how we keep the spark in our relationship/ avoid “relationship autopilot”…

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  • @jasminetwyman268
    @jasminetwyman268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    A good topic I’d like to hear is: What qualities/habits did you have to cultivate within yourself before you reached the point where you felt ready for marriage?

  • @Jenaeworld
    @Jenaeworld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    13:13 “if we did renewals every 10 years, we’ll be completely different people…so it’ll be like recommitting ourselves to the NEW US” WOW! I’ve never realized that or thought of it like that! Committing to the new version of each other! A whole word!! 🙌🏾 **snap snap snap**

  • @brunomars2510885
    @brunomars2510885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I don't think I would marry myself at this moment but I would definitely date myself with the intention of growing more as we journey towards marriage😊

    • @pmw5422
      @pmw5422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I. Love. This. I hope they pin your comment 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @brunomars2510885
      @brunomars2510885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pmw5422 aw thanks🥰

    • @tk2730
      @tk2730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same! 🤗

  • @raypatton4670
    @raypatton4670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The glow up 😭 Isis was one of the FIRST TH-camrs I watched religiously for natural hair videos.
    Y’all better be watching all these ads so we can fund this EXPERIENCE of a wedding. ☺️☺️☺️

  • @monayadesiree
    @monayadesiree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Me and my fiancé spend about $75-$150 on date nights.
    Also, I feel the same way! Recently engaged and still in the process of researching everything about marriage. Like joint bank accounts, health insurance & so much other stuff lol it’s so much deeper than just wedding planning.

  • @erikawilliamson7278
    @erikawilliamson7278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Yes to the podcast and YES PLEASE to the date night list! You guys are the main reason I’ve decided to move to Chicago. I’ve already made a little list of spots you guys have mentioned thus far. An official list would be so helpful!

    • @patricewebster1682
      @patricewebster1682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!!

    • @Pm-fp2sm
      @Pm-fp2sm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How was moving to Chicago for you guys?? I left Chicago when I was young and they’ve made me really wanna go back to Chicago I’m just scared bc it’s across the country from me now

  • @sashaglenn2441
    @sashaglenn2441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I would 100% marry myself😂 Might sound cocky, but its true, and my husband is very happy with me too.😂 asking if I would be okay with marrying someone like myself was one of the things I asked myself before I got in a serious relationship. I never wanted my partner to feel like they got tricked, or weighed down, when they added me to their life. I wanted to add value to whomever experiences me, because thats the kind of people I want to be around. I have issues just like everyone, but I feel like theres more good than bad in me. I think thats true for most people.

  • @coupledbythemiles
    @coupledbythemiles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    I definitely foresee a podcast happening! Y’all definitely both have that “podcast voice” 😭😭 thanks for another quality video guys 🧡

  • @mstylerthegreat
    @mstylerthegreat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    My boyfriend and I fell into the same pattern: work, workout, eat, sleep, repeat. We take date nights like once a month and when we do, we run it up!!! Almost 200 every time, just eating cause we’re foodies. However, we live in LA so inflation for sure

  • @chefjenesis9703
    @chefjenesis9703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Yes pls recommend date ideas!!! And I would spend between 40-90$ probably, I’m not rich but I’m makin it lol. My and I just made 4 years last week and we tryna maintain date nights❤️ Being in my later 20s definitely is a process still learning so much! But grateful to see another year! Can’t wait to see tomorrow quality conversations

  • @HaiNanaTV
    @HaiNanaTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Me and my husband are also a young couple and we take our date nights VERY seriously! The best thing about it is, they're never planned lol. I think sometimes people get lazy in their relationships and stop dating each other which is a recipe to grow apart (disaster). We have small children, sometimes we take them along, other times it's just us. Even 3weeks after I gave birth we went to the movies early morning while my mom watched the baby (we love to do that) so I never feel like unappreciated or unwanted at any stage of our marriage.

