I feel like parents should (every now and then) allow the child(ren) to see the process of scheduling appointments, paying bills, running errands, making calls, etc. This will make them both thankful that they are young but also educate them on how things are done so that adulting is not so much of a shock
I'm starting to see (At 28 😭) that adulting is basically nonstop, non-negotiable planning. Ghetto for sure. There's benefits to being grown but let's be honest this is for the birds! 😓
The BIRDSSSSSSS ! I’m 21 & TF over it. I was forced to grow up fast, since I was a kid literally man. Over itttt. I pray everyone including myself find balance , harmony and peaceee because this ain’t it 😭
If you both turn this into a podcast can you please keep the video aspect of it? I love seeing your faces, makes me feel more a part of the quality conversation 😭
Yes please, I would love if you made these into a podcast. But definitely agree that the video aspect is special, 🥺 so if there is a way to do both that would be amazing!! Idk if you’ve ever seen Zane and Heath’s podcast “Unfiltered” but they do both a video and audio version of their podcasts!
I can relate to what Josh is saying when he says that he doesn't love on himself i swear to you I never even celebrate my freaking birthday it's like you don't want to be a burden to other people I try to stay out of other people's way unless I feel like I can help them
Adulting is super hard. I have a 10 month old and I’m a single mom. I nested hard and bought a house and started a side business lmbo. I’m a one woman show and now I’m overweight with baby weight and trying to get on an IF or ADF schedule on top of fitting in fitness, better food, and now getting my daughter on a schedule and cooking good foods for her because I’m a very hands on mom. Maintaining a home hasn’t been easy while working full time and parenting full time. I’m also in school full time y’all, getting a trade in Radiography with the hopes of becoming a PA (Physician Assistant). Chileeeeee, tired doesn’t even come close to describing me lol. But I take a lot of pride in being the best version of myself and being the best mom I can be. My goal is to get my baby and I into a better neighborhood and her into a better school system. I think me being a Capricorn has something to do with me putting so much on myself. I expect a lot from myself and I’m my own worse critic.
School taught me how to be a good employeee SHEEESH you said it right there Josh. I’m studying to be an art teacher and want to to teach my students to be their own person with agency and the confidence to question the world around us
Well, it does depend on what you went to school for… because, yes, some of us went to school to work for someone else lol. Entrepreneurship isn’t for everyone. Buuut, I definitely agree that the life essentials (taxes, insurance, bills, investing, stocks, current events, etc) should be taught while you’re young. If school systems won’t do it (which they won’t) we’ll have to educate our children ourselves. 🙏🏾
Josh and Isi, Your future kids are going to be lucky to have you guys as parents. I think another piece of advice people tell us that we blow off is to enjoy the season of being a single couple ( without kids). Maybe you (and the collective) didn’t appreciate your season of being a teenager but you guys can enjoy being a youthful beautiful young couple with their own money! You guys got this season and you got this moment. I think a lot of pain comes from time traveling into the future and past and thinking I will be happy when this happens or I was happier when I had it like this. Know this moment ain’t half bad and appreciate it for what it is. Anyway, the wise say, enjoy the season of being single, enjoy the season of being a couple, the season of being engaged, and then married and then being married with kids. Just be grateful for where you are at. Love to the quality gang and of course Josh and Isi ❤️🥳🙏🏾✌🏾
To a very large extent, adulting can seem like one extended moment of waiting to exhale. Unless you make time to rest, there’s no time to rest because there’s *always some responsibility to be executed. It can definitely be liberating at times, but sometimes, it’s like a non-stop hamster wheel.
I been MIA lately myself just a whole lot going on. I’m in the mist of leveling up financially, mentally and physically( physically might come a little later😂). But man being an adult especially with little ones has been challenging! Wish nothing but the best for you two!!
