Oh shut up like you're some psychiatrist professional help what some older person sitting there boring him asking him to relive the abuse know that's not what he needs dummy
The mom has enabled the kid’s behavior. Instead of getting him a babysitter, she needs to get him a therapist, and while he’s attending his sessions, she needs to attend the parenting class down the hall.
especially a child with emotional & behavioral problems in which she knew the sitter had no experience with then was mad it didn’t go well like lady take your kid to a specialist it’s obvious
Umm, the child suffered abuse from his father..! Is he spoiled, or is the mother letting him do what he made him happy at the time? Healthy or not. The son needs therapy and a mentor😊.
And a therapist still gets paid if you don’t get the results you wanted. There is never guarantee of results. It’s paid by the hr just like babysitters lol. I would have asked Harvey: “so Harvey, if you represent me in a legal matter, and the case doesn’t go my way, then I don’t have to pay you as my lawyer?” Please.
no , being cheap is when u pay less than u should , being a criminal is when u dont pay anything at all , that defendant STOLE the plaintiff's services and thats called theft of services in the law and its a crime .
Defendant is a nightmare and probably the cause of her sons issues. So bizarre she kept referring to her watching him as “dates”. Pretty sure she doesn’t want to actually take your problem child out for funsies. Tried everything to get out of paying.
the way she communicated to the plaintiff when texting about paying her leads me to believe she had done this many times before . a calm , cool , and collected criminal engaging in theft of services .
#catloudan. The mum us calling them dates because she's accusing the babysitter of arranging days out with the firefighter friend so that the babysitter can spend unofficial dating time with the firefighter. The babysitter said the days out with firefighter was so that the son can have a positive male role model but mum doesn't believe that or wants to use her accusation as an excuse to get out of paying.
I can't believe the pay was so low knowing the child needed special care. I feel terrible for the young woman that the pay was so low and then she wasn't even paid! Ridiculous.
After hearing the kid described & the mom's justification of all his & her own behaviors, all I can think of is the South Park World of Warcraft epidode & Cartman yelling, "Mom, bathroom." & mom came running (& we all know what happened next 😂).
I'm sorry but if a kid smashes his iPad and says it's ruining my life then you better hear him I would say that's pretty profound for a 7 year old. Electronic free home is what he needs.
i think thats just some relative or neighbor she talked into going with her to appear on the peoples court , i personally think this defendant does this all the time and gets out of paying for babysitters . she is probably a damn criminal .
A broken $800 laptop is not the first thing he has broken and not the last. Its the babysitter's fault you have a broken laptop? The out of touch in this one is strong.
IF the son really said "It's ruining my life," then it actually sounds like this nanny was having really good breakthroughs with him and he was trying to have self-awareness. That whole episode described was him having a full-on meltdown and then trying to address something he knows is a point of contention in the household. It's a shame that his mom is so sleazy; that young lady might've really made a difference in his life (not that she's required to ijs)
This child needs professional help for sure she is not equipped to handle his unresolved issues from what his parents are going through that affects his actions
Echoing everyone else saying he needs a therapist and not a sitter. Not a lot of sitters are gonna be equipped with the know-how to manage kids with special needs, and may feel even more stressed if the child does have a breakdown or behaves in some of the ways they described here. Plus if the son is going through "tough times", then yeah, you need a THERAPIST. No 10 year old should be acting out like this, and I'm kinda wondering why the mother isn't taking care of him herself when she's not busy with other things! How is that helping, exactly?!
10 years old is not a little boy. He's old enough to put sunscreen on. He will never grow up if you continue to treat him like he can't do anything. He also sounds like he needs therapy.
I know it may be harsh to make assumptions based on a less than 15min impression, but the defendant probably contributed to the turmoil her son experienced. She's a liar, manipulative, and lacks accountability. (traits her son probably picked up from her) She stuttered throughout her whole testimony, and even if I gave her the benefit of being nervous, her texts completely negated what was coming out of her mouth during the case. If my child had any medical condition (rare or not)and the sitter blatantly ignored my care instructions, they'd be done that very moment. If her son's behavior was due to traumatic past experiences, she needed to get him specialized care and needed to vet prospective sitters thoroughly before possibly exposing him to more trauma. Hopefully, someone with more sense, integrity, and concern stepped in to help that young man receive the proper care and steered him in the right direction in life!
