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This Is How A Girl Wants You To Text Her (The Rules Of Flirting Over Text)
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The 5 most DIFFICULT texts girls will throw at you, and how to handle each:
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I wish this guy was around me like 24/7 so he could catch the mistakes I make in day to day life
Lol same I feel that. Just need to look out and develop that Intuition over time
You just can pay his mastermind lol
😅😅
It seems you are someone who cares what women think. Fuck what women think about you, in their fantasy world, no man is good enough.
same here. I was on the same wavelength lol
"My grandma died."
"Hahaa I wanna slap that ass!"
Two statements I never thought I'd hear back to back 💀💀
I started cracking up when I heard that 😂
bet you never thought you'd state them back to back yourself either ;)
😂😂😂
Best comeback line imo
Glad to see this as the top comment rofl, when I heard that I scrolled down the comments to see if anyone pointed this out so I wouldn't have to.
*Do's*
-Make shit happen
-Move the conversation forward
-Make her feel comfortable by acknowledging her concerns
-Keep things fun and flirty
-Send her voice memos
-Be persistent
-Use memes and pics
-Raise her curiosity
-Keep your texts succinct and straight to the point
*Dont's*
-Don't blow her phone up or send essays
-Don't be super boring
-Don't do weird shit
-Don't ask her for a lot of pics
-Don't get needy
-Don't use many emojis, only use them to 'soften' a text, as in make a text look less agressive
-Don't call her randomly
Thank you.
Get this man a shield
i did all the dont do‘s haha
Not all heroes wear capes
There is really solid advice here. Some stuff does contradict with other big coaches like Todd absolutely loves sending emojis and calling girls out of the blue and says it is one of the best things you can do to paint an image and get a girl's heart pumping. Though at the end of the day you just have to pick and choose what you think works best for you rather than taking every example as a set in stone rule.
Some girls will absolutely hate you even if you have a perfect text game simply because you remind her of some bad stereotype by the way you look, and some girls will love you no matter how bad your texting game is and ride you till dawn because you remind her of everything she enjoys seeing in a man physically.
Todd does cold approach. His philosophy seems to be: make a good live impression and the text/call game is already setup with much less effort. PwF is working the text/Tinder game. I'm impressed by both.
Excellent comment
Calling a girl out of the blue when you never met before is definitely weird stuff.. After that it depends on the level of comfort I'd say
@@JB_46 Works well for Todd. A lot of stuff is simply fabricated loosely subjective theory. Majority of stuff works simply because the woman already finds the man attractive and a lot of us put "game" behind certain tactics when neither negative nor positive effect comes from it.
Man your texting tips videos are always really solid to watch! Been working WONDERS for me for almost a year now
They always work, he tells you what to do in the difficult situation when most would tell you to give up on her
Yeah I had to come back to brush up lol
Texting creator was genius. He was removing competition.
Finally subbing, I had been hesitant because a lot of the red-pill/pickup type channels don’t always feel right. After the way you handled Rollo, F&F, and Courtney Ryan I have a new level of respect for your attitude and philosophy. Took 4 months. Keep up the great stuff.
The only problem I see here is the use of your “stock photos” (dog/tattoo thing). On I-phone if she were to save the pic U sent her, it will show the original time stamp. She would see the picture was taken at Christmas 2017 instead of right now. I use stock photos as well, but I overcome this by taking a fresh screen shot of the stock photo which will reset the time stamp for you. YOUR WELCOME HAPPY TEXTING FELLAZ
This video is underrated. This needs more view seriously
Like, subscribe and share ;)
Honestly such a good channel man Iv literally gone from no replies to meeting two girls in the space of 3 days. This dude is a guru
You forgot deleting/unsending messages, that 100% ruins the conversations
iMessage/texts/dating apps don’t have the unsend feature
Thanks, I’ve always had issues making things happen. Let’s hope over time it’ll get better with these tips
It will
6:59 "Emoji clusteruck" that's it I'm subbing LOL 🤣🤣🤣
SMH at the guy at 5:48. the girl literally asked if he was free tomorrow and he got crazy passive aggressive and ruined it. jeez man.