Love this convo. One thing that I wanted to react on is the adulting part. It's not adulting, it's capitalism. The fact that we are/get/can be out of balance as we grow up/adult/professionalize is related to what our society focuses on. It's adulting on the cover, but the secret ingredient related to the specific time issue is capitalism. It makes us feel like we success when we go hard, rest is a treat instead of a need. Food is not a need, it's a when I have time. I personally also struggle with eating, I figured I have to plan and organize groceries, from what I need to when I will buy it. And planning and executing meal preps, buying snacks w/ nutritions (fruits, nuts & smoothies).
as a fellow entrepreneur I think we should normalize speaking positively about our blessings. I know things can get tough but for people who work for others and have to literally slave all day at minimum wage ,it sounds a little ungrateful. There’s so much beauty in adulthood I prefer to focus on the positive
Yeah I hear you but we can also simultaneously acknowledge what's wrong and what right at the same time . Me verbalizing what I dont like about adulthood doesn't hinder me from acknowledging what I do love and appreciate about adulthood . I think it's when we have to remain so positive we can't even tell the truth that makes us become passively more negative .
I love quality conversations!!! As someone who just turned 26 last month, I love hearing your honest and transparent perspective on how you're dealing with adulthood. It is so tough! I'm glad I'm not alone. Keep these coming!
When i saw y’all upload , i whole went grocery shopping , came back cooked and poured myself wine and now I’m in the bed about to watch y’all . I’m in Chicago so y’all know it’s raining today . Just wanted to let y’all know i watched this with a stank face for 10 seconds cause y’all was really gone for 2 weeks
Shoot buying furniture for your own place 🥺🥺🥺 but the outcome is worth it. Buying lamps, rugs, (RUGS I never knew how much a RUG would cost), a mattress, ALL OF IT expensive as hell
i know that you guys want to keep this whole wedding thing a secret, but a wedding series would be great, sharing what you feel comfortable with sharing of course because we hear a lot about the wedding but it would be great to see some of the actions behind it, it could also help those currently planning a wedding? just a thought.
If you find it hard to fit time in to eat, protein shakes and smoothies and a good supplement they are really quick. Primere protein was a good solution for me for breakfast and I would make a smoothies later in the day to help curb my appetite without over eating later on. You can pre chop your veggies and fruit before hand in ziplock bags and then take them out as needed and blend quick.
Omg! I was so surprised when Josh mentioned sickle cells! My little and brothers and I were born with it and I could tell y’all so much of how health is the greatest wealth. There’s never a time my family and I don’t forget how important our lives are and we thank God and pray everyday. Much blessings to you guys! Yes life is crazy but everything will be okay in Jesus Name! Amen! ☺️💛
Speaking 💯 facts!!! My hubby and I decided to homeschool our children and we have three. Thankfully my hubby is in finance. We are college sweethearts. We got together during sophomore year. Now that we have kids we teach them as part of math to learn budgeting concepts. My two daughters have their own business selling jewelry. They are learning skills at home such as cleaning and all that etc. As an adult their are some things I am unlearning and relearning as well. So many things that adulting has and we aren't prepared for...I'm sorry this is everywhere but such is life...back to the children we are also following Dave Ramsey's smart kids concepts to fit our life and you can see the difference. Learning fundamentals are so important. My hubby is also a TH-camr so they will learn those skills. I own a tutoring business so we can have them learn business skills as well.im so glad you mentioned this!
To be honest, when I see what curriculum is taught starting from Elementary up to High school, I see it as teaching you the basics you need to know, but also exposing you to different subjects that you may be interested in down the road. So I do see some value in being exposed to different things because you never know what your niche might be. Now when you hit college then I think that’s the appropriate time to take a business course. Personal Finance, Corporate finance etc. I think that’s when it matters to you the most, other than trying to learn that in middle and high school.
I agree with you to a certain extent. Some people can’t afford to attend any schooling beyond college and I believe the skills they’ve discuss could be valuable to all people so that when graduation comes there is some confidence stepping out into the real world.
It's so frustrating because of where I'm from you more than likely will never see this comment but.. I just want to say that I've been watching u guys since I was about 15 (well started watch Isi and then over to Josh and Isi) and I'm turn 20 this year and I must say that you both are the only persons that really gave me "the talk"and really are preparing me for adulthood. So thank you so much for that. Josh sounds like a sociologist saying how school prepares us to be employees which is very true I learnt that in sociology class it's under the Marxist theory. I'm only 9 mins in the video so Im going to go back and watch the rest lol..
Josh not moisturizing after a shower gives me hope for my man. He dang near refuses to put lotion on most of the time. I’m keep hope alive tho. 😫 Aside from that, I really appreciate the #transparency. As someone a little younger (I’m 21), it’s nice to see a young, yet mature perspective of life ( I hope that makes sense). These talks always give me some great things to think about as well as SO MUCH validation. Love y’all!
