17 of The Most Common Concerns & Objections Girls Give You (And The Best Responses)
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I've been watching quite a few of your videos lately. I find them fascinating and pretty educational.
Tbh, at first I thought you were just some playboy sharing a few tricks and easy pick-up lines to other guys trying to hook-up with girls, but more and more I realize you're giving really solid, smart and good advices. This video is a perfect example. The way you respond to those girls' questions and concerns works 100% and I like how you stay honest and respectful while keeping your eyes on the prize. Guys should definitely listen and take notes. :)
As a woman who loves and unapologetically uses apps to hookup with men I wish more of them out there had a better text game. Keep up the good work!
Thanks. Glad to see more chicks enjoying the content :)
What are you getting out of watching these videos
She wanna fuck that's why
@S L no answer though
Not only that! He shows you how he thinks! this is the real fundamental education, not just the instrumented use of language being used here!
Pragmatics/linguistics student.
This is the most valueable video about tinder I have ever seen, and i have been digging the subject a lot. Thank you man, really 👍
Glad to hear man
Amazing video Alex. However you forgot to include the "let's meet halfway" or "come to my area" objection. This is a major one that I run into very often.
I got both of these last night and the serial killer one and I’m scared of driving at night 😂
What do you use for the ‘let’s meet halfway, or come to mine’ objection?
“Tell me more about you”
Me: What would you like to know?
Her: I don't know. Whatever makes you you.
Yeah basically it's ping pong of who's gonna put in the effort to actually think
This was incredibly practical! Bravo!
Thanks man
What if her concern is more subtle. An example: She says "You're too young for me" I used Alex's "Age is just a number response" It worked. But then she says: "I see. You sound very experienced" in a double text. I feel like I'm on the right path but what would be an optimal answer in this situation? Sounds like she's concerned about me being a player. Great content Alex and PWF!
How did it work out?
Awesome vid bro. Question, any alternative to the “I gave that up for lent” type of line? I didn’t know what “lent” was until I looked it up, and so it feels incongruent to how I would actually talk in text or real life for that matter. Or anyone else reading this, feel free to chime in. Thanks y’all, and keep up the great content
lol don't worry I'm really laid back. Bring pepper spray if you're so worried
"Oh, is being a serial killer going to be a problem?"
Women know what lent means
What if it’s not lent. I had that happen to me before
Storm Morgan it's not supposed to be taken literally. It's just a bit of fun, To let her know that you're a funny guy who doesn't take things too seriously and it's probably the least likely answer someone who is a serial killer would give.
She told me that i only want a 1 night stand and won't call her again..
I tried telling her that I'm not that type of person and i don't see the point in 1 night stands, she didn't buy it.. and i don't like justifying myself to girls so that didn't go too well.
She's interested but she would only get intimate with a guy she's in a relationship with.
I'm not sure how to convey to her that i like her for more than her body without giving her hope of a serious relationship..
A lot get super offended after you suggest the first date for them to come over your place. If they do I play the cat dad card: you can always trust a man with a cat. Then I make a joke about how you’ve never seen a serial killer with a cat. They laugh and usually come over. If that doesn’t work and they have a hard rule, I compromise and meet at a local bar.
Not joking what’s a good thing to text when they ask how are you? And keep the convo flowing! I’m running out of intriguing shit to use
Check out some of my lr breakdowns I have countless examples of this
Any recommendations when they say , they are nervous , shy and boring.
Always with the great content homie! You gota give us a video on sliding in Instagram DMs. I think a video on that topic would be a hit!
Yes definitely will at some point
Wow man you are killing it with this content
For sure. I wanna go back
@@PlayingWithFireChannel those were some fun times man upon reflection 😏
As always, great content man! My question to you is how would you respond to a girl that is very responsive and often double text you but when you go for setting up the date she says I will let you know. Keep up the great work.
Thanks man. It depends on how exactly she’s deflecting. You could also be trying to close suboptimally. Make a post in the forums and I’ll take a look :)
10:17 your dexter joke is now relevant worldwide again with the new series
Me: Aww.. maybe I’ll give you one of my famous massages
Her: Whoa sounds dangerous lol
Insane value in this one. Great Job Alex
Thanks man
This is probably the best piece of content on the internet. Dude I just realized how much you look like Ryan Gosling, crazy
Thanks man. I wish
@@PlayingWithFireChannel not kidding
Beautiful. Thanks Alex.
