Hey brother, I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate your content. I truly have faith that you can significantly contribute to the shifting in the current dating market for the better. I've learned how to demonstrate that I value my priorities and desires in my romantic life. Which not only do women notice, but men also gain more self respect and strength from. Really means a lot✊🏻🙏🏻
Man, i saw a debate on destiny's channel with Pearl, destiny, you and a some other guy, and I just wanna give you props for your channel having very good advice for woman and self improvement in general, and actually being a good person and down to earth, because some of these people on the redpill are so out of touch with reality
@@PlayingWithFireChannel I also found your channel via Destiny. You still seem mostly pickup/hookup oriented instead of relationship oriented which is what I need help with, but you don’t approach these topics in the weird creepy way that other RP types do. I respect that and i appreciate that you’re not selling an ideology so much as (honest) sales tactics
@@bruhdabones Hey man :) try to think about it this way: All relationships start with sex, once you are able to get to the sex part with women easily, you simply choose the ones you want to keep seeing and if they are really amazing, get into a relationship with them. I've been a part of the "pickup cult" for years and since I mastered the stuff, I've had the most amazing and healthy relationships with women. Biggest revelation is that there are so many amazing women out there and all you need to learn is how to meet and attract them. Good luck and I hope you find whatever you are looking for :)
@@bruhdabones Also, you don't need to go as sexually/direct as Alex does on Tinder and invite them straight to your house, you can simply have a light/fun conversation and then ask a girl out, it is what I do most of the time and it works just as good as long as you are direct and know all the basics which Alex or any other good coach teaches.
Thanks, Alex, for giving an example of what you would've said instead. Similar channels in the past would rarely do that. Showing us the difference with actual examples is what really sets your content apart. Great video!
Agreed. And his answers are actually good and they're ones that anyone could use. I see a lot of other channels really lean on their looks as a crutch and then have shit tier game.
That last text at 1041 of her saying "is someone butthurt " tells me her interest dropped a lot or she was never that into him. He did a lot of mistakes moving forward but she was very non compliant and kept derailing the topic with the stupid shit "hows your day". He could've got the date but I feel her interest was meh cause if she really feelin him she would've been receptive more
It was a bust way before that. I'd say it was after he was saying that he was a photographer. She straight up SAID that she WANTED to VOLUNTEER as a response. Right then and there the dude should have pitched a date. But because he didn't and because she wanted a text buddy, it went nowhere. If he said something like "nice! I know a good (insert place) where we can do this at. How about we meet there at (time of day) on (day)? He'd either be in or she would have stopped responding and he wouldn't have wasted all that energy. Chicks either like or are afraid of decisiveness online. It's totally binary and the goal of online dating is to be that decisive dude. But this boy wasn't, thus she didn't think anything of him.
This guy is gaming waaaay too hard and it comes off. But the biggest mistake was not asking her out at the photography part she was interested in. Good advice in the vid Alex.
"It's like you're in a boxing match and then you take a nap" Actually not a bad analogy haha. Dude I make these mistakes sooo much. These vids really help to fix these small things that make the whole process so much longer.
Honestly I agree, that's where I'm at. I'm so tired of women playing mind games, I just get right to the point and either they're cool with it or they're not.
@j0elsuf I hear that. After getting ghosted a few times by getting lost in the texting I took a similar attitude. I try to get her # by day 3 or 4 if the convo is good. Just remember, for every match you get she's getting 10. The sooner you can get off the app the better imo.
Yoo Alex, longtime subscriber here. I took the time out to leave a comment on that channel announcement vid you made a couple days ago.. Hope my feedback can help a little. Even if it doesn’t, just want to say thanks for all of the value over the years. Keep crushing it 👌🏼
Id like to request to see much more these texting technical breakdowns weekly I am sure I am not alone in this..Not that I don't enjoy the constant drama of the PWF universe
It's simple and I'm sure a bad example of game, but most of my dates come from asking what they are getting into that day and if they say nothing I ask them out same day (usually for a beer) and they tend to say yes. When I ask what their schedule is and schedule a date more than a day out they almost always ghost or cancel. Probably because in that period of time she started talking to a more attractive guy.
