To Anyone Who Needs To Move On From A Breakup

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  • @joeykidney
    @joeykidney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1084

    A gentle reminder that moving on is not a one day process. It takes time, but I promise that once you learn about yourself again, you will content and thankful

    • @SimplyBeauty13
      @SimplyBeauty13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      it's been a year. i went through the motions of the breakup, then was good and happy and living my best single life, and now a year later I'm going through it again. I'm still the happiest I've ever been (despite losing him) but miss him dearly. I know things take time but I didn't think I'd be going through it for a second time, after all the self-growth, self-work, etc. I did. idk what to do anymore.

    • @Drazzgame
      @Drazzgame 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What if I don’t know how to love myself

    • @bodalix18
      @bodalix18 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for this. I'm going through a frustrating time dealing with my own thoughts and emotions about how I perceive things and how they really are. I'm a classic over-thinker, and hearing this helped a lot.

    • @vyhuynh1229
      @vyhuynh1229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SimplyBeauty13 Same. When I thought I was so content and happy with my life being single, the grief started to go back 🤷‍♀️

    • @SimplyBeauty13
      @SimplyBeauty13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@vyhuynh1229 hi! wow it’s been 6 months since i commented that. im happy to report that was the last wave of grief and i’ve been doing super well :) i’ve definitely moved on

  • @mariamakiling6884
    @mariamakiling6884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1725

    Guys if you’re still hoping that they’ll comeback please stop, don’t manifest them or wish them to comeback. If they want to? from the start they shouldn’t leave you, that they shouldn’t hurt you so badly that you are now in the phase of questioning if your existence is worthy. Stop please! motivate yourself to be better, to love yourself, find your peace only you can do it. Do it for yourself, do it cause you need to, you need to put the pieces back, protect your heart at all cost. Don’t stop yourself from healing. When you manifest them to comeback it will hinder you to heal and it will continuously hurt. So please we can do this!

    • @sarahluton6386
      @sarahluton6386 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @sarahluton6386
      @sarahluton6386 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @maiflores4894
      @maiflores4894 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dear I will introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer from POLAND who restored my broken relationship, he can bring your ex back just fine he's a very good man

    • @maiflores4894
      @maiflores4894 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wh'atsapp him now

    • @mariamakiling6884
      @mariamakiling6884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mai Flores i dont have money to pay

  • @d0n315
    @d0n315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1810

    A doctor once told me
    *”Because you didn't want to lose them, you lost yourself in the process. Find yourself again and you will find happiness. Remember that if a relationship doesn’t help you become a better person, ending it does.”*

    • @wonderfall4522
      @wonderfall4522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Why do i remember steins;gate after reading this lol

    • @2wmttt
      @2wmttt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      " Because you didn't want to lose them, you lost yourself in the process. Find yourself again and you will find happiness. " i like the quote like that

    • @sunflower7874
      @sunflower7874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      he helped me become a better person.

    • @melmolina491
      @melmolina491 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My ex now is going through the same thing. He had to end our relationship to find himself again. I can’t be mad at him bc I understand it’s hard. I currently have mixed emotions atm so I don’t really know what to feel. A friend gave me advice and said “just remember and tell yourself daily, there’s always hope at the end”.

    • @leesha1674
      @leesha1674 ปีที่แล้ว

      This made me cry. Thank you so much I needed this

  • @TJ45223
    @TJ45223 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Found out my wife was cheating on me for the last year. I work 70 hours a fucking week boys. I am exhausted, I have no energy, but I put my work boots on every single day and get after it. I am not perfect, neither is she. But I loved her. And after I found out, she moved in with him. Literally a fucking week later. It’s been 6 months now and I share 50/50 custody with my daughter and I still work the same amount of hours. I’m tired. I’m so tired. But I have to keep going. This one hurts boys. This one really hurts.

    • @Whoknowsd1
      @Whoknowsd1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Keep going for your daughter man and keep faith in God cause better days are always gonna come trust me. Always remember everything happens for a reason you’ll see

    • @snookmeister55
      @snookmeister55 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm getting over a divorce, 2 years ago. It's a slow process. Hang on one day at a time.

    • @dislikeavocadosfr268_
      @dislikeavocadosfr268_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      How are you doing now? I hope it got better for you :)

    • @onirud4869
      @onirud4869 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope u are feeling a little better now

    • @snookmeister55
      @snookmeister55 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      TJ, you'll feel a lot better two or three years from now. It takes time.

  • @aice4910
    @aice4910 ปีที่แล้ว +591

    I've been crying non stop lately. But I realize that I need to move on because it's unhealthy for me to sob all day and not be motivated to do anything. I have to accept the fact that we're done. I have to put my damn self first. But my heart will always have a place for you, Tina. Thank you for everything.

    • @spiin1663
      @spiin1663 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hey, are you okay or getting better? I'm going through it right now.

    • @paperboy91
      @paperboy91 ปีที่แล้ว

      give us an update 🤌🏼

    • @Trafficfromsky
      @Trafficfromsky ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Update time 😅

    • @catchcourtcourt
      @catchcourtcourt ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I only get out of bed when I have to. I just want to lay there and cry.

    • @SnowboardNPEA
      @SnowboardNPEA ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@catchcourtcourt join the club i just lost 5 of my best freinds over the past 3 days 😭
      What am i doing wrong?! My life feel like nothing. I have no one whos here for me and listens to me when things get hard. Its hard 😭😭

  • @naman3534
    @naman3534 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    Leaving this comment here and hoping that whenever in future if I get to see this, I will think bout how bad this phase was and how strong I was.... literally at the rock bottom point of my self esteem rn.

    • @JohannusFandangulus
      @JohannusFandangulus 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Leaving a reply so that one day hopefully I find out you found fulfilment in life again. The pain at rock bottom is rough, but people can tolerate it and somehow move on. All the best

    • @kalebmoney7330
      @kalebmoney7330 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You good now? How’s it been? How does it feel like? What’s the process?

    • @lawrencepuyu3852
      @lawrencepuyu3852 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope you are doing well now

    • @ifeomaraphael9901
      @ifeomaraphael9901 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Leaving a reply for same reason 🥺

    • @aidenhopper1552
      @aidenhopper1552 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Does it get better?

  • @colin.737
    @colin.737 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    They came into your life then left, to force you to grow. The hard part is they need to stay gone to allow you to continue.