Once Josh started talking about school…. PREACH. Me and my younger brother discuss this alll the time. If I had to be a Guinea pig for my younger siblings, I’ll continue to do it faithfully to give them the BEST advice I can that our parents can’t about the things happening within our generation.
Yes!! Podcast! Because I always be listening to these as I carry about my day (working out, walking, in the car, cooking, studying, practically everything)
Adulthood is ghetto. But we all out here freestyling. In reference to 46:40 Me as a parent, I do every thing on sunday night for my daughter. Get clothes ready, have the hair prepped for a style that will last all week. That's what works for us.
I’m glad you all are getting your health in order! Often times, the 20 something’s wait until they want kids to get their regular check ups. Get blood work OFTEN and don’t skip the dentist!! Oral issues can be early indicators of other health problems! The more you go to the doctor, the more history you have. That way if something changes, there’s a trail to assist with a diagnosis!
I'm really proud of both of you. Getting it together, now. It's a long marathon and God's will, I am praying a very beautiful race. Yes, since you are putting it to the maps now, you will be okay. God bless.
I’m 19, turning 20 this year, and adulting is creeping up on me like a storm. Somehow I feel I should have my shit together. I have been going through some adult things that are pushing me to get my life in order and get serious about shit (especially financially). I know I’m still extremely young, but I feel life (God lowkey) is pressuring me to put my grown woman pants on, specifically with the milestones I promised myself when I was a teen I’d accomplish in my 20s. It’s been GHE - TTO, been unstable the second I got out of high school (I study abroad, in middle of the PANORAMIC, you can imagine). However, even though I’ve been going through it I’m sure if God hadn’t literally KICKED my ass out of my comfort zone, I would NEVER get to working to achieve what I want to do at the time I’d like to. It’s not easy but I hope all the anxiety and pressure is worth it.
Hey...a quick suggestion about eating. I understand super focus want to get it done mode. Perhaps set a few alarms 1) initial reminder 2) I ignored the first alarm and 3) ok, I better get up and fix/order something. Then it will become a habit. I use alarms for water (very helpful). Belated Happy Birthday Josh! #AquariansRule Glad to see you guys back!
Please, I would love to have this in podcast form. Life isn’t easy, but it’s worth it, I mean that’s what people tell me at least lol, so y’all just keep chugging along!
Yessss doing good at every aspect in life is HARDDDD. Adulting is very much ghetto asl. Especially if you’re trying to make something out of life. I never understand how ppl just do nothing at all. There’s always SOMETHING to do in every waking moment.
I'm 32 son to be 33 in March. I completely understand where y'all are coming from. I got my first life insurance policy at 30. I'm starting preparation to buy a home. I'm still working to get where I want to be career wise. However, 2020 surprised me with health issues. I have an autoimmune disease called Sjögren’s Syndrome and I have TMJ that causes daily pain. This requires me to slow down more than I'm used to. It's harder to focus and I'm forced to rest because stress increases symptoms. I'm so glad to see you guys taking the steps to get your adulting in order. I would listen to this as a podcast as well. I listen to Dave Ramsey personally.
Y’all should definitely watch bell air on peacock. It’s fire🔥, they just made it into a drama🎭 . And don’t stop at the first episode. At least watch two before deciding if you wanna continue
I'm graduating college in May lol! This first segment of the conversation is very insightful and also something I think about now that I'll soon be entering the real world. Let's see how it goes. I love when you guys upload these type of videos.
Meal prep your lunch for the week... prep on Sunday for Monday - Friday meals... Or Friday can get your free day but trust me it will make your lives so much easier 💪🏽
best thing you guys can do for food is try and cook Sunday and meal prep at least for lunch for 3 days to start. I have trouble with eating myself and looking for other ideas for help.
