How To Step Up Your Text Game From Average to Pro (Texting Example Breakdown)

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  • @TheFsissala
    @TheFsissala 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Bro this is great, usable and practical content. Thanks

  • @ashukataria2153
    @ashukataria2153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    I really love the fact that this channel is straight to the point no extra bullshit while others are just mostly talking about channel sponsors

  • @de11o
    @de11o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    “Be the buyer not the seller” something I really needed to learn to implement into my game. Just discovered this channel and I’ve been binging. I feel like I’ve learned more in 2 days of knowing this channel than all my other TH-cam research. Great channel man hope u blow up

  • @pas5294
    @pas5294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    The older bro i never had

  • @darylezeji
    @darylezeji 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    It’s crazy how quick you come up with these crazy ideas for texts.. like i should just steal your brain

    • @uthmanoseni3565
      @uthmanoseni3565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’ve said that too. If I could have his brain. I would be a monster. Dude comes up with flirty lines fast. Takes me days to think of what to say

  • @evanthailer9217
    @evanthailer9217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Bro I just caught wind of your channel a few days ago and my tinder game has already improved astronomically. I owe you tons from flakes to dates. Your the fucking man.

  • @billihawk368
    @billihawk368 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    -Be aware of your actual interaction
    -Dont be a text robot
    -Pay attention to your interaction
    -Own it when she tests you and make silence
    -Dont give up way too easy when she doesnt buy. Like marketing, figure out whats her concern or objection
    -Be brief and Dominant. Dont be wordy.
    -Dont Half sexualize like youre afraid. Do it.
    -Dont apologize
    -Dont be overly understanding. Found out Why she is not buying.
    -Buyer frame
    -Be assertive
    -Reframe the interaction in a positive way when she is repeting a bad pattern.
    -Tease her when/if she tries to tool you/test you.

    • @isaiahjr9259
      @isaiahjr9259 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Saved me bro I didn’t take nots lol

  • @mrblondeheart9562
    @mrblondeheart9562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This ain’t no BS, I binge watched these vids and my text game has already improved! I’ve been chatting with a dozen baddies, all with different personalities to work with. It’s pretty fun tbh, I see why they call it “game”😂

  • @jgpix1
    @jgpix1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I like the in depth analysis of all the texts back and forth. Also the framing, buyer/seller stuff, and timing of soft close etc. I can definitely see where I messed up in the past. Great channel

  • @christianforte8032
    @christianforte8032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You have the best most insightful videos in this genre of TH-cam, keep it up man

  • @darylezeji
    @darylezeji 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is the type of frame control we want a video on 🙌🏾 maintaining masculine frame

  • @isaacsotomayor3746
    @isaacsotomayor3746 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Nice never accept her frame , always be in control and lead . Easy . Thanks .

  • @meetangad
    @meetangad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brother - you are one of the most strategic thinkers, I’ve seen. Love your content and method

  • @adilnasir8914
    @adilnasir8914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    At least he didn’t threaten to fight her grandma

  • @richrise4065
    @richrise4065 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Damn, you're really making me think about this differently. I love your advice and guidance. It's great. Subscribed.

  • @pistachioicecream1484
    @pistachioicecream1484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I’ve been binging this dude, so much sauce 💯

  • @IamProfessorO
    @IamProfessorO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’re fucking hilarious bro. That 8:18 bit about the salesman analogy had me dead. Your persistence and results are the most impressive thing. Love the thorough breakdown of your conversations and why certain things work and why others don’t. Keep it up brother. Subbed

  • @AkiraUema
    @AkiraUema 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    6:46 Me thinking: "Kinky cuddles? Hmmmm! That was actually quite clever!"
    Alex: "Here's his mistake! Kinky cuddles??? That doesn't make any sense!!!"
    Me: "Oh!!"

  • @M3urs
    @M3urs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    pls, more step up text game breakdown, that's fire ;)
    it would be interesting if you do a vid on concern too :)

  • @mypetcacus
    @mypetcacus 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    bro Alex your videos don't miss!

  • @brettstefanishin574
    @brettstefanishin574 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    "The infamous 'swiped right for possible nice booty'"
    Holy shit I laughed way too hard at that.

  • @patrickjames3321
    @patrickjames3321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Have you ever considered making a guide for guys with gf or married already? To spice things up with our couple more?

  • @julla1416
    @julla1416 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video and your website forum is very helpful.