The mom needs to understand that if you don't complain about what happened when it happened, and you actually gave positive and affirmative feedback of the person's actions, you CANNOT complain about their behavior and decisions later on especially when YOU GAVE APPROVAL OF IT!!!!
"Her (the sitter's), heart wasn't in it?" The mom was looking hard to find fault with the sitter. That was such a weird excuse to say "the sitter was taking my son on dates!" Totally ridiculous.
That's what I was going to say.. even if she didn't get a break through or they didn't get along she still put in the time.. the mom is disgusting. And probably part of the problem if not all of it
Thar poor child is screaming for help, but will likely have a future in the criminal justice system how he is behaving. Mom takes no responsibility and is a nightmare.
Of course, she deserves to be paid. i would not buy him another Ipad, he deliiberrtly destroyed one and they are part of his problem, let him learn to read and do activities. He definitly has behavior issues.
I agree with everyone saying her son needs behavioral help, not just a babysitter. He probably needs a babysitter that has a degree in child psychology, etc. However, something tells me she wouldn’t want to pay for that. If she’s trying to pay $12 an hour, she’s trying to pay the least amount of money possible and get a result that is worth way more than what she’s willing to pay for.
Mom is under the assumption, like a lot of people, is if you are unhappy with the work, you don't have to pay. It doesn't work like that. Judge Judy did a good job on the analogy with this. If you were hire at an office job and the employer wasn't happy with you, they can fire you, but they have to pay you for the work you did.
Judge Judy's anology is if you "eat the steak, you have to pay for the steak". You can't eat the whole steak and then say "well, it wasn't that great, so I'm not paying". You pay for the steak. Pay the lady!
@@bethcarico7549 She had a bunch. The steak one is the most popular. I do like the one where she asked the defendant (the person not paying) how would you feel if you were hired at a company and you came to work everyday and after 2weeks, you were fired and your employer told you they weren’t going to pay you because they didn’t like your work.
Good for her for getting her money! I took a landlord to court years ago for just under $250. We had Countless texts that he "sent the check" or "it's in the mail." Some people are just unbelievable
The defendant need to be there for her son period. No regular babysitter has the skills to deal with her sons condition. The amount of money she stiffed the babysitter wasn't even enough pay for her son's condition.
If the mother doesn't get her son help, she's going to regret it when he hits puberty and really has issues controlling his frustrations. Obviously the boy's medical issues and past abuse require some deep, carefully planned therapy. She doesn't even understand that a babysitter with no special training (working with special kids) is not a good fit for her son. She's raising a future incel.
Maybe the kid didn’t like her because she was the first person to tell him no, instead of all adults in his life just giving him what he wants. The mom is ridiculous.
I can see how the mother spoils him relentlessly to make up for her guilt over his childhood. He’s overweight and lazy and hiding out, and she wants a babysitter to fix him. Lazy again.
I'm glad the babysitter won. The mother is obviously unable to control her child and/or enabling the behavior if she needs to hire help. Withholding payment because the babysitter took her son to activities is ridiculous. Even the grandfather had to help! Pay the lady!
11:21 no matter what she gets paid she worked the hours so had to be paid the woman could have fired her at anytime and not paid!! Unless otherwise stated in a contract
Mom is enabling his behavior because of her trauma. I bet she feels so powerless because of the domestic violence she went through and he witnessed. They both need therapy!
As a parent of a now, well-adjusted adult with behavioral issues growing up... I understand this Nannies position. It was great seeing the defendant can completely undressed in front of millions of people. Shame on her... I think she's one of her child's biggest problems herself.
The kid needs special care..not just a baby sitter. The sitter is probably not qualified for the type of care the child needs. And if the sitter is somewhat qualified, she needs to be paid much more than what was offered to her. In fact let me rephrase that. Qulaified or not The sitter needs to be much more for taking on that kind of responsibility.
What the Heck she didn't say "thank you Douglas" oh man this is either a good case that has her distracted or what...?? Wonder what idea you all can conjure up.
