Yeah it’s crazy and then they end up like ex pat John and get sent to the beach to sleep and lose 40 pounds. Don’t be silly. Take your time slow down, conserve your money just rent and enjoy the Philippines.
I'm sure I mentioned this before, but I'll say it again. Don't be like my friend. He gives up a 3rd of his modest pension to his Filipina wife's family and blew through 60,000 us dollars, building them a home. He's in his 60's and lives with his mom. And his 20 year old wife is texting younger guys behind his back. Moral of the story, you can't buy love.
And then after he comes over there, he finds out that she has a husband and a child and the next thing you know they find her body in a rain barrel. They had a story last month about that on the news.
I have been back and forth to the Philippines 🇵🇭 for the last 8 years and im still single and I don't have any intention of being in a long term relationship. Im a high value guy in the best shape of my life age 55 I don't have a problem meeting girls in my country or the Philippines. I did make mistakes when I first started visiting the Philippines 🇵🇭 i didn't know the ropes ended up getting handcuffed at the airport a couple of times but i soon learned. Jasper i like your channel because you tell the truth don't listen to what others say you say what you want bro. I also like the sound advice you gave to filipinas in the video your 100% correct a girl should try to find her way in life not just trying to hook a old foreign dude. Just because we live in or visit the Philippines that doesn't state we have to be in a relationship. Great content bro
Yeah bro, I went a little crazy when I arrived here too. Currently, I’m just enjoying the beautiful country. Whatever happens happens but yeah, I really do like my freedom in any country to just kind of go anywhere or do anything and eat anything as a one person decision lol.
@@JasperinthePhilippines This is gonna be my 'tude when I moved to Thailand in five months. As eligible as I am, and as available & pretty as they are- I'm moving f/ affordable rent, gorgeous terrain, and to work from the crib. At my pace
Yeah, I’ve had so many relationships and live in ones were basically married without the paperwork and you really thinking for two people and it’s a beautiful thing but it can also be a total headache when you have a difficult woman in your home. They are going through hard times etc. I think for right now it’s better for me to just get comfortable with the lay of the land etc..
Do you know something Jasper! I watch a lot of TH-camrs in the Philippines and your one of those very few guys that speak honestly in your vids. You talk about the way it is and no rosé colour petals washing the truth. When I was there earlier this year it was just for relaxation and seeing the Philippines for what it is. I loved the Philippines from what little I saw. The people are fantastic well 90% of them anyway. I wasn’t looking for a woman either as I prefer to do my own thing, eat what I want. Go where I want and chill to my heart’s content. Some people dive right in and for some it works and for some carries pitfalls. Best thing for foreigners to do when entering Philippines is first get your feet on the ground and take all the time you need for yourself. Once your happy within yourself then if they want a partner, then will be the time to accept someone in their life. First work on yourself and your freedom and enjoy life for what it is.
Agreed That’s how I am living in the states . I have my life together financially, physically, mentally . I am early 40’s and just enjoy doing as I please everyday . I will be traveling this year and do not want to be handcuffed here in the states or abroad .
Yeah, I mean it basically goes like that in any country. I’ve had some amazing relationships but when a woman lives with me or gets super close with me, it’s now a two person operation where you can get yourself into a lot of headaches that you don’t really need. We hold the cards we have the power. We are the prize. 🏆
Theres nothing wrong with staying single . It has a lot of advantages. You have to leave leave that western mindset about realtionships in the US. In the Philippine culture the man makes the decisions and leads. The woman follows and supports the mans decisions. The roles are well defined. The man brings home the bacon. The woman takes care of her man, the family and the house. Like how it used to be in the US.
Salute to you, finally someone that gets up there and speaks the hard truth. Not everybody believes in being a habitual sponsor for other people not everybody wants to be bothered when you just feel like chilling. Gentleman you are the Foreigner the ball is in your court, the Filipina needs you more than you need the Filipina never forget that.
You make great points, but I am like many Filipina in that I truly love family. I enjoy my family life more than anything in the world. Single life just wasn’t for me. Enjoy your single life and if you find a great situation great. If not at least you are having a great time.
I like when you said the last 2 sentences. Coz i thought i am no longer normal being single my whole life at this age. But hey, I have friends like me too!Just enjoy and appreciate life of being single, married or in a relationship..whichever you are in to
Yeah, that’s exactly what I say. I didn’t wanna say it in the video but yeah, if you wanna knock me off this lifestyle, you better have some money or be literally miss Philippines. 🤣🤣🤣🇵🇭
Really some ambition I can teach a girl how to make money and I’ve already turned down the rich girls that lived in my building in BGC or the one that owned the condo and has the car.
Been single for awhileee baaaaaby and loving it! Nobody hassling and nagging me about where I'm at or what time I'll be home! Enjoy it while you can, solo is where it's at! Until that special and i mean that special someone shows up. Peace!
I totally share your feelings on this. I'm still here in the US and have been a lone wolf for 10 years now. It's been the best 10 years of my 69 years. I listening to you and railfanning on this beautiful Sunday morning in St Denis Maryland. What a great day.
Yeah man I’ve been handcuffed by a lot of women and some of them have been amazing relationships but you’re simply thinking for two what do you guys want to eat that day? If one of you is having a bad day the other is women can be extremely emotional and toxic and I don’t mind being alone. I really don’t mind being alone now do I think I’ll be alone in the end I don’t but if I was that was the plan for me so it’s OK for me then
Great video…I’ve been in the Philippines for about 5 months to check if I want to settle here and I think it’s a great country to go solo. I’ve been traveling for 5 years since retiring at 43, never dated during this time, it wasn’t intentional but realized that it’s something I don’t really miss but I get it’s a priority for many.
Again Congratulations on 19k! This is my favorite video and this I how I feel too. I've been with enough women and have been in enough relationships to know being single and alone is better than being in a relationship and being miserable! Hopefully one day I'll meet that special someone but if I don't Im completely ok with dying alone!
