Are we signing a prenup? | Answering Tough Premarital Questions
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ส.ค. 2024
- Josh and Isi dive deep and answer some tough premarital questions. Are we signing a prenup? You'll have to tune in to find out.
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Nobody ever plans for a hostile separation/divorce. Nevertheless, it is encouraging that the two of you see things the way you currently do, regarding a prenup. Sounds mature and fair.
@@HolyRollerTV bitch please she supported him throughout the years stop it cause you jealous of her
My mom said instead of a prenup. The wife should have her own personal account, the husband should have his own personal account. Then have a separately JOINED account. So you still got your own hard earned cash under you name. But in the unfortunate events of a divorce (God forbid ofc) you could always split that joined account into two.
What about in the car of other things, such as if you guys bought a home while married
@@chanelcampbell3032 if equally purchased it will have to be fought for. if one person contributes more than the other they have a better leeway of inheriting that property. anything with dual ownership will always be complicated in most instances.
Same for my parents
Yess
This has always been my way of thinking about it. Joint account for bills, vacations and the like. Separate personal accounts. Not wishing anything would happen but sometimes things do and I’ve seen cases where one person will drain the account leaving the other with nothing and since they’re both on the account there’s nothing the bank can do.
The very last question immediately put me in the mindset of my families rough patch. As a kid my families rough patch was when my mom had a still birth. We names him and everything. I was like 7 but i still remember. My mom moved out and moved back in with her parents. She was extremely depressed and was prescribed crazy medications for her depression. My dad became Mr mom over night. As a kid thou i was sad for my mom but so happy to have all this Quality time with my dad. At one point i left bad to feel happy when i new my mom was so sad. She got better eventually but for a brief persia’s of time the whole dynamic changed. My dad was making lunches and picking us up from practice, and then going back to work. I would see my mom only on the weekends It honestly should have been more traumatic for me but I was very young and plus my dad was amazing.
Wow thanks so much for sharing 🥰
Your pop was AMAZING thank God for good dads
It makes sense now, the reason you guys feel so genuine is because of those moments you guys have where you don’t want to turn on the camera. As a woman in a healthy relationship I always identified with you guys and now I get it. You actually like each other! That is so important, society is obsessed with the word “love” but liking someone is more powerful to me.
GIRL THIS!!! Absolutely agree.
I was watching a day too late and a dollar too short. The line was “I will always love you. I just don’t like yo ass no mo “ 😂😂 so accurate.
Prenup. Period. Nobody goes into marriage, anticipating divorce. The stage of your relationship you're in when you're wanting marriage is different than when you come to a divorce stage, if ever. The future is unknown. And people mature and change sometimes. Unknowingly. Now is now. You know the "Now." You don't know the future. Hopefully, you never need the prenup. But in the unfortunate situation you did, it's there.
I feel like most divorces end up being nasty because there's no prenup. Everyone is in their feelings and some feel like they need to be compensated for the years they invested in that relationship. I feel like a prenup protects the assets as well as the peace during a divorce. No one really plans to get divorced but life happens and it's better safe than sorry. It's not like by having a prenup I'm putting it into the universe that our marriage won't work but that's me.
*IF THAT MAKES SENSE*
I totally agree with you!! Nobody ever plans to divorce/break up but it happens everyday
I always carry this saying with me "you don't pay for car insurance or life insurance hoping something bad happens to you" It's just preparing for life. especially since you two have a business and a brand together it only makes sense to prepare, God forbids something happens or you guys simply grow apart. Life is unknown it's always best to prepare for it.
5:21 Love y'all, but... lovingly disagree lol. I don't think I could see myself getting married without a prenup. I, too, am very much a "divorce is not an option" type of person, but I think of it like life insurance or a will. Nobody ever wants to think of dying when they're young and healthy, but God forbid you're on your deathbed after a stroke, you don't want THAT to be the moment you start thinking about what to do with all of your assets, what will happen to your kids, etc. Likewise, NOBODY ever thinks they'll get divorced when they're getting married (otherwise, why get married?), but once you have kids, a house, assets in the mix, that's not the time to think about how to split things imo. Again, I respect that you disagree and am NOT coming for you in the comments. Just sharing my lil two cents.