Full-on Douche
John Anthony sent me here. You have a lot of good content on this channel man. Glad I subbed
I watch a few of these here and there, and the advice is solid. My issue is it just doesn’t “click” in my head for some reason, but I’ll keep trying
It's just a matter of experience and interact with a lot of women. It didn't naturally click in my head either
@@PlayingWithFireChannel It’s reassuring to know it’s not just me. Thank you!
After having used playing with fires tips for a long time... I got laid alot off of tinder. BUT... it was taking way too long and i was also wasting lots of time texting random chicks only to have a certain percentage just flake. Nowadays i dont do any of this stuff... im just straight to the point after using PWF pickup and introduction lines. My reasoning is if they are down... they will be down. If they arent... they arent.
Word, I've noticed that if she's down to hang out you can set up the date and change numbers in like 5-6 Tinder messages
@@jackluthar6081 true but sometimes they still be acting extra
@@Skinner90210 Yeah lmao, there's always some troublemakers
@@Skinner90210 yea truth, a lot will
What were the pwf introduction lines?
Just wanted to shout to Alex your text game got me laid 3 times thanks bro!
Having a method and plan helps a lot.
You are spot on with this! Sadly this applies to EVERY AGE. I'm 51 and I actually think it gets worse with guys as they get older. No wonder we stick with the younger ones. At least shit happens!
It gets worse with guys as they get older but better with girls. Fucking older women is never as hard as the flip flopping girls
@@jacobtaylor3931 Don't be desperate bro, least of all to a 51 year old lol
Can’t wait for that rejection compilation! (Dikembe Mutombo has entered the chat)
Good shit my guy
This was solid and simple.
This is the second video of yours I watched. We got some Hippie Sabotage on this video.... Yeah were in good hands lol
I cant believe people actually text like this
It's an epidemic
Imma be studiyng this channel like its my college major
Yooooo I’m watching this Smokin one & this is THEE FUNNY $#!T when your High😂😂
Thanks bro I was super beta and my girl ditched me then I started using these tactics and now she's just watching me. I'm playing it cool. I'm a really powerful athletic man I think that's my only edge on this. Now I gotta be more Dom and care less and play it cool. Thanks
all of these tips rely on one thing.
Her actually replying in the first place. forr the 10-15% of girls that do reply though this is good stuff.
“ My grandma died , haha I wana slap that ass “😂😂 this killed me
youre so generous! thank you for your transparency
Just here to say thanks for that "are you always this talkative" line.... It works so great
I tried, i like your style👍🏾 and it worked thanks broski for the advice
Less text and more actions in offline!
I've watched almost every video on youtube channel lmao, worth
That Dick Cheney pic is genius, I am going to use that moving forward!
this feels like a phd in texting lol
Yeah damn dude this was awesome like it's not all hype and sleezy like most dudes eveb John Anthony. Way better than any of his shiy I've ever seen! incredible value here bro!
It felt organic and exactly how u should communicate with women
fucking finally! Literally the best video with great examples for this.
Man you're a master! Those bad text examples are soo funny lol! Learnt a lot! You should put those bad examples in a book just for comedy value.
The problem though many guys dont know how to flirt or get sexual via text. This is due to not having a sense of humour, being too logical and simply not having those skills.
Yesterday I met a girl who was jogging. Number closed and we've been flirting and getting a little sexual too.
The problem I've had in the past is I've gone for the quick sexual gratification and got off with the sexting and probably got her off too which meant I lost a lot of potential lays. So now I'm trying to control myself although sexting in some cases has lead to sex.
So ur saying your a master texter? Great. Can u tell me how to not constantly ask questions when texting
@@nightmid5785 drop open loops and hoops. Create intrigue and value. Make statements.
@@rambo7135 what are thoses and examples
Double watched
I came here as a girl wondering if he gave crap advice but literally all of these are good tips. Except i don’t care too much about emojis, only time I’ve stopped texting a guy because of this is when all of his sentences ended in multiple exclamation marks!!!! **edit: this is just my personal preference i don’t like promiscuous flirting texts before i’ve met a guy, but i have to have an emotional connection with someone before I fully am attracted to them, if you’re looking for a serious relationship i’d recommend using these very sparingly, but if you just want something casual go for it 🥵🥵😆
I don't teach guys to talk to girls with an expectation in mind. Expectations cause disappointment and resentment. Hence, I teach them to treat every girl casually and overtime if the chemistry and sex is good, they can get into a relationship
Hey Alex was wondering what you'd say when you ask a girl out and she says that she's shy/awkward and doesn't move forward with making plans with you? Is this a case of getting insecure girls or is she just saying that to make you give up on the thought of meeting up?