@@JasperinthePhilippines Enjoy your freedom in Paradise Islands of The Philippines you dont have to trap yourself, with 7,647 Islands mate enjoy epic adventures make friends, enjoy the food and culture and you really don't need a Filipina gf or wife to accomplish this. This is what I enjoy about the country, solitude and therapeutic living in Paradise Islands of The Philippines back and forth since 2015 🇵🇭 🙌😎👍.
Yeah, I’ve had so many relationships. I’m just enjoying myself but yeah, it’s good when you can be comfortable being alone it stops you from getting into those bad relationships just for companionship.
You will may feel differently after 50+. Never say never. The great thing is that the Philippines has the best culture and people imho, so, at least you will find what you want if/when you're ready to commit to an exclusive relationship.
Awesome upload bro. My guy spittin pure facts. Just relax, enjoy the weather, the people, the culture. Just enjoy. No need to jump into any drama, aint got no time for that.
Yeah, I mean it’s basically the same in any country. It’s just even more so when you’re in a country when you need to get familiar with where you wanna live the culture the surroundings take your time.
Yeah exactly people see a younger ex pat like in the elevator these buildings and stuff and they’re all really looking to be your friend. They all want to connect with you when you you’re both out of your element in a foreign land.
You’re so right Jasper. Being single is the best if you’re in the Philippines. Limitless options man. Nobody dictates you. You can do whatever you want to do.
Great advice for any new country. Learn the location, learn the culture, learn the people. Then you're truly educated and can make educated decisions and not emotional decisions.
Whenever Ive gotten out of a clingy relationship I feel like the whole world’s been lifted of my back, the only relationship that was awesome was with a girl I was dating that was also my best friend, I enjoyed that.
All the Filipinas here in the States braught alot to the table. The prettiest one in Queens spent more money on me than I did her. I just love going on my own adventures and my time to myself. Thanks for paving the way brother! I'll be doing my own solo adventures in the Philippines just like you. Before I do Im going to go back through your videos so I know what to and what not to do.
@JasperinthePhilippines Thank you brother! Wish I could spend some pictures of some of the Filipinas I hangout with here in the States through here lol
No doubt bro. Im 44 years young my ex of 8 years is Filipina (US raised) so I know the culture.. seriously thinking bout checking it out you're definitely motivation my dude!!
1200 dollar per month i will live comfortably in the phil. in us i will be homeless for that amount. in the future i will live in cebu with a local virgin.
The men that come here to live are in their 50’s and upward. Mostly all retired. They’ve been divorced have older children and have been rejected by women back home. Loneliness is an unsympathetic tyrant. When you reach a certain age you become your own philosopher. No one wants to be alone. Especially after 50. You’re a young buck. So your philosophy is a perfect antidote and in direct proportion to your age. You sound like you know what you want and what doesn’t work for you. Glad you’re giving this advice. Remember the Latin phrase caveat emptor.
Thank you. Yeah I’m still in my mid 40s and I have a very young mindset and I’m told I look a couple years younger so I think I got a little time just gonna get the lay of the land and probably when I least expect it it will happen if meant to be. Comfortable single.
Disagree re loneliness. I’ve been single for almost a decade after a long term marriage and have gotten used to it and am in absolutely no rush to get into any relationship. The freedom is priceless, alone or not.
@@mwaynerowe4782 Whatever floats their boat. Who are we to judge. If it works for them and their girls benefit financially, more power to them in their last years, they know it’s a 4m situation.
I respect your decision, it’s truly not easy to find an old school traditional pinay, I’ve had my share of women internationally, however after extensive travel to the Philippines 🇵🇭 I found the exact type of pinay every man dreams of, I pray 🙏 you find her it’s not easy, but trust and believe she’s in the Philippines 🇵🇭 brother enjoy your life!
Yeah, it’s not gonna be for everybody. It’s not a popular choice almost everybody is just meeting at the airport or overwhelmed by the attention and I was also, but I’m not in any hurry and everything I said in the video pretty much are flights to any woman in any country.
Great Message my Friend! Recent subscriber and happy I’ve done so! I will definitely be watching more videos from you and whatever you do please remain real and true to your nature man! Sorry to hear about any threats because of your truth. 🙏 peace brother!
Ya man it’s wild. But I get it if you got millions of dollars and a 40 year age gap maybe it makes sense for you. I just know I have a lot of value outside of my bank account I don’t finance families personally.
Is it true that many locals ask foreigners; " do you have a girlfriend/married"? Seems like the expectation is that a man needs someone to take care of him to be fulfilled. Nice stoic outlook and shows alot of integrity going solo.
I agree! I'm so glad you posted this video. I was thinking the same thing. Nothing wrong with going solo, especially when you're getting yourself together! :-)
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I’ve never heard of them and I’ve never edited anything, but yeah, there’s something that people like about this channel and I’m working very hard doing the lives, and I record a lotta videos, and some of them are just simply not good enough to upload. Thank you for recognizing my channel and commenting. You’re the best! I always respond to every single comment even if it takes hours.
I find it funny that the PI is becoming the home of the passport bro. It was the same in the 80s, the PI was no different then than it is now. Anyone in the mi.itary could have told you that. But the web was not around. Only difference is western women have become completely undatable, let alone talking about marriage. If you date or marry a filipino woman, understand they come with their own set of unique headaches. Yes, they are not as bad as the spoiled, western female brats by a long shot. But still, they are a challenge. All women in the known universe are....only a matter of degree. Marriage is not about fun, sex, romance, etc. Marriage is a bond that takes both thru the ups and downs of life. If all you want is play.....don't get married. Plus if you marry a Filipina, you marry their entire family. That is true even in the US where tons of them live (e.g. in California). Know what you are getting into bros.