  • @ntnweb
    @ntnweb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    I'm a recent subscriber going through a fairly recent heartbreak. I cannot thank you enough for the content on your main channel and also the podcast, which definitely deserves wayy more views bc they are amazing, I listen to them on my daily walks. I can relate so much and take lots of advices and healing words from you so thank you Joey and keep making awesome content that really helps people!

    • @danieller9778
      @danieller9778 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where can I listen to the podcast? Xo

    • @ntnweb
      @ntnweb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danieller9778 it's on his other channel The Happy Times Podcast ^^

    • @danieller9778
      @danieller9778 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ntnweb thanks!😌

    • @tamaghnabanerjee731
      @tamaghnabanerjee731 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danieller9778 you can listen to it on Spotify or apple podcast too. its a great podcast. the happy times

    • @ryanseaton8805
      @ryanseaton8805 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How are you doing now? I’ve recently been broken up with and can’t imagine feeling happy again.

  • @Magnus579
    @Magnus579 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    The pain and grief in this comment section is so saddening. I'm going through the same horrible pain and i hope we all get through this come out of it as soon as possible. Stay strong my people, we can do this❤

  • @littlemissyyy
    @littlemissyyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    Few days ago I was constantly bawling my eyes off now I’m back to feeling numb. It’s hard to pick yourself together; I have to constantly watch videos like these to remind meyself to get my ass up and moving. My heart will always have a place for you, Shenq.

    • @joeykidney
      @joeykidney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      It is very hard, but you did it! And you should be proud

    • @littlemissyyy
      @littlemissyyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joeykidney Thanks Joey 😊

    • @carterhanks1163
      @carterhanks1163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I feel for u girl but ngl when I saw “shenq” I laughed my ass off so Ty for the laugh

    • @Hykiee
      @Hykiee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's been over 7 months now. How's the feeling?

    • @urhousernbro
      @urhousernbro 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its been a year how u doin

  • @jai3202
    @jai3202 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    this is agony. i know it will get better and everything like everyone says but god damn make the pain go away. i wanted to spend the rest of my life with him.

  • @clodu987
    @clodu987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    Wow, the timing of this is impeccable.
    My first love, my girlfriend of a little over 2 years broke up with me on the 31st, just before we could celebrate getting into our 3rd year together. I feel so lost without her. Before she came into my life I didn't know who I was or what I wanted, and I held on to her so tight, she became my everything. And so when she broke up with me, I felt like my whole world crumbled. My mental health is not great as it is, but this felt like someone was taking my last breath from me.
    And even since then, I feel like I have been slowly dying. I'm so scared and so lost, but I know (or rather I hope) that I'll be better.

    • @jadehenzen
      @jadehenzen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You will, and you’ll feel stronger than ever.

    • @berenicevelazquez7397
      @berenicevelazquez7397 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel you I’m in the process rn ever

    • @TheKFCManager
      @TheKFCManager 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@dennisokoro7290 how sick you gotta be to try scam people with their feelings crushed. karma will get you.

    • @alecbarrett3963
      @alecbarrett3963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Everything you said is my situation word for word, except I was 1 year going on 2. I am sorry. I am hoping for better days as well. Right now, all we can do is the little things that make us happy. Remember that you are always loved

    • @niksoundz_
      @niksoundz_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sorry to hear that man, I know it really sucks. Words cannot describe the pain you're feeling rn, but at least, I'd like to say "feel the pain all the way through, scream, shout and cry everytime you want to, don't hold any emotion in, let everything out" this helped me a lot in the last almost 6 months of breakup. Take care, love u

  • @MBAInnovator
    @MBAInnovator 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    My ex and I broke up 2 months ago from a 5 year relationship. I take full Accountability that I mistreated her many times throughout our relationship. I also found out I was codependent in our relationship. My world felt like it went upside down. My lifestyle has completely changed without her. The day of our argument I blew up and ended the relationship I just felt overloaded. I took my stuff to move out because I didn’t know how to handle it. Again I take responsibility of my actions. Now we haven’t spoken in 2 months. Even though I miss the hell out of her I don’t trust myself to be with her soon because behaviors don’t change overnight. It takes time and discipline just like working out when you want results. Even though I know this, I can’t help but face the reality she is gone forever from my life. With this in mind, I try my hardest to move on but I cry over this random times of the day. I guess I deserve it because I made her cry many times … the regret sets in very heavy. My hope has dramatically declined to rekindle. Again the thought of ever seeing her again is slim to none.

    • @katesmith3189
      @katesmith3189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

    • @oroz6784
      @oroz6784 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey, so how are things looking now? Are you doing better? Did you learn to love yourself a bit more/ become more independent?

    • @laurenmorgan9946
      @laurenmorgan9946 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same situation. 13 years and two kids. I took the steps to leave and I did I didn't want to. He was cheating with no remorse. None. I walked out after he fell asleep over a month ago and haven't seen him since. He's stopped texting and now I'm panicked. I left to prompt change in him, so he'd regret what he did, so he'd chase me back. My plan backfired on me and now I'm tormented.

    • @vismayboii
      @vismayboii ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @559yourboy Mine and your story is exactly the same

    • @EliaraTafao_
      @EliaraTafao_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I guess we are all here for the Same reason. 😢my heart hurts like that gut feeling man it’s painful

  • @nayerodriguez3585
    @nayerodriguez3585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    “Put your damn self first”
    1. Stop doing things for them to notice
    2. Stop acting like you are better for them, you are enough
    3. Stop living for them and it’s time to live for YOU
    -Now it’s time for you to move on
    -You have to put yourself back out there meaning that you need to do things that make yourself happy!
    2:35 “You know when you’re sitting on the couch thinking oh I should do something, that’s the thought I’m talking about, GET UP!” “Go do it, it’s time to do it for you”
    1.Accept the breakup
    2. Understand they weren’t the one
    3. Get closure
    4. Learn to love yourself again

  • @nicolasteel4491
    @nicolasteel4491 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I am three months post-breakup and can feel myself getting better each day, but there is something holding me back from letting him go. I find myself at random points missing him immensely. I think I am doing good, but then a wave of love I have for them comes rushing back. This breakup really broke me, I fell in love with someone who nine months later decided that they never loved me. He still has a lot of care for me and says I am his best friend, but I recently cut off all contact with him, as I knew it was something I needed to for me. Your videos are helping me a lot and I'm glad you have created such a welcoming environment in this comment section because even though it's a bunch of strangers, it is somewhat comforting and helping me a little a day at a time x

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Send him a message on Whatsapp.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✛2347030894892(☉。☉)!

