WHY YOU SHOULDN'T DATE A MARRIED MAN : Relationship advice
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Reasons to Not Date a Married Man
* They won't commit to you fully.
* Your relationship has no future.
* There won't be trust in the relationship.
* You are at the receiving end.
* There won't be respect in the relationship.
* A married man is not reliable.
* No loyalty in your relationship.
*You are just another option.
Never do something to a person you don't want done to you
Indeed. Do as you would be done by.
Tell them
Amen to that!
THAT PART
That's It! 💯
Don’t date anyone that’s “separated” or just left their spouse.
If it doesn’t start right, it doesn’t end right. Gospel!
Besides you become there nurse to heal then go date someone else my Bff wasted years
They might get back together also. Sometimes men are rebounding
@@benijen exactly you are just a distraction
Amen 😊
Thank you for sharing
When I got divorced I set two ground rules: 1) I would not date married men, 2) I was not doing casual sex. I wish more women would understand the power of karma and how the energy we put out into the universe is the energy that will return.
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@@Vv-fl2rm what’s funny?
I salute you and 100% believed what you said!!! Don’t entertain married men period!!!🥳🎉
A word from a wise women. But I must admit some women don’t want to be in a relationship for whatever reason and they look for someone who is taken so they know they can’t be around all the time. I’m some cases the men get jealous an want to know where you are who you with etc. But there are emotional ties that come with all of this. His wife energy, his energy, an whoever else energy inside of you! It’s crazy. Be safe. Protect your energy ladies and gents…
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I remembered when I used to deal with a married man for 2 years I’m 34 and he’s 48. I remembered my mom saying girl I don’t know what you think you doing. She used to say I know your feelings to be hurt when you and he then spent all that time and now he gotta go home to his wife. And she’s was right I got tired of feeling high and dry and couldn’t see him on special days I would see him before the holidays lol. I remember a guy asking me so what’s the goal of you and him dealing. I was like wow you’re absolutely right there’s no goal but a waste of time. I got out of that situation this year when my mom passed in February. I remembered everything she was saying and something just pulled me out of that situation. I’m free and at peace now❤
Glad you decided to choose yourself because you deserve someone who is all about you and only you. 😘
May your mother rest in peace❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
Well done you. Right decision made. I pray the tide turns for you and you obtain favour to meet the right manl. May your dear Mum rest in peace.😊
I'm happy for You
Thank God you saw the light😊
I love this lady. She's like the grandma that many wish they had.
She is a national treasure and I enjoy listening to her drop JEWELS of WISDOM.
She is like the grandmother I used to have. Love listening to Miss Faye.
Yessssss. I love her advice.
I tried to tell my daughter this . Well he gave her a baby after leaving his wife for her. But he never married my daughter but after 15 years with my daughter living with her he cheated on her and left her and married someone else two months later. But that marriage didn’t last a year. My daughter was so hurt. But she got back what she did. She even stopped talking to me for him because I told her to value herself. She had to learn the hard way. You are telling the truth. He is out now still messing up lives. Sadly the devil has deceived my daughter she has a home breaking spirit. She has a different married man now and again she stopped talking to me. So again she is going to learn Karma will repay her. A woman who values herself should not sleep with a married man. A woman should not live with a man either, women should value themselves more.
Her self esteem is low. You sound like you tried with her. Most you can do now is pray for her
Please fast and pray for your daughter, the battle must be won in the spirit first, like you says she has a home breaking spirit so don't give up on her pray and cast out that spirit in Jesus name!
Prayers for your daughter too wake up!
@@bettyboop__ You are so right, I have given up on trying to help open her eyes , and all I can do now is just pray for her that God will open her eye’s. But because I love her so much, I had to let her go because of the energy she was taking from me my health was suffering. But sometimes people just have to figure it out for themselves.
@@joceital9592 Trust me I have been praying and I continue to pray for her. But she has a whole new evil demon now in this new man, the wicked soul tie it i is vicious and wants to harm me for speaking truth to her. So I stay far away and just pray for her. She has gone as far as to even tell me that I am nothing, that’s not my daughter speaking to me that’s a demon. Demonic spirits are real when they occupy someone, yes only fasting and praying can break that strong hold. Please pray for her and ask God to deliver her from whatever is keeping her from coming to the Lord. God is more powerful and he has a set time for everything he does.
💯 'Send these married men back home to their wives!' 👏
Can’t that’s why the divorce rates High, some women not tolerating that mess and drama 🎭 nooooo❤❤❤❤ lol
I did that when they asked me out. 😂 They were mostly shocked bcuz they never get rejected by many women.
You know I have been on both sides of this. My ex husband cheated on me for years. So years after my divorce I found myself cheating with a married man. You know I knew it was wrong but after so long I kind of got used to it. I suddenly just stopped seeing him, I just woke up one day and said “Kiesha what are you doing” I kind of felt like someone did it to me, so I’m doing it back. Ladies don’t get caught up in that either to justify it. Today I am happily single and just don’t wanna be bothered at all. Lol
My ex husband cheated on me and I never did it during our marriage. I'm disappointed because I meet men who show me they value their wives but all a woman had to do was pay attention to him for a few seconds. It's really frustrating
You are proof that cheaters CAN change, Gigi! 👏👏👏
@@shenequakimbro2660
Shenequa,
IMO, what it REALLY is, is very sad!
I hope you don’t respond to a married man’s behavior and remember to be a person of integrity who respects marriage - even if HE doesn’t.
I get it, and I understand. I’m glad u forgave yourself and moved on love ❤
The end is always at the beginning. You can't build happiness on someone else's pain.
True
Well said
And that's the truth.... there
Never date someone that hasn't closed the door for good on one relationship and has started another. You become entangled in their mess and it's selfish for a man to go after a woman when he's tied to another.
Straight facts
Mmhhhh
Indeed. And many are very selfish.
Why did you wait so long to tell me this! It's so true.