The defendant had no intention of paying the plaintiff. She wanted expert care at bargain prices.. Her son needs someone to care for him that specializes in that field.
All these people saying he needs therapy... not at all. Just needs a parent who sets expectations and limits and has consequences when they are not met/fulfilled. He sounds like a lazy, entitled brat.
Her son needs professional help, not a babysitter or nanny. Get the son help before it's too late woman. Smh
This video was from 2013. The son is worse now spending all his time on Reddit and playing World of Warcraft!
If she can't pay the help, how would she pay the pors
I'm surprised there has not been professional services provided to this woman her son sounds like he needs professional help
the son now identifies as a girl
Oh shut up like you're some psychiatrist professional help what some older person sitting there boring him asking him to relive the abuse know that's not what he needs dummy
The mom has enabled the kid’s behavior. Instead of getting him a babysitter, she needs to get him a therapist, and while he’s attending his sessions, she needs to attend the parenting class down the hall.
So True !These Mother's are too much!!!
Preach! I totally agree with you.
Lmao right down the hall 😂😂😂
He needs therapy, not a babysitter.
You’re totally right and bright!
exactly! counseling is needed! pay the baby sitter! My 5 year old granddaughter can apply her own sunscreen except for her mid back
Exactly 💯 %
Yes, the mom need therapy. This woman is batshit crazy.
Id say he needs an appt with Dr. Jack and his mom is next!!
Stiffing someone who was taking care of your child is so low and dirty. shame on the defendant
I wholly concur.
as a unattractive fat woman it was her way of getting back at every attractive young woman , pure jealousy , thats why she didnt want to pay her .
I firmly agree, @Savvy-g4f!
especially a child with emotional & behavioral problems in which she knew the sitter had no experience with then was mad it didn’t go well like lady take your kid to a specialist it’s obvious
Mom is full of it
That kid needs proper mental health assessment cause his behaviour ain't right
The kid needs more of a professional caregiver than a babysitter.
@@Bishop545454 you shouldn’t have responded to my comment but you did.
@@davidwhite3180 excuse me?
@@davidwhite3180 You lost, senile, or both, boomer?
A specialized caregiver
She knows that she doesn't want to pay.
You need a child psychologist lady, stop blaming everyone else.
She spoiled him now he’s out of control and she can’t manage him anymore
Exactly!,!
Umm, the child suffered abuse from his father..! Is he spoiled, or is the mother letting him do what he made him happy at the time? Healthy or not. The son needs therapy and a mentor😊.
@@toobiasj good bye
@toobiasj no reality is some parents are just lazy.
No Father in the house. He's been feminized.
Even a therapist isn’t meant to RAISE HER CHILD ‼️‼️
And a therapist still gets paid if you don’t get the results you wanted. There is never guarantee of results. It’s paid by the hr just like babysitters lol.
I would have asked Harvey: “so Harvey, if you represent me in a legal matter, and the case doesn’t go my way, then I don’t have to pay you as my lawyer?” Please.
Wow- I would have loved to have her as a sitter! What a crappy thing to do to not pay someone who’s trying to take care of your troubled child 😡
Mom was just being a cheapskate and didn't want to pay
I'll pay it.
no , being cheap is when u pay less than u should , being a criminal is when u dont pay anything at all , that defendant STOLE the plaintiff's services and thats called theft of services in the law and its a crime .
Those enthusiastic texts from the mother cooked her case. Pay the young lady!
The mom would be completely in her rights to let any babysitter go. But you pay people for what they've done, then let them go.
Judge Judy would have said you ate the steak so you have to pay for it even if you didn’t like it
Correct !!😮
The mother is a professional victim and teaching her son to be the same. Pay your bills.
Defendant is a nightmare and probably the cause of her sons issues. So bizarre she kept referring to her watching him as “dates”. Pretty sure she doesn’t want to actually take your problem child out for funsies. Tried everything to get out of paying.
the way she communicated to the plaintiff when texting about paying her leads me to believe she had done this many times before . a calm , cool , and collected criminal engaging in theft of services .
#catloudan. The mum us calling them dates because she's accusing the babysitter of arranging days out with the firefighter friend so that the babysitter can spend unofficial dating time with the firefighter. The babysitter said the days out with firefighter was so that the son can have a positive male role model but mum doesn't believe that or wants to use her accusation as an excuse to get out of paying.
