HOW TO MEET YOUR PERFECT MATE : Relationship advice
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Love is blind, but it doesn’t have to be stupid - I shouted 😂
I actually said it, the same time she was...lol!
True
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Love ain't blind lust is LOL
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I am 36 years old and I would love to be happily married with children so I always try and look my best when I go out even if it is just to the local shop. But I’ll tell you a story; my older sister was in her early 30s And she went to a prayer meeting in September 2011, there was a guy there and she thought nothing of it but two days later she got on the train, that guy was on the train and they swapped phone numbers. Two weeks after that my older sister picked me up and then she said she was going to pick up her friend as well and I thought wow she and this friend have amazing chemistry. Four weeks later she came to visit me and she had an engagement ring on and I was like WTF, this was October 2011. In February 2012 my whole family and I attended her wedding. Just a couple of months back they celebrated 11 years of marriage and two children and they are still together and very happy. Ladies you never know when he’s going to come, so be ready.
Yep, my parents became engaged after 4 months of dating. My first date with my husband was a math tournament.
My aunt got married at 84. Every love story is unique. Yours will be yours.
@@infiniteinfinity9802 that gives me hope. I'm 45 years old and still have not found my prince.
I met this woman that shared how she met her husband: they had both been previously married & divorced and each had kids.
Life went on... he told the LORD he never wanted to marry again, and the LORD told him he would marry. She on the other hand, began to pray and ask for a husband, but she asked the LORD not to make it a years and years courtship, so, the LORD asked how long did she want to wait before she got married... she said, "Three weeks."
She met him at her church as he came to be a guest speaker; she liked him, but he didn't care for her.😂 Then, he asked her out on a date; by then she knew he was the one. He just thought it was a one time deal; then the LORD informed him that, he is to marry her. He said he fought w/the LORD over this matter as he didn't want to go through marriage again!😂
They've been wed for 10+ years (I forget how many years).
Both were in their mid 40's... there is always hope.😊
Thanks for sharing this
“If you have not met the man of your desires yet, you probably need to make some changes in your life.” - Miss Faye (gem dropper) ❤😊
Listen to your heart and don't let others form your opinion. I met a long haired hippie guitar player at a concert in 1973. I got to know him and he was the kindest man I ever met and we fell in love. Lots of people in my life judged him but we ended up marrying. He did cut his hair and became an electrician lol and we ended up having two daughters and are still happily married 49 years later. He just nursed me through a cancer battle for two long years and I'm glad I never listened to relatives who judged him and listened to my heart instead. I hope we have 20 more years or more together. I am enjoying your channel, you have a lot to teach women.
poodlegirl! Hurray for you! There are a lot of hippies wearing their hair short today! Hope he still picks up the guitar and plays for you. Me? also a hippie back to wearing my hair long. Remember we made our own bell-bottoms?!
@@gerb3664A lot of hippies wearing their hair short today... If they still Have hair!!! 🕊️💗
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PRAISE GOD ❤
AMEN!! Don't look for NO man, The man is suppose to look for you, and it's up to you rather you want him or not.
Yes
Not if your presentation appearance is suspect
if you walking around with a screw face and looking a mess what you think your going to attract ??
My mom (RIP) told me as a teenager, “if a man want you, he’ll find you”… I NEVER hunted, chased,stalked😂a man… was satisfied with my life, went about my business, working, taking care of me and the boys … along came… and bam! 20 years later, still here !
My husband and I met at 21 and 22. I wasn't looking for anyone at that time. We started out as just friends and probably about a year in we became closer. 21 years and two kids later we are still together...and very happy ❤
Awwww ;D I LOOOOVE true love stories like this GeeGee
CONGRATULATIONS
Your life mirror mines, 23 yrs happily married ❤🎉
Happy for you
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Please do not date a man in jail, from jail, or on parole. My mistake...😢
Men who live in 'gated communities'😂, as in PRISON. Murderers, abusers, rapists, thieves, homosexuals, bisexuals.😮😢
Amen
It depends on the persons and the situations, but that's with knowledge, understanding, discernment, and intelligence you can date someone in those situations.If you possess these and strong attributes
We all make mistakes but learn from it or run from it
Why did you?