Good for you, bud! I'm a big believer in not searching desperately for love, but letting love happen, if it's gonna happen. Y'know, not forcing it, as it were. (But to those who are searching in earnest, hey, if that's your thing, do it.) Especially if, as in your case, you've had your fill of relationships for awhile. Take some time, enjoy yourself, travel, work on your projects, etc.I would, however, offer some hard-won advice and say, if all your past relationships ended up being "princess" situations (or other repeating patterns), you might take a look at your past choices and see if maybe that's what attracted you to the situation. Or whatever, I'm not a psychologist, I just play one on YT. lol! Just saying that the first few times might just be a coincidence, but beyond that, it's a pattern. There are cool, chill chicks out there (rare, to be sure) who'll be laid back enough to just go with the flow and do whatever you want to do without making a scene, pouting, etc. You'll just have to "interview" a lot of them to find them. 😄
I think a lot of people take it personal when they watch your videos man, one thing you have to understand is that he's telling you what HE is doing lol he's not telling you that a relationship is wrong lol do what you think is best for you! Btw I know that guy in the red shirt @ 5:56 he always says it's his bday everyday I go into 7/11 lol
Man you are doing great, staying single at least for now is definitely a smart move. I am 2 years out of my last relationship in Australia and I am focused now on early retirement.
Agree Single by choice for 15 years Dont mind only seeing a woman once or twice a week and could meet with 2 or 3 different ones every year Soon I will live in 3 to 5 countries a year and that is much easier solo
You have the right idea. I'm 73 and have a gf in Manila and want to go see her but maybe not a good idea. I've been single all my life and don't want to get tied down and although I have plenty of money I'm sure she would need financial help as she is a 45 year old housekeeper who wants to finish her small house in her province when she retires in about 5 years. She was talking about marriage after about 3 months and now almost two years later she realizes that ain't going to happen. Just wish I was in my 30's or 40's with some money so I could go there and relax and just meet girls when I wanted and not jump into some nightmare situations that I'm sure are happening there everyday.
I tell all the women who give the third degree when I promote being unattached. I say being alone doesn't mean I'm lonely. Steam comes out their ears like a cartoon. 😂
Yeah, I say that same thing I’m like I’m not crying myself to sleep. I have girls that want to go on dates with me. I have friends I’m doing TH-cam. I’m not really desperate like to lock in & handcuff
Very well spoken brother..lots men go there an other Asian countries to meet tgat special woman..when in reality you'll end up meeting thousands by just bein yourself...but im with you about haven to baby sit a woman emotions..nothing like having your freedom..an when you get the urge to date then date..it doesn't have to be long term..im certainly not a needy person for anything ..quite content in my own skin an allways have been...keep on doin you man..much respect to a man that knows where he stands in life....
Exactly exactly right sometimes men have that scarcity mindset and they weren’t doing well in the United States like myself but yeah when you start babysitting someone and they’re in your house and showing you other sides of them and stuff you will regret it
I completely understand and agree with you I plan on moving to the Philippines in the future I am not going to the Philippines for relationships I'm a bachelor for life you are probably the first to call like it is
Thank you Nick. It’s a very unpopular choice. Most men come here for companionship, and there is no we’re better, but I didn’t come here for companionship and I’m gonna take my time.
@@JasperinthePhilippines it’s actually “sana all” as in the English word ‘All’. Just verified it with a Filipina who said “It's like used to express hope that everyone, including the speaker, will experience the same as whatever is being talked about, usually in a joking manner, but sometimes in an envious manner”
@@JasperinthePhilippines Jasper! I’m coming to Manila very soon and I am BEYOND excited! Would love to connect with you in person and get advice from you about how to start a YT channel..
Another great walking video Jasper. Glad you know what works for you and sticking with it. I see and hear where so many guys come there and jump in and out of relationships. At least you know your lane and staying in it and it is working out great for you so far. You are still younger and have time and have time for relationship when its right for you. For now you are building your TH-cam channel up and have a great community going. Keep up the hard work and stay safe
Thanks a lot golf. Yeah I feel like I came out here 20 years early so if it takes me a year or 2 or if I just you know find girls that are not necessarily dating to Marry that wanna spend time with me. That’s totally cool. Just going to continue working hard on TH-cam and exploring the Philippines and what will be will be my friend. 🤝
Yes Yes Yes Mgtow life and travel around paradise Islands of The Philippines 😊. This has been my mindset after my crazy relationship experience in 2014. There is more to The Philippines than getting trapped in a controlling Filipina relationship.
Yeah, I mean it’s basically the same in any country. I mean this could totally apply to the United States or any country. I just think for right now considering the circumstances and everything I said in the video I’ll just take my time and get another lay of the land for a while longer.
Bro stay single is good man.. ultimate freedom.. I can't stay eating chocolate ice cream all the time.. sometimes I want strawberry or vanilla or rocky road.. what I mean by that is that I get bored with only one girl man..
Dude totally agree with the facts of relationship with foreigners . IT'S NOT RIGHT TO USE PARTNER AS SPONSORS OR DAD'S ROLE IN A RELATIONSHIP . That fact they treat a person as a ATM machine and not validation for the feeling. It's like one man working on the relationship she's receiving the Princess life ,its totally Unfair
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You’re making a very good point. I landed a hot mama right away but she had been married to a foreigner before and had two adult children living with her plus the girlfriend of the son and a baby. I was expected to build a house on the property she already had And fall in to her life and her lifestyle. I came within 30 days of getting married, but the extravagant wedding that she wanted to show off to the whole island became a major point of contention as well as it was becoming clear that she was going to completely run the show and I was just going to be a house husband. Like you said there’s two categories of men that come there some have games some don’t. I fit into the one that has game and it’s easy for me to get dates in the states but at 66 years old it’s hard for me to date a 40 year old in the United States, since I’m not filthy rich. Since I am returning in September, although I have met a girl online, I’m going to pursue when I arrive I’m definitely not getting married right away, essentially, jumping into a marriage with a woman you don’t really know. Maybe I do want to take some time and explore the Philippines, while being single.
