WHY DO GUYS?...😳👀🙄 **trigger warning ladies**
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ส.ค. 2024
- Asking Josh " Why do guys? " questions that girls are too afraid to ask! Trigger warning ladies.
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JOSH’S COMEDIC TIMING IS UNMATCHED
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Nah man, be nice to me. I don’t like people playing games with me. Every woman is different and me PERSONALLY, I don’t like disrespectful men. That doesn’t excite me😂
Me too. Its a no!
Frr
Yess!!
Isi: I don’t leave chicken juice and seasoning on the counter when I cook
Josh: you don’t cook …..
👁👄👁 😂😂😂
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I actually enjoyed every ounce of this. He literally said no wrong. And did it respectfully.
Josh is a respectful king.
@@thisisyourfinalwarning ^^^^!!
@@thisisyourfinalwarning p
Right
As a tall girl, anytime a shorter man approached me, I gave him some play. The fact that he wasn’t intimidated by my height was actually attractive. It shows a strong confidence in a man. So short men, stick ya chest out, and shoot your shot. Confidence is the turn on 😙
Facts im 6’2 I tend to date shorter men🥰
It’s true. I’m 5’10 and sometimes I get approached by shorter guys, last week I got approached by a guy around 5’5 haha. He was real cute and I entertained
As a fellow tall girl, It’s a hell no for me😭
@@KorliCymoneIsWhoIBeI was about to say cause girl same 😩
I personally like some taller guys
JOSH IS LITERALLY KILLING ME WITH THESE RESPONSES. IM LAUGHING SOOO MUCH
I agree with the wig thing tbh, hugeee societal thing. saved soooo much $ after listening to my bf and really finding God, he’s been telling me to stop spending on makeup, weaves etc, no one really asked us to do all that loool just love your natural self!
Yes! I only used to get lashes and weave because I didn’t feel like I looked pretty without them (because of social media). Recently I threw away my lashes and I do still get protective styles to protect my natural hair underneath, but I am never getting a wig again. They are way too expensive and I don’t really care for them. Learning to love my natural self again. Bare face and all
Facts
Preach! I’ve been feeling sooo much more confident and myself once I started loving my natural beauty/ state. I used to think I needed to ALWAYS add to my hair for it to be right but no! It’s crazy that once I paid attention to my hair, it actually started growing at a much faster rate
@@bbbryne893 ya see exactly! 💖💖🙌🏾 same here with the protective styles, you know braids, rope twists, faux dreads etc always beautiful and natural on us black women!
@@Hadixblessed yessssss 💖🙌🏾 especially with isi’s natural hair care videos, it helped me so much to just leave my hair alone! Such a big difference in health and growth 🥺
I'm liking this 2022 honest Josh!! Speak the truth and recognizing the duality in most things. Keep it up! We should call him barbershop Josh lol
Yo, fr! #BarbershopJosh
Yess!! #BarbershopJosh
love it #BarbershopJosh
I agree with josh’s example of how being complacent is a killer, and I definitely see how it’s a two way street. A pastor once told me to never stop courting once you get married. That a husband and wife should continue to learn one another. For example even if you get a formal education and become a nurse, you still have to get a renewal every two years to maintain your license. What I’m saying is even if you think you’ve reached the finish line, there’s more work to be done to maintain/renew the relationship otherwise it’ll deteriorate and become outdated.
Isi: I remember that Light skin freckled faced big booty girl 😂😂😂
Josh: 🤷🏽♂️
What’s crazy is I think I know who they’re talking about 🤣☠️☠️☠️
@@TheCRYSTALLURE me too lol
Josh’s statement was on point. Being too nice freaks me out but that bad boy that does right just for you is exciting. Love you guys btw!
As a little girl being told boys only want one thing from me.. I treated guys mean a looong time. Bc why tf are u being so friendly? Being too thirsty is not cute where's the balance lol
Bad boys are annoying. That boy tried to choke me for me rejecting him.
Bunch of nimwads
As soon as a dude is mean to me unprovoked I get turned off. I had a dude who bullied me throughout middle school and then told me he did it because he liked it. It's lowkey normalizing abusive and toxic relationships imo.