I find the more loving I am the more my partner thinks he can take advantage of me.
Yep
I have that same problem. I’m too honest. 53 and still looking. I have bad luck with men
Me too
Same here. I don't understand why some women breakup with one guy and start dating very soon
Its caused from a lack of love perhaps in his childhood.
He doesn't know how to recognise and reciprocate goodness....
Maybe therapy can help🎉
Sometimes people can’t feel comfortable with kind, good, honest people, because it doesn’t match how they were reared. They crave drama, stress, chaos, abuse even, because that’s what they were reared in. Anything else is foreign.. and they haven’t done the work on themselves to know they are worthy of good treatment. They think they have to work and beg for it. Sad, but true.
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@@LGnLA , just heartbreaking, ain’t it? I see it every where.
I noticed men for the most part talk badly about their past wife. That's a NO NO right there
EVERYTHING IN THIS LIFE IS SPIRITUAL ...
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I don't want a mate!! I've gotten to the point where I enjoy being with me & no desire for anybody. I ve been thru alot in relationships over the years. I have no energy left to give to a.partner. I m happy with myself ,& don't care to ever have another partner. There's alot of joy in life on your own. I can make my own decisions & go whete I want to go. It's great!!! Wish I would've been this way earlier in life, but better late than never!!!
Yesssss Amen me too, been there and feels the same way. God continue to bless and keep us 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 ✨️ ❤️
Yes absolutely agree with you. I'm beginning to grow into single journey, healing, self care/love, spiritual journey. I enjoy solitude and comfortable in my own company. I'm the same way just like you I would've learn my life lessons long time ago during my youth to 30's. In my early 40's I can take it one day at a time and continue enjoy life to the fullest whether I'll continue to be single for the rest of my life or possibly in my future Most High He will send me someone who match my energy and value and more great things, etc. Let it happen at His own time if that's what Most High need for me to have a partner or companion in my future. If not its alright because I'll be just fine.
I feel this.. I'm tired of these empty vessels running around..
Amen, im 55 and just accepting it's ok to be single... at peace...very financially stable, my heart is resting in Faith and not in finding Mr. Perfect. I travel, and enjoy myself peacefully.
Tom sounds like a stable mature man. He keeps his emotions in check, keeps his word. Tom is the keeper.
Hello Miss Faye. Your channel popped up in my feed and I love it. My father always told us that MEN know when they find the right one. The right one will not only provide for you but will nurture your well being. I met my husband in the produce section of a grocery store. My older sister met her husband while working on a project and my middle sister met her husband when she was in grad school.
A man has 4 aspects when we see a woman . 1, Wife material , A hit , Girlfriend material and a Hell NO
Mommy would say concerning a divorced man, "If his wife didn't want him, why would you want him?" 😅
Maybe he left her 😂
@@witnessforjesus6492 sometimes that is true.
Miss Faye has a video about not letting these men move in. He needs to maintain his own place and you yours. Heck don’t even let them spend the night or start receiving any mail at your place.
I hope Tom finds someone who really loves him
"Love doesn't need to be stupid." !!!
God's love is never stupid God's love sees and is sober
Three years ago I wrote down exactly the man I wanted, and he came. I asked for a Jamaican guy who loved to cook, a christian, and a good provider. Short time he came. This guy was everything I wrote down to the T. I should of been more specific, like make sure he is not narcissistic, this man was a full blown narcissist. Be very specific in your letter to God, and he will bring him. This works trust me. My next letter I would be more specific. Be detailed in your letter, remember that.