We love a prenup. It’s always mature and fair until it’s not
Exactly and you can’t go back and do things over. I tend to think of how things went with dk4l. Everything was joint and they weren’t even married yet. You really never know what is going to happen
@@kaylynboyd2035 whew yes that was wilddddd
@@kaylynboyd2035 this is so true!!!
THANK YOU on the joint account!!! 👏👏👏 That's like foreign language to ppl! It's just as simple as that but some ppl in relationships don't want to put their money together and years later still arguing about who's paying what! What you mean!?? We BOTH are eating the food in the household. We BOTH use the water, lights and whatever else needs to be in the household so why is it still an argument!? Just put a set amount of money in a joint account and everything is taken care of, SIMPLE! My husband's family doesn't understand that because they are so busy not working together as one and don't realize it's not just him taking care of things its us BOTH! That's one argument we don't have to have and I'm glad because that can tear relationships apart
I agree ☝🏾
The closing the door 20 times, etc. can also be traumatic for children too I think... wall sits or running can create a negative relationship with physical activity. Avoiding trauma is more than just not beating them. Idunno, something to consider
I would like to add, if I may, on the infidelity piece. Just as you two have done; grow with someone who shares the same values as you. It’s a lot of people who do not consider flirting as infidelity, so they’ll have no issue with doing it in front of your face. If someone has no respect for you and doesn’t share the same morals, emotional infidelity is the least of your worries (unfortunately).
It would be dope to see you guys come back in 5 years and give an update on these responses and discuss how you two have grown within them.
PS: Y’all should check out Josh’s video, how to know if that girl is wifey material. Would love to hear Isi’s perspective or even a reaction video for the ladies.
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For me, I’m naturally a flirtatious person (regardless on whether i am attracted to the person or not). It’s apart of my personality but I do see how others may perceive it as flirting.
ISI’S SLAYING THESE WIGS 😍😍🔥
You can tell Josh and Isi is madly in love and in tune with eachother‼️🔥🥰
I think y’all are doing right by keeping the intimate parts and quality time together to yourselves. That’s a healthy boundary or work and your relationship. Your relationship is more important than your brand ❤️
I want a cooking with Josh and Isi I know it'll definitely be a vibe 🤣 and hella funny 🥰🥰🥰🥰
you need to watch their “whip it up wednesday” they have a couple of those
I can’t find it
@@Jesuschild9138 if you type “josh and isi whip it up” in the search bar they come up
I love/hate when they’re talking and Josh repeats exactly what isi says😂 it’s cute tho
Oddly enough seeing how y’all communicate is beautiful and interesting
I thought I was the only one who noticed that 😂 swear I was going to write in and ask them about it one of these days
Can you guys please please please make a round 2 of the ABC game you did last year? I just came back from watching that video and it was amazing 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Isi : “Where’d you get that from?” Josh: “Probably you.” Isi : “MMMMHHHHH!” Us Virgos man 🤣🤣🤣😭💀
I’ve been waiting for y’all to post !!
this was just what i needed as a cool down from my 9 to 11 practice love you guys would love to see more of these types of videos!!!
These were thoughtful questions wow, love y’all’s answers ❤️
Congrats on 200K guys!! I love these videos 🎉
Much love and respect to the both of you‼️🙏🏾
Thank you so much for MORE content! You both are the hardest workers I know almost (besides mama myself!) love you!!!!!
I love how transparent y’all always are
This was great to watch. I admire you both and your honest conversations!
I enjoy everything you guys do. Continue being yourselves and we the hydrated family will be fine. 👍🏾☺️
hold on NO Josh did not just talk to his future kids like “We Planned This”
Love the outro‼️ So much fun and energy‼️ love y'all ❤️
Yessssss that was awesome. More more and more.