That was not Josh in this video… THAT WAS JAY! Lmaoo jokes aside, I appreciate Josh’s respectful, honest responses. I’m definitely not the kind of women that wants an Alpha man. I see right through that stuff. It’s a turn off, knowing that locker room talk is huge & they don’t hold themselves and friends accountable. Videos like these help me understand myself AND men better. Thanks!
Btw Isi looks so iconic in this. The colors were perfect on her
Usually tho when we don’t like the “nice guy approach” it’s because we’re just not attracted to him, most guys get put in the friend zone not because he’s a nice guy and we prefer bad boys but because we’re just not attracted to him & in all honesty If Im not interested I’m not gonna fake it just because I know he’s a good. That’s settling imo.
THIS! Unfortunately attractiveness plays a role if you get zoned… can we find attractiveness over time yes, but that’s once we realize we have fallen for them beyond their looks & that doesn’t always happen because no one wants to or should have to settle.
It’s definitely not about being with the “bad guy”. For me it’s about individuality. Good and bad are morals. Everyone’s morals are different. If a guy is worried about being good to everyone all the time, he is sacrificing his own morals either because
1) he is a people pleaser or because
2) he is suppressing his own wants and needs (which often ends in resentment for many reasons)
I agree with this! And with the “bad guy” it’s kinda like you know what you’re getting where as with the “nice guy” you can tell he’s forcing to appear that way but unsure his true intention
@@roset8098 exactly! A lot of nice guys aren’t as nice as they think they are. They’re usually hiding something, or they refuse to hold themselves accountable. No one is perfect!
This was so entertaining!!! We got the no filter Josh today 😂
Love the no filter Josh!!! Halarious but he’s truthful!!!
I love the openness and honesty between you two.
one thing I learned from my psychology course is that when we are angry sometimes it stems from a deeper meaning. For example, if I constantly remind my partner to take out the trash everyday but they aren’t willingly doing it, then of course it will make me mad. Initially, it will look like Im mad because he won’t take out the trash but the deeper meaning can be lack of taking initiative or feeling invalidated.
I think for the girls who are into bad boys are stuck in a younger mentality and haven't realized the difference between the romanticized "bad boy" and real world bad boys that will mess up your credit and your life lol. Where im at in my life now - a bad boy better not even waste his time looking my way it's a no for me. I'm here for being cherished and truly valued by a hardworking, trustworthy nice guy.
i PRAYYYY i have a relationship the way they do 😩
I think some women probably don’t go for the nice guy because maybe they have had an experience in the past where the nice guy turned out not to be so nice so then a guy who is nice to them would appear to be hard to trust.
On the other hand if they go for the bad boy at least they see that side of him first hand and know what to expect and then if they see a sweet side of the bad boy somehow that makes them fall in love even more and maybe makes them feel special because they think he’s only sweet with them. 🤷🏽♀️
I agree with what you are saying. I gave some attention to « nice guys » who after showed me their true colors and destroyed my self esteem. So I don’t trust the Nice show anymore especially on social media. I don’t vibe with the bad boy Alpha male red pill energy too because of it’s toxicity traits. Finding someone who is genuine and true is the best actually
Here for the "quiet guys"! They have a look of confidence and self-assuredness. It's not smug or superficial. The latter exudes a bit of masquerading. When younger, liked bad guys. Quickly found out their shallowness. To this end, I dig nice guys!!😍
Okay eloquent! 👏🏾👏🏾 same
Yea I agree about question #2. I used to find the bad boys more exciting especially being “the one” he’s not bad to but in my big age?? Oh no, give me the flower nerdy gamer guy immediately 🤣
exactly! for me the saying “you accept the love you think you deserve” was sooo true! but when you dig deep to move towards a secure attachment- the bad boy doesn’t interest you. You want reciprocity and affection
@@melchol2121 yes exactly! 👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾
flower nerdy guy can be bad as well.
@@princesslove1566 I definitely agree! That’s where discernment comes in 🙏🏾
Josh really came for our necks in this video ladies 😂😂😂 Love you guys!