I absolutely love this sorry he was a narc babe I always attract those bc I’m an empath 😅but I’m evolving and learning my lessons lol
I truely enjoy your channel. My grandma passed in 2007 and I often regret not talking to her as much. You make me feel like I have a part of her back. I agree with a lot that you say and is steady learning. Thank you for being you 😊😊😊
Would have loved a wise woman like this in my family . Your grandma probably gently guided you here to Miss Fayes channel
@@veganvocalist4782 I definitely believe that to be true. No more than a week from saying to my sister I regret not talking to grandma more I found her page. My grandma still looking out for me 🥹🥹🥹
A long distance relationship NEVER WORKS
I just started listening to your very meaningful videos and I'm enjoying them. I'm 64yrs old and I love your energy and wisdom and style. I'm so glad for these kinds of videos. It's like therapy and truth be told we all could use some guidance. THANK YOU MISS FAYE ❤
To the lady with the Tom-Tyrone dilemma. I know three women personally that married “Tom.” Two of them had children from “Tyrone” and “Tom” was a better father to those children than their own biological fathers ever were. The third woman came from a different culture where she married who her father wanted her to marry. In all these cases, these women would wonder if the grass was greener on the other side (you know, where lots of Tyrones hang out) but as the years went on, these women saw what so many of their friends were going through and began to really appreciate their “Tom.” There’s an element of excitement with the “Tyrones” but after the excitement comes disappointment and heart break. Take in your “Tom” and whenever you have that craving for excitement, go visit one of your friends stuck in a relationship with a “Tyrone.” You better think of your OWN five year plan, and where your life will be with one of these guys or the other. Good luck to you and thank you for sharing your story. 🙂
Thank you and Tyrone has numerous children
🗣💯💯💯💯💯💯Well said!!!! Tom is a keeper, Tyrone not so much.. she needs to wise up, stop playing & appreciate the man who obviously 'loves her dirty drawers' Mr. Tom!!!💯
Was it a TYE vs a Tyrone . Black women show their submissive ways to a TOM
VERY true summation.
Dear Ms. Faye, I am 68 and absolutely LOVE you! Your facial expressions says it all and your words are golden! But because I love you so much I am concerned for your referring to the Divine hoping that the Divine to you is in the person of Jesus Christ. I too have no denomination and don't see myself as religious but simply a Christian. I love reading the Word, hope you do to. Much love to you.
The book propped up in her background, called the return of the gods by Jonathan cahn...I've read all his books, and follow him here on utube. Why would this book be in her home if she didn't believe in Jesus or be a Christian.
The perfect mate doesn't exist. Any relationship is going to take work.
So true. Someone did something to me prior to marriage and I let it fester for 30 yrs. It affected my relationship and my attitude affected my husband’s attitude. When I finally forgave that person in my heart, I let go and I changed and even my husband and our relationship blossomed. You hit it right on the nose. It is not to say that good people can’t attract bad relationships but it does help to truly love yourself first and know that your joy is inside. Not clingy on someone else for your happiness.
If his wife left him suddenly, and didn't talk before she left. Its a big red flag. She had been planning for a long time because there is a huge problem she no longer can deal with.
He is more worried about what other people think than who he is.
I do believe this person was brought into my life to teach me a lesson.
Just bcause he goes to church every Sunday or does stuff for his church it does not mean he is a good person.
Be careful
Are you talking about my life?😀
.Correct. ..remember women do not leave good husband's..and some men are of the false ego.theyr concerned about what their friends think they have their priority mixed up they should of become one flesh with their wife in thoughts..worried about deliberately mistreating the wife of their youth..if they loved their wife as their own flesh..they would show that quality of love..
@@karenwilliams2068 I wish I had found you when I was dating him . That would have enough for me to know. The man is a covert narcissist. The last time I saw him which is almost a year ago ( I have blocked him from my life) He said if I hit him he would hit me 3 times harder. I think he meant this in more than one way. I was upset about something he did and when I brought it up he went into a full on rage for over 1 hour. His ex wife is not crazy but he is.
The Tom and Tyrone story was such a rollercoaster. I understand the heart wants what it wants but I wish her the best in figuring all that out.