22:40 dang, i really hate to be that person, but i think that even children should be taught personal space and have a right to their own body and who touches it. In some recent psychology studies, they talked about how people use physical affection after an argument or fight rather than dealing with the problem or actually coming to a conclusion. What researchers were worried about is that this way of parenting might subliminally teach children that as long as they hug it out at the end of the day, it doesn't matter what happened before (which may make them more susceptible to abuse in relationships in the future, etc.) I'm not a parent so I'm only speaking about studies I have read and other's experience but I thought I'd add and see what y'all think too
btw, this is not an attack in any way! i just wanted to put this out there for whoever might find it interesting or can expand on it, etc. :)
Thank you for sharing this part of your relationship!! I love your interaction and it's amazing to see how in tune you are with each other :)
Prayers to you both‼️🙏🏾🤎
Yeeesss quality conversation!!!!
Lmaooo “3…2…1: 7! 😱🤭* GASP *” that was too funny that’s how you know y’all are bffs.
ion believe in saying “couple goals” cause you never know what goes into a relationship. but yall fr fr the only YT couple I watch and frfr made forrr each other. #blacklive for the win🥺🤎🤞🏾
Love this! Thank you both for being open to addressing these questions publicly. Seeing a black couple talking in a healthy way about these concerns is so refreshing and good for our community to see 💕
How cool would it be if your future kids actually get to watch all of your videos! & they’re meaningful and fun, they’d appreciate this so much!
i havent watched one of your videos in a minute ( school has been hectic ) but I must say the quality in the video and sound is very good.
Amazing video as usual. As far as places to live, I actually would recommend y’all come to Texas and explore some of our major cities! Specifically Dallas. We have pretty good weather and it’s warm (but we still have a winter). And through watching y’all’s channel, Chicago is similar to Dallas in many ways. TX gets hate 24/7, but I swear it’s hearsay, it’s lit over here! Also I thought your perspective on kids was cute, I personally plan to have a few of my own and adopt a few, because I feel like with my knowledge about how many of the children in foster care/adoption are mistreated, it’s almost my duty to adopt.
Love y’all!
The video Quallity is HELLAAA clear 🤞🏾💙
I really admire how mature, playful, conscious and healthy you guy’s relationship is. I love how y’all communicate and grow with each other while respecting each other in the process. I just hope I find a relationship as genuine and compassionate as yours. Love you guys and always supporting you guys - since day 1 💕✨
Love this couple. Thank you for allowing us to see and witness this authentic side of your relationship. I often tell my daughter once she gets established and her brand,... This is what a true loving relationship looks like and Josh, sets the bar for the type of young man to consider dating and hopefully one day marry. Thank you for all you do!🥰🙏🏾
God bless y’all and your content!
I love the having 3 accounts idea .♥️ that’s the best way to go . 😊
This video is just pure quality ✨👌🏾
Ok we need a wedding series esi would love to see everything because I know this gonna be a beautiful moment
Love y'all ❤️
Hey yall :) love you guys!
Y’all are just so cute!!!! 🥰
Love the video!! I have always said that people have the perspective that your kids are the ultimate commitment. But no, your marriage is. One day your kids are going to grow up live their lives but that person you chose to marry will still be there every single day. Yes, your kids are a top priority, but you still have to prioritize the rest of your life with your person. Kids arent forever, your marriage is.
Why not balance out both?
Because if you prioritize your marriage first, you could potentially neglect your children's emotional needs and vice verse.
@@blueiris1542 oh no, your kids are a top priority always! I do agree that you will still need a balance but we also have to realize that the kids being a top priority will come to an end. Always love your partner just as hard as your kids. One doesn’t come before the other.
I love itt!!!
Isi looks just like her mom in this video!! Beautiful!!
I like this video cause these are the questions I often ask myself ✨ If more people in relationships talk about this even before the engagement it will relieve a lot of stress in the future… especially the conceiving question cause I also think about that a lot.
Good discussion! I do always wonder why people (lots of black people) are against adoption? I kind of understand wanting a biological child, but there are so many kids in the overpopulated world deserving of love.
Totally agree with the sentiment of making sure y’all are straight before the kids because y’all are the examples at the end of the day. I’m not a parent either but I’ve disciplined my godkids before and it really doesn’t take a full spanking to discipline kids. At the most I’ve pinched them and that’s enough for them to get the memo, but even then I didn’t feel good doing that. What you find is that if you are not straight mentally then you will resort to physical punishment/spanking vs more beneficial form of punishment
Not the Beleaf in Fatherhood name drop! I've loved that channel for years!