    • @Rose-yx7bg
      @Rose-yx7bg ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i hope it doesn’t take 3 months, that’s so long to feel this hurt

    • @fredned1941
      @fredned1941 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same thing happened to me yesterday. It hurts a lot

  • @blazedoesSHORTS
    @blazedoesSHORTS ปีที่แล้ว +178

    the breakups didn't hurt,it's the memories
    note:i am heavily crying and sobbing rn

  • @mimokio6743
    @mimokio6743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I needed this so much, I need to better myself. I realize I was the one who ruined it all, and I feel terrible, the regret eats me up, sometimes it hurts to see him hurt. Being with him was the most amazing thing ever, but I realized that he would definitely want me to become better. It hurts like hell that we are still so much in love, but have to separate because I lost myself in the process. In one way or another, this helps me cope and want to be better. I still wish him all the best and all the happiness he deserves. Sometimes when you love a flower you let it grow, be in its nature and bloom in all its glory instead of picking it and holding it close as it wilts in your arms. I needed this. Thank you Joey, lots of love! xx

    • @Jxsee.
      @Jxsee. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same 😪😕

    • @alicegoldberg2649
      @alicegoldberg2649 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It sucks knowing you could’ve done things differently. I feel the same way and feel guilty all the time about it, but there was no way to have changed things or know what was going without experiencing something drastic like a loss. Hang in there :)

    • @luffysenpaiiii5239
      @luffysenpaiiii5239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Damn.
      I never understood her when she was with me and now she's gone I'm regretting everything I did to her .

    • @zam0674
      @zam0674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love be good to yourself sweet pea when I was your age I let too many men bend me over and that left me naked and demoralised

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

  • @randomguy8800
    @randomguy8800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Dated her more than just a month, she was mistreated and broken when i met her. I healed her, i appreciated her loved her and what did she did? Left me for someone better....sucks to be me now

  • @sergiomartinez8001
    @sergiomartinez8001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    I needed to hear this, it had been 5 months of no contact with my ex and she finally reached out a week ago that she wanted to meet up and talk, I was debating to follow or not with that because I knew it was just going to bring me back all the memories and just seeing her was going to be tough , but I did promise I would be there for her no matter what , I didn’t know what was that she needed to talk to me about so at the end of the day I needed to do it besucase maybe she had changed her mind about the break up , but it turn out she just wanted to apologize for the way she treated me before she left , and the way she disrespected my family for not saying bye to them and ignoring them , we would of have been 6 years together on New Years , i think it’s time to move on.

    • @zam0674
      @zam0674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My love there is so many other man who would adore you as their one true love, just keep your faith you will get better love that the ex never could give you

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✛2347030894892(☉。☉)!

    • @couch_philosoph3325
      @couch_philosoph3325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I think it is good that she apologized, now you got closure and can move on. But i know it takes time. I was with my ex only for a year and it has been half a year since my break up. I did everything correctly for moving on, but i am not yet. I am doing good, but it still takes time

    • @vanshhsharma
      @vanshhsharma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      How are you now bro?

  • @alek3016
    @alek3016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    going through a break at this moment, the emptiness just feels like is growing everyday more and more, every thing we did it has an essence of her soul left over, this pain is something i’ve never went through. my absence is bringing her peace i need to let it go but i want to stay incase she comes back

  • @joysemsem4708
    @joysemsem4708 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    There’s no right person wrong time , If he was the right person It would be the right time ✨🙌

  • @francescamaroun1477
    @francescamaroun1477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Thank you Joey. I needed this. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years last month. It was a really hard decision for me because we were together for so long and went through everything together and I loved him so much. He was my first boyfriend. So, thank you again. You somehow make videos exactly when I need it. ❤️

    • @zam0674
      @zam0674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Take it from me lovey, my husband died in the 90s, and life got better I got me back again, love your time alone while you can before someone wants to pull with your heart strings cut the cord your free

    • @lucylucky9430
      @lucylucky9430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I hope you’re doing okay. My bf of two years broke up with me, it’s been a week. For about a month we were in an on/off relationship, and then he finally ended it. I want/know that I need to move on. But I’m bargaining to have him back in the future, even though he wasn’t the right guy for me.

    • @blackdevil1502
      @blackdevil1502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hope your doing fine now, I'm also struggling because of break up coming from a 3 year relationship... I'm having difficulties especially of our situations and I really want to heal, cause I'm suffering everyday.

  • @sean.mac16
    @sean.mac16 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    My break up happened about 2 months ago and she’s already moved on and I sadly still think about her everyday. I hate that it sets of my anxiety and always makes my heart hurt 😔

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✛2347030894892(☉。☉)!

    • @rewindzzhd2m771
      @rewindzzhd2m771 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How do you feel now buddy? I’m going through a break up over a month ago and it hurts so much

    • @sean.mac16
      @sean.mac16 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rewindzzhd2m771 umm alot better i went to counselling for my anxiety, got really back into my fitness, focused alot on my university work. i still dont talk to her and thats my choice but things are slowly but surely mending and im stronger from it.

    • @zyn7670
      @zyn7670 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What about now do you feel okay?

  • @odsonabypaula6508
    @odsonabypaula6508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I think sometimes the closure is the way they left. It told you everything so you don’t need closure . Actions speak more than words just try to move on …

    • @joeykidney
      @joeykidney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow i love that

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What'sapp him;

  • @rubenyuh6779
    @rubenyuh6779 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    me and my ex broke up only a few days ago its so hard because we were fr perfect but we broke up for a reason. everyone breaks up for a reason.

  • @dafo112
    @dafo112 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I only knew her for two months but they were the best two months of my life. I cant stop thinking of her. I dream about her, and when
    I wake up and shes not beside me i feel so small. Its crazy how someone can have such an impact on you in such a small amount of time.

    • @reese4627
      @reese4627 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How you feeling now. Its been 3 months which is longer than the relationship lasted

  • @helixproductions2k7
    @helixproductions2k7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I’m not exactly dealing with a breakup, but the loss of my “best friend”. This same thing applies. Thank you…I needed to see this.

    • @tommyragnar2174
      @tommyragnar2174 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Going through the same thing here. Hope your well

    • @AA-fz3lj
      @AA-fz3lj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same

    • @benten1443
      @benten1443 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I lost both. The same person who was my best friend and girlfriend. She left, just like all the others, this statement is true, there's no right person and wrong time, if they truly loved you, they wouldn't leave.