  • @hisimage85
    @hisimage85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I really enjoy just listening to y'all talk and vibe. I'm over here cracking up at y'all like I'm in the conversation!
    Date Ideas:
    1)Trail hiking
    2)Dance Lessons (Ballroom/hip hop/Salsa)
    DON'T Y'ALL TOUCH THAT OUTRO!! I LOVE IT!!

  • @NaturallyDarkBeauty
    @NaturallyDarkBeauty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    The fact that I just finished day 1 video and now I'm blessed with day 2 😊❤ Thank you Josh & Isi🙏🏿❤ I need something to good to listen to while knocking out some assignments for grad school 👩🏿‍💻

  • @TheeMittenLyfStyle
    @TheeMittenLyfStyle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    You guys should do a “what we learned in our early 20s” style video this week

  • @sherylpaul-stubbs2516
    @sherylpaul-stubbs2516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’d LOVE to see a podcast w Josh’s 75 yr.old relative! Love to her her stories, foundational perspectives, and healthcare regimen!

  • @anewdae8588
    @anewdae8588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It’s the back to back for me ❤️

  • @shaughnessycurry9810
    @shaughnessycurry9810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wouldn’t marry myself YET but I would date myself then revisit the growth in a couple years

  • @valerierichardson6457
    @valerierichardson6457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys made me cry today (happy tears). The support you show for each other is so refreshing.

  • @margaux__alexx
    @margaux__alexx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Will be very excited if a podcast can happen. And if it isn’t “perfect” the first couple of times then it’s okay. It can only get better. 💕

  • @TheKyannaAlexandra
    @TheKyannaAlexandra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    ANOTHER VIDEO?????????? Hell yeaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!! I’m hyped and I’m so happy to see y’all on the screen again 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @chefjenesis9703
    @chefjenesis9703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yeesss isi congrats on that 900k!!!!!!!!!! And yeeessss quality conversations❤️❤️❤️

  • @mylaswint8519
    @mylaswint8519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I would love a podcast from y’all. you guys are the only influencer/youtubers that I would actually listen to talk about a wide range of topics. Y’all are both so multifaceted that you would thrive in the podcast realm.

    • @gina1304
      @gina1304 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

  • @TheKaRenaLee
    @TheKaRenaLee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Idk what’s going on in this video but the audio QUALITY !! I need this every time y’all omg . No joke . Perfect sound perfect volume everything is literally top tier . Lighting . Energy . Yes . I loooovveee .

  • @jessicabeyhive
    @jessicabeyhive 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The ads are so well placed, I love it. Typing this as I let them play out!

  • @tiararussell3089
    @tiararussell3089 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m definitely in for a podcast and I don’t even listen to podcasts normally. I could definitely start my morning listening to you two

  • @amourlashai
    @amourlashai 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂 I love how y’all are so transparent and shared how much y’all ate. This is a whole mood. 😍

  • @emmilywoods5781
    @emmilywoods5781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That is so funny. I was going to mention you have not played your games ... bucketoes, couples game derbies... in a long time. You are elevating in brand deals but the games Josh and Isi I started out watching. Love yall

  • @jeanettejohnson3647
    @jeanettejohnson3647 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a great question. It make you think
    A question everyone should ask themselves

  • @onyenkwerefavour
    @onyenkwerefavour 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congratulations on hitting 203k 🥰

  • @HealedByJesus20
    @HealedByJesus20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My boyfriend & I spend $150-200 every date, we go on dates twice a month, maybe more depending. I’ve also tried to learn to set up a fun date night at the house, you could make a nice romantic dinner, or even fun finger foods and have a game night, catch up on a few episodes of a show we like, bible study, etc. Of course it’s always fun experiencing new things in the world together but there’s much to be explored in just your home❤️

  • @leahsideas8820
    @leahsideas8820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2 posts in one day 😩 y’all spoiling us!!! I love y’all ❤️

  • @kezzyangelic
    @kezzyangelic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    no I wouldn’t marry myself I need to get my finances and just life skills together 😭 like I don’t cook, I’m a clean person but I’m not organized. Also, age wise, I’m 21, I’m just not ready for marriage and i want to finish school get a stable job, car, apartment and overall mature a bit and personality wise, I think I’m great 😂 but my communication could use some work.