Sounds like Tom was the better person...but Tyrone is not the best choice.
So she thinks Tom not having a 5 year plan is a red flag but not the fact that Tyrone is constantly in jail isn’t? That lady is crazy. She needs therapy.
LOL. I hadn’t even put those 2 together. Yeah her unit of measurement is lopsided
You can say that again
Love is blind but it doesn’t need to be stupid 😂
I love it
Right
Your advice is SOUND. You're a very smart woman. All the love to you, Miss Faye.
That happened to me once. I let a man live with me for 11 months. One more month and they said it would’ve been a common law marriage. Anyways, he still ended up suing me for Christmas gifts. And this dude cheated on me.😵💫 I also was in a relationship with an addict before. I stayed with him for a year, I noticed red flags, but I was ignoring them, and his family kept encouraging me to help him. But when I found him in his apartment,with an elderly naked crackhead, I ran out of there and never look back.
Amen, those were lessons for life & now to love who you are, that you noticed the red flags. Living with a guy has no rewards, they just use you for free milk. Love you & let a guy choose you for who you are & your value. You wait, & are worth it. Don't let men use you up. They don't grow up when we let them use us.
If you are losing your sight , your options are limited. You can't earn a living easily. You are lucky to have Tom.
I stay alone. When and If I want male companionship I have company n I send him home. I know how men are..no mental capacity for their crap. I enjoy peace and my mind too much. Don't need one for a damn thing.
You sound like me now, you sound like you're Portuguese, so am I, of course took me a little longer to learn unfortunately
Ms. Faye thank you for using your past experience and wisdom to educate.
You're so welcome
This is fantastic advice. Very much needed and appreciated. My mother died when I was young, so hearing this from someone close to her age is comforting. I just deleted my profile off several dating sites per your advice Miss Faye. Thank you for all you do. You are a mother speaking the truth to many women out there who do not have a living mother. ❤❤❤
I was listening to the Tom and Tyrone letter like I was watching the stories. Lol Thank you Miss Faye. I love what you do❤
I know people who met they husband online / still married! But never worked 4 me! I probably will marry Holy Trinity!
It's so hard to find a decent man. Im 50 already. I don't think I ever will find someone good.
I am so grateful for your videos! I am 43 and have been single for 5 years after a history of toxic relationships. No one ever taught me discernment in dating and my parents have an unhappy marriage. I am finally ready to date again, but only in a healthy way. Thank you for the shared wisdom ❤
Thank you so much, precious lady, for your advice, and thank you for taking your time to talk to us. ❤
When you love yourself you will accept love from someone who is there and grow to love them. If you don't you will be attracted to someone who doesn't love you but surface love. You CAN help who you love and who you choose to let go. Love is not helpless. If you love what is good for you you will have no trouble loving who wants the best for YOU and wants YOU. You have to know what love is to know true love, learning to love yourself is your first love. Let Tom go because you can't love yourself enough to let go of who wasn't there for you. Tom needs to have some self respect and leave you cause he knows you don't love him, but he loves you. He should only be there and do for you if you provide love for him too. Two ways. But you can't love yourself enough to know what you deserve and thats protection and security physically and emotionally from a man.
Love your channel. I never expect more than I give. I pretty much keep to myself.
It's out of order for women to look for a man. The word of God says when a man finds a wife he finds a good thing. You have to be what your wanting in a life partner. Pray, ✍️ write it down, work on you and your relationship in your single season. Be specific in your prayers, be patient and expect your prayer to be answered.
Miss Faye is telling the truth! Listen to her!
She has wisdom!