    • @trill-r7g
      @trill-r7g 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Talk to me im goin thru dat rn ​@benten1443

    • @trill-r7g
      @trill-r7g 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@benten1443 talk to me I'm here goin thru this as we speak!

  • @ian8191
    @ian8191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This was posted the exact day we broke up and it 5months has passed and I am having a hard time to move on. It fucking sucks.

    • @olimpiagomez
      @olimpiagomez 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      :((
      you can go through this!!!!

  • @amyli092
    @amyli092 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    There's a song by Ed Sheeran with this one line that continues to run deep for me sometimes... "When love is real, there's never closure. I guess it's all part of life, but I can't help but feel low." Of course, he wrote this line in his song because he was grieving the loss of his friend, but in the context of relationships, I definitely feel like this can apply as well. Sometimes, certain feelings just need to be felt, and that's okay. I chose to not only break up with him, but I also decided to not turn back and not keep in contact with him. I was never good at allowing people to give their side of the story, but with this breakup in particular, I just needed my peace of mind. I didn't want to wait around and hear whatever it was he had to say.... it would just make leaving feel that much harder. Not all closures are good, but every now and then, I just can't help but wonder about him.

    • @Magnus579
      @Magnus579 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The one who broke my heart did the exact same things to me and I think that's not good you should not take away the chance from them to communicate how they felt by avoiding all kinds of contact. Maybe I'm wrong saying this but it's just this is how it happened to me and I'm broke as fuck because I got no chance to convey how I really felt and what I needed I had to bottle it all up

  • @chrissyyyy6388
    @chrissyyyy6388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I really needed this. He was my only friend and he wounded my inner child beyond belief. I completely lost myself, deluding myself into believing I was deeply in love even now I still miss him. I miss him so much and I wish he would feel the pain he put me through. I haven't spoken about it to people because I don't have the friends nor the family too but this has been incredibly comforting almost as if I have that person

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @nicolettazenobini4632
      @nicolettazenobini4632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm so sorry to hear that, I'm going through the same thing right now... My ex boyfriend was more than just a partner: he was like an older brother and like a best friend, people I've never had in my life. The day he told me it was over ("we're just friends" he said), I felt like my entire world exploded and I was left alone... Two years later, I've seen him holding hands with another girl, kissing her like he used to do with me... I've finally realised it's time to let him go, leave the past behind and start living for myself again. Feeling sad and depressed won't make him come back to me. I (and you too) need to recover and move on from these people. We deserve to be happy again ❤️

    • @rudhrapanchal4049
      @rudhrapanchal4049 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nicolettazenobini4632 I can feel you... You definitely deserve someone way better than that person!

    • @ishakhurana3424
      @ishakhurana3424 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel and understand what you are going through. It feels so shitty and we still live in delusion. It has been a year since I last spoke to him.. I still miss him terribly.

  • @Stinbeng
    @Stinbeng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don’t get it, I dated her for 2 months and somehow grew so attached, she broke up with me for being clingy which she was right but in all my relationships anytime someone has broken up with me I’ve always respected their decision and cut all contact with them, not to be a dick but just to give them what they want which is not me, it’s been a month now I haven’t spoken too or heard from her and I still can’t get her off my mind. I’ve been in longer relationships before and gotten over them quicker but this one for some reason just won’t go away, I wish I could just lose the memory of her because its literal torture at this point, I just want to forget her and move on but I just feel like I can’t…

  • @karinat.8260
    @karinat.8260 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Today I texted him for the last time to say goodbye. I was purposefully always posting on my stories for him to notice me, to say something, do something. Of course, he never replied, he never messaged. He never replied to my last message. So today, I decided to take the huge leap and remove him from my life. I don't want to live for him, I don't want to think about him when he doesn't think about me. The feeling is deeply painful yet so beautiful because I now feel free. I haven't fallen in love in a very long time but he was the one that reminded me of how painful love can be. To anyone who reads this, please protect your heart, protect your mind, protect your body from harm and don't fear putting yourself first. ❤️

    • @rebbybam230
      @rebbybam230 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How r you doing a year later ? Will it get better

  • @Jo-sk2nv
    @Jo-sk2nv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    5 days post-break up, slowly learning to let go but I'm excited for what the future holds. Loved your video, helped put things into perspective 😊

    • @onoerbright7615
      @onoerbright7615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi,jo get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you.And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr James, he helped me restore my broken relationship. Also Dr James always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek help thanks.

    • @onoerbright7615
      @onoerbright7615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

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      @onoerbright7615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @oroz6784
      @oroz6784 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How are you doing nowadays? Does it get better?

  • @ah8687
    @ah8687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    We were together since I started high school all the way to my senior year. We spent Christmas’s, thanks giving, and all of the yearly events together. Our break up didn’t really feel like one, I feel as if it was never official. It’s been 4 hard months though since I’ve felt her warmth. She was my first for everything and the memories haunt me everyday.

  • @kmrdxd
    @kmrdxd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i hope that everyone in the comments will get over it soon and feel better!!! hang in there things will get better ❤️

    • @maiflores4894
      @maiflores4894 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @maiflores4894
      @maiflores4894 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @oceanonly8915
      @oceanonly8915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I recommend you to a great man who can help you manifest whatever you wanna manifest🥰🥰

    • @oceanonly8915
      @oceanonly8915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He helped me bring back my ex permanently few days ago, without any delay, after six(6) years of separation🥰🥰

  • @cjherbs
    @cjherbs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I have had a rough few years of change and "you now have to learn how to live for yourself" was super helpful. I let a friendship fall through after about a year of giving so much of myself to them and not getting anything back. Looking back they were kinda toxic and not caring of my feelings. I am finally learning that our friendship wasn't good for me and I deserved something better. I deserved the love that I continued to give to them. Still struggling with self worth after that and the reminder that it's okay to take time for yourself so you can feel okay is so helpful. To a new year of self realization and self care♡

    • @camille0704
      @camille0704 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same situation here. I hope you're feeling better, I know how hard it is to love yourself too and to learn that we deserve love ourselves too. I hope that you're doing well and that it is getting easier for you to love yourself, find things that you love doing and focusing on friendships and people that give you that love too, you deserve it ♡

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

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      @David-wj9tq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @thomasupton2664
    @thomasupton2664 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Never be the rebound guy. It will not end well.

