.. I'm so happy to see your progress 😍..I would love to talk to you..can we connect on telegram coz I don't have insta 😅
Very insightful! I'm currently experiencing a loved one jumping into a relationship with the wrong person, they've changed themselves dramatically almost overnight it seems. It's hard to watch, I've tried voicing concerns but it's somewhat of a lost cause. I feel I may lose this person over this, but I have to accept that it's beyond my control and prioritize my inner peace.
Modern dating culture has a very selfish tone. Far too many people are seeking attention, validation, an ego boost, etc. at the expense of others' feelings. I wish we would all be more mindful and date with clear intentions 😊
i just broke up with my fiancé. it was strange. i felt it was necessary because i’m not ready for marriage, i have a lot of love to grow into, for myself and for others. it’s strange because we were best friends but it seemed like something was off the whole time, i still don’t know what. but i pray for her whenever i think of her, and i hope she succeeds. i really love her, i just don’t know if she was for me
Wow I resonate with both of you. Sending love and light. We got this. 🤍💫
Just discovered your videos which I found really comforting. The thing you’ve said in this one about “living life 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 them, not 𝘧𝘰𝘳 them” kind of hit me. I still need to process a lot of things as I’m going through what feels like a breakup, but thank you for conveying so much kindness 🙏🏼
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I really needed this, I’ve had such a shitty experiences with dating recently, every single guy has ghosted me, or put everything on me. I deleted dating apps for a few months to give myself a break from them. Now there’s a guy I like but because of all the bad experiences it make me scared to message him. I just wish I could trust them
If he hasn't given you a reason to not trust him then why not give him the benefit of the doubt, though keep in mind that if he also hasn't given you a reason to trust him you should'nt serve your heart and soul to him on a silver platter. Find that balance.
You like him, so tell him, just do it when your ready for everything that follows. Whether that's a new relationship or a rejection.
Either way, you've got this! Everything happens for a reason, you could be potentially entering a new chapter in your life. You'll gain new experiences, and grow as a person, and get to know yourself that much more. So whatever happens, don't forget that you can find the beauty in it all.
Good luck hun, I'm sending many blessings your way❤
I'm no simp🤭
Btw hope you work out well✌️
change your way of thinking and look at things..... because of your shitty experience of dating and you're scared you'll attract the same people again.., eventually you'll end up attracting the same people because you still have the same idea and mindset and still vibrating in the same frequency as them and that's the truth.
there is one video i watched recently of finding the lover of your life.. you just have to write down what type of man/woman you want in your life and start living with him/her as your imaginary friend and imagine how you would like to be with him and all the things you wanna do together. i promise you.., your dating game will change
@@DeogratiusJrMichael do you mean visualize yourself with your ideal significant other? Or something else? Would love for you to elaborate or refer the video bc I’m intrigued. 😳.
Thanks Joey, you're right. I fell for a girl because of her rich interesting world but I didn't offer much of my world in return. Now I have the time to build my world
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Just got out of a 2 year relationship, and I have been feeling devastated for about 4 months now and your video really helped me a lot. Our relationship went horribly nearing the end of it because she wanted a lot of attention and so she wanted to devote too much of herself to me too early when we're still too busy with our daily life and job. I couldn't handle her overwhelming love as I was too busy but I still loved her. I'm heartbroken because she found someone new after just 4 months of breaking up but it's fine, I've got to learn to love myself first and figure out who I am first instead of putting all my feelings for my partner.
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I've watched your videos from the first moments of my breakup leading up to a week or two later and soon to be more in the future. Even if I understand it the first time I re-watch anyway since I hit bargaining stage in my grief multiple times so it's easy for me to second guess my choices moving forward. However, hearing you explain logically and calmly helps out. Thank you for being a part of my journey of recovery
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
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Thank you! 🙏 Ive been through a breakup this winter. We met when were around 18, now beginning of our 30's. So much change during those years!
So I think its hard for me to remember who I am deep down without the relationship. It will be a big self discovery journey!
I’m going through my first breakup with someone who I considered my person and the father of my daughter… it’s hard seeing her do her firsts and not have him here to see it too:(
I didn't had a breakup yet, but the things you talk about are exactly what I see, when breakups und dating again happens surroundings. They don't take their time after the breakup and define their life through relationships with their significant others - its so sad to watch.
litteraly crying dude... your hard breakup is exactly what i have experienced. Broke up 3 Days ago and currently trying to find myselfe againg. Thanks for helping me out. Means a lot man💗
It’s really cool how you can put your fears into words and articulate them.