I’m newly divorced and I find it so beautiful and peaceful being single. Not gonna lie it was difficult in the first few months but now I absolutely love it!! My only regret is that I wish I left sooner 😆
Me too ✋
My sentiment, EXACTLY!! 💯 Newly divorced since 10/2022!!! I have SO MUCH PEACE! And I'm HAPPY!!! I will NEVER do it (marry) again. Not on this side of The Matrix. APTTMH!!! 👑🕊️🙏🏾🌹
Me too!!!❤
@@loveabides3982 Congrats on your divorce and enjoy your peace & happiness! It’s priceless and I won’t ever get married again either 🙏🏾
@@arlenedixon2547 Enjoy life on your own terms 🙏🏾
I had a married man that I knew wanted to date me. I told him I don’t date married men. He said he would spoil me. I said no. I’m no side chick. I’m the only chick period.
well done girlfriend
@@teach2305 thank you. 😊
Right! These men are crazy
The ONLY chick
I went through the same thing!! no, no No thank you! I love myself too much to be in second place!
"When we engage in sex, our hearts get involved" TRUE!
True
When you have sex its a soul tie and you exchange energy thats why people lose there mind 👹💔
@@lovewhitey2027 AMEN
That's what happened to me and still now
I'm still suffering from this mess😢
obviously
Great advice. It's never ok to sneak around with a person who is married or is in a relationship with someone else. NEVER
Agree 100% Don’t even trust the ones who have been separated for several years either. I met one who after 8 years was still very much emotionally attached to his wife though she left him 8 years ago and has moved on several times with other men, since. He refuses to divorce and is now living in her basement and still waiting for her. Hoping that she’ll breakup with her current boyfriend to resume their marriage. My guess is that’ll never happen. He will however waste the time of other women while waiting on his wife. Beware of those types!
😶🌫😶🌫whaaaaa??? Living in her basement? That's scary!!
I know someone who was dating a man who was separated from his wife for about 20 years. Guess what? He went back to his wife. Even after all those years
No matter how sad his story sounds. Just don't do it.
9 times out of 10 his sad story is a big lie 😩 the only person sad is the wife he’s continuously cheating on. A sad man would go talk to a counselor not a female he has no business with smh these men are terrible.
You tell em Pam
These men all lie play the victim stay for the kids BS then come to find out He was the cheater
@@lovewhitey2027 na
Amen it is not worth your peace[piece of mind]
Friends with benefits get old. Don't be the side piece, your heart will get broken 💔. My sister went through this and had a nervous break down. He never left his wife.
Yes, I am heart broken from going thru this for the last 10 years off and on. But the guy I dealt with wasnt married and will not admit that he has anyone otherwise.
Even if he leaves his wife what does it say about u? One day he will leaves u too or u will never be happy
My uncle finally left his wife, but did not go to the side piece of 30 years+ SMH
I hate that term, "friends with benefits", but anyway, Miss Faye is right.👍🏼
@@stephaniemartin6911 Hmmmmmmm 😢
Plus. As a woman don't do this to another woman period. Oh and yes karma is real!
@Sun Shine However, she was a fool to entertain him as well, that's her husband who disrespected his marriage. The blame is not yours alone.
Exactly👍🏼🙏🏼🌹
Say it a thousand times Patty ,because you are sooooo on point !!!!!!!
Does it mean karma never visits the men who choose to cheat on their wives?
I feel that way too. Women should have a strong enough sisterhood to not hurt each other by helping men cheat.
YES IT IS. I never wanted to date a married man. He lied and never told me he was married. And once I found out. I didn't have no more feelings. Because he made that choice for me. So I let go.
This happened to me also. He lied and my feelings just turned. I easily walked away.
Same here. You’re not alone. The guy I was talking to even lied about having kids. The fact he tried to hide his own wife and kids made me see the real person he was all along. It was like turning on the lights and seeing a fat rat in my kitchen. I was disgusted with him and lost whatever respect I had for him. I won’t lie and say I didn’t struggle to make sense of my feelings, but it actually made it easier for me to move on knowing he was a liar and I didn’t actually know him at all
Same thing happened to me‼️ he even gave me fake divorce documents to claim he was divorced
The same thing happened to me, the guy said he was separated for two years, they live in separate states, across the country..found out later on, that his wife was in the military as he was. They were stationed in different states. Then I saw papers they were having a house built, that she signed a check in the area, I broke up with him immediately. What deception ..these Men are, and he was liar, very slick... Now with the Internet, you can find out the truth much earlier.
I had a few friends who told me that they dated a married man and I was so UPSET with them, especially after the details of how they were lured. I pray 🙏🏿 I NEVER get that lonely ever in life
"Sisters before Misters" if you wouldn't want someone to cheat with your husband, then don't cheat with someone else's husband.
I agree with you100%
All those women talking about it had once been a side chic before and now claiming holy
Absolutely true
There needs to be conversation about how Karma comes on a married man too! It’s not just the woman who pays. Men pay for their wrongdoing too!
She's addressing the women here strictly. This is about what happens to you when you do it. What's your concern with what happens to the other? That neither allays nor alleviates what happens to you!
@@roseaduke8835 Nope!! It should be equal.....We as a society LOVE to blame women more than the MARRIED man!! Goes BOTH ways! Karma for BOTH.
@@lovejoy1016 "Blame"? 🤦🏽♀️
This message is being given by a wiser, elderly woman & can only be received by the mature, deep-thinking women who've attained some understanding about how life truly works. Willy-nilly.
The cost is time, energy & other precious losses that they can NEVER get back.
I'll suggest you get off the SJW, or whatever, train you're on, humble yourself & seek GOD's(Christ's) wisdom & discernment on how to navigate life before it's too late.
Up to you.