Nah josh had the ttime and energy today lmfaooo it’s fun to see this side of him
The 2nd question I agree for the most part with Josh in my opinion the bad boy is romanticized in books and movies so especially when we're younger and more immature is what we go for cause it's the examples we see in those movies and books and it's fun and a challenge cause we tend to try to change them like Josh said but with age we realize the (genuine) good/nice guy that is into us is better I do got to say there's a difference in being interested and thirsty cause if you're to thirsty especially in the beginning when you barely know me (personality wise) and mostly compliment me on my looks like Josh said it's not gonna be fun or interesting and it's gonna make me question what you're interested in...cause from my experience there was a lot of infatuation over my looks and fantasies they created on their heads and not actually interested in me as a person
The cooking convo was definitely an argument later 😂😂
Josh really made sense of it all and I appreciate him for calling women out as well we always believe we are right until we hear the other point of view 🧡
When Josh said “woman be so” when I tell you I was like 👀 my ear perked and everything I was like now what is Josh gonna say 😂😂 also when Josh said Isi doesn’t cook I mean it’s true but she workin on it for herself you know, but Josh your done your done 🤣
Our ears be on OD 10 🤣🤣🤣
We love when y'all do quality stuff like that I like a bad guy and a good guy mixed together
Yes a healthy balance
Yess agree have a little edge/spice but still be genuine good guy
Yes agreed nice guys with attitude 👌🏿
Josh was right about everything he said. I wish more young men would follow him
Omg what came over Josh in the intro he was fed up LMAO I already know it's quality I can tell Josh is gonna be especially extra and savage today
Edit: 14:40 exactly he's on a different energy
I need a good blend of sugar and spice. There’s a man I know who melts when we talk. He’s extremely sweet and doesn’t say or do anything that he thinks I may not like. There’s another man I’m friends with who notices subtle differences in my hair, makeup, outfits, etc. which I appreciate but he challenges me. He’s not afraid to hurt my feelings to tell me about myself BUT if I feel disrespected he is humble and takes what I’ve said into consideration. I like the balance. I like when a guy isn’t afraid of me, who knows I’m not perfect and wants to help me grow. HOWEVER, there needs to be respect and kindness with that.
Josh was buggin, but he was dead on!! Definitely need a part two!!
This instance where Josh hurt Isi feelings was a perfect example of question 1. Lol. I think Josh should question Isi too
The be mean to the woman thing never attracted me, I married the nice guy with bad boy traits but those traits only come out if there's danger! Loved this discussion Josh and Isi and as always adore you both 🤗🤗❤❤
Question 2? I never was into bad guys. I was always attracted to nice guys that was family oriented.
It’s always funny seeing josh different responses depending on his mood 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The only thing I disagree with is the hair comment… men, especially Black Men, are very invested in hair (too much in my opinion)
As long as your shit look good nobody cares if you wearing a wig or natural hair. Josh was completely right y’all do that to yourselves. No man has ever rejected a woman because she has natural hair or weave in her head
a real man will hold his boys accountable if they're moving mad🤷🏿♀️
I told my guy friend that he was fake because lmao he didnt understand so i had to break it down lol
@@amiracrandon1258 yea it's kinda sad that they don't get it
“It was all in love” - Hydrated Hero 😂. love y’all stay blessed ❤️
I think the "grown man" that acts mean toward some he likes lack a form of emotional intelligent/ regulation. They'r e aren't sure how express/connect with their intimate feeling to express the interest in someone. This can apply to all genders
The hair cut question was funny when he went on a rant about wigs. I def agree that women set the ridiculous standard that we need $600 wigs n stuff. My my bf preferred my natural hair and didn’t care for makeup 🤷🏾♀️
ion think so.. especially as black women society expects us to do the MOST to be considered pretty sine we’re by default unattractive “in their opinion”
@@smartblackgirl you right I forget about all that sometimes. I definitely get weird looks when wearing my natural hair certain places
Men definitely be nitpicking about black women's hair in particular.
Idk bout question 2. ‘Mean’ people get side eyed from me. And I don’t like disrespect, so when a dude thinks that’s how he’s going to get my attention (being an ass, overtly extra, trying to tell me how I should be) it turns me off. I hate the “you should smile more” type of ppl, I instantly despise that type of energy from people in general, let alone a dude who “likes me”. It’s just not attractive at all. 🤷🏾♀️ Spice doesn’t win everytime when you’ve been shown different by someone who actually cares. The mean ones IMO seem like they just want something out of you. Or start the fire so they can also put it out. That just doesn’t fly with me.