I’ve just had the serial killer/psychopath objection. My response is ‘It’s okay, I haven’t any room left in my freezer’.
Thanks for the videos; they've been really helpful!
How would you respond to "I'll let you know" when trying to hard close?
What if she says she’s with a friend as an objection to getting her over to your place?
Hey bro content is epic. Just got your full guide totally worth it. Just wondering do you see “feeling sick” as an objection or excuse? And if so do you have something that you usually say for that?
Neither. I think typically that person is probably feeling a bit sick. Empathy is usually the best response “it’s cool. Feel better” then checking in a few days later
Solid advice.
I've nothing to say other than just keep the videos coming !
Plenty more ahead
So much value here
What if she says she lives with her parents and can't live without her mom's permission?
Great content my man
Loving the vids bro. Can you make a video specific to when a girl opens you? I somehow fuck this up way more often than I should.
Those should be super easy, it’s a sign of high investment. Just assume she’s very interested
Did anybody notice 9:46 that albino guy was photoshopped and it clearly said black guy under it?😂😂😂
Then the next scene it’s not even changed😂
5:57; I'm just here for my cardio
Hey man i tried your tips in my country and they don't really work, i'm on Perú. How do you change your tinder game when you are on a country with a lot of social conditioning? great video as always
In Latin America you gotta just simplify your text game and be more straightforward,
Here’s an example
www.playingfire.com/how-to-message-on-tinder-latin-america-edition/
Her: How old are you anyway?
Me: I’m 31
Her: Oh ok lol not bad
Me: You don't sound confident
Her: I am lol. I just didn't know if you were like 19 or something
that's gold gold gold, thanks bro
Anytime man
More of like this needed 👊👊
hey man where can i directly message you, i have some questions and i would really appreciate it brother, thanks!
Make a post in the forums man. I’ll respond :)
What are a few other alternative answers other than “I gave that up for lent” when she jokingly asks if you’re a serial killer?
Dope video bro, number 1 text game on the net.
Thanks man
very informative
"I'm not looking for sex" could as well be a shit test
Yes, they test your eagerness.
Thanks!
Great stuff. Question Alex, do we make post in the forum if we want Tinder pics reviewed?
Yes
9:40 Haha the "albino guy" photoshop, i get why u did it though
Buddy of mine got catfished by a chick once. When he showed up for the date she was 50+ over how she looked in the pics... lets just say he was very rude to her as he left..lol
Good catch. Yea I don’t wanna risk my channel over an irrelevant detail
Alex says fuck it, tell them you’re 7 foot tall
Hey bro, I've been trying to impliment your knowledge and I'm at a point where I really need feedback on some conversations. Do you take your followers screenshots for potential analysis, or do you provide that as a service? Thanks for all the amazing content btw.
If you buy the product you join a Facebook group and you can screen shot your conversation into the Facebook group page. Then you will get a response on how to reply to the girls messages.
This!
wow amazing content, so practical
Thank you
Hey bro ! I'm speaking to someone and the the last text from them indicated they're tired from work and chilling watching a film, so I responded with ok because I got the vibe maybe she wants to enjoy her film and take a rest , also she was with a family member. The conversation was flowing and we bantered about art stuff that we share in common. How do I open the next time?
@Playing With Fire Alex, how would you turn around a girl who says she's not in the right frame of mind for a relationship or sex etc., because she is healing from a previous heartbreak?
To do list:
1) live somewhere with a lobby.
What's your response if they have concerns that you're too old, instead of too young?
PREACH BRO!!!!
Good stuff
Me: What would you like to know?
Her: I’m not trying to play 20 questions. That also puts all the work on me and makes it seem like you’re on the defensive and guarding information.