She's a liar.
$12 an hour for a disturbed kid. Not worth it.
Very low pay....
I can't believe the pay was so low knowing the child needed special care. I feel terrible for the young woman that the pay was so low and then she wasn't even paid! Ridiculous.
After hearing the kid described & the mom's justification of all his & her own behaviors, all I can think of is the South Park World of Warcraft epidode & Cartman yelling, "Mom, bathroom." & mom came running (& we all know what happened next 😂).
I had that in my head too when I heard this.
😂😂😂😂😂 yes!!!!
Lol
Only if they watch South Park
Lmao I can hear it too "Mooom!" 😂
I'm sorry but if a kid smashes his iPad and says it's ruining my life then you better hear him I would say that's pretty profound for a 7 year old. Electronic free home is what he needs.
As a former nanny to a difficult child , you have to pay more b/c of the difficulty. I was paid $25 per hour in '08.
Ok. $12 an hour was not enough money to care for a special needs kid ....
I'm sure McDonald's pays more than just 12$ 😢 ..
I would love to work with special needs kids and adults but sadly the pay is too low u can’t survive on it 😢 and those kids can use the help
“Listen to me Patrice! “ lmfaooo 😂😂😂 I ADOREEE AND LOOVE Judge Milan so much ❤❤😂😂
So if the other babysitter was so good why didnt she just keep her?
i think thats just some relative or neighbor she talked into going with her to appear on the peoples court , i personally think this defendant does this all the time and gets out of paying for babysitters . she is probably a damn criminal .
Because I reckon she realised the sons hard work
Exactly!
Putting a password and time limits on the electronics is simple and effective an easy fix
That’s exactly what my husband does.
6:50 how dare she call that woman irresponsible. She needs to take a long look at herself In a mirror!!!
He needs therapy & train your child dont leave it for the babysister!
A broken $800 laptop is not the first thing he has broken and not the last. Its the babysitter's fault you have a broken laptop? The out of touch in this one is strong.
IF the son really said "It's ruining my life," then it actually sounds like this nanny was having really good breakthroughs with him and he was trying to have self-awareness. That whole episode described was him having a full-on meltdown and then trying to address something he knows is a point of contention in the household. It's a shame that his mom is so sleazy; that young lady might've really made a difference in his life (not that she's required to ijs)
The boy was being sarcastic.
@@sdays59 Whoa!! You were there???
This child needs professional help for sure she is not equipped to handle his unresolved issues from what his parents are going through that affects his actions
She may not have been a good fit but still pay her!!!😳💰
The mom is a jerk
Probably takes better care of dog instead of her child who is clearly screaming for help
Of course the boy was unhappy with that mom, and sure she has conflict with his father
Seriously mom is complaining that the babysitter took her son to the park?
And he did learn his lesson that sunscreen is necessary.
Echoing everyone else saying he needs a therapist and not a sitter. Not a lot of sitters are gonna be equipped with the know-how to manage kids with special needs, and may feel even more stressed if the child does have a breakdown or behaves in some of the ways they described here.
Plus if the son is going through "tough times", then yeah, you need a THERAPIST. No 10 year old should be acting out like this, and I'm kinda wondering why the mother isn't taking care of him herself when she's not busy with other things! How is that helping, exactly?!
The mom is out of control and full of excuses. Don't blame the sitter, blame your parenting.
10 years old is not a little boy. He's old enough to put sunscreen on. He will never grow up if you continue to treat him like he can't do anything. He also sounds like he needs therapy.
I know it may be harsh to make assumptions based on a less than 15min impression, but the defendant probably contributed to the turmoil her son experienced. She's a liar, manipulative, and lacks accountability. (traits her son probably picked up from her) She stuttered throughout her whole testimony, and even if I gave her the benefit of being nervous, her texts completely negated what was coming out of her mouth during the case. If my child had any medical condition (rare or not)and the sitter blatantly ignored my care instructions, they'd be done that very moment. If her son's behavior was due to traumatic past experiences, she needed to get him specialized care and needed to vet prospective sitters thoroughly before possibly exposing him to more trauma. Hopefully, someone with more sense, integrity, and concern stepped in to help that young man receive the proper care and steered him in the right direction in life!