Thank you Miss Faye ❤️
I lost my mother and my grandmother in the same year (2022) within months apart.. they were the only ones that gave me wise advice and guidance and i would speak to them on the phone, i don’t have friends but a troubled husband that struggles with depression and alcohol..something about Miss Faye, makes me feel at home, like if i hear my mom and grandmother talking through her. ❤ Thank you Miss Faye❤
Thank you as always Miss Faye.. I am loving hearing people’s stories and learning❤❤
Some women love the excitement & chaos that Bad Boys offer. NEVER get involved with active or occasional relapsing substance abusers. They have nothing positive to offer you and suck the lifeblood and joy out of your life. Plus you turn your happy home into a full-time rehab facility and yourself into a full-time addictions counsellor. That's a hard road to walk and will age you prematurely and rob you in many ways.❤
This is some solid advice!!!! Ms. Faye… wow!!!!! She’s still hooked on Tyrone 😂 well she better call Tyrone then!!!!
Call him 🎼🎵😂
I agree with your views on the law of attraction and dating sites. I stopped using them two years ago.
That last letter was so engrossing. You admonished her and told her the truth. I hope she took heed.
I really love your smile. It is inviting, caring, and sincere.
I will make myself love someone who at least provides and is not abusive.......
This is TRULY one of the best channels I have ever come across ;D
You speak the absolute truth,Thank you and I love listening to you. 😊
Most men are narcissistic. However dating online is the norm auntie Faye
Amen!! Let Tyrone go.💯 And prayers for Tom to be joined with a good woman who will appreciate him. May Tom and his right true love have a good and blessed life together.🙏 Young lady who sent that letter, I encourage you to grow up and wise up.💛
Heard about you from a beautiful woman at the doctor's office. God bless you❤
Hello Miss Faye- I not only learn important lessons from you, but your channel is also a lot of fun!!!!Thank you for what you do❤️
I’m a new subscriber and I think you are a very wise lady. Thank you for sharing your valuable information. I hope the lady with the Tom and Tyrone situation makes a wise decision for her and her children’s future happiness because having a man around that might get you excited briefly is nothing compared to love and having someone that supports you in every way.
How did that woman get 2 men to constantly cater to her? (Tyrone and Tom). What a mess.
This is a true story. A guy wouldn't go out with his friends to the bar to meet women. They kept teasing him that Cinderella wouldn't come knocking on his door! He met his wife when she knocked on his door because she had a flat tire Infront of his house!!!❤❤❤
Just adore you, Miss Faye! Thank you 🩷🩷🩷
I agree with you Miss Faye. I hope she listens. 🙏🏽❣
YIKES!! MISS FAYE DONT HOLD BACK NOTHING.. SHE BE TELLING IT LIKE IT IS.. 😂 I NEED TO WRITE IN AND ASK A QUESTION. I WANT TO BE TOLD BLUNTLY ABOUT THE SITUATION IM IN. MAYBE IF I HEAR IT TOLD TO ME LIKE IT IS I WILL FINALLY STOP THE MADNESS. I KEEP GOING BACK OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND I AINT GETTING ANY YOUNGER. IM WRITING U A LETTER. LOL
Me too…..
Mrs Faye you give good advice I hope the lady take your advice.
This is what happens when you jump into relationships, without giving yourself time to heal. She still have a soul tie with Tyrone.
Miss Faye, I agree with your advice to that woman's letter. TOTALLY u hit it on the bulls eye. Women wake up!
I would say… GOD PLEASE SEND ME THE PERSON YOU HAVE FOR ME. Please give me the grace and bless me with the discernment, to wait for what is meant for me.
You give excellent advice and transparent, I have learned from your videos! 🥰❤️😘
WhatsApp is free and I use it for my overseas clients who also live in my City. A lot of foreigners who are dual citizenship use WhatsApp because it's free and these are video calls.
I have African friends who communicate on Whatsapp some times with me when they're not in town.
Although I don't like long distance relationships, I have a friend who met a man on a cruise and they began to date and now they're extremely happily married and he bought her a beautiful house and they're inseparable. I hope to meet a man like this too.