Karma for both man and women My man and I we split 10 years ago. We had been together 38yrs. He is still with the woman that he was cheating on me with. She is now cheating on him as his health is failing. She is stealing money from him also. He has the nerve to call me and complain about her. WTH but I listen with the biggest smile on my face. Oh she is 20 years younger than him. Karma is real people. I am happy have my own home paid in full , enough money saved where I am comfortable no worries. While he is struggling to pay his rent having to work full time at 70yrs old and on dialysis 3 times a week. What a mess or is it KARMA😊
I prayed my husband get his own Karma too and a very bad one for that matter.. after cheating and keep cheating. That man treated me like I am d one cheating.. lots of insult and silent treatment 💔😥
You are spot on🎯These men are simply looking for a new supply. If your relationship ends due to infidelity, see it as a blessing in disguise 👏🏾. You don't need to be with someone who lacks character ❤️
I am glad I looked at this video because I was about to secretly give a Deacon at my church my number m. He is very handsome but his wife doesn't attend church anymore. I think they are up there in age. I see him secretly talking to another woman who go to the same church. I saw her walk and talk to him each Sunday and walk with him to his car. Today, I saw waiting in the hallway for him to come back out to talk to her but , he did not. I overheard someone by asked him how was his family. At first, I was uncertain if he was single or married but I looked at church calendar, I saw another woman number listed on it with the same last name and address. Just as I stated earlier, I overheard someone ask about his family. I even sat behind him so he can notice me and approach me. I have had my eyes on this man since attending church but I was not a member then and I was uncertain if he was married but I know know. I mean I was very close to text him and let him know that I secretly admire or like him but I did not do it. I was going to. I noticed today he was much on talking to the other woman who seems to secretly talk to him each Sunday. She would talk to him in the church hallway and walk him to his van. I mean this man is very handsome and I have had had my eyes on this man since attending the church but I never approached him. I just spoke. Today, he said to me , "you always get to church early". Again, today, he did not give the other lady too much conversation like he usually do each Sunday, it seems she is sweating him. This an is handsome, has retired from the military, attends church faithfully, and he is a Deacon in the church. He is fine, well kept, keeps himself neat all the time. He looks good for his age. I think he is 89, he is not on a walker and he looks healthy. I am abstinence and I want I remarry. Something told me to wait. Although, I wanted to secretly text him and become his secret admirer. I know dating married men are wrong. I have done so in the past but I am living for Christ and I am trying to do what is right because I want good to come to me and follow me. After watching this video, I am not going to act on it. I am going to leave it alone and wait for God to send me the man who he has designed for me. Your videos give great advice. I enjoyed watching them, I will watch more. Your videos have educated me, have inspired me, and esteemed me, because I know my worth and I am a good woman, I am a high value woman, beautiful, and very intelligent. Thank you for saving me from the mistake I was about to make that I was contemplating for two weeks. I Thank you. You seem like my mother. I am about to watch high value men vs. high value women. Again, thank you. I feel good inside because I know you are looking out for us women. You are the truth.
This is what I say ALL THE TIME. And MOST WOMEN do not agree with me. They PUT ALL THE BLAME ON THE MAN/WOMAN, the CHEATER. They say it's because they're THE MARRIED ONE. No! Whoever OPENS THEMSELVES to the CHEATER and says YES, is JUST AS RESPONSIBLE, if not MORE. THAT PERSON afforded them THE OPPORTUNITY to cheat and destroy everything. 💯💯💯
God yeah
@@loveabides3982 At the end of the day, it’s up to the married individual to honor their vows, not the other party. The married man should have self-control to not entertain the person. I’m not saying they aren’t to blame at all, I’m simply saying that they don’t owe anymore loyalty to the spouse than the person who said “I do”.
@@BriLaDivina98 That's a lie. You obviously haven't read The Wisdom of Solomon. There are written rules in socializing with others. That whore is just as guilty. I don't have to prove anything to you or anyone else. These whores think that they're doing something by messing with married men. They think they're SUPERIOR to the wife in doing so. AT THE END OF THE DAY, like you said, ALL THESE WHORES WILL WISH THEY WERE A RIGHTEOUS WOMAN. THAT'S in The Wisdom of Solomon, TOO! We are worth more than rubies and ALL the precious stones! They may not owe any loyalty to THE WIFE, BUT THEY DO TO THE CREATOR AND HE AIN'T DOWN WITH NO WHORING OF ANY KIND. Harvest time is here! That ex husband AND that whore will reap their sowing.
Confession: I was in a relationship with a married man for 6 months. I was fresh out of a bad, emotional abusive relationship so yes i fell for the married man. He was my prince charming who came along and swept me off my feet when I was hurting. Told me hevwould do anything and everything for me. Lavished me with gifts, money and of course sex whenever. We spent every weekend together. He told me he filed for divorce but still living with his wife til the house was sold. Yep I fell for the lies because I fell for him. The more we dated the more lies he told. I got fed up with the lies! I broke it off on valentines day! It hurt so bad but I decided I was worthy of much more and I wanted my own person.
Same here 😢😢I’ve hurt broken
You did good
I never understood how they find the time to cheat so smoothly it took me a long time to catch up and I believe it’s those good work days that the checks didn’t add up… that good over side time
Y'all knew he was married
What you expected?
As I’ve gotten older I realized it’s a total waste of time! I did this mess when I was younger. Married men still try to talk to me and you know what I tell them? If you die today your wife gets everything and all I’ll be done had is a good time 🙄 I can take care of myself, thank you God. No thanks sir I don’t want nobody husband, partner none of it. Know your worth ladies ❤
Thanks for sharing
Why y'all only date a man for what you can get from him?
Imagine a man telling a woman this mess
@@RJ12347 nobody’s dating nobody for what you can get I make my own money. But I’m definitely not going to be stupid a date a married man because just like I said if something happens to him all I’ll be done had is a good time. I can please and have fun by myself!
Thank you for this message. I just blocked myself from dating a married man. I was suppose to hear your message! Thank you for your videos😊
Hey pretty lady how are you doing I am well watching replay I found out police officer I had a crush on was married I ran quick You are telling truth he wanted still mess around I told him bye smile I love single life it's great thanks for sharing blessings i
You are a Dear Heart who refuses to walk on hot coals.
