How To Text Girls Who You Did NOT Sleep With On The First Date
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I feel like a lot of these videos can be summed up with “a bottle of wine”
yeah man that's the best about all of it hahaha
You fear not the man who practice 10000 things for 1 time but 1 thing for 10000 times
Lol 🤣
Big, finished workouts & bottles of wine
The one crucial thing these videos made me realise, that I need to learn the funny teasing calling out stuff. I checked some of my previous interactions and OMG, I was passive-agressive as hell.
Thanks for that Alex
p.s.: Fellow dudes. ALWAYS have a reason/goal why you text a girl, not just pointlessly chit-chat around. Either meet at a bar, get her to come over, even getting get on facetime
True, once I started watching these type of videos I started looking back at my own texts and pointed out EVERY FLAW I saw of myself. I realized I was boring asf lol
No problem bro
big FACTS. I look back and realize I have no game whatsoever
Damn, the timing of this topic is absolutely perfect! It's just happened to me last night
Never seen this guy before, but so nice to actually see some example texts how interactions go with women. My dates always pan out great, then over text it falls apart. Usually get hung up on long replies, being left on read etc. Wish there was more material on this kind of stuff.
I love how you subtly correct her that they weren't protests, they were riots. lol
99% are protests
Man, I remember when waiting days to call or text could be sooo effective.
It still can be very effective
@@didafm wrong. You have 6 to 12 hours minimum
This dude does the same exact blinking twitch at the beginning of every video
“Good, been working on new videos with screenshots of these texts” 😂
Lol. Would be funny
On point. My experience is if the date goes well but you didn’t close her you run 50/50 chance of seeing her again. But if she has come to your place and it doesn’t go down, chance of seeing her again is much lower.
Ah fuck
Modern generation of dating got crazy fcked with toxiciry and instant gratification. What happened to 60s-80s courting and all that for yrs til marriage for love making. Probably why there were less divorce rates bck then than now. I prefer old dating
@@mysterio5837 actually, there were more divorce rates back then, because people actually got married.
Crazy how the Video was recommend the second I came Home from my First Date
Great video. It's interesting to me, I really wonder what goes down when a guy masters online dating yet doesn't know how to interact with a girl in person 🤔 I'm the opposite
Lots of failed dates
Good video, lots of good points you brought up. Everyone has their own style, but with me, if it's a hook up date, i don't meet up unless they understand that some screwing is going down. If they flake, or we meet up and she plays games, no sex....i simply leave the place we met up at. I have zero tolerance for a time waster. Now if your approach is you don't care either way, and you think the second, or third date there might be action, hey that's cool...but remember if you don't score, you wasted all that follow up time giving yourself blue balls. I also try to spend little to no money on a date. If i do spend money, i never spend more than 40 bucks. If no action after one date, move on. I also stay clear of chicks that are looking for a text buddy. That cuts into time you can spend getting some snatch.
Whats the place you take them on for the first date
How do you end up not spending money on a girl? When the waiter brings the check do u just straight up say: “we’ll split the bill” I usually end up paying cuz I don’t wanna say I’ll split it but lowkey I don’t wanna spend my money on a girl anymore
@@Brando_x99 do you have your own place? I only meet up with the ones who are willing to come over.
Great content man, love your channel. One question i believe you didnt address - how long would you wait to text her after the first date you didn't sleep with her? would you text her the next day?
Keep the great content coming!
Yes. You could text her the next day. But all depends on the context. Did you pull her? Or was she not interested? etc
@@PlayingWithFireChannel no didnt pull her home, she said another time as she had to wake up for work the next day. We did make up though, and she seems interested
@@johnchetcuti8442 Women can seem interested for the next couple days and completely stop texting or meet up eventually if you don't close on the first. But, GG!
Super valuable content once again my man!