I’m just so used to easily finding y’all here on TH-cam, hope we’ll still be able to easily get y’all if you transition these conversations into podcasts❤️
Like this is one of the nost relatable videos yall have ever made. When yall said that 2-3yrs and we dont eat lunch we dont breakfast I felt it in my soul
YES YES YES TO THE PODCAST I think you can convert the current qualitty convos from videos into an audio file. As a musician I use an app/program called Soundtrap that you can use to record the podcasts... then i believe with the Podcast app its a very easy upload
I have the same problem with eating but my go to is usually juice because I get the nutrients my body needs still or a smoothie. You can also look into a meal prep service so all you have to do is heat it up
When Josh said he wished he was sat down and talked to forreal about what it’s like to be an adult I felt that. I 100% agree. I will definitely be sitting my kids down when the time comes so they can truly enjoy their childhood and freedom longer ♥️
I am 33 and I am struggling with adulting. Trying to find a balance working full time, being a parent, sports, and fitness. It's alot and hard to find a routine. Or being consistent with the routine.
All you have to do is use the anchor app. You can start by just using the audio from these videos and then evolve to structuring the convos to ur unique podcast style! The anchor app is a Spotify company
i love y’all and y’all’s videos!! as much as i want y’all to post ALL THE TIME… whenever y’all dont, i KNOW its for a valid reason. nonetheless, i still check everyday for y’all’s quality content!!
Well if you guys turn it in to a podcast can it still be a video .. cause I feel like I’m in the same room with you guys while your talking .. maybe like a podcast & video
It’s so funny how you mentioned a self care basket cause that is exactly what I made my boyfriend for Valentine’s Day. It’s kinda expensive but it’s a good investment because they are gonna use EVERYTHING. Nothing is going to go to waste and they feel good after using it
Raven Elyse currently does a visual podcast as well as a regular one. It’s called On Another Note. I think she talks about pulling the audio and just loading it to make the podcast. If I can find the video about it I’ll link it.
Hey josh and Isi, maybe try pre-prepping meals in containers and storing them in the freezer for a few days or so at a time, and when you're hungry, you just heat up one. Next time y'all cook, make a larger portion and store some away.
I feel like parents should (every now and then) allow the child(ren) to see the process of scheduling appointments, paying bills, running errands, making calls, etc. This will make them both thankful that they are young but also educate them on how things are done so that adulting is not so much of a shock
I'm starting to see (At 28 😭) that adulting is basically nonstop, non-negotiable planning. Ghetto for sure. There's benefits to being grown but let's be honest this is for the birds! 😓
I’m 21 and just stepping into adulthood and I definitely agree with the ghetto part
The BIRDSSSSSSS ! I’m 21 & TF over it. I was forced to grow up fast, since I was a kid literally man. Over itttt. I pray everyone including myself find balance , harmony and peaceee because this ain’t it 😭
@@PorcheNailedIt 🙏🏾
😂😂😂Ya’ll sound like my son and daugther whose 27 and 29..
If you both turn this into a podcast can you please keep the video aspect of it? I love seeing your faces, makes me feel more a part of the quality conversation 😭
Yes please, I would love if you made these into a podcast. But definitely agree that the video aspect is special, 🥺 so if there is a way to do both that would be amazing!! Idk if you’ve ever seen Zane and Heath’s podcast “Unfiltered” but they do both a video and audio version of their podcasts!
I can relate to what Josh is saying when he says that he doesn't love on himself i swear to you I never even celebrate my freaking birthday it's like you don't want to be a burden to other people I try to stay out of other people's way unless I feel like I can help them
Just a reminder: Swearing is a sin whether there is good/bad or no intent at all. The LORD sees this as creating unnecessary oaths
Adulting is super hard. I have a 10 month old and I’m a single mom. I nested hard and bought a house and started a side business lmbo. I’m a one woman show and now I’m overweight with baby weight and trying to get on an IF or ADF schedule on top of fitting in fitness, better food, and now getting my daughter on a schedule and cooking good foods for her because I’m a very hands on mom. Maintaining a home hasn’t been easy while working full time and parenting full time. I’m also in school full time y’all, getting a trade in Radiography with the hopes of becoming a PA (Physician Assistant). Chileeeeee, tired doesn’t even come close to describing me lol. But I take a lot of pride in being the best version of myself and being the best mom I can be. My goal is to get my baby and I into a better neighborhood and her into a better school system. I think me being a Capricorn has something to do with me putting so much on myself. I expect a lot from myself and I’m my own worse critic.
