What to Text a Girl who Stopped Responding (Use This To Get Her to Reply)
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Is there ever a case when leaving a voicemail is better than texting to reopen a conversation?
The funny thing is. In all of those chats I would have given up waaaaaaaaaay earlier. Damn you really play intelligent text game
Thanks man
I aint going through all that shit just to get a date. Either you interested or not. Make time or not. No such thing as being too busy.
Its his job. How hez gonna get content otherwise?
@@TheFeezy777 so right!
@@TheFeezy777 preach
"Look. I'm busy too. But I'm sure we could both find a few hours if we actually wanted to. "
A hint of risk, ballsy, but f*ing honest. Nice
Yep, it’s a delicate balance
Nope, on to the next one
That's the whole point, they dont want to find time for you. They chatting to about 500 other mandem.
Bullshit mine on a video games instead of texting me back it been 2-3 days wtf
Perfect really. Calls her out, gives her FOMO, and forces her to chase you to secure the date.
1. Reopen convo. (Early stages of convo) (hola Linda)
2. Build on convo (if left on read after trying to make plans. Can say don’t think too hard)
3. Takeaway (you made a push and now you’re pulling back. Mistake is keep pushing) (if that’s cool, if you’re too nervous I understand, if you’re into that sorta thing, don’t be shy)
4. Call out (last resort if tried everything out. Non needy/butthurt way.) (tell me if you’re not into this, are you always this difficult to make plans with, are you always this talkative)
mans made notes just like me LOL
Nah you block her after 1st attempt.
@@knockdadeathstroke3799 lol yeah man this is just tooo much. There are plenty of girls to choose from who will be more interested
I was looking for this comment lmao. Thanks man 🙏
I like how you actually showed proof with using your tactics. Solid advice
Thanks man
@@PlayingWithFireChannel you’re welcome
@@barrymccockiner5321 Lol. Workaholics! Great show
@@PlayingWithFireChannel great minds think alike
Yeah bro this dude is one of the only redpillers that isn’t total bs, only like 30%
Dam this guy is patient AF!
That couch looks really familiar, just cant remember from where.
anyways really good advices. Appreciating what you are doing!
Thanks man
Casting Couch! Lol
Party couch
😂🤣🤣 screaming
good work, i would never have put that much effort in myself, i prefer to concentrate on women who show high interest, its so much easier.
Woah that was persistent! Usually id give up way before, but the fact that you got the meet up is great! Kudos man
Thanks man
That's some top-tier text game with that woman.
Balancing the persistence while trying to gain frame control.
And he actually got the lay.
Bravo, my guy. 👏
The main thing I took from this is to be PATIENT!!! That’s why it’s crucial to have multiple options. You should have hundreds of chicks you’re opening as they’ll all close at different time. Thanks for the video man
Yep man, patience is key
@@PlayingWithFireChannel y dont nderstand ? vryte more pls
That's the problem ladies and gentlemen. If you get denied that many times all it will end up being is a one night stand and you might as well go to the club then. These girls are a waste of time when they say no twice. Gotta move on if you want something serious
“These girls”. Don’t you mean people in general?
You can't negotiate genuine desire. Chasing these types of women will be a waste of energy more often than not.
@@asmrtpop2676 wat
Finally some logic! All that effort for a 45 yo ONS? If your game is that good at night go the club and score right there. Having to re start the convo more than 2 times is needy. It shows you don't have that many girls around. Also the connection with her was not that great... nothing more than trying to meet once and again and again... I mean he is the expert, but fuck Im not writing that much for a ONS with an old lady.
@@asmrtpop2676 no, girls. I've seen the numbers and im living it also.
Girls ghost the shit out of everyone. Dont believe me? Try to be an average dude on tinder for a week, you will end up commiting suicide hahah
Me: Are you always this talkative
Her: I’m sorry, I should have responded. I was actually pursuing a relationship with someone else and had not wanted to give indication of interest when I did not have interest to give at the time. Again, I am sorry for not stating this earlier
On point
*BINGO!!!!!!!*
A girls top pick guy will never have to wait for a reply. He will get the most respectful, most considerate, absolute best behaved version of her. But the guys lower on her list will be forced to wait and accept the scraps of her time, like roaches… hell no! You throw that girl in the bin in such case. If youre not number 1 to her, then you get rid of her. Simple.