You made the right choice ❤
@Sun Shine Right. He disrespected her the moment he approached her. I've been approached by a married man and it was an insult to me. Those men are wicked.
@@lindalewis8001thank God , he did not shoot you 🙏🏾
Hey pretty lady glad he didn't shoot me h police officer I had crush on is married I don't mess with nobody husband he would mess with women low self esteem have kids shame on him I stop going to store where he works part time not that serious I never looked back I have a great Job apartment car money in bank what do I need him for stay safe and strong blessings 🙏❤️
Been there done that….
A relationship would never work because you can’t trust him and he can’t trust you!
Truth,bad karma and demons will come to you in all cases. Men and women take the high moral road.
Gimic
Okay I guess I ❤q😂
We have to also accept that we may be single forever and be ok with that . Especially after a certain age .
I accepted that around 12 years ago, when I was about age 43.
That is true most women and men who come online just be talking if they will not take a call just want to text it is a scam looking for a fool to send them money. one woman talked to me for two hours and wanted my address so she could come and stay with me I deleted her I was not going to give her my address.
I'm gorgeous, because everyone tells me... Oh I love being single. I swim every day, I have a career, life is brilliant. It's fun. I don't want to be in a relationship. It will encroach on my life. 😂
@@Nicana68Have you been single this entire time? Do you help orphans and widows?
@@aplusdiva7006 yes, I've been single this whole time. What have orphans and widows got to do with it? 🤷♀️
This has really helped me a lot as a single woman in my early 50’s. I have told myself time and time again that I can’t be that other woman for you. If I can’t be number one that I will not settle to be last on the list.
Thank you for empowering so many women out here today of all ages. May God bless you throughout all of your endeavors.
Married men are always “getting a divorce” and separated. He has money/assets tied up with a wife. Unless you’re worth losing that for he’s not leaving. Please don’t get pregnant😂. He will definitely get a new side chick then. When you want to marry you’ll end up with a cheating husband. So don’t do it
It's always the same story 😂🤣
It’s definitely always the same sob story! Oh I’ve filed for divorce I’m just waiting for this bs to be over, I’m not with her, I don’t sleep with her, we just live together still there’s no love, I’m there for my kids that’s why I’m still there, She’s toxic etc… when all of it is flat out lies! It’s unbelievable if you think about it that people actually fall for this! But when he comes home guess what!! He’s lovin on you , telling you your the best wife and mom and how we’re gonna be together forever. Yea, that’s the same clown 🤡 that is telling the mistress he’s so unhappy, hmmmm that’s funny because he was just kissing on his wife last night telling her he loved her. Don’t do it… karma always comes back to bite ya. Like Miss Faye said you reap what you sow. Especially if you KNEW he was married and didn’t care.
Not a friend with benefits.... It's the enemy in disguise... Thank you for this powerful message!
I believed everything he said!! Yet after six years he ended up GHOSTING me, without any explanation. My heart was in it like madness, but my mother stated to me: MEN LIKE HIM WILL NEVER LEAVE THEIR WIVES. I was so upset because she was telling the truth. Everything you said was me up and down, it was like you were reading my journal. Well I’m single and at peace and at 72 thank GOD!
He was married what you genuinely expect?
I cheated with married man once, i felt awful. I was rumenating, went to therapy. I understood why happened. I feel better now. Never again. 🌱☀️
I have lived to see 53 years of age by grace and mercy. My favorite uncle may he RIP told me almost everything this woman is telling & sharing!! 💯💯 TRUTH PLEASE 🙏🏾 LISTEN! Take heed and take care of yourselves You are loved 🥰
I blocked an old female friend who popped up in my Facebook BRAGGING about being in love and getting married to the married man she dated - who is now divorced. I personally do not want that kind of negative energy in my life. You are right. I too believe that karma is real and what goes around comes around. Thanks for sharing this very important message. Be blessed!
Thank you for sharing
Patrica karma is real leave married mens it is nothing but trouble against God commandments
@@patricarose7215 does it mean that karma online visits such women while married men go unpunished?
You’re 💯 right
Sometimes they DO leave and have a looong relationship with the affair partner. It's not common but it sometimes happens, sorry, that's life.
Amen! Amen! and Amen! Miss Faye you are so amazing!! Thank you for putting the truth out there. While my husband was playing, I was praying, and in the mist of my praying I was also planning his future. He destroyed our family by cheating. Now the burden is on the other woman. It's her turn to wonder where he's at and who he's with. Me and the kids lives are so much better without him. Like you said the other woman has no idea what she's getting. I will say one thing PRAY, PRAY and keep PRAYING. Trust in God. He will fight your every battle every time.🙏🌷💖
Amen! These women have become so arrogant and delusional in thinking that they're special or better than the Wife of a Cheating Husband. Men lie and cheat on their wives because they don't want to respect their Vows and the boundaries that God and their wives expect them to adhere to.
He's still...
- Loving on his wife.
- Making love to his wife.
- Sharing the same bed with his wife.
- Wine and dining his wife.
- Having fun with his wife.
- Praying with his wife.
- Doesn't want to lose his wife.
The women with low self-esteem will...
- Damn near kill themselves and actively take part in destroying the Wife and Family by intentionally putting herself in the middle of the husbands lies, by trying to act like his supportive lover. Once the Wife finds out, these women take great pleasure and joy in knowing that they helped to do this a woman that they didn't know was a Faithful Loving Wife. Why? Because he's already given her red flags that he's not trying to leave his Wife. Instead they RUSH to discretely (behind the man's back) send his Wife a message that he's cheating on her with hope that she'll divorce him after finding out. Not knowing that she became a willing participant who was lied to so he could fulfill his secret intentions of using broken women to take care of sadistic secrets. The average cheater (Man or Woman) is a vicious Covert Narcissist. They are very naive to believe that a Wife hasn't set boundaries or isn't aware of the affair.😂 If a side chick sends messages and the Wife isn't knocking on her door, that should be a huge red flag to the side chick. Duh! The Wife is handing him over on a silver platter. So, now the side chick think he'll adhere to her set boundaries. He will until she's stuck in her emotions and or pregnant.