I would recommend scheduling a lunchtime/break during your work day. Just like you would in a actual workplace. Even if it’s for 15-30 mins.
Ya like a timer or something
Yes!! I hope they see this fueling your body and mind is crucial
School taught me how to be a good employeee SHEEESH you said it right there Josh. I’m studying to be an art teacher and want to to teach my students to be their own person with agency and the confidence to question the world around us
I think what you're doing to help your students is amazing! We need more people like you :)
Well, it does depend on what you went to school for… because, yes, some of us went to school to work for someone else lol. Entrepreneurship isn’t for everyone.
Buuut, I definitely agree that the life essentials (taxes, insurance, bills, investing, stocks, current events, etc) should be taught while you’re young. If school systems won’t do it (which they won’t) we’ll have to educate our children ourselves. 🙏🏾
Meal prep!! Get your “assistant” to do that for you guys!!
This is such a QUALLITTTYYYYYYYYY conversation!!! So many reality checks and life facts! Love y’all
Josh and Isi, Your future kids are going to be lucky to have you guys as parents.
I think another piece of advice people tell us that we blow off is to enjoy the season of being a single couple ( without kids). Maybe you (and the collective) didn’t appreciate your season of being a teenager but you guys can enjoy being a youthful beautiful young couple with their own money! You guys got this season and you got this moment. I think a lot of pain comes from time traveling into the future and past and thinking I will be happy when this happens or I was happier when I had it like this. Know this moment ain’t half bad and appreciate it for what it is.
Anyway, the wise say, enjoy the season of being single, enjoy the season of being a couple, the season of being engaged, and then married and then being married with kids. Just be grateful for where you are at.
Love to the quality gang and of course Josh and Isi ❤️🥳🙏🏾✌🏾
My niece and nephew!! Some of the dopest to do it! I love y’all! Be encouraged young, gorgeous and black king and queen 😘
To a very large extent, adulting can seem like one extended moment of waiting to exhale. Unless you make time to rest, there’s no time to rest because there’s *always some responsibility to be executed. It can definitely be liberating at times, but sometimes, it’s like a non-stop hamster wheel.
Wow. Well said
Y’all need to open a PO Box! Unboxing and trying black owned businesses’ products with quality reviews would be bomb 🔥💓
I been MIA lately myself just a whole lot going on. I’m in the mist of leveling up financially, mentally and physically( physically might come a little later😂). But man being an adult especially with little ones has been challenging! Wish nothing but the best for you two!!
Love this convo. One thing that I wanted to react on is the adulting part.
It's not adulting, it's capitalism. The fact that we are/get/can be out of balance as we grow up/adult/professionalize is related to what our society focuses on. It's adulting on the cover, but the secret ingredient related to the specific time issue is capitalism. It makes us feel like we success when we go hard, rest is a treat instead of a need. Food is not a need, it's a when I have time. I personally also struggle with eating, I figured I have to plan and organize groceries, from what I need to when I will buy it. And planning and executing meal preps, buying snacks w/ nutritions (fruits, nuts & smoothies).
awwww ive been looking at your old videos bc I missed yall lmaooo. i hope everythings going well.
as a fellow entrepreneur I think we should normalize speaking positively about our blessings. I know things can get tough but for people who work for others and have to literally slave all day at minimum wage ,it sounds a little ungrateful. There’s so much beauty in adulthood I prefer to focus on the positive
I love this comment!
Yeah I hear you but we can also simultaneously acknowledge what's wrong and what right at the same time . Me verbalizing what I dont like about adulthood doesn't hinder me from acknowledging what I do love and appreciate about adulthood . I think it's when we have to remain so positive we can't even tell the truth that makes us become passively more negative .
@@brynnk2518 balance is important. i agree .i enjoy honesty as well as positivity . a healthy balance is best .
I love quality conversations!!! As someone who just turned 26 last month, I love hearing your honest and transparent perspective on how you're dealing with adulthood. It is so tough! I'm glad I'm not alone. Keep these coming!