  • @hxrizon_szn
    @hxrizon_szn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thanks Joey. Really just what I needed right now. My girlfriend just broke up with me, and honestly, I thought I'd never be the same again. Began to question myself and whether I'm actually good enough. But thanks for showing me that break ups are a part of life, and that it's alright to feel hurt at first, but you just gotta believe that there was a good reason for the break up happening. And that for it to have happened, it means they weren't the one. There are other people to meet in life, and when the right one comes, you'll definitely know. Thanks again man. Really appreciate it

  • @etherious552
    @etherious552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I had my heart broken for the first time about a week ago. I loved her with all my heart; we broke up due to her mental health issues, but about a month later she tells me she had no feelings for me and I’ve never felt so much pain. I’ve done everything I can think of, everything that is recommended to get over it. I’ve been sick with various colds, strep throat and now covid for the past month. Everything seems like it’s against me. Those little things that remind me of her make it so difficult. And I can’t sleep without those intrusive thoughts of what could have been if she hadn’t been sick. Your videos have helped, and I thank you for that- heh I guess I just had to blurt it all out.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @areebkhan2751
      @areebkhan2751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey,
      How are you doing now?
      Is there light at the end?

  • @famdee1
    @famdee1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So, the pain does go away or I will forever think about them? It's been 2 months and I'm a bit better but I'm still hurting and thinking about them every single day.

  • @willchrispie9080
    @willchrispie9080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    its taken me a full year to properly begin the process of moving on from my ex, only now feeling like I properly am with a lot of help from your videos. You speak so honestly and with such a large focus on self love that I often forget. Thank you.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp.

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      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      十2347030894892⏯⏯⏯_^_..

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What'sapp him;

  • @jackygomez4785
    @jackygomez4785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yk she lost feeling and I still love her a lot I asked if we can still be friends she said yea and now I feel like I’m no one I neeed her in my life

  • @kenzahellal5125
    @kenzahellal5125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel like I am gonna die n my heart is hurting alot I feel like it gonna stop frr I just wanna stop crying godam all the time

    • @mirabelowen192
      @mirabelowen192 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

  • @areebkhan2751
    @areebkhan2751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m going through a fresh break up. I’m there like a lot of you coming here right now. I see no light, I just want the person back and just want to snap back from this bad dream sooo bad.
    I’m dropping this comment so that I can come back a few months later and update you all of how it really is.
    I broke up because the person I was with changed and staying was becoming painful by the day.

    • @partato520
      @partato520 ปีที่แล้ว

      how u holdin up

    • @Killergangg
      @Killergangg หลายเดือนก่อน

      How are you now

  • @dantampham9115
    @dantampham9115 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "If it was the right person it would be the right time." That hit me deep.

    • @ElenaPalmer-i8d
      @ElenaPalmer-i8d หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you need help to restore your relationship. My relationship was Just Restored with the help of Dr Steve

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      @ElenaPalmer-i8d หลายเดือนก่อน

      On whatsaap 👍

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      @ElenaPalmer-i8d หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @whyeeolivia
    @whyeeolivia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    meanwhile, Rich Brian wrote a song about an ex that he had never met irl...

  • @narimdraws6696
    @narimdraws6696 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's hard to know the person I used to tell everything to is now someone I can't even speak to. I hope you'll be happy, Jamie. I won't fall behind, I'll catch up and become even happier than you

  • @donalgraeme
    @donalgraeme ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah, I have decided that everything I did was wrong.
    I will never allow another person to become that important to me again.
    And if a woman says that she loves me. I will understand that she means it for only the time that it took her to complete saying the words.
    I am irrelevant to her. Nothing. Less than garbage to her. Non-existent. Less than a stranger to her.

  • @daviddavila7571
    @daviddavila7571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm tired of giving my heart out and getting crushed all the time

    • @lindabryan6854
      @lindabryan6854 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

    • @lindabryan6854
      @lindabryan6854 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

  • @LKelz
    @LKelz ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am here again after another break up with my crush … third time now … shit

  • @jareddavidson3010
    @jareddavidson3010 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was there for my ex when she needed me because I loved her and from what she told me she loved me still and wanted things to work out, but after she was done using me for things I was jabbed at and then buried only to see that she had a new guy after only a few days

    • @exposethefraudsr.i.p.tokir3336
      @exposethefraudsr.i.p.tokir3336 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same bro and my ex work at my job she so stupid I saw her TH-cam channel where the guy commented

    • @laurenmorgan9946
      @laurenmorgan9946 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn. 14 years and two kids. I left due to his cheating I fucking left not him, it was hard. Over a month now he's stopped reaching out. I'm panicking. I did this to prompt change in him, to make a stand, to have him chase me back. My plan backfired and I'm tormented about leaving. Now it's worse than the relationship.

  • @alyssamabelle
    @alyssamabelle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hey Joey, I just wanted to say thank you for existing. My boyfriend and I broke up a month and a half ago from 2 years of dating. I started this year heartbroken and devastated. I wanted him to be my last... but you're right, people change, feelings change. Your podcasts and youtube videos helped me alot while I was going through my breakup/healing phase. Thank you so much for helping me get over him. Thank you for making me realize that I deserve better, and thank you for reminding me that I'm strong enough and beautiful! ❤️
    Much love,
    Alyssa from MTL

  • @DockClock-rp2ro
    @DockClock-rp2ro ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've been holding on for 3-months.
    She's happy, healthy and having fun without me.
    I've had lots of difficult things happen to me following the break-up, and it's all compounding.
    Sometimes it gets better, and I don't think about her, but sometimes it comes back.
    It's unhealthy at this point.
    I know she hasn't thought of me in a long-time.
    I don't want to think about her anymore; I have so much else to deal with.
    I just want to let go now, so it doesn't hurt anymore, and so I can move-on and better deal with the other difficulties in my life.

  • @Seeiamjay
    @Seeiamjay 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Joey everything that u said from 2:13 hits me so hard... I helped her so much but when i was the one with mental problems i got dumped and didn't notice it until now thankyou for telling this

  • @garcia46j
    @garcia46j 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I needed this! Found out a month ago that my ex cheated on me during our whole 5 yr relationship. It’s crazy that I still love him. But I’m so desperate to let go and be happy again. Thank you!