It's just an emotional feeling of knowing someone. You gotta trigger that emotion before she can be comfortable
@@PlayingWithFireChannel I don't understand
Hey brother thank you for the videos first of all. I've been comparing your style of approaching texting girls to Todd V's text game videos, and yours seem a bit more for lack of a better word, "aggressive", for example I've heard him say in multiple videos when you get silence/just emojis(which is basically silence) as an answer, your next text should be to add value like sending a meme or making a statement to try and start a conversation, but your approach is the "Are you always this talkative" text. seeing that most of his interactions are with girls he got the numbers of in public and yours are from tinder, is it correct to assume the more aggressive approach is better on fuck apps like tinder and his approach is better for more "normal" interactions/numbers, or do you believe your way is better in both scenarios?
I think that my approach would probably be more appropriate in both situations. The trick isn’t to become aggressive though but matter of factly “call out” her behavior
Plus memes are valueless
I never lie about my height though and the vast majority of women don't care. So when I say I'm 5'8'' do they assume I'm adding one inch to my height? haha. But yeah I don't really care. If a woman has an issue with my height and disappears it doesn't bother me. I don't even know if there was an actual instance of that happening.
Yo Alex, when on dating apps like Hinge, if a girl is hesitant on giving her number should I keep pushing for that or continue the conversation on the dating app?
If she's hesitant on giving her number, try asking for something else, like her Instagram. Once you've talked more on there or even gone on a date or two, then ask for the number. Its all about building things up naturally.
What's happening to those girls saying " not here for sex, if that's what you look for swipe left"???
If someone can explain
They just don’t want to be pumped and dumped
@@PlayingWithFireChannel wooow you can truly read between the lines, you rock man
Btw do you have a program/book,etc to improve in the face to face interaction?
20: How many times have you been married/had girlfriends?
“Never married. 3 serious relationships”
You can day any number between 2-10
I am considering getting your product now with this stupid pandemic decreasing my ability to generate leads in the field with daygame/nightgame. Just want to know where you are at when it comes to your text game and Tinder game. Can you please answer the following questions?
1.) What is your average number of Tinder matches per day?
2.) Out of all the leads you have (Online, Daygame, Nightgame), what percentage come out on dates?
3.) Out of all the girls you get back to your place, how many close (you get the lay)?
1) 20-30
2) close to 8-10%
3) around 90%
But these stats won’t tell you much. The real question is what kinda results (lays, fuckbuddies, etc) do I get from online? And more Importantly what kinda results do my clients/members get
@@PlayingWithFireChannel Thanks for your reply. I am similar to you with question #2 (can get 10% of leads out on dates) but substantially lower when it comes to number of Tinder matches and my close rate. Historically I've relied exclusively on meeting women in the field but it's difficult right now to get the volume of leads needed to consistently have dates from daygame alone in my city. Is there content in your program with how to optimize your pictures? Because I think that is probably my #1 sticking point with online - I need to increase my number of matches somehow.
Yes, that is definitely a huge component of the product
@@PlayingWithFireChannel You just earned yourself another customer.
You are doing god’s work. Thanks.
I try!
What do you do on the date to get her back to your place? Can you go into the specific and technical details on that?
I honestly just build a lot of sexual tension and confidently lead
You got any reccomendations for when they say that they are afraid of the virus lol?
Yes, I have a whole video on this
Got one for ya..
Her: I am concerned because you're a lot older than me that we might have too much fun and I'll end up pregnant!
Me: i always wrap it
Her: i dont like condoms
Me: my pull out game is on point
Her: hmmm
Couldnt get her to meet up... always give me an excuse for either age or too far away
@Ladey Babey no... it was more about distance and I gave her to much time to think about it because I had a busy weekend already planned. I already had her phone number and she was totally down when we matched on bumble and she told me she was looking for a real man to do the things the other boys were scared to do
Age is not the concern here its experience , and I did my fair share of practice 😋
Sounds like she is just making excuses. I would call this out “I’m hearing a lot of excuses. What’s up?”
@@PlayingWithFireChannel i did that already after I couldn't get her to set a date and that's why she gave me those excuses.
It's weird because she sent me a message saying Happy Father's Day Daddy on Sunday but then deleted her account on Bumble and hasn't responded to my reply message since
PREACH BRO LOL YESSIR!!!!
I usually move it along and then blow it with the last minute resistance. Once she asked if I was a Axe murderer, so I said no I gave it up for lent. She was like lents over. So I said is it? Then proceeded to fuck it up after that. Other times they make up excuses a few hours before coming over, and apparently I haven't been able to convince them at that later point.