When i saw y’all upload , i whole went grocery shopping , came back cooked and poured myself wine and now I’m in the bed about to watch y’all . I’m in Chicago so y’all know it’s raining today . Just wanted to let y’all know i watched this with a stank face for 10 seconds cause y’all was really gone for 2 weeks
Shoot buying furniture for your own place 🥺🥺🥺 but the outcome is worth it. Buying lamps, rugs, (RUGS I never knew how much a RUG would cost), a mattress, ALL OF IT expensive as hell
i know that you guys want to keep this whole wedding thing a secret, but a wedding series would be great, sharing what you feel comfortable with sharing of course because we hear a lot about the wedding but it would be great to see some of the actions behind it, it could also help those currently planning a wedding? just a thought.
If you find it hard to fit time in to eat, protein shakes and smoothies and a good supplement they are really quick. Primere protein was a good solution for me for breakfast and I would make a smoothies later in the day to help curb my appetite without over eating later on. You can pre chop your veggies and fruit before hand in ziplock bags and then take them out as needed and blend quick.
Omg! I was so surprised when Josh mentioned sickle cells! My little and brothers and I were born with it and I could tell y’all so much of how health is the greatest wealth. There’s never a time my family and I don’t forget how important our lives are and we thank God and pray everyday. Much blessings to you guys! Yes life is crazy but everything will be okay in Jesus Name! Amen! ☺️💛
Speaking 💯 facts!!! My hubby and I decided to homeschool our children and we have three. Thankfully my hubby is in finance. We are college sweethearts. We got together during sophomore year. Now that we have kids we teach them as part of math to learn budgeting concepts. My two daughters have their own business selling jewelry. They are learning skills at home such as cleaning and all that etc. As an adult their are some things I am unlearning and relearning as well. So many things that adulting has and we aren't prepared for...I'm sorry this is everywhere but such is life...back to the children we are also following Dave Ramsey's smart kids concepts to fit our life and you can see the difference. Learning fundamentals are so important. My hubby is also a TH-camr so they will learn those skills. I own a tutoring business so we can have them learn business skills as well.im so glad you mentioned this!
To be honest, when I see what curriculum is taught starting from Elementary up to High school, I see it as teaching you the basics you need to know, but also exposing you to different subjects that you may be interested in down the road. So I do see some value in being exposed to different things because you never know what your niche might be.
Now when you hit college then I think that’s the appropriate time to take a business course. Personal Finance, Corporate finance etc. I think that’s when it matters to you the most, other than trying to learn that in middle and high school.
I agree with you to a certain extent. Some people can’t afford to attend any schooling beyond college and I believe the skills they’ve discuss could be valuable to all people so that when graduation comes there is some confidence stepping out into the real world.
It's so frustrating because of where I'm from you more than likely will never see this comment but.. I just want to say that I've been watching u guys since I was about 15 (well started watch Isi and then over to Josh and Isi) and I'm turn 20 this year and I must say that you both are the only persons that really gave me "the talk"and really are preparing me for adulthood. So thank you so much for that. Josh sounds like a sociologist saying how school prepares us to be employees which is very true I learnt that in sociology class it's under the Marxist theory. I'm only 9 mins in the video so Im going to go back and watch the rest lol..
Josh not moisturizing after a shower gives me hope for my man. He dang near refuses to put lotion on most of the time. I’m keep hope alive tho. 😫 Aside from that, I really appreciate the #transparency. As someone a little younger (I’m 21), it’s nice to see a young, yet mature perspective of life ( I hope that makes sense). These talks always give me some great things to think about as well as SO MUCH validation. Love y’all!
Once Josh started talking about school…. PREACH. Me and my younger brother discuss this alll the time. If I had to be a Guinea pig for my younger siblings, I’ll continue to do it faithfully to give them the BEST advice I can that our parents can’t about the things happening within our generation.
Yes!! Podcast! Because I always be listening to these as I carry about my day (working out, walking, in the car, cooking, studying, practically everything)
Josh is so wise, I love to see it.
Adulthood is ghetto. But we all out here freestyling. In reference to 46:40 Me as a parent, I do every thing on sunday night for my daughter. Get clothes ready, have the hair prepped for a style that will last all week. That's what works for us.
I’m glad you all are getting your health in order! Often times, the 20 something’s wait until they want kids to get their regular check ups. Get blood work OFTEN and don’t skip the dentist!! Oral issues can be early indicators of other health problems! The more you go to the doctor, the more history you have. That way if something changes, there’s a trail to assist with a diagnosis!