I spent a lot of time studying the filipina, you have a great take on them with one major exception, the filipina is not looking for a man who is in buff shape, they are seen as players, they prefer a man with a belly over the abs. Look into if and you will see I am right about this. Please stop telling men they need to be in shape to go there, you are discouraging men who already have low self esteem from western women.
Take it from me - Im 63 never married, had relationships, some long ones, am very independent and still single. And if I return there I will be single. You speak my ;language unless a piano falls on my head lol
@@JasperinthePhilippines Thanks Jasper. One other thing I forgot to mention - I never had kids coz I always had sex responsibly. If Im not gonna stay then Im careful. In a way Im lucky too coz Im in good shape plus have a full head of hair and blue eyes lol. But joking apart if you want to stay single then be careful. If you want a family thats fine too but respect is always key in life. I like your train of thought coz you always stress this too that respect is number 1
I completely agree. My dad used to say...do your thing and one day you'll look over and see a beautiful woman doing the same thing, and if its right youll KNOW! If you have to ask... nope. Next. Its just like that. To our health, wealth and freedom! 🥂🙏🏼😎
I've never been to the Philippines... I lived in South America for 6 years... Curious how you would compare the Filipinas to Colombian women looks wise?
Been in SouthEast Asian countries 4 almost 10 years. Never had a girlfriend,wife or children LOL U R far from alone in the world. Hit it, quit it rinse & repeat. Peace Out brotha.
Its a choice. FIlipino man and woman prefer single its their choice. I have cousins but i dont have cousins (dad side family) in US. That why i want to stay in PH
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Amazes me, how many guys will blow their whole loot on a Filipina. Building them a home, supporting an entire family oversees. Really amazes me.
Yeah it’s crazy and then they end up like ex pat John and get sent to the beach to sleep and lose 40 pounds. Don’t be silly. Take your time slow down, conserve your money just rent and enjoy the Philippines.
Riverdog was another one 😲
I'm sure I mentioned this before, but I'll say it again. Don't be like my friend. He gives up a 3rd of his modest pension to his Filipina wife's family and blew through 60,000 us dollars, building them a home. He's in his 60's and lives with his mom. And his 20 year old wife is texting younger guys behind his back. Moral of the story, you can't buy love.
And then after he comes over there, he finds out that she has a husband and a child and the next thing you know they find her body in a rain barrel. They had a story last month about that on the news.
Yes, you told me all about it that’s crazy but those stories are so common bro people go crazy and break the bank and then end up alone
I have been back and forth to the Philippines 🇵🇭 for the last 8 years and im still single and I don't have any intention of being in a long term relationship.
Im a high value guy in the best shape of my life age 55 I don't have a problem meeting girls in my country or the Philippines.
I did make mistakes when I first started visiting the Philippines 🇵🇭 i didn't know the ropes ended up getting handcuffed at the airport a couple of times but i soon learned.
Jasper i like your channel because you tell the truth don't listen to what others say you say what you want bro.
I also like the sound advice you gave to filipinas in the video your 100% correct a girl should try to find her way in life not just trying to hook a old foreign dude.
Just because we live in or visit the Philippines that doesn't state we have to be in a relationship.
Great content bro
Yeah bro, I went a little crazy when I arrived here too. Currently, I’m just enjoying the beautiful country. Whatever happens happens but yeah, I really do like my freedom in any country to just kind of go anywhere or do anything and eat anything as a one person decision lol.
handcuffed at the airport ? what do you mean ?
Good decision. Just be mindful that whatever we do, regrets always comes later.
@@JasperinthePhilippines This is gonna be my 'tude when I moved to Thailand in five months. As eligible as I am, and as available & pretty as they are- I'm moving f/ affordable rent, gorgeous terrain, and to work from the crib. At my pace
@@Rogerdfgh When the Filipina meets you at the airport, you’re instantly handcuffed with her
That’s honesty how I feel most of the time. Relationship’s are too much of a hassle and I don’t want someone telling me what I can’t do 😅
Yeah, I’ve had so many relationships and live in ones were basically married without the paperwork and you really thinking for two people and it’s a beautiful thing but it can also be a total headache when you have a difficult woman in your home. They are going through hard times etc. I think for right now it’s better for me to just get comfortable with the lay of the land etc..
Do you know something Jasper! I watch a lot of TH-camrs in the Philippines and your one of those very few guys that speak honestly in your vids. You talk about the way it is and no rosé colour petals washing the truth. When I was there earlier this year it was just for relaxation and seeing the Philippines for what it is. I loved the Philippines from what little I saw. The people are fantastic well 90% of them anyway. I wasn’t looking for a woman either as I prefer to do my own thing, eat what I want. Go where I want and chill to my heart’s content. Some people dive right in and for some it works and for some carries pitfalls. Best thing for foreigners to do when entering Philippines is first get your feet on the ground and take all the time you need for yourself. Once your happy within yourself then if they want a partner, then will be the time to accept someone in their life. First work on yourself and your freedom and enjoy life for what it is.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🇵🇭
He's not old and desperate. Simple.
@@andrewcarlson2178 true 🤝
Agreed
That’s how I am living in the states .
I have my life together financially, physically, mentally .
I am early 40’s and just enjoy doing as I please everyday .
I will be traveling this year and do not want to be handcuffed here in the states or abroad .
Yeah, I mean it basically goes like that in any country. I’ve had some amazing relationships but when a woman lives with me or gets super close with me, it’s now a two person operation where you can get yourself into a lot of headaches that you don’t really need. We hold the cards we have the power. We are the prize. 🏆
@@JasperinthePhilippines no doubt
Completely agree .