Me and my cousin started online texting on tinder and bumble and the first girls we got close to closing have both said that about being shy/awkward. I struggle to address that concern, all the girls you show seem to be confident and don't use that as an excuse
As he does, try a few times, ask her about what concerns she may have. If she doesn't agree to a date after that, delete her.
@@julla1416 that's basically what I had to do unfortunately
@@123Windigo Yeah, it sucks when it doesn't pan out.
@@julla1416 I'm still to get my first successful date, not to mention lay😂 honestly every rejection/fail at this point feels like a kick on the balls but I know that after I succeed with the first, it will only get better after that
@@123Windigo Yes, it's a numbers game. First have good online interactions (that's a success), then meet for a drink (that is getting them out to meet you - a success), then second dates, etc... View things as a series of small successes and pat yourself on the back each time.
Jeff needs to see this video!!!
Is there any point joining dating apps rn....cos in my country there is a lot of covid restrictions at the moment...and meeting is really tough
Ft date?
Definitely subscribed! Second video of yours I’ve watched and they’re fire
My text game got really good after I downloaded tinder. Ive noticed after taking a break my text game’s kinda declined. Anyone feel this way 👀
Just broke off with my exclusive Fwb of 7 months. Boy my textgame has become rusty! Trying to shake off this serious/interview mode and regaining the playful vibes again..
Amazing content as always bro
Almost 75k...Looking forward to
it!
I can now verify this stuff works. I was doing a lot of dumb shit on text/tinder and it was destroying my chances. Don't be weird or needy, keep it concise, light hearted and flirty, move it forward to get the date. 2 weeks ago I was a complete spastic at this, now I'm teaching my friends.
Now I just need to get better when I'm on the actual date, I'm really struggling there now.
It's like one obstacle after the other. We'll get there!
Don’t beat yourself up. You sucked & failed. We all have.
The thing on asking for her instagram is a really cool idea....instead of looking like a silly dude asking for her pictures every time😼🙏😏
The name of the guy is ALEX
Who's posting all the premium content for free
GOD BLESS YOU MAN 😉
Love it bro. I'm learning slowly
The only correction, I have to make is that you guilt trip people who are not interested in a date. If the girl is not insecure and a people pleasure, she will most likely quit the conversation after receiving a message like that.
Yeah, the “Are you trying to make this date as difficult as possible” is exactly the case where a winking emoji would be nice to soften that needy/incel-ly tone
On the persistent part, you were just as needy as the other guy, triple texting her
That's not abundance buddy
Then when she 'finally' agreed, you were not her first or 2nd option
Ok...Lucky for me, I don't have a fragile ego and I banged her...
Thank you so much gentleman:)
❣️🙏
Great content bro, I wish I had seen your videos earlier
Am I the only one that thinks that “looking handsome and sharp for our date” line is extremely cringey?
Yeah a lot of his shit was kinda weak tbh, he kept good consistency but he got kind of boring with that meme and “pussy eating apointment” lmao
There’s no way that texting sample was real.
the platform even looked made up
The thing with online dating is women inbox gets flooded with messages so if yours don't stand out you will get ignored without being read
I’ve done this when I got my first girls number
I wish you would talk more slowly so my brain has time to catch😂😔But this good, I enjoyed it. Thank you.
Love ur channel man. I got 3 numbers in 1 week
Add some time stamps to your vids so it makes it easier to move around!
When it comes to being needy is it wrong to see what’s her schedule like to meet, because I hate small talk with chicks and get straight to the point but when I try to set the date they play games and want to text all day or I find myself asking when she free cause sometimes they don’t give me an answer & I don’t want to waste my time texting and rather do all the talking on date. So how can I get them to comply?
I’m new here, I love your content! You are great!!
Live demonstration of a date!!!