  • @Leo-yn5fx
    @Leo-yn5fx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really dislike the wordy texts unless it really calls for it man. Like the texts most guys use in response to a girl asking “whats your idea of a date?” with the whole chemistry and making her beg for it makes me cringe at this point lmao.

  • @elmerwowop7983
    @elmerwowop7983 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    this channel deserves million subs

  • @lds6182
    @lds6182 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cherry picked a lot from your content great stuff man 👍🏽 im too direct and always go in for the number close to gauge the attraction level then talk on phone for 10 minutes then set a date

  • @danielcooper4455
    @danielcooper4455 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "I wouldn't of said that, I would have said (fill in the blank)... LIKE BAM!!!"

  • @connorkennedy8454
    @connorkennedy8454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love the channel man. Any advice for a guy that doesn’t drink alcohol? Seems 70% of your soft or hard closes involve wine, any alternatives?

    • @vanamutt43
      @vanamutt43 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      advice is, start drinking.
      jk, man, props to you for staying sober, respect

    • @fray2748
      @fray2748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Works just as well with coffee, a home cooked meal and such things. Good job staying sober!

    • @connorkennedy8454
      @connorkennedy8454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lucas Fray thanks bro, good idea!

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Depends, you just generally trying to not drink or are you an alcoholic where a sip is going to be a game changer. If the first, I would just pour myself a bit and just sip on it. If second, you can just say you’ll cook or just pour non alcoholic for yourself

    • @connorkennedy8454
      @connorkennedy8454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel I'm the first, so yeah that's a great idea thanks. I'll just take a sip or two and the girl can still have a lot

  • @ColeAhamad
    @ColeAhamad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    More people need to see this

  • @pyyp_5319
    @pyyp_5319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “Don’t crave get chased”

  • @redpillbrotherhood110
    @redpillbrotherhood110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great breakdown. This guy is chasing a low interest girl way too much. The second she mentioned Covid stop wasting your time and go find a girl who is down.

  • @hetapolski
    @hetapolski 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    very nice , i like that u cover every aspect. 2020 is online game
    U should do more of that "oh my gosh" funny voice

  • @KingCoCo
    @KingCoCo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dope video bro, solid - makes me cringe at some of my past fuck ups 😂

  • @SavaNedev
    @SavaNedev 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    1) Great video 2) Is it an old one because you said "help us get 10K subs"? hahaha smashed through that milestone a while ago ;)

  • @pnoipr8
    @pnoipr8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    do you have examples/videos of you addressing the concern of meeting up during the pandemic with your potential hook ups? like a text breakdown where you have those discussions?

  • @starbright1266
    @starbright1266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you've stepped on a poor bird bro

  • @widz_
    @widz_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "save my name with hearts and sparkles" oh my lord smh

  • @darylezeji
    @darylezeji 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Damn bro. You good!

  • @justinmacarrhur1924
    @justinmacarrhur1924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    4:36
    Hdf did the message from friday 3rd of april at 12:00 am was followed by friday 3rd of april 10am ???

  • @75pdubs
    @75pdubs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    @Playing With Fire can we still send texts to be analyzed/roasted? i have some doozies in which i get manhandled by 9s when i’m trying to stick to a script.

  • @ColeAhamad
    @ColeAhamad 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m gonna shout you out on all platforms

  • @danielmay1011
    @danielmay1011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What's going on bro, thanks for the content

  • @6alisk
    @6alisk 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great channel

  • @Nijlandboy
    @Nijlandboy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So, what if I don't drink alcohol? Any other suggestions besides splitting a bottle of wine?

  • @someoneonamission6149
    @someoneonamission6149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, I am struggling to get girls in my high school because they think I try too hard to get girls and text too many girls. You replied to one of my comments recently saying I have a long way to go and things will naturally change when I get to college. But how do I act now? Before I got college, what do I do with girls?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      High school is largely a popularity contest. Just don’t give a fuck and ppl will think you’re cool

  • @thatswhatisaidbunnybread.5317
    @thatswhatisaidbunnybread.5317 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need to go from mediocre to average

  • @cornholio777
    @cornholio777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can we talk about why women are ruthless when it comes to courtship??? They play victims when the players play their game

  • @sempiazza7264
    @sempiazza7264 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really thanks 🙏

  • @Diirk
    @Diirk 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video

  • @DanTuber
    @DanTuber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    you got a feather stuck to your shoe

    • @indianpe624
      @indianpe624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      DanTuber That was the main point of the video

  • @jacobalaba4202
    @jacobalaba4202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What advice would u give if someone has hard time clicking good pics of themselves but they have good text game?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It always comes down to improving your weakest point. So keep taking pics, eventually a few are bound to turn out good

  • @catreflex
    @catreflex 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey man, great content. Any advice for texting a girl that has gone ghost after your first FaceTime date even though she was texting normally after the FaceTime date and then all of a sudden stops texting back?