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
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i really needed this channel
it truly feels like im sitting there next to him sipping the exact same coffee he is sipping without having that shyness that im broken after a breakup
this channel really did help me so many times sho
So inspiring and just lovely to hear someone else say the things I've had on my mind so often. Especially the part where you were talking about having to tell people that it didn't work out, and how painful that would be, is super relatable to me. Thanks for your braveness and honesty!
Joey, I think a lot of people undervalue self-development and instead look for someone else to complete them. They tend to abdicate responsibility of self in their pursuit for love. We often forget that we determine what gives our lives meaning and purpose. And it’s never a good idea to place the weight of our worth on being with someone. It’s empowering when we are able to fill our on cup; when we do it for us. 💖
Loved this so much. Thanks for sharing, 💛
I agree the romanticization of someone “completing you” is absurd but the mass media and society reinforces this so we’re programmed to look for “the perfect one”, when in reality, we were always whole ourselves. True happiness is found from within, friends. c:
I think this is a a sign for me to finally move one and I thank you joey for reminding me as always to love myself more than loving someone else who doesn't love me the way I love her.Still I'm in the process of healing because of my bad break up but I know I'll be fine knowing your there with your inspiring words to always cheer me up.☺️😍I love you Joey make more videos for everyone who is going through a lot of things in their life. Stay safe and be happy always😍😍
Hey idk if you still read these but i just had my first real breakup yesterday. I found your videos trying to find help dealing with it and you’ve been so helpful. I just want to thank you. I hope other people can find you when they need you just like i did
I had mine 3 days ago. How are you feeling after 3 weeks?
This was important to hear
Thank you for listening!
Nice one charlie
How can a person be so amazing ? .. You don’t know me , I don’t know you personally but how can I connect to you .. your each and every sentence just gets imprinted in my mind and I ponder about it again and again . Thank you for giving so much of motivation and strength ❤️❤️❤️
I thought I was the only one that felt the same way about relationships. I never dated anyone growing up in grade school. Even tho some of my friends did. I'm super glad I wasn't like that back then. I think I gave myself time to get to know me better. I know I don't ever want kids, but (especially lately) I've always wanted a best friend to trust & share my deepest secrets w/. I'm scared to start dating & have shard some stuff thinking they might "be the one". To find that our relationship didn't last. Idk if it would work out this way but I hope I can just meet that "one" person w/ out having to date other people first.
Resonates I am living for me.
I am 2 almost 3 months out of a relationship that I was over months before.
I recently met someone new and I instantly told her about my ex not because I am not over it because my ex is crazy she has contacted multiple people since our breakup and spread lies about me. I only mentioned my ex once to my friend as we are not dating. She said she understood. I just wanted to explain it first before spending time with her more and then her suddenly getting a message from a stranger. Looking back my friends and family said I changed for my ex. That was a mistake. I need self love and to focus on myself while having someone else in my life that can COMPLIMENT me not CHANGE me.
My goal is not to break and anyones heart but to take things slow just mingle. If things happen it happens. However I will proceed slow as far as moving in etc.
I also do not believe in ever taking exs back. People do NOT change. They came into your life for a reason and for that reason only.
You're so right man. I did the same thing. I just completely lost myself in the person. Knowing now, that was a big mistake. I need to find my own self worth.
I loved everything you had to say. I really needed this as I’m going through a kind of breakup as of last night actually. I’ve watched you for quite a while, I love everything you’ve been doing, just wanted to show my appreciation.
same here bub. i hope we will be fine at the end of this
Being yourself is the most precious thing ❤️❤️
Amazing I needed this a couple months ago I broke up with a person who thought I was 'the one' for them but I wasn't sure so I decided that if I broke up with this person and I realised that I didn't want to live my life without them I would know then but when the time came I realized that they wasn't 'the one' and that they hadn't changed anything in my life but me...they changed me...and when joey said that it kinda hit home...100% the truth
this popped up on my notifs right when I needed it
"But we are in relationships we really lose who we are..." I had been there once ...