Ok.. Let's look at the alternative. What would happen if you didn't forget and just followed up once? Your ego is gonna get hurt? Or you will look less cooler to your friends? Or your D is gonna fall off?
Ehh, you can keep going just keep your expectations super low. Gotta understand that even chicks over 50 nowadays get literally hundreds of notifications on all the devices they use per day, rendering their attention span to that of a five year old kid with ADHD. Not a knock on chicks, cuz its like that with dudes too, but chicks usually suck at responding to stuff because of how much comes their way.
And this kid didn't invite this chick anywhere ONCE. Kept asking what "her schedule is like." What a dumb question. Just throw out a time and place. If a chick likes a dude enough (hell, if anyone likes anyone enough), they'll drop everything and straight up hang out with whoever they like. This was straight up done from the fourth or so exchange. Your goal for online dating is to invite the chick somewhere. Just go straight to 100. Chick doesn't like it? Good. You just saved yourself a LOT of time.
It's so hard to build chemistry through text messaging. You have such a small window of time to go from complete stranger to meeting up irl. I've lost a lot of my matches on day 2 or 3. It gets boring real quick for both people just texting back and forth.
@@kylehackett162 I have thought about that but I think most girls want to get to know you a little bit. I could be wrong. Have you had much luck with that strategy?
@Sherman Smith I've had success yes. Also sometimes it doesn't work. But waiting 3 or 4 days to ask them out fails too because a lot of times they will just quit responding.
I think it's pretty doable. Yeah. Some girls are bad at bantering back and forth but with them, you can be very calibrated and figure out what she responds well to. In the end, the more invested she is, the lesser the likelihood of her flaking
Are you interested in meeting you know I've done this point I'm where I'm at if I have that girls on date so I guess our talk just like okay when we going to meet
Okay I know what you mean when you ask for each other with where you're from or whatever right so like an hour from my house are twins my house so what's what's a a scenario here let's use Tacoma Washington that's an hour and a half from Seattle a lot of girls hot girls or Waco Texas but that's like an hour from Dallas there's lots of hot women so there you go
waste of time at least he got to practice his text game. Nothing wrong of texting to see her responses instead of jumping to a date and have same result. Pretty much you can tell if girl is waste of time or not in the first 10 text messages
Please do these everyday. Repetition is the only real way to help us improve!
More of this type of analysis Alex. This is what your channel has been missing for months!
Hey brother, I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate your content. I truly have faith that you can significantly contribute to the shifting in the current dating market for the better. I've learned how to demonstrate that I value my priorities and desires in my romantic life. Which not only do women notice, but men also gain more self respect and strength from. Really means a lot✊🏻🙏🏻
Solid breakdown, one of your best. More of these!
Solid brake down. These errors are subtle at intermediate. Your “corrections” were solid in the explanation and reason. Solid vid man.
Man, i saw a debate on destiny's channel with Pearl, destiny, you and a some other guy, and I just wanna give you props for your channel having very good advice for woman and self improvement in general, and actually being a good person and down to earth, because some of these people on the redpill are so out of touch with reality
Thanks man, I appreciate that :)
@@PlayingWithFireChannel I also found your channel via Destiny. You still seem mostly pickup/hookup oriented instead of relationship oriented which is what I need help with, but you don’t approach these topics in the weird creepy way that other RP types do. I respect that and i appreciate that you’re not selling an ideology so much as (honest) sales tactics
@@bruhdabones Hey man :) try to think about it this way: All relationships start with sex, once you are able to get to the sex part with women easily, you simply choose the ones you want to keep seeing and if they are really amazing, get into a relationship with them. I've been a part of the "pickup cult" for years and since I mastered the stuff, I've had the most amazing and healthy relationships with women. Biggest revelation is that there are so many amazing women out there and all you need to learn is how to meet and attract them. Good luck and I hope you find whatever you are looking for :)
@@bruhdabones Also, you don't need to go as sexually/direct as Alex does on Tinder and invite them straight to your house, you can simply have a light/fun conversation and then ask a girl out, it is what I do most of the time and it works just as good as long as you are direct and know all the basics which Alex or any other good coach teaches.