Now the side chick will realize that he was trapping her into taking care of him, by masking it as love. The relationship was created by lies and TOXIC out the gate. These women have become the new Pump & Dump stations for the most vile person out there, a lying, cheating, swindling, Covert Narcissist who will drain you of your self respect and bank account. Watch, "The Tinder Swindler." Have A Blessed Day on Purpose.🌹☝️🙏👑
Miss Kim you sound like an awesome person to talk to. Truly you know what you're talking about. I want you to know God has truly blessed me and my children. We are all very happy. 🤗 On the other hand my ex and the other women need to worry. They both confess to be christians and God fearing people. You can't mock God and expect to get away with it. They too will reap what they sow. Getting rid of him was the best thing I could have ever done. Since their relationship was built on lies and deception, I can't imagine them having any trust. The burden is now on her to wonder where he's at when he's not with her. 🤗 I really enjoyed reading your reply, and again, you know what you're talking about. Thank you, and may God bless you. 🙏🌷💖
I agree with everything you said,
Your heart is beautiful. Thanks for sharing ❤️🙂🙏🏽
The only answer is much prayer because the devil is at war with truth. Thankyou mum 👍🙏🏽
Our are wonderful 👍
Learned my lesson about this in my younger years. I have a friend of mine that’s been wasting her life in this same scenario and she won’t leave the guy. Thank you for your wisdom! ❤❤
A man came up to me one day when I was on a scooter while walking my dog. This man came up to me and introduced himself as a married man if 49 yrs. He said I’m sociable. I said nice to meet you and I kept going. Never saw him again. 😂
I dated a married man one time, and it was terrible! I stopped seeing him because he was married, and I felt guilty. Several years later, we had a new woman at my job. Well, we hit it off, and got along famously. We talked so much, we would sometimes fall behind in our work! Well, guess who her husband was???? Yep, the guy I had an affair with! I felt like pure s**t. I never told her, but they did end up getting divorced. I have never even considered dating a married man since!
Agree never date married men knowingly Never
Even unknowingly can get you entangled with karma because if
we don't fornicate we wouldn't have been fallen prey, tell the man you want to wait until marriage and see
how that goes.
@@lindawalker5144 I agree but how many men will wait? He may say so but can you trust him?
@@lindawalker5144 You are probably headed for heartbreak and trouble. Please ladies take heed to the video.
@@sonyasmith1991 God will lead you in the right direction if you follow His path
@@bernetajohnson3296 More heartache if you don't listen to someone as wise as Linda.
I've seen PLENTY of times where the cheater and his/her affair partner's life doesn't end well. In some, there was death involved. In others, they end up hating each other bc they found out, after ruining their marriage, they had nothing in common. It was all lust. In most of all these cases, the relationship doesn't last for more than 5 years. Lust brought them together, and we all know, after the excitement runs out, they move on to their next victim. These types of ppl, I find, either likes the excitement of a new partner or they're simply trying to find that "someone" to fill that void inside themselves. Nothing in this world can fill that void. Only God can.
Let every man/woman have their own husband/wife. Don't touch a covenant. Yes you can get an early death. The sins of the parents fall on their children. You bring curses on your children.
@@carolynmoffett5 Exactly!
True ❣️
@@carolynmoffett5 oh I want to touch on this my goodness so much to unpack
Yup I just posted this. My ex and his mistress lasted about 2.5 years and i believe that was only bc the pandemic wouldn't let them get away. Got a full dose of one another and it did not end well for neither of them. SMH. Not even worth it.
ABSOLUTELY!! Even if any have fallen into this demonic entanglement- REPENT! Many women ACT like they don’t know he is married, oh he is missing certain evenings, holidays, PATTERNS. God wants better! 🙏🏾❤️
The song said there's no future in loving a marriage man!...I like the way you tell your truth.
oh yes... been there done that and the worst part of it for me was feeling so sad about his wife and their relationship. It honestly was the main reason I broke it off. I've been on dating sites off and on for years and there are ALWAYS sad, married or supposedly "separated" men on there. They just want someone to take care of them in ALL the ways possible..yes, mostly physically, but financially sometimes as well. Don't do this to yourself ladies! It always falls apart and can make your whole world explode into pieces. Thank you for your advice Miss Faye
💯 any woman and man doing this will reap what they sow.
Two kids, you damn show reap, what you SOW, I ain't tripping, it's done.
It's the GOD's honest truth. I endured an unhealthy and unfaithful relationship and because I had his children I chose to stay. But the Divine knew my heart and now I'm alive to receive all the blessings for keeping my intentions pure. The law of attraction is the most powerful law in the land and that is" you get what you give/you reap what you sow."
When I got divorced at first I was hurt, but later on I realized what I really lost and I sent his mistress a thank you through a text message telling her she did me a huge favor! Good riddance!!
People regret all the time after divorce, more stressed after the divorce and the kids put more pressure, painful
Are you paying 🤔for yours
@@lindawiley512 yes I paid for mine.
communicating with your husband's side chick is never a good idea, it just shows how hurt you are. Walk away in peace. Some wives be cursing the side chick in text messages....SMH
@@Crybaby-cz8et I only texted her that one time. I was tired of her trying to be a mother to my children and trying to buy their approval of her. Was tired of her overstepping my boundaries. My ex she can have, my children on the other hand, never. I totally agree. I could have called her a lot and made a big stink, but instead I just pray for both of them.
Very touching. The only thing I'll say is even if the woman refuses to date the married guy, the intention behind the cheating speak to much deeper issues rooted in him and his relationship with his wife.
I’m 65. I was involved with a married man when I was 23. He was Italian, a doctor so I was impressed and full of lust at that age. Lasted two years. I learned my lesson early on, and said never again.