Her son smashed his Mom's Ipad and that's the babysitters Fault, HOW???
Lack of supervision
She’ll be bailing him out of jail soon enough 😂
The mom needs to understand that if you don't complain about what happened when it happened, and you actually gave positive and affirmative feedback of the person's actions, you CANNOT complain about their behavior and decisions later on especially when YOU GAVE APPROVAL OF IT!!!!
She spent A MONTH promising to pay her too!!!
@@WarGrowlmon18 FACTS!!!
"Her (the sitter's), heart wasn't in it?" The mom was looking hard to find fault with the sitter. That was such a weird excuse to say "the sitter was taking my son on dates!" Totally ridiculous.
I don’t care if the babysitter sat there and watched tv with the kid she still deserved to get paid. Child care ain’t free.
That's what I was going to say.. even if she didn't get a break through or they didn't get along she still put in the time.. the mom is disgusting. And probably part of the problem if not all of it
Prayers up for Florida...
Other states got it worse.
@@Hazel.Eyed.Geminithere’s another one heading right for Florida this isn’t a contest.
Prayers for those affected by the storms/floods.
🙏🙏
@@Hazel.Eyed.Geminiexcuse me what? It was the worse one in history
THIS LADIES SON NEEDS TO BE IN MEDICAL THERAPY...REAL TALK
Thar poor child is screaming for help, but will likely have a future in the criminal justice system how he is behaving. Mom takes no responsibility and is a nightmare.
Mother is a piece of work. IMO Sympathy for anyone who encounters this gem.
12 bucks to cook and take care of a brat on hour!? hell no
Of course, she deserves to be paid. i would not buy him another Ipad, he deliiberrtly destroyed one and they are part of his problem, let him learn to read and do activities. He definitly has behavior issues.
Seems as though the son needs therapy or a professional that deals with what he is going through particular. Hope he gets what he needs.
Also the mom needs to be a parent and not his friend. He may have a disability but you don’t baby him.
“She didn’t babysit my son, she took him on dates”😂
Sounds like a Vivica Fox life time movie😊 The wrong babysitter 😊
😂😂😂😂
😂😂🤣🤣😊
I think that’s a real movie on lifetime 😂😂😂
I just watched this movie yesterday!! Lol!!!
Pay up, momma!
This mom is producing a monster!!! Mom is an enabler.
This is a son that will end up I s prison because of his mothers ENABLING 15:37
No. He'll end up morbidly obese 600lbs
I thought the same thing. The baby sitter didn't break that tablet mam! Your son did and needs to learn to control his emotions and have consequences
Not the defendant lying at the end about who broke the iPad. 😒
this mom needs a wake up call!
Girl he needs to be put in a program.
I agree with everyone saying her son needs behavioral help, not just a babysitter. He probably needs a babysitter that has a degree in child psychology, etc. However, something tells me she wouldn’t want to pay for that. If she’s trying to pay $12 an hour, she’s trying to pay the least amount of money possible and get a result that is worth way more than what she’s willing to pay for.
“ listen to me, Patrice!!!” 😂😂😂😂
12:14 "LISTEN TO ME PATRICE"
...😂, never heard her address a litigant by their first name lol.
Well she didn’t want her last name mentioned….
Mom is under the assumption, like a lot of people, is if you are unhappy with the work, you don't have to pay. It doesn't work like that. Judge Judy did a good job on the analogy with this. If you were hire at an office job and the employer wasn't happy with you, they can fire you, but they have to pay you for the work you did.
Judge Judy's anology is if you "eat the steak, you have to pay for the steak". You can't eat the whole steak and then say "well, it wasn't that great, so I'm not paying". You pay for the steak. Pay the lady!
@@bethcarico7549 She had a bunch. The steak one is the most popular. I do like the one where she asked the defendant (the person not paying) how would you feel if you were hired at a company and you came to work everyday and after 2weeks, you were fired and your employer told you they weren’t going to pay you because they didn’t like your work.
Curt should have asked the other babysitter at the end if she was getting paid 😂
Not her reading her excuses 😂 pay the lady !
