we suck at adulting…
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ต.ค. 2024
- Today we talked about Adulting, Finances, Business Ventures, Social Media Realities, and More!
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You guys don't "suck" at adulting, you're 'growing' at adulting. ♥️
👏🏾👏🏾!!!
I’m going to remember this statement
I second that. It's a process
I totally identify with Josh's feeling of being overwhelmed, thinking of everything at once and getting paralyzed. I usually have to stop and decide to focus and prioritize as well or vent to my bf and he helps me through it. Isi you're a blessing for helping him through that.
Same, and I feel like that’s one of the reasons I procrastinate a lot too.
@@teenicolej3599 yess...omgosh....you hit the nail on the head there.
#wewantmore!!!!!
If anyone has any good tips to combat this feeling can you guys please drop them
@@teenicolej3599 yess same
I literally recently struggled to find another healthy black couple to watch that is our age. The choices are whew… a mess. I want real relationships, not the pranks and the clout chasing, and wanting to be on world star. I over appreciate y’all.
Yessss I agree
“Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.”
Matthew 6:34 NKJV
Usually don’t comment on videos. But this is the verse that came to my head throughout watching this video 🙏🏾
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Omg! This same verse came to mind as well, I'm so glad they saw this comment
#Wewantmore Quality Conversations give off such chill yet sophisticated vibes
Idk why the title is so relatable and I haven’t even turned 18 yet😭😭
Life, sis, life🙃
mannn, enjoy it. Take one step at a time otherwise you're liable to trip over your own feet, I'm 22 btw but yh enjoy it
My husband and I are 31 years in and we started out as friends like you guys. We now have 2 kids, one 25 named Joshua.😄 So you guys are special to me. I couldn't cook at first either. My advice, Isi, is to have a meal that you cook on the same day each week at first. It takes the guess work out of things. Stovetop Kisses on TH-cam has some GREAT, easy recipes for salmon.
Love StoveTop Kisses! One of my OG faves! 💕👏🏽
You’re family sounds beautifully 🥺, I pray life continues to bless you 🧡
I really do believe y’all should start a podcast just so I can listen to these type of conversations on the go
Agreed they just need to turn the video to audio and post which is super quick!
Yes, on Spotify!!
From a female perspective I appreciated the section about the cooking especially isi’s honesty because as a woman we are often made to feel like we’re less “wife-able” if we’re not master chefs, so to hear their honesty and see Josh’s support is refreshing cause taking the time to learn and show effort to improve is a more realistic approach in my opinion 👌🏽
Hard agree.
There should be a video, where isi makes breakfast, lunch, and dinner. And Josh Eats them and rate it!!! Like if you agree
Isi's mic sounds way better than last week. Its so much clearer now
My mom passed on 9/9/13 on her husband’s birthday! I felt like the family fell apart but slowly got back together! The sadness around the month and day has been very difficult. I’m the only girl so I lost my very best friend/mom! My daughter got pregnant last year and I just knew the baby would be born on her passing anniversary and she was!!! I feel like my mom made a way for us to not be so sad on that day!!! So now I have a beautiful granddaughter to celebrate and focus on!!! Thank you mommy… love you so much🙏🏽😊🤦🏽♀️☮️☀️😘😍🙏🏽
#wewantmore.
Yes y’all should make a podcast together it will be quality for sure
brooooooooooooooooo this is me everyday! so tired of having to buy my own toilet paper and groceries, tired of cooking and tired of keeping myself accountable lord. 🥺🥺🥺
Them: “Let us know if you want…”
Me: YESSSSSSS YESS YESSSSS!!!!! Don’t even have to finish the question…YASSSS! #more #moremore #moremoremore
The ending of this video, in regards to intimacy needs a part 2! #WeNeedMore
Josh is an Aquarius, it makes sense ♒️
Perhaps you guys could incorporate a cooking calendar and make a schedule as far as cooking goes, meal preps are also an idea. Isi, I know you guys have mentioned in the past, going to your mother’s house for family meals, often. Have you perhaps considered shadowing her as a part of learning. I also think having your friend assist is great idea. Honestly, practice is what builds habit. If your breakfast meals are already fire, you’re already 1/3 of the way there. 🙌🏽
I live for the quality conversations! #WeWantMore
The 20s are a tricky time. Lol i think when you make a decent amount of money you don’t pay attention to what you spend in detail but you know that your spending a little too much . That makes you evaluate what parts of your life are taking the majority of your money. I’m going through the same thing even though i know that I’m supposed to be saving my money for what i want to do 😭
You guys should do a once a week or month cooking challenge where Josh is teaching Isi how to cook dishes.