I repented of all the sun I Commited after I was born again am new in Christ ! And I didn’t go out on one date since then am waiting on God n God is faithful ! God said is not good for a man to be alone I will create for him a helper ! Praise God 🙏🏼
First thing a married man should not lie about being married. If he’s not happy tell him to get a divorce and come back,
Am always tel them to go to therapie are go home and solve your marriage problem no time fore your problem that a saying a hate men ho lie are saying noting to get wat they want is crazy most women get mad if the men lie if the men lie he get karma if you never take a marriage men you get bless you past the test.some men lissen and work fore there marriage if you saying good things about hes marriage way you talking to me asking me to data and you married is not good what your do to your women is 'n I 't good and with some men they gonne respect you more as a women and some men not they because don't eccept it because you tel hem to save hes marriage some men confused in ther marriage some have boring times some have communiction is go in a lower levve are sex problem and the some women knows and and don't maind de women from the marriage men some women don't know from the marriage men ect ect that way a never take a marriage men this topic is all true story.q always saying to women arond me never take a marriage men ho don't lisse don't lissen ho lissen lissen.because ho lissen a want the best fore them because you say it with love 💚not for the jealousy🙏🏽
Amen🙏🏼🌹
I wouldn't want him back after he's divorced.
Interesting..”get a divorce and come back”?? Here’s the deal; Once you’ve learned that he/she is married, there should be NO contact. It may be cliché, but, let’s not forget, ‘if he/she cheat with you, they will cheat on you,’ because karma will avenged the victim. To suggest that he/she get a divorce is reckless and you will pay for that.😳
@@lillybethford1915 Well said!!!
A real man would not cheat.
You’re absolutely correct.👍
Yeah he will 😂
Real or fake .
So true . A cheating man is crooked in all his ways . Business included and most likely even lied to his guy friends for no reason and isn’t opposed to scamming to get better business deals . Just a bad over all person
Yes, remember, karma. Be true to your true self. You know this is not right.
Thanks so true! Tired of the drama 😴 I'm staying single.... I want happiness and abundance, I have that and more just being single ......
I agree 👍 💯 with you I will stay single men will lie if he cheats on his wife 😉 what makes you 😉 think he will do you the same way to
My husband past away last April and I'm loving my single life in Jesus name.
Amen
Every wife deserves a caring and devoted spouse, as do their children. If a father is hiding his relationship with another woman or spending time with someone outside the family, he cannot offer his children his full attention. Whatever is hurtful to you, do not do to any other person.
Hi Miss Faye, thank you for this message. It is a very scary one. I am scared of adultery, I am scared of temptation. I have seen it occur in my family and I want to make a different choice. I hope to be strong enough and considerate enough to say NO and to "run for my life" if a married man comes my way.
In my 30s I met a married guy lied to me was foreign seen him in his own apt for 2 yrs till a co worker of his told me his wife and 2 kids are in Europe coming over here I was lied to betrayed and broken hearted I fell in love I ended it the minute i knew 💔 ty Ms Faye
You got played, same thing going to happen to Amy robac
Glad your friend alerted you kudos to her and also you did the right thing, not vexing with your friend N thinking she is jealous etc
the girlfriend will not want him If he even left his wife
I disagree. Side chicks and Mistresses are manipulated into thinking that they're doing something better than the cheating husband Wife. So they go all in thinking that they'll reap rewards, before fact checking the lying husband. If they don't fact check, they're to blame for the consequences that will follow. And believe me, there will definitely be consequences that will destroy your world.
You're right. It was just a test that the man failed.
I think the majority of us need to learn this lesson firsthand. There are so many people out here who lie and are toxic and they don't care anything about their spouses or us for that matter. Sometimes these direct and painful lessons teach us to have boundaries, standards and expectations.
You are so right first hand is da best teacher I was 20 yrs old and learned on da way during da relationship he never told me he was married I had to find out from his friend when it was over never again did I date a married man nor a man wit a girlfriend same thing got my own man been wit for 33 yrs back then I did ask God for forgiveness
Your very right..
my husband left me with other woman.. mistress..
I Marry him 21 years….
Its hurts. I’m move on.. my life.. let him go with his mistress.. I’m focus my self being me..👍❤️❤️❤️
I love you for being courageous enough to share your story and the lessons that you have learned from them. You have to be in a place of low self esteem and low self-worth to be a part of an affair in the first place to think that you will continue to suffer even more emotional pain seems unbearable.
My ex is now married to his mistress who broke up his first marriage. I don't know if he messed around with her in his second marriage but all i know is that they are now together and married. They seems pretty happy from what I see on social media. I must say he looks truly happy. Maybe his mistress was his soul mate. I'm glad we broke up years ago because I would have hated for him to be with me yet still yearning for his mistress.
Social media is made to make people look happy. Not saying they not but behind closed doors things ain’t always what it seem in the public eye. Sometimes people put on a show just to get attention or just to seem like they got it all, like they happy but only Loving FATHER GOD through Loving JESUS CHRIST knows. 😇😇😇😇🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😇😇😇😇😇😇😇❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😇😇😇😇😇😇😇🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
People mostly act on social media and social media photos can be far from reality.
@@royalty2924Love That's true.
Social media and looking happy 😂😂😂 everybody is living they best lie not life on social media
True story: "A young girl was seeing this married man and they was sitting in his truck. His "seat reclined way back" and she's working out "bobbing for apples". Wife sneaked up with a machete, snatched the UNLOCKED passenger door open, and chopped that girl to death!!!!! (Happened in my city) Ladies, NEVER play this deadly game. You will lose every time. #DONTDOIT
She should have chopped the man, he was the one who was cheating on her. Some woman are so stupid!
That’s crazy….only in America
This hit home for me, for sure! Caught my husband cheating with someone I couldn’t believe!! They always seems to cheat with a lesser than mistress!! You will reap whatever you have sown! God sees everything even when we don’t! Amen 🙏
It would help if you tell how you have reaped what you have sawn 🙏🏽
@@queenglenda9483, 🙏🙏🙏
I am so glad I ran across your video. I am currently going through a divorce and everything you said is absolutely correct. He’s cheating with a younger woman at his job and he thinks I don’t know. I filed for a divorce because he’s an alcoholic and gets violent and belligerent and tells it all when he’s drunk. She doesn’t know what she’s getting. The abuse and disrespect is what led me to file. I know he will reap what he sowed I wish I could witness it 😂
I'm trying to distance myself from a married man. I realized I'm just a side chick, and I don't want him to move in with me. He's the one who approached me with the idea. I need help and prayers. I'm focusing on attaining a better career and having a social life.