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
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i watched this when we broke up and i still do just to remind myself thank you so much
especially the last part, thinking about what you want to do and finding the person to share those activities with was eye-opening for me. At least the way you put it made me realize that I do think too early about all those big plans and kinda lose myself while loving the person so much. it's just so difficult to control oneself in these early stages when one's brain is mainly emotionally active..
I'm only starting the video but I already know this is what I need to hear right now. Thank you Joey!
haha thanks for clicking
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Ok but how cute is Frankie sleeping in the back🥺
that is officially his spot hah
I fell in love with my best friend and then I lost myself in them. She broke up with me in the beginning of the year and it’s been so incredibly hard. We have known each other for 16 years and dated for 5. We also haven’t seen each other for almost 2 years. Yes we were long distance she was in NZ while I was back home where we grew up.
That’s pretty funny. I'm currently having hard time with my boyfriend and your video appeared on my screen... I don't know what I should do, if we are going to breakup or not and what I will I have to face. However as usual your video gave me hope and strength. Thank you for sharing such meaningful thoughts!
Keep doing what your doing. Not many people nowadays want to hear this but this is the most real thing I’ve heard in a long time. You truly have the most pure mindset about life that I’ve seen and I admire that so much. I take so much of your words into heart, and even use them as advice to my friends when they come to me with their relationship issues and at the end of the day, your words are the words that made them see what they need to do and what they deserve.
Thank you.
Thank you so much! I hope that I can someday in the near future, close the chapter of my last break up.. she left me and there is no anger, just sadness, that there was no second chance.. In the end I know deep in my heart, that there might have been a billion second chances but I have been blind.. At the time were I realized that somethings wrong, it was already to late and beyond repair..
Now getting up again seems like the hardest thing.. So often I am dreaming the dream of getting back together, but wake up to being alone..
I want to take your advice and really try to focus on myself and my own well-being.
Thank you for these kind and vulnerable words. This really helps in dark times like these right now. Take my subscription:)
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this was beautiful it spoke to me directly. I have been stressing over my last relationship for months because that person decided to hate me and I don't know what I did. this basically cured my depression thank you
Thank you so muchhh Joey for talking about these things because it's not just about the another person or breakup it's about the impact that has left on you. You're left with guilt, insecurities and too much. You just forgot your real self before that relationship/ friendship. Even friendship can hurt you too much but everyone take these things like it doesn't matter, you deserve better but something has stuck in our heart, that hole and nobody could see it except yourself so you just sit always and think about that hole and many many things crosses in our mind. Great to hear these words from you❤️.
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Nice video ! Loved the pencil effect on the corner
I would like to add something it’s okay to wait what is considered a « long time » before you date again because it’s better to grieve and heal from the breakup before you start something new and sometimes it takes a few weeks, a few months and somethings it’s a few years to truly move on and it’s really okay to go at your own pace 🤍 there’s no rules, do what feel good for you
I’ve had two bad break ups back to back. I broke up with them because I felt like I wasn’t being acknowledged or treated well. I’m at the point now where I don’t even want to talk to another girl , I’m jus tired of being let down.
i just went through the "omg i think this is the person for me" last month. I went and told all my girlfriends, and one month later, I found out he had a gf. and its disappointing because you had such high hopes for it to work out, and i started creating scenarios in my head, and now to see them walk out of my life, i have to tell my friends that it didnt work. It sucks a lot, but he did impact my life and im glad I was able to meet him. I do wish things didnt go like this, but it is life.
I like this format! Was already thinking about commenting how I liked it even before I saw the end of the video. subbed!
I'm currently near the end of the stages of a break-up, it was tough but I'm actually thankful that it happened. I was stubborn and I have friends told me that I was living for my partner, and I didn't listen. Only at the end I understood what they meant. Don't stop being you.
Thanks for the video Joey!
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Message him on Whatsapp
✛2347030894892(☉｡☉)!
Don't worry anymore Sweetheart , I will introduce you to The greatest relationship Restorer that helped me get my ex back in less 48 hours... He will help you okay;;
What'sapp him;;;
I’ve been there, recently actually. Trust me.
It does get better. ✨🥰
I was in a 4 month relationship, still sitting here crying 2 months later. I think a big part of moving on is (and im still working on this) learning that even someone who makes me so happy doesn't really belong in a relationship with me. He was in a bad emotional state and it just didn't work out, it wasn't some big dramatic thing. Its hard to believe I can be that happy again but I'm holding on and giving it time. Life's a journey.