Theres nothing wrong with staying single . It has a lot of advantages.
You have to leave leave that western mindset about realtionships in the US. In the Philippine culture the man makes the decisions and leads. The woman follows and supports the mans decisions. The roles are well defined. The man brings home the bacon. The woman takes care of her man, the family and the house. Like how it used to be in the US.
Facts 🎯
That isn't always true, who owns and operates most of the mom and pop stores (Women) because she is supporting her red horse drinking asawa
Salute to you, finally someone that gets up there and speaks the hard truth. Not everybody believes in being a habitual sponsor for other people not everybody wants to be bothered when you just feel like chilling. Gentleman you are the Foreigner the ball is in your court, the Filipina needs you more than you need the Filipina never forget that.
1000% 🎯
You're not lying. I was married and being single is so much better.
Yes 👍
F-in aye ! I’m exactly in your circle ! Do not wanna bog down relationship that I just had for decades in the states
Ayyye 🫡
You make great points, but I am like many Filipina in that I truly love family. I enjoy my family life more than anything in the world. Single life just wasn’t for me. Enjoy your single life and if you find a great situation great. If not at least you are having a great time.
Yes ma’am
I like when you said the last 2 sentences. Coz i thought
i am no longer normal being single my whole life at this age. But hey, I have friends like me too!Just enjoy and appreciate life of being single, married or in a relationship..whichever you are in to
Again we agree. It’s going to take one hell of a Pinay to get me to give up my solo lifestyle.
Yeah, that’s exactly what I say. I didn’t wanna say it in the video but yeah, if you wanna knock me off this lifestyle, you better have some money or be literally miss Philippines. 🤣🤣🤣🇵🇭
Really some ambition I can teach a girl how to make money and I’ve already turned down the rich girls that lived in my building in BGC or the one that owned the condo and has the car.
Been single for awhileee baaaaaby and loving it! Nobody hassling and nagging me about where I'm at or what time I'll be home! Enjoy it while you can, solo is where it's at! Until that special and i mean that special someone shows up. Peace!
🎯 long time no see beers 🍺
I totally share your feelings on this. I'm still here in the US and have been a lone wolf for 10 years now. It's been the best 10 years of my 69 years. I listening to you and railfanning on this beautiful Sunday morning in St Denis Maryland.
What a great day.
Yeah man I’ve been handcuffed by a lot of women and some of them have been amazing relationships but you’re simply thinking for two what do you guys want to eat that day? If one of you is having a bad day the other is women can be extremely emotional and toxic and I don’t mind being alone. I really don’t mind being alone now do I think I’ll be alone in the end I don’t but if I was that was the plan for me so it’s OK for me then
Great video…I’ve been in the Philippines for about 5 months to check if I want to settle here and I think it’s a great country to go solo. I’ve been traveling for 5 years since retiring at 43, never dated during this time, it wasn’t intentional but realized that it’s something I don’t really miss but I get it’s a priority for many.
Yes for most. Thanks for the compliment.
Again Congratulations on 19k! This is my favorite video and this I how I feel too. I've been with enough women and have been in enough relationships to know being single and alone is better than being in a relationship and being miserable! Hopefully one day I'll meet that special someone but if I don't Im completely ok with dying alone!
Thank you Todd!!! I knew you would like this 1.
The best advice I’ve ever heard from all you bloggers out there in the Philippines!!,, well done SirJazz!
Thank you stud!
You wanting to stay single is not weird, that is just the stage of life you are in right now. No need to apologize....
Thanks
@@JasperinthePhilippines Enjoy your freedom in Paradise Islands of The Philippines you dont have to trap yourself, with 7,647 Islands mate enjoy epic adventures make friends, enjoy the food and culture and you really don't need a Filipina gf or wife to accomplish this. This is what I enjoy about the country, solitude and therapeutic living in Paradise Islands of The Philippines back and forth since 2015 🇵🇭 🙌😎👍.
That's great advice young man!!! Keep your mind on your money. Focus on your Goals. MOB brother Jasper!!!
M.O.B. 💰👑
I am 60 and single and very happy . Some people need a relationship been there done that :)
Yeah, I’ve had so many relationships. I’m just enjoying myself but yeah, it’s good when you can be comfortable being alone it stops you from getting into those bad relationships just for companionship.
@@JasperinthePhilippines water seeks its own level.
Most guys need to hear this, more than they even know.
Facts Johnny! 🎯
You will may feel differently after 50+. Never say never. The great thing is that the Philippines has the best culture and people imho, so, at least you will find what you want if/when you're ready to commit to an exclusive relationship.
Yeah, I’ll be $.47 so whatever
Stay Single infront of the Camera..
but dont let the bedroom goings on stop you Jasper!! We only live once!! Carpe diem --- Always!!❤❤❤
Carpe noctem 👑
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Carpe Noctem indeed Jasper!!❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Awesome upload bro. My guy spittin pure facts. Just relax, enjoy the weather, the people, the culture. Just enjoy. No need to jump into any drama, aint got no time for that.
Yeah, I mean it’s basically the same in any country. It’s just even more so when you’re in a country when you need to get familiar with where you wanna live the culture the surroundings take your time.
@@JasperinthePhilippines exactly, network, make friends, learn the language
Yeah exactly people see a younger ex pat like in the elevator these buildings and stuff and they’re all really looking to be your friend. They all want to connect with you when you you’re both out of your element in a foreign land.
You’re so right Jasper. Being single is the best if you’re in the Philippines. Limitless options man. Nobody dictates you. You can do whatever you want to do.
Ya sir
Great advice for any new country. Learn the location, learn the culture, learn the people. Then you're truly educated and can make educated decisions and not emotional decisions.
Yes sir
Whenever Ive gotten out of a clingy relationship I feel like the whole world’s been lifted of my back, the only relationship that was awesome was with a girl I was dating that was also my best friend, I enjoyed that.