    • @chiadaphney3453
      @chiadaphney3453 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hey swthrt,I kno this feeling. My ex cheated on me in our 3yrs relationship as well..the whole 3rd yr,he treated me less,I was already crying in that relationship till I broke up with him,it was the hardest thing for me,I had sleepless nights,lost weight,was depressed, I went thru a very tough time but I believe I'm a good woman and I deserve better and u should believe that too..we all are queens,we deserve better..u got this ok..no matter what u go thru, you'll be fine I promise...it's been 4 months and I believe I'm better now

    • @garcia46j
      @garcia46j 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chiadaphney3453 thank you ♥️ gives me hope that things will be ok

    • @chiadaphney3453
      @chiadaphney3453 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@garcia46j for sure luv

    • @zam0674
      @zam0674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jessica you love the idea of him for how he met your needs, from now your independent woman who can get herself off without a man

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

  • @puipegasi2025
    @puipegasi2025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you jorginho , i just end my 5 years relationship, we couple from school and now im studying my degree , she dont want me anymore , i cant do anything , i need to accept it.

  • @nathanielramlochan8724
    @nathanielramlochan8724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Broke up after 4 years and she found herself with someone a week later. Still even after that, I can't seem to let go of her and I still want to talk. But she's living her life and I just feel discarded. No messages, no calls, nothing. Then at some point loneliness sets in and my mind overthinks everything. Why can't I just let go.

    • @whatsappher738
      @whatsappher738 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      *Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back💔💔 again my ex is back to me with love and we are happily together I got help from a great man 💔❤️(Dr Manuel). He can bring your ex back*

    • @whatsappher738
      @whatsappher738 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      .

    • @derrera6derrera659
      @derrera6derrera659 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm with you... it literally feels like my everything just left...like my best friend died... I would do anything to have her back, I swore i loved that girl so much spent 1.5 years texting and being with her 24/7... then it just disappears in a moments notice. I would give anything to just hold somebody again and just cry.

    • @whatsappher738
      @whatsappher738 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@derrera6derrera659 *W-hatsap him⏬⏬*

    • @whatsappher738
      @whatsappher738 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@derrera6derrera659 .

  • @MatthewSenneke
    @MatthewSenneke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like this guy

  • @cupofmojoe3715
    @cupofmojoe3715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i didnt expect to cry as much as i did but i needed that. Thank you

  • @FURY.7
    @FURY.7 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Guys when she broke up with me , I was hurting hurting to much and I wanted kill myself but then I realized it will be good if I moved on and forget it so it's hard to me but I'll do it and move on and never come back to her

  • @Slow.Chilll
    @Slow.Chilll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much man I went threw a breakup two weeks ago and this is the worst pain I’ve ever felt in my life mainly because she’s my first lover but you have helped me so much I appreciate it

    • @mabelhukkins7029
      @mabelhukkins7029 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

  • @murielgonzalez7154
    @murielgonzalez7154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What if he doesn’t want to give you closure? We dated for 3 years. He won’t answer my text nor calls. I have apologized for my behavior and attempted to explain myself. I got drunk on December 30th and finally opened up how he made me feel. The relationship felt one sided. I didn’t feel like my love was being reciprocated nor was I being appreciated. Every time that I tried speaking before to him about my feelings and he would call me extra or say that I was doing too much.. I feel embarrassed, hurt, and guilty for getting drunk and acting like a dumb person. I love him and it’s so hard imagining that We are to strangers in this world.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @vicky.editz.
    @vicky.editz. ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Man u really helped me a lot 😭😭😭 i was going through one for almost 1 week and couldn’t help myself get over it and spend time for myself but after watching this video i can easily say that i learned that its just a bad chapter in a book but that doesn’t mean the book is bad

  • @Retro_Slump
    @Retro_Slump 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i never was in a romantic relationships but i was in a good friendship with girl and she left i feel so heartbroken i'm trying find a way how move on

  • @Christodophilus
    @Christodophilus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Serendipitous. I was just thinking yesterday, about making moves on something I have wanted to for a while. Then I thought, it would sure show my ex what they missed out on. I was referring to my growth as a person. Almost immediately, I pulled myself up, contemplating - this isn't about them any more. And why would I want to pollute my desire to grow, with thoughts of someone who rejected me? This video just confirms, I was on the right track to invest in yourself, for good reasons.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @angelic7855
      @angelic7855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Chris. I really loved your idea of describing the offspring of growth from heartbreak as the maker and how it can sometimes pollute the essence of what self-growth actually is. I have never thought about it that way. All this time even though my ex and I are no longer in contact, I still try to justify this rejection with the idea of growing. Thank you good man.

    • @Christodophilus
      @Christodophilus 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@angelic7855 The temptation is certainly there, to make it about them. But we should also realise it's giving them indirect credit, for rejecting us. When choosing to grow for ourselves, is always about us. 😃Thanks for chiming in.

  • @zetenygeszner1481
    @zetenygeszner1481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How do i get closure or from who if my ex is basically acting like im not even on this world.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @katierosenberg6749
    @katierosenberg6749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He lost feelings for me and dragged it on until the Monday after Christmas. He didn't communicate with me and pretended to love me and had meaningless sex with me. It hurts so much, Joey.

    • @joeykidney
      @joeykidney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well he deserves no more of your time. Now it is your time to take care of yourself

    • @katierosenberg6749
      @katierosenberg6749 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joeykidney Thank you, Joey. I will take it one day at a time and try to take care of myself. It means the world to me that you replied and that you care so much about your fan base.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

  • @ririsharon4652
    @ririsharon4652 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    By end of 3rd month and 4th month I thought i was doing okay and finally ready to be happy again. 5th month and I'm struggling once again. Its painful.

  • @meghyer5923
    @meghyer5923 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I didn’t even know I clicked on your TH-cam notification, it was a complete accident. I didn’t know I needed this, this was strangely perfect timing. Thank you. 🥺♥️

    • @connoryemm2419
      @connoryemm2419 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Completely agree

    • @joeykidney
      @joeykidney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha happy accidents eh

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What'sapp him;

  • @peite7878
    @peite7878 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10 years long distance relationship and me being an asshole and don’t knowing how much that being an asshole depended on my previous personality-changing anti depressants or ADD I had no idea until lately I’m diagnosed with. I guess I developed a strange relationship that worked long distance with extreme time zones, but not in same time zone due to total opposite day rhythm.
    Would love to work for becoming a stronger person and getting over it but the thoughts are there 3 years later.
    Just have to find a job, career and self-esteem and proper medication against ADD and anxiety.
    It’s really hard to imagine living for someone else, since it feels like disrespect. But that’s bonkers thoughts, I know.