Edit: I think the nice approach doesn’t work when he’s not as attractive. Like the example Isi gave. It’s odd that that Woman said she didn’t gravitate to him just because she knew he liked her. If you return the same sentiments I feel like that’s what most Women look for, that he’s interested…so why when we have dudes that give you the run around all of a sudden that’s not enough. It’s like you need him to play with your heart or something to know he’s fr.
Tbh I think it’s all conditioning. We’ve been conditioned & so used to being treated like $hit that when we do see the real ones out there who’d prove they want you & be about that action we get scared, don’t take it serious, & think it’s a joke. It’s sad.
AHHHH YES just made my Tuesday even better I start working out today (after months of not doing so) now i can chill with y'all, you both look so cozy Isi you look beautiful like always giving me cool rich aunt chilling at home vibes and I'm here for it
Aye I did a workout today too! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🏋🏾♀️
@@TheCRYSTALLURE yesss you gooo proud of you!!
@@filipa8626 Aw thank you! Proud of you too. Let’s get it!💪🏾
@@TheCRYSTALLURE yess thank you!!
Most older women have told me from young that a guy has to be a little more interested for it to work so I never really ever focused on getting a guy.
I think the whole “bad boy” thing has more to do with the conditions we are raised in. Let’s be honest, most of the good looking guys are the “bad boys” because they were either brought up with the confidence that they’re so handsome,and he’s gonna be a heartbreaker (which they subconsciously become) OR they internalize the things they see other guys do around them to get many women vs having a girlfriend. Most guys can’t take rejection so they often go to other guys for help and that help usually consist of toxic advice for self- preservation.
As far as women being attracted to bad boys, I think it’s because they have the confidence in themselves that women admire. A man that can stand up in himself is always gonna win. And women also pay attention to the guys around her. If she has a good father 8/10 times she’ll get a good man, but when we don’t have one at all or low quality ones she’ll subconsciously seek out ones using society standards (which is low) so when she does get him into other shit she thinks she’s got him but she’s really just teaching him new tricks.
y'all are such a pretty couple & bring so much joy to my life man🥺😭🖤✨
also, my fav answer:
Josh: *talking about accountability with friends & locker room talk* "For a man to try to change that narrative, YOU CAN DO BETTER!"
I LOST it😭🤣
This Josh, this Josh passed the test and I approve! 🤣🤣💀 honestly though he was being real and stating facts that we all needed to hear. Some were ugly truths, some were just funny but overall I recommend a part 2 🙌🏾
I HEARD NO LIES!!! .. He told these women what they needed to hear instead of what they wanted… #period
I actually never viewed the word simping like that. To me the word simping is not just exclusive to romantic relationships and simply means going above and beyond and giving all your energy to a relationship while the other party does nothing. For example, if every time you hang out with your friend you have to be the one to schedule and plan the whole outing as well as pay for everything while the other party never reaches out to you and never pays for themselves. This is an example of simping. Giving all your time and energy into a relationship where the other party gives nothing in return.
I MISSED THESE !!
Isi what did you feed josh... man my cheeks hurts and the video not done yet....😅😅😅😅
I hate micromanging...josh knows what's up.
So glad you guys posted lol TH-cam was dry without ya'll! Love your content and you guys are so inspiring!! Thanks for sharing xo
This is so relatable!!!! Thank you Joshua for your input and Isi I love yall so much. 🥰😍😘😘
Geez, I would be really happy if a guy were to come up to me and was really nice. I think it’s because those girls tends to get approach a lot. As for me, literally no one comes up to me lol.
I seen this somewhere (probably tik tok) a time ago a girl saying something along the lines of a high end brand store barely has clients and it's looked for the general public and why is that cause it's quality and not everyone can afford it (this was very ruffly explained)but I'm sure you're beautiful and a amazing person one day you will get a quality guy and don't be scared to make the 1st move if that's the case be confident people like that
@@filipa8626 I wish I wasn’t so shy 😔. But I really like your comment. Maybe one day
@@honeybee1795 you can always work on that just keep working and focus on you and loving yourself and im glad I could make you feel better!!
Me too! I have had a guy say oh your fat like that's gonna make me like him. His crazy I walked away and never talked to him again
@@shukosworld5754 as you should so disrespectful body shaming you
I loooooooove this Josh 😂😂. Haven’t enjoyed a video like this in a while 👏🏽 👏🏽
I enjoyed this video from start to finish! 😂 Y’all always give QUALITY content!