Nice. Yeah, I agree. I’ve been in those jealous clingy relationships and I enjoy my freedom after those end
It is not weird and completely normal to want to stay single and move at your own pace doing and going to where you want.
Yes sir 🫡
All the Filipinas here in the States braught alot to the table. The prettiest one in Queens spent more money on me than I did her. I just love going on my own adventures and my time to myself. Thanks for paving the way brother! I'll be doing my own solo adventures in the Philippines just like you. Before I do Im going to go back through your videos so I know what to and what not to do.
Yes sir. I have so much Content, thank you 🙏
@JasperinthePhilippines Thank you brother! Wish I could spend some pictures of some of the Filipinas I hangout with here in the States through here lol
Get in a serious relationship when you are 60, and she is 25 or older, degree, job, beautiful, nice personality, etc...
Ok boss
Seen a few ex pat channels on you tube. You got the most honest and best one in my opinion.
Thank you my friend 🙏
No doubt bro. Im 44 years young my ex of 8 years is Filipina (US raised) so I know the culture.. seriously thinking bout checking it out you're definitely motivation my dude!!
Thank you bro 🤝
1200 dollar per month i will live comfortably in the phil. in us i will be homeless for that amount. in the future i will live in cebu with a local virgin.
Excellent
The men that come here to live are in their 50’s and upward. Mostly all retired. They’ve been divorced have older children and have been rejected by women back home. Loneliness is an unsympathetic tyrant. When you reach a certain age you become your own philosopher. No one wants to be alone. Especially after 50. You’re a young buck. So your philosophy is a perfect antidote and in direct proportion to your age. You sound like you know what you want and what doesn’t work for you. Glad you’re giving this advice. Remember the Latin phrase caveat emptor.
Thank you. Yeah I’m still in my mid 40s and I have a very young mindset and I’m told I look a couple years younger so I think I got a little time just gonna get the lay of the land and probably when I least expect it it will happen if meant to be. Comfortable single.
Disagree re loneliness. I’ve been single for almost a decade after a long term marriage and have gotten used to it and am in absolutely no rush to get into any relationship. The freedom is priceless, alone or not.
I love my freedom
@@mwaynerowe4782 Whatever floats their boat. Who are we to judge. If it works for them and their girls benefit financially, more power to them in their last years, they know it’s a 4m situation.
I respect your decision, it’s truly not easy to find an old school traditional pinay, I’ve had my share of women internationally, however after extensive travel to the Philippines 🇵🇭 I found the exact type of pinay every man dreams of, I pray 🙏 you find her it’s not easy, but trust and believe she’s in the Philippines 🇵🇭 brother enjoy your life!
Yes, sir
100 % correct and agreed to your topic. Enjoy and have fun our friend.
Thank you
Smart that's the way to do it That's what I've been thinking so far I've spent two months there in the last 6 months
Yeah, it’s not gonna be for everybody. It’s not a popular choice almost everybody is just meeting at the airport or overwhelmed by the attention and I was also, but I’m not in any hurry and everything I said in the video pretty much are flights to any woman in any country.
Besides almost every woman you meet there is going to want some of your money somehow
Candid and realistic point of view. Great advice to a newbie’s.
Thank you
Great Message my Friend! Recent subscriber and happy I’ve done so! I will definitely be watching more videos from you and whatever you do please remain real and true to your nature man! Sorry to hear about any threats because of your truth. 🙏 peace brother!
Thank you 🙏
You're good with you, that's a beautiful place bro take care of you. A lot of guys wish they did what You're doing first.
Thank you so much brother salute
Big Facts
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Appreciate the honesty. I'm amazed at how many guy's do the take care of the whole family thing.
Ya man it’s wild. But I get it if you got millions of dollars and a 40 year age gap maybe it makes sense for you. I just know I have a lot of value outside of my bank account I don’t finance families personally.
Thx brother! I needed this. Headed that way in December. I was going to try and make it until you/this.
*make it work
Ok sir
nice job Jasper, I am thinking of visiting the Philipines next year, can you recommend the best month to do so?
Jan to May any month
Good to know ty sir :)@@JasperinthePhilippines
I believe you have to correct outlook. Thanks for the real advice! Makes sense.
Thank you Mike
Is it true that many locals ask foreigners; " do you have a girlfriend/married"? Seems like the expectation is that a man needs someone to take care of him to be fulfilled. Nice stoic outlook and shows alot of integrity going solo.
Yeah, I told the girls at the laundry shop that I was single, and they look like they almost fell down and crack their heads open
I agree! I'm so glad you posted this video. I was thinking the same thing. Nothing wrong with going solo, especially when you're getting yourself together! :-)
Yes sir
Totally understand where you are coming from and respect and appreicate your honesty.
Thank you
A man after my own heart. I plan on doing the same thing when I get there in 2024 😎
Sana all 👍🏻
It at boils down to personal preference..
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the meteoric rise or growth of your youtube community could be attributed to your interaction or engagement
most content makers (vloggers) don't have time to read comments -- they're too busy editing for a glossy factor of their contents
luke damant is one youtuber that do not have time to edit, yet millions admire his style
I’ve never heard of them and I’ve never edited anything, but yeah, there’s something that people like about this channel and I’m working very hard doing the lives, and I record a lotta videos, and some of them are just simply not good enough to upload. Thank you for recognizing my channel and commenting. You’re the best! I always respond to every single comment even if it takes hours.
Honesty is the best policy keep doing your thing
Thx
I find it funny that the PI is becoming the home of the passport bro. It was the same in the 80s, the PI was no different then than it is now. Anyone in the mi.itary could have told you that. But the web was not around.
Only difference is western women have become completely undatable, let alone talking about marriage.