  • @kanekjellgren2934
    @kanekjellgren2934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was with this girl for almost 2 years.. we had a messy break up and we hurt each other a lot during the course of the relationship. I know I haven’t moved on completely from her but I also know that I need to in order to move forward in my life. I always wished her the best after we parted and that I was thankful for all the things she taught me and the great memories we made. I told her that I would always have love for her even if I’m not by her side and I truly mean that. We catch up every now and then but I feel like that’s only making this process longer and more difficult for me to move on from her. She’s a great girl we just couldn’t stay together. She’s with a new bloke now and she does seem happier which is what I wished for her, (to be happy) now I gotta find my happiness, it may not be a new relationship… maybe just a fresh start in my early 20’s.

  • @kaylycan270
    @kaylycan270 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    To future me,
    I know how hard things are right now. I know we truly did want to marry her, and how we did have it planned out. We cannot control this. We cannot control her behavior, her emotions, anything for her. We still have told her how we love her, and she loves us, but not the same right now. If it is meant to be, it will be. We will be okay. Breathe, we will be okay.

  • @fritskeijzer6388
    @fritskeijzer6388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This just hurts so much more when you know you didn't break up over a valid reason but just because the universe decided so

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What'sapp him;

    • @do3258
      @do3258 ปีที่แล้ว

      This. It hurts so bad

  • @the-insomniac323
    @the-insomniac323 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i didnt want it to end man, i still dont. i wish i didnt say the things i said and i wish it didnt make me feel like that time was wasted

  • @nathanb7145
    @nathanb7145 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just went through a break up today. I really need this.

  • @frankbeltran540
    @frankbeltran540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you might be the only person on the internet talking about breakups, that's being real about it. Not trying to sell me this fantasy about fuck her get better and get revenge, go fuck a whole bunch of girls to get over her etc. It was real advice. Advice I needed because I am broken from it all. The one person I thought would never hurt or break me..... did. It it hurt like hell and rn I still feel like hell, but I'm moving forward. I definitely going to give up on a relationship for awhile. Not saying I'm never going to again, but for now I'm focused on truly loving myself. That's all nothing more nothing less. Thank you.

  • @ToadSanin
    @ToadSanin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love your videos. They help so much. This is only my second heart break. You weren’t around for my first one. But I’m sure glad you’re around for this one. Bless you and your messages. Thank you for your wisdom. I needed this so badly.

  • @senpai5550
    @senpai5550 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man i just wanted her to be happy , she was my everything, we used to call late at night , had fun ,bunk school , went to get ice cream. She felt like home to me. I was a playboy once , dated many chicks , and i wanted to change for her. For 1 ½ years , with her, i was loyal asf. Guess what ? She cheated on me 😀. It's devastating, now i have no one to talk to. It's the festive season and I'm depressed alone in my room . Can't get any work done. She was my home , but i guess i was just a pitstop for her. I hope she will be happy with the new dude , i hate her to the bottom of my heart now.

  • @joelinfante3804
    @joelinfante3804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow I’m in this position right now! I lost my fiancé of 5 years…it’s been 4 months and I still love her like if she had left yesterday. She is already with someone else…idk how she’s been able to do it cuz I can’t connect with anyone else at least not yet..,.I feel everything he says in this video….

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @DGBig
      @DGBig 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here man. Fiancé and relationship of 6 years. Life will catch up to them. Be strong and keep pushing. Hit the iron! Things get better.

  • @Apthealer
    @Apthealer ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It just feels so unfair everything I did, i admit I also made mistakes but I deserve a second chance and I really did love. Honestly nights are the worst listening to her voice while I sleep damn she broke up with me when I needed her the most rn yk i know even if I get back with her the pain I went through would never let me really love her again

  • @gayathraperera5681
    @gayathraperera5681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for this. It's good to feel that
    I'm not alone in this

  • @nuckle5525
    @nuckle5525 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    we broke up again last week and it hurt so much.... She says i deserve better and sh es so hurt shes let all of her unhealed trauma get in the way of our relationship it hurts but i had to let her go. Me holding on only hurt me more. I did all i could and i faught so hard but she gave up. I still love her and i hope one day when shes healed and grown and ready shell come back to me and i hope shell be ready for my love.

  • @tibosoenen558
    @tibosoenen558 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video has openend up my mind to be the best version of myself instead for others. You have become one of my main inspirational characters in life. Thank you.

  • @jonah1820
    @jonah1820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She hurt me so bad, I gave her everything and she was talking to other guys leading up to the end, she’s not heartbroken like I am, it’s not even been 2 weeks and she’s got a new boyfriend

  • @niali8860
    @niali8860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    you need more support for your channel u made me feel better just thank you..

    • @joeykidney
      @joeykidney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I appreciate yours!

    • @niali8860
      @niali8860 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joeykidney i will try my best to share your channel for my friends and familly u actually deserve it !!!

  • @lizetflores4742
    @lizetflores4742 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just ended a 6 year friendship with my two friends around 1 month ago and have been sleeping at 1 or 2am in the morning and just thinking about them makes me tear up cause most of my memories are filled with them there or being my best too. I am always telling myself in those sleepless nights that I shouldve stayed even though they didnt even care about me. It hurts to say that I want to stay and I just wished and wished they never changed. I knew what they would do to me next year of school so why am I even telling this types of stuff. It got so bad that my sister noticed and I have to lie about it that im sick which is why my nose is making noices. I cant escape them, every thought I have, they are always there. They even make me felt like I was ugly and the weird kid of the group. I barely feel like I have one bit of happiness of my life now because of those two, I atleast met two other friends who also dont like those two which I felt like I had to say something because I have over half a decade of experiences with those, I couldnt even talk with my old friends. Every time we would walk around, they only talked to eachother, I barely even said one sentence because of them. I been trying to become a better person for myself, but yet im still laying on a bed thinking. I just want happiness on my life and I never realized until I told my sister about them like 7 months ago. "I wish I was normal" "I shouldve had stayed" "What made them change?" are probably the most stuff I said to myself. I am at a bad mental state right now but I just really want to tell everybody that
    Dont trust people that are friends or in a relationship with you
    Find more people until you think you made the right choice, cause otherwise they can turn you into a puppet or just not care about you and maybe you still call them a "friend". Cause you might be experiencing what im going through.
    Im sorry to you both, I had to stop pertending that I was alright after so much trauma.

  • @ninanguyen6381
    @ninanguyen6381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was so gentle and yet so powerful. Thank you!