Good for her for getting her money! I took a landlord to court years ago for just under $250. We had Countless texts that he "sent the check" or "it's in the mail." Some people are just unbelievable
The defendant did not adequately prepare the plaintiff for the job. Regardless, pay her. Sheesh.
This lady needs to get grip on reality.. her sons behavior was created BY HER!
Well that kid is gonna be a super good person, she's not making excuses for his every behavior. What a great mother!
“Pigmented lesions” like she’s saying the kid gets because of a “birth defect” are sun spots. Not exactly life threatening.
The defendant need to be there for her son period. No regular babysitter has the skills to deal with her sons condition. The amount of money she stiffed the babysitter wasn't even enough pay for her son's condition.
This child requires care that costs more than $12 per hour.
If the mother doesn't get her son help, she's going to regret it when he hits puberty and really has issues controlling his frustrations. Obviously the boy's medical issues and past abuse require some deep, carefully planned therapy. She doesn't even understand that a babysitter with no special training (working with special kids) is not a good fit for her son. She's raising a future incel.
Maybe the kid didn’t like her because she was the first person to tell him no, instead of all adults in his life just giving him what he wants. The mom is ridiculous.
He's needs a therapist to evaluate him immediately. His mom is naive to the matter.🙄
The defendant is blaming everyone else but her child and herself.
I can see how the mother spoils him relentlessly to make up for her guilt over his childhood.
He’s overweight and lazy and hiding out, and she wants a babysitter to fix him.
Lazy again.
Quit blaming the babysitter for your poor handling of your child. Why did she let the other Nanny go and glad to have her back?
15:18 my son, my son I wonder how many times she uses her child for excuses , what sad excuse for mom!
$12??? And she isn’t even paying for the “activity”.
I have a suspicion she has done this to other babysitters as well.
I'm glad the babysitter won. The mother is obviously unable to control her child and/or enabling the behavior if she needs to hire help. Withholding payment because the babysitter took her son to activities is ridiculous. Even the grandfather had to help! Pay the lady!
the defendant is ridiculous
11:21 no matter what she gets paid she worked the hours so had to be paid the woman could have fired her at anytime and not paid!! Unless otherwise stated in a contract
Oh my gosh the defendant is ridiculous
Mom is enabling his behavior because of her trauma. I bet she feels so powerless because of the domestic violence she went through and he witnessed. They both need therapy!
500$ for 9 days taking care of & driuving a child who has different needs ok
She ate the steak, pay the lady. Hate deadbeats who use any excuse not to pay.
He needs therapy and a nanny who specializes in behaviour management
The son and mom need therapy
As a parent of a now, well-adjusted adult with behavioral issues growing up... I understand this Nannies position. It was great seeing the defendant can completely undressed in front of millions of people. Shame on her... I think she's one of her child's biggest problems herself.
10 years old and her refuring him to as a little boy is so cringe!!! 10 years old is not a little boy
The kid needs special care..not just a baby sitter. The sitter is probably not qualified for the type of care the child needs. And if the sitter is somewhat qualified, she needs to be paid much more than what was offered to her. In fact let me rephrase that. Qulaified or not The sitter needs to be much more for taking on that kind of responsibility.
That’s rich! She wants her son to lose weight…maybe lead by example?
He is a momma's boy. When he gets older it is going to be much worse!! Mommy gives in to him way too much.
What the Heck she didn't say "thank you Douglas" oh man this is either a good case that has her distracted or what...?? Wonder what idea you all can conjure up.
Came here to say that!
The defendant had no intention of paying the plaintiff. She wanted expert care at bargain prices.. Her son needs someone to care for him that specializes in that field.
It’s very obvious that the mom and the son share many of the same personality traits. Glad JM exposed her for the lies.
And this is what happens when you let an ipad/video games raise your kids.
All these people saying he needs therapy... not at all. Just needs a parent who sets expectations and limits and has consequences when they are not met/fulfilled. He sounds like a lazy, entitled brat.
Kuddos to the young girl, she tried to have positive results with the kid. The kid and mom need professional help.
10 years old and he can't put lotion on. My son is 7 and doing more things than that