I love listening to you talk. You are helping me so much and just hearing you talk about things I am working through is just amazing.
I'm watching in 2024 and believe it is even worst. I'm trying to find peace on my own and love myself. I feel like no more trying. Whatever will come my way let it come itself. Great video. ❤
I swear you read my mind. Like right now today on the bus home I said I give up with love. I've said this before that it's hard for me to show emotions and when I do it's weird, but then when I like someone I can't even look at them. Then they probably don't like me back so then I have to try to get over them until I come back to them again. During seminar I wrote my feelings out just because and once I started I couldn't stop. Idk how you read my mind, but your videos are the best and always help🥰❤
nonon don't give up :) just keep doing you!
@@joeykidney thanks 🥺❤
wow, i’m glad i clicked on this. i claim this fully, thank you.
This was amazing! It truly spoke to me. I love these! You speak what I’m going through. Break ups suck
Thanks for sharing this video with us!I just experienced a very heart breaking breakup! I thought I find the one but it lasted only 3 month! I’m very scared of dating again and just to experience another bad breakup T.T
Thanks Joey. Your video gave me light, gave me hope and gave me comfort!
I really needed this, and I have a mind to share. Do not be with someone if you are not 100 percent you. Dont make yourself 80 and this person 20 percent. No. If you feel like a hundred percent, then go and enjoy. And it is totally normal, if you meet someone you drop these 100 to 90 or 80 or whatever. But please, dont stop being you. get this back to a hundred, otherwise it hurts so much more. Peace.
you have such a relaxing and comforting voice
When he said “don’t lose your self” it hit hard because I found my self in 4y relationship where I felt like if I change this thing about me it will last over and over again
Could relate allot, except the part you deserve better, I don’t know why but ‘myopic deserve better’’ has been the only thing that got me through.
Watching ur videos before bed we know what kind of day I’m having
I haven’t watched your videos in forever, but you came back up on my page so I clicked and I automatically felt calm and at peace
I actually needed to be told this, because it's hard to think of when will I be ready, in my opinion. I found out during covid I've numbing myself for years because my life was a rush and no time think emotionally and I got lost. There are no skeletons in the closet, just monsters hidden in the hearts of people where bad blood can be seen. I can see a light but I'm scared to put it out like mine.
I’ve missed this
I love it
Gives me comfort
You are just awesome the way you mentioned about living with them and not for them…..it just touched me because to be honest i did the exact same thing that was the exact same reason for my bigg bigg breakup 🙌🏻
Watching this video especially today where I need to hear this the most. I am still crying over a potential relationship, which was likely to be the most ideal one. I was convinced it was "the right person wrong time". There were just so many things we didn't get to do and we just drifted apart like that. During the past months I really made a lot of improvements and changes to a point that I can confidently say I am truly happy with myself. However, he is still the most vulnerable part in my heart and I would cry like a baby when I miss him.
I feel like I am so ready to give my love to someone else, but honestly I haven't met anyone who I think is better than him. 😢 I think the main reason of me not getting over him is I don't understand why he chose to walk away.
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Message him on Whatsapp
✛2347030894892(☉｡☉)!
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I know this post was three years ago but I want everyone to see this break ups are hard a broke up with my ex a month ago and I don’t know if I’ve moved on or not I feel like a horrible person like I messed up I don’t know if I did or not but I met this girl at a party Idk if that’s a good or bad thing but she finally made me feel happy again I feel obsessed and I feel that first love that I felt with my ex ik all relationships don’t work out but putting ur self out there talking to new people might bring you to the one they may be hard to find and you might have to meet along of people to find them but I hope everyone knows that the person for them is out there and you will hopfully find that love some day ik the person I’m talking to now might not be the one but its worth a shot and all the shots you don’t take is a miss so don’t be hint up on your ex just move forward and be who you want to be and the person you love will come to you hopefully stay safe everyone and this comes with all love
I think this is one of the few times i watch a video and i just sub even before i even have finished watched the first video
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
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Today I lost the person who showed me I actually am worth something
He made me feel loved like never before and what sucks is the only reason it ended was because he doesn’t know if he’s ready to continue this 2 year relationship because of external factors such as no longer having a stable job
It sucks because if the job never was lost we would still be together and never would have taken the time to see that if it’s meant to be losing that job wouldn’t mean the end of us too
I’m worth more than that and even if it happened a few hours ago this video has helped so much to show me those things
Thank you. You don't know how much I needed this.