@@bohemiancasanova5538 completely agree
Thanks, Alex, for giving an example of what you would've said instead. Similar channels in the past would rarely do that. Showing us the difference with actual examples is what really sets your content apart. Great video!
Agreed. And his answers are actually good and they're ones that anyone could use. I see a lot of other channels really lean on their looks as a crutch and then have shit tier game.
Really like how you provided theory on this Alex over just what to say. Really helpful video.
Man I relate so hard. I get matches but I become the text buddy, or I say some uncalibrated shit like “just took a hot shower” and they ghost lmao
I think sometimes the girl wants to get more comfortable with you before meeting up. And not because she wants a textbuddy.
Yes. But it manifests in a different way if it had to do with comfort
Not really, can't build much comfort over text, 90% of it is done from your pics/vibe they portray and he interest level based on that.
@@redpillbrotherhood110 Indeed. You're correct
That's not true, when a girl is interested they wanna meet you ASAP
Great analysis breakdown of this. Love this information and pointing out the crucial errors made
Good stuff Alex. Especially @9:00
This breakdown is really well, I think this is one of you best videos despite views.
Great video Alex! This one was especially good.
just awesome advice and, of course, all the parts where you said what you would have written were just gold. Thanks man
Great stuff! Your forum is great also. Thanks.
That last text at 1041 of her saying "is someone butthurt " tells me her interest dropped a lot or she was never that into him. He did a lot of mistakes moving forward but she was very non compliant and kept derailing the topic with the stupid shit "hows your day". He could've got the date but I feel her interest was meh cause if she really feelin him she would've been receptive more
It was a bust way before that. I'd say it was after he was saying that he was a photographer. She straight up SAID that she WANTED to VOLUNTEER as a response. Right then and there the dude should have pitched a date. But because he didn't and because she wanted a text buddy, it went nowhere.
If he said something like "nice! I know a good (insert place) where we can do this at. How about we meet there at (time of day) on (day)? He'd either be in or she would have stopped responding and he wouldn't have wasted all that energy.
Chicks either like or are afraid of decisiveness online. It's totally binary and the goal of online dating is to be that decisive dude. But this boy wasn't, thus she didn't think anything of him.
lol she was flirting….there is a wink emoji.
girl was a waste of time
So much value . Appreciate it
This guy is gaming waaaay too hard and it comes off. But the biggest mistake was not asking her out at the photography part she was interested in.
Good advice in the vid Alex.
Great analysis Alex.
"It's like you're in a boxing match and then you take a nap" Actually not a bad analogy haha. Dude I make these mistakes sooo much. These vids really help to fix these small things that make the whole process so much longer.
Say right things, pass shit tests, do this, do that, Nah I'm done. If she doesn't agree to meet up within 10 messages, go next!
Not even. For me it's six. Three exchanges then I'm out. Won't unmatch or anything but my desire to see the chick in question will drop like a stone.
Honestly I agree, that's where I'm at. I'm so tired of women playing mind games, I just get right to the point and either they're cool with it or they're not.
yup same here
@j0elsuf I hear that.
After getting ghosted a few times by getting lost in the texting I took a similar attitude. I try to get her # by day 3 or 4 if the convo is good.
Just remember, for every match you get she's getting 10. The sooner you can get off the app the better imo.
If you're happy with the results by giving up too easily like that, more power to you
Great work Alex. Guys do yourself a favor and play 7:52 on 1.75x
Awesome video!!