high functioning anxiety is definitely a thing. I have it I suffer from it. I am in nursing school currently final semester. As series as I am about my work, and with things in personal and professional life stacking up on each other. Sometimes you feel like you cant breathe or even claustrophobic. But somehow feeling all the weight of all the stress you manage to get it all done and do it all well. Yeah, that's really relatable, absolutely talk to a mental health professional about it to get tips on how to manage that and put some of those things into practice. Its life changing. #Wewantmore
baby i’m twelve minutes in and i already know I want more 😌😂 #WeWantMore
A reminder the God loves you and Jesus died for your sins💓 ( not tryna force)
Hey don't be so hard on yourselves! I understand you guys want better for yourselves which is awesome! But at least you guys took the necessary steps to be real and honest with your finances. You don't "suck" for taking accountability and trying to do better. Keep going guys. 🙂
The way the two of you compliment each other you will be just fine.
the chemistry between you two is GIVING best friends turned lovers and I LOVE IT 😍
P.S - just starting my lifestyle vlog based in Toronto and you guys are such inspo
Definitely the only channel I would come to and watch an entire hour plus video easily. It’s refreshing to see content of this caliber amidst all the “hype” content. I’m really happy to see the transition from beauty and beau to Josh & Isi and can agree to the fact that you guys have chosen a path that would cause positive impact and even more leave a positive trail for which your future children can be proud of. As a young adult, it’s definitely tough going through the phases and growing pains but being able to come on this platform and listen to you guys intellectually express similar issues and dissect so many other subjects is amazing. #Wewantmore
As far as the cooking conversation went, I can totally understand where Isi is coming from. My boyfriend was the “cook” of our relationship for the longest. I wasn’t comfortable with anything in the kitchen. I second guessed the seasonings, the spices, how high or low the stove or oven should be, etc but Josh is correct in the sense of you just have to put yourself out there and do it. My boyfriend would sit in the kitchen with me and direct me and that’s how I learned. I bombarded him with a million questions and sometimes I still do lol but it’s all a learning process! You’ll get there, keep practicing boo!
When I feel overwhelmed, my go to Bible verse is:
🌟Psalms 61:2🌟
"From the end of the earth will I cry unto thee, when my heart is overwhelmed: lead me to the rock that is higher than I."
Keep it up y'all ❤️😊
JOSH AND ISI DO NOT FORGET. U TUBE IS NOT FOREVER. SAFE YOUR MONEY
Ayeeee he’s an AQUARIUS ♒️ I TOTALLY GET THAT THINKING OF EVERYTHING AT ONCE. LOVE THAT 🔥🔥🔥
Lol! I agree! ♒️ But I’m a Virgo moon so I’m like Josh and Isi in my head 😂 good balance
@@cadyg2531 ooooooh Virgo moon. Lol I’m sag moon a nice balance of crazy😩
@@NeBanks I already know you’re fun to be around 😂
@@cadyg2531 😁😉😉 Fun, with no drama and full of jokes chile!!!🤪
Whew the title is me every time I mess up my weekly budget😂😂😂
I've been feeling mad overwhelmed this past week too
I soooo enjoyed this. The honesty. I'm older and I still feel like I'm trying to figure out sensible adulting🤦🏾♀️. Luckily you guys have each other for accountablity. We'll get there guys💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
I really appreciate your vulnerability @ Josh. The way you articulated your anxiety and how you process task/action items in your life sparked a huge moment of clarity that I’ve been wrestling with for a minute now. “Analysis Paralysis” emotionally and physically
This Quality Conversation segment is on point. It really speaks to your older followers (those of us who are closer to 30 than 18). You two have a really nice flow and this segment is going to get HUGE.
I never get a like anyway but love you guys
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Lmao they said BET and gave you a like 😂
It’s crazy how Josh is feeling about cooking all the time when Women had to & still do cook majority of the courses while their husband doesn’t do anything but the “manly” stuff lol. Interesting. But now Josh sees how it is. It’s a tough world aint it. 😅😭
It’s so refreshing hearing y’all talk about such universal topics #WEWANTMORE
I’m not gonna lie I was surprised Josh wasn’t pushing out content more regularly after quitting his job, but it’s real. I can personally attest to working in an office to working remote and managing my time. It’s dif and an adjustment. But y’all are doing amazing and I love yalls channel 🙏🏾
Definitely should do more of these videos☺️ There definitely therapeutic💕💕💕
For the intimacy part, I’ve always considered the deeper conversations/closeness or rather the things you guys refer to as complex intimacy as just intimacy. I suppose sex is considered a component but more so in the physical intimacy department
A notebook with dividers is a big help when trying to stay organized.. preferably one small enough to fit in your bedside table and/or purse. I usually use the first section to jot down to do items.. and a divider for other main life areas (ie. Investing, TH-cam, music etc)... Whenever you remember something you want to do or have an idea you can jot it down to review later..