Focus on your well-being and growing wiser. Do not involve yourself with the charade. Please. don't. ❤
Ms Faye, awesome presentation, I have never been with a married man, spiritually I am the one who will feel the wrath from the Almighty. I have been abstinence for 15 yrs.
Why would you date a married man? Seriously! I'm newly single because my man left me after 15 years and it was so hard but I am not interested in finding someone else at this time I am working on me and doing the things I didn't do when I was in a relationship! And I'm liking it!
Eight year Widower. My lovely Wife passed on July 16, 2015. I will ALWAYS LOVE and MISS HER.
Again, Ms. Faye,
Appreciative of your Videos;
Tks. much.
Whatever you do in life is returned to you! 100% correct!
Remember this ladies. A married man can end an affair with you within seconds at anytime without giving any thought and consideration to your feelings, just like that. You see the real him because he's no longer talking sweet to you, instead he's cold. That about needing time to break his marriage down because he's scared his wife will either commit suicide or come at him with a knife if she found out about you is an excuse. If he can end an affair abruptly with you then he can also end his marriage abruptly if he genuinely loves and wants you. Remember that. Any bloke will find a million excuses why he can't be with you and he will also find a million reasons why he wants you permanently in his life as his wife. Men are hunters and providers and will go after what they want, wild horses can't hold them back. Lastly they will use their kids as an excuse for not being able to leave. Kids adapt to change so don't fall for that excuse either. He won't value you if your a side chick. He'll just use you for sex and will never spend his money on you. He won't put much thought into birthday and Christmas gifts for you, instead you'll maybe get a cheap gift or a gift voucher.
"Men are hunters and providers and will go after what they want, wild horses can't hold them back. Lastly they will use their kids as an excuse for not being able to leave. Kids adapt to change so don't fall for that excuse either. He won't value you if your a side chick. He'll just use you for sex and will never spend his money on you. He won't put much thought into birthday and Christmas gifts for you, instead you'll maybe get a cheap gift or a gift voucher."
GIRL you preaching a whole sermon with this one!! They are quick to use the kids to end things abruptly. and the excuses. Whew. Don't let them come across as the nice or the good guys. Just because they come off as a 'good father' don't mean shit.
@@nikkiblaylock677 Whether they are good fathers or not they all use their kids as an excuse.
Y'all delusional thinking us married men will leave our wife... The thing is women love to compete with other women, there are plenty good single men out there but y'all just wired backwards
Very good wisdom points. My mom taught me this..."anybody that will cheat WITH you, will cheat ON you!
Thank you
“That’s right Miss Faye “The Universe sees everything it’s all knowing you can’t put bad out and expect good back, you can’t do a good person wrong and think you will get away with it. Karma will spin the block if she has to. Not only will the third party get karma but so will the man. Don’t Do It! Have some self respect, it’s so many men out here why give a man who isn’t available the time of day. If he’s behaving this way with his wife,
what makes you think you’re safe. Love yourself 🤍
Thank you for your WISDOM. I have a friend who need to hear this. ❤
Me it my sister in law but how can send her this video or advice her against it 😢 without being disrespectful because she is the first born in my husband family, it though even her daughters talk to her against it but she still with the guy and they have a son together and she says it because of the son that she has to be with him but what if the son grow up to behave like the cheating father😮. I have been praying to God for her...
What comes around goes around. You reap what you sow. Miss Faye you just wanted to make it safe so you wouldn't catch feelings. However, you speak nothing but the truth Amen 🙏🏾 🙌🏽 👏🏿
It’s sad to hear an old lady say she raised her sons while cheating with married men. So sad that they grew up seeing their mother live like that. She is speaking what she has lived and the pain she still has. I don’t believe in karma and I don’t know what it is. But Everyone will answer to God for the wrong that they do. I am divorced now but I didn’t cheat on my husband. I had it done to me in my first marriage. And I made a commitment to be faithful and true to my husband. We are friends to this day and I don’t think that he cheated on me. He was a very good man. I am praying for every woman that is or has cheated with a married man. May God give strength to do the right thing. This is so sad. 🙏😢😢😢
If he's a good man why did you divorce
@@Fay1106 coask
Who said her boys saw anything?
No matter how long her message is or how many times she's repeating...she is speaking THE PURE TRUTH!!. She wants you to get it.
I realize there are some exceptions to the rule..some cheaters ( male or female) marry the Side Piece and stay married forevermore...but we don't know if there are or were repercussions within the their new found relationship..
She's speaking to Ladies. Please Listen
Sting and Trudie... still married.
Building a relationship on Lies and deception will crumble , it will fall apart
I love your honesty. It is refreshing
Thank you for keeping it real and for teaching us to do the right thing.
👸cheaters are like cheetahs🐆: they never change their spots. ain't no future w/a married man. block, delete, run 🏃♀️for ur life!
I knew a young lady who dated a married man for over 10 plus years she would make comments about beating her up and etc. She was a bully. She was waiting on the lady to die but she died instead, she had a heart attack at age 51 years old and died in her sleep. Karma, I don’t need any of that in my life.
Mrs Faye, you are absolutely right. I'm 62 years old and through life lessons, of dating married men and saying when I was younger that was all I wanted.I truly learned through things that happened to me even to a point of a married man almost taking my life. Spiritual knowledge and wisdom from the LORD, when you know better you should do better and yes, karma is real. GOD showed me myself and it was no excuses for nothing because wrong is wrong and this is the reason, I'm still breathing to do what you are doing Mrs Faye, try and help some women and especially the young ladies. God Bless you for what you're doing.