@@Kumari_44 bro i understand your point but how will a girl get to know you personally on texting? i mean she didn't really experience Alex's personality or the emotions he would've given if they met in person.
If they would've already met in person and Alex gave her all the right emotions, I'm sure she won't be like that
9 times out of 10 when a woman leaves you on read it's a test to see how you react. As some have said patience is key, but where I differ is I never double text. I just sit back and wait, and depending on her level of interest she may get back to you in 1 day or 1 week, or not at all. Either way you demonstrate non-neediness, and a take it or leave it attitude. Which when she's testing you like this, is what she wants to feel. Don't be thirsty, never double text guys.
Not really. Usually it's more simple they just have a shit ton of options and men messaging them so they tend to leave some dudes on read because they have their hands full. I think double texting is fine so long as it's strategic and not needy.
Not double texting is extremely dumb in my opinion. You won’t seem needy if you double text as long as you leave a few days between messages.
Women get bombarded with messages and especially if you two just met, chances are you’re not yet a big priority to her. So you have to keep yourself relevant.
BINGO! 100% agreed! Its silly doing all those childish mental games just to meaninglessly smash a girl who’s clearly a 304 for one night. We’re adults. You’re either interested and will make time. Or you wont. Its as simple as that. You can gurantee she doesnt make her top pick guy wait for a reply. But she will make the guys lower on her list wait so bad that they will have to double txt her 5+ times like alex did. Why jump through all these hoops for one girl when theres other girls that wont even make you jump through hoops in the first place, And will come straight over so long as they’re interested. Its dumb. Dont get me wrong, Alex is a G for getting the end goal. His txting game is good. But he clearly has the time for mental games. (As its his job) but Alot of men dont, and wont put up with girls like that. Nor should they. If youre not a girls top pic (yes, even for just a smash) throw that girl away and find another.
Double texting is in no way needy if done correctly.
it's the ultimate way a woman tests a man to see how he handles getting something he wants, if he is successful with his dating strategies and aroused interest in a woman who's ghosted him, she can't help but think how successful he is in business and every day life. Not pursuing someone you want is a waste of potential if you ask me. Same goes with things you want in life.
Thank you for changing my game. I got laid only a day looking at your videos. Just bought your guide. Great work.
Me too hahaha! How many girls have you smashed so far? Mine is 34 women
Dude I used to listen to other dating coaches in a wrong way. I gave up after read, and never got back with them. Very intelligent video man subscribed.
I run into this issue all the time, this video has helped alot. I feel women do this ghosting behavior as a subtle shit test to see if you're reallyyyy that interested
Glad to hear man
Some women do the ghosting for validation & to boost their ego. If the dude keeps trying, her ego gets boosted but she keeps ghosting. If the dude doesn't persist, she just drops him & moves on to her next victim. Us men are in a no win situation 🤦♂️
@@lollol-zo9xy mine ignoring me it’s sad they be on media and video games but can’t chat their own man lmfaaooooo watch me ignore her for whole month tooo
Just used your advice on reopening. Worked like a charm. Thank you sir
13:34 thought he was Gonna say “if you’re interested in seeing the footage” 🤣🤣
Damn I would have let that go a looong time ago. Just goes to show that you have to put in the work to get the best results
He is a man of focus, commitment, sheer fucking will
I feel like she had options and was dangling you around, because you had to re-open and soft close her like over 10x for a whole month, nobody is that busy for a hang out. The call out and maybe not having any other options then came to the meet up
A month isn’t that long, a person can easily be busy for a month. Working over forty hours a week alone is already justification that whatever time you have left may be doing personal care tasks, caring for pets, going to the gym, etc. But what if she has a commitment a couple nights a week? Volunteering, DND, etc. Family dinner another night a week. People really do get busy. Just find someone who naturally flows into your life. You’ll be happier for it. And don’t forget that dudes who don’t eat pussy don’t keep girls.