Read on what poeple can do with your whatsapp
@@debra2513 I'm completely over the whole application business! EVERYONE has an app they want you to download. Too much legalese in too small of a box for my comfort. Also, I choose not to allow these apps all the access to my data, habits and personal info that they demand. Convenience costs. 💡
Good morning I throughly enjoy your videos! I look forward to watching them every morning on my way to work. Thank you Miss Faye!!❤️
Anyone in prison wants someone to talk to.... I met a lady 3 years ago in another state. She ended up in jail. Her lawyer found my number and called me. After that the lady kept calling me from jail for months. I only answer two times out of maybe 30 some times.... I even change my phone numbers due to that .... people from prison are very dangerous lots of info gets compromised. So lets help that lady telling her that she SHOULD NOT be wanting anyone from prison......
My step mother told me this a long time ago about how a man my watching you for a long time before they approach you.
I enjoy the lessons learned. Being spiritual will help in is important to me and it helps me in my decisions.
Thank you miss Faye You are keeping it real and you're using wisdom thank you again❤
Love, love, love your honesty and I enjoy watching your video please keep them coming ❤ your insight has really helped me alot
Thank you for your wisdom, I now understand that law of attraction concept.❤
You spoke well to the ladies miss Faye. Thank you.
I LOVE You Grandma !!! Thanks For Telling Everyone the Truth about Life ❤❤❤
‘Tom’ sounds like a good man. Like you said this woman’s heart was with ‘Tyrone’
She doesn't want Tom but wants Tyrone who doesn't want her and I'm just happy to be single lol
Please listen to Miss Faye. Good advice, sage advice this is a smart lady. I wish I knew her when I was younger.
The Tyrone letter 😂 something ain't right with her thinking. IJS 🤪
I'm sooooooo glad I found your channel Miss Faye💜💜💜💜💜💜
That was an excellent analysis.
Thank you Miss Faye for your very wise advice. I have only been subscribed to your channel for a few weeks. However, i have learned so very much. What you say makes so much sense! Love and light from Gaynor Elizabeth Lashley. England. United Kingdom.
Right, at the store. I met him at Food Lion and we're engaged.
Come on, Ms Faye. Talk that, " wisdom "!
That's okay, I'm good again at 67, I need a t-shirt that said I survived😅 I am at my happiest right now. And believe me I did not get dogged. But it was a bunch of bad guys out there. That mean you no good I agree you have to be happy within yourself and keep your mind 🙏 I still believe in love 💕
Change the locks and evict get a restraining oder
Miss Faye you are Wise Beyond your Knowledge. I love to listen to you. I binge watch your videos. 👍🙂
Miss Faye you are a sweetheart 🎉
Thank you. Another interesting storyline. We women have to be more diligent. I'm working hard at being that due diligence guru woman. I'd definitely like a happier outcome for sure. Everything you said it right on point. Blessings
"Go down the spiritual path..."
Good morning miss Faye thank you for sharing these stories listen to every day and I'm learning from them keep sharing this and may God bless you all ways ❤🙏
People don't go to prison for missing court
Soooo he was looking at charges and he had a sick court date, and then my mom did not take him to court.. so when he missed his court date, he decided to go on the run eventually when he turned himself in, he saw a judge, and they took him to prison… she did not read the entire email nor did she read it in order or correctly and nor did she give me advice on Tom. Tom also had a dark side
Go for Tom ❤
Perfect mate.
No such thing!
Miss Faye, you da bomb! 💃🌹💕🤗
I'm sorry but this did NOT work in my case. I don't go after men. I let them come to me and I prayed for someone and I thought that someone was my ex. Unfortunately, my ex is a narcissist and narcissists MIRROR YOU. This is one of their skills. Narcissists are highly skilled and smart. They are experts in lying, playing dumb, playing games and gaslighting.
I always try to look my best when I go somewhere. I agree. I don't go anywhere in a bonnet. That's just me.
Right now, I'm content being with myself. After what I've been through, I'm not putting up with ANYTHING so I'm not sure if there's one out there for me. I'm nice and cordial to men. I accept their compliments but since I divorced, I have not been approached for a date.
That girl with Tyrone and Tom has a lot to examine, sort out and heal within herself. She's the problem.