I love all of your content so much I've been getting better and some of your videos really spoke to me when I was at my lowest thank you so much
Im so glad I subscribed to your channel. I've been watching. Your tik toks for awhile. Thank you for this
I broke up with my ex almost two years ago. We had been together for 6 years, so when she left me, it was freaking strong heart breaking for me. But now we have new lovers each other and feel happy. She told me how I should spend and share the time with my current girl friend well, so I do really appreciate her.
First of all love the hoody looks so cozy n comfy. This video relates to a lot of ppl out there going through it like myself I was in a 3 1/2 year relationship and been broken up for like almost 4 months now it still hurts n lingering my ex wants to stay friends but I part of me still do n don’t it’s hard to let go but it’s feels good to find yourself again. I’m still mad at the fact she hook up with someone bout couple weeks after the breakup n that person with us in the company which sucks but I think I’m over it I’ll forgive but I don’t forget I have start dating now and that feeling felt soo good knowing someone else is interested in you n you can share your feelings n thoughts with building that bond anyways keep making these videos n don’t stop being you!
Only your voice can heal me more than anything.
at first i was so inspired by what you said in this video, and than i realized that my main problem wasn't really that
I am going through a break up , and honestly it is the person i wanted to spend my life with, i wanna live all the experiences im going to go through with them.
but the timing made it kind of wrong
the place too, the society and even if im 20 i need to grow up according to our society which is kind of complicated here, and grow up through the eyes of my parents , and i cant do that in a week, it needs alot of time , and they couldnt wait for it maybe, they couldnt live with the idea of not having all possible experiences right away, and I kind of understand that thats what it takes them to know if it is worth it or not .
and I am still attached to them the idea of coming back together (knowing that we meet kind of alot for exes, we are still friends and kind of work together and study together) even tho I know it wont happen; that hope is still here somehow
I so want to live my life with THAT person , spent only few months in a relationship with them and i felt like i grew up so much, I hope they felt the same way
Just went through my first break up after being together for 6 years and I was a wreck. The break up was mutual and on good terms, but it didn't make it any less painful because we still loved each other and were best friends, we just grew apart and were incompatible at this stage of life. But the WORST things people have said to me are "You deserve better", "I never understood why you were with him", "You'll find someone better", "At least you'll be skinny!"(because I was sick to my stomache over the break up for a month), "You have that post break-up glow!". All from people who never even met my ex. They mean well but it just was NOT what I needed to hear. To tell someone they deserve better or that their ex didn't deserve them is, I'm sure, helpful if you're spiteful and hate your ex. But when you shared a loving and great 6 YEARS together, hearing people put down your ex feels like a personal attack. Not to mention it's just extremely shallow and immature, because everyone deserves love and nobody knows what's truly at the core of another person's relationship. To say someone's ex was not good enough for them is just a very shallow view. It's okay to say that a person isn't right for you. But it's entirely different to put down another person simply because the relationship ended. When you have a deeply committed relationship with someone and love them unconditionally, that person becomes like family, or even almost like an extension of you. And to hear other people tell you that they weren't good enough is an insult to everyone involved. I don't know, maybe those types of people just don't love deeply or have a shallow world veiw, and they mean well, but what they say is really shitty.
Im really happy yt recommended me this video at the perfect time. Im going through a terrible breakup right now. Watching this made me realize that I stopped being ME. I became exactly like him, his twin. I surrounded my life around him, I gave all my time and effort TO HIM. I laid out my whole future with him in my mind, so certain we’d stay together forever. I really believed he was “the one” for me, my soulmate. I prioritized him over my own self. And because of all that, when he left me, I felt like half of me went missing. I feel like he took a big chunk out of me, and I feel incomplete. I depended on him, I relied on him. Big mistake. But that’s the beauty of a relationship that doesn’t work out, you learn from them. It’s harsh and it makes me feel lost and confused, but i’m starting yo learn and realize my mistakes. Thank you for this video ♥️
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
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He brought back my ex few days ago... He did a perfect work I'm assuring you are gonna testify of his works!!!👐👐👐
Is there a way to double-like this?? Tons of things I've thought but haven't been able to say 🙌 so many people need to hear this!
Thank you for sharing this important video ik how it feels to talk about it in front of a camera so don't worry. This really helped me and everyone else thanks Joey.