@@asmrtpop2676 at the end of the day, we make time for things we want. If its important, you will make time. Regardless of your schedule. No such thing as being too busy. Period.
it's all about mentality
he wanted to fawk that's why he didn't give up that easily and he would not care or get butt hurt if she kept ignoring him twice thrice which would leave him to stop but most guys are simp these days they'll not see the signs and keep pursuing the wrong way and treat women as goddess
@@asmrtpop2676 spoken by a girl with thousands of matches and options. Keep living in your disneyland bs world.
@@asmrtpop2676 bs I work 65 a week and I find time for my gf. Like someone else said if you're actually interested you'll make time or you'll include that person in your time. For me my gf comes to work with me sometimes and then we chill on Saturday or Sunday. Again on paper I have very little time but I adapt.
Bro I literally sent the “you this talkative all the time” and she replied within seconds and we’re hanging out tonight😂😂
It’s a good one lol
What a simp! I would just forget you exist 😅
And, still together after 6 months?
@@YurikoKataoka Nah they never seen each other after the first date lol
We need a update bro
Jeez that's a lot of work for mid 40s. I think her problem is that she's suspicious becuase you're "better" than her due to age, and thus you can't be very serious.
Damn dude... cant believe you would put that much effort into a 45yr old.... in miami i would think you would have more than enough 20yr olds to keep you busy
I do. But sending a few texts is very low investment for me
I know its been a year. Its not even about that. Its a challenge 18 or 80 if you can "convince" her to say yes, even if it was just to cancel on her. 20 nos in a row, it builds your skills and breaks you into new levels of game, that kind of practice will have the "easy" girls going crazy over it.
This guy didn't have a chat with this girl, he went hunting her
And failed miserably
Advice, proof, examples. Best coaching channel no doubt. Best of luck brother ♥
Thanks man. Much appreciated
Hey man, new sub! Decent content for text/online game.
Wouldn't have dragged it out with this woman for as long as you did. Was chatting with a single mom few years ago - she never EVER gave me a solid answer for making plans but we chatted on and off for a whole year! I had others in my rotation so wasn't a massive issue - but I still felt played when she said she'd met someone and took my number off her WhatsApp 😭😭😂😂
Very hit and miss with these types. More miss than hit really. I quit very early in with these types now.
Thanks for the content man!
Welcome to pwf man. I think I would’ve pushed harder to figure out why she was bieng so wishy washy. Probably some unanswered concern
I find when I get trapped in a situation like what do I say and what's the next action to take the answer is really in these videos. I'm gonna rewatch a lot of these till it sticks in my head cause most of the time I forget it haha. Its a new habit so might take a while till I actually memorize these principles.
To be honest dude, its so much easier and better when the girl text you first instead of the guy always initiating. I find when girls text first it puts you in position to set the tone and dates and meet ups.
I hate it. Just gives me hopes and fuck it all up 😂
No. You have to at least get her interest first. Women need a kick start to get them attracted to you, assuming they know nothing about you.
Dude, I got tired just seeing this vid on 2x. You are a champ
„At this point i need all my fucking text game skills, to get the meet up“ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 so funny and interesting video never give up
If she stops texting back …..stop texting her
Good strategy too but not getting butthurt will take you further
The juice usually isn't worth the squeeze in situations like this. I would just move on to someone that shows interest.
I find that waiting a day or 2 really works wonders
Indeed
That’s just how some people are. I have ADHD so, unless you’re my besties or a coworker or family I actually forget to reply to notifications 🤷🏻♀️ And I find the people who wait a couple days to reply to me are THE biggest relief 😂 Because they won’t get mad at me for doing the same!