I’m all for adopting a kid. I think I want to raise one or two of my own and once they get to the teen age, adopt a teen so they can battle high school together
These timers in all these recent videos make me feel like y’all are trying to rush off the phone with me !! Am I the only one that feels this way 🙃
Please moar! I already watched all yur vidssss!!! 😭
I can’t wait till y’all get married😭❤️ already my favorite TH-cam family
OOOOOOF WE GOT THE TRIFECTA POSTING THREE VIDEOS TODAY😩👏🏿🔥
I love you two‼️🥰🤎
What up y’all!!! I’m early!!
The way he looks at you Isi to listen and comprehend what ur saying is amazing, you could tell that he values and is considerate of your opinion and how u feel and vise versa. It’s a beautiful thing to watch🥺🥰🥰🥰
Hey yallll 💖💖💖🥰
I hope I find someone that looks at me the way Josh looks at Isi when she talk 🥺😍I’d literally melt ! I love you guys ✨😊
Josh’s advice to play to your strengths is soooo true LOLL my boyfriend loves cooking & makes amazing food while I hate cooking but love to eat so he’s the head chef 👨🏾🍳 and I’m the head dishwasher 🤣
Yall whatever yall do, PLEASE do not EVER in yall life leave social media. We love yall too much and i think of yall as family no lie!!! 🤣💯❤️🥺
Happy Early 7 Years and i love you guys
I don’t see why people wouldn’t have a prenup
I definitely want more
Josh is giving bold more in controlled of his mind set and thought process I like cause he is not giving answers based on what women want to hear more so speaking from him and not how women want him to sound or be very chill wanting to give his girl the world but at the same time a nervous wreck low key due to the intense video pressure to live up to certain expectations of the viewers maybe and behind scenes
ISIIIIIII😍😍😍😍 Your hairrrr 😍🔥🔥🔥
Not Josh as the head cleaner and Isi as the head honcho cooker ‼️😳🤣💀 I love y'all 🥰
I love y'all so much... Giving me hope out here. I'm trying to start a brand, and I was wondering if yall offer business coaching? Also can yall do something astrology related 👀👀 I'm a reader and I've been curious this whole time
#More This was a quality video ❤️ I love your opinions
The way i see where a prenup could be important is regarding family heritage or business. Let's say a parent in law or family member pass away and they leave some money, the other person shouldn't be intititled to that money. So i see it more in a way to protect your family earning more than preparing for a divorce
This is great.
If you’re looking into public school, I’d do a lot of research on cps (Chicago Public School). They’ve been such a headache for students and parents the past couple years
Please have a separate bank accounts and discuss money options that works for you both. .I have experiences where in a religious relationships where he pays the bills and she has her own money
👋🏾 Josh and Isi‼️🔥🔥
I don't think I've ever been this early. Hiiiii fam 😋
They're so intune with each other
It’s the saints sweater for meeeeee #NOLAgirl
Watching this video you can tell how tied they are. Soulmates ❤️
Happy 7 year anniversary 🤎✨
And to extend my uncertainty example of prenup for future...another thing is kids. No one plans for something to happen during child birth....but it can. Most often not, but it can...so again, prenups protect the unknown future of events. You still love each other when you sign, and don't expect to need it right now...
Okay this is my last comment…… When are we getting another wip it up Wednesday. The vlog with Isis mom and them greens got me feening
Love it
Part 2 please
Beautiful black couple 🥰
Good stuff
When you said future kids, I felt so shy, what if I’m y’all’s future kid🙈🙈🌝😂💀💖😁
I recommend watching parenting videos from Milena Ciciotti, I strongly believe Isi would find herself in some of the ways
Question... for Miami moments, have either of you ever felt not ready mentally or emotionally for the moment, and if so how have you dealt with that. And if not, how would you go about dealing with that if it ever arises?
#Loveyouguys #Loveyourbond #StayStrong 🇰🇳🇰🇳
I Love Y'all❤️❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful black love!!
It must be amazing to be living the lavish lifestyles y’all have built up.☝🏽😌