*Real time question for you Alex:*
Just to let you know Alex that I've tried a few of your tinder tips/strategies to set dates. Texted this girl 2 days ago with a "Hey trouble", she was investing a bit, successful soft close and eventually hard closed for a bottle of wine on my balcony ;) (The date was supposed to be today) Turns out she texts me this morning saying she can't make it bla bla bla. I know she went out yesteday by herself and she most likely met a guy and now flaked on me (source: insta stories by herself and then at some time, she posts a story with two drinks). She is on vacation in my area until sunday/monday. *What would you do in this case?* I tried to turn it around but she came again with bs so my last message was: "Hey, no worries! Let me know"
Thanks man. Make a post in the forums with the screenshots and I’ll take a look :)
Great vid! Can you explain how do you sexualize things and kino escalate when she comes over? How do you even bring the topic of sex into conversation?
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I think this is one of your most helpful videos from my perspective. Sometimes I get trapped in the "texting buddy" scenario... it's tough sometimes when they are ones texting first with random shit going on in their day/life/work. Anyone know what I mean?
so for the soft close can there be no hint at the date? i just texted a girl that lives an hour away “we need to give you several business days notice to prepare you for your journey northward” should i have started with a “how’s life”
Is there one where you did sleep together on the 1st date? She was a solid 10, it was out of this world, she was chasing and obsessed then my mistake was grabbing lunch with her the next day and she went ice cold a few days later. It’s been a week of no contact
this was fire 🔥
Playing with fire
THE GOAT.
Where is the video for guys that did sleep with her on the first date and want to set up the 2nd
1:03 - great
Would you advise not to double text after the first date if you guys didn't have sex?
Wine is the key
Good video bro....can u make one on how to text conservative/religious girls. Thnx
Have a job
Don’t believe in the overly retarded things that stereotypical liberals obsess over
S-tier texting game
Hey Alex, why didn't you answer her "really pretty" text. Can't leaving her on read be a problem?
No, thats an acceptable place to end the conversation, you dont have to reply for the sake of replying.
Nope. It can build intrigue
you said at the end don't focus on building chemistry over text, does this change when it comes to the first date? it seems like some girls need more comfort before agreeing to meetup.
I focus on building investment not chemistry. They can seem similar, but there is a difference
Yo this convo dragged on too long just to smash lmao (if that was the goal)
Inner Humor (callback humor)
Banter
Soft close
So how would you handle if she say she’s coming off her period?
Thaaaanks
When should I follow up text after date? One day after?
Yeah
You’re a lifesaver. I will name one of my kids after you, you fucking madlad
I played it too cool and she got so pissed.....damn
‘Im not gonna push it anymore because that would be a turn off’
Ahhh yes, rapey vibes are definitely a turn off
@Connie Chung it should be a given really lol
How long did you wait after the first date to text her about the AC?
It was the next day
What podcast is this? Keen to check it out
Which one man
PlayingWithFire all of them which pertains to the same topic. Didn’t know you guys had a podcast
Can you make a videos with tipps for the actual date?
Yep I already have that Man
How often do ppl sleep with each other on the first date??? Like is that common? It seems so baffling and my brain does not comprehend it.
Extremely common. Welcome to the modern era where sex is a basic human need (always has been)
@@PlayingWithFireChannel yeah but to get it OFTEN on the first date? Is there no more respect for ourselves? Regardless of religion.
It's a percentage that are doing it. Guys don't realize it's the same women that are fucking all the dudes. What you would call, easy women (low self-worth).
Or it is a girl who actually likes you and that's why they sleep with you early on. In that case you are just hurting them for your own insecure ego. Which isn't cool. Unless you realize you just didn't like her that much.
Quality women with healthy self-esteem are not banging a bunch of random dudes on first dates often. They are being very selectively. This dude is basically a tool teaching manipulation. Do you think a quality woman feels good about herself after hooking up with this dude? Listen to him, look at him 😂
@@ObamaSaidHeLikesMenope. New Age bro
where is the quiz
Added to description
How long do we wait to send the text ? Also the one after sex
Totally depends to be honest. In a day or two is good
So i slept with this chick, the next day she says she “deactivated her snapchat” which im sure is BS. I just told her cool just message me when you wanna hang out. No reply for a day, she messages back and says sorry i was really high or some bs, i dont reply, she messages back later “how are you?” That was this morning its almost midnight just ghosted her all day. Not tryin to play games. Did i do the right thing?
Does ''yo sexy'' really works? 😂
Depending on the girl my guy
You have to be a smoothe talker to pick up women with this guy's face.
Girls are annoying. Why would she come over and she still on her period?