Not the "pause...you don't cook" 😭 @12:41
Bye this was hilarious, y’all are starting 2022 off amazing!!! But we definitely need a part two ASAP 😂🤎
19:17 I'm crying with Josh's face lmao
This video is soooo entertaining
And yesss, I want a part 2 and 3 and 4
this video was HILARIOUS! I love yall energy for real!!!
You guys are always such a vibe this viedo was refreshing, entertaining ,funny,honest and slightly informative. Thank yall
I love the themed videos because they provide insight on things were all wondering. Our 20’s are spent learning and i learn something new every time i watch your videos
Part 2 please !!! I thoroughly enjoyed this. I thought it was hilarious and every answer was entertaining.
My favorite answer was to “why do guys get so upset when you remind them if something they need to do?”
This was my favorite Because I needed this answer in my life. From now on I’ll ask my man at the end of the day AFTER he’s forgotten to do something. I guess we should give him the chance to get to it first and don’t assume he’s forgotten or ignored it.
Oh I died at holding your friends accountable 🗣”YOU CAN DO BETTER!!!” 🤣
Lol I loved this! Y’all had me laughing the whole way through. Love y’all! 😂🥰
I simply loved this video, it was so funny, so chill, and so real. Reminded me why I love watching you guys been here since beauty and beau, love your growth🤎.
LMAO! that 🗣"YOU COULD DO BETTER" part ended me😭⚰💐
This might be my favorite josh and isi video ever!!!!
Lmfaooo joshhh 🤣🤣🤣
He said “Dat asssssss” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Loved this. Definitely a part 2 please. 💗
LOl!! Ya'll had me cracking up! Josh thank you for your honesty!
This was so funny! I was dying! I want to see a 2022 part 2 and another truth or drink.
This was sooo funny 😂but very true I love how authentic you guys are
looooool "Sometimes, I miss lotion" JOSH LOL did we not all witness queen Isi on hand and knee with your foot dem?!! *crying*
The ending where isi was hyping josh up was everything! Y’all are truly best friends and I love it
Love This Segment!!! Y’all Should keep This!!! Definitely giving vibes!!! Keep Grinding & Shinning Y’all💎💎💎
Much Peace& Love💋
I love y'all ❤️❤️😍 and the quality!
LOVE YALL SO MUCH. KEEP IT UP:)
Joshua… CLEAN AS YOU GO. When you’re done w something put it back, you spill something wipe it up
Omg we have missed yallllllll
I loveddd the honesty!!!😂😂 you guys make my days 🤎
I started literally jumping so excitedly just from seeing this title and thumbnail lol! I love y'all #qualitycrew forever
I can't with Josh so funny though , thanks for the video Josh and Isi :))
I know girls like that but I do not like that 😂💯. I used to get bullied in general so that being mean to me does not excite me. It is exciting to me when I’m being complimented and shown affection.💯🙂
I'm binge watching trying to catch up y'all are hilarious love y'all❤️
😂😂😂 Yeah, Josh had tiimmmeee today!
I enjoy your channel so much. Love you guys!
I loved this so much 💕 thank you, I see the love that you both have for each other and its beautiful 😍 blessings 🙏🏾♥️
Josh went in this time!! But we needed to hear this, appreciate the honesty. And appreciate ISI’s secureness!
Y’all are so hilarious 🤣🤣 I love these videos
I’m glad someone brought up accountability for men towards their friends and other men…. I’ve been seeing a lot of men talk about women don’t like accountability but they don’t have that energy among themselves.
Men seem to have the mentality that they can’t tell another man what to do, but expect women to 😏
That’s really been grinding my gears lately lol they would never fix they lips to say anything to another man but they have so much shit to say about women and have the nerve to say female every time
@@giachristine9188 That’s those redpill guys 😩
This video is hilarious love y'all!
🤣🤣🤣the splinter analogy... I'm sorry...whaaaa?!
We wanna see more😂😂
Love it!
I love isi and josh energy when they do videos
y'all are so cute. Isi looks real good 10/10
Josh you didn’t have to snatch wig and expose my bald cap like that in this video 😂😂😂😂
OK Isi with the hype at the end.
i love this transparency😂
Another Quality video aside....Isi was absolutely gorgeous!!! Sis is glowing! Love the hair!!