I love you guys so much oh my gosh🥺💖 #QUALITYCONVERSATIONS #WEWANTMORE
I'm definitely feeling the qualitty conversations ! #WeWantMore
isi your haair looks BOMB! LOVED this video too
I’m here for all them quality conversations all day every day #wewantmore
Even as a single person, you should budget, track and manage your income and expenses. The fact that you guys have the mind to look at these things says you're not sucking at adulting. You've recognized a problem and now you are taking the necessary steps to do better...that is excellent adulting! I was not doing that at your age! Did yall mugs change color though!? :)
Yeah! Of course! The quality mugs do that 🥰
You guys are doing very well, inspiring both older people like myself and younger generation. I'm 42 years old and I love watching and listening to you guys, my son is 10 years old and he love watching you guys as well. God bless you both. Keep up the good work ❤❤😘😘
What comes to mind the decorating, the friends secret Santa party,the last one right off the top of the dome. I just love the vibe and energy that you two have. Its encouraging and enjoyable watching you two together.
I'm liking these styles of videos!!! yess please more quality video for sure!! much love to the both of you 💛💛💛
I think it would be a great idea if you guys eat at different restaurants y'all never went to before and rate their foods. It would really help for those wanting to visit Chicago!
I love y’all sooo much!!! I wish I could just talk to you guys about love, change, sacrifice and other important factors that go into a relationship to make it work and non boring or miserable! Please reach out to me if one of you can. We beautiful melanin couple have to stick together ❤️🥰
Yessss i totally agree
right! facetime yo subscribers!
HI KENIA. D M ONE OF THEM
I really want to see you both in the Black Love series. That would be quality.
Yes !!!! Love this.........this is where am at in my life right now budgeting and sticking with it
Y'all deserve way more subscribers than you have bruh!! Love y'alls videos
And yes I WANT MORE QUALITY VIDEOS
#wewantmore
Love these Quality Conversations man. Honestly ☺️.
I love these talks from Josh & Isi. I'm an older lady following them and enjoying their content. They speak great about relationships. You've got to be friends because the physical stuff shifts(38 years of marriage).
Meal prep. Meal prep. Meal prep. Make something for the week. Huge game change saves hells money, fast, convenient, delicious
This is your lane. So #wewantmore. I love the way yall thriving
Y’all know #wewantmore quality conversations
a josh and isi docu series would be dopeeee like a little cinematic version zooming in on diff aspects of what makes you guys you and things behind the scenes!! it would def be cool and even inspirational for many ppl (including me, a senior in highschool)
#wewantmore ❤️❤️ y’all are seriously amazing! I will be 22 on 9/07 and I have grown so much through watching your videos. It’s crazy I know you guys aren’t therapist but I literally have a therapist and still look forward to watching your videos for that additional QUALITTY advice and content!!!
Love your hair in this video and the natural look with those lashes are very becoming for you IsI! You look so pretty
My experience with cooking over the years has shown me that chicken is the most versatile meat and you can create so many dishes with it plus there’s tons of ways to season it and a lot of chicken recipes tend to be pretty easy. Seasoning food will come natural to you. Start with a simple recipe and when you keep making it over time you’ll learn that you can skip the seasoning measurements and season it to your liking for example: less salt or more sugar, a pinch more pepper etc. just keep practicing isi. I know you’ll gain that kitchen confidence!
I definitely love this series you guys got going on here! I put you guys into my speaker as I cook, clean, etc and it just LOVE it 😍✨
Podcast vibes! #wewantmore!
Would we ever say no to more quality conversations???
#wewantmore👌❤
this right here really helped me because in 6months time I'm gonna have an exam that I will need to pass like I have no choice but to ,but I get so anxious sometimes that I just shut down and don't study and now I feel so lost but this podcast in particular, its pushing me do better and discipline myself to not shut down have break downs and not pick myself back up
That intimacy post is the foreward for a book that the two of you should do about how to build the unseen connection that you spoke about.
I like how y'all do the quality thing in the beginning for the intro!
isi is so beautiful
Is the 🤌🏾COMMUNICATION🤌🏾 for me! I love it here😭♥️
"needs to be done today" DEFINITELY AN AQUARIUS THING
Quality Conversations & Therapy Thursdays are my favorite series that you guys have put on your platform. There is something therapeutic and thought provoking about conversation. Listening to you guys reminds me to get my ass up and stop being complacent if I want better for myself!! #ThankYouJoshAndIsi
I like the videos out out more sporadically. Keeps the excitement up. Just like a weekly show.