    • @nausuki123
      @nausuki123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Onto the next one, sounds like she wasn’t feeling you bro. If she was the facetime wouldve raised her interest, not lowered it.

  • @paulfitness5157
    @paulfitness5157 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You know you're stuff, I'm in sales and Id honestly just pick up the phone

  • @samueldecelles2631
    @samueldecelles2631 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude I think you stepped on a pillow before the video

  • @stivestokkeprygl1025
    @stivestokkeprygl1025 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thk bro, there are def something I can use here..

  • @AlenaSenziova
    @AlenaSenziova 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Biggg broooo

  • @shriyashsonar8082
    @shriyashsonar8082 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man I was talking to a girl we talked for an hour maybe and after that she said maybe you'll get someone better? Lol

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You probably said something she didn’t like

    • @shriyashsonar8082
      @shriyashsonar8082 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel ah let me check but the thing was we were talking about culture and I was talking about my she was talking about her and I don't think I said something. Let me figure out

  • @rpm3127
    @rpm3127 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    love ur vids, so when i first meet a girl, ill instantly be dominate and flirty?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      There's no black or white to something like that. You need to go off of the vibe. Observe her body language and the way she maintains eye contact etc

  • @soccerstreaks4787
    @soccerstreaks4787 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    More videos like this plz

  • @alphaisamindset1718
    @alphaisamindset1718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey trouble 😈

  • @fatalexpress5970
    @fatalexpress5970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    how do i reply if a girl says "why am I trouble?"

  • @markuruymagov3203
    @markuruymagov3203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Мужык ты крут, спасибо за советы)

  • @funkliveDj
    @funkliveDj 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro you re the bro or father of all of us

  • @tommydawson7147
    @tommydawson7147 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So ALMOST NEVER USE EMOJIS?

  • @braddlyswaggly
    @braddlyswaggly ปีที่แล้ว

    question, j don’t know wine. which wine is good 😂

  • @dte6469
    @dte6469 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great info Alex but I think you stepped on a bird.

  • @jthb
    @jthb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Any tips for "religious girls"

  • @kunalbhargava593
    @kunalbhargava593 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What'd you reckon to be a good way to address the corona thing the girl said here?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Check out the video I put out just on this

    • @thatswhatisaidbunnybread.5317
      @thatswhatisaidbunnybread.5317 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      PlayingWithFire what’s the video called?

    • @The9833785963
      @The9833785963 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What's the video called ? Actually m stuck in the same situation where she mentioned Corona

  • @antoniopetrache1
    @antoniopetrache1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about from below average to average?

  • @liamfinn9709
    @liamfinn9709 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey what are some good questions to ask girls on text?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just take a look at all our Love report breakdowns. And every other single video

  • @reecesimpson1150
    @reecesimpson1150 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey bro how would I approach a shy girl ?

    • @heatherfeather9951
      @heatherfeather9951 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't be an annoying extrovert. Shy girls don't respond the same way that extrovert girls do to extrovert guys. A shy girl doesn't give her attention to anyone and everyone so don't come off as the type of guy who chases EVERY girl he encounters.

  • @PrimalSnake
    @PrimalSnake 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I make hella mistakes😭

  • @FW7737
    @FW7737 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Single moms aren't worth it. Let's leave them for loosers.

  • @RagingBullKm
    @RagingBullKm 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    BAM!

  • @The9833785963
    @The9833785963 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im texting a girl and after I mentioned we could hang out ! She straight away said 'corona is gonna woop our asses' now in this case I can't ask her if she's worried cause she straight up said it ! What would be wise to text ?

  • @Kochos
    @Kochos 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    bro are you a football player? Your face is familiar

  • @romankozlovskiy7899
    @romankozlovskiy7899 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    No such thing as text game there is just game

  • @ExtremeGuy1
    @ExtremeGuy1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is wearing a mask loll

  • @reljanedeljkovic7545
    @reljanedeljkovic7545 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tf is on the bottom of your shoe my guy

  • @teresemariecloonan.c7739
    @teresemariecloonan.c7739 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    😍😍