@@asmrtpop2676 I have ADHD too, still I anwer to the people I actually care about :-)
I really like the persistent approach here, so that is a great take away. Thanks for that, man!
this channel has been super helpful for me man. I'm seeing much better results on dating apps! I had two dates last week after a long dry spell. keep up the good work! :)
Why would I want to continue with someone who has no interest in me?
bro I am just copying some of your texts and they are working. Learned alot from just watching your videoes. Thanks my man!
super persistent while not being pushy. good stuff. translates to a lot more than just trying to bag women
Really good video, great advise👌🏼
However, girls like the one from the last chat are a nono for me. Just super annoying and not worth my time, I don't like playing her games. If she wants to meet me, she does, everyone has got one hour of time.
As long as she's not an 11/10 on my scale I ditch girls like that almost immediately.
Freddy_ Fragrance Thanks man. Yea I generally agree with that
You must not be very successful then if you think people can’t be busy constantly.
I hate texting
Saturday October 5th to Wednesday November 6th...absolute commitment to the cause
its literally his job so he better be committed
This shit too hard. All that for 45 old lady babe or not. 😂
You see, this guy has natural game. It would take me like 30 minutes to come up with the shit he’s saying lmao. Even then, it might come out cringe
facts
not natural game he said it himself he spent years failing
Lol
@@kobe5938 he is still failing judging from this vid. Terrible advice 🤣
Damn, you’re persistent as hell… usually I’ll ask once or maybe twice about when to hang out and if there’s any weird energy I just move on
And how are your results? Happy with them?
It’s kind of scary how good this guy is at this
👻
thanks alex, the video that was locking for, directly when I go to TH-cam.
If I don't have a reply in the next 24h I send another text. If this doesn't get me a reply I cancel the match and move on. Hate wasting my time.
How much time are you saving by doing this? 2 seconds? If you're wasting the entire 24 hrs waiting for her reply and not doing anything else, then you have bigger problems to worry about than wasting those 2 seconds of your time to just do 1 last ping
Dang, basically a month until the meetup- really puts it all in perspective
Yup
I don't like this texting bs man. It's not for me. I want the real life
damn just not giving up makes you needy
Atleast he tried. We all been there guys. Its female nature. PART of the game.
@@airlebron7467 you shut that shit down soon as you see that BS. Block her. Move on
The Russian woman had absolutely no interest in you and was using you for attention. She doesn't seem fun or invested at all. I would have left this long ago - you are basically screaming at her that you are desperate and that you have no other plates spinning. Don't let the couple of days between texts fool you into thinking that you're playing it cool. You're not. The golden rule is: If you text her last - you don't text her again until you receive a reply from her. You never want a woman to think that she is the only one that you are pursuing. You try to close it 7 times and spend months working on closing it and ended it with pitty (where the woman basically says to herself "OK - I will phuck this guy just to get him to stfu) sex? You waisted a TON of time and effort on this woman. You missed the mark on this one.
I’d rather pursue a woman than to give up on failure and lead to porn
@@robjack9710 thats weak af man. Fuck porn too
This video is terrible man honestly I feel bad for the dude, and hes bragging about success 🤣🤣🤣 i might not sleep with every hot chick I text with but I know damn well I aint wasted my energy on some BS like this
Holy smith that was a lot of work… I couldn’t do all that for any person.
And neither you should. This video is weak and this dude is weak af for letting her disrespect him and play him like this. If she even gave him sex, which I doubt cause theres no proof of them physically being out, she did it out of pity 100%
Here in brazil conversation over text is 10x diferent
This guy is the best.
Always looking to get lucky.
As much as I appreciate him revealing his textgame. I don't share his age statements at all. If the woman is 23 years old, that's the absolute maximum. And it will stay that way until I die.
This is a great example though. Just goes too show you never know what’s going on in the background. As long as your not too pushy and needy they will usually respond if you text after a couple days.
Just the kind of video I needed to see today. Thanks man!
Not sure how I got down this rabbit hole buuut this is to much man....keep it movin' fellas. Keep your emotions in check and check your own self worth...I'm telling ya fellas keep it movin' do not waste time on games and they will come to you. This man said he waited 2 days and then restarted the Convo...I would have already approached or messaged someone else if thats what I was on. If they were intrigued by you at all they will hit you back if not...NEXT! Stop giving a fuck fellas...y'all making this shit complicated damn. Keep it moving and quit letting 1 distracting you He said texting for weeks and to me at this initial stage that's to long, again....keep it moving fellas.