    • @KorliCymoneIsWhoIBe
      @KorliCymoneIsWhoIBe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omg literally same on everything you said, except I just turned 22 last month 😭

    • @safiyara5327
      @safiyara5327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same but I’m 20

    • @miam6899
      @miam6899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m 25 and had the same sentiment at 20/21. I’ve done everything except learn to cook 😂😂😂

    • @kezzyangelic
      @kezzyangelic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@miam6899 congrats girl on accomplishing the list by 25 no less 🍾🎊

    • @kezzyangelic
      @kezzyangelic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KorliCymoneIsWhoIBe turning 22 in 4 months 😭 so many things we want to accomplish before marriage ❤️

  • @ajahnae7674
    @ajahnae7674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m Isi…… can I just say damn!!😍😍😍😍😍😍😍my sis is badddddddddddd😍😍😍

  • @similoluwafilani2824
    @similoluwafilani2824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m so earlyyyyy and I love it🥺💓

  • @douglassfitch1746
    @douglassfitch1746 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Northern Cali - I go w my Girl every 2weeks and we try different Resturant’s - average price is 200 w drinks

  • @resecup3584
    @resecup3584 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am late to the party, but I have been binge watching and would love recommendations on date nights!!

  • @mikeandchelle7346
    @mikeandchelle7346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You guys are truly causing many to work on,and up grade their relationships! ✅✅❤️✅🔥✅🚨❤️💡💡💡💡💕

  • @yejidemwongozi3777
    @yejidemwongozi3777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing conversation! Never thought about that but as much as I get down on myself, I automatically said yes! And I'm proud of myself for that!

  • @roset8098
    @roset8098 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loving the back to back uploads!

  • @amourlashai
    @amourlashai 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My hubby and I are foodies as well for quality food, whole fresh foods, fresh herbs, good drinks, restaurant vibes, good music, etc so I felt everything y’all was saying!! 😂😂 I love to cook fresh food as well. You guys remind me of me and my hubby so much. All about quality. 😍😍

  • @yanamartin9440
    @yanamartin9440 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m in the same place as you Isi, I don’t think I could handle me/successfully have a relationship with me. It’s hard to live in my own skin, let alone have two of me for the rest of forever..

  • @zacharywhite2892
    @zacharywhite2892 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Most definitely recommend places for date night and places to go .

  • @sherylpaul-stubbs2516
    @sherylpaul-stubbs2516 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Or even a sit-down vlog!

  • @dedelight536
    @dedelight536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeeeessss I'm here for the date night ideas.

  • @destinypalin5657
    @destinypalin5657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Self love is beautiful to have I feel you josh 💙

  • @selinagreeder
    @selinagreeder 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love love love yall

  • @jamdessy3293
    @jamdessy3293 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If u guys ever go to NY, you guys should go to Maggiano’s Little Italy, actually I believe there is one in Chicago. But I must say… I absolutely enjoyed my birthday there. We got this waitress will never forget her, God bless her honestly one of the best experiences.

  • @sdoodlekat
    @sdoodlekat 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Esther perel talked about this, doing new things together can ignite desire!

  • @RaleighJaqraine
    @RaleighJaqraine 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’d say date night for me/my area is like $65-$100 if it’s sort of an out of town date, but that usually includes dinner, an event (museum, poetry slam, etc.), and maybe a souvenir or dessert somewhere

  • @prettyneev
    @prettyneev 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    yesss please make this podcast form! love you both ❤️ & isi i have a boyfriend named josh haha! 😆

  • @pmw5422
    @pmw5422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    30:58
    Josh: “Would you like us to-“
    Me: “Yes”

  • @theShawnieYang
    @theShawnieYang 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So glad the podcast is happening!! This whole video is a whole vibe ♥️🥰🥰🥰 Super happy you two had the time you needed together! My hubby & I are big foodies too but we end up trying new places by recommendation now and eating at home. I miss the spontaneous restaurant finds ♥️♥️♥️

  • @vitalysantana1329
    @vitalysantana1329 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yess we need more date night ideas!!!