Been making great content lately
Yoo Alex, longtime subscriber here. I took the time out to leave a comment on that channel announcement vid you made a couple days ago.. Hope my feedback can help a little. Even if it doesn’t, just want to say thanks for all of the value over the years. Keep crushing it 👌🏼
Sick breakdown
Id like to request to see much more these texting technical breakdowns weekly I am sure I am not alone in this..Not that I don't enjoy the constant drama of the PWF universe
More coming :)
Great content Alex.
Wait- how did the conversation end? Guessing she ghosted him after the last message you showed… Or anyway, that it went nowhere
wow! great video, tnx alex
This is hyper valuable content thanks man!!!
What if I'm texting a girl using your advice and she sends me a link to the video of yours I got the texting techniques from?
It's simple and I'm sure a bad example of game, but most of my dates come from asking what they are getting into that day and if they say nothing I ask them out same day (usually for a beer) and they tend to say yes.
When I ask what their schedule is and schedule a date more than a day out they almost always ghost or cancel. Probably because in that period of time she started talking to a more attractive guy.
Is she stops texting you basically just forget it
Ok.. Let's look at the alternative. What would happen if you didn't forget and just followed up once? Your ego is gonna get hurt? Or you will look less cooler to your friends? Or your D is gonna fall off?
Ehh, you can keep going just keep your expectations super low. Gotta understand that even chicks over 50 nowadays get literally hundreds of notifications on all the devices they use per day, rendering their attention span to that of a five year old kid with ADHD. Not a knock on chicks, cuz its like that with dudes too, but chicks usually suck at responding to stuff because of how much comes their way.
Honestly surprised he had her attention this long, must be a good looking guy
@@jayma733 what I just said basically when every dating coach male or female will tell you
And this kid didn't invite this chick anywhere ONCE. Kept asking what "her schedule is like." What a dumb question. Just throw out a time and place. If a chick likes a dude enough (hell, if anyone likes anyone enough), they'll drop everything and straight up hang out with whoever they like.
This was straight up done from the fourth or so exchange. Your goal for online dating is to invite the chick somewhere. Just go straight to 100. Chick doesn't like it? Good. You just saved yourself a LOT of time.
What do you suggest if she’s long distance but both of you travel often?
It's so hard to build chemistry through text messaging. You have such a small window of time to go from complete stranger to meeting up irl.
I've lost a lot of my matches on day 2 or 3. It gets boring real quick for both people just texting back and forth.
Just ask them out on day 1
@@kylehackett162 that’s what I do
@@kylehackett162 I have thought about that but I think most girls want to get to know you a little bit. I could be wrong.
Have you had much luck with that strategy?
@Sherman Smith I've had success yes. Also sometimes it doesn't work. But waiting 3 or 4 days to ask them out fails too because a lot of times they will just quit responding.
I think it's pretty doable. Yeah. Some girls are bad at bantering back and forth but with them, you can be very calibrated and figure out what she responds well to. In the end, the more invested she is, the lesser the likelihood of her flaking
Holly fuck and I thought my text game was weak
pls help with texting anxiety
informative
I do love how Alex leaves comments on, got to respect him for that.
Honestly Alex looks tired from having a baby imo.
Saw it a lot with my mates
Yes. Rhaegar takes a toll on everyone haha
Are you interested in meeting you know I've done this point I'm where I'm at if I have that girls on date so I guess our talk just like okay when we going to meet
Okay I know what you mean when you ask for each other with where you're from or whatever right so like an hour from my house are twins my house so what's what's a a scenario here let's use Tacoma Washington that's an hour and a half from Seattle a lot of girls hot girls or Waco Texas but that's like an hour from Dallas there's lots of hot women so there you go
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waste of time at least he got to practice his text game. Nothing wrong of texting to see her responses instead of jumping to a date and have same result. Pretty much you can tell if girl is waste of time or not in the first 10 text messages
Like an Applebee's or like a Starbucks our walk in the park
6:00 Yeah calling a chick "sassy" over text is pretty stupid.
Use women instead of girl.
Gtfo white knight
Yea, he just came off too feminine.