That seems like more Energy than it is worth ngl I swear it ain't that hard to find a day to hangout
If it’s over text, my last resort is 8 ball and you’d be surprised how many girls actually go for it and I can get the convo going again
8 ball? What does that mean?
I tried this new thing when i dont get a reply. Unmatch and delete phone number
Best way to do it
I'm that kind of person who give up too early. If you restart the convo, wouldn't she think that you have no options?
Double text a girl 7+ times over the space of a month and find out. You wont like the answer.
You definitely should give up soon as she disrespects your time. I give em 2 days max after that they are blocked everywhere and couldnt reach me even if they wanted to
Great content brother! I'll try the 2 days wait before texting her again and give you an update on that!
Update: sooo she still didnt respond but imma be persistent so I'll try again saturday with Ryan Gosling meme ;)
Redouan El Allati any luck
@@formangrilling111 no not yet brother :(
Lmfaooo i just trie the two day wait nd texted this cute ass girl. Lets see if she responds
Great techniques. For me personally I dont double text but I might try once or twice. After that im done. Im already busy as it is dont have time for games.
I have a lot of respect for this guy for this interaction alone. It took him a month to get her and his persistence is incredible. BTW, I wonder why didn't she see it as needy?
he did some steps backwards once in a while
Lol I've been using these advice these days cus I'm bored in quarantine and damn does it work
Probably the best dating advice video ive ever seen. Mind blowing
Do these work with someone you’ve already hooked up with and have their number. Is there a good way too text them or should you move on and wait for them too contact again.
I avoid all that effort, as soon as they go silent, im like ok text me when you wanna do somethin, and text that to 20 girls, thats all ,, thats the 20 texts id send, then sit back and wait for 1 of them to quit bullsh!tin and text me and wel go do somthing.I hate all the bs stuff and the crap they try to do to men.
Great video bro!
Best channel for text game !
love all your insight.
How long should you leave it between these messages?
She’d given me her number, agreed about meeting for wine & has left ‘let me know your schedule’ on unread, followed two days later by ‘Thiking very hard I see’ also on unread.
Do I leave for three more days or longer before saying ‘If you’re too shy I understand?’
its crazy how this guy gives all this A* advice for free while some people will give stupid advice and charge for it.
I support this channel like my virginity.
Hey man I just wanted to say, on behalf of all the non-neurotypical people that are out there trying to understand some of the more complicated parts of dating. Thank you so much :)
What if you deleted the message after a few hours? My plan is to wait two days befor trying again. But I’m not sure on how to do it effectively
What was the result? Did you meet with her? I got the message through, but what I also noticed that you put effort in a conversation through weeks and I don't see any results from it, but the tips and the carry ons was really handy :)
Jesus, you deserve a Nobel prize for what that chic put u through
MAN YOU'RE GOOD LOL
daamn dude. It took a whole month to get that girl in a vertical position!
Hi from Russia
This persistence is great for getting the initial meetup but I would like to see how to continue to pursue women you are already dating.
Would you still use these methods if she said to you which was after I asked her while she was showing high interest in the convo, when she wanted to hang out, with I don´t know , my mom is visiting for a few days, mentioned the movie they are watching, this was after 10pm, and left you on read the next day ? ...
Her. Sunday?
Reply: sounds exciting.
Silence....
Are you always this talkative?
How long would you wait before sending this text?
Okay this is probably the most useful video for me... :DDD
Its really not, its how you 100% guaranteed get disrespected and made fun of.
Don’t use all those messages that don’t seem spontanious.