I’ve been watching old videos but glad y’all are back!!! Haven’t watched it but I know imma love it!!
I'm really proud of both of you. Getting it together, now. It's a long marathon and God's will, I am praying a very beautiful race. Yes, since you are putting it to the maps now, you will be okay. God bless.
Definitely missed y’all! Two weeks seems like forever💕 I hope y’all are doing okay
I’m 19, turning 20 this year, and adulting is creeping up on me like a storm. Somehow I feel I should have my shit together. I have been going through some adult things that are pushing me to get my life in order and get serious about shit (especially financially). I know I’m still extremely young, but I feel life (God lowkey) is pressuring me to put my grown woman pants on, specifically with the milestones I promised myself when I was a teen I’d accomplish in my 20s. It’s been GHE - TTO, been unstable the second I got out of high school (I study abroad, in middle of the PANORAMIC, you can imagine). However, even though I’ve been going through it I’m sure if God hadn’t literally KICKED my ass out of my comfort zone, I would NEVER get to working to achieve what I want to do at the time I’d like to. It’s not easy but I hope all the anxiety and pressure is worth it.
You’ve got this girllll!
@@starsuperville6863 Thank you so much love!
Hey...a quick suggestion about eating. I understand super focus want to get it done mode. Perhaps set a few alarms 1) initial reminder 2) I ignored the first alarm and 3) ok, I better get up and fix/order something. Then it will become a habit. I use alarms for water (very helpful). Belated Happy Birthday Josh! #AquariansRule Glad to see you guys back!
A thought I'd share is that I think parents grow with their kids. Great to prep, but so much just comes with learning as you go.
Yall should try meal prepping or buy frozen Fruits to make smoothies
Josh is such an Aqua! We have so many ideas and so many cool thoughts but we struggle to organize them and it holds us back. I totally agree!
Loved this convo really eye opening thank you guys much love Josh and Isi
Love love listening to you guys podcast please be blessed ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏
definitely need a podcast. I watch youtube while doing cardio!! and loved yall the quality conversations during my workoutssss
As long as you all continue to keep these conversations on TH-cam I am fine with the podcast.
Please, I would love to have this in podcast form. Life isn’t easy, but it’s worth it, I mean that’s what people tell me at least lol, so y’all just keep chugging along!
Yessss doing good at every aspect in life is HARDDDD. Adulting is very much ghetto asl. Especially if you’re trying to make something out of life. I never understand how ppl just do nothing at all. There’s always SOMETHING to do in every waking moment.
I myself had a recent Doctor's appointment (today actually) and it was very eye opening. So I completely understand on that part.
I love to have these types of conversations with people. I find it so stimulating
I'm 32 son to be 33 in March. I completely understand where y'all are coming from. I got my first life insurance policy at 30. I'm starting preparation to buy a home. I'm still working to get where I want to be career wise. However, 2020 surprised me with health issues. I have an autoimmune disease called Sjögren’s Syndrome and I have TMJ that causes daily pain. This requires me to slow down more than I'm used to. It's harder to focus and I'm forced to rest because stress increases symptoms. I'm so glad to see you guys taking the steps to get your adulting in order. I would listen to this as a podcast as well. I listen to Dave Ramsey personally.
Yasss come through with the QUALITY 🤌🏾 conversations!!! 😍 I love these definitely keep em coming! Missed you guys 🥺
Y’all should definitely watch bell air on peacock. It’s fire🔥, they just made it into a drama🎭 . And don’t stop at the first episode. At least watch two before deciding if you wanna continue
I'm graduating college in May lol! This first segment of the conversation is very insightful and also something I think about now that I'll soon be entering the real world. Let's see how it goes. I love when you guys upload these type of videos.
I'm at work so I'll finish this later but I came to support you guys! ❤️❤️
Welcome back you guys🥺. Hearing Josh talk about his gifts, aww😊
Meal prep your lunch for the week... prep on Sunday for Monday - Friday meals... Or Friday can get your free day but trust me it will make your lives so much easier 💪🏽
Love both y’all hair
best thing you guys can do for food is try and cook Sunday and meal prep at least for lunch for 3 days to start. I have trouble with eating myself and looking for other ideas for help.
I would definitely love this as a Podcast!
the struggle is so real!!! Thanks for the transparency. You are not alone!