If you date or marry a filipino woman, understand they come with their own set of unique headaches. Yes, they are not as bad as the spoiled, western female brats by a long shot. But still, they are a challenge. All women in the known universe are....only a matter of degree. Marriage is not about fun, sex, romance, etc. Marriage is a bond that takes both thru the ups and downs of life. If all you want is play.....don't get married. Plus if you marry a Filipina, you marry their entire family. That is true even in the US where tons of them live (e.g. in California). Know what you are getting into bros.
Agreed bro 🤝
Yeah, it certainly is. I think it’s gaining ground over Thailand because Thailand it’s just p4p. Guys are striking out and then hopping over here.
@@Yamie1101 they will marry your wallet
Lol.
lol
Smart move. Better to keep your finances secure.
True 👍🏻
Good for you, bud! I'm a big believer in not searching desperately for love, but letting love happen, if it's gonna happen. Y'know, not forcing it, as it were. (But to those who are searching in earnest, hey, if that's your thing, do it.) Especially if, as in your case, you've had your fill of relationships for awhile. Take some time, enjoy yourself, travel, work on your projects, etc.I would, however, offer some hard-won advice and say, if all your past relationships ended up being "princess" situations (or other repeating patterns), you might take a look at your past choices and see if maybe that's what attracted you to the situation. Or whatever, I'm not a psychologist, I just play one on YT. lol! Just saying that the first few times might just be a coincidence, but beyond that, it's a pattern. There are cool, chill chicks out there (rare, to be sure) who'll be laid back enough to just go with the flow and do whatever you want to do without making a scene, pouting, etc. You'll just have to "interview" a lot of them to find them. 😄
True jack!
I think a lot of people take it personal when they watch your videos man, one thing you have to understand is that he's telling you what HE is doing lol he's not telling you that a relationship is wrong lol do what you think is best for you! Btw I know that guy in the red shirt @ 5:56 he always says it's his bday everyday I go into 7/11 lol
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Man you are doing great, staying single at least for now is definitely a smart move.
I am 2 years out of my last relationship in Australia and I am focused now on early retirement.
Ok
Agree Single by choice for 15 years Dont mind only seeing a woman once or twice a week and could meet with 2 or 3 different ones every year Soon I will live in 3 to 5 countries a year and that is much easier solo
Very nice sir!
You have the right idea. I'm 73 and have a gf in Manila and want to go see her but maybe not a good idea. I've been single all my life and don't want to get tied down and although I have plenty of money I'm sure she would need financial help as she is a 45 year old housekeeper who wants to finish her small house in her province when she retires in about 5 years. She was talking about marriage after about 3 months and now almost two years later she realizes that ain't going to happen. Just wish I was in my 30's or 40's with some money so I could go there and relax and just meet girls when I wanted and not jump into some nightmare situations that I'm sure are happening there everyday.
Nice
its better to be single than be in a wrong relationship, filipinos have different mind set, just be carefull diving in a relationship
Yes true
Well said! 👏👏👏
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Agree wholeheartedly!
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I tell all the women who give the third degree when I promote being unattached. I say being alone doesn't mean I'm lonely. Steam comes out their ears like a cartoon. 😂
Yeah, I say that same thing I’m like I’m not crying myself to sleep. I have girls that want to go on dates with me. I have friends I’m doing TH-cam. I’m not really desperate like to lock in & handcuff
@@JasperinthePhilippines stay Frosty 🥶👍
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100% on point, thank you. I am cooming next year.
Nice bro
Great video! I think this applies to men everywhere
Yes
right on take the time to let it happen naturally.
Exactly David
I love the honest view point.
Thank you Alfred 🤝
hello jasper nice channel , just joined i live up in baguio city and yea i like the single lifestyle myself
Very nice Jack
Very well spoken brother..lots men go there an other Asian countries to meet tgat special woman..when in reality you'll end up meeting thousands by just bein yourself...but im with you about haven to baby sit a woman emotions..nothing like having your freedom..an when you get the urge to date then date..it doesn't have to be long term..im certainly not a needy person for anything ..quite content in my own skin an allways have been...keep on doin you man..much respect to a man that knows where he stands in life....
Exactly exactly right sometimes men have that scarcity mindset and they weren’t doing well in the United States like myself but yeah when you start babysitting someone and they’re in your house and showing you other sides of them and stuff you will regret it
Amen Brother!😊
Yes sir
Enjoy life and do what makes you happy. You don’t have to search for love or a partner ,if it happens it will naturally at the right time.
Yup
I completely understand and agree with you I plan on moving to the Philippines in the future I am not going to the Philippines for relationships I'm a bachelor for life you are probably the first to call like it is
Thank you Nick. It’s a very unpopular choice. Most men come here for companionship, and there is no we’re better, but I didn’t come here for companionship and I’m gonna take my time.
Agree with ur opinion fully 👍
Salamat 🤝
Agreed 🤝
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Yah true its really your choice no hurry
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What’s that phrase you keep saying? “Sana ol” ?
It’s Sana oi
@@JasperinthePhilippines it’s actually “sana all” as in the English word ‘All’. Just verified it with a Filipina who said “It's like used to express hope that everyone, including the speaker, will experience the same as whatever is being talked about, usually in a joking manner, but sometimes in an envious manner”
Yeah, I know the definition, my friend that was for you to google, of course or ask your Filipina friend 👍🏻🇵🇭
@@JasperinthePhilippines Jasper! I’m coming to Manila very soon and I am BEYOND excited! Would love to connect with you in person and get advice from you about how to start a YT channel..