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @Darkskies0
    @Darkskies0 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    While reading these comments I realized that im not alone.i always thought what if one day.. She's feels the same way I feel about her.. But it's a grand deception i've been telling myself.. I'm not sure I'll be able to forget her.. But I think it's time for me to try to move on..
    If anyone's reading this.. "Hey I feel you mate I know the amount of pain you're going through trust me I do.. Even now while typing this comment my heart is completely broken.. But look this is time man.. She isn't person you once loved. Let's move on together..

  • @nicolettazenobini4632
    @nicolettazenobini4632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This video is a blessing, thank you so much Joey for your wise words ❤️
    It's taken me two years to actually start moving from my ex boyfriend, it's a very painful process but now I can finally see a tiny ray of light beyond all the darkness that seems to have swallowed me during these past two years. He's dating another girl, and I now realize how much time I've wasted thinking and hoping he would have come back to me. I still can't figure out how we've ended up being like complete strangers, since we used to be very close, and I still don't understand what the hell I did to him to deserve all of this.
    But now it's time to let go and life my life: no more tears, no more regrets. Just optimism and happiness. He's happy in another's arms, I can be happy with someone else as well.
    Everyone of us going through a heartbreak deserves to be happy again. It's not an easy process but can do it ❤️

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to “DR ARZIANA” the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What'Sapp him 🙏🙏

  • @thewinkywolf4084
    @thewinkywolf4084 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wanna hug him and cry so badly ( f***ing hell)

  • @ProdRTBeats
    @ProdRTBeats 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    im a 17 yrs old boy, inloved with my bestfriend and had a great relationship, but now its over and being here, hearing joey's voice just calms me down and removes my anxieties thank you. i always stream on your podcasts every night for demons to not get near me

    • @maiflores4894
      @maiflores4894 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dear I will introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer from POLAND who restored my broken relationship, he can bring your ex back just fine he's a very good man

    • @maiflores4894
      @maiflores4894 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wh'atsapp him now

    • @rudhrapanchal4049
      @rudhrapanchal4049 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maiflores4894 hey, I also just got a breakup and I want my ex back... so if I message this person, will he help me too? I am in a desperate need of this!

    • @oceanonly8915
      @oceanonly8915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rudhrapanchal4049 I recommend you to a great man who can help you manifest whatever you wanna manifest🥰🥰

    • @oceanonly8915
      @oceanonly8915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He helped me bring back my ex permanently few days ago, without any delay, after six(6) years of separation🥰🥰

  • @JF-xm6tu
    @JF-xm6tu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is good advice to focus on yourself and put yourself first. But make sure to also consider your partner almost as much. If you give too little they will just leave. This is what happened to me 2 days ago

  • @boopdino8053
    @boopdino8053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so so so much, i recently went through a breakup where i made myself way too dependent on her, and trusted her blindly, so all of the things you mentioned are true, and resonate with me

    • @katesmith3189
      @katesmith3189 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

    • @katesmith3189
      @katesmith3189 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      W-hatsap him⏬

    • @musicforeverything4727
      @musicforeverything4727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same bro, goodluck

    • @boopdino8053
      @boopdino8053 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you,i too wish you all the best

    • @RBNN69
      @RBNN69 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@katesmith3189 can you give me any advice? Simply my problem is that i showed her that she means a lot to me and i am so in to her .... and she started to take things for granted and slowly detached her self from me ....

  • @Maximilian-xk4lr
    @Maximilian-xk4lr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Today its been a year after my ex broke up and i am not quite over it. But now the gym is my best friend.

    • @lindabryan6854
      @lindabryan6854 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

  • @sofyaa9667
    @sofyaa9667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I do want to add that although you will need closure, it does not have to come from them. Sometimes, they won’t give you closure, or will refuse to. That’s ok! Because you can give yourself closure, it comes from within, you can close your own chapter.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What'sapp him;

  • @Zimplygie
    @Zimplygie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So broke … can’t imagine how a beautiful story for 15 years ended in just one day of being confused … it was my fault maybe but i was him not to forgive me … it’s over 💔💔💔

  • @taetae4508
    @taetae4508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's been 4 months and I'm still struggling at times I am happy at times I am sad, but that's the healing process 😪

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What'sapp him;

  • @jrandallgilmore8907
    @jrandallgilmore8907 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everything I hear says start living for myself. But how can I when nothing interests me anymore. All the things I wanted before are now dull and gray. I have no desire for anything. Im just going through my days being told I have to focus on myself and I’m just so empty inside. If one more person says I need to love myself I’m going to slap them. I go through periods of sadness, anger, grief, emptiness. I cry a lot. I’m so emotionally exhausted.

  • @ethanhayes1123
    @ethanhayes1123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Joey, I am a male who's ex gave up on our relationship and lost feelings. She is already out with other dudes and I just can't understand how something that meant so much to me could mean so little to someone. These videos really help but I really don't know what to do.

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to “DR ARZIANA” the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What'Sapp him 🙏🙏

    • @user-hz5of5ht5e
      @user-hz5of5ht5e 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hey u should know that even though it seems like she's moved on, your relationship meant a lot to her and she's just at a different point in the process. she's the one who lost feelings so she had already dealt with accepting the end of the relationship earlier than you. but never think that the relationship didn't mean anything, you're just not at that point yet. keep going man you got this

    • @ethanhayes1123
      @ethanhayes1123 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-hz5of5ht5e i'll try my best. I just don't know why she wouldn't tell me and led me on while talking to other dudes.

  • @tomiethegoat
    @tomiethegoat หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I really liked him, i liked him a lot. I made gifts for him, tried my best to give him all the time i had, always gave him a shoulder to cry on when he wasn't feeling well and overall gave my absolute best to keep him and myself happy.
    Only to find out he never had any intentions of building a future with me :) This happened 1 day ago and it hurts, it hurts super bad.
    To see someone i cherished and fell in love with tell me that he "can't maintain a relationship" after countless flirtings and love talks that we had about how we will be end game and strong together. I believe he had found someone else or was just afraid his friends wouldn't accept him for who he is for dating me. Still, it hurts and i cant tell whether its because i miss him or that i was so stupid that i gave my everything to someone who wasn't even comfortable being next to me.

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      @ElenaPalmer-i8d หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you need help to restore your relationship. My relationship was Just Restored with the help of Dr Steve

    • @ElenaPalmer-i8d
      @ElenaPalmer-i8d หลายเดือนก่อน

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