Post some examples of this in the forums and we can analyze
I have unrelated questions. I’m new to game and I’m 18 stuck in my house Bc of quarantine. I got a few snapchats over Instagram and built a bit of sexual tension with some girls over that because I can never see them in person till quarantine ends, but I can NEVER get them to sext. I’m not sure if I’m even approaching that in the right way. Should I be direct? Should I over sexualize? I’m lost. And my other question. What if a girl leaves you on delivered or seen for a few days and you hit her with a meme or a line to re engage and she completely flames you for it? Do you just take it 😂 or what. I’m also new to tinder so please give me any and all advice on any mistakes I make because I’ve noticed girls are a lot more willing to converse on tinder than Instagram
You don’t have to sext man. And some chicks really don’t like that. The fact that you can’t meet up with them for a while means not much can really be accomplished
Take a look at some of my content on texting and whatnot
PlayingWithFire will do, thanks man
Lying about height doesn't make you a catfish. Using that logic MOST women catfish men by the overuse of make up. They can be made up but when they look radically different without it then that's also cat fishing men.
6:30 QUESTION.
-When She asks " what are you looking for "
-I would Answer " a cutie like you with a bit of a sass side "
Would this be an alright response?
Nah I prefer mine more
Ok so its been about a week now and every single time. Every single time i tried ANY of your lines or examples i got read on or unmatched. Even with some that already said im cute af and wanted to seal by following your method to the t. I got dubbed. I honestly don’t know if i should be watching your videos anymore because i thought they were extremely helpful until i saw the negative results when i took them to action.
Post screenshots to the forums and we can take a look and see what exactly went wrong
Is it really true that guys are open for something more than a hook up? I've heard so many guys judging women or calling them sluts for being on tinder. They claim that they are only looking for hookups and women should not think of anything else.
I'd say there's a wide range of guys on tinder, all looking for their own thing (hookups, girlfriend, etc) so I can't speak for everyone.
What should u reply if the girl says she’s seeing an old friend and doesn’t want anything with u ?
The context definitely matters here. Does she mean in a romantic way or they’re just hanging out?
PlayingWithFire she responded with “hitting it off together” should I just move on or hit her up in a couple days idk ?
Do a video with Rhegar explaining how he wings you
Lol he just howls and licks
18: Sorry I'm hardly on
“Alright, shoot me your number then”
My biggest dating fear is that an albino shows up instead of a hot chick
Yikes
Just had the I don’t know enough about you one. What do you say to this?
What you want to know and did ya smash
@@freshness4214
Supposed to be seeing her Saturday. She’s questioning whether to drive 2+ hours to mine.
@@VoiceOfThe he made a vid about it
I ask one out she said maybe then I hit her with not a good time to hang out and she said idk man. What to say after
@@freshness4214
Seen it. Did a video chat with her last night to build a bit more comfort. She said she wanted to know more about me and I’m not texting her through the days. Hopefully I’ve done enough. Lol
Guys don’t lie about your height 🙄
Also a girl isnt a prude if she doesn’t wanna come to yours without knowing you 🙄🙄🙄🙄
But thanks for making it easy to weed out the fuck boys 👍🏽
Pay attention to the video. I very clearly say that there’s two reasons the chick won’t come over. The most common is safety...
If girl saids I don't know you, when trying make plans or when trying sexualize. And this after you had some back and forth.
“What would you like to know”
ledgendary
Thanks man
Sex-related question I got today about wearing a condom: Haha does it stay on the whole time?
What if she says im on my period
19. Have you dated alot of people here
“Nah, just a shy Virgin”
John 3 (KJV) - ዮሃንስ
16: For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
17: For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
18: He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
No religious nonsense please
@@PlayingWithFireChannel so John 14 (KJV) - ዮሃንስ
6: Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
@@PlayingWithFireChannel lets worship God no girls like look our bible
@@ajabel2875 Creepy, you are
You forgot the ultimate you are too old for me. TBH still kind of struggling with textgame on 15-17 yos, would be cool if you could make video about that, too bad it's stuff that gets channel 's banned. Legal in my country btw.
Keep it 18+ man
@@PlayingWithFireChannel Age is just a number man