Just be chill and yourself, you don’t have to impress her or use all those pick up artis techniques if you have a nice personality yourself ;) It can even be a big turn of if it’s cheesy in this way
Would’ve liked to see how that last conversation played out. I’m in a similar situation myself.
hahahaha bro wtf! saw the full album collection of texting,you are a monster of patience.I wonder what the hell did you tell her on 26-27/12 and you wrapped it up XD
Your initial problem was continuing to ask her to “pick a night” or “what day works best” instead what you should have said was “I’m free on Friday” or “Monday works best for me, hbu?” You made it too easy for her to say no to you when you continued to give her the power of choice on when she would come through. It’s blue pill conditioning
Basically what I’m saying is, you put the pussy on a pedestal. She was living in your head rent free until the stage 4 callout.
@@jameslane9267 And "I'm free on Friday" is sooo difficult to say no to?
Calling it "blue pill conditioning" is very silly tbh. But hey, as long as you're getting results
A W's a W 😂
10:00 this is why i travel to East Asia. That's some effort.
Your persistence is off the charts. I would've said see ya to that Russian girl right quick
Thanks man
These are all great man but honestly, it’s sometimes a bad idea to overtext a girl if she’s not responding. ESPECIALLY if she is interested in you in a sexual way. I’m going through something like that now myself and I’m making a pact to myself to not over-text a girl that I’m interested in sexually where the feeling is mutual since she’s not responding now. Not gonna take it personally and will just wait till I hear back from her again. And it’s never a bad idea to do that sometimes.
I get where you're coming from. But, what are you losing by "overtexting" a girl? Your ego? Integrity? Why does that only apply when trying to meet a girl? Would you double text a guy friend if needed?
She may be interested. But, if you do not persist, she may think you're not that interested. Also depends on the context of what was the last text. If it's a question, then I get the reason you'd "make a pact"
@@PlayingWithFireChannel I’m mainly talking triple and quadruple texting when she isn’t responding. It’s important to jump ship when she doesn’t back respond after the second text. The two text rule is a good one to follow by. I followed that rule and I got a reply back from her after the second text I sent her.
@@saml.williams6321 Who made this rule. I've gotten to meet amazing girls after I have quadruple texted them
what do i say after a day has gone by? I called her "exotic" and no response -_-
Women don’t like to be called exotic
Hey bro. Thanks for the advice on how text a girl who stopped. Been texting one girl told her that last night I went to bed at 11pm and asked how's her day going. Then suddenly it was left as seen. Need to wait two days
I did the math after going through the LR and you had to re-open this girl a total of 16 times before getting the meet
Oh shit, that’s crazy. I didn’t even count that
Yeah that way to much, more effort and attention from your part, no woman is worth that much time
Dont be her pen pal
OK, so pretty much 70% of that text exchange you showed was a complete waste of time and energy.Your text banter is pretty good, but you don't seem to understand female psychology that well. There's a reason why she kept ignoring you, it has nothing to do with her. It's because you kept asking HER to make a decision and pick the plans. Women don't like that, they want YOU to lead by suggesting plans. Come on man, this is dating 101. It's pretty embarrassing that you're a dating coach and don't understand this.
If you had messaged her the first time and just said "how bout [insert weeknight] at [insert place], 7 p.m..." She would have responded with "Sounds great" or given a reschedule suggestion.
She wasnt interested and I highly doubt she let him smash, their interaction through texts is real, but he didnt get her 100% she wasnt even interested in him, she just wanted to feel validated and got what he wanted out of him every single time.
how about you buy a new pair of shoes mate? they are literally pilling off
Those may be good tactics but that seems like waaayyyyy too much work and effort to just meet one broad when there's millions of others out there.
Why did i read this in Chris Moltisanti’s voice from the sopranos
Yeah but millions of them do this shit. It's like every single fking one. They don't give a fk
Those "tactics" are shit. Apply no contact rule soon as she doesnt respond, treat her like she dont even exist lol, go through your daily activities, hit the gym go to work whatever, just dont look at her stories, posts and check if she sent you anything. If she doesnt respond in 2 days max...you block her everywhere to let her know you wont tolerate her BS. I use the blocking "tactic" to make her feel like shit for doing it to a great man like me and to kind of stir her away from doing it to other men she meets. Shes inferior and low standard to me soon as she plays games. Dont give into her playing hard to get. You have to become IMPOSSIBLE to get.