Another great walking video Jasper. Glad you know what works for you and sticking with it. I see and hear where so many guys come there and jump in and out of relationships. At least you know your lane and staying in it and it is working out great for you so far. You are still younger and have time and have time for relationship when its right for you. For now you are building your TH-cam channel up and have a great community going. Keep up the hard work and stay safe
Thanks a lot golf. Yeah I feel like I came out here 20 years early so if it takes me a year or 2 or if I just you know find girls that are not necessarily dating to Marry that wanna spend time with me. That’s totally cool. Just going to continue working hard on TH-cam and exploring the Philippines and what will be will be my friend. 🤝
Yes Yes Yes Mgtow life and travel around paradise Islands of The Philippines 😊. This has been my mindset after my crazy relationship experience in 2014. There is more to The Philippines than getting trapped in a controlling Filipina relationship.
Yes my friend
Completely understandable. Sort of feel that way myself. Of course, that is apt to change in the future.
Me2 🤝
There is absolutely NO hurry, and you will have hits and misses, false starts ect. You will know when its time to move the love level up.
Yeah, I mean it’s basically the same in any country. I mean this could totally apply to the United States or any country. I just think for right now considering the circumstances and everything I said in the video I’ll just take my time and get another lay of the land for a while longer.
Bro stay single is good man.. ultimate freedom.. I can't stay eating chocolate ice cream all the time.. sometimes I want strawberry or vanilla or rocky road.. what I mean by that is that I get bored with only one girl man..
Yeah I can barely stay in one location for three weeks so staying with one girl for the next you know 30,000 days seems a little tough. Lol
Excellent
Salamat
Dude totally agree with the facts of relationship with foreigners . IT'S NOT RIGHT TO USE PARTNER AS SPONSORS OR DAD'S ROLE IN A RELATIONSHIP . That fact they treat a person as a ATM machine and not validation for the feeling. It's like one man working on the relationship she's receiving the Princess life ,its totally Unfair
So true
Why do foreigners get handcuffed at the airport, is it common, what are they doing to be arrested?
Handcuffed by a woman
I guess we all want to be single.. I am 45 and I decided to do things solo.. Its freedom man!!!
Yessssss
Great video!
Thank you
You mentioned that you have “other ways” of earning money there, could you mention some
Of them? (Except youtube)
You could try Airbnb you could try teaching English crypto sticks affiliate marketing coding. Anything you can do it from your computer or phone right where you’re sitting right now
Good plan 👍🏻
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You’re making a very good point.
I landed a hot mama right away but she had been married to a foreigner before and had two adult children living with her plus the girlfriend of the son and a baby.
I was expected to build a house on the property she already had And fall in to her life and her lifestyle.
I came within 30 days of getting married, but the extravagant wedding that she wanted to show off to the whole island became a major point of contention as well as it was becoming clear that she was going to completely run the show and I was just going to be a house husband.
Like you said there’s two categories of men that come there some have games some don’t.
I fit into the one that has game and it’s easy for me to get dates in the states but at 66 years old it’s hard for me to date a 40 year old in the United States, since I’m not filthy rich.
Since I am returning in September, although I have met a girl online, I’m going to pursue when I arrive I’m definitely not getting married right away, essentially, jumping into a marriage with a woman you don’t really know.
Maybe I do want to take some time and explore the Philippines, while being single.
There is 0.0 upside to getting married.
Get something to keep the video stable. A gimbal or something. Your video shake left to right when you walking 😊
Yeah, I have a gimble. Honestly I wasn’t gonna make this video and I just decided to out of nowhere but yeah, I gotta work on that. Thanks.
I agree jasper,
Thanks
I spent a lot of time studying the filipina, you have a great take on them with one major exception, the filipina is not looking for a man who is in buff shape, they are seen as players, they prefer a man with a belly over the abs. Look into if and you will see I am right about this. Please stop telling men they need to be in shape to go there, you are discouraging men who already have low self esteem from western women.
Im In between currently so Good.
You just waiting for Dany lyn bro . Lol stay safe always👍👊
Sana all
So true. I Will get her 100%
Freedom! Yeah!
Yes sir
Take it from me - Im 63 never married, had relationships, some long ones, am very independent and still single. And if I return there I will be single. You speak my ;language unless a piano falls on my head lol
Nice Mark! 🤝
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@@JasperinthePhilippines Thanks Jasper. One other thing I forgot to mention - I never had kids coz I always had sex responsibly. If Im not gonna stay then Im careful. In a way Im lucky too coz Im in good shape plus have a full head of hair and blue eyes lol. But joking apart if you want to stay single then be careful. If you want a family thats fine too but respect is always key in life. I like your train of thought coz you always stress this too that respect is number 1
I completely agree. My dad used to say...do your thing and one day you'll look over and see a beautiful woman doing the same thing, and if its right youll KNOW! If you have to ask... nope. Next.
Its just like that. To our health, wealth and freedom! 🥂🙏🏼😎
Salamat
I've never been to the Philippines... I lived in South America for 6 years...
Curious how you would compare the Filipinas to Colombian women looks wise?
Both beautiful very different
@@JasperinthePhilippines thin and petite I imagine in the Philippines.. more voluptuous in Colombia probably
YES SINGEL PROBELY BEST💯 IF YOU DO A TIM K IT CAN GET EXSPENSIVE FAST IF THE WIFE STAY OR LEAVE YOU💯
Yes I can’t afford. 🤣
New sub here from Reno Nevada,, I mostly agree to you man ,, just enjoy and be careful always,
Nice thank you so much I was living in Vegas a month ago I appreciate you subscribing
I totally agree with you.Travelling around the world to a different culture just for a woman is madness! Go for the country and enjoy it.
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Been in SouthEast Asian countries 4 almost 10 years. Never had a girlfriend,wife or children LOL U R far from alone in the world. Hit it, quit it rinse & repeat. Peace Out brotha.
Nice brother. 👍🏻
It’s not what everyone else is doing, but if we can do it why not worry about yourself enjoy peoples company you don’t need to get handcuffed. 🤣
Its a choice. FIlipino man and woman prefer single its their choice. I have cousins but i dont have cousins (dad side family) in US. That why i want to stay in PH
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