Morally it’s disgusting. Physically don’t share 🤷♀️
You're awfully judgy
Ms. Faye, What a great session!! You're talking from life experience. You spoke to them out there! You are wonderful.
Thank you so much 🤗
Thank u Mam🙏🏻
It happened to me... I fell madly in love
I know I was doing something wrong & I ask God to forgive me & help me to get out...
It didn't happen over night little by little God was delivering me from that bondage & I started to drift away though I was still seeing him, but everytime I go to him it seems to get me stronger to leave him as much as I had loved him, today I'm completely out of the relationship although it was a fight everytime I wanna leave & he will disagree & get angry... but I truly thank God & I hope & prayer for others like myself can do the same & ask for help in someway, it's nice to find back myself, have a sound mind & love love love ME again. Thank you Lord for your forgiveness & delivering me. AMEN 🙏🏻
i wish it is so easy im suffering to work away to this problem
@@zimasandamase5063 hi sweddy a pleasant good day to you.
This was the hardest battle for me to fight,
I got sick many times also affected me mentally 😢
Thank God for his strength when I didn't have he give me🙏🏻.
Don't destroy your sweet life God has given you because of loving someone.
Jesus Christ already did that in the cross...
My advice to you is to keep in prayer 🙏🏻
Will be tuff (I was here) God will come through, he will trust me...
I don't know you darling
But I'm sending my love to you & hope for a speedy recovery from this,
Spiritual & Physically.
Love always💞
All the way from the Caribbean.
Trinidad & Tobago 🇹🇹
❤
Thanks to God,I have been in one for 3years ,till when God had delivered me Himself, but it was always a struggle with Him,till I got him red-handed,last week and I immediately broke up
Men are adventurer in nature. It's pure sexual pleasure and fulfillment.
Yes, I WILL NEVER DATE A MARRIED MAN. Thank you for the affirmative. It's totally wrong to date a married man. I have always kept this to myself that it's a rule I will follow for the rest of my life.
Thanks for sharing
Thank you for giving us the truth without being judgmental. You are giving friendly and life-changing advice in a loving manner. By the way, you are spot on!!
Exactly my story my husband and I are divorced 5yrs .he got caught cheating denied it .that made me divorce him if you cant be honest you ain't worth it. He ended up staying with the one he cheated on and that didn't last. Love being alone never been happier.
I don't understand anyway why any woman would want to be with a married man. As a woman you should have some integrity about yourself. I have always set my mind that I would never marry a married man unless he was a widower. Why would you want to share a man? No man ain't worth it. Never been in a relationship with a married man and I certainly wouldn't want one. God gave me a wonderful husband who treats me like a queen and I am so thankful everyday. If you pray and trust God, he will find the right husband for you but you have to be willing to let God lead. God doesn't make mistakes. People do! God will give you the right person for you.
And I can testify to what she is saying. Karma came back to me and bit hard. I deserved it! I caused pain and that's exactly what I got back! I've learnt and am truly sorry for my wrongdoings.
every action has an equal and opposite reaction 🌎 she’s telling women the truth. but by all means feel free to f around and “find out” ❤ 🌟
Its better to stay single you must control your loneliness and sex urges. We must walk in the spirit and ignore the flesh. Having sex with a married person is a sin. Also sex before marriage is also a sin. God Bless Us All.😇🕎🛐🐑
We must crucify the flesh with the help of our Lord and Savior.
You are absolutely right.
Amen 🎉
Thank you for standing true to God and reflecting Him in your life and how you live. I am also on the same path. I took up my cross mortified the deeds of my flesh and I follow Christ with my whole heart. Blessings Sister in Christ. 🙏❤️
I have to agree to disagree because I do believe that having sex with a married man is wrong, but many have had sex before marriage and my guess is so have you, so my point is we all fall short of the glory of god and that makes you no better or worst because know one is perfect and we all come here with an imperfect spirit through the grace and mercy of God 🙏🏾❤️
Messing around with a married man is also a good way to end up dead. The Bible says to flee such relationships. Many men tell a woman that he's going to divorce his wife and marry them. Years go by and he remains married and using the girlfriend. I put myself in the wife's shoes and ask myself "how would you feel if he did that to you?" I would be crushed.
Every word you posted was simply the TRUTH !!!!!!!!
Exodus 22:18🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Watch a day of deadly women and snapped 🚨📺💰
Crushed or not. I am not snapping over no damn no good man. You are not the first wife to be cheated on, and you want be the last. No matter what, we must control our emotions. I am not trying to kill any man or woman that I catch with my husband; I am not making a public scene either by acting a fool because I catch him in the act. It is what it is. I avoid drama no matter what because I have so much going on in my life independent of my relationship with my husband.
I knew a 'brother' from Bible study that was sleeping with a married woman for years. I gently but firmly told him he must confess this sin to the Lord. In one ear & out the other. I warned him. He didn't listen. No accountability. Zero. I saw doom in his future. He wouldn't take heed and died in a freak car accident last year.
I love your world Miss Faye. You are keeping it 100% real.
Not a lie told! I’ve been on both sides & I’ve definitely learned my lesson w karma! Thank his for growth💯 please keep these videos coming love the advice from the wise! ❤️
When I was going through a divorce, I didn't date until I was divorced.
God bless you. Nothing is hidden from God almighty. I admire vulnerability. I admire you coming on here and sharing and helping other women. I hope that they listen. We all have a lot to learn in life.
I appreciate that
Vulnerability is key.
You are absolutely correct. They ALL say the same thing and it's all lies. If he really is not happy he would surely leave the situation if it as bad as he claims that it is. He is just using you. Period.
People really need to be told not to get involved with a married person.🙄
It shouldn’t be an idea let alone a good idea. Be mature and seek God for your own. God bless you for sharing Miss
Just want to say "Thank You" for your very wise, candid and truthful counsel. I think it wonderful in spite of all that you have experienced, you do not sound bitter. God bless you as you help us women. 👍🏽
You fall in love because you don’t see him all the time.