  • @joanne.gabriel
    @joanne.gabriel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    yes to the date night and the date ideas list!

  • @lonelylucifer3759
    @lonelylucifer3759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    question for y'all: what is something that you've accomplished that your younger self would be proud of?
    i would love for this to become a podcast btw :)

  • @mistiquestewart5965
    @mistiquestewart5965 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The day got even better for you Isi...congrats on the 900k🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @Destinyboo722
    @Destinyboo722 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Try looking into “Anchor”. It’s a good platform for podcasting and it allows your podcast to be on all major platforms (Apple podcasts, Spotify, etc).

  • @rhondagoodwin5711
    @rhondagoodwin5711 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep up the goodness Quality Crew. 🤜🤛 I'm a witness, never give up on the VISION.

  • @Its_saada
    @Its_saada 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg you guys! The ending!!!🥺😭😭😭❤

  • @JasmineCrusoe
    @JasmineCrusoe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Between $75-150 for sure on a reg date night! If it’s a special holiday $100-200 just depends what we’re doing!

  • @monicapollens8941
    @monicapollens8941 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Date night ideas for sure!
    On average my husband and I spend $150 per date night, but we go out once or twice a month. Pre-pandemic we went out weekly and spent less, maybe like 75 or so dollars a week and a random night out drinking or something like that.

  • @its_tru
    @its_tru 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You two are my favorite couple on TH-cam💕

  • @kneekah7641
    @kneekah7641 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you guys should recreate the Outro frfr! You guys have grown so much!

  • @mariaquant535
    @mariaquant535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Definitely interested in the quality experience's list!!

  • @Withlove_kiana
    @Withlove_kiana 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    $50- $100 and under is around my husband’s and i spending range for date night. We are huge foodies as well!

  • @essencediggs9174
    @essencediggs9174 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    love yallllll

  • @mani.b_unique6440
    @mani.b_unique6440 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cause omg I love you guys!!!!

  • @mayamcgregory9695
    @mayamcgregory9695 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is the intro Wild Irish Roses by Smino? that's my jam lol

  • @chynawhite7940
    @chynawhite7940 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love y’all!! Love the podcast idea!!

  • @ShaynaReneeStyle
    @ShaynaReneeStyle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel that! I def been in that place of on cruse control in a relationship.... being great friends and being stuck in that and not realizing it

  • @withloveandchills7674
    @withloveandchills7674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes to date night list! I don't live in Chicago anymore, but my partner and I can go back and visit. Average date night we spend in NYC and LA is about $55-$70 including drinks (we typically don't do appetizers but sometimes do).

  • @TheCRYSTALLURE
    @TheCRYSTALLURE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Not the “Hathawthawthawwwnskjdhls 🥵🤤” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m so ☠️☠️.
    #moredatenights

  • @trinandrealewis001
    @trinandrealewis001 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very thought provoking questions. Love it!!! Thank you

  • @torig5581
    @torig5581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loving the video marathon 🙌🏽🤍

  • @carolsimpson711
    @carolsimpson711 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When it come to y’all wedding the best place to go is Pinterest. You can make a Pinterest board it will keep you focus on what to do and even to do it!

  • @itsdarahc
    @itsdarahc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes podcast will be amazing I’m excited ! I feel like you could take just the audio of ur video and then just only edit it and post it on Spotify apple and Amazon podcast !