I’m just so used to easily finding y’all here on TH-cam, hope we’ll still be able to easily get y’all if you transition these conversations into podcasts❤️
Like this is one of the nost relatable videos yall have ever made. When yall said that 2-3yrs and we dont eat lunch we dont breakfast I felt it in my soul
Was expecting a Valentines special and I get this. Wow!
I heard the same quote Josh mentioned and that is so true I get off track so fast
YES YES YES TO THE PODCAST
I think you can convert the current qualitty convos from videos into an audio file.
As a musician I use an app/program called Soundtrap that you can use to record the podcasts... then i believe with the Podcast app its a very easy upload
I have the same problem with eating but my go to is usually juice because I get the nutrients my body needs still or a smoothie. You can also look into a meal prep service so all you have to do is heat it up
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I definitely was in the gym this morning listening to this video. I could rock with this as a podcast. The convenience 🙏🏾
Welcome back! I definitely missed yall! I was looking for yall! Love & blessings 💕🙌🏾
I’m Excited!!! Yes I love the QuaLITy conversations!!!
When Josh said he wished he was sat down and talked to forreal about what it’s like to be an adult I felt that. I 100% agree. I will definitely be sitting my kids down when the time comes so they can truly enjoy their childhood and freedom longer ♥️
Btw ISI I’m SO GLAD you’re okay and everything came back negative!! ♥️🙏
Glad to see y'all back we glad y'all come on and talk about what's going on the stock market in your life we like session like this
You guys are strong enough to make it happen. Thank you for build a rock nation. Love you always!💪🏾💯🥰
5:40 interesting! I would love to hear y'alls version of that conversation! Maybe even bring Mama Edeko to hear her opinion? Idk, just an idea :)
I am 33 and I am struggling with adulting. Trying to find a balance working full time, being a parent, sports, and fitness. It's alot and hard to find a routine. Or being consistent with the routine.
I definitely played this as I was driving running errands-I loveeee the QuaLITy Conversations🥰
Woo chile. Raising a teen rn and it is overwhelming
All you have to do is use the anchor app. You can start by just using the audio from these videos and then evolve to structuring the convos to ur unique podcast style! The anchor app is a Spotify company
Definately up for the podcast idea and yall should def keep the name Quality Conversations and then put a title
i love y’all and y’all’s videos!! as much as i want y’all to post ALL THE TIME… whenever y’all dont, i KNOW its for a valid reason. nonetheless, i still check everyday for y’all’s quality content!!
As an 18 year old, thank you for this. I feel like I’m drowning
Well if you guys turn it in to a podcast can it still be a video .. cause I feel like I’m in the same room with you guys while your talking .. maybe like a podcast & video
I’m super busy with work meal prepping for the week on Sunday so I can grab helps me a lot and saves me $$
It’s so funny how you mentioned a self care basket cause that is exactly what I made my boyfriend for Valentine’s Day. It’s kinda expensive but it’s a good investment because they are gonna use EVERYTHING. Nothing is going to go to waste and they feel good after using it
Love the conversation. Josh it’s not just a man thing, I never know what I want.
yalll pleaseee make a podcast 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
definitely would love to have this as a podcast !!!
Great conversation...Maybe mealprep 4 a few days at a time breakfast and lunch..
Raven Elyse currently does a visual podcast as well as a regular one. It’s called On Another Note. I think she talks about pulling the audio and just loading it to make the podcast. If I can find the video about it I’ll link it.
Yessss I missed y’all been bored on here 😭😭
yesssss i been waiting for the podcasttttt
Hope you all are doing well ❤️
HEYYY YASSS WE MISSED YALL😂😭❤️
Adulting is always having something to do whether you want to or not lol soooo many things to be aware/attentive of
Man i understand, I’m 27 and in the same boat.
I need this to be on Spotify so I can listen to it on my way to work.
thats so funny i was out of the state for 2 weeks and yall were off youtube for 2 weeks
Hey josh maybe you should think about bullet journaling , the original Ryder Carroll method. It has really helped me organize my brain and my life .
Hey josh and Isi, maybe try pre-prepping meals in containers and storing them in the freezer for a few days or so at a time, and when you're hungry, you just heat up one. Next time y'all cook, make a larger portion and store some away.
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