REALLY enjoyed this conversation. I'm 32 years old (will be in September), and you guys are offering me some sound perspectives. my life is in complete shambles. I hope to find my life partner soon.until then, I'm here for the long haul with you both! ❤️
I have so much respect for both of you. Being individuals of substance and having a quality brand. Always knew y’all were different right from y’alls college days and I appreciate sticking to this path snd not following the crowd. I pray that y’all find fulfillment and success in this path❤️
I like the balance between quality conversations and then the regular vlogs !
I watch your videos, and just smile. Like genuinely, genuinely smile. It’s crazy. Thank you guys
Thank you for being real with us!!!!
#WeWantMore I love all your video. As a military now veteran wife I can say it takes time to grow into adulting and planning will be the friend you never knew you needed lol. Take it two weeks at a time. That includes food and things that need to be done. If you plan meals for two weeks you know what you need from the grocery store and invest in a food saver. Buying family packs then food saving portions help. The schedule thing is a little harder but planning does help. A schedule is great. Not a I must stick to it but setting up goals for the day. Set 2/3 things that need to be done then the others are extra. Don’t make it a stress thing. You all are on a great path. Y’all have figured out things that ppl who have been married for years haven’t figured out. Don’t be hard on yourselves just keep growing in a positive manner. Thank you for sharing.
Such a fan of these QUALITY CONVERSATIONS! I recommend recording them and creating a podcast.
even if this was the only type of video you posted i would tune in every time. i really enjoy the transparency and y’all authentic thoughts. the uncut videos are my favorite honestly
Love your food story. Just about everyone learns the same lesson about themselves about food. Sharing an idea: If you guys know you will eat out say 4 meals a week then the weekly budget will be grocery shopping meals less 4 meals and 4 restaurant meals for the week. Glad you looked at your habits at a young age. Congratulations on wanting to improve and holding yourselves responsible. Your 40yr old selves (and into the future) will be so grateful and proud of you.
You two are far from being bad at adulting. It’s ok to splurge when your budget allows for it. You’re two of the most mature & level-headed people on TH-cam in this crazy age. Oas, as it pertains to relationships, I like when the layers of intimacy include the “I can’t keep my hands off of you…” type of physical intimacy. That’s a powerful combo! Especially with God as the foundation. The physical is the cherry on top.🍒 You can’t touch that!
Oh hot damn, new video #wewantmore I'm here for it y'all. I swear the honesty is my favorite part and we need the digging about finances because it makes me feel like I'm not alone. Lol #failedgoals 🤣🤣🤣
Random grocery and cooking tip : buy meat in bulk/ at butcheries and then when you get home put it in ziploc bags and freeze it. I'm crazy I'll even season the drumstick pack differently and put four in a ziploc bag then freeze it.. by the time I pull it out it's seasoned to the literal bone 😉. Also get an airfryer, rice cooker and slow cooker. Cooking will become 25 times easier and faster . Almost boring even 😂😂
Ever since learning Isi is a Virgo, I keep finding similarities between us. I too don't care for public speaking, lol. Isi, you are my soul sister haha
Just a whole vibe! I love y’all!!!! 🙌❤️
#WeWantMore quality conversations❤
#wewantmore yall are prepping us for life! The older siblings i never had🥺❤️
Y’all videos really do have an effect on people, just watching brings my mood up
#wewantmore I've been rocking with Isi since I was 18/19 and now I'm going on 25. I started watching yall together since WAY back when and it's cool to see you guys going through the same stages of life as me. Your realness is everything. I never comment but for yall I just have to sometimes lol.
you know you dont have to cook everyday to not eat out I cook like twice a week and have leftovers that last 2-3 days and eat out probably like once every other week y’all got this 👌👌
Sis going to cook with chef erra D😭
You guys do not suck at adulting....you have an amazing channel, nice roof over your head, your love for each other is sincere and you are growing/glowing as one union. #HealthyCouple
#wewantmore
I really enjoy your content! I’ve been subscribed for a while and it is crazy to witness the growth 🤌🏾
Be real. Adulting does suck. Me and my sister were just talking about y'all spending like how are y'all making it happen. Love y'all so much. Proud quality crew member.
I love this . It’s like a podcast for me ❤️
i definitely relate to feeling very overwhelmed when it comes to everything i want/need to do. it’s so hard for me to prioritize. it’s a learning process. its very detrimental to feel overwhelmed and shut down.
That anxiety? Relatabllllee. Like I find myself in the position of constantly putting pressure on myself and it leads to being overwhelmed. Gratefully, my boyfriend puts things into perspective and helps me thru it. My issue was trying to do it on my own and shutting him.out and listening to you guys have definitely helped with that