  • @kimmyworld6423
    @kimmyworld6423 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations isi again

  • @dshine2020
    @dshine2020 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve been speaking podcast since y’all started this vibe absolutely see it for sure

  • @michaelguerrero7399
    @michaelguerrero7399 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thats a good question to ask. I enjoyed this

  • @Bbfromtheslums
    @Bbfromtheslums 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the love you guys have for one another. One of the Youngest Engaged couples that's moving through life as if you guys have been here before. I love the positive vibes you all give to these young people. My daughter's are older than you all, but I'm young at heart. I already know that you guys will have a EVERLASTING life together. You all will be among the greatest parents that God gives. I thank God for allowing you're parents to lead by example. Isi when you lost your father at a young. He had already taught you how to choose a Husband. I admire you and Josh so much. The love story you all have is so amazing and your Mother is the best. I loved watching Josh parents when you all were there 1 Xmas. He had the example as well on how to choose a Wife. You all keep doing your thing on POSITIVE VIBES. Much love to you both with God

  • @justlillian__
    @justlillian__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a postcast episode right here lol. 😭😭😂. I'm loving this set up!! 😍

  • @TashanaMc13
    @TashanaMc13 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y'all got me looking up the Arbella menu, like I'm heading there this week even though I'm currently in Toronto 😅

  • @tsaracarlie2386
    @tsaracarlie2386 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great podcast thanks for the info

  • @shortt125
    @shortt125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My average date nights are usual $100-150. Depending on what/where we go

  • @antisocialbutterfly9156
    @antisocialbutterfly9156 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y’all would be my top Podcast! Pleaseeeee do it 😭 Sending good vibes ❤️✨✨

  • @shanelsimon7644
    @shanelsimon7644 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    the date ideas, yes plssss!!!

  • @kennedyyvonne320
    @kennedyyvonne320 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That restaurant sounds like a viiiibe! 😍🤌🏾

  • @myfirstchannelbye
    @myfirstchannelbye 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m loving these videos !! ❤️ definitely need date night ideas

  • @leahsideas8820
    @leahsideas8820 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats to 900K! You deserve it 🥳🥳🥳

  • @shaunalindo
    @shaunalindo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the quality content ♥️

  • @breyanasemien4579
    @breyanasemien4579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thought my eyes were deceiving meeee! Two videos in one night! When they said marathon they weren’t lyinggg!🙌🏾 I’m so happyyy 🥲

  • @jamdessy3293
    @jamdessy3293 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    1) yes to more date nights
    2) I’m pretty young and I can’t really speak on an average for a date night but for me and my bf I would say $100 max because we’re still actively in school and haven’t been working crazy enough to say… yo let’s ball out on a date, and most of the times I feel like the average priced places give the best service and food sometimes.

  • @fruitbaddie473chefempress2
    @fruitbaddie473chefempress2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I truly miss you guys thank you for the new videos, yes to date night ideas or other creative ways to do a date night with go out to a restaurant 💫 am from Grenada 🇬🇩 and a usually spend about 90ec to 120 ec for a date including drink and appetizer, my boyfriend and I enjoy the outdoor but we want to become more creative with our date night thank you for the help ❤👑

  • @Itz_joana00
    @Itz_joana00 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 yooo I hate that flash thing too!!!

  • @Tynicole116
    @Tynicole116 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes yess!

  • @itskimduhhh
    @itskimduhhh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2 vids heck the frick yes🧡✨

  • @aribella18
    @aribella18 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a nNew Yorker when I hear people saying 8pm is late I be shocked. Late in New York is 10 or 11 pm

  • @oh.kaylahh
    @oh.kaylahh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So freaking excited for this to become a podcast 💗

  • @fayeosseni6310
    @fayeosseni6310 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Here for day two !!!

  • @tiad.9142
    @tiad.9142 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Date night is about $100 for my husband and I and we’re 27 and 29…but we also don’t order drinks just usually apps, entrees and desserts. And that’s a really thought provoking question about marrying myself…imma really have to think about it but off rip I want to say yes I would marry myself