I wish I'd seen this video 3 months ago. Met an amazing girl on tinder, had 2 dates with her. Seemed to be going well, ended date 2 with a kiss and with the the intention we would organise a third. Never materialised, and I did so many bad things over text trying to get that third date. Overlong texts, needy, wasn't succint etc. honestly I felt if I had better text game I would have at least gotten the third date. Ultimately ended up in her rejecting me (said she was had too much going on to date right now) and then blocking me on Instagram. Painful. Considering the interactions up until after the second date were really positive and fun. I just sent really unattractive texts after the 2nd date (probably because I got too emotionally invested).
Oh bro that happens to most of us. Just a lesson to learn.
Great video! Super helpful!
That’s too much work, I going to die alone.
Isnt the pic of Reagar and the wolf tattoo "too much of 1 good thing?" I mean, everything is relative.
Would like to ask in terms of persistence, how long should a guy wait before sending a follow up?
In another video I think he said 1 day, but obviously it depends on the context. If you have a date planned and she's not responding then you could send again earlier
A day or 2 as long as it's not urgent
LOL RIP TO JEFF HE DRAGGED IT LOL!!!!
It's been a while since I've watched any of your videos. I may have a good text example if you ever want to use it in a video.
Zherka game is like
Girl: “my grandma just died”
Zherka: “haha I wanna slap that ass”
Very informative. For some one that nwe. Sent letters in past .you can be wordy. This is the reverse
The examples you provided were actually really helpful. Definitely made it clear as to what works and what doesn’t.
50k subs!!
You’re a genius
If I've made some of the mistakes covered, do you think its best to move on to another girl or try again with the same girl?
Depends but I usually don’t double back
PREACH BRO!!!!
Thank you bro-bro!
Question for everybody! I am about the download tinder but not sure if I should use a picture of me with my car on it (it’s a i8) I mean would girls think that’s boasting/overcompensating (which I’m not). I would appreciate any input
@WhatEverMan thanks mate appreciate the input
Do it all them fall for the guy with money
its better to boasting/overcompensating that not to
@@leoruiz.07 thanks mate 👌
Thanks mate
Basically keep it natural but have a damn manly personality.
Your just a genius honestly
12:38 "Not my texting style"
Yet your dog's name is in the text? Hmm
It was Indian PE's texting. We're roommates
nice vid
LMAOOOO W GUY YOUR MAD FUNNY!!!!
I feel so stupid I feel like I don't know anything they're talkin about
you're not stupid. don't put yourself down. find one part that does make sense, then build outwards from there.
Do you have any videos on picking up girls in public? Like concerts, bars, or clubs?
Yes. Check out our channel
Check out the 33 secrets on TH-cam, Matt Cross is awesome 👌
thank you!
great video like always! but i have a question, what do you do when a girl flakes?
i mean let's say you agreed to meet her at a bar or restaurant or whatever and she ghosted you, what do you do then do you have a "back up plan" like some people suggest on youtube??
making plans with 2 girls doesn't seem like a smart idea because what if the girls don't flake now you gotta cancel with one of them last min.. idk the whole concept seems weird to me.
but on the other hand if i had a plan with a girl and she flaked on the day that would be horrible, because i probably freed up that day to hangout with her.
how do you go about this situation?
I'd say if she flakes just eat the loss, booking 2 dates is kind of scummy.
Good shit
Texting is the easiest way for someone to seem cool. You get to think about, delete, change, review all your answers before presenting them. She'll be in love before you say a word.
@@konnhook1572 karate instructor? Lol
Her:"My grandma died"
Him:"haha, I wanna slap that ass"
this video saves lifes
When she sent that essay about safety concerns I would leave the conversation because turning it around, if its possible at this point will require maximum effort.
Hey Alex, quick question: whenever I send another text after the opener fails (a few days later) I always get hit with “sorry I’m never on here” how do I reply to that?
Try and move to another platform that she will be more active on. Get her number or her WhatsApp etc.
Say, "I'm also not here often. Shoot me your number so our love don't die on this app"
@@tanjimmahmud8188 thanks boys, I’ll try that.
@@tanjimmahmud8188 I dont think this will really work that early in the conversation if you do it with the number, better ask for Insta
@@maxime448 I tried it today and got the number, but I know what you mean
Where's the LR?
Hey Alex can